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By Sabrina Perkins · Published July 20, 2015

PHOTO COURTESY OF MINI MARLEY

Jonesing for heat? Yea, it can happen to the best of us. Somehow a cute and different hairstyle (like straight hair”> can turn into an overused crutch and it wouldn’t be so bad if it…wasn’t so bad! Heat styling should be used moderately and if you are way past that point, then you may be a heat junkie.

If your curls are limp, lifeless, and just not forming the way you would like them to no matter what product or technique you use, there’s a good chance your hair is damaged. We get countless questions on Curly Q&A from women who have damaged their curls to the point of no return, asking how they can get their hair to curl again. The first step ladies is to put down the flat iron, step away, and submit yourself to a Heat Junkie Detox. Here’s why:

The dangers of heat

Blow dryers, curling irons, and flat irons all inflict extreme thermal strain on our tresses. Constant heat styling can rob your hair of its moisture, create bubble hair, and damage your hair’s protein structure. Heat damage is real and cannot be fixed or reversed. Once it’s damaged, all you can really do is cut it off and learn from the experience.

Frequent usage or high temperatures during heat styling can lead to damaged cuticles, causing it to lift from the hair shaft and create frizz. It’s almost a domino effect, so stepping away from heat even for a short time like a no-heat challenge is a good idea.

Here’s what you will need to make your Heat Detox a success:

Step 1: Learn non-heat required styles

There are too many YouTube videos and blogs with tutorials for any natural to complain about not knowing what to do with her coils. Natural hair is in full swing and it seems like every day someone comes up with a new way to do a style that could be perfect for you. Twists, twist outs, braids, braid outs, wash and go, and even banding for a heatless blow out are all great styles to explore.

If you miss your straight hair…

If straighter hair is your preference, then learn alternate ways to achieve that sleeker look. Natural hair can do just about anything so check out big roller sets, Curlformers, African threading, or banding. These are are all ways to achieve straighter hair without heat and many can get your hair pretty darned straight. No it won’t be fried or slicked to your head, but the efforts and maintenance to achieve that look pose high risks anyways!

Step 2: Out of sight, out of mind

Get them out of your house! That’s what I had to do when I stopped using heat. Yea, it was that serious. I gave my curling iron and flat iron to my sister and pretty much forced myself to find other ways to style my hair. Knowing you would have to go out of your house to get your tools would stop me from relying on heat and I’m guessing it would be the same for you.

Step 3: Redefine beauty, embrace shrinkage

It may seem hard at first to fully embrace your shrinkage, but seeing shrinkage as the enemy will have you concentrating too heavily on your hair’s inabilities instead of enjoying and loving it.  Honestly, shrinkage is a blessing. It’s our hair’s response to moisture and it’s great in the styling department too. Big hair is in! Haven’t you heard?

Is straight hair the only polished look? Of course not, but maybe you haven’t made the transformation from loving the relaxed looks to loving the natural looks. Natural or curly styles are way less conforming and free so if you step outside the straight-hair box you may realize that your own texture’s finesse is complementary and downright gorgeous. It’s about evolving and accepting your texture so if you take a break from heat, then check out all the beautiful, artistic styles.

This post was originally published in May 2014 and has been updated for grammar and clarity.

By Sabrina Perkins · Published July 16, 2015

Photo Courtesy of Jessica Pettway

Question

My hair is a 4c type what is the best way to make it really straight or to get loose curls?

Answer

Often some women feel 4c hair is difficult or limited on style choices, but that cannot be further from the truth! Both straight hair and loose waves can be accomplished easily and safely if you have the right techniques. Type 4c hair is delicate like all textured hair. It craves moisture and needs specific attention to protect the strands, and with the correct knowledge it can achieve any style you desire. These tutorials demonstrate how easy it can be to achieve straight hair and loose waves with 4c hair.

Straightening my natural hair

TheChicNatural shares a video on how she goes from kinky to straight with little to no effort and minimal heat. She skips the blow-dryer by stretching her hair the night before and allowing it to dry before flat ironing the following morning. You see the entire process and she shares what temperature she uses on the iron, so you know exactly how she does it. Passing the flat iron only once on each section to keep the heat application light and non-damaging, she ends up with super, straight hair that is ready for anything.

Straightened 4c hair without heat

There is always more than one way to create a style and Jessica Pettway opted for the blow-dryer to help straighten her tresses before flat ironing. She also gets sleek tresses with her passing the flat iron only once on each section and she credits the iron for doing such an amazing job. Jessica also discusses the temperatures she uses on her hair and showcases how her hair has movement and shine.

Loose waves on 4C hair

If loose waves are desired, then this is a great video on just how to do it. JanetMonfrèt starts off with blow-dried hair and sections it off before moisturizing and applying flexi rods. Her medium-sized sections are the perfect size for this look that takes little time to prepare. She gives step-by-step instructions (down to the direction to wind the hair around the flexi rod”> so you end up with little to no frizz. She ends up with sexy, big waves that have movement and shine. Perfect for any celebration.

Effortless beach waves on 4c hair

Now, we have Jessica Pettway back again to share her straightened tresses and creates beach waves. This carefree style uses nothing more than her fingers and some bobby pins. That’s right! She is creating this look with what our mothers and grandmothers called pin curls. It is perfect for a slightly curled, looser wave that is full, movable, and fun. This look is sexy and simple.

By Sabrina Perkins · Published July 16, 2015

A tropical plant, it grows best in warm climates and is available year-round with a peak season in the summer. It is cultivated for its green seed pods that grow rapidly and ready for harvest in about 60 days. Internally, the pods feature small, round, mucilaginous white colored seeds arranged in vertical rows. The tender, unripe seed pods have a unique texture and bittersweet flavor. It can be consumed raw or marinated but mostly used as a thickening agent in stews and soups like gumbo.

What makes okra so special?

Okra is a powerhouse vegetable with varying amounts of nutrients, dependent upon how it is consumed, but the more prominent ones and their amounts according to the USDA are below, based on one cup of okra:

• Fiber – 2.5 grams. 10% of RDA (recommended daily value”> 
• Vitamin C – 16.3 milligrams. 27% RDA
• Folate – 46 micrograms. 11% RDA
• Vitamin A – 283 international units. 6% RDA
• Vitamin K – 40 micrograms. 50% RDA
• Niacin (Vitamin B3″> – 0.9 mg. 4% RDA
• Thiamin (Vitamin B1″> – 0.1 mg. 9% RDA
• Vitamin B6 – 0.2 mg. 9% RDA
• Magnesium – 36 mg. 9% RDA
• Manganese – 0.3 mg. 15% RDA
• Beta carotene – 225 mcg
• Lutein, Zeaxanthin – 516 mcg

What are the health benefits of okra?

The list above is impressive and explains the interest many have in okra for health. It is rich in several nutrients, minerals, and vitamins that benefit our bodies. It is one of the vegetables with the highest amounts of vitamin A, flavonoid anti-oxidants like beta-carotene. It supports colon-health, reduces the risks for diabetes, helps with respiratory issues, and promotes healthy skin and hair. It also promotes eye health, protects against free radicals, and even helps with constipation.

the mucilage from okra is a natural asset better than any detangler on the shelves that will cost more.

What can okra do for my hair?

It can do more than one would think! Many use okra for detangling, increasing shine, and soothing the scalp. Add to those benefits the imparting of vitamins, minerals, and nutrients and you can see why adding okra to your repertoire is an excellent idea. Many vegetables produce mucilage, a thick gluey substance formed by large polysaccharides and okra is no exception.

When applied to skin, mucilage acts as an emollient and when applied to hair it provides massive slip for manageable and highly effective detangling. When reacted with water, mucilage reduces friction between the strands and moves through the hair fibers with ease. It can be used as a hair rinse to add shine to dull strands along with adding bounce and movement. When it comes to making hair smoother and more manageable, the mucilage from okra is a natural asset better than any detangler on the shelves that will cost more.

Some use it as a hair gel while others use it as a conditioner. Either way will yield the same results of softer, smoother, less tangled tresses.

Read more: DIY Okra Gel Detangling Pre-poo

By Sabrina Perkins · Published July 16, 2015

Health benefits of fennel seeds

The seeds have therapeutic benefits and in Ayurvedic medicine they are used in body detox and skincare. The seeds contain huge amounts of phytochemical alpha-pinene, which act like an expectorant. According to Medical News Today, fennel seeds contain chemicals that act as plant estrogens but also have nutrients like amino acids, calcium, choline, essential fatty acids, iron, magnesium, manganese, phosphorus, potassium, selenium, and vitamins B, C, E, and K. We cannot forget its fiber content and how it aids in proper digesting and regularity. With its estrogenic effects, it is often used to increase the supply of breast milk in nursing mothers. The fiber, potassium, folate, and vitamins B-6 and C supports heart health.

Skin and hair benefits of fennel seed oil

The seeds and the oil have several benefits for both your skin and hair. It is great as an infusion to unclog grime, dirt, excess sebum, and dead cells in our pores. Fennel seeds have antiseptic and anti-inflammatory properties, so it is a great natural remedy for combatting acne.

Fennel seed water infusion

• 1 tbsp. fennel seeds
• 2 cups distilled water
• A few drops of fennel essential oil (optional”>
• Clean empty glass bottle with a cork

Heat water in a pot. Add seeds, cover, and allow them to steep for 20 min. Once cooled remove seeds, pour water into cleans glass bottle, and add a few drops of essential fennel oil. To use simply soak a clean cotton ball with fennel seed water and wipe your face to remove dirt, bacteria, and buildup. Those antiseptic and anti-inflammatory properties are great for treating scalp ailments like dandruff and itching. Being rich in antioxidants and vitamins like vitamin E makes this a great protector of hair cells from free radicals. For hair, fennel tea is optimal whether drinking or as a tea rinse because it will wash away chemical buildup and impurities while adding shine.

Fennel seed tea hair rinse

• 2 cups water
• 3 spoonful of fennel seed powder

Bring water to a boil and then add fennel seed powder. Leave undisturbed for 15 min. before stirring and then allowing to cool. Use as a final rinse after shampooing and conditioning hair and do not rinse out.

Using fennel seed water created with powder and oil will stave off dandruff, bacteria, and inflammation while reducing hair loss. Fennel seed oil blends well with geranium, lavender, rose and sandalwood oils, but just make sure you are not allergic to fennel seeds prior to trying them either in the oil, water, or powder.

By Sabrina Perkins · Published July 13, 2015

Question

How do I avoid fairy knots?

Answer

Here are a few proactive techniques you can use to lower the frequency with which you get them. Is it really that easy? Well, for some it can be if you are willing to forgo some styles (e.g. wash and go”> in exchange for styles that stretch the ends like two-strand twists. Another note to make is that when you do get them, you should handle them correctly. Rubbing some conditioner between your thumb and index finger on the fairy knot will help to release some if not all of the hairs in the knot. Removing them with your fingers is better than trying with a comb or brush, which could just remove the knot along with other perfectly healthy hairs in the process. The best way to deal with them is to prevent them. Here are five ways to reduce your fairy knots: 

Get regular trims

Healthy ends equals less knots. Dry, raggedy, jagged, and weathered ends are more susceptible to knotting. No one is saying do them more often or giving a timetable but when you trim your ends (or do dustings when necessary”> when the ends turn into knots the hair is weakened. Split ends and excessive tangles at the ends all are symptoms of a need for a trim or a light dusting. Your hair will thank you for it with less frizz, tangles, and detangling sessions.

Detangle your hair and especially your ends fully

Many of us are known for putting off wash day due to the long detangling sessions that can seem to go on for hours! Yes, doing a pre-poo helps but if your arms and spirit is growing weary, you may just skimp on giving each section its proper due for detangling.

That is a big no-no and here’s why. Removing those tangles keeps them from turning into knots and removing those shed hairs keeps them from getting tangled into your healthy strands. Divide your hair into manageable sections so you can detangled effectively and not become overwhelmed.

Protect your ends

This is just another way to say protective styling. I do not think that using extensions or solely wearing cornrows are the only way to protect your hair. Having your hair completely tied up and away from sight is not necessary for warding off fairy knots when just keeping them out of contact with clothing can be just as effective. Letting your hair come into contact with your coats, seat belts, etc. causes friction and can causing knotting.

Properly moisturize and seal

Hydrated hair is less likely to tangle…period. Keep your ends hydrated, soft, and smooth as jagged edges almost always find a way to wind around themselves or neighboring hairs. This includes wash day deep conditionings and sealing your ends with a butter or oil to keep them smooth, tangle-free, and moisturized.

Wearing more stretched styles

Stretched styles leads to less knotting up. Straighter ends have a harder time coiling up, but do not think you have to straighten your hair to get straighter ends. There are styles that can be achieved that do not require heat like roller sets, braid outs, and twist outs that control the coils and keep them manageable.

How do you avoid fairy knots?

By Sabrina Perkins · Published July 12, 2015

There is a right way and a wrong way to wear your hair at the beach, and when I show just how bad some of these wrong ways are, you will be grateful you read this.

Wash and go

They are lovely and carefree just like the summer and they seem like the ideal style to rock for the warmer months. You would be right in that thinking but wrong if you think it would be a great style for the beach. Yes, beach waves are nice to rock but if you notice most women who are sporting the beach waves are not actually at the beach.

• The good – They look great! They are the symbol of summer with a lighthearted spirit and feel. 
• The bad – Free hair while at the windy, sandy, salty beach will run havoc on your strands. If you want tangles then you will get them by the end of the trip.
• The ugly – Back and forth from the seawater to the beach with loose hair will become a tangled, sandy mess! If the sand does not drive you insane, the water will with your loose tresses. Hair needs to be in a bun, a braid, or a contained updo, so it cannot become a detangling nightmare when you get home and try to wash the beach out of your hair. 

Cheap weaves

Weaves are getting more expensive, but there will always be a more reasonable line to choose from. It is a great way to change up your look without breaking the bank, but you get what you pay for. Cheap weaves may be nice for rocking in ideal climates, but when it comes to the beach they will not make the cut.

• The good – They are fun to rock and the styles are endless so you can find one that will look amazing while you sunbathe and get wet in the ocean. You also will not be out of a ton of money and can use that extra cash for a sexy two-piece.
• The bad – A cheap weave often will not last up to non-ideal climates, so it will tangle easier than a more expensive weave. With all that wind and sand and water you will be looking at a matted mess.
• The ugly – Sheer horror of tangles the longer you stay out there enjoying the weather and water. Add sweating, humidity and your hair and the weave may part ways at the seams especially if it is glued in. Getting all that sand out may be just as much as a chore as ridding it of those tangles. 

Straight hair

Straight hair can be a sexy change for a curly girl and by all means enjoy the variety our hair has to offer.

• The good – This style will look amazing on you as you lie out at the beach.
• The bad – You had to straighten your hair. The wind, water, sand, and potential humidity will turn that straight hair into a frizzy mess before you are out there for 30 min. 
• The ugly – Since you will not be saturating your straightened hair with conditioner, it will soak up the saltwater and revert to a frizzy, dry mess. Add in the wind and sand and you have a horrible wash day within minutes. Truly one of the worst styles to rock to the beach for a curly girl.

Wigs

Wigs are fun but let’s just cut to the chase on this one shall we?

• The good – honestly…for the beach? I have no good things to say except give advice. Steer clear of the water and I hope you are just there for a photo shoot.
• The bad – You are at the beach. Your wig can come off at with the first crashing wave.
• The ugly – Your wig falls off at the first crashing wave and you cannot find it anywhere.  Luckily your wig cap is still intact, but honestly does that really matter at this point? 

Messy bun or updo

A messy bun or updo is great for summer especially for those dramatic evenings where you want to look flirty but fun. They are easy to create and perfect for an old twist out, braid out, or even a wash and go.

• The good – You will look hot rocking a sexy, messy updo as you have fun at the beach.
• The bad – It is still somewhat loose so you can still get tangles all at the top of your head.
• The ugly – You can end up with seriously matted tangles at the top of your head because a messy bun is not really secure and the hair is somewhat loose.  

The best styles for curly girls to rock at the beach are buns, braided hair, ponytails, and twists.  Wet the hair and slather with conditioner and even think about a swim cap too. There are tons of cute styles to rock at the beach so be cute, smart, and have fun without regrets!

By Sabrina Perkins · Published July 8, 2015

Photo Courtesy of My Natural Sistas

Question

Do I have to cut my hair?  In October I will be one year natural so I understand that hair takes time to grow, but do I have to cut my hair in order for it to have shape? If not how to I shape and stretch it?

Answer

No, you do not have to cut your hair to give it a desired shape. In a nutshell, fake it until you make it! Shaping curly and coily hair can be somewhat of a challenge, especially if you are not sure about cutting it all off or if that will even give you the desired look. Many newly naturals are transitioning and while they are willing to work with two very different textures, that does not mean they do not want a stylish ‘do’ as they grow out the relaxed ends. Of course rocking braids, wigs or weaves is an obvious solution if one is trying to grow out their transitioned hair and want options, but that is not for everyone and like Naturalchelz, some are ready to fully embrace curly or coily styles with their own tresses.

Naturalchelz is interested in the popular heart-shaped big hair afro style. Who can blame her? It’s gorgeous! The secret to this beautiful style is more about technique than it is about length, so there is no need for scissors. Here are tutorials for achieving the style of your dreams.

Heart Shaped Afro on 4a/4b Hair

Kasheera from Kash TV shares how to rock this style with a wash and go. What I really love about this video is how she delicately manipulates her hair to achieve the look she desires. She lets the shrinkage work to her advantage. This is perfect for someone who has longer hair in the front, but is even better if you do not. It is all about creating the look without pulling out the scissors. Watch her mold her afro.

Heart Twist Out

Eugenia Say shares how she gets her ultra-shiny heart or strawberry shaped twist out! It is all about technique, as she lifts her crown to get it perfect. Can I just add that her personality is so loving and fun? Ok, this video will give you step-by-step directions on how your regular twist out can be a heart-shaped full of lovely with a few lifts from a wide tooth comb.

Now, if bigger hair is more important, then adding extensions can create this effect. It is in molding your hair to the shape as the key element and scissors be damned!

By Sabrina Perkins · Published July 5, 2015

Sacred lotus flower

Revered as a divine symbol for more than 5,000 years, the sacred lotus flower or Nelubmo nucifera is a beautifully powerful plant that has been used in East and Southeast Asian traditional medicine and cuisine for centuries. It is a bowl-shaped perennial plant that is often mistaken for a water lily. This aquatic perennial has large, showy white to pinkish flowers with an ice-cream cone shaped golden yellow receptacle and a dense ring of yellow stamens. This short-lived flower opens up during the morning and begins to lose its petals by the afternoon all the while emitting a pleasant fragrance.

Benefits of the seeds

In Asia the seeds and the fruit have been used to treat chronic insomnia, diarrhea, cardiovascular disease, and skin disorders. In China, Japan, and India the rhizomes are roasted, candied, pickled or sliced and fried as chips. There is even a paste created from the nutlets that is used as a filling in a traditional Chinese pastry but they provide more than the ingredients for a tasty desert. The seeds are rich in protein, amino acids, unsaturated fatty acids, starch, tannins, and minerals. Its richness of antioxidants make it an excellent skin conditioner that not only hydrates but moisturizes both skin and hair and increases skin elasticity. Several cosmetic and skin care products use scared lotus flower extract to aid in skin hydration and balancing oily skin to prevent acne.

Mimosa Tenuiflora tree

Mimosa Tenuiflora, commonly known as the “skin tree,” is a beautiful, fern-like tree indigenous to the southern Mexican lowlands. Used in traditional medicine for over 1,000 years, this treasure is still being used as a very effective treatment for burns and skin lesions. The bark has been used as a treatment for bleeding, an antiseptic, and as a topical anti-inflammatory and pain-relieving agent. Mimosa tenuiflora is prized for its ability to restore the damaged epidermis in remarkable fashion.

Benefits of the bark

There are several components that come together in this extraordinary bark. It is rich in alkaloids, lipids, lupeol, glucoisides, saponins, sterols, steroids, tannins, and a number of different polysaccharides. The polysaccharides alone have anti-inflammatory, astringent, and antiseptic effects when applied to the skin and may even help to promote the growth of collagen.

Our scalp is also a part of our skin so the regenerative properties that aid in skin also apply to the scalp.

Hair benefits

There are many well-documented benefits of both for the body, but what about for hair? The Mimosa tenuiflora bark extract does not just benefit skin but is being used for the treatment of aging hair. Our scalp is also a part of our skin so the regenerative properties that aid in skin also apply to the scalp. Those anti-inflammatory and antiseptic properties are great for those with scalp conditions. The bark heals whereas the extract moisturizes and hydrates. Both can be found separately and used alone, but if you want the benefits of both in hair products, then Nature’s Gate is a good place to start as they utilize these ingredients’ goodness in their products to give you maximum advantage of these ingredients.

• Nature’s Gate Jojoba + Sacred Lotus Revitalizing Conditioner 
• Nature’s Gate Chamomile + Mimosa Bark Replenishing Conditioner
• Nature’s Gate Aloe Vera + Macadamia Oil Moisturizing Conditioner

By Sabrina Perkins · Published June 30, 2015

What makes this oil so special?

Every oil has a primary purpose and borage oil is no different. This magic ingredient is full of essential fatty acids with the most important one being gamma-linolenic acid (GLA”>. Black currant and evening primrose are also praised for having GLA, but borage oil is the highest plant source with the moisturizing and anti-inflammatory properties. GLA is an important Omega-6 fatty acid that is necessary for human healthy. According to the University of Maryland, Medical Center Omega-6 fatty acids aid in normal growth and development and are also known as polyunsaturated fatty acids that help stimulate skin and hair growth.

Read more: You Need these Fatty Acids for Healthier Hair

GLA is great for hair growth and reducing inflammation. Early clinical studies have shown GLA to be beneficial in the areas of:

• Rheumatoid arthritis
• Allergies
• Attention deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADD/ADHD”>
• Eczema
• High blood pressure
• PMS
• Menopausal symptoms

Borage seed oil and your hair

Omega-6 helps to promote healthy hair and skin. It helps to treat scalp inflammation, alleviate dandruff, and revitalizes dull hair. If suffering from a dry, itchy scalp, borage seed oil will replenish it.

DIY Dandruff Oil

Try combining both flaxseed oil and borage seed oil, as the omega-3 fatty acids in flaxseed and the omega-6 fatty acids in GLA rich borage oil make a great combo. Combine:

• 10% borage seed oil 
• 90% flaxseed oil or your favorite carrier oil

It can be applied topically to the skin, scalp, and hair. If you would rather garner the benefits through products, here are some popular hair products that have borage seed oil in their ingredient list.

• Avalon Organics Moisturizing Shampoo Olive and Grape Seed 
• John Masters Organics Citrus and Neroli Detangler 
• Nature’s Gate Nourishing Shampoo Hemp + Argan Oil
• Nature’s Gate Tea Tree + Sea Buckthorn Calming Shampoo

By Sabrina Perkins · Published June 28, 2015

I had my own challenges with my own daughter, Megan, who is now 20. Megan begged for a relaxer when she was in first grade because she wanted straight hair like everyone else. I caved and later regretted that decision. She turned her back on chemicals soon after, because at the time I was at the salon weekly or bi-weekly with her in tow and she despised the blow-dryer. So, at the tender age of 9 my daughter had the big chop and was growing out her perm. I maintained her hair until she became mature enough to do it herself at 12 years old. With more women deciding to not heat or chemically straighten their daughters’ hair, we often receive questions inquiring when a child should start self-grooming?

What age is the right age for self-grooming?

According to pediatrician Dr. Carrie M. Brown, there is no right age and it should be a natural progression for the child to show an interest in doing it. She must learn how to not only manage the tools necessary like a brush and comb but also how to successfully detangle, because over time the hair will become damaged if not properly maintained.

If you think it is hard for us as adults to care for our hair, then you can imagine how difficult it can be for our daughters, so to make the process easier here are a few tips.

Find dolls with hair like your daughters hair

This is easier to do now that we have a wider range of more diverse dolls on the market than when we were children. You may have to search online or just take a trip to your local toy store. When combing your daughter’s hair, encourager her to do the same with the doll’s hair. She may show interest around 6 to 8 years old.

Find example videos

Watching a mother-daughter hair videos on YouTube is a great way (and one of the only ways”> to see a demonstration of children washing and styling their own hair. We recommend these:

9 year old Washes and Styles Natural Hair Herself

DiscoveringNatural shares her daughter’s first time co-washing her own hair. This video is great for any little girl who wants to learn. I love the first tip she offers: making a list! She does an amazing job and this video is perfect for showing it can be done with the right tools, planning, and help.

5 Quick Curly Hairstyles for School

Daniela Zapata shares five simple styles she wears to school that will be easy for your little girl to create. They are little girl-friendly and stylish. The only thing I would alter is adding a heat protectant for her bangs when she flat irons them. We want our little girls to have good foundations on heat usage.

Let her know you are with her all the way

This does not have to be an all or nothing pursuit. You do not have to hand the torch off to her and let her find her own way. You can guide her, assist her, and even take over if things are not quite going as planned. Nothing is etched in stone and you can use a timeline that works for you both.

By Sabrina Perkins · Published June 24, 2015

Club soda is right up there with vinegar for having multiple uses inside and outside of the home. Club soda is often confused with other carbonated waters like seltzer, mineral water, or tonic water. So what actually is club soda? Well, it is created by infusing water with carbon dioxide. Now that you understand the differences, did you know that people are using club soda for their hair? If you need to clarify but worry about damaging your hair or drying it out, then a natural clarifying method is exciting to hear about, but does it really work?

Many women use products with water-insoluble silicones in them that can cause buildup on the hair, leaving your strands limp, greasy, and lifeless. Overuse of these products or putting off wash day can cause reason for wanting to clarify. When people speak of “clarifying” their hair they are typically talking about using special shampoos that help to remove product buildup, dirt, and those pesky silicones that we have a love/hate relationship with. They work harder than regular shampoos and co-washing conditioners so our hair stays healthy so oftentimes they can be harsh on the hair as they rid the hair of the extra buildup.

Some curlies avoid clarifying products because of their reputation for stripping the hair, opting instead for natural and gentler methods to clarify.

What does club soda do for your hair?

Club soda is perceived to mildly clarify the hair but it is more popular as a frizz reducer.  For clarifying purposes, people who use it feel that the sodium properties in the club soda act as a clarifying agent when used as a rinse after shampooing the hair. Some even use it as a final rinse after a shampooing and conditioning to remove the magnesium that can be found in tap water and can make the hair appear dull and, if you are a blonde, brassy.

Use with hard water

This can be used especially if you live in a hard water area and do not have a shower filter.

This can be used especially if you live in a hard water area and do not have a shower filter.

According to scientific consultant Yolanda Anderson, M.Ed. Club soda has a few advantages for clarifying the hair as opposed to clarifying shampoos. It is cheap, easy to obtain, and you control how strong the solution is or is not, by the amount of club soda used to the amount of water. A solution that is too strong can leave hair dry, and you must remember to close the cuticles immediately after using club soda to prevent tangling and stress on the hair.

Use after swimming

The carbonation can remove chlorine after a dip in the pool that is less harmful than using a chelating shampoo which is similar to a clarifying shampoo but is geared towards removing minerals and chlorine. Yolanda also goes on to say that pool water is very chlorinated and this addition of Cl₂ can be harmful to the hair. When dissolved in water, chlorine converts to an equilibrium mixture of chlorine, hypochlorous acid (HOCl”>, and hydrochloric acid (HCl”>: Cl₂ + H₂O  HOCl + HCl

Chlorinated water is composed of many minerals and over time these minerals build up on the hair which can make your hair appear dull and brassy (especially if the hair is chemically treated with color”>. Club soda is known to decrease the damage chlorine can do to your hair, absorb the chlorine, and aid in the recovery of slightly damaged hair. It has also been recommended to blondes who have had their hair turn green from the chlorine in pools because rinsing with the club soda will restore the hair back to its original color, according to Dr. Oz.

The verdict

The carbonation in club soda does aid in fighting frizz and clarifying the hair. Using a clarifying shampoo is still necessary, but the club soda will naturally remove some dirt, oil and minerals as you can control the strength of the solution to ensure you get the best solution that will work effectively but not dry out your strands.

Using a clarifying shampoo is still necessary, but the club soda will naturally remove some dirt, oil and minerals 

Keeping some around is a good idea for fighting frizz, rinsing all of your shampoo and conditioner out and helping to remove chlorine. It is cheap, easy to find and a great DIY for extra cleansing when you need a mild cleanse.

Read more: 20 Clarifying Shampoos Gentle Enough for Damaged Hair

Have you tried club soda in your hair care regimen?

By Sabrina Perkins · Published June 24, 2015

Buriti fruit oil properties

This oil is a powerhouse for essential fatty acids.

• Oleic acid: 79.2%
• Palmitic acid: 16.3%
• Linoleic acid: 1.4%
• Linolenic acid: 1.3%
• Stearic acid: 1.3%
• Palmitoleic acid: 0.4%

Add that to potent antioxidants and vitamins and you see why this rainforest fruit oil is beneficial for the hair and skin. It is highly emollient, treats burns, and soothes diaper rashes, and does wonders for the hair and scalp. The tree is multi-faceted as the leaves and stalks are used in crafts for baskets while the fruit pulp is processed into juice and sweets. The oil is edible and often used in frying. The antioxidants protect the lipid membranes that surround all skin cells so they keep the cells healthier and the anti-inflammatory properties assist rough and sensitive skin.

Why you want this on your hair

Buriti fruit oil harbors ample nutrients that will give the hair and scalp all it needs to stay healthy and soft. This oil moisturizes and strengthens to fight off flyaways and frizz. The oleic acid revitalizes dry hair and the linoleic acid will help to combat hair loss. The vitamin E inhibits good health on our body tissues, which in turn slows down the aging process; that goes for aging signs like graying of the hair too. It is a great stimulant for the capillaries in the scalp, which help to promote hair growth.

This fruit oil is a perfect choice for damaged, dry, or color-treated strands with all the nutrients, antioxidants, and protection it carries against the damaging UVB and UVA rays of the sun. It is a flawless choice for blending with other oils for hot oil treatments. Dryness does not just occur during the winter months so this light oil will be greatly appreciated by your strands and dry scalp this spring and summer.

Where to get buriti fruit oil?

Just like the Amazon, Amazon.com is chock-full of goodies for curly girls! You won’t have to go traipsing in the Amazon to retrieve this amazing oil and can just order it online with a few clicks.

• Brazilian BURITI FRUIT OIL 100% Pure 
• Organically Grown Wild-Harvested Unrefined Virgin Buriti Oil 

Products with buriti oil

• Buriti Shampoo Surya Nature
• Buriti Conditioner Surya Nature
• Ojon Restorative Pre-Cleansing Treatment
• Carols Daughter Black Vanilla Moisture and Shine Hair Smoothie BCID=EE49A68C3023
• Cush Cosmetics Buriti Hair Lotion

Have you tried this powerful oil from the Amazon? 

By Sabrina Perkins · Published June 22, 2015

Nutritional benefits of figs

Figs are full of both soluble and insoluble fiber, which may reduce some types of diseases. They are excellent source of potassium, natural sugars, calcium, magnesium, iron, copper, and vitamins A, E, and K, according to the California Fig Advisory Board. 

They are also known for lowering blood pressure due to the potassium and low sodium along with high levels of polyphenol antioxidants. Figs contain omega-3 and omega-6 fatty acids and phytosterol compounds, which help to lower cholesterol and the fiber actually binds to the cholesterol helping to rid it from the body.

Figs for your hair

Figs are rich in vitamins C and E, which fight hair loss. Vitamin K helps to maintain healthy hair and magnesium plays an important role in slowing down and even stopping hair loss. The high amount of calcium in figs contributes to the formation of collagen, which is a major component in hair growth. Figs are nothing new to the hair care industry and have been used to create conditioners and detanglers. They are gems to curly, wavy, and coily girls because they hydrate the hair and even provide some shine.

What’s better for your hair?

Ounce for ounce, dried figs have higher vitamins, minerals and dietary fiber than fresh figs but fig oil is excellent at moisturizing and nourishing with its emollients that soften and smooth the scalp and hair. Not to be confused with barbary fig oil, which comes from the cactus Opunita ficus-indica and is also great for hair. Fig seed oil contains essential fatty acids oleic, linoleic, linolenic, palmitic, stearic, and arachidic and is an effective lubricant for skin, scalp, and hair. It would seem that either eating the figs or even using the oil topically can benefit our tresses but if you are not fans of either than I still have you covered!

Read more: Oleic and Linoliec Acid: The Reason You Love Oils So Much

Here are some products that contain the coveted fig seed oil or extract and you may be surprised to see a couple you have heard of or are already using!

• WEN® by Chaz Dean Fig Cleansing Conditioner
• Garnier Fructis Style Deconstructed Move it Manipulating Gel
• SheaMoisture Manuka Honey & Mafura Oil Intensive Hydrating Masque
• SheaMoisture Manuka Honey & Mafura Oil Intensive Hydration Conditioner
• SheaMoisture Manuka Honey & Mafura Oil Intensive Hydration Shampoo

By Sabrina Perkins · Published June 10, 2015

Not everyone has a partner who does not want to be included in the conversation on changing your aesthetic. Just check out a forum or blog and read some tearful stories of women having relationship problems because of simply wearing your natural hair. From reality TV stars to bloggers, blogs are filled with posts about women confessing the problems they are facing because of going natural. My husband could care less how I rock my hair but I do understand this is not a reality for everyone. So instead of writing it off I know I must address the problem because it is a real problem.

Often we just need to communicate with our partner about what we are doing so they can gain better insight and become that supporter we would prefer. So, here’s a list of some things you may want to share so they “get it” and not just look freaked out at some of our natural hair habits.

Silk or satin pillowcases are necessary

I cannot tell you how many times I have had to wrestle my satin pillowcase from my husband’s armpit. I had to explain this is my pillow and not his to just use at his leisure. We may also sleep with a bonnet, scarf, or wear our hair in a pineapple so our sleep routine does not ruin our hair for the following day. I wore a scarf to bed when relaxed too so this should not be that much of a surprise to most, but it needs to be said regardless.

Wash day is an event

Wash day is essential to all women, but to naturals it can be a long process, especially if you have longer detangling sessions. Wash day also entails overnight to pre-poo or deep condition, so many of us schedule our lives around it. That may need to be expressed to your boo who may not realize just how much this can affect the plans. There may be a lack of hot water after we are out of the shower or it may end up looking like a crime scene with conditioner, shed hairs, or stained tubs from rinses. This is just a part of the process.

Hating my hair is hating me

This may cause some anger directed at me but our bodies and hair are a part of us. Telling us you hate our hair is not accepting us for who we are. Whether we rock free form locs or loose colored curls, love is deeper than a hairstyle. If you do have an issue with my hair, then there are constructive ways to present that concern and discuss the root of the problem.

I do not need your approval

This ties into the previous point because even if we cannot come to terms with the presentation of my hair, it will be my decision. This is my hair on my head and although I want to be attractive to you, it is still my decision. We are grown women and how we choose to dress and rock our hair is a personal statement that reflects our mood, personality, and oftentimes the weather.

Groceries are for the kitchen and bathroom

Many naturals are embracing natural methods and ingredients to care for their tresses. We are turning into DIY specialists that require massive amounts of oils, herbs, and fruits. Do not be alarmed if you see her slathering mayo, avocado, and/or aloe vera gel on her head. It is now her norm and just her way of caring for her tresses. I cannot tell you how many times my husband has smelled coffee in the bathroom because I was doing a coffee rinse.  It is what it is.

Going natural does not mean I am trying to be political

This point may be dying out, but there are still women being called Angela Davis or a tree hugger for going natural. We are all individuals and should be treated as such without over-generalized labels that can be offensive to some. Yes, there are many naturals who are vegan or vegetarian, but do not assume we all are. For some, natural hair is a trend and just another hairstyle, so do not assume to know why a woman is natural any more than you would assume why a woman is relaxed. We are much deeper than that!

Our hair grows up and out

Relaxed hair is not natural hair, so expecting the same results in growth is unfair and may end up being disheartening. If your significant other is used to straight hair laying on your shoulders it may take a while for them to understand that natural hair does not grow or lay like that. It is sometimes hard for women to accept this too, especially with shrinkage. Some embrace it while others fight with it but if you are confused you can only imagine your mate may be as well.

If you want understanding on your journey then give them the tools to do so. How did you help you partner transition to your transition?

By Sabrina Perkins · Published June 10, 2015

I enjoy sharing nature’s bountiful wealth of ingredients for our skin and hair. No, I am not capturing rainwater to wash my mane, but I do like to see what nature can do for me before purchasing hair care products. When hair care companies start with nature to address our needs I applaud them. Despite my tendency to find natural methods and products I do look for what works and sometimes that means taking a step towards technology for the better creation. Curly-haired women love variety and sometimes that includes straightening, so many use heat protectants to avoid compromising the health of their hair from too high or excessive heat. Most heat protectants contain silicones but did you know that some are also formulated with sugar?

What is Xylose?

Simply, xylose is a sugar substitute that was discovered in 1891 by a Finnish scientist named Koch. It did not become popular until there was a sugar shortage during World War II and scientist learned how to stabilize xylose and created xylitol which is the sugar alcohol produced by xylose. Xylose is a form of sugar that comes from woody substances like straw or pecan shells. It can be used in several variations like liquid or crystallized and it provides a healthier alternative to regular sugar.

Benefits of xylose on hair

Sugar on hair? Yes! Believe it or not but sugar is great as a heat-protectant to coat the strand and seal it. Many heat protectants use silicones to shield the hair from heat styling tools, as they also help to reduce damage to the cuticle. Xylose is just another asset for curlies who choose to use heat but want maximum protection. Matrix celebrity colorist George Papanikolas has this to say about the hair protecting benefits of xylose: “Xylose sugar protects and coats hair to disperse heat evenly and hydra-sugar binds to hair fiber to trap in moisture.” Basically, xylose has water-binding properties for skin and does wonders for protecting strands from the high temperatures of heat styling tools.

There are several heat protectants on the market now that use the powerful protection of xylose to not only protect the hair from heat styling but it also seals in the moisture to stave off dryness. Here are a few that use xylose in their ingredients. Silicones are not the only ingredient that will put heat in its place and help fight heat damage.

Products with xylose

• Pureology ColourStylist Fortifying Heat Spray 
• Mizani 25 Miracle Milk 
• Matrix Total Results Heat Resistant Iron Tamer Smoothing Lotion 

By Sabrina Perkins · Published June 9, 2015

Nutritional breakdown of cranberries

The botanical name for this beloved fruit is Vaccinium macrocarpon and they are an excellent source of antioxidants like phenolic phytochemicals. These antioxidants may actually reduce the risk of cardiovascular disease and lower blood pressure. Cranberries are an excellent source of vitamin C, E, and K, along with fiber. According to the Department of Internal Medicine and Nutritional Sciences Program of the University of Kentucky, the high fiber will significantly lower risks for developing coronary heart disease, stroke, hypertension, diabetes, and obesity.

The nutrients in cranberries actually soothe skin and the antioxidants fight disease. According to WebMD, this sweet and tart fruit nearly outranks every other fruit and veggie with the vitamins, fiber, and antioxidants. One cup of whole cranberries has 8.983 total antioxidant capacity with only 45 calories.

Benefits of Cranberry seed oil for hair

So we know how great this fruit is for our bodies, but are you aware of how beneficial it is for our tresses? When it comes to our hair and our scalp cranberries are just as potent in a positive way. Most love the cranberry seed oil when wanting to use for the hair and scalp and for good reason. Cranberry seed oil is usually cold pressed and is truly an overall body and hair oil to try.

• Antioxidants – Antioxidants fight free radicals and repair cellular damage caused by pollutants. They include organic acids like benzoic acid that will enhance scalp circulation and help promote healthy hair growth. Because of this high contents of antioxidants and phytosterols, cranberries are an excellent addition to a natural sun protection for your scalp and hair.  
• Fatty acids – Cranberry seed oil has powerful Omega-3 fatty acids. What’s so great about them? Well, Omega-3 acids help fight inflammation, which is great for scalp ailments, but they also nourish the hair follicles for stronger, shinier strands.  
• Minerals – Yes, this amazing oil even has minerals that are treasures to your tresses. There is calcium, copper, iron, magnesium, manganese, phosphorus, potassium, selenium, sodium, and zinc. Of course drinking the juice daily would allow these amazing minerals to make their way to your tresses, but a better effect would be directly added to your hair through the oil where the nutritional benefit will be delivered right to the scalp and absorbed by the roots.
• Vitamins – the vitamin that you want for shine and strength is vitamin E and cranberry seed oil is loaded with it. Vitamins E and C help with sun protection but C also fights the bacteria on the scalp and wards off dandruff to free the scalp of debris and encourage hair to grow properly. It also helps with a dry itch scalp with its antiviral properties. Vitamin C helps to improve blood circulation, strengthens and repairs capillaries, so this makes for stronger and even thicker strands. 

For the DIY lovers

Washday massage oil

After washing and conditioning but before styling, apply cranberry seed oil (lightly”> to your scalp and massage until absorbed. Style as usual and this should help with any scalp issues you have.

Weekly Massage oil

Once or twice a week apply cranberry seed oil (lightly”> to scalp until absorbed at night. Pull hair up into a bun, cover before going to bed.

By Sabrina Perkins · Published June 5, 2015

The agave plant is native to the southwestern region of the United States through the northern part of South America. This honey-like sap comes from the leaves of the blue agave, which is a succulent plant that resembles cactus or yuccas in form and habitat but actually more similar to the aloe vera. There are well over 100 species of agaves but the blue agave is the preferred species for producing nectar even though it contains more fructose than any other commonly-known sweetener, including high-fructose corn syrup, according to Dr. Oz. So consuming this natural nectar may not be ideal but believe me when I say it does have some benefits to enjoy.

Agave nectar is a natural alternative to refined sugars and artificial sweeteners. It is unrefined and free from additives, has a taste comparable to honey and has none of the bitter aftertaste associated with artificial sweeteners. It is about 1.5 times sweeter than sugar and comes from the same plant that’s used to make tequila. If one is not up for consuming this natural sweetener than what it can do for your tresses may be what you are looking for.

Agave Nectar for hair

Our world has an abundance of natural gifts that we have used for centuries to heal, aid or soothe our bodies. One such prized possession would be agave nectar. This natural wonder is a soothing hair humectant, which provides moisture and gives hair a lustrous shine. The biggest benefit from agave nectar is the large molecules it is comprised of: polysaccharides. Saponin, inulin, and fructose have many hydroxyl groups that make them hydrophilic or attract water. As a result they act like a humectant and draws water to the hair.

You can use agave nectar in the same way you use honey for your homemade hair and facial treatments, but it can be very sticky. There has been much debate about using humectants year-round, but most agree they are great for the warmers months so this may be a great ingredient to either use in your DIY treatments or finding products on the shelves that incorporate them. Here are a few DIYs to try that use agave nectar to hold in that much needed moisture.

Avocado hair mask

• 1 avocado
• 1 tbsp. olive oil
• 1 tbsp. agave nectar

Mash up the avocado and add the oils before mixing well. Apply to hair and allow it to sit for at least 15 to 20 minutes. Rinse well and style as usual.

DIY Curl Conditioning Serum

• 3 tbsp. aloe vera
• 1 tsp. vegetable glycerin
• ½ tsp. agave nectar
• 1 tsp. coconut oil

Not a DIY curly girl? No worries as we’ve got some products with the agave nectar already in them ready and waiting for your dry and thirsty tresses.

Products with agave nectar

• Carol’s Daughter Hair Milk Co-Wash Cleansing Conditioner
• Carol’s Daughter Hair Milk Pudding 
• SheaMoisture Coconut & Hibiscus Curling Gel Souffle 

Have you used agave nectar on your hair before?

By Sabrina Perkins · Published May 26, 2015

Allow me to reverse before proceeding. I had been hearing a lot about the famed DevaCut that was created by the Devachan Salon for cutting curly, coily, and wavy tresses. The cut is designed to work with your unique curl pattern and this technique requires special training.  It is a dry cut on curly hair. No straightening and no wetting. Your hair is cut in the manner that we wear it. Every curly girl knows wet curls look and act differently than dry curls and every curl has a mind of its own.

I have had a few bad haircuts while I was relaxed. Who hasn’t? It goes with the territory that if you grow hair on your head you will eventually be on the receiving end of a bad haircut. Well, hair grows back so no worries for most of us, but it seems like a big deal if you are a curly girl and get a bad haircut. Yes, hair grows back but have you seen what a bad haircut can do? Our curls are tricky and if you cannot cut them just right the haircut will reflect that, so I was scared. I knew the DevaCut was a proven technique and even went to the NaturallyCurly Salon Finder to find the right stylist in my area.

I found Tiffany, master stylist and educator, at a local Beauty Brands and was excited about getting the cut by someone with much experience. She sat me down and explained everything she was going to do from start to finish. She also explained she was going to cut first but very conservatively, as she wanted to see how my hair would lay after she washed and styled before cutting more if I wanted it or if the hair needed it. She cut, talked, and appeased my inquisitive sister. My sister could immediately see a difference in my hair, especially in the back because I no longer had fairy knots.

After the cut she shampooed and explained everything she was doing including adding a masque before she shampooed with DevaCurl No-Poo. She applied a gel/cream mix to my hair lightly to allow movement and then put me under the dryer for a less than ten minutes. When I was done she applied the controlling oils to a few strands that were really frizzy and before I knew it I was done. Although the finished look was frizzy due to the products, I was impressed with the shape of my hair and the lack of raggedy ends. My hair was softer and looked better with the new cut.

What she used

• Macadamia Ultra Rich Moisture Masque 
• DevaCurl No-Poo 
• DevaCurl One Condition
• DevaCurl Light Defining Gel 
• Moroccanoil Curl Defining Cream 
• Matrix Oil Wonders Amazonian Murumuru Controlling Oil 

What I learned

A consultation is necessary and should be on a different day from the cut

The stylist needs to evaluate the condition of your hair so you are prepared for the visit. I went in completely unprepared with my hair in a state I would not normally wear it. I thought it was better to wear it pretty much naked, but all I did was give her the wrong perception of how I wear my hair.

You can still learn what your hair may like

I would have never thought to use a cream and a gel on my tresses if I had not met Tiffany.  You can even wear them at the same time, because most of us have different patterns in different sections and one product may not be best for all textures.

There is no fancy magic trick with the DevaCut but rather a necessary tool to cut curly hair

I was expecting some magic cutting session, but it was more like her just taking out the time to cut every curl that needed to be trimmed. She also snipped at the top to give me some shape and I loved it!

What I will change

Wear my hair the way I wear it every day

I went to her with my hair naked (no gel and hardly any conditioner”> so it was frizz city. She obviously thought I normally wear it that way and my hair ended up that way when she was done, which was not her fault. I mislead her. The cut was fabulous, which is what mattered despite the style. I will go back with my hair frizz free. I have no doubt she will have me looking the same way I came in, but just with the awesome cut.

The DevaCut will become a regular for me at least twice a year

Call it a glorified dusting if you like but my hair is now shapely without those dreaded ogre-knots and raggedy ends. I am not sure if I need to go in more often than that but this cut is reasonable ($56″> and gives my curls more movement.

Speak to the stylist prior to meeting her/him

I should have talked to her prior to meeting her for the cut and this is just a reiteration of doing the consultation and cut on different days. Getting a feel for your stylist’s experience, knowledge, and personality impacts your experience.

I plan on going back this summer for color and have no doubts Tiffany will do an amazing job. Do your research and find someone who makes you feel comfortable, especially with your curl pattern. I am sold on the DevaCut 100%.

Have you gotten a Deva Cut?