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By NaturallyCurly · Published December 25, 2019

NaturallyCurly: What made you decide to become a stylist?

Dianne: I graduated from U.C. Santa Cruz with degrees in the performing arts and became a stylist to provide a stable income for her creative pursuits, providing me with the flexibility I needed as a performing musician. Plus, I had no desire to be in an office!

NaturallyCurly: How did you gravitate toward curly hair?

Dianne: Focusing on texture meant focusing on who you were naturally and that was always my intent. I had taken many classes and had my own method of cutting curly cuts dry. But after training at DevaCurl in New York, I felt like I was home.

NaturallyCurly: You were once quoted that an experienced curl stylist is like a psychic and hair doctor in one. What did you mean by that?

Dianne: When you go to someone very experienced, they already know a lot about your hair. The missing piece is your lifestyle and expectations.

NaturallyCurly: You’ve continued to hone your craft, with certifications from DevaCurl, RËZOcuts and RËZOlites and Curly Hair Artistry, to name a few. How would you describe your technique?

Dianne: I utilize a very wide and deep toolbox. I am extremely meticulous, yet intuitive. I also have pictures and hair maps of all my clients. I cut dry with a rotating gravitational and sculptural approach, considering the bone structure and body frame. I teach using cooking analogies.

NaturallyCurly: In addition to taking classes, what are some of the other secrets to honing your skill.

Dianne:  Constant study! Focused practice! I am only curly so that practice enables me to be at the top of my game. Workshops, classes, certifications, YouTube, closed online pro groups, reading threads, friends, stylists, and most importantly clients.

NaturallyCurly: You work with such a wide variety of textures. What are some of the different considerations when working with waves, curls and coils?

Dianne: When cutting, I use more tension on wavy hair but no tension on coils. When working on the set, I work with water differently depending upon the texture. For waves, I use Light and voluminous products stacked without much water verses extremely hydrating products with all the water left in on coils.

NaturallyCurly: Who are the stylists that inspire you?

Dianne: I love Atoya Bass’ work and personality; she cracks me up! Mona Baltazar is extremely gifted.

NaturallyCurly: What are some of the hottest curl trends?

Dianne: The Shag! The shag with bangs, without bangs, short and long!

NaturallyCurly: What are the biggest mistakes that curly girls make when working with their hair?

Dianne:

1. Using product incorrectly and blaming the product.
2. Thinking your hair is like the vlogger or pictures, when in reality it cannot be so easily defined.
3. Thinking your whole head is just one texture or one porosity. It is much more complex than that. In the same way that you might have many tones of hair color all over the head—your hair is extremely unique.

NaturallyCurly: Can you share a few of your favorite curl tips – things curly girls can do at home to make their hair look its best?

Dianne:

1. Clients often tell me, “you’re so gentle!” My technique for scrunching is to gently “hug the curls” with your hands and scrunch out the crunch.
2. Most curly girls ask me how they can get rid of their cowlick in back. Two tricks: 1. At the end of your shower, arch your head back and gently rake your cowlick but just the first few inches in an arc up and back and/or 2. Marry the two sides of the cowlick together with a clip so they dry that way.

NaturallyCurly: Who is your curl crush?

Dianne: That’s a tough one! I’m in love with most of my clients’ hair. Alex Kingston’s curls are always beautiful to me.

By NaturallyCurly · Published December 24, 2019

Image: Kuawuane Burton Photography

The Growth Guru, Whitney Eaddy has taken the natural hair world by storm with her jaw-dropping hair growth transformations and knowledge for tips and tricks for healthy hair growth and retention. She recently sat down with us to talk about her journey, myths the hair world needs to debunk, and the best moisturizers we need and the conversation was priceless! Check out her story below: 

Describe your natural hair in 3 words. . .

Magical, healthy & God-given

Share your hair journey and what made you want to help other women learn to embrace their natural hair?

I started getting relaxers at the age of two before I could even make my own decisions. I got this chemical treatment every six weeks until I was 19 years old. One day, in between relaxers I started feeling my roots and begin to feel curious about my natural texture. My first big chop was 2002 and since then I’ve done 4 of them. Looking back now, I think my first big chop was about me reconnecting with my roots and deprogramming myself from negative messages regarding my hair that was rooted in Europe’s beauty standards! I was then a 19-year -old, curious, slightly rebellious, college student and it was the best thing I could have ever done for myself! I’ve done all of the right and wrong things with my own natural hair! Once I finally found a routine and system that worked for me, I started putting together what has developed into Her Growing Hands methodologies. At the time, I didn’t quite realize the magnitude of what I was cultivating, nor did I think that the healthy natural hair techniques that I was manipulating would have such an impact on my life and the lives of so many others that I’ve been fortunate enough to touch!

What has been the most challenging and empowering moments of your natural hair journey? What lessons did you learn? 

The most challenging moments of my natural journey are like most women I think, the moments where you are completely lost and don’t understand your natural hair at all. I learned to be patient and to be kind to myself and my hair and I learned what my hair will and won’t do. I’ve learned what my hair’s characteristics are and I think that’s so important for women to truly learn their hair which is one of the things I focus on in trainings and Her Growing Hands Salons.

It is so important that women understand THEIR own hair. Because each of our crowns are different. I don’t believe in the whole 3B, 4A, 4B, 4C philosophies. How can we take so many different types of hair and categorize them into a few buckets? Another thing is that the most empowering part of my natural hair journey has been to truly see myself in the light that God created me in without any extras (braids, wigs, sew-ins”>. Once the women learn to see themselves with the hair that God gifted them and feel comfortable in their skin with their natural texture that’s ultimately one of the purest forms of self-love.

For someone who is transitioning, what advice would you share?

For a transition, the first thing I always say is patience, patience, patience! Also trust the process and chop when you feel in your heart and your gut that it’s the time!

What natural hair myths do you strive to debunk?

There are three major myths that come across often. The first is that natural hair can’t grow! Our hair can do so many amazing things when protected and loved properly. Many protective styles out there are not properly protecting our hair and we have to look at what we actually call protective styling. In my methodology,  anything that is installed to your hair that warrants hypertension and high manipulation ultimately will result in damage.

The second myth is that our hair requires heavy products. How many women come into the salons with heavy oil, butter, creams, and even grease all the while underneath their hair is parched and not hydrated at all. Most naturals are not retaining moisture properly! With my product line Juices N’ Berries, I hope to usher in a new way of taking care of our hair and ultimately result in the resolution of major hydration issues.

Another myth that I see is that oil is a moisturizer. Oil is not a moisturizer, although it is a natural conditioner that can be applied pre-or post styling to nourish your strands and scalp. Not to be confused with the conditioner that you would apply after your shampoo, oil is more like a daily conditioner if that makes sense. Proper hydrants are water-based. H2O is our best hydrator, but it’s important to balance it with lightweight oil. 

What are your top tips for healthy hair growth?

I will always say that the keys were healthy hair care and growth are low tension low manipulation and keeping your ends healthy. It’s almost like working out, it’s not a complicated concept, however, it requires discipline & dedication. It’s more about what you don’t do to your hair! Less is more! Give it the good stuff and leave it alone!

What were your top hair transformations of 2019?

I pride myself on meeting ladies exactly where they are and empowering them with the tools and resources they need to grow their hair to its fullest potential. Below are some of the top transformations I have seen in 2019:

Image: The Growth Guru

Image: The Growth Guru

Image: The Growth Guru

Image: The Growth Guru

Tell us about your brand and the products you created and what we can expect in 2020…

So I have a collection of products called The Growth Guru’s Healthy Hair Collection. Each product supports an important component of healthy hair growth. In July 2019, I launched NaturalU Hair Illusions. These are U-part wigs and drawstring ponytails that can be used as protective styling pieces. The great thing about these protective styling pieces is that they are natural hair textures, so they look and feel like our own curly and kinky hair. They also are very low tension and manipulation, so they leave lots of room for your hair to grow underneath. 

The next part of the Growth Guru’s Healthy Hair Collection is Silken Luxury Sleep, which launched in September 2019. Silken is a line of 100% mulberry silk pillowcases, scarves and scrunchies. These beautiful and lush accessories serve to protect your hair and skin through moisture-retention. Not only that but 100% mulberry silk is hypo-allergenic, infused with natural proteins, reduces split-ends, reduces acne and is organic and environmentally-friendly. 

Last, but certainly not least, The Growth Guru’s Healthy Hair Collection includes Juices N’ Berries, which launches January 2020. Juices N’ Berries hair care line is formulated specifically for thirsty hair. It serves to heal, hydrate, revive and promote overall growth in all-natural hair textures. As a hair growth expert, the number one issue most naturals struggle with is dryness. Juices N’ Berries is the one-stop-shop for mitigating those issues. The line includes a co-wash, a leave-in, hydration spray, and hair growth elixir. Be on the lookout for that one as it launches the beginning of 2020! 

My Her Growing Hands brand also has some other exciting things coming 2020. So I encourage all naturalistas to stay tuned for some exciting news releases here pretty soon! 

By NaturallyCurly · Published December 22, 2019

Image: @sojazzaye

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

Growing up was hard since I was the only one in my household that had curly hair. My mom nicknamed me Medusa with my wild hair when she would comb it out, she struggled to maintain my hair and would just put it up in a ponytail most of my childhood. When I started doing my own hair I would normally try different styles I would see in magazines and on television by using what we had back in the days with gel, mousse, and hairspray. These products would leave my curls crunchy and hard, but hey they did have shine and hold. The easiest style for me growing up was parting my hair and slicking it back.  When I would get haircuts they were the worst because they would cut my hair cut while it was wet and would add layers, then they would straighten my hair, and my curls would always be uneven.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?

My journey started with being inspired by one of the darkest times in my life. During that time I had a lot of emotional pain and also many transitions going on at the same time and by watching other girls on Instagram with their curly hair, it inspired me and had also helped me to love myself in embracing my unique natural hair. After I started my journey posting my results, I realized how much I am also helping a lot of other girls which has kept me driven to keep going. I became more confident in myself and was happy to inspire many other women.

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far? 

The most empowering moment was when I realized how much my journey has inspired others and how I became “hair goals”. I like to reflect on pics from the past to see how much I have grown not just with my curly hair but also within myself. The only time I like to compare myself is with the me from the past.

How do you protect your curls at night?

PINEAPPLES!! At night I sleep with a satin pillowcase (@osocurly“> as it helps with preserving my curls for day 2-3-4 curls. I would also use a bonnet and satin scarf when needed.

Who is your curl crush?

My curl crushes are @Hif3licia, @Mismmo, and @chelliscurls these girls have truly inspired me on my curly hair journey!

Image: @sojazzaye

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

Coiling scrunchie to wear my pineapples, @BounceCurl gel to refresh, and my hair pick by @Shaiamiel the Curl Doctor.

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

My curly hair regimen is normally washing once a week. I would use Bounce Curl Clarifying Shampoo with their Cream Conditioner, and every other week I would do a deep condition but also use alternative hair mask treatments. My favorite products are DevaCurl Super Cream and BounceCurl Gel is my holy grail, the DevaCurl Set it Free spray is a favorite to refresh and lockdown on my frizz as well.

Image: @sojazzaye

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?

The most challenging part of my journey was the transitioning stage before my big chop. I wanted to keep my hair long but I wasn’t able to get the best results as I had a lot of dead ends from straightening and bleaching it. After I went to see the Curl Doctor, @Shaiamiel and got the “Big Chop” is when I started to see my curls come to life before my eyes like never before, after that it got way easier.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

Finger coiling has helped train my curls to give me more ringlets, it is to the point I do not even have to do it anymore as they just curl up now naturally. I do a lot of deep conditioning and scalp massages using oils to keep your hair growing healthy.

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

Your hair is your best accessory and it also is apart of your identity. Loving your curls is loving yourself. Discover yourself and show off your natural beauty to this world. You will always inspire others by being your authentic self, and that can start with your hair.  The thing I love about curly hair is that every curl is different and that’s what makes us unique.

What’s your hair story? Share your journey with us here to be featured in our Texture Tales series.

By NaturallyCurly · Published December 17, 2019

Image:@najaljudd

Share 3 words to describe your hair

Natural

Luscious

Transformable

What was it like for you growing up with naturally curly hair?

My overarching experience growing up with naturally curly hair was my lack of knowledge about how to properly care for and style it. Neither of my parents were much help in this category so I really did have to figure it out on my own. I would leave my hair out any time I swam, I would not wear a silk scarf at night, I used the wrong detangling comb, I did not give my hair enough moisture, and I never deep conditioned or used any other strengthening treatments. I was an only child for a long time so I did not have anybody to look to for guidance.

I remember envying my friends who had loose curls or straight hair because I felt that mine always looked worse and was much less manageable. I could never just take down my hair from a ponytail and have it easily fall over my shoulders, or get out of the shower without it shrinking up. There were moments where I absolutely hated my hair for those reasons; I would ask my mom all the time if I could straighten it but she never let me use heat. Now I thank her for that. I was also always frustrated with my length. All I ever wanted was my hair to fall below my shoulders or at least stay put after the shower, but it never did. I remember crying to my mom about how ugly and insecure I felt about my tight curls and how I never knew how to style them in a way that I liked. I almost never wore it out; it was always in a bun. I also almost never saw my hair type in mainstream media and TV. This only intensified my feelings of frustration. Overall, I grew up not very happy with my tight curls, but this changed.

Image:@najaljudd

What made you decide to embrace your natural hair?

Honestly, I think I am still on the journey of embracing my natural hair but I think the primary reason I began to appreciate it and love it is because I became more knowledgeable on how to care for my tight curls. It felt good giving it the proper attention it always needed. I began to trim regularly, apply moisturizing treatments weekly, lessen manipulation, and seal in products with oil to ensure moisture. Additionally, I have tried different hairstyles that I never had before that catered toward my hair type. I found many of these tips, tricks, and styles online and on YouTube. Seeing other naturals online embrace their curls and share their knowledge was very helpful in embracing my own hair. I actually began to find joy in trying new products, styles, and treatments. My relationship with my hair became positive and nurturing. I gained tons of support and confidence from family and other naturals/friends who I met along my journey.

What has been the most empowering moment(s”> of your natural hair journey so far?

I was always hesitant to wear my hair out; I was horrified by my shrinkage and felt my hair never “looked good.” It did not fall below my shoulders and never stayed in one place. The most empowering moment of my natural hair journey so far was the first time I wore my hair out in an afro. Many of my friends and family have always encouraged me to do this but I had never felt comfortable. I wanted to do something different and decided to finally try it. Once it was picked out and loose, I looked at myself in the mirror and actually smiled. Obviously, I was not initially completely comfortable, but I knew this was an important step toward embracing my natural self.

What are your favorite natural hairstyles to express yourself?

My favorite natural hairstyles are out and loose and up in a pineapple. Now that I have gained confidence I always want my hair as big as possible, not to mention these styles are super easy!

Image:@najaljudd

Who is your curl crush?

My curl crush is Amandla Stenberg. I really appreciate seeing her on the big screen with her tight curls, they are so beautiful!

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

My hair regimen tends to change quite often but my go-to products are Briogeo’s Curl Charisma Chia+Flax Seed Coily Custard, DevaCurl’s Wash Day Wonder and their Super Stretch Coconut Curl Elongator. Before washing my hair I apply the Wash Day Wonder and leave it in for about 30 min. I detangle in the shower with a wide-toothed comb; this product makes the process much more manageable as my hair feels softer and smoother. I use the Curl Elongator as a leave-in conditioner, and I seal that in with Castor Oil. To refresh my hair, I apply the Curl Custard with water when I feel my hair is in need of a pick me up.

Image:@najaljudd

What has been the most challenging moment(s”> of your natural hair journey so far?

The most challenging moments of my natural hair journey so far tend to revolve around my shrinkage. I cannot stress enough how frustrating it was to have styled my hair only for it to shrink up once I stepped outside. I have spent a significant amount of time in public bathrooms attempting to pull my hair back down. I spent so long trying to find products that would prevent this from happening, but I never had much luck. I constantly checked the humidity and was discouraged each time it happened to be above 50%. As I learned more about my shrinkage through trial and error it became much easier to manage, and my days of shrinkage frustration lessened. My go-to styles for rainy humid days are cornrows and buns, which are still super cute!

What advice do you have for someone who is struggling to embrace their natural hair?

My biggest piece of advice for someone who is struggling with embracing their natural hair is to be patient and try not to compare yourself to others. Personally, I got very caught up in other individuals who I thought had “better” hair than me and it had a large impact on my self-esteem. Learning to truly embrace my natural curls was a process and I am still on the journey.

What’s your hair story? Share your journey with us here to be featured in our Texture Tales series.

By NaturallyCurly · Published December 13, 2019

Image:@shaneengedi

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

Growing up with textured hair in the early 2000s didn’t seem bad because society’s standard for “beautiful” hair was naturally wavy or curly hair— but, in retrospect today… it was VERY hard for me to fully accept my textured hair and love myself. With that, I’d play both sides of the fence by having 4a hair because I would put chemicals in my hair to soften my coils to a 3a curlier texture. Also, going to a predominantly white school heavily influenced me texturizing my hair to blend in with my synthetic, curly (3a-3b”> pony tail. So, growing up with textured hair didn’t seem so bad until now when I realize how badly damaged my hair was from the texturizers and flat iron; plus, how irritated my scalp was when my eczema flared up. Simply loving myself would have saved me from my many dermatologist visits in my adolescence years.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?

Hmm, paraphrasing the word “embrace” means to accept something. I’m mentioning this because I’ve always accepted my naturally coily hair since my mom last permed it in 2002. So, no major “circumstance” suddenly made me embrace my hair. Since age 11, I’ve been given the autonomy to care for my hair without relaxing it—rather I’d damage it by burning it out with the flat iron. My favorite hairstyle for school was my low, puffy, ponytail. However, during my high school years I’d texturize my hair (sporadically”> to soften my coils to blend in with my synthetic, curly ponytail— but, I still accepted my natural texture. In context, I will say that I begin to “fully” and “outwardly” embrace my natural coily hair after I was given a platform to influence others since 2017. Lastly, I became more eager to show off my natural hair after I saw real results.

Image:@shaneengedi

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

My most empowering moment of my 2nd natural hair journey was when all my hair fell out the night before my high school graduation—yes, I was bald as a Sphynx cat— one word “TRAGIC”. My hair simply fell out due to a bad chemical reaction to my poorly bleached hair during high school. I don’t recall what hairstyle I wanted for graduation, but I obviously wanted it relaxed for the first time since 2002. I was unaware that bleached hair and relaxers don’t mix well. When paraphrasing the word “empower” which means “making something stronger or confident”— I was mostly empowered when I was forced to love myself while I was bald headed and had to wear wigs for years. Experiences like such, was a focal point in me learning about protective styles like quick weaves; and transitioned my thinking to “fully” embrace my natural hair without bleaching or texturizing it.

How do you protect your curls at night?

Every “natural hair guru” says the only way to protect your curls or coils at night should be done by using a satin bonnet, headscarf or sleeping on a silk pillowcase—and, pray the bonnet stays on your head overnight. But, in my imperfect world… my bonnets never stay on my head overnight, so I don’t use them ever. Rather, I’d just improvise by sleeping on a pillow (not silk”> that doesn’t cause split ends or dry out my hair. Honestly, I haven’t created a “good” way to protect my curls at night; mainly because I feel my consistent, nightly scalp massages (sometimes with JBCO”> does enough to stimulate growth. Plus, I would apply hair moisturizer mixed with water, when necessary, to prevent my hair from drying out and breaking off. So, my suggestion has always been “do what works best for your hair”—with good results, of course.

Image:@shaneengedi

Who is your curl crush?

Curl crush… well, I don’t have any curl crushes mainly because I don’t watch hair tutorial videos by influencers or youtubers to “admire or crush” on their hair. Also, my hair results never turn out like the results on the videos so to prevent myself from becoming discouraged in my own hair journey… I focus on my own hair care routines that works best for my hair. With that, I purposely shy away from hair pages that “exalts” the latest hair styles, trends, and hair “inspirations” to remain authentic and creative as a content creator using my platform. However, I have come across three hair influencers that I admire for embracing their natural hair and using their platforms to help others. My fav 3c-4a hair naturalista is @365daysofnaturalhair; my fav 4b natural influencer/blogger is @fari_ivy; and lastly, my fav 4c natural hair enthusiast is @thefrotales.

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

Since Fall 2018, I’ve stayed consistent in using pure, organic products in my haircare routine that’s really grown and thicken my hair—my coily pattern has flourished. I regularly use PURE Jamaican black castor oil by Rooted Treasure for moisture and strength– it’s pure, organic oil made in Jamaica. The main benefits I’ve noticed using this oil are less shielding and breakage, plus more shine and moisture. Finding an effective oil for my low porosity type 4 hair has been challenging because my hair would become dry and brittle after a long washday. However, using JBCO regularly as a moisturizer and strengthener has been advantageous. Lastly, my washday essentials are Moisture Silk shampoo and Leave-Me-Be conditioner by BournBeautiful Naturals. This shampoo super hydrates and cleanses my hair so that detangling is barely needed— it smells amazing! Also, this leave-in conditioner is my daily, go-to product when my coils need to be hydrated after a long work week—its conveniently lightweight to prevent build-up.

Image:@shaneengedi

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

My hair care regimen I “consistently” practice to keep my hair healthy are scalp massaging nightly, moisturizing daily, and hydrating weekly. At first, I would literally put any product in my hair and tug on my ends with no regards and wondered why I saw no results. Then I start treating my hair like a “baby” that needs constant attention and nurture to grow and stay healthy— your hair must be properly cared for to be healthy. With that, I use my scalp massager by @rootedtreasure to massage their JBCO into my hair sometimes, and use my hands to spread my hair moisturizer all over my hair; then detangle my ends with Denman brush . Also, I moisturize my hair in the morning while styling my hair for work to prevent dryness throughout the day. Lastly, I hydrate my hair weekly with MOSTLY water and Miracle Curl Plumper by DevaCurl .

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?

Keeping my hair moisturized and hydrated was my biggest hair challenge of my 2nd hair journey since 2010. For years, I was very annoyed with my textured hair because I didn’t understand why it would be so dry and brittle after a long washday— which made styling very complicated. That’s when I started to do my own research for months on the many benefits of using organic, pure products, then verified their ingredients for its authenticity. Also, learning how to properly care for my low porosity hair was my second challenge. So, understanding my hair porosity helped me realize what products worked best for my hair so I could minimize dryness and breakage. Again, with research I learned that low porosity hair experiences major buildup and can easily be damaged if its conditioned too much because of protein—which made the “rice water challenge” trend a negative.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

When moisturizing my hair, I section my hair in two parts down the middle of my head to make detangling easier. I found that sectioning my hair saves more time than I thought and allows me to evenly disperse products throughout my hair and to my scalp. I’ve noticed that the more I section my hair to touch my roots, the more detangled my hair stays over a longer period even after its washed— especially when it’s parted at the natural part lines. My go-to detangling brush is denman brush which minimized a lot of breakage. I mostly use this brush during hydration to texturize or manipulate my curls. I’ve noticed that sectioning my hair prevents the middle of my hair that is not exposed to product as much from becoming overly dry and brittle. Other methods I use is LOC method when “hydrating” my hair—more water, less product.

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

Find confidence in the one who created you, and I identify my creator as God—some may say the Universe, or Allah. It’s inevitable for women as emotional beings to completely stop struggling to love their textured hair because its changes overtime. However, I found that placing my confidence in “The Creator” who created my hair “just for me” overcomes every mental battle.

What’s your hair story? Share your journey with us here to be featured in our Texture Tales series.

By NaturallyCurly · Published December 10, 2019

Everyone with curls has talked about their curly hair journey because it’s just that- a journey! It’s so much more than just letting your hair be curly. “My journey to loving my curls was truly a journey to self-love and self-discovery,” says Jackie Stiff of @justlikejackies. With curls comes acceptance of frizz, finding your porosity and curl pattern, and discovering what your individual curls need which doesn’t typically happen overnight. This is why we’ve turned to some friends with amazing curls to help.

India Batson is an influencer who can say “Now I love my hair. I feel like a lioness in my hair. I love it, I rock it, and I embrace it!” India is one of many who inspires us to shake out our natural waves and curls and embrace the textures that we have. We sat down with some top curl influencers, @amandarrwalker, @justlikejackies, and @indiabatson to learn more about how they style their curls.

1. Get To Know The Personality Of Your Curls: Each curly girl has a unique head of hair, with its own curl type – often a combination of curl types. “Our hair can look completely different even though we both have loose curls,” says India. “It’s in those small ways, that our individual style is defined.”

Amanda Walker says loving her curls means loving the personality of each individual spiral. “You can’t tame them and you can’t make them do exactly what they want,” she says. “But they are each so special in their own way.”

2. Porosity is as Important as Curl Type: Many people with curls have discovered that finding out their hair’s porosity is just as important as knowing their curl type. Hair porosity – which falls on the porosity spectrum low, normal or high – affects how your hair reacts to different products (low porosity doesn’t absorb moisture as easily as high porosity hair”>, how it’s impacted by the weather (high porosity hair tends to get frizzy when the humidity rises”> and how best to style your hair.

3. Always Protect from the Heat: One recommendation that you always read is to NOT use heat on curly hair, but we’re changing that to PROTECT your curls when you use heat. “Whenever I’m diffusing to do my natural hair wash and go or when I’m doing straight styles,” says Amanda. Oils, for example, have heat indexes that can harm your strands she says. She trusts her tresses to Maui Moisture Color Protection + Sea Minerals Heat Shield Mist, “it’s great for straightening or for curls,” she says.

4. Moisture is a Must: Jackie’s curl journey started because she wanted to be a positive role model for her daughters. She discovered that her curls needed a lot of moisture to stay healthy and supple, which helps reduce damage and breakage. When using a lot of product, a lot of buildup can occur which is when she turns to Maui Moisture Detoxifying + Volcanic Ash Shampoo and Conditioner. “When my hair is feeling dull and congested, I use this conditioner,” says Jackie. “It gives me shiny curls and this creamy conditioner really feels amazing on wash day.”

5. Embrace, Rather than Fight, Your Texture: Part of the process of going curly is accepting and embracing your natural pattern and texture. If there is one girl who fully embraces her loose, beachy waves, it’s India. She knows they’re not going to look perfect all the time, and that’s a part of their beauty. Her confidence comes from knowing that she can always achieve her style using lightweight products with big volume boosts and little weigh down, like the Maui Moisture Lightweight Hydration + Hibiscus Water Quenching Detangler. “It detangles your hair super effectively, giving you great amount of slip without weighing you down,” says India. “It’s a total game-changer.”

Watch now to hear more about their personal path to embracing their natural texture.

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By NaturallyCurly · Published December 8, 2019

@officialcurlyeverafter

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

Growing up, having curly hair was my biggest insecurity. My mother has type 4 hair and she was picked on as a kid because of it. So, raising daughters with curly hair was a constant worry for her. From a very young age I was taught to tame my curls so that people wouldn’t think I was “unkempt.” I subjected my hair to every straightening process out there, in an effort to reach the standard of beauty I was taught. If my hair wasn’t straightened for an event, I would have rather missed it than to show up with my curls out. I absolutely hated my textured hair and did not know how to manage nor care for it.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?

After my daughter turned 18 months old, her wavy hair started to become more curly. As her curls became more discernible, I found that I did not know how to manage her hair. My wake up call came one day when we were getting ready for a family photo session. After I had straightened my hair, I brought my daughter into the room and also straightened her hair. When we met up with my good friend who was also our photographer, she looked at my daughter and asked, “Where are your beautiful curls?” It hit me at that very moment that I was beginning to instill in my daughter an aversion toward her beautiful naturally textured hair.

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

@officialcurlyeverafter

The most empowering moment of my natural hair journey thus far, happened one day while I was browsing the curly hair product aisles at Target. I was reading the labels of different products when an older Middle Eastern couple approached me. The woman did not speak English, so the man was translating for her. He said she loved my curls and wanted to know if I would help her find the right products for her hair. I learned that under her head covering, she had curly hair and did not know how to manage it. I was overcome with joy when I realized that the natural hair journeys of a young Latina and an older Middle Eastern woman brought us together in the middle of a Target. It was truly empowering to be there in that moment with that woman.

How do you protect your curls at night?

I have a large satin bonnet I use over a high, loose pineapple on day 1 and day 2 curls. I rarely use it after day 3 curls.

Who is your curl crush?

It’s impossible for me to choose just one! I have a deep appreciation for every curl type, so I have a few curl crushes. In no particular order, my curl crushes are:

• Yancy IG @borinquena80
• Nelly IG @nellyscurls
• Sydney IG @__sydneylynnn
• Lester IG @lesterjaviermoreno
• Bryan IG @chukybrown

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

My curly girl essential I absolutely cannot live without is my Peach Black Tea & Vitamin Fusion deep conditioning mask by The Mane Choice. This mask has helped to restore and nourish my curls and greatly reduced the amount of shedding I was experiencing at the start of my natural hair journey.

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

@officialcurlyeverafter

I wash my hair two times a week. On a regular wash day I use the Peach Black Tea shampoo, then mask (10-15min”>, and finish with conditioner by The Mane Choice. On days when my hair feels extra dirty or like there’s buildup, I like to use the Mongongo Oil Exfoliating Shampoo and Hydrating Conditioner by Mielle Organics. I rinse with cool water and wrap my hair in microfiber hair towels. I always use a leave-in conditioner. My favorites are the Moisture Balance Leave-in Conditioner by BounceCurl and Crowned Collection Leave-in by Shedavi. I follow with a gel. My favorite gels are Crowned Collection Wash & Go Styling Gel by Shedavi and Dippity Do Girls With Curls Gelee. I use my Denman brush to define my curls and then diffuse on low cool setting. I then finish by separating my curls with Righteous Roots Oil and I use a pick to fluff for volume.

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?

The most challenging moment of my natural hair journey thus far was going to my first fancy event without straightening my hair. For years I was told that curly hair is not fancy. Even after choosing to go natural, it was very difficult to see myself in a dress, with my makeup done, and my hair not straightened and to think “I love how I look.” More than changing my hair regimen, changing my mindset has been the toughest battle.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

I do not stick to very cookie cutter methods. I have found that avoiding heat, rotating my products every few months, and getting my hair trimmed religiously has helped to improve my hair’s health.

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

@officialcurlyeverafter

If you are struggling to love your natural texture, you are not loving yourself to your full potential. Do not let anyone define beauty for you. Each woman is beautiful because she is rare and unequaled. With each step you take to restore your hair to its natural texture, you are freeing yourself from the prison that is society’s standard of beauty. It’s time we stop allowing others to make us feel inferior for having textured hair. Buy the products that moisturize your natural hair, find a hair regimen that makes your crown glow, learn to oppose the negative voices with positive affirmations. Your inner voice is the one you hear the most, let it be positive, uplifting, and full of love.

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By NaturallyCurly · Published December 5, 2019

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

When I was younger, my hair was wavy/straight to the point where you could brush it through. But then at the age of about 8 or 9 is started curling! My mom and I didn’t really know what to do with it but I eventually discovered a pretty solid regimen that was ok with my hair.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly/wavy hair?

As I got older I became more and more self conscious of my hair and wished it was straight. I wanted to be ok with having unique hair and began experimenting.

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

Definitely starting the curly girl method. I had started to become really annoyed with my frizzy hair and so one day, my mom ordered the curly girl book off of amazon. I was so excited! I discovered so many tips and tricks that improved my hair health immensely as well as my moms who’s hair became a lot more wavy. We also recently got our first DevaCut where we discovered new products and the cut itself helped our hair a lot!

How do you protect your curls at night?

I wear a silk pillowcase at night.

Who is your curl crush?

There are so many awesome curly girls out there but here are my two favorites:

• India Batson
• ManesbyMell

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

Definitely conditioner! It would be so hard to have curly hair without it.

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

I’m definitely still discovering so many tips and tricks, but this regimen is the one that works best for my hair.

I’ll wash my hair with DevaCurl Low-Poo Delight twice a week and condition with DevaCurl One Condition Delight. Then I flip my hair upside down while it is still wet and scrunch in DevaCurl Ultra Defining Gel and Frizz-Free Volumnizing Foam. I then clip my roots for maximum volume.

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?

Discovering a good regimen that works for my hair has definitely been challenging. I’m so glad I discovered the curly girl method and very happy to love my natural hair and color the way that it is.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

Like I said before, the curly girl method. Adding product when my hair is soaking wet has also created more volume.

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

Your curls are unique and they are a god given gift that you have been blessed with! Do lots of research and find products that work for your hair. Don’t ever forget that you are beautiful just the way you are!

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By NaturallyCurly · Published December 2, 2019

Image: @thekirstyfiles

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

My hair was mostly wavy as a child and then it got curlier in Junior High and I discovered a diffuser – the same one I use today.  I went for big and fabulous, but somehow at the end high school I came to decide that straight hair was cool and I straightened my hair for the next 4 years.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly/coily/wavy hair?

In college, pretty much out of laziness and too many walks across campus in the rain, I began to embrace my curls. It suited me way better than straight hair ever did.  

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far? 

I love it when people let me know that i have inspired them through my Instagram account @thekirstyfiles to wear their hair natural, even better when they have watched my curly hair videos and found it helpful with styling their hair.  This is the most rewarding part.  A number of years ago I was asked to come to New York to give my opinion on a new curly hair product line and I met some amazing fellow curly girls.  Most recently it has been deciding to let my gray hair grow out and the flood of encouragement and support has been been incredible.  

How do you protect your curls at night?

I don’t have a good answer, I simply pile my hair on top of my head.  I don’t toss and turn much and I have been doing it for long, I think I have trained myself to flip my hair up in my sleep with I move.  Somedays it works, some mornings I wake up and have to laugh.  I definitely keeps my mornings interesting, you never know what you are going to get at the breakfast table.  

Who is your curl crush?

Sarah @caseofthecurls . I love her texture and color, I only know her from her instagram feed, but I feel like she’d be so fun to have coffee with.  My other crushes are @curlysue291 and @curlycailin.ie. I’m obsessed with their shiny locks and think we would have the best time over Gin and Tonics.  

Image: @thekirstyfiles

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

Hmmmm, this is a good question.  I feel like as I’ve gotten older I gotten much more relaxed about my curls and can roll with a bad hair day and laugh it off.  I do love my good ‘ol diffuser, it’s definitely on it’s last leg being from Junior High (and I’m 40 folks!”> I will definitely shed a tear when it finally breaks in half.  The styling gel duo I am loving on wash day is Spiraliscious by Jessicurl and Ultra Defining Gel by Deva Curl.  My favorite refresh product is Oil-In-Cream by Curlsmith.  

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

Oh man – I think I answered that above but to recap…
Innersense Organic Beauty is my favorite shampoo, conditioner and deep conditioner.  I also love my Thermal HairCare Hothead cap and With or Without Hue by CurlyWorld to help combat the brassiness of my curls and make my gray shine!  For styling products its B’Leave-In gel, then Spiraliscious Gel, and Ultra Hydrating Gel, it sounds like a lot but I use the same amount that I would with one, it’s just split among three.  It gives me a wonderful balance of definition and control and plumping.  On refresh days I mainly use Oil-In-Cream by Curlsmith.  

Image: @thekirstyfiles

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far? 

I have recently decide to grow out my natural gray color.  I didn’t realize how emotional this would be or how patient I would have to be.  Somedays I totally rock it, other days I put a hat on.  It’s been amazing to see the community out there cheering me on, but I am far from to the end.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

Yes!  switching out silicones and sulphates – I will say I am not militant about it but I try to avoid as much as possible.  Also squishing in as much water with my conditioner as I can stand.  @atoya_thecurlyhairstudio has taught me so much about the power of water and moisture, I would definitely recommend watching her IGTV videos and following her feed.  She keeps it simple.  

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

We ALL have bad hair days, natural curls are not meant to be contained – that’s the beauty of it.  There is so much awesome information out there and incredible products but it can also be overwhelming so give yourself grace.  Embracing your natural hair is getting to know your best self – the good, the bad and the frizzy days.  And let me repeat we all have them!  As for actual advice, try to keep from using high heat and flat-ironing as much as you can.  Lots of water when you condition and add product to really wet hair.  Find a great hat that you love for the days you just need a break.  

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By NaturallyCurly · Published November 26, 2019

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

It was hard. My mom didn’t really know how to style my curly hair when I was a child so it was extremely frizzy and extra dry, I wasn’t aware of how my hair should be styled so I just let it be. It started to get hard for me though when I was in middle school. I was bullied for having long hair. I remember a girl called me a witch because I decided to wear my hair down one day and after that, I just started tying my hair up.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly/coily/wavy hair?

What made me decide to embrace my curly hair was when I was a junior in high school I remember seeing a girl wearing her hair in curls and it looked so pretty. So I decided, you know what I’m going to buy some gel from the store and wear my hair out.

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far? 

The most empowering moment for me on my natural hair journey was following the CG Method. Prior to purchasing The Curly Hair Handbook, I seriously had no idea how to care for my curly hair. I applied products that were harmful to my curls, brushed my hair any kind of way, straightened my hair a lot, colored my hair frequently, and didn’t care about the damage I was doing. However, after reading The Curly Girl Handbook it helped me build a foundation on how to take care of my hair the right way.

How do you protect your curls at night?

The way I protect my curls putting at night is by putting my hair up in a deluxe pineapple and using my Satin pillowcase.

Who is your curl crush?

I don’t really have a specific curl crush, but there are a few people that I love to follow and learn new information when it comes to caring for my curly hair; such as Hif3licia, Alba Ramos (SunKissAlba“>, Peniel Tovar(Curly Penny“>, and Manes By Mell.

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

My favorite curly girl essential I can’t live without are my Tangle Teezer brush and my Micro-Fiber Towel!

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

My current hair regimen at the moment is I wash my hair 2-3 times a week, but I always shampoo once and co-wash the rest of the days. Conditioning is my best friend! I love conditioning my hair. I detangle and section my hair in the shower because it’s easier for me. I also love to deep condition and apply a mask to my hair I tend to deep condition 2-3 times a month, and apply a mask once a week. Of course, depending on often my hair needs it. I also love hair plopping with my micro-fiber towel. As well as, applying hair oils to my hair. The products that are my favorite at the moment is Not Your Mother’s Naturals Shampoo and conditioner. I highly recommend. Also, Taliah Waajid, Green Apple and Aloe Hold me Down Gelle!

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far? 

The most challenging moment of my natural hair journey was understanding my hair and what it needed. It’s hard at first when you want to make that change and start transitioning your hair and get your curls back strong and healthy. So researching, reading, and learning about my hair was the hardest part. Especially the process of it all and having the patience to getting to your end result you want.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

Yes! Taking care of myself from the inside out. Eating the right foods and taking vitamins is so important for our hair health. Using products that are for curly hair and don’t contain harsh chemicals such as sulfates, parabens, alcohols, silicones, TEA, etc. As well as incorporating Pre-poos and conditioning your hair.

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

My biggest advice is to not expect your hair to look like your favorite influencer or someone you look up we all have different textures. We need to learn to embrace it and love ourselves because we are all unique. Mort importantly to surround yourself with people who are apart of the curly hair community and understand the process of having natural hair and going through the journey of it all. It helps a lot to be able to relate to one another because it uplifts is and we start accepting who we are as individuals.  

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By NaturallyCurly · Published November 25, 2019

Image: @ashlydanielaa

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

Growing up with textured hair was a learning experience. I’m originally from the Dominican Republic where most girls perm their hair when they are very young. I’ve always wore my hair in its natural state but back in the day no one knew how to take care of it. So, for most of my childhood my hair was brushed out into different hairstyles and I only wore my hair curly for special occasions.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?

I didn’t wear my hair curly consistently until I was in middle school. I now lived in the U.S and not many people were embracing their natural hair. I was surrounded by girls with pin straight hair and I wanted to be different.

Image: @ashlydanielaa

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far? 

The most empowering moment of my natural hair journey was when I became my own hair goals. Most people compare themselves to other women and wish their hair looked like the next person. When in reality, the only person that you should be comparing yourself to is your past self. Look at how far you’ve come from the start of your journey and fall in love with your results.

How do you protect your curls at night?

At night I protect my curls by sleeping on a satin pillowcase along with putting my hair up into a pineapple with a satin scarf.

Who is your curl crush?

My curl crush is Jade Kendle, @lipstickncurls.

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

Camille Rose’s Curl Love Moisture Milk is my curly girl essential. I’ve been using it for awhile and it never fails to leave my hair super moisturized!

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

I wash & deep condition my hair once a week. I always pre-poo with honey since my hair is on the drier side. Then, I shampoo, detangle and deep condition my hair. I always do wash & go’s and my favorite products to use are Camille Rose’s Curl Love and Curl Maker. I also alternate those products with Briogeo’s Curl Charisma hair line.

Image: @ashlydanielaa

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far? 

The most challenging moment of my hair journey was when I went through a time where my hair was falling out in chunks. I had no idea why that was happening. I went from having really thick hair to having thin hair. I had to learn how to stop the shedding and work with what I was left with. That really took a toll on my confidence, my hair wasn’t as voluminous anymore, my edges were thin. I always wore my hair in bun which didn’t help with my shedding. It wasn’t until I did my research and used DIY treatments to stop the shedding. It’s been a year since then, my shedding stopped and my edges grew back. Now, I read the ingredients of the products I use and pay close attention to how my hair reacts to them.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

Adding scalp massages every night with an oil will really make an impact on your hair growth journey.  Pre-pooing/ deep conditioning your hair regularly will also save your life especially if you live in a colder area.

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

My advice to women who are struggling with loving their natural texture is to just embrace what you have! Naturally curly hair is unique, not every texture is the same. Find what works for you and stick to it. Fall in love with your curls! Once you do, you’re going to wish you did it sooner.

By NaturallyCurly · Published November 20, 2019

Image:@manesbymell

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

From a young age, my hair has always been a big part of my life because, well, it was so BIG. That’s what everyone would point out. My mom, always having to buy more conditioner, my family teasing me and making (loving”> jokes about it, and strangers always wanting to touch it. It was a frequent topic of conversation, but I was okay with that. I genuinely loved my hair from the start, never wishing it were different because it made me feel different, unique, special. I didn’t always know how to take care of my hair nor did anyone else, but through a lifelong journey of trial and error and by doing it myself, I figured it out. That self journey taught  me so much about myself, and my struggles inspired me to help others going through it, too.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?

Embracing your natural hair is an acceptance of self, and wearing your natural hair out is an expression of self. I accepted I was a strange, wild child a long time ago and as a kid my hair reflected that, which I absolutely love! I’ve always seen the uniqueness as what makes you so special. If you got it flaunt it!

Image:@manesbymell

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far? 

Creating educational content for social media as a resource to share all the information I know about curly hair has been so rewarding. I have inspired and helped so many other curlies embrace their hair and that’s a beautiful thing.

How do you protect your curls at night?

Bedtime is bonnet time. I can’t sleep without it. Tyeing a silky/satin scarf works too but its not the same level of comfort and security my bonnet gives me. It’s basically a part of me now. As back up I also have satin pillowcases which I love, not just for my hair in case the bonnet pops off, but for my skin. Total game changer!!

Who is your curl crush?

My seester, Amanda is my curl crush. Besides myself of course because you should always be your own curl goals! But her curls are a different pattern from mine, and she’s had a very different relationship with her curls, one that is very relatable to many. The shame and embarrassment, to the damage and the transitioning. She is a prime example of how powerful knowledge is. The more she learns and the more time that goes on, her hair gets better and better. Her journey is inspirational and I am so proud of her curls in so many ways!

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

I can’t live without a brush. The joke is always “oh you can’t brush curly hair” or the rule is “you shouldn’t brush curly hair”, but I love it. I use a denman brush for detangling, product distribution, and curl defining. It’s a must for my routine!

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

I believe to get the best out of your hair, having a hair schedule with different routines is great to follow so you can satisfy every need. There is no one product or line that will do everything for you. Brand specifics are very personal as well and although I have some preferences, the basic products I need are a clarifying shampoo, moisture shampoo, all the conditioners from wash, conditioner, deep conditioners, leave-ins, a curl defining cream, gel, mousse, oil. Sounds like a lot, but when you know your hair you know what to use and when, you need to have those options!

Image:@manesbymell

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?

No challenges, only lessons! In my experience working with every hair type and not just my own, you need to have an open mind that everyone is different, has different needs, and will have their own routine that works for them. Learning about our differences helps us to respect one another’s journey and learn from them as well!

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

Regularly taking care of my hair when it needs it keeps it healthy. More hair means more maintenance, and more maintenance results in more hair. I am also gentle with my texture. I won’t do anything extreme to my hair if I don’t think it can handle it. Like colouring processing or heat styling on already compromised, fragile hair. I do these things occasionally because in between I take extra care of my hair to repair any harm done. Besides treating my hair regularly with specific treatments and conditioners, the best thing that has allowed my hair to grow is low manipulation styles and continuous wear of my natural curls. You need to let them be and they will be curly!

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

Self love is the root of it all, and it’s what matters most. Understand that the curls are an extension of your beauty. Loving and accepting yourself, the things you cannot change, and recognizing the beauty in that will bring happiness. But like all journeys, these things take time. Remember the hard times and bad hair days, take photos, and one day you will look back and be amazed with yourself by how far you’ve come. And remember that it’s only hair. You are so much more than that. So if you have a frizzy, bad hair day; try to put on a fierce face and own it! And to get through your journey, hop online for help. There’s a whole world of curly girls that will support you through this too because we’ve all been there, we all get it. You aren’t the only one with the frizzy curly hair anymore, were all in this together!

By NaturallyCurly · Updated November 18, 2019

“This fall, while hemlines are inching up, hair is coming down. Just as fashion history repeats itself, these cascading curls are a classic style.”

In Style

September 2003

By NaturallyCurly · Updated November 18, 2019

Angela Jamison

By Angela Jamison, one of the bulging influx of Austinites Formerly of Dayton, Ohio.

I’m a woman who needs variety. In foods, music and, especially, hairstyles.

I flip back between wearing my hair bone straight or air-dry curly. But that was when I relaxed my locks.

In February 2000, I decided I was a ‘slave’ to the chemicals and needed to ’emancipate’ myself. So I asked my stylist in Dayton, Ohio, to cut it off, down to the healthy, curly roots.

Looking like the rapper Eve, I sashayed out of that shop a natural diva.

Oh, the freedom! The low maintenance.

Each morning, I’d wet my hair in the shower, slab on L’Oreal de-frizzing gel and springing curls mousse, dab on some Avlon moisturizer, and I was good to go. No rollers, no curling irons, no hair spray.

But the novelty of short hair wore off after two months, and I longed for long hair again.

I toyed with the idea of getting braids, but in the swirl of job hunting and moving to a new city, I put the hair decision on the back burner.

After I settled down, I had a grand idea: What if there was a chemical process that would tone down the curls but hold the body when I’d style my hair straight?

Enter Evelyn Jackson, co-owner of the Jackson Ruiz Salon in Austin.

We chatted about my straight/curly idea, and she said it was doable.

On my next visit, she gave me a touch-up with a twist. She brushed on the Arosci relaxer and let it stay on 10-15 minutes, but she didn’t straighten the roots. She let them loosen on their own. She rinsed it out and eyeballed the curls, but they were still too tight. She repeated the process and left the relaxer on five more minutes. Ah, just right.

Then she trimmed, blow-dried and styled my do. I was a vision.

That vision lasted all of 24 hours.

In the bustle of airport travel to Ohio to be a bridesmaid, my hair frizzed. Too afraid to try to tweak Evelyn’s wizardry, I styled around the puffy halo. Fortunately, the style looked fabulous enough to pose for wedding pictures a few days later.

About week after seeing Evelyn, it was time to go it alone. I washed my hair and blow-dried it, but the results were, um, puffy.

Was it due to my less-than-professional styling skills? Or did my hair require the full straightening press during relaxation? Who knows, but as far as I could tell, the puffy do was here to stay. So I reverted back to my curls.

But I was undeterred.

A few days into the real millennium, I bought a mild perm kit, Just for Me for children, and gave myself a perm. It turned out well.

Then I visited another Austin stylist, Angela Hunt at the Beauty Store and Salon. She deep-conditioned, trimmed and styled my hair. She gave amesome styling pointers (Paul Mitchell’s Foaming Pommade, for starters”>, and I’m back to experimenting with straight styles. And on my lazy days, I go curly.

It took 18 years of running the hair treadmill to see that the only rules I have to follow are the ones I set myself. Better late than never, right?