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What’s the Real the Difference Between Unrefined & Fractionated Coconut Oil?

coconut oil for hair

Extracted from the fruit of the palm tree, this edible oil has been consumed in tropical places for thousands of years, and populations that eat a lot of coconuts are among the healthiest people on the planet. Add the benefits it brings to skin, hair, and scalp, and you can see the love for this miracle oil is well deserved. 

Despite what you may think you know about this premature-aging defying oil, coconut oil has more than one type. There are refined, unrefined (virgin”>, and fractionated coconut oils, and while they all have the amazing composition of coconut oil, there are slight differences either through extraction or processing.

What is unrefined (virgin”> coconut oil?

Virgin coconut oil is considered superior to fractionated and natural coconut oil. It has a longer shelf life, it has a more distinctive aroma, and it has the most therapeutic properties without the addition of processing or detrimental heat altering its composition.  Virgin coconut oil retains the original coconut’s chemical composition. It is made from fresh coconut meat rather than dried coconut meat, and it retains more coconut flavor because of its lack of exposure to high temperatures.

What is refined coconut oil?

Refined coconut oil is exclusively made from dried coconut meat or copra. The meat has been bleached, treated, deodorized, and processed through high heat to help extract the flavor and aroma. While some of the nutrients are stripped away in refined coconut oil, the fatty acid composition is kept intact.

What is fractionated coconut oil?

Just as the name states, fractionated coconut oil is a fraction of coconut oil with almost all of the long chain triglycerides removed through hydrolysis and steam distillation, leaving only the medium-chain triglycerides and turning it into a saturated oil. This gives the oil a very long shelf life while increasing the oil’s stability. This coconut oil variation maintains its liquid form at room temperature, but since lauric acid is removed from this oil, so are the bacteria-fighting antimicrobial properties. Fractionated coconut oil is predominately composed of capric and caprylic acids thus giving it a more antioxidant and disinfecting effect and ideal for cosmetics, lotions, ointments, and soaps.

Fractionated coconut oil still has the same moisturizing and emollient abilities as virgin coconut oil along with vitamins A, C, and E, which all help maintain collagen production. It can be added with essential oils especially essential oils that have anti-bacterial components since those portions were removed when creating the fractionated coconut oil. This will boost its benefits making it an excellent hair treatment, pre-poo, or even a sealant. Completely soluble with other oils, fractionated coconut oil is an excellent carrier oil and very light, which allows it to absorb quickly into the skin. Since there is more processing involved with fractionated coconut oil, it is slightly more expensive.

This oil can be added to any essential oil. Consider blending it with an oil containing anti-bacterial properties to replace that property which was removed from fractionated coconut oil; this will boost its benefits, making an excellent hair treatment, pre-poo, or even a sealant.

Have you tried fractionated coconut oil? 

How to Cover Your Grays (Without Damaging Your Hair)
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Some of us are not ready to embrace our wisdom silvery curls and honestly, there is nothing wrong with that. Now, if you are short on cash or time, a hair root concealer sounds like the perfect fix, right? Well, maybe. Some are saying they may be bad for our hair and Peggy-Nikki from Curly Q&A wanted the 411 and inquired about it.

Question

Are hair root concealer sprays damaging to hair? Do they cause breakage/ fall out? Are hair root concealer sprays safe to use or do they cause breakage/hair loss/dryness over time. I dye my whites every 4 weeks with permanent hair color. To avoid so many chemicals, I bought a hair color root spray (L’Oreal Magic Retouch”> but am afraid it may cause damage (like I’ve heard regular sprays do”>. I can’t find any info on internet about safety or long-term effects. Can anyone provide information?

Answer

Hair root concealers are safe to use on your hair to temporarily color grays or change your hair color in between your permanent hair coloring sessions. Now, some brands are better than others as in application, ability to blend, and longevity. That goes the same for certain ingredients, as some do contain drying alcohols. Simply put: some brands fare better than others but that is across the board with how well they work. Here is a list of the best, and why.

Color Wow Root Touch Up

Color Wow Root Touch Up is a favorite of many because of the ingredient zinc stearate, which is a color-fixing ingredient. The cosmetics database considered this a low to moderate hazard ingredient depending on the usage. It is a mineral powder that looks like makeup. It attaches to the hair easily and does need a surfactant to remove the color. With no waxes there are no worries of a dull, unnatural finish.

Oscar Blandi Pronto Colore Root Touch-Up & Highlighting Pen

Oscar Blandi Pronto Colore Root Touch-Up & Highlighting Pen is another favorite and does not have drying alcohol in it. Easy to apply and stays on overnight without messiness. It is free from ammonia and peroxide but full of conditioners.

Jonathan Product Awake Color Root Touch Up

Another mineral loose powder, this root touch-up is not just for concealing roots but also hides hair loss or thinning hair. It works fast and easy to use and does fight greasiness like a dry shampoo.

Conclusion

I would advise deep conditioning after using these or a treatment to stave off dryness and any breakage. I have listed the ones that should be less drying but even trying the best of the best requires trial and error to find out what product works the best for you in all areas. Just a reminder that dry shampoos are being used by curly girls with no adverse effects to the hair. What may have been scary to try in the past has definitely redeemed itself as of late, so try one of these brands and let us know what you think.

How to Preserve Your Flat Twist Out (Without Retwisting Every Night)
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I love a beautiful flat twist out. They are harder to create than twist out but they give a more defined and controlled style. With any style there is a nighttime routine and while some styles can be pulled up into a pineapple for safekeeping, others require more work to retain the style of the previous day. Curlyhairisbae from Curly Q&A is getting tired of styling her hair every night.

Question

How to preserve a flat twist out? I did a flat twist out on my hair and I really like it. Last night I put my hair back in into larger flat twist outs to keep the style. The thing is, I don’t want to have to do that every single night until I wash my hair again. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to preserve my flat twist out? I would do a pineapple like I usually do but the back part of my hair tends to flatten out straight it’s really hard to make that little part like the rest of my head.

Answer

No one feels for pain as much as I do when it comes to failed pineapple nighttime routines. I cannot keep the pineapple from stretching my hair’s coils out either. Needless, to say I found other ways to preserve my style.

Most everyone is going to either say retwist at night or slap on a satin bonnet to preserve your style but those two options do not work for everybody. The object is for your twists to last as long as possible while still looking fresh, frizz-free, and intact. You will want buildup free curls, a good twisting technique, the right product, and sealed ends for the best flat twist out.

If twisting every night does not work for you then flat twist every other night. This will help in keeping them fresh enough through interval retwisting. You can also flat twist or create two-strand twists the section that loses the most definition. Here are some tips that will help on that end to lessen your need to retwist nightly.

Twist as you go down

Jessica Pettway has a unique and helpful tip for twisting your hair. This helps to give the twists more definition. She has a great video showing her gorgeous flat twist out on dry, stretched hair that is a great guide for a flawless style.

Wet or dry?

Some swear by starting your flat twist on wet hair. Others swear by damp, dry, or even stretched hair but the true winner is whatever you prefer. Trying a flat twist on wet or dry hair is the only way to see which gives you the preferred look and lasts longer. This will help you determine which is more likely to have better longevity.

Get good products

What you use to help set your style is just as important as you flat twisting technique. Setting or twisting products help to control frizz and set your desired style. If you find your flat twists do not hold the style as long as you would prefer, you may need to opt for a better twisting product like As I Am Twist Defining Cream or Jane Carter Solution Natural Twist Out Foam for a flawless finish.

Roll the ends

Many curly girls have opted for rolling the ends of their twists with perm rods to help keep the ends curled, sealed, and uniform. This also gives your hair a beautiful shape, especially if you have uneven ends.

Do you have some tips for decreasing the need to retwist nightly? 

Why Weave Irritates Your Scalp, and What to Do About It
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We love what we love, and while rocking your curls, coils, and waves is amazing, changing it up like adding extensions can be fun, flirty, and the perfect pathway to spring. When using synthetic extensions, you must keep in mind that is it processed, which can cause an allergic reaction. Well, anyone can be allergic to just about anything and that anything could be synthetic hair. Rhonda.Corni inquired about itching from synthetic hair in our Curly Q&A section . 

Question

I have hair that’s soft, but like braids and weaves but hair they braid irritate my scalp need help! The synthetic hair they use irritates my scalp also need to know my hair type and what products to keep my hair soft!

Answer

This is really a three-part question but here goes: For determination on your hair type check out our hair typing quiz and all about density, width, porosity and pattern on hair here: Hairtype Quiz

Now, let’s get into why your braids get irritated and working on softness.

Irritations to synthetic hair

I too had bad experiences with extensions. The reason this occurs is because there is an alkaline lye coating on the braiding hair you purchased to produce a wear or heat resistant product. This can cause irritation or red welts along the hair line. I suffered from the welts along the nape all the time and never realized this was the cause.

How to fix the problem

There is a super, simple solution that requires water and apple cider vinegar. Simply wash or soak the hair in a water + ACV mix (sink full of clean water and 1 cup of ACV”> for about 15 min. to remove the coating, you will see white film appear in the water. Remove hair, rinse thoroughly, and allow to air-dry.

Vinegar Rinsing on Kanekalon – Prep for Box Braids

How to soften natural hair

Persons suffering from rough hair may be dealing with product buildup, not moisturizing properly, too much protein, or just excessive dryness. It depends on what is actually going on to fully fix the problem, but here are go-tos for softening your hair.

Deep condition on wash day

Deep condition to bring back to life and rebuild the cuticle temporarily. That goes along with adding softness to rough hair from shampooing. Just do it! Using a hooded dryer or heating cap will impart extra softness.

Adding humectants to hair diet

Humectants help to retain moisture to your strands. Glycerin or honey are popular humectants and can be added to your conditioners for additional moisture.

Use shampoo or clarifying shampoo if you have buildup

You may co-wash often but shampoos still have a place in a curly girl’s life. Hair accumulates product buildup overtime and with increased product application, so you will need shampoo, clay, or oat water to thoroughly cleanse your hair and regain its natural softness.

Read more: 100% Natural Cleansers that Won’t Dry Your Hair Out

Apply leave-in with a light hand

Being heavy-handed with stylers like gels and hair butters can often cause the buildup problem and leave hair hard, coated, and even sticky. Less is more when it comes to stylers.

Hot oil treatments

They are great for getting hair softer and moisturized, so try doing these weekly to see if you notice a difference.

How to Detangle Matted Hair, and Stop It from Happening Again
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Some curly girls face problems that require more assistance than others. Whether it is a weekly issue or just a problem from wearing extensions too long, a tangle can outgrow a tangle and turn into something else. Jasmina inquired about a not so talked about problem that quite a few curly girls face in our Curly Q&A

Question

Can anyone tell what causes of matted hair? This is my main problem and I still can’t solve it.

What is matted hair?

Matted hair is the combination of attached and shed hairs entwined in clumps or web-like tangles. They are more severe than regular tangles. Some are just prone to matted hair, but many experience matted hair when wearing braided extensions or other extensions too long.

How does it happen?

Matted hair occurs when it has not been combed to remove shed hairs. Loose hairs can knot several times around attached hair, create a tangle, and lead to matting if not removed. Some people are just prone to knotting while other may be suffering from a damaged hair cuticle, causing more friction from the lifted cuticles.

Does it have to be cut out?

No, matted hair can be successfully detangled without cutting the hair. It takes patience, work, and product, but it can be accomplished and end up saving your strands and your nerves from being shot. Yanking or ripping the hair apart leads to further damage to your strands. No one likes dealing with matted hair.

How to detangle it

While some may decide to seek a professional (hair stylist”> to fix their matted hair, it can be done at home with a few tools and some serious patience.

Step 1 – Loosen
Loosen the matted strands by saturating with an excellent detangler, oil, or moisturizing conditioner but never a shampoo and water only. This is not the time to skimp so really saturate it. Some will allow the hair to sit for up to 30 minutes with the detangler and some even add heat to really get the product to loosen and soften the strands.
Step 2 – Pull apart
Use fingers or a wide tooth comb to gently pull apart the strands, but take your time. The goal is to detangle your a hair and decrease further damage. Make sure to hold onto the hair near the root to prevent yanking and pain. 

There will be significant shedding so do not panic and remember we lose on average 100 hairs a day, and since the hair is matted those shed hairs are locked in and need removal.

How to keep hair from matting

  • Do detangle regularly to decrease the chances of it occurring, especially if you are prone to matting
  • Do not put off detangling, as it may turn into a more tedious and damaging detangling session or matting
  • Do regular protein treatments to fill the gaps in damaged cuticles, as this will decrease friction, tangles, and matting
  • Do not keep extensions in any longer than advised

Have you experienced matted hair? How did you fix it?

The Benefits of Blue Malva for Hair
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Beautiful hair takes work, and while advancements in the beauty industry continues to thrive, using what the earth bears naturally for ingredients is becoming a daily practice. I love learning about the newest hot ingredient to get healthy hair and the benefits of the malva leaf is no disappointment. Blue Malva’s botanical name is Malva Sylvestiris and part of the Malvaceae family. It is also known as high mallow, common mallow, blue mallow, or hollyhock flower. 

Benefits of blue malva

The flowers of the blue malva contain a blue pigment that was once used as a natural blue rinse for graying hair before chemicals were commonly used. Blue malva, like all mallows, relieves inflammation and has soothing qualities. Mostly known for countering irritation and inflammation, it is often used for lowering stomach acids and even relieving gastrointestinal disorders like indigestion or ulcers.

Blue malva is also a natural expectorant that helps to loosen and expel phlegm as well as congestion in the lungs. Despite these medicinal remedies, this fragrant flower finds its ways into conditioners, perfumes, and even shampoos for its cooling properties.

Benefits of blue malva for hair

Not just for soothing stomachs and sore throats, blue malva’s anti-inflammatory properties are soothing for those with scalp conditions. With its natural cooling properties and mucilage, blue malva is excellent as an emollient for dry skin and sun. It is also mildly astringent and helps with psoriasis, eczema, boils, abscesses, and wounds. The flower can be steeped into a tea and great for giving gray hair a more silver look. This plant—whether used as an extract or steeped in a tea—has several positive attributes to one’s scalp and hair.

Here are some products below that use the power of blue malva.

DIY Blue malva detangling hair rinse

  • 1 tsp. blue malva herb
  • 1 tsp. Irish moss
  • 1 tsp. hibiscus powder
  • 1 cup hot water

Bring water to a boil and turn off heat before adding herbs. Cover and allow to steep for about 15 to 20 min. Remove herbs by straining through a fine sieve or cheesecloth and allow to cool. Pour entire mixture over head after rinsing out your conditioner and do not rinse out. Style as usual.

You can follow the exact instructions but use only the blue malva herbs to create a soothing hair rinse.

"Henna Turned My Hair Orange" – Here’s How to Fix It

Permanently changing hair color has limited options. You can either use standard permanent dye from the drugstore or salon or henna, and we are seeing more women in the natural hair community opting for the latter for obvious reasons. Henna is natural and less damaging to your hair than using chemical dyes. It is much cheaper than traditional hair dye. That does not mean it will never cause havoc, which can happen if you are not fully knowledgeable on what henna does and is. Carol.Robins inquired about a mishap she had using henna in our Curly Q&A that many may or have encountered when coloring with henna. 

Question

I have been using henna with great results, this time my hair turned orange. How do I fix this? I’m 54 with bright orange clown looking hair, what will tone this down? I used henna, coffee, yogurt, apple cider vinegar, olive oil, molasses,  and coconut oil.  Not sure why it is so brassy this time.

Answer

The short answer is to go over your hair with indigo to darken the orange henna dyed your hair and it will be dark brown or black. If you are okay with that then you are good to go. You also many need to wait a few days for the oxidation process and the orange may subside to red. Here are some explanations on what henna and indigo are, and what may have caused your hair to turn orange.

What is henna?

Henna or Lawsonia inermis is a flowering plant that contains a very effective coloring pigment, Lawsone. A reddish-orange dye releases as the leaves are crushed. The pigment is maximized by the drying, milling, and sifting the henna leaves into a fine powder. Used since antiquity to dye fingernails, skin, hair, leather, and wool, the henna plant is native to tropical and subtropical regions in Africa, northern Australia, and southern Asia. 100% natural henna will only dye orange-reddish tones despite seeing some commercial brands claiming several henna colors.

What is indigo?

Indigo or Indigofera tinctoria produces a dark blue almost purplish dye that is among the oldest dyes used for textile and printing. Sometimes called black henna, Indigo will color the hair brown to black tones and will make existing dark hair colors even darker.

Why go over the henna with indigo?

Indigo is alkaline and reacts with henna, which is acidic to turn henna dyed hair from brown or red to black. They work quite well together and are often used to dye grays naturally.

What type of henna should you purchase?

As stated above, 100% natural henna will only dye hair a reddish-orange and any brands that claim it will dye it other colors is using other ingredients with their henna. There is no guarantee what you may end up with or how it will affect your strands.

How to fix a henna mishap?

Applying indigo will react with the henna and darken it to either a dark brown or even black. That may not be what you are opting for, but you may prefer it over the bright red orange. You may have used a different brand, the henna may be old, or your ingredient had some variations in your last application of the henna. Some add coffee and teas like chamomile to keep their hair from turning the reddish, orange color but going over the hair with indigo is the best way to remove the reddish-orange to a darker color.

Has henna ever turned your hair orange? 

4 Ways to Feel Even More Beautiful in Your TWA
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Teeny Weeny Afro (TWA”> is a small afro, and while it started out as a method for going natural, it has turned into a trendy, sexy style that encompasses more than merely embracing a natural hair journey. 

Scores of women realized this was no longer just a method for returning natural, but an embodiment of style. Some feel limited with styles, and while stepping out of your comfort zone may be easy for many, some women feel compelled to either transition or wear wigs and extensions for more versatility. If that is your prerogative, then by all means do you boo, but if you want to thoroughly enjoy the loving spirit of the TWA, then we are here to share just how to do it and do it well.

Embrace your beauty

Self-love is a necessary component in maintaining a healthy body and mind. Loving yourself should come naturally to all of us, but sometimes it does not. Love your amazingly beautiful self inside and out, and that includes the natural coils that grace your beautiful head. Your natural hair is unique and lovely, and as you dance to the beat of your own style, make sure to look at your exquisite features and love every curve, dimple, discoloration, and mark that makes you unique.

Embrace your natural hair changes

The upside to chopping off your relaxed ends is working with only one hair texture. Transitioning can be rewarding but challenging. As your hair grows it may go through plenty of changes in the first few years as you moisturize and nurture it. Be aware of the changes and take them in strides, as that acceptance will make for less bad hair days.

Embrace your texture

What you start off with in texture when you first BC may not be what you end up with at month six, year one, or even year two, and that should be perfectly okay. Whatever your hair’s texture, density or porosity, make sure to love your unique head of hair. All textures are beautiful. While it may seem everyone loves a particular texture, every type from 4C to 2A can master beautiful styles from wash and goes to twist out and beyond. Check out YouTube videos of vloggers with textures that mirror yours for styling choices or hit up a curly hair stylist for tips on styles perfect for your hair type.

Pump up the accessories and styles

Now, short hair is not for everyone and when I did the BC, I felt slightly less feminine at the time because of it, and there is no need for me to even lie about it. I did however begin rocking brighter and bolder lipstick and earrings and a sista felt better about my short hairdo immediately. Accessories can be makeup, jewelry, color, or a hat. ThatIsKei and ImShineStruck share how they rock their TWAs and the immeasurable ways it transforms their look with each accessory, technique, and color.

The takeaway

Yes, you can rock a TWA in more than one way. Limit only to your liking because there are numerous ways to rock a TWA, from adding scarves to creating a part. Once you see the beauty within yourself and your hair, the enjoyment you will have creating a new natural you will be liberating, easy, and fun. Sometimes we just have to get out of our own critical way.

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5 New-to-Me Products I’m Dying to Try in 2016

I am not a product junkie (PJ”>. While I can occasionally be swayed by my PJ sister, I am a creature of habit madly in love with SheaMoisture, Kinky-Curly, and As I Am. I do feel it is time to try some new products, especially since a few have been on my mind for months. I have expectations that always need to be considered like natural ingredients, CG friendly, silicone-free, and protein-free unless I am specifically looking for a protein treatment. 

I can be picky but that just means I like what I like with no qualms about expecting high quality ingredients and performance from my products. I am a lazy natural, not a neglectful one, but I thrive on easy. Here are five products that will make their way into my hands and hair before the year is out.

I am a lazy natural, not a neglectful one, but I thrive on easy.

ApHogee Two-Step Protein Treatment 

I have been eyeing it for years, and despite the host of positive reviews, I have simply not given it a try. My old standby of Aubrey Organics GPB has run off (I know it was my daughter”>, so this is the perfect time to give it a whirl.

Curl Junkie Coffee-Coco Curl Crème 

I love coffee. It is my breakfast dessert. Even before I began drinking it daily ten years ago, I have always loved the aroma and the warmth coffee gives me when I smell it.  I do coffee rinses a few times a year for benefits of caffeine to my scalp, so trying a product with my favorite morning desert is in no way odd or surprising. Distilled water, fatty alcohols, aloe vera juice, and vegetable glycerin with coffee further down the list is a great combination for a leave-in conditioner, so I will be trying this before summer.

DevaCurl Heaven In Hair 

I am not going to lie. The ingredients in DevaCurl Heaven In Hair sold me on trying this product for 2016. Water, yarrow extract, matricaria leaf extract, lemongrass extract, hops extract, and lemon balm are the first six ingredients. It helps that it is well-received by curly girls and not too pricey for a try whenever I feel my strands are in need. I live in Denver, so moisturizing products are a must.

Ouidad Wave Create Sea Spray

I am a beach bum who finally wants to give sea salt spray a chance, since I found out it is for all hair types and not just for wavies. Water, sea salt, propylene glycol, sea water, panthenol, hydrolyzed algin make up the first six ingredients and it promises a natural tousled and textured look without the crunch or stiffness. Just spray into damp hair and scrunch (I never need to do that but what the hey”> and allow to air-dry. That is easy enough for a lazy natural and will be my go-to summer look if it all works out.

Original Moxie Shape Shifter Re-Forming Crème 

I love creamy gels in warmer months, and while last year I really enjoyed trying Curls Curl Soufflé, I want to give another brand a try and see what they have to offer. This is another favorite from curly girls and it promises a great flexible hold with water, flaxseed gel, jojoba oil, aloe vera leaf, citric acid, and fatty acids. I am excited about the ingredient lineup and that it is sulfate, paraben, and phthalates free.

What products are you trying this year?

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"Can You Permanently Stretch Your Hair?"
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Our coils are quite fragile in comparison to naturally straighter strands and while we often fear harsh ingredients, we need to take heed to detrimental styling habits. Daily styling can be damaging if you are utilizing tools and too much tension. Even your go-to hairstyles can cause unseen damage. One common reason many coily girls stretch their hair is to combat shrinkage, but can stretching become damaging and if so to what degree of stretching is safe as opposed to causing breakage? Tarah.Bishop from Curly Q&A inquired in is concerned about wearing buns regularly.

Question

“Can you permanently stretch your hair? I like to wear my hair in buns a lot (because I’m trying to grow my hair out”> and although I take really good care of my hair (the curl pattern is consistent from root to tip”> but I have this section of my hair that won’t curl. I do straighten my hair (maybe 2-3 times a year”> but it’s not heat damage, I think I’ve permanently stretched my hair or at least “trained” the hair to be looser by always stretching it in that area? I was wondering if anyone else has that problem and knows what hairstyles I can do to re-train the curl.”

Answer

It sounds like your problem is occurring from damaging the hair’s cuticle in that area due to excessing stretching. There are several reasons why over-stretching or wearing your hair up in the same style too often is a bad idea, but let’s get into what safe and excessive stretching are first.

Hair elasticity measures the strength of the hair strand and the ability of it to stretch without breaking and going back to its original state. Healthy hair is elastic with a healthy cortex (cortex is the strength bearing part of hair”>. According to The Natural Haven, low levels of stretching are just fine but excessive stretching or stretching hair over the safe limit (20-30% of the strand”> can damage the hair’s cuticle. Excessive stretching can be wearing overly tight buns, ponytails, braids, or other updos and protective styles, especially with hair bands and extensions. Many are cautious about chemical and thermal damage but overlook the effects of mechanical damage.

That part of your hair that seems stretched permanently may be where your bun is pulled the most and has the most damage. Here are tips on keeping hair safe during stretching styles.

Try not to stretch or wear wet hair up

Wet hair is considerably weaker than dry or damp hair. Stretching or wearing it up while wet (stretching is still occurring”> makes it vulnerable to break. Hair is more pliable when damp but dry hair lacks flexibility.

Change up your go-to style

Wearing your hair up every day in a tight bun and/or ponytail may be easy to maintain but it can cause your strands to break where they are being held or even pulling at the roots. Protective styles like buns, braids, and updos need to be changed up for a much needed break. When I had box braids I waited only one or two days in between installations, and while box braids are a protective style, the waiting period I gave my hair was not enough and my edges suffered dramatically.

Time for a protein treatment

If your hair stretches excessively when wet, then it is time to incorporate a protein treatment or conditioner. Protein treatments help rebuild the hair’s cuticle that has been chipped away from heat styling, chemicals, and manipulation from washing and styling. Protein treatments strengthen your strands to get your elasticity back on track. Do not forget to deep condition each wash day, as they temporarily strengthen the hair after the stresses of cleansing and your daily styling. Protein treatments are great but remember that healthy hair needs a protein moisture balance.

Read more: Do You Over-Moisturize Your Hair? Understanding Hygral Fatigue

Try a new style, haircut, or trim

Your hair may need some professional assistance with a new look to help get you out of that style you were stuck in. I know I needed it when I went in for my last Deva Cut and it helped me to break away from my current part down the middle and keep me from looking so dated. Fixing the problem by strengthening your strands is not enough if you are going to go back to the same style that created the problem in the first place. It is time to try a new style or try varying updos so excessive stretching does not become another headache in the future.

Read more: Top 8 Protein Treatments for Natural Hair

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5 Ingredients to Look for When Shopping for Curly Hair Products
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The best way to buy hair products without wasting money is to know what you are looking for in products, and that includes the ingredients. We no longer purchase solely on product claims. We delve into the ingredient listing to ensure it will do what we need it to do without harming our curls or color.

Basics in hair care products

Hair care products contain so many ingredients that shopping can be an overwhelming experience. We all need to clean, condition and style our curls, so knowing the backbone of what can be found in most products helps to determine if the brand you are interested in has what you need.

Here are a list of ingredients that can be found in most products and what they can and may do to and for your hair.

1. Ceramides

Ceramides are natural occurring long chain lipids (oils”> and a major component in surface skin structure and in hair cuticles. It is different from the oil on the outside of the hair surface called sebum. According to The Natural Haven, ceramides act as a glue to hold all the layers of hair intact or as most of us know, keep the layers smooth or flat as opposed to raised. They are necessary for their water retention capacity, cellular regulation and repair, and hair elasticity while combatting dryness. Oils with excellent concentrations of ceramides are safflower oil, grapeseed oil, hemp seed oil, and sunflower oil.

Here are some popular products with ceramides:

Read more: Damaged Hair Repair Doesn’t Stop at Proteins
2. Essential fatty acids

Many of the natural oils we love for our curls have fatty acids 3 and 6 but there are even some with all three like flaxseed oil, hemp seed oil, and soybean oil. Other oils include almond oil, avocado oil, and coconut oil. These oils are amazing all on their own, but here are a few products utilizing the powers of these fatty acids to make them greater.

Read more: You Need These Good Fats for Healthy Hair
3. Humectants

Humectants are key ingredients that attract moisture to hair the skin. They aid in volumizing hair by pulling in moisture like a water magnet, which expands the hair shaft. Most popular among curly girls is glycerin. Glycerin, sorbitol, and honey are popular humectants found in hair products. Here are some products utilizing humectants:

Read more: The Ultimate Guide to Humectants and Hair
4. Natural oils

There are essential oils and carrier oils that range in properties from antioxidants to anti-inflammatories to aiding in blocking UV rays. Their benefits are immeasurable for our hair and scalp. There are too many oils to list but popular essential oils like lavender oil or rosemary oil or carrier oils like coconut oil or olive oil are found in hundreds of products from shampoos to conditioners to styling aids. Here are two products containing the essential or carrier natural oils that textured-haired women love.

5. Proteins

According to Medical News Today, proteins are large molecules consisting of amino acids that our bodies and the cells within our bodies need to properly function. Keratin is a protein in skin, hair, and nails that can be depleted by chemical, thermal, and mechanical damage. You can find proteins mostly in conditioner and some moisturizers, but if proteins are going to actually help our strands then they need to be small enough to attach the hair shaft.

Read moreThese 6 Proteins Must be Hydrolyzed…If You Want Them to Work

Any ingredients you want more information on? Let us know below in the comments.

This is How You Should Show Up at the Salon for a Haircut
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It is a brand new world out there for the curly girl who wants to get a trim or a cut at a salon. The horror stories are plentiful and horrendous and quite often mirror a horror film with sharp shears, scary cuts, and tears. With recent years, curly professional hairstylists have emerged to bring smiles and gorgeous cuts. 

Despite the number of professional hairstylists available, many curly girls are still leery and want to be knowledgeable about what the hairstylist needs to know, so they get the amazing cut or trim they desire. July.Young from our Curly Q&A asks about the proper way to get a trim.

Question

How should I wear my hair when I go to get it trimmed? Wet or dry?

Answer

Many are still wondering if they should get a haircut with their curls in its natural state or straightened, and while many opt for curly, knowing if hair should be wet as opposed to dry is something that needs addressing. It depends on the type of cut you are getting and that depends on the stylist and how they were trained. Here are some tips from the most popular three curly girl cuts we are seeing.

The DevaCut (dry hair”>

This cut is optimal for the avid wash and goer like me and I absolutely love this cut. The cut is done on dry hair then the cleansing, conditioning, and styling follows to see if additional cutting is necessary. It is customized to work with your own unique curl pattern and requires special training to learn. The focus is sculpting each and every curl, cutting at an angle so the curl pattern is not disrupted. They cut each curl ringlet by ringlet and there is never any texturizing or thinning. Each and every cut is customized for the client.

Read more: 9 Amazing Deva Cut Transformations

The Ouidad Cut (wet hair”>

The Ouidad Carving & Slicing cut removes the bulk many curlies have and hate: that pyramid or Christmas tree look. Many (ones with much thicker hair than mine”> find this cut helpful at de-bulking and enhancing their curls. This cut is done on wet hair and the Ouidad certified stylist has undergone rigorous training to master this technique.

Read more: My Long to Short Curly Haircut at Ouidad

The RI CI cut (wet hair”>

From wavy to coily this cut can be for any curly girl. This cut is designed to help control the curls by opening up the interior to make room for each and every curl, coil, or wave. The focus is on the weight and density of the hair instead of the curl pattern. They approach each section individually and cut only where they need to.

Read more: No, Deva Cut is not the Only Haircut for Curly Hair…

The takeaway

Once you have found the perfect stylist ask which cut they have been trained in and make sure to book a consultation so they can determine what you want and what your hair requires. What technique they choose will determine whether a wet or dry cut is necessary for you. It is not standard

How to Control Frizz While You’re Transitioning
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There is a host of concerns when someone chooses to transition from relaxed to natural hair, from what products to use to how to wear your curls, coils, and waves. Whether you are transitioning or already working with your natural texture, frizz is common concern. Marciacounts asks about transitioning and frizz control in Curly Q&A and it is right on time. 

Question

How do I control frizz while transitioning? I’m transitioning from relaxed hair and I haven’t put heat to it in over 3 months and haven’t used a relaxer in over a year! I’ve been perm rod and flexi rodding but after a few days I tend to have a frizz problem! What can I use?

Answer

You are off to an excellent start on a healthy hair transitioning path by eliminating heat from your regimen, so congrats on that. As far as frizz becoming an issue with your perm flexi rod sets, here are some tips for more longevity and less frizz.

Detangle fully

Before setting your hair, make sure it is fully detangled to ensure smooth results. Never rush through your detangling session, as it will only make for a less smooth look and feel to your hair.

Use taut techniques

You are working with two (or more”> different textures when transitioning. To ensure that roots to the ends are smooth and consistent, extend your sections taut when wrapping or rolling the hair on the rods. You can be gentle and make sure the hair is wrapped smoothly and evenly for a firm set that will last longer and stave off the frizz.

Use proper setting products

Back in the day everyone knew to use Lottabody setting lotion for the perfect roller set. Setting lotions are designed to be used on wet hair so the hair sets how it dries. They really are the best product for setting your hair and for less frizz in the days to come. Make sure you get one specifically for roller sets (can be used on perm or flexi rods too”> and you will see a huge difference in the lasting of your curls as well as less frizz.

Read more: Top 15 Alcohol-free Mousses

Hair needs to be 100% dry

Make sure your hair is completely dry before removing rods and rollers. Allow your hair to dry overnight or even sit under a hooded dryer in the morning or before bed. When you release your curls before they are dry, your hair will respond to the humidity by shrinking and expanding to frizz.

Protect hair at night

Satin or silk will become your best friend for eliminating frizz while you sleep. A satin, scarf, or pillowcase is necessary to keep hair moisturized and curls staying frizz-free. Cotton scarves and pillowcase will absorb moisture from your hair, making it dry and prone to breakage.

Do not touch hair often (or at all”>

Do not mindlessly touch your curls, as that can encourage frizz throughout the day and week. Fluff and style accordingly, but constant touching and separating too often will cause frizz and make you lose your style and smoothness. You will be surprised how often we mindlessly touch our hair and how it affects the longevity of our styles.

Find a frizz, roll a frizz

If you find some curls are frizzing up then restyle that section and fluff it to match the others after it dries. This is great for overnight and this will allow your style to last longer.

Change your style

If you are all frizzed out then change the style completely but creating a new one. A curly afro, messy bun, ninja bun, rocking a hat will recreate your style and allow for you to not have to redo your hair all over again. Certain styles look better with frizz because it is unique and creates volume, so just work with what you have until wash day.

TRESemmé’s New Pre-Wash Conditioner: Can You Imagine Shampooing and NOT Conditioning After?

We love seeing new products on the market for curly girls. It is exciting and a constant reminder that curly girls whether they rock curls, waves, or coils can find products to nurture, reduce frizz, and soften their hair. Despite all the love we are seeing with an array of products, some curly girls still find problems like adding volume to their hair. However, what may seem like just a problem for a few is actually a problem for many.

For some curly girls, especially those with looser curl patterns, conditioner actually weighs hair down and not just oils or heavy styling products. No matter how light or thin, for some of our fine-haired curly girls (like myself”> conditioner is loved and hated. This issue does not get much time on hair blogs and sites for curly girls as many believe that all curly girls have huge, voluminous hair. Speaking as a fine-haired curly girl who struggles with volume, the belief we all have volume cannot be further from the truth. I have always wanted big hair, but I have fine hair and only crave the bigness of some other curly girls.

While genetics, age, hormones, or hair practices may or may not contribute to a lack of volume for some, TRESemmé has come out with an entire line for women who are volume seekers tired of stiff, crunchy hair and the weight of conditioners.

What is the TRESemmé Beauty-Full Volume Collection?

TRESemmé Beauty-Full Volume Collection is a 4 step, 5 product formula that turns the wash day upside-down and on its side. Here is the line-up:

What we find the most intriguing is the TRESemmé Beauty-Full Volume Pre-wash Conditioner. Conditioner going before the shampoo and not after is a new concept so we reached out to TRESemmé for some insight into this new product.

“The Pre-Wash Conditioner is a part of the brand’s new Beauty-Full Volume reverse wash system – the only system that gives you soft, touchable volume by conditioning first to soften and shampooing second to wash away weight.” TRESemmé

Not conditioning hair after cleansing seems foreign to most women, but especially a curly girl as we are addicted (and rightfully so”> to our conditioner.

Pre-condition to soften

TRESemmé Beauty-Full Volume Pre-wash Conditioner claims to:

• Reinforce the hair’s natural protective layer using the Fiber Polishing technology

• Protect the hair during washing to leave it smooth and polished

• Be safe for color-treated hair

• Work best with TRESemmé Beauty-Full Volume Shampoo

After the pre-wash conditioner protects and conditions the hair, you apply the shampoo and then the Volume Hair Maximizer to tame the frizz and give hair its manageability. The shampoo does more than cleanse; it also has the job of leaving hair smooth and polished.

It seems each component has a very different job from traditional wash day products. While it seems backwards and on its side, the road to voluminous hair may very well be an unfamiliar road that starts with conditioning and ends with a halo of touchable gorgeousness.

Is this a pre-poo?

Not conditioning hair after cleansing seems foreign to most women, but especially a curly girl as we are addicted (and rightfully so”> to our conditioner. Many of us practice the method of pre-pooing, which we define in our NaturallyCurly Glossary as “applying an oil or conditioner prior to shampooing to help the hair maintain necessary moisture during the drying shampoo process.” Perhaps TRESemmé has been listening to the curly community. But even when we pre-poo we still cleanse and condition as we normally would, so it will be interesting to see if this product can really provide the moisture needed to keep our curls happy.

Have you tried the line and if so what did you think of it?

Editor’s note: This post is not sponsored. 

9 Best Cream Gels for Strong and Flexible Curl Definition

Styling products for curly girls are expanding. From mousse to gels to heat protectants, we expect high quality ingredients that allow for supreme hair but not at the expense of the health of our hair. As the winter comes to a close, many curly girls may be ready to embark on different products for spring for a wedding, prom, and graduation. Light, airy curls are coming into mind with flowers and lots of bounce and shine. 

I love movement in my hair, and while I worry not about this during winter, I do start to look forward to a warm breeze blowing through my strands. I am a gel lover but I do change up during spring to give my hair a lighter touch with volume and little frizz, and some prefer a softer gel that gives hold and bounce.

What is a gel cream?

Creamy gels are hairstyling gels that are lighter than traditional styling gels and offer a different styling option. They tend to be more moisturizing and lighter in nature. They give a more natural hold and some give a gel cast depending on the product and how much you use. Here are ten hard-working but curl-loving cream gels you will love.

Bumble and bumble Bb. Texture Hair (Un”> Dressing Crème

This gel cream is more for the beachy, wavy look that adds texture. Get the messy tousled look with this styler that contains PEG-40 hydrogenated castor oil.

Darcy’s Botanicals Curling Cream Gel 

Create effortless twists, braids, and roller sets with Darcy’s Curling Cream Gel. You will get plenty of slip and hold with cetearyl alcohol, hydroxypropyl methylcellulose (viscoelastic polymer”>, and cetyl alcohol.

DevaCurl Styling Cream

Water, cetearyl alcohol, glycerin, behentrimonium chloride, tapioca starch, and cetrimonium chloride (emulsifying or conditioning agent”> create this popular conditioning cream with hold and moisture. DevaCurl Styling Cream fights frizz like a gel but soft like a cream.

L’ORÉAL EverCurl Sculpt & Hold Cream-Gel

A holding cream gel that hydrates and conditions without weighting down your curls seems like too good to be true but L’ORÉAL has created a formula ready for the challenge. Water, glycerin, butylene glycol (conditioning agent”>, and hibiscus esculentus seed extract (okra”> are create a richly hydrating cream that shapes and conditions without adding weight.

MATRIX Biolage Defining Gel-Cream For Curly Hair 

Enhance your curl definition without buildup with Matrix gel-cream for curly hair. Water, cetearyl alcohol, mineral oil, guar hydroxypropyltrimonium chloride (conditioning agent”>, and glycerin make up a gel-cream leave-in that controls unruly curls while still maintaining an effortless bounce. This gel-cream is safe for color-treated curls.

Original Moxie Shape Shifter Re-Forming Crème 

Original Moxie created an elasticizing cream-gel that gives amazing hold with supreme conditioning. The water, flaxseed gel, jojoba oil, aloe barbadensis leaf, and behentrimonium methosulfate (mild hair detangler”> create this floral waxy cream is non-greasy and ultra-rich. Detangle, smooth, condition, and gain supple strands in no time.

Ouidad VitalCurl™ Define & Shine Styling Gel-Cream 

Ouidad VitalCurl™ Define & Shine Styling Gel-Cream is a non-sticky, defining and shining gel-cream that has water, VP/VA Copolymer (film former”>, propylene glycol, hydrolyzed silk, milk thistle extract as the first few ingredients. This new styling technology by Ouidad was created to plump the hair shaft with a dose of moisture while forming curls for long-lasting definition.

SoCozy Boing Curl Gel-Cream 

Get the best of both worlds with a creamy formula that moisturizes and smooths for soft, touchable strands. Gain defined and frizz-free curls with water, soybean oil, sorbitol, fatty acids, and glycerin. It has a lightweight formula without the crunch or stickiness we hat.

TRESemmé Expert Selection Runway Collection Shaping Gel Cream 

TRESemmé Expert Selection Runway Collection Shaping Gel Cream is perfect for hold with massive movement for your curls and waves. Get touchable hair perfect for the runway with softness from jojoba oil.

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How to Keep Your Hair Moisturized (Once Your Mom Stops Doing It For You)
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Most little girls have strong, healthy hair when their mothers are caring for it, and when the reigns are handed off to the daughter the hair tends to lose some of its luster and health. Sometimes it is because we do not care for it as well as our mother did and other times it is because we are trying to find our own way and test give new products and techniques. Learning how to care for your own hair can be challenging but it is not impossible, and often we may need to step back and reexamine what was working in the first place.

Brejenn.Alle from Curly Q&A inquired about caring for her hair now that she is doing it solo. She is having a few issues with getting it moisturized and healthy like her mother did.

Question

“How do I keep my 4C hair moisturized on a 15 year old girl’s budget? I’ve been natural the whole 15 years of my life, but until recently my Mom has always done my hair for me. She used Bergamot Blue Magic hair grease and regular shampoo she styled every other day and my hair was always super moisturized, shiny, and all around healthy looking. I did some research, and figured out that petroleum wasn’t good for your hair and neither are sulfate shampoos. So I ditched them both for natural things around the kitchen that are raved about online. Olive oil, coconut oil, Shea butter, and avocado oil are all things I use in my hair. I rinse with vinegar and egg and lots of other DIY “naturally healthy” cleansers. But my hair isn’t half of what it used to be with Mama’s traditional hair grease. I need major help because it’s all dry and brittle and my ends are breaking off. (Which doesn’t help when I’m trying to grow it long!”> Any suggestions? What am I doing wrong? Is petroleum really bad for my hair? This is too much for my 15 year old brain girls. Help me out!”

Answer

Despite all the negativity surrounding mineral oil and petroleum oil, many curly girls are happy and have healthy hair using it. Mineral oil is more occlusive than some oils and is a great way to lock in moisture for your tresses. Hair grease is still being used today and if you are not heavy-handed and find it to work great on your hair then you really have no reason to stop using it. It sounds like your mother had an effective regimen going with your hair and if it was healthy back then going back may be idea. By all means do not feel you have to alter what worked just because some find those ingredients to be bad for their hair. We are all unique and have to find out what works for each of us to maintain healthy strands. Here are a few tips on getting your hair back to its healthy state.

Return back to what worked with tweaks

You can still incorporate some new things like alternating between the sulfate-shampoo and sulfate-free shampoo to give your hair a break from sulfates. Just tweak what your mother did to find works for you but do not feel you have to give up hair grease or sulfate-shampoo because others did.

Deep condition on wash day

Make sure to deep condition after every wash to keep your hair moisturized too. You can add some of those oils you mentioned to your deep conditioner and allow it to warm under a plastic cap or a thermal cap for 30 min. to really give your hair some TLC and help those brittle strands.

You may need a trim

Raggedy or dry ends are often a clue that it may be time for a trim. It never helps to keep those broken ends and often just sealing them is a temporary fix but when trying to retain length holding onto split ends is the biggest way to not retain it. A regular schedule on trims may not be necessary, so do not feel you have to keep one. Just seeing how your ends respond to moisturizing and sealing and you will be able to determine when a trim is necessary.

Read more: A Broke College Student’s Guide to Healthier Hair 

What Is Stearyl Dimethicone?
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To love or not to love silicones…is that really the question or can the question be can we do both? Silicones are not the enemy but rather some silicones are to curly girls and for good reason. They can weigh our hair down with a vengeance and then stay on our strands and scalp if not removed thoroughly. Despite their negative connotations, silicones can do a lot of good for skin and hair, namely giving a protective barrier to strands so heat styling tools cannot cause heat damage. They also make hair smoother, softer, and easier to manage so in all fairness not all silicones are bad. In the same token, not all silicones are good either and it takes learning about each to find out which category they fall into and whether or not they are good for curly girls. 

Good vs. bad silicones

There are good silicones for hair as well as bad, and the good tend to be water-soluble, which allow for easy removal and are great for curly girls who co-wash often. The bad would be the non water-soluble silicones, which require either using a clarifying shampoo or a shampoo with sulfates to remove them. Whether water-soluble or non-water soluble, all types of silicones coat the hair and need to be removed.

Read more: Silicones: Good, Bad, and the Ugly

What is stearyl dimethicone?

Stearyl dimethicone is a siloxane polymer that is a synthetic skin-conditioning agent. It adds opacity with a protective layer that gives hair a silky and softer feel. This waxy ingredient is often used in skin and hair emulsions, color cosmetics, and some deodorant sticks.

Pros

Stearyl dimethicone is a non-greasy silicone that adds a silky gloss to hair and improves pigment dispersion. It is safe to use on skin and hair and often used because of the silky feel or slip it gives to hair without being or looking greasy.

Cons

Stearyl dimethicone requires a sulfate shampoo or a clarifying shampoo for thorough removal. It can leave your roots looking and feeling greasy (over time if not properly removed”>. Always remember to follow up with a deep conditioner after using a sulfate shampoo to prevent further damage from an open cuticle.

Dimethicone vs. Dimethiconol

According to scientific consultant Yolanda Anderson, both of these two polymers often get mistaken for one another because they are essentially equivalent in their performance in regard to the amount of deposition and when coming hair wet. The differences lie in their performance in other instances occurs because dimethiconol has an increased molecular weight and has a different end group with hydroxyl (-OH”> groups and most of those groups contain alcohols. Despite those differences they are very similar.

The Takeaway

Stearyl dimethicone can give a silky gloss and make hair look and feel softer, but the buildup will be problematic and if used often will mean a continuous use of sulfates or clarifying shampoos. Curly hair cannot afford using sulfates regularly so this type of silicone should be used sparingly if your hair cannot manage shampoo frequently.

What Is Bis-aminopropyl Dimethicone?
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We love our readers! You keep us on our toes on everything from ingredients to hair tools to styles. We have been discussing silicones lately because they are always on our minds and one of our amazing readers, Adrinah, wanted to know about bis-aminopropyl dimethicone, which is found in Aussie Moist and Herbal Essence. Many of our beloved hair care brands and products have several key components that we are curious about. By learning what they are and what they can do for our hair we become smarter, ingredient-savvy consumers.

Read more: Silicones: Good, Bad, and Ugly

Why we love and hate silicones

We cannot stress enough the importance in knowing that not all silicones are bad and many actually have favorable benefits. If we have to put them in the good, bad, and downright ugly category, then it would be the water-soluble (good”>, semi-soluble (bad”>, and the water-insoluble (ugly”>. Water-soluble silicones will always fare better as they can be removed easily with water but bad or ugly require clarifying shampoos or sulfates and too much use of those can be counter-productive to moisture retention hair.

What is bis-aminopropyl dimethicone?

Bis-aminopropyl dimethicone is very similar to amodimethicone. These modified silicones have specific properties, which allow them to be excellent conditioning agents and create a protective barrier on the hair strands. They are considered the best high-performing conditioning polymers. This water-insoluble silicone is often found in regular conditioners.

Pros

Bis-aminopropyl dimethicone actually bonds to damaged areas on the hair’s cuticle and makes the hair feel softer. It also creates the protective barrier like other silicones and provides easier combing. What makes it different from other silicones and hair is that it does not cause buildup on the scalp and hair. It will provide conditioning to damage areas, increase color-retention, and aid in deep conditioning.

Cons

This silicone is a pain to remove from our hair despite it not being considered a build-up silicone. Bis-aminopropyl dimethicone is a semi-water soluble silicone that may build up hair over time, but it seems it is a trial and error kind of ingredient because some have no issue with buildup while others do. It is not as difficult to wash out, but it does create a barrier that may require a sulfate or clarifying shampoo to remove.

The takeaway

Out of the so-called bad silicones, many curlies like this ingredient and it can be found in many of our favorite brands and products. To say the good outweighs the bad would be too simplistic of an answer and a better one would be to decide for yourself if this is an ingredient you like. Since it is in many products curly girls love it may become a favorite for others, but know if you do feel a buildup then a sulfate shampoo should do the trick of removing it and know that sulfates can stave off moisture in our strands. Always follow up with a conditioner after you shampoo. Here are some products with bis-aminopropyl dimethicone.

Products with bis-aminopropyl dimethicone