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By Sabrina Perkins · Published August 16, 2015

Photo Courtesy of Maia Noelle

5 different messy buns

Buns are fun, easy, sexy, sophisticated, stylish, casual, versatile, and a great second-day hairstyle. There is the side bun, the low bun, the curly bun, the messy bun, and even double buns. Make your bun your own and you can add accessories to create a whole new look. A flower headband or a beautiful print scarf around the base of your bun is perfect for when you are on the run. Maia Noelle is a spunky teen with gorgeous curls and fun styles for second-day hair. She is channeling the messy bun without the need to rewet her hair.

3 easy head scarf tutorial

Headscarves are beautiful, stylish, and can dress up or dress down any outfit you can create. They are perfect for second, third, or even fourth-day hair, because they can cover your entire head. Some headscarf styles can be intimidating. There can be more than one with interweaving and special braiding. For simplicity, Allurein Natural has three styles you will love. All three are great for bad hair days too and she shows you exactly how to create each style no matter your level of expertise with headscarves.

My sleek high puff

This is another perfect style for second-day hair especially if coming out of a twist out, wash and go, or a failed hairstyle. This is my go-to when I am putting off washday, because it always gets compliments whether my curls are defined or frizzy. It is just a great style. TheChicNatural shares the perfect video on creating a curly puff on second-day hair. This video is definitely for my curlies that love those slick edges. I got you! A scarf, puff cuff, knee high, or even a ribbon can be used to create a high puff.

Trendy roll, tuck, & pin 

Most naturals already know about this. This was the original second-day hairstyle for most women. If you could roll, tuck and pin a bobby pin in your hair then you had this style down pat. It is simple and pretty. I often forget about it as a viable hairstyle. Shame on me and shame on you if you do not give this easy style a try. Our very own Jenell shows just how simple this style can be. Now, you do need a length longer than a TWA but a slight variation of that would be to just roll, tuck, and pin your longest hairs if you have a tapered cut and leave the rest out or under a scarf. When it comes to making your hair routine easier, you just need to be creative and find your own unique styles.

Two strand flat twist protective style

You cannot have a second-day hairstyle post without mentioning braids or flat twists. This is a great style right before wash day, but it is also great for a second-day hairstyle if your first day hairstyle has come and left! Do not feel intimidated if you cannot braid, so if you can twist then you can create amazing second-day hairstyles as lovely and as lasting as a braided style. Nik Scott shows how you can turn an old wash and go, twist out, or blow-out into a protective style that will last and give you more than second-day hair. You can go for the side part or down the middle so the same style can have a totally different look. Add some accessories like a flower headband or a bling one for your forehead and you have transformed yourself into a bohemian goddess.

Reviving

Now, some may not see this as a true second-day hairstyle, but if you are working with a wash and go, a twist out, or some other style that still has life it in on the second day then just revive it by adding a spritz of water or a refresher. Perfection is not the name of the game, especially if you are not going somewhere special, but wanting to feel presentable is understandable.

Read more: Top 15 Hair Refreshers

By Sabrina Perkins · Published August 10, 2015

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Question

I want to wear my mini afro but I’m scared it’ll be ugly what are some tips on starting back natural?

Answer

Girl, own your beauty and rock that TWA! Ok, I know my answer is super simplified and does not acknowledge the apprehension many feel first time going natural. I get it. I was there and what got me through it was an amazing support system, creativity, and determination to stay natural. That was ten years ago so there are more ways to get through going natural like actual hair products and videos for all our hair types, and natural hair inspiration everywhere. Sometimes we need a little help when going natural because if you want to do it but do not know where to start, then a helping hand or in this case, video will make all the difference in the world. Sometimes, there is no better proof than seeing it with your own eyes and showing you where to start!

I’ve found five videos with 11 styles that will give all newly naturals with varying lengths of TWA solid styles that look great and allow your transition into natural hair less stressful. Your hair is never ugly. It is always glorious so let’s show you just how hot you and your hair can be!

Defined Twist Out on Short (TWA”> 4c Natural Hair

EyesOnMyPrize shares how she creates a sexy and simple twist-out on an ultra-short TWA. You get a start to finish tutorial that ends up with a super cute twist-out that can be achieved on all hair types with either the same products or others great for twists. I love how you can accessories this look with a headband or hat. Great for a night out look too.

7 TWA Hairstyles

I love this video and for good reason. RyMingTahn shows us how you can rock your TWA in the most fashionable and cute ways without a ton of money or time. From different styled hats to cute headbands to a bandana, she created bad hair day alternatives that require a little creativity and accessories. Perfect for ultra-short TWA or longer as every style is quite versatile and used by all naturals with varying hair lengths.

A Curly ‘Fro tutorial

If you can twist and roll, then you got this style covered. Sadora Paris is a marvel with her personality and hairstyles and her curly fro tutorial is quick, easy, and perfect for getting defined curls that will only get bigger and better as they get older. What I love about this style is you can pick out the curls a little, a lot or just allow them to find their own way out of their rolled style. This is definitely a style for a newly natural who is not sure how to rock her TWA. The cold wave rods are in several sizes from the itty bitty to super big so no worries on finding one to roll your TWA on.

How to Style Short Hair (TWA & Pixies”>

If you are ready to think outside the box, then Shameless Maya is the rock star for you! She is spunky, funky, and stylish, so open your mind to some very sexy and special takes on a short TWA.  Unusual headbands and cute earrings are always a winner and she even rocks a tiara! Yes, I said she was spunky. She knows that accessories are not just on your ears and head. She makes you realize you have got shoulders, a jawline makeup and personality so work it. You will love her looks to death!

How I style my TWA (Side Part”>

A side part never looked so good! ImShineStruck shows how a simple side part is actually a style for your TWA. With water, a curly butter, control paste and some hair clips she turned her old wash and go into a stunning side part that can be achieved on the super curly or coily hair. You would be surprised what a part can do!

So, I hope you see just how beautiful your hair can be with a TWA of any hair type and length.

By Sabrina Perkins · Published July 31, 2015

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There are ways to have both but one cannot exist without the other or if it does it will not be for long. If you want long curls and a soothing, healthy scalp then we have complied a list of our favorite four amazing ingredients that not only stimulate your scalp for optimal hair growth but also reduce inflammations, infections, and irritations.

Borage oil

One of the most embarrassing yet milder scalp annoyances is dandruff. Nobody wants it and usually at one time or another you will experience it. This flaking of the scalp is not contagious but it can cause scalp irritation. A wonderful ingredient to use in the fight against the flakes is borage oil with its Omega 6 fatty acid that will treat inflammation and alleviate your dandruff while also revitalizing your hair. It also calms an itchy scalp. Here are some popular products that utilize the prized oil for cosmetics, dietary, healthy, and medicinal benefits.

• Avalon Organics Moisturizing Shampoo Olive and Grape Seed
• John Masters Organics Citrus and Neroli Detangler

Buriti fruit oil

You may not be visiting the rainforest anytime soon, but you can still obtain this scalp tingling oil fruit oil. Buriti fruit oil is chocked-full of essential fatty acids like oleic, palmitic, and linoleic. It has the perfect composition makeup that will revitalize damaged, dry, and chemical-fatigued strands while stimulating the capillaries in the scalp, which is the perfect formula for promoting hair growth. Here are some products that will bring your tresses back to life.

• Carol’s Daughter Black Vanilla Hair Smoothie 
• Buriti Shampoo Surya Nature 

Read more: 4 Acids that are Great for Your Hair

Ginger

If your edges are beginning to wane then you may want to check out your spice rack for a remedy. Ginger is highly regarded as a hair growing wonder in Ayurveda with its magnesium, phosphorous, and potassium ingredients. These minerals help stimulate blood flow to your scalp and that encouraged blood flow will prevent even more thinning while also increasing hair growth. It will soothe that irritated scalp as it has natural antiseptic properties so just thank me now for hipping you to this 2-for-1 hair growing natural asset. Check out this amazing DIY that is easy to use.

• DIY Hair Growth Mix

Fennel seed oil

If you want to get rid of the gunk from your hair without harsh chemicals then fennels seeds needs to be on your list. They unclog, grime, excess sebum, and even dead cells with their antiseptic and anti-inflammatory properties. They are used in Ayurvedic medicine for body and skin detoxing and rich with fiber, folate, potassium, and several vitamins. They are superb for hair rinses or water infusions.

• Fennel seed water infusion & Fennel seed tea hair rinse  

By Sabrina Perkins · Published July 30, 2015

This fast growing perennial is widely distributed from south Florida, the Caribbean, Hawaii, Israel, Malaysia, Taiwan, and Vietnam, but it is believed to have originated in South America. The vibrant colored skin is a thin rind, but inside are hundreds of tiny black seeds inside a white, magenta, or pink flesh full of nutrients.

What makes dragon fruit so right for our bodies?

Well, it is full of goodness for your entire body and that starts with its richness in vitamin C, but it also has vitamins B1, B2, and B3. It has calcium, iron, and phosphorus, high in dietary fiber and phytoalbumins, which contain antioxidant properties. Dragon fruit is filled with those tiny black seeds and they are not only edible but also an asset to the fruit and to us. The seeds are extremely high in polyunsaturated fatty acids like Omega 3 and 6 and it contains carotene. This fruit is blood sugar regulating and an immune boosting asset to your diet.

Read more: 7 Vitamins Every Hair Health Nut Should Know

What makes dragon fruit so great for our hair?

Just about everything mentioned for benefiting your body will also benefit your hair. The fatty acids are excellent supporters for healthy hair with the Omega 3s keeping your hair lustrous and shiny while the Omega 6s stimulate hair growth. Those Omega 3s are also vital to our body’s production of collagen and collagen helps each strand of hair maintain its thickness. Unfortunately, as we age this delivery slows down, so this is very important for our aging hair to get this type of help.

How to use it

Dragon fruit is great for softening color-treated or chemically-treated tresses. Apply dragon fruit juice on your scalp and hair for 15-20 minutes before shampooing for scalp calming benefits from the antioxidants. This in turn increases blood circulation and good blood circulation allows oxygen to get to the hair follicles for proper growth. Dragon fruit also has niacin, which dilates the blood vessels and allows for better circulation of blood to nourish the scalp and hair follicles.

Dragon fruit can benefit your hair whether you consume it or use it in hair products. Here are some popular hair products that contain this tropical fruit.

• Tigi Catwalk Sleek Mystique Calming Conditioner
• SheaMoisture Fruit Fusion Coconut Water Weightless Crème Rinse
• SheaMoisture Fruit Fusion Coconut Water Weightless Texture Spray
• SheaMoisture Fruit Fusion Hair Mousse
• Good Bubble Dragon Fruit Shampoo
• Good Bubble Dragon Fruit Extract Smoothy Conditioner

Here is a tasty and healthy dragon fruit smoothie pumped with protein, iron, and vitamin C that will benefit your skin, hair and body.

Dragon Fruit-Blueberry Green Smoothie

via Incredible Smoothies

• 1/2 cup dragon fruit, peeled
• 1 gram of chia seeds, soaked for 5 min.
• 1/2 cup frozen blueberries
• 2 cups fresh baby spinach
• 4 ounces unsweetened almond milk

Calories: 131 | Fat: 2g (grams”> | Protein: 5g | Carbs: 21g | Calcium: 6% | Iron: 3.6mg | Vitamin A: 40% | Vitamin C: 36%

By Sabrina Perkins · Published July 27, 2015

PHOTO COURTESY OF GETTY IMAGES

Lychee or Litchi chinensisand originates from China and can be found in most Southeast Asian countries. As a member of the Soapberry family, Sapindaceae, the Lychee tress is a dense, round-topped, slow-growing evergreen. It is native to low elevations in southern China and flourishes along rivers and near the seacoast. It has been praised and pictured in Chinese literature from the earliest known record in 1059 A.D.

The outer covering of the fruit is a bumpy, rough, pink colored rind that is easy to peel. Inside is the creamy, white fleshy juiciness of the fruit that has a sweet and tangy flavor. The center contains a single glossy brown inedible seed inside the pulp. Lychee is a succulent fruit with a slightly acidic fragrance and flavor that is comparable to grapes, but fragrance, sweetness, and beauty pale in comparison to the health benefits this amazing fruit has to offer.

Health benefits of the lychee fruit

Lychee fruit is jam-packed with minerals, nutrients, and vitamins. There are vitamins B6 and C, folate, copper, niacin, potassium phosphorous, riboflavin, manganese, and magnesium.

Folate plays an important role in the formation of red blood cells to help carry the oxygen to the hair follicles and if you intake alcohol regularly you will need that extra folate according to Harvard School of Public Health. It is also best to get that extra folate from a healthy diet, so adding lychee fruit to your diet will be a smart addition.

Folate plays an important role in the formation of red blood cells to help carry the oxygen to the hair follicles and if you intake alcohol regularly you will need that extra folate

It is an excellent source of dietary fiber and protein, making it commonly used for weight loss, boosting the immune system, and lowering one’s blood pressure to only name a few. Lychee has more than 100% of the daily requirement of vitamin C so your immune system gets a massive boost in antioxidant compounds that will stimulate the white blood cells. Sounds great but what can all that do for your curls?

The benefits of lychee fruit on hair

Yes, it is a healthy fruit for the body but does any of that translate into healthier hair? Without a doubt, this fruit is a major asset for our hair. Let’s start with the over-abundance of vitamin C.  Vitamin C maintains the integrity of micro-circulation and that means it makes sure that your hair follicles get enough blood supply to stimulate hair growth, keeping the hair healthy and strong. It will improve hair growth and fight off dandruff. The niacin plays an important role in the production of blood flow and energy while the vitamin B6 forms red blood cells, which supply the necessary oxygen to your hair follicles. This allows the follicles to stay healthy and get the nutrients they need to grow. Niacin keeps your skin hydrated and that most certainly includes your scalp.

Lychee also contains oligonol, which is a polyphenol with low molecular weight that has lots of antioxidants. It improves blood circulation and protects skin and scalp from ultraviolet rays.

6 products with lychee

If you are sold on this remarkable fruit and its incredible properties than you will love to know quite a few products have them in their ingredients so you harness the benefits easily.

• SheaMoisture Fruit Fusion Coconut Water Weightless Hair Masque
• SheaMoisture Fruit Fusion Coconut Water Weightless Crème Rinse
• NAMA Daily Nourishing Conditioner
• Tigi Catwalk Sleek Mystique Calming Conditioner
• Giovanni 2Chic Avocado and Olive Oil Conditioner
• Genceutic Naturals Lychee Super Fruit Complex 

By Sabrina Perkins · Updated May 28, 2024

Photo Courtesy of Vic Styles

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Conclusion

Faux locs are no more damaging than any other hairstyle that adds hair to your own hair with too much tension on the scalp. You cannot neglect your own hair and assume that no further maintenance is necessary. Your own hair must still be cleansed, moisturized, and conditioned.

You must also understand that there is more hair on your head than a normal application of added hair and length is a factor when getting them installed. The longer the locs the more tension will be applied to your scalp. If you already have damaged hair then adding that extra hair may not be a good idea and that goes double for thinning edges as that extra tension will only make your edges worse. This style is not a good idea if your hair is already damaged.

Aside from those precautions, this is an amazing and gorgeous style that is no more damaging than any other style if you practice proper hair care. Know what you are getting into and crave versatility. Enjoy your faux locs!

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By Sabrina Perkins · Published July 22, 2015

Traditionally used by the natives to cleanse their clothing, bodies, and hair, the nuts are grown and harvested organically, pitted, and dried in the sun and the treasure of this nut is in the shell that contains saponins. Saponin is a natural substance or surfactant that produces a soaping effect and is an all-natural glycoside with a distinctive foaming characteristic. Soap nuts are 100% hypoallergenic, as they are fruit and not actual nuts.

Why do people use soap nuts?

Well, for one they are an excellent alternative for persons allergic to chemicals in detergent soaps and they are also used in Ayurvedic treatments for eczema, psoriasis, and some fungal conditions. They are affordable, all natural, and can be used to clean just about anything. Yes, that also includes hair. If you are all about all-natural products then soapnuts will clean your house, body, and hair for much less than any brand on the market.

Benefits of soapnuts for hair

To be completely accurate, they are great for your hair and body, so consider trying them as body washes too! They contain vitamins A, D, E, and K so they add shine and smoothness. With its natural anti-bacterial properties they are great for skin and scalp infections like dandruff, eczema, and psoriasis. They are also anti-fungal, so they can be used for ringworm on the body or scalp and soap nuts have natural conditioning properties, which are perfect for persons with sensitive skin and nut allergies.

They are also great for curlies who have neglected shampoo to consistently co-wash. While they clean effectively, they are not drying like shampoo and you will be left with softness and manageable tresses instead of tangles. They have natural moisturizing and conditioning properties that are great for your dry skin and scalp.

How To Wash Your Hair Without Shampoo Using Soapnuts

Vita from VitaLivesFree shares her quick and simple video on how she cleanses her hair with soapnuts! She shows you how to make the shampoo from start to finish and then she shares how she uses it as her shampoo.

Soapnut Shampoo via Wellness Mama

• 5 soap nuts (I got mine here”>
• 3 cups of water
• 5 drops lavender essential oil (optional”>
• 1 small muslin bag

What to Do

Place soap nuts in a small muslin bag and place the bag in a medium saucepan with 2 cups of the water and bring to a boil. Reduce heat and simmer for 20 min. After the 20 min. simmer, add 1 cup of water and allow to simmer for 10 more min. Remove from heat and let cool completely. Squeeze out the bag until it suds and then rinse with cool water and squeeze into the pan again. Store in a glass jar in the fridge until use. Massage a small amount in to hair and let sit for 5 min. Rinse well. Can also be used as a soothing wash for skin, especially in those with eczema and psoriasis.

Soapnut dandruff treatment

• 1 Tbsp. soap nut liquid
• 1 Tbsp. coconut oil

Massage mixture into scalp for a few minutes and allow it to sit for from 15 to 20 min.  Shampoo with pre-made soap nut shampoo and style hair as usual.

By Sabrina Perkins · Published July 22, 2015

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Patchouli essential oil is one of the few oils that does not oxidize and diminish in therapeutic and aromatic quality over time, but rather improves with age just like a fine wine. Often associated with hippies from the 1960s, it is either a much loved or much hated fragrance that is earthy and quite strong.

Health benefits of patchouli oil

Patchouli oil has extensive has many medicinal properties that are beneficial to the human body and mind. It is an antidepressant, antiphlogistic, antiseptic, aphrodisiac, astringent, deodorant, diuretic, fungicide, insecticide, sedative, and tonic substance just to name a few. Used in aromatherapy to uplift mood and drive away disappointment, it also relaxes tension in the vast majority of people. It is helpful for most skin types from dry skin to oily/acne prone and it is also a natural insecticide and adding a few drops to lotion or spray is great as a natural insect repellant.

Patchouli oil for your hair and scalp

Patchouli oil is a triple threat against scalp ailments because it is an antiseptic, astringent, and fungicide. All three properties are amazing for mild to severe scalp conditions like dandruff, psoriasis, and eczema. Patchouli not only relives wounds (including in the scalp”> rather quickly, but it also prevents wounds from further infections. It soothes inflammations and protects wounds as an antiseptic and is quite effective at inhibiting fungal growth like ringworm or tinea. For the DIYers, a few drops of patchouli essential oil are great for scalp ailments like eczema and psoriasis. Here are a few simple recipes:

Patchouli oil scalp scrub

• 2 drops of pure patchouli oil
• 1 Tsp. baking soda
• 1 application of sulfate-free shampoo 

Mix the shampoo, patchouli oil, and baking soda in a small bowl and blend well. Apply to hair and scalp and massage gently in circular motion. You can continue to wash hair with the mixture before rinsing well and styling as usual. This is a great recipe for exfoliating and soothing the scalp.

For oily hair

I know it may seem hard to believe but there are some curlies who have oily scalps due to an overproduction of sebum. Adding 2-3 drops of patchouli oil to a nickel-sized amount of unscented shampoo and cleansing your hair will help to alleviate the extra oil on your strands and scalp.

For dandruff

Much like tea tree oil, patchouli is very effective for simple dandruff. Mix patchouli oil with a carrier oil and gently massage the scalp. Unlike tea tree oil, the smell is more pleasant and need not to be washed off immediately after use.

By Sabrina Perkins · Published July 20, 2015

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What makes comfrey so special?

Well, its components of course! It has active constituents like allantoin, which is a cell proliferant, rosmarinic acid, tannin, mucilage, vitamin B-12, protein, and zinc. According to the University of Maryland Medical Center, the tannins, rosmarinic acid and allatoiin are all substances to help skin regrow.

Because of this, oral comfrey products have been banned in the U.S. and many European countries, but it can still be found in creams and ointments for applications to the skin. Despite being safe for skin, those toxic substances can be absorbed by the skin so even with the creams and ointments they should be used for a short period of time.

A helpful reminder is to only use it externally, never on broken or abraded skin, and within a short time period.

Comfrey benefits for hair

Comfrey root is great for hair because it has healing properties and is chock-full with minerals, vitamin A, B-12, and antioxidants. It is superb at preventing dryness because the presence of attantoin not only stimulates skin cell proliferation, but it is also an excellent exfoliant that will soften skin cells. It is the backbone of the soothing and anti-inflammatory component of comfrey and actually makes hair softer.

Comfrey is helpful for hair growth because it has gamma linoleic acid, a omega-6 fatty acid, that helps stimulate skin and hair growth, which is why many cosmetic companies use comfrey. Comfrey also has more mucilage than marshmallow so it will soften, detangle, and add shine to strands as mucilage is the slip master and always a benefit for hair.

Comfrey also has more mucilage than marshmallow so it will soften, detangle, and add shine to strands as mucilage is the slip master and always a benefit for hair.

Comfrey has great polyphenols like caffeic acid, chlorogenic acid, and rosmarinic acid. Caffeic acid is one of the most effective antioxidants and has anti-inflammatory properties that will help with scalp irritations. Chlorogenic acid is anti-fungal, anti-viral, and anti-bacterial, which is highly beneficial for scalp ailments like dandruff and eczema. Rosmarinic acid is anti-inflammatory that can relieve an irritated scalp, so these three polyphenols alone will soothe an ailing scalp quite effectively.

Major benefits to hair

• Softens hair
• Adds slip to tangles
• Adds shine to hair
• Soothes an irritated scalp

Comfrey can be a skin or hair wash or salve for an irritated (but not broken”> scalp. Here are a couple of DIY hair rinses that utilize the benefits of comfrey’s components to relieve the scalp while adding shine and softness.

Comfrey Hair Rinse

• 1 Tsp. of dried comfrey
• 1 Tbsp. apple cider vinegar or lemon juice
• 1 cup of boiling water

Place herbs in a heat-resistant bowl. Pour boiling cup of water over herbs before adding ACV or lemon juice. Mix and allow to steep, covered for 10-15 min. Strain and allow to cool before pouring over freshly washed hair.

Comfrey Scalp Soothing Rinse

• 3 (or more”> tbsp. dried comfrey 
• 3 cups of boiling water

Place herbs in a heat-resistant bowl. Pour boiling water over them and allow them to steep for eight hours or overnight. Strain and either use cold or gently warm to desired temperatures before slowly pouring rinse over your head. Massage into your scalp and hair but keep a large bowl under your head to capture liquid and reapply. Repeat several times and either rinse out or keep in and style as usual.

By Sabrina Perkins · Updated May 28, 2024

PHOTO COURTESY OF MINI MARLEY

Jonesing for heat? Yea, it can happen to the best of us. Somehow a cute and different hairstyle (like straight hair”> can turn into an overused crutch and it wouldn’t be so bad if it…wasn’t so bad! Heat styling should be used moderately and if you are way past that point, then you may be a heat junkie.

If your curls are limp, lifeless, and just not forming the way you would like them to no matter what product or technique you use, there’s a good chance your hair is damaged. We get countless questions on Curly Q&A from women who have damaged their curls to the point of no return, asking how they can get their hair to curl again. The first step ladies is to put down the flat iron, step away, and submit yourself to a Heat Junkie Detox. Here’s why:

The dangers of heat

Blow dryers, curling irons, and flat irons all inflict extreme thermal strain on our tresses. Constant heat styling can rob your hair of its moisture, create bubble hair, and damage your hair’s protein structure. Heat damage is real and cannot be fixed or reversed. Once it’s damaged, all you can really do is cut it off and learn from the experience.

Frequent usage or high temperatures during heat styling can lead to damaged cuticles, causing it to lift from the hair shaft and create frizz. It’s almost a domino effect, so stepping away from heat even for a short time like a no-heat challenge is a good idea.

Here’s what you will need to make your Heat Detox a success:

Step 1: Learn non-heat required styles

There are too many YouTube videos and blogs with tutorials for any natural to complain about not knowing what to do with her coils. Natural hair is in full swing and it seems like every day someone comes up with a new way to do a style that could be perfect for you. Twists, twist outs, braids, braid outs, wash and go, and even banding for a heatless blow out are all great styles to explore.

If you miss your straight hair…

If straighter hair is your preference, then learn alternate ways to achieve that sleeker look. Natural hair can do just about anything so check out big roller sets, Curlformers, African threading, or banding. These are are all ways to achieve straighter hair without heat and many can get your hair pretty darned straight. No it won’t be fried or slicked to your head, but the efforts and maintenance to achieve that look pose high risks anyways!

Step 2: Out of sight, out of mind

Get them out of your house! That’s what I had to do when I stopped using heat. Yea, it was that serious. I gave my curling iron and flat iron to my sister and pretty much forced myself to find other ways to style my hair. Knowing you would have to go out of your house to get your tools would stop me from relying on heat and I’m guessing it would be the same for you.

Step 3: Redefine beauty, embrace shrinkage

It may seem hard at first to fully embrace your shrinkage, but seeing shrinkage as the enemy will have you concentrating too heavily on your hair’s inabilities instead of enjoying and loving it.  Honestly, shrinkage is a blessing. It’s our hair’s response to moisture and it’s great in the styling department too. Big hair is in! Haven’t you heard?

Is straight hair the only polished look? Of course not, but maybe you haven’t made the transformation from loving the relaxed looks to loving the natural looks. Natural or curly styles are way less conforming and free so if you step outside the straight-hair box you may realize that your own texture’s finesse is complementary and downright gorgeous. It’s about evolving and accepting your texture so if you take a break from heat, then check out all the beautiful, artistic styles.

This post was originally published in May 2014 and has been updated for grammar and clarity.

By Sabrina Perkins · Published July 16, 2015

Photo Courtesy of Jessica Pettway

Question

My hair is a 4c type what is the best way to make it really straight or to get loose curls?

Answer

Often some women feel 4c hair is difficult or limited on style choices, but that cannot be further from the truth! Both straight hair and loose waves can be accomplished easily and safely if you have the right techniques. Type 4c hair is delicate like all textured hair. It craves moisture and needs specific attention to protect the strands, and with the correct knowledge it can achieve any style you desire. These tutorials demonstrate how easy it can be to achieve straight hair and loose waves with 4c hair.

Straightening my natural hair

TheChicNatural shares a video on how she goes from kinky to straight with little to no effort and minimal heat. She skips the blow-dryer by stretching her hair the night before and allowing it to dry before flat ironing the following morning. You see the entire process and she shares what temperature she uses on the iron, so you know exactly how she does it. Passing the flat iron only once on each section to keep the heat application light and non-damaging, she ends up with super, straight hair that is ready for anything.

Straightened 4c hair without heat

There is always more than one way to create a style and Jessica Pettway opted for the blow-dryer to help straighten her tresses before flat ironing. She also gets sleek tresses with her passing the flat iron only once on each section and she credits the iron for doing such an amazing job. Jessica also discusses the temperatures she uses on her hair and showcases how her hair has movement and shine.

Loose waves on 4C hair

If loose waves are desired, then this is a great video on just how to do it. JanetMonfrèt starts off with blow-dried hair and sections it off before moisturizing and applying flexi rods. Her medium-sized sections are the perfect size for this look that takes little time to prepare. She gives step-by-step instructions (down to the direction to wind the hair around the flexi rod”> so you end up with little to no frizz. She ends up with sexy, big waves that have movement and shine. Perfect for any celebration.

Effortless beach waves on 4c hair

Now, we have Jessica Pettway back again to share her straightened tresses and creates beach waves. This carefree style uses nothing more than her fingers and some bobby pins. That’s right! She is creating this look with what our mothers and grandmothers called pin curls. It is perfect for a slightly curled, looser wave that is full, movable, and fun. This look is sexy and simple.

By Sabrina Perkins · Published July 16, 2015

A tropical plant, it grows best in warm climates and is available year-round with a peak season in the summer. It is cultivated for its green seed pods that grow rapidly and ready for harvest in about 60 days. Internally, the pods feature small, round, mucilaginous white colored seeds arranged in vertical rows. The tender, unripe seed pods have a unique texture and bittersweet flavor. It can be consumed raw or marinated but mostly used as a thickening agent in stews and soups like gumbo.

What makes okra so special?

Okra is a powerhouse vegetable with varying amounts of nutrients, dependent upon how it is consumed, but the more prominent ones and their amounts according to the USDA are below, based on one cup of okra:

• Fiber – 2.5 grams. 10% of RDA (recommended daily value”> 
• Vitamin C – 16.3 milligrams. 27% RDA
• Folate – 46 micrograms. 11% RDA
• Vitamin A – 283 international units. 6% RDA
• Vitamin K – 40 micrograms. 50% RDA
• Niacin (Vitamin B3″> – 0.9 mg. 4% RDA
• Thiamin (Vitamin B1″> – 0.1 mg. 9% RDA
• Vitamin B6 – 0.2 mg. 9% RDA
• Magnesium – 36 mg. 9% RDA
• Manganese – 0.3 mg. 15% RDA
• Beta carotene – 225 mcg
• Lutein, Zeaxanthin – 516 mcg

What are the health benefits of okra?

The list above is impressive and explains the interest many have in okra for health. It is rich in several nutrients, minerals, and vitamins that benefit our bodies. It is one of the vegetables with the highest amounts of vitamin A, flavonoid anti-oxidants like beta-carotene. It supports colon-health, reduces the risks for diabetes, helps with respiratory issues, and promotes healthy skin and hair. It also promotes eye health, protects against free radicals, and even helps with constipation.

the mucilage from okra is a natural asset better than any detangler on the shelves that will cost more.

What can okra do for my hair?

It can do more than one would think! Many use okra for detangling, increasing shine, and soothing the scalp. Add to those benefits the imparting of vitamins, minerals, and nutrients and you can see why adding okra to your repertoire is an excellent idea. Many vegetables produce mucilage, a thick gluey substance formed by large polysaccharides and okra is no exception.

When applied to skin, mucilage acts as an emollient and when applied to hair it provides massive slip for manageable and highly effective detangling. When reacted with water, mucilage reduces friction between the strands and moves through the hair fibers with ease. It can be used as a hair rinse to add shine to dull strands along with adding bounce and movement. When it comes to making hair smoother and more manageable, the mucilage from okra is a natural asset better than any detangler on the shelves that will cost more.

Some use it as a hair gel while others use it as a conditioner. Either way will yield the same results of softer, smoother, less tangled tresses.

Read more: DIY Okra Gel Detangling Pre-poo

By Sabrina Perkins · Updated May 28, 2024

Health benefits of fennel seeds

The seeds have therapeutic benefits and in Ayurvedic medicine they are used in body detox and skincare. The seeds contain huge amounts of phytochemical alpha-pinene, which act like an expectorant. According to Medical News Today, fennel seeds contain chemicals that act as plant estrogens but also have nutrients like amino acids, calcium, choline, essential fatty acids, iron, magnesium, manganese, phosphorus, potassium, selenium, and vitamins B, C, E, and K. We cannot forget its fiber content and how it aids in proper digesting and regularity. With its estrogenic effects, it is often used to increase the supply of breast milk in nursing mothers. The fiber, potassium, folate, and vitamins B-6 and C supports heart health.

Skin and hair benefits of fennel seed oil

The seeds and the oil have several benefits for both your skin and hair. It is great as an infusion to unclog grime, dirt, excess sebum, and dead cells in our pores. Fennel seeds have antiseptic and anti-inflammatory properties, so it is a great natural remedy for combatting acne.

Fennel seed water infusion

• 1 tbsp. fennel seeds
• 2 cups distilled water
• A few drops of fennel essential oil (optional”>
• Clean empty glass bottle with a cork

Heat water in a pot. Add seeds, cover, and allow them to steep for 20 min. Once cooled remove seeds, pour water into cleans glass bottle, and add a few drops of essential fennel oil. To use simply soak a clean cotton ball with fennel seed water and wipe your face to remove dirt, bacteria, and buildup. Those antiseptic and anti-inflammatory properties are great for treating scalp ailments like dandruff and itching. Being rich in antioxidants and vitamins like vitamin E makes this a great protector of hair cells from free radicals. For hair, fennel tea is optimal whether drinking or as a tea rinse because it will wash away chemical buildup and impurities while adding shine.

Fennel seed tea hair rinse

• 2 cups water
• 3 spoonful of fennel seed powder

Bring water to a boil and then add fennel seed powder. Leave undisturbed for 15 min. before stirring and then allowing to cool. Use as a final rinse after shampooing and conditioning hair and do not rinse out.

Using fennel seed water created with powder and oil will stave off dandruff, bacteria, and inflammation while reducing hair loss. Fennel seed oil blends well with geranium, lavender, rose and sandalwood oils, but just make sure you are not allergic to fennel seeds prior to trying them either in the oil, water, or powder.

By Sabrina Perkins · Published July 13, 2015

Question

How do I avoid fairy knots?

Answer

Here are a few proactive techniques you can use to lower the frequency with which you get them. Is it really that easy? Well, for some it can be if you are willing to forgo some styles (e.g. wash and go”> in exchange for styles that stretch the ends like two-strand twists. Another note to make is that when you do get them, you should handle them correctly. Rubbing some conditioner between your thumb and index finger on the fairy knot will help to release some if not all of the hairs in the knot. Removing them with your fingers is better than trying with a comb or brush, which could just remove the knot along with other perfectly healthy hairs in the process. The best way to deal with them is to prevent them. Here are five ways to reduce your fairy knots: 

Get regular trims

Healthy ends equals less knots. Dry, raggedy, jagged, and weathered ends are more susceptible to knotting. No one is saying do them more often or giving a timetable but when you trim your ends (or do dustings when necessary”> when the ends turn into knots the hair is weakened. Split ends and excessive tangles at the ends all are symptoms of a need for a trim or a light dusting. Your hair will thank you for it with less frizz, tangles, and detangling sessions.

Detangle your hair and especially your ends fully

Many of us are known for putting off wash day due to the long detangling sessions that can seem to go on for hours! Yes, doing a pre-poo helps but if your arms and spirit is growing weary, you may just skimp on giving each section its proper due for detangling.

That is a big no-no and here’s why. Removing those tangles keeps them from turning into knots and removing those shed hairs keeps them from getting tangled into your healthy strands. Divide your hair into manageable sections so you can detangled effectively and not become overwhelmed.

Protect your ends

This is just another way to say protective styling. I do not think that using extensions or solely wearing cornrows are the only way to protect your hair. Having your hair completely tied up and away from sight is not necessary for warding off fairy knots when just keeping them out of contact with clothing can be just as effective. Letting your hair come into contact with your coats, seat belts, etc. causes friction and can causing knotting.

Properly moisturize and seal

Hydrated hair is less likely to tangle…period. Keep your ends hydrated, soft, and smooth as jagged edges almost always find a way to wind around themselves or neighboring hairs. This includes wash day deep conditionings and sealing your ends with a butter or oil to keep them smooth, tangle-free, and moisturized.

Wearing more stretched styles

Stretched styles leads to less knotting up. Straighter ends have a harder time coiling up, but do not think you have to straighten your hair to get straighter ends. There are styles that can be achieved that do not require heat like roller sets, braid outs, and twist outs that control the coils and keep them manageable.

How do you avoid fairy knots?

By Sabrina Perkins · Published July 12, 2015

There is a right way and a wrong way to wear your hair at the beach, and when I show just how bad some of these wrong ways are, you will be grateful you read this.

Wash and go

They are lovely and carefree just like the summer and they seem like the ideal style to rock for the warmer months. You would be right in that thinking but wrong if you think it would be a great style for the beach. Yes, beach waves are nice to rock but if you notice most women who are sporting the beach waves are not actually at the beach.

• The good – They look great! They are the symbol of summer with a lighthearted spirit and feel. 
• The bad – Free hair while at the windy, sandy, salty beach will run havoc on your strands. If you want tangles then you will get them by the end of the trip.
• The ugly – Back and forth from the seawater to the beach with loose hair will become a tangled, sandy mess! If the sand does not drive you insane, the water will with your loose tresses. Hair needs to be in a bun, a braid, or a contained updo, so it cannot become a detangling nightmare when you get home and try to wash the beach out of your hair. 

Cheap weaves

Weaves are getting more expensive, but there will always be a more reasonable line to choose from. It is a great way to change up your look without breaking the bank, but you get what you pay for. Cheap weaves may be nice for rocking in ideal climates, but when it comes to the beach they will not make the cut.

• The good – They are fun to rock and the styles are endless so you can find one that will look amazing while you sunbathe and get wet in the ocean. You also will not be out of a ton of money and can use that extra cash for a sexy two-piece.
• The bad – A cheap weave often will not last up to non-ideal climates, so it will tangle easier than a more expensive weave. With all that wind and sand and water you will be looking at a matted mess.
• The ugly – Sheer horror of tangles the longer you stay out there enjoying the weather and water. Add sweating, humidity and your hair and the weave may part ways at the seams especially if it is glued in. Getting all that sand out may be just as much as a chore as ridding it of those tangles. 

Straight hair

Straight hair can be a sexy change for a curly girl and by all means enjoy the variety our hair has to offer.

• The good – This style will look amazing on you as you lie out at the beach.
• The bad – You had to straighten your hair. The wind, water, sand, and potential humidity will turn that straight hair into a frizzy mess before you are out there for 30 min. 
• The ugly – Since you will not be saturating your straightened hair with conditioner, it will soak up the saltwater and revert to a frizzy, dry mess. Add in the wind and sand and you have a horrible wash day within minutes. Truly one of the worst styles to rock to the beach for a curly girl.

Wigs

Wigs are fun but let’s just cut to the chase on this one shall we?

• The good – honestly…for the beach? I have no good things to say except give advice. Steer clear of the water and I hope you are just there for a photo shoot.
• The bad – You are at the beach. Your wig can come off at with the first crashing wave.
• The ugly – Your wig falls off at the first crashing wave and you cannot find it anywhere.  Luckily your wig cap is still intact, but honestly does that really matter at this point? 

Messy bun or updo

A messy bun or updo is great for summer especially for those dramatic evenings where you want to look flirty but fun. They are easy to create and perfect for an old twist out, braid out, or even a wash and go.

• The good – You will look hot rocking a sexy, messy updo as you have fun at the beach.
• The bad – It is still somewhat loose so you can still get tangles all at the top of your head.
• The ugly – You can end up with seriously matted tangles at the top of your head because a messy bun is not really secure and the hair is somewhat loose.  

The best styles for curly girls to rock at the beach are buns, braided hair, ponytails, and twists.  Wet the hair and slather with conditioner and even think about a swim cap too. There are tons of cute styles to rock at the beach so be cute, smart, and have fun without regrets!

By Sabrina Perkins · Published July 8, 2015

Photo Courtesy of Ambrosia Malbrough

Cleansers

Shampoo

This is the most popular cleanser of hair. They are cleansing formulations usually with water as the primary ingredient, surfactants, and following that can vary with thickeners, conditioners, and preservatives. Shampoos tend to be quite harsh on curly hair and the main reason many curlies steer clear of them. The sulfates in them are lathering agents that can dry out and cause frizz, so many have opted for sulfate-free shampoos for effective cleansing without stripping the hair of its natural oils and creating frizz.

Popular shampoos: SheaMoisture Jamaican Black Castor Oil Shampoo and Kinky-Curly Come Clean Moisturizing Shampoo.

Co-wash

Short for “conditioner-wash”, this means skipping shampoo altogether and cleansing the hair and scalp with a conditioner and preferably a cleansing conditioner. It is gentler on curly hair by not stripping the hair of the natural oils is needs to be moisturized and non-frizzy. You can use a botanical conditioner or a cleansing conditioner specifically made for cleansing the hair. Some feel this is not really cleansing the hair but a great substitute when shampooing too often is not desired or if hair is not full of buildup.

Clay

Clay washing is becoming increasingly popular among curlies and for good reason, as it removes toxins while leaving hair clean and shiny. It is natural (dependent upon where you purchase your clay”>, inexpensive, and a winner if shampoos are too harsh and cleansing conditioners are not hardworking enough for your hair. These clays, which are born of the earth, have been used for centuries for ridding the body of toxins.

Diluted castile soap

Castile soap is a vegetable soap that is traditionally made from olive oil, water, and lye. It is eco-friendly, biodegradable, and can be used for more than just cleaning your hair. Now, this is great at cutting grease and buildup, but if it must be diluted to combat that lye.

Conditioners

Rinse-out conditioner

Rinse out, daily, or regular conditioners are basic, lightweight conditioners used right after shampooing that only require 1- 5 min. of waiting time. These formulations do not pack the punch of deep conditioners. They are great for daily use and manageability of your textured strands. The ingredients are to be moderately absorbed.

Deep conditioner

These heavy-duty conditioners or masques are usually thicker and require a longer time on the hair for deep nourishment. They are often accompanied by heat to give a deeper treatment and can stay on the hair from 15- 30 min. although some curlies will allow them to stay on overnight. They penetrate the hair nourishing the hair’s cuticle and their effects on the hair last longer than a rinse-out conditioner. They should be used after every wash for a curly and no less than once a month.

Leave–in conditioner

Lighter than rinse-out conditioners, leave-in conditioners are watery and designed to be left in the hair so they are less likely to cause irritation to the scalp. They are designed to help keep hair manageable by keeping hair detangled and free from frizz and fly-aways. Some feel it is a necessary step in conditioning, but many curlies keep regular conditioners in their hair, especially if they are following the Curly Girl Method.

Moisturizers

Hair milk

Hair milk can be confusing, because it is not something that most truly understand. What is it? Well, hair milk is much like a leave-in conditioner that is light enough for daily use to revitalize your curls. They can be detanglers and used with styling products. Their primary goal is not for styling but to provide light conditioning and to revive dry, frizzy, or rumpled curls.

Popular hair milks: Camille Rose Naturals Curl Love Moisture Milk and SheaMoisture Coconut & Hibiscus Curl & Style Milk.

Hair butter

Amuch heavier moisturizer than hair milk, these creamy consistency moisturizers are great for everyday use and for those with tightly-coiled hair. The term butter usually refers to one of the more popular butters like coconut, shea, or almond as a major component of the product. They are usually in jars with little to no water and are designed to seal hair after it has been moisturized. Also not a styling aid, they can be used in conjunction with a styler.

Popular hair butters: OBIA Natural Hair Care Twist Whip Butter and Carol’s Daughter Healthy Hair Butter.

Stylers

Gel

One of the more popular styling aids of curlies, gel can have light, medium, or hard hold and fight frizz better than most styling aids for curlies. Gels are quite popular in the summer months to fight off humidity and heat without weighing the hair down. Finding the right gel for your hair takes time and patience and because of that some curlies feel gels are not the way to go.

Popular hair gels for curlies: Ouidad Climate Control Heat & Humidity Gel and DevaCurl Light Defining Gel.

Hair Serums

Hair serums (sometimes called elixirs”> are for combatting frizz and giving curly hair a smoother look and feel. Great for damaged and/or dry hair, hair serums help to smooth the hair follicle. They are often used in conjunction with conditioners and other stylers in a hair cocktail for optimal smoothness, shine, and softness.

Popular hair serums: SheaMoisture Raw Shea Butter Reconstructive Finishing Elixir and Oyin Handmade Shine and Define Styling Serum.

Pure oils

Many curlies are turning to the natural sources for styling their curls, especially for those much-loved DIY concoctions. From flaxseed oil to coconut oil, the ingredients are as creative as the curly. With an endless supply of YouTube videos sharing recipes and how-to steps, it is no wonder this option is become more popular by the year. What’s the most popular? Whatever you prefer! From smoothing flyaways to slicking down edges, pure oils are just as popular as pre-made products, so find your favorite and experiment.

Note: You do not need more than one product from each category. Keep it simple!

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By Sabrina Perkins · Published July 8, 2015

Photo Courtesy of My Natural Sistas

Question

Do I have to cut my hair?  In October I will be one year natural so I understand that hair takes time to grow, but do I have to cut my hair in order for it to have shape? If not how to I shape and stretch it?

Answer

No, you do not have to cut your hair to give it a desired shape. In a nutshell, fake it until you make it! Shaping curly and coily hair can be somewhat of a challenge, especially if you are not sure about cutting it all off or if that will even give you the desired look. Many newly naturals are transitioning and while they are willing to work with two very different textures, that does not mean they do not want a stylish ‘do’ as they grow out the relaxed ends. Of course rocking braids, wigs or weaves is an obvious solution if one is trying to grow out their transitioned hair and want options, but that is not for everyone and like Naturalchelz, some are ready to fully embrace curly or coily styles with their own tresses.

Naturalchelz is interested in the popular heart-shaped big hair afro style. Who can blame her? It’s gorgeous! The secret to this beautiful style is more about technique than it is about length, so there is no need for scissors. Here are tutorials for achieving the style of your dreams.

Heart Shaped Afro on 4a/4b Hair

Kasheera from Kash TV shares how to rock this style with a wash and go. What I really love about this video is how she delicately manipulates her hair to achieve the look she desires. She lets the shrinkage work to her advantage. This is perfect for someone who has longer hair in the front, but is even better if you do not. It is all about creating the look without pulling out the scissors. Watch her mold her afro.

Heart Twist Out

Eugenia Say shares how she gets her ultra-shiny heart or strawberry shaped twist out! It is all about technique, as she lifts her crown to get it perfect. Can I just add that her personality is so loving and fun? Ok, this video will give you step-by-step directions on how your regular twist out can be a heart-shaped full of lovely with a few lifts from a wide tooth comb.

Now, if bigger hair is more important, then adding extensions can create this effect. It is in molding your hair to the shape as the key element and scissors be damned!

By Sabrina Perkins · Published July 5, 2015

Sacred lotus flower

Revered as a divine symbol for more than 5,000 years, the sacred lotus flower or Nelubmo nucifera is a beautifully powerful plant that has been used in East and Southeast Asian traditional medicine and cuisine for centuries. It is a bowl-shaped perennial plant that is often mistaken for a water lily. This aquatic perennial has large, showy white to pinkish flowers with an ice-cream cone shaped golden yellow receptacle and a dense ring of yellow stamens. This short-lived flower opens up during the morning and begins to lose its petals by the afternoon all the while emitting a pleasant fragrance.

Benefits of the seeds

In Asia the seeds and the fruit have been used to treat chronic insomnia, diarrhea, cardiovascular disease, and skin disorders. In China, Japan, and India the rhizomes are roasted, candied, pickled or sliced and fried as chips. There is even a paste created from the nutlets that is used as a filling in a traditional Chinese pastry but they provide more than the ingredients for a tasty desert. The seeds are rich in protein, amino acids, unsaturated fatty acids, starch, tannins, and minerals. Its richness of antioxidants make it an excellent skin conditioner that not only hydrates but moisturizes both skin and hair and increases skin elasticity. Several cosmetic and skin care products use scared lotus flower extract to aid in skin hydration and balancing oily skin to prevent acne.

Mimosa Tenuiflora tree

Mimosa Tenuiflora, commonly known as the “skin tree,” is a beautiful, fern-like tree indigenous to the southern Mexican lowlands. Used in traditional medicine for over 1,000 years, this treasure is still being used as a very effective treatment for burns and skin lesions. The bark has been used as a treatment for bleeding, an antiseptic, and as a topical anti-inflammatory and pain-relieving agent. Mimosa tenuiflora is prized for its ability to restore the damaged epidermis in remarkable fashion.

Benefits of the bark

There are several components that come together in this extraordinary bark. It is rich in alkaloids, lipids, lupeol, glucoisides, saponins, sterols, steroids, tannins, and a number of different polysaccharides. The polysaccharides alone have anti-inflammatory, astringent, and antiseptic effects when applied to the skin and may even help to promote the growth of collagen.

Our scalp is also a part of our skin so the regenerative properties that aid in skin also apply to the scalp.

Hair benefits

There are many well-documented benefits of both for the body, but what about for hair? The Mimosa tenuiflora bark extract does not just benefit skin but is being used for the treatment of aging hair. Our scalp is also a part of our skin so the regenerative properties that aid in skin also apply to the scalp. Those anti-inflammatory and antiseptic properties are great for those with scalp conditions. The bark heals whereas the extract moisturizes and hydrates. Both can be found separately and used alone, but if you want the benefits of both in hair products, then Nature’s Gate is a good place to start as they utilize these ingredients’ goodness in their products to give you maximum advantage of these ingredients.

• Nature’s Gate Jojoba + Sacred Lotus Revitalizing Conditioner 
• Nature’s Gate Chamomile + Mimosa Bark Replenishing Conditioner
• Nature’s Gate Aloe Vera + Macadamia Oil Moisturizing Conditioner