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What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?
I didn’t realize my hair was textured, I always thought it was straight with some waves. It was also always majorly frizzy and thick and predominantly braided. My hair was long and thick and my mum didn’t know what to do with the frizz so it was easier to brush it back than do anything else. I used to try to create Beyoncé like curls with my curling wand, not realizing I probably had them under there all along!
What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly/wavy hair?
I just wanted my hair to be healthy. My postpartum hair loss was awful, my hair was thinning and I could see areas of my scalp that I had never seen. So for me, I just decided I would stop using heat and try the curly girl method for a year and see where it took me. After 6 months, I found myself trying a modified version of CGM due to product buildup and hard water impact on my hair. I had no expectations ever around my hair becoming as curly as it is now, and I couldn’t be happier with how much healthier it is.
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What have been the most empowering moments of your curly hair journey so far?
The day I went out and it was raining and I didn’t care about what happened, I was just happy that my hair was washed, healthy and natural. My second most empowering moment was when my mum actually said how different my hair might have looked growing up if she had known it curly and if she knew how to style it.
What have been the most challenging moments of your curly hair journey?
When others have found the holy grail and I’m still wavering on wash day fails. I’ve learned to understand that learning your hair takes time and it’s changes can be temperamental like my kids! I think expecting consistent results which I don’t always achieve. I’ve now learnt that some of us need a bit more time learning a spit our hair and that’s ok, it’s wonderful to learn to love something we are lucky enough to have.
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What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?
I always pre-poo with a deep conditioner. I am currently out of a deep conditioner, so I often create DIY masks using eggs, yogurt and a bit of honey for shine and moisture. I currently use Innersense as my hair is quite fine now, lightweight products tend to work best for me. I love a rice water rinse as my hair always holds better after an injection of protein. I have also always used Pantene Mousse on refresh days or on wash day since the start of my CG journey. I am also experimenting with curl training which is massively helping.
What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?
I can’t live without my Innersense conditioner, a little goes a long way and my hair loves it!
Tell us about #Bipoccurlies and what inspired you to create this series?
#Bipoccurlies is a showcase of Black, indigenous and people of colour curlies. It tells their stories of their journey with natural hair and it involves a weekly feature and live interview around topics that help shine a light on issues faced in our respective races. I created this because George Floyd and the aftermath of his death, awoke in me a sense of fear, a fear for the next generation. It also made me realise that the power to change that is in our hands and not just through words and a few protests here and there. It needed more. I didn’t know then that people would engage with it in the way that they did, but my passion for this is truly around racial equality, if stories like those featured showcases and highlights issues that a standard curly girl insta handle won’t show, then I don’t see why that’s anything, but good. Racial equality and diversity should be something social media algorithms favors, but actually that isn’t always the case.
What stereotypes and misconceptions do you hope to conquer through your platform?
I want those that feel uncomfortable to share what I’m doing to ask why? Is it because of your audience and you not wanting to upset the “norm”? I have been told “it’s too political”, I have had influencers not want to share this because I’ve asked them to; but this is the point. Until it becomes natural for a non BIPOC individual to want to share these features, for a non BIPOC individual to say actually you’ve changed my mind and for me not to have to find an acronym for marginalized voices, that is the dream. There are plenty of non BIPOC individuals who have massively supported this, but there are also a great many influencers out there who are still under the impression that featuring a couple of black brands and talking about it once in a blue moon is enough. It isn’t and I’m doing everything I can to change that narrative and for people to come to my page to find support, inclusion and a true ambassador for racial equality. Besides, the added benefit of meeting new curlies that you wouldn’t otherwise think to find if they don’t have the same curl texture as you.
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What advice do you have women striving to embrace their natural beauty?
Natural beauty is entwined in self esteem. In order to love your natural beauty, you need to love yourself and that can take time. Social media can show us heaps of people who personify beauty to us, but it can equally somehow leave us feeling alone. You are never alone, your thoughts make you. Just remember you are beautiful and it’s ok if you don’t see that every day but always try and say one thing good about yourself to yourself.
What can we expect from you in the future?
#Bipoccurlies is evolving rapidly, I am doing more philanthropic efforts through my voice on this, I will be speaking more on various topics and natural hair and there may even be some brands being featured so stay tuned!
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What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?
Growing up, I possessed so much self hatred. I truly believed that my hair was the ugly and unattractive. I remember being about 6 years old and crying over how much I hated my hair. I would beg my mom to straighten my hair, and once I got older, I would straighten it daily. Smooth, pin straight hair was the ideal when I was growing up, so it was frustrating to see so many commercials shaming frizz and curls, and promoting straight hair. It took many years to learn to love what I already have.
What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly/wavy hair?
Going to therapy pushed me in the direction of self love, which also meant appreciating my naturally curly texture. In addition, I was sick of spending hours trying to tame my frizz, only for it to come back the minute I stepped outside. I began to do research on how to take care of curls, and found the curly girl method.
What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?
The most empowering moment in my hair journey was getting rid of all of my products that contained sulphates, silicones and parabens. It felt like I officially started to take care of myself by eliminating harmful ingredients from my routine.
How do you protect your curls at night?
I sleep with a pineapple bun using a satin scrunchie. I also sleep with a silk pillowcase to prevent friction.
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Who is your curl crush?
Hands down Ayesha Malik. She’s one of the first people I started following after learning about the curly girl method, and we have a similar pattern so it’s easy to find products that I like through her. The way she uses her platform is admirable, and I am constantly blown away by her bravery.
What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?
I constantly find myself reaching for Bounce Curl Super Smooth Cream Conditioner. The slip I get is amazing, and it’s always easy to detangle after applying it to soaking wet hair.
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What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?
In the shower, I’ll start with a low-poo, typically Curls Blueberry Bliss Hair Wash, and I’ll scrub my scalp with my fingers for about 1-2 minutes. Then, I smooth on my conditioner, adding water occasionally for slip. I’m a big fan of Bounce Curl Cream Conditioner. I use a comb for detangling and scrunch in the conditioner with water once I finish detangling. I don’t rinse the conditioner out completely, allowing for extra moisture. I always rake in a cream or a leave in, usually Innersense Sweet Spirit Leave In Conditioner, or Curls Blueberry & Coconut Hair Milk. Finally, I’ll scrunch in a gel while flipping my head side to side for even distribution. For drying, I primarily diffuse on warm air, using the pixie diffusing technique.
What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?
The most challenging thing for me was learning not to become so annoyed if I have a “failed” wash day. It’s more important to live in the moment than to focus on how “bad” your hair looks on any given day!
Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?
Oil treatments really sped up the growth of my hair. Once a week I apply Jamaican Black Castor Oil and Red Pimento Oil to my scalp, and let it sit for 15 minutes. My hair has grown rapidly because of this over the past 5 months, and my hair feels healthier too.
What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?
Don’t forget to deep condition once a week! I didn’t know about the wonders of deep conditioning until a year into my hair journey. Even now, my hair doesn’t quite feel the same when I forget to deep condition.
What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?
I grew up in a traditional Puerto Rican home. My mother was never fond of curly hair. I clearly remember how many times I cried, as a child, while my mom or my older sister was untangling my hair. My hair was always frizzy and unmanageable. All efforts were in vain, my mom just didn’t know how to care for my thick, curly hair. Finally, at 9 years old, I was given my very first “Just for me” relaxer kit. I remember smelling the burn from my hair the next day while sitting in class. I had to leave my hair pin straight greasy for a few days before I was able to wash.
What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly/coily/wavy hair?
At the end of 2018(entering 2019″>, I was diagnosed with an autoimmune deficiency disorder. This disorder triggered chronic eczema in my skin and scalp. I was told that applying heat to my scalp assisted in flare ups I was going through during that time. Nevertheless, I was stubborn and didn’t start my natural hair journey until March of 2019. It’s very hard for someone that has been raised with the mindset that curly hair makes you look “dirty or untidy” to break free from that mentality. When I made the commitment to embrace my natural hair I had to mentally prepare myself for the negativity I knew I would get. Although my biggest supporters were my 5 sisters, my mother was not thrilled about my decision to embrace my natural curly hair.
What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?
My most empowering moment of my natural hair journey was when the last of my damaged hair was removed. When I first started my journey, I went to a curly specialist that told me I had to get a pixie cut in order to move forward. I remember walking out sad and disillusioned, the one person I thought for sure will help me , crushed my hopes of transitioning to natural (because I knew I will not get a pixie cut”>. Finally I ran into a curl specialist profile and decided to message her, from that moment on everything changed for me. Coming to the realization that I had accomplished my goal and had a new appreciation and love for myself was my most empowering moment.
How do you protect your curls at night?
I protect my curls at night with an extra large satin handkerchief or bonnet.
Who is your curl crush?
My curl crush is the influencer kats.curls. She literally took me under her wing from the very beginning of my healthy hair journey.
What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?
My curly girl essential I can’t live without is my extra large satin handkerchiefs. I use them for working out, sleeping, protective styling from the sun, and even when I do a pineapple to clean around the house.
What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?
My current regimen is Enummi Shampoo and conditioner. I am a huge believer in having a good balanced routine to meet all the needs of your hair. In order to achieve this I use curlygenny_ hair masks weekly, Shea Moisture Deep conditioning hair masks 2x/ month and also use Olaplex 3 every 4 weeks. My current “go to” leave-in product is Curlsmith weightless air dry cream and in-shower styler fixer. I also make sure to take multivitamins and collagen to maintain optimal results with new hair growth. In addition to this, I scalp massage daily with righteous roots oil. I know…it’s a lot!! But it is SO WORTH IT!!!
What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?
My most challenging moment was 5 months into my journey. When you’ve reached the halfway point of the journey, you get into a very awkward stage where everything inside of you screams to fall back into old habits. I remember being invited to a wedding and almost straightening my hair. At that moment, I removed all my accumulated hot tools (worth over $700″> and gave them away, otherwise I knew I would fall back into old habits. When I decided to take this step, I knew that I was fully committed to the process.
Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?
One of the techniques that I believe has made a huge impact on my hair health is scalp massaging daily for a minimum of 5 minutes. Scalp massage has many benefits, hair growth being one of them. Another technique I adopted during my transition was finger coiling. Finger coiling encouraged my curls to take the form in which they have today. Yes, in the beginning it looks very unnatural, but when you get to the place where you no longer have to manipulate your curls to take form, it makes the process all worth it.
What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?
My advice for women struggling to love their natural texture is to give it time. It’s worth it! And the satisfaction you get from reaching your goal is priceless. As a mother of 3 curly girls, having them be active members of my process and journey of loving and embracing me for myself made a world of difference. I am raising 3 curly girls that love and embrace their natural curly hair.
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What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?
My earliest memory of having curly hair takes place circa 1995. My mother, who’s hair was silky soft and straight as an arrow, was bewildered with how to style my naturally curly hair. In an [unsuccessful] attempt to control its shape and provide some definition, I sat in a booster seat in our kitchen, listening to her hum as she wound my curls one by one into papers and perm rods. This was the first of many attempts throughout my youth to try and control my hair into something it was not. I was so unhappy with my hair as I had no idea how to style it without the use of heat tools or an actual iron —for clothes! Yikes!
What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly/wavy hair?
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2018 was a hard year. Little did we know 2020 was coming! I was having a hard time loving where I was at in life. I was stressed, tired and my hair was beginning to grey— at 27. In an attempt to conceal the inevitable process of aging, I turned to my now toxic ex-girlfriend, bleach. I lightened. I balayage’d. I half-headed and I went full-headed. What ended up happening is my hair began to literally snap off in protest. At the end of the summer, with hair akin to straw, I looked into the mirror and I said to myself out loud “enough.” I decided right then I would quit fighting to be something I am not. I wanted to love me for ‘me.’ So I began my research and nursing my curly hair back to life.
What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?
As I began to learn about and embrace my curls, I knew very quickly I was going to have to let go of a couple things. First up was some length. I cut off as much hair as I could reasonably tolerate in order to have a healthy clean slate. Second, I had to let go my expectations of perfection. This was going to be about the journey, not the destination! Learning to care for my curly hair was like taking myself on a first date with a lifelong acquaintance. Awkward at first, uncomfortable getting to know one another but soon flourished into something magical. Somewhere along the bumpy road I stopped liking how I looked better with straight hair and truly felt more beautiful wearing my hair naturally curly. Or as I now prefer it, being “me”.
How do you protect your curls at night?
At night I put my hair up in a pineapple on the top of my head and sleep on a silk pillowcase. Occasionally I will use a Buff.
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Who is your curl crush?
I have too many curl crushes! So much pressure! But I’m going to have to say Hannah (@hanzcurls“> for her dreamy red headed curly-rapunzel vibes. She’s a stunner and sugary sweet!
What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?
I love my wet brush. Great for detangling and styling. Affordable, accessible and works wonders for my hair.
What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?
Currently my regimen is Shampoo + condition, leave in, curl activating cream and a mousse or gel! My HG products are Ag Recoil and the underrated Herbal Essences Totally Twisted Mousse!
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What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?
The time. Wanting results yesterday! I’m super impatient so growing my hair out has felt more marathon, less sprint. I’m trying to learn how to be patient in the process and be grateful for the & lows.
Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?
Cutting out heat styling would be my most important contribution to my hair’s health. I used to straighten every day *gasps* only to then re-curl with a curling wand because it looked fried straight! Gently detangling, deep conditioning, Olaplex No. 3 and ditching terry cloth towels for a softer alternative are a close second.
What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?
It takes time but hang in there. You got this. Please know that nothing on the surface can define your worth, only you have the power to do that. You are the perfect ____ [mother, daughter, friend, mama, etc.] to someone regardless of how your hair looks, remember that.
Dr. Kari Williams is an L.A. native who juggles multiple glorious roles as a doctor of trichology, educator, and entrepreneur. As the creator of the Goddess Locs, she has continued to be an hair innovator in Hollywood working with celebs like Megan Good, Jennifer Hudson, and Chloe x Halle and behind the scenes teaching stylists how to be empowered in their craft. Managing Editor Alexandra Wilson chatted with Dr. Kari about the origin of her infamous goddess locs, her hair journey, and addresses the misconceptions of protective styling, and more!
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Tell us about yourself and how you got involved in haircare:
I am a specialist in natural hair care and braiding. I have been doing it for over 20 years. I have always loved natural hair and the art of braiding and began to pursue it professionally when I was in college. I am a licensed barber and cosmetologist and I use that skill set to help men and women celebrate their hair in their natural state. Because of my natural gift as a braider I really focused on natural hair care and then combined that with my background in trichology which focuses on scalp and hair disorders. When I decided to develop an expertise in trichology, it was motivated by the fact that I wanted to help people who deal with hair issues like itchy scalp, hair loss, and breakage.
You have done so many different styles with various celebrities, how did you get into that industry and what inspired you to create the goddess locs?
There are so many stylists who aspire to be a celebrity stylist, but it was never a personal goal for me. I wanted to own a salon and serve as many people as possible. What I learned on my journey is that celebrities are people like you, who typically want services by people who reflect their values. Their values are professional, consistency, and having respect for their time. I was focused on being the best stylist I could be to serve any of my clients…and some happened to be celebrities. When I am training or working with a new stylist, it’s important that they feel empowered in whatever their craft may be and that they continue to reflect the values of the type of client they want to serve.
About five years ago we were in an era where faux locs were making comebacks and Megan Good’s stylist had contacted me saying she wanted faux locs but wanted them to resemble Lisa Bonet. This proved to be a challenge because Lisa Bonet’s locs are styled with her natural hair and not faux locs, but Megan really believed I could help her achieve this style. When it came time for me to have a final call with Megan I was asking God to give me the word to tell her I couldn’t do it and within that prayer God gave me the wisdom and insight to do it. After she hit the red carpet everyone was calling them faux locs and I decided it was time to brand this new hairstyle and then I came up with the name “Goddess Locs.” I love sharing this story with stylists because many of them don’t know that a young woman from South Central created them in addition to encouraging them to value their ideas. The biggest lesson I learned from this experience was learning to protect my ideas and not undervalue them.
It’s so important to own and brand your ideas, what was the trademark process like?
I don’t own the trademark which is why the origin of how they were created is such an important part of my journey. I underestimated the value of my creativity. As soon as I had created it I was teaching it to people and as it grew in popularity I realized that I needed to trademark it and protect it. However; alot of larger Asian hair manufacturers had already filed trademarks for the name. I currently have a patent pending regarding the technique. That inspired me to create a training platform that would allow me to teach other stylists how to protect their ideas and develop a sense of ownership within the hair space.
Tell us about your method and technique Goddess locs and what makes them unique
One of the defining characteristics of the goddess locs is the soft wavy ends and the original version of them was created with all human hair which keeps it lightweight and healthy. A lot of people who choose to wear loc extensions want longevity and the older they get the better they look. Using human hair allows for the natural hair to still remain healthy once the locs are removed after a 3-4 month period. Within the course I go into how to properly install the base. The goddess locs themselves are really two styles in one, you have a base that is created with a loc or twist and then you wrap it. The beautiful aspect of locs is that they are never the same so I teach stylists how to consult with their client on that process and make it unique to their natural hair texture. There are proper ways to wrap the locs so aren’t too heavy and then when removing them you won’t damage the hair.
Tell us more about Beauty By Dr. K and what was the process like?
The process was really fun! I’ve been working within hair care with other product lines for years and what I discovered in working with my clients is that they wanted products that were easy, simple, and would provide daily moisture. I started with listing the essential oils and ingredients that I knew would be beneficial hair with an emphasis on moisture. I approached my line from my trichology background and really just started to assess identifying the needs of my clients which came down to moisture and simplicity. I wanted to create a simple hair care system that helped build a foundation for healthy hair. We’ve gotten away from the simplicity of a good hair care routine.
I’m keeping it simple for you! We’ll be releasing my hair oil, then two shampoos (cleanse and clarifying”> and then a conditioner.
Let’s talk protective styles, what are the biggest misconceptions of wearing protective styles?
The biggest misconception I want to address is that because you have a protective style you don’t have to do anything, which is wrong, you need to wash your hair. Don’t neglect your hair or get rid of your hair care routine, you want to maintain it while in the protective style. I would also say don’t leave your protective style in too long because many protective styles are used with extensions. A protective style doesn’t require extensions, I define it as a style that gives you a break from daily manipulation like twists, cornrows, or braids with our own hair. Wearing extensions can increase the longevity of the style, but if you wear them too long it can cause alopecia or hair loss, particularly around the hairline.
What would you say is a good time frame for wearing a protective style like a passion twists, box braids, etc.
I would say 8 weeks, but around 4-5 weeks you want to get a touch up. A lot of the tension takes place around the hairline and over time as the hair grows out of the extension it becomes a weight and it pulls around the scalp. If you aren’t getting a touch-up I would say 6-8 weeks and anything longer than that should be discussed with your stylist.
We saw you participated in the campaign “Pretty Shouldn’t Hurt.” What are some myths of protective styles?
It’s a huge myth that in order for a braid to last it needs to be tight. I know many women who suffer through pain and tension and convince themselves that it’s necessary for a good style. There are so many Black girls and young women who are experiencing permanent hair loss. There are plenty of ways to create braids and use proper braiding techniques that keep a client’s hair healthy and void of tension.
There’s a misconception that by wearing protective styles that equates to hair growth, can you shed some light on this?
When it comes to tighter texture hair types, the hair is naturally fragile. When people are wearing protective styles they aren’t manipulating their hair for 4-8 weeks so it allows your hair underneath to grow which helps for length retention. I highly recommend protective styles for people with tightly coiled hair patterns have finer hair strands and wearing protective styles can help with lengthening the strand.
What are some easy protective hairstyles that people can do at home right now?
Cornrows, flat twists, two-strand twists, braids and bantu knots, are all great that are versatile and provide a combination two-in-one style. When you undo any of these styles you can take them out and rock a whole different style with added definition. It’s a great time to get to know your hair and love it so when you do get back in the stylist chair you can communicate what you want.
What do you recommend for dealing with an itchy scalp?
First it’s trying to determine what is the cause of the itchy scalp. I always counter this question with when did you last wash your hair? You may need to increase the amount of washing depending on your activity or hair thickness. If you have really thick hair make sure you are parting through and directly applying the shampoo to your scalp. If you are experiencing an allergic reaction or constant flaking make sure you are using a medicated shampoo and combining that with a deep conditioner.
Could you define some key indicators of someone having a scalp disorder vs. an itchy scalp?
If you experience thick flakes around the hairline that are scaling or that sit in the hair, redness, scalp texture changes, or inflammation that’s an indication you have a scalp disorder. Dandruff (powdery flakes”> are different because those can be a reaction from a shampoo or product you used.
What are your recommendations for building a scalp care routine?
It’s about making sure you are getting to the scalp. The biggest part of scalp care is keeping it clean and if it’s dry you want to use a light oil to keep it lubricated.
Can you clarify what’s a good lightweight oil for the scalp?
Jojoba oil is one of my favorite oils for dry scalp or flaking. Any of your essential oils are going to penetrate really well into the skin.
What’s your advice, to grease or not grease the scalp?
You don’t want to grease the scalp, I recommend using light-weight oils on the scalp because they will absorb into the scalp. Grease should be used on the ends of the hair to protect from the elements and friction.
Reading ingredients can be hard, what are some moisturizing ingredients we should look for when purchasing products?
The easiest moisturizing ingredients are water-based products, natural oils like jojoba, butters, and glycerin. These are all nice and hydrating ingredients that will absorb into the hair and scalp.
What are your recommendations for combing out locs?
If you want to comb out your locs you are going to go through a long process where you may experience some hair loss. The length of your locs won’t reflect the length of your natural hair because locs are an accumulation of hair that has shed from your scalp and is no longer attached. You also have to consider the amount of friction that will occur from combing your hair, you may need to consider getting a haircut afterward to get rid of any frayed or damaged hair. I recommend letting the locs grow out without retightening and then once the loc gets to a length you are comfortable with then cut them and start styling your own hair.
What are your tips for detangling matted hair?
You have to first determine how matted the hair is. The Dr. K Comb Out Cream is magic in a bottle! I have detangled a lot of hair and the key is patience and products. The Comb Out Creme is specifically formualated for that process to help make it easier. The longer you allow the product to saturate in the matted hair, it will be easier to comb through. Also, tools are key! Be sure you have a good comb, like a rat tail comb. Then, you will gently start seperating the hair from the ends and working your way up. Tangled and matted hair usually creates like a webbing, so if you’re patient enough and have the right product and tools you can get through the process.
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What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?
Growing up curly in a country where all girls had long straight and often blonde, my hair was challenging. I always felt that I was different. The beauty standard is so rooted into the culture that a straightener is everyone’s best friend. There are quite a lot of curly people there, but you will never see us represented anywhere. Google ‘Lithuanian girl’ – you will see the standard of beauty. However, even though I felt that I am not pretty by the standards (curly dark hair and bushy eyebrows were not very trendy”>, I did not want to comply. I had straightened my hair occasionally and eventually dyed it blonde, however, growing up everyone knew I am curly. I was proud to be curly and saw that as a part of my personality, I liked being different and it made an impact to the way I am now.
What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly/wavy hair?
When I bleached and straightened my hair, my dad used to always say ‘stop torturing your hair’. Did I listen? I was a teenager, of course not. Later, at some point a couple of years ago my hair was so terribly bleached that it was barely wavy. It was dry and awful. To be honest, I am surprised I still had some hair. I am not sure when exactly it happened but I remember my friend Laura, who has a beautiful massive afro, introduced me to some products and somehow I started finding all of these beautiful curly hair instagram accounts and started reading. I did not stop straightening my hair straight away but I made my final decision to truly commit to CGM around Christmas time in 2018 and it was definitely one of the best decisions of my life!
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What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?
I think I will never forget when I went to see my specialist curly hair stylist Erika for the first time. At that time I was already practicing CGM for over 6months but I needed a specialist to really do something with it. For the first time in my life I did not straighten my hair in a hair salon. The moment she finished diffusing, fluffed my hair and I saw my shiny shiny ringlets I CRIED! Out of joy of course! She said I am the only one who had ever cried in her chair like this but I could not be happier to see my hair finally coming back!
How do you protect your curls at night?
I have a silk pillow and a satin bonnet. Sometimes I sleep in a pineapple but the bonnet proved to be the best solution!
Who is your curl crush? I cannot name one! I learned most from:
- Elizabeth (@honestlizhere“>
- Bianca (@mzbiancarenee“>
- Dina (@curlytalks“>
- Hamsa (@curlsbyhamsa“>
- Toni Macaroni (@toni_macaroni“>
- Kristy (@curlyloveclub“>
There are so many more, I really cannot name one!
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What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?
If I have to choose one – CurlSmith Curl Defining Styling Soufflé. There are other great products out there but this was my first favourite that never ever fails my hair!
What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?
I wash my hair only once a week and I always deep condition! I try to not overload my hair with products and refresh with water only at first. My KEY to good volume is drying my roots with a cotton t-shirt before applying any stylers and only then diffusing. This discovery was a real game changer for me!
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What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?
In the beginning of my journey, the hardest thing was finding a sulphate free shampoo that would wash my scalp but also not irritate it. It sounds weird but my scalp really really didn’t like any natural shampoo. I used to wash my hair and on the first day feel so itchy like I had lice! Trust me, not a nice feeling. Now I stick to one shampoo that I know and don’t play around.
Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?
I always say that deep conditioning is key to healthy hair!
For me personally the real game changer was drying my roots before diffusing, kind of modified damp styling. If I style it wet, I get the shine but water weighs the hair down and doesn’t really let it show its best. I only discovered this method back in April and nothing worked better than that ever since.
What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?
I know it is hard to say goodbye to a straightener, but you will only ever feel like the real YOU when you will finally embrace what nature gave you. Do not compare yourself to others, but there are so many great examples of successes that people have achieved, so trust me, its worth it!
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What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?
I didn’t even know I had curly hair growing up! My dad has really thick, coarse hair from his Puerto Rican roots and my mom’s hair was as straight as a board.
My mom was the one that always styled my hair, but it was mostly in braids or ponytails.
Once I was old enough to start doing my own hair I reached straight for a straightener because I had no idea how to tame the frizz.
What made you decide to embrace your naturally wavy hair?
I started embracing my naturally wavy/curly hair in college. For some reason I really wanted to see what my hair would look like without straightening it. I was so surprised when my hair started having some shape and wave and from there I just wanted to see how curly it would get!
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What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?
The most empowering moment was when I wore my hair curly to a formal event. I don’t remember what event it was, but it was a big deal for me because that was when I was like “okay, this is my hair and it’s good enough for any occasion”. After that I stopped straightening it for good.
How do you protect your curls at night?
My night time routine is fairly simple. I usually tie it up in a pineapple with a silk scrunchie and sleep on a silk pillowcase.
Who is your curl crush?
Kelly Shahbazian! She was the first curly girl I found on Youtube after I wanted to dive into wearing my hair curly. She has a slightly tighter curl pattern than I do but her hair was the closest to my own at the time.
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What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?
Gel! My hair loves gel and I don’t know what I would do without it!
What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?
I usually style with a cream, gel, and define my curls with a Denman brush.
My favorite products right now are the defining cream and gel from the Not Your Mother’s Curl Talk line.
I also love Ouidad’s Climate Control Heat + Humidity Gel and the Honey Whip Hydrating Mousse from TGIN.
What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?
Dealing with how much curly hair can change! Sometimes I find a product that my hair loves and then one random day my hair hates it.
Dealing with trial and error was super frustrating in the beginning but now I just go with the flow and try not to get worked up about bad hair days.
Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?
Once I stopped using a bath towel to dry my hair I could feel my hair thanking me!
There was a lot less frizz and split end once I started drying my hair with a cotton t-shirt.
What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?
Don’t compare your hair journey to anyone else’s. We all have different patterns and textures and that’s what makes our curls extra special.
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What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?
Growing up, I wanted nothing to do with my natural hair. I did everything to try and permanently straighten it. From relaxers, to keratin smoothing treatments, I did it. Not only was it too hard and thick to manage, but I loved the look of bone straight hair.
What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?
I no longer had patience to sit through relaxers, so I decided to start rocking my damaged hair. Although I gave up chemicals, I still would occasionally flat iron my hair. It wasn’t until I was 17 that I decided to go fully natural. I had frequent haircuts to gradually get rid of all the damage. It wasn’t until I was 18 that I really started to experiment with different products to see what benefited my hair the most. Not only did rocking my natural hair become important to me, but having healthy hair became a main priority.
What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?
The most empowering moment of my natural hair journey has been being able to share it with others through my social media platforms like instagram and youtube. Being able to help others has changed my whole perspective of my natural hair. It has brought me to learn more than I ever knew about my hair and all different curl types.
How do you protect your curls at night?
I typically like to leave my hair down and wrap a satin scarf around it. This works best for me because I don’t wake up with a stiff ponytail or anything like that.
Who is your curl crush?
Joyjah’s hair is drool worthy! There are honestly so many of curl friends with beautiful textures, the list goes on!
What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?
I can’t live without these super thick giant size hair elastics (Goody ouchless hair elastics”> that I picked up from Target. Doesn’t rip my hair and keeps it all up without a problem
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What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?
I’m currently loving the Naturalicious line, TreLuxe Gel, and I can never go wrong with My African Pride Moisture Miracle Curling Creme.
What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?
I think the most challenging part of my journey has been the beginning when transitioning, which I know a lot of people can relate to. I tried to embrace it as much as possible, you have to fight through the damage to get to the beautiful!
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Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?
One of the biggest things that have made a huge difference with my hair has been scalp massages! Not only are they so relaxing, but they help with growth. I typically like to use beneficial oils alone or with my deep conditioner. I use my fingers or scalp stimulating brushes.
What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?
Embrace who you are and love everything about you. Most importantly don’t let anyone tell you different. If you’re struggling with styles, try protective styling and let your hair grow while it’s being protected. Remember to not be too tight and harsh on your head and still apply oils and massage your scalp.
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What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?
I was actually born with straight hair! My hair changed sometime between the 3rd and 5th grade and became frizzy, curly, and BIG! All of my friends had straight hair, and I had no idea how to care for mine. I wore it up every day for 3 years until high school when I got my first straightener. I straightened almost daily for over 10 years!
What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly/coily/wavy hair?
I had just given birth to my second son, and had to adjust my time to get ready for work in the morning. I wanted to start working out regularly, and didn’t have time to spend blow drying and straightening. Most mornings I left the house with wet hair. I still straightened occasionally for the next two years before officially giving up the heat.
What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?
Starting the CG Method. Ditching the sulphates, silicones, and harsh alcohols was a big improvement for my hair. But above all, committing to getting rid of my straightener.
How do you protect your curls at night?
I wear my hair up in a pineapple and sleep on a silk pillowcase.
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Who is your curl crush?
Ohh I have LOTS! But, I found Ayesha Malik on YouTube three years ago when I first started researching how to care for my hair. I watched her videos on how she cares for her hair and, slowly, started.
What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?
I can’t live without Kinky Curly Curling Custard. I like to try other things, but I always go back to this styler. I know it’ll give me consistent results even as the seasons change.
What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?
I stick to low-poo for every wash, then clarify every 3-4 washes. I always wash, apply conditioner, and let the conditioner sit on my hair while I do everything else I need to do. Before rinsing, I squish to condish and finger comb to detangle. Typically style with one styler: Kinky Curly Curling Custard or Ecoslay Orange Marmalade. I also avoid oils/butters as much as possible for my fine strands!
Image Source: @curly_candace
What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?
At first, it was going to special events for the first time. Not having consistent results on wash day and wondering how my hair would look. Also, learning to do updos that work for wavy hair! I think this is why I held onto my straightener for so long.
Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?
Just basically starting the CG Method and avoiding heat. My hair is easily heat damaged, I can go longer between trims and my hair doesn’t break off at the ends.
What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?
Don’t COMPARE! Your journey will be different from others’. Take the time to experiment with styling techniques and application methods. Even if you’re just using one product to style with! Have patience and trust the process!
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What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?
Growing up in a Dominican household my thick curly hair was considered a “Pajon”, which means wild, untamed afro, and that was not a good thing to have. My grandmother would keep my hair in two braided pigtails at all times because she did not want to deal with my “Pajon”. Every other week I would go over my aunt’s house and she would blow dry my hair pin straight. In our culture straight hair meant beautiful hair, so when I turned 10 I was allowed to relax my hair and I was so excited because I was finally going to look pretty.
What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?
To be honest I was tired of relaxing my hair every time. If my hair wasn’t straight I didn’t like how I looked, and I know that stemmed from always hearing that having a “Pajon isn’t pretty”. Also I grew up with women who also relaxed their hair religiously. So around the same time I was trying to figure out what to do with my hair, my cousin Yanil had transitioned from relaxed to natural and I fell in love with her curls. I remember her telling me “Steph you have beautiful curls underneath all those chemicals, you should really embrace them”. Her words resonated with me for several weeks and then I came across a picture of me at the beach (I believe I was 8/9 years old”> I saw how pretty my natural curls were and at that moment was when I said to myself “No more relaxers!”
What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?
When I received a message from a complete stranger saying “You inspired me to embrace my curls”, I literally burst into tears. Throughout my journey I’ve helped several family members and friends on their natural hair journey and I do it because I just want everyone to love their natural hair. But knowing that because I share my journey on my platform I’ve inspired people I’ve never met. It’s just an amazing feeling and I wish I can hug each and every one of them :”>
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How do you protect your curls at night?
Hair up in a high ponytail (pineapple”> wrapped up in a satin scarf. I also sleep on a satin pillowcase because I sleep pretty wild so if my scarf comes off (which it has”> my curls are protected.
Who is your curl crush?
OMG I have so many! But since I have to choose, my hair crush is @brandirell. She was one of the first naturals I followed to help me through my journey. Her curls are just amazing to me and I just love her.
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What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?
My hair pick! Volume to me is essential and I use my pick to achieve the perfect volume. I have a pick in every bag I own, there’s a pick in my bathroom, by my bed, on my vanity, pretty much everywhere around my house and car.
What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?
I wash my hair once a week, and I ALWAYS deep condition. I cannot stress enough the importance of deep conditioning. I style my curls with a cream or light butter styler, and sometimes I’ll add a gel. As of recently I’ve started using mousse after the cream/butter and I am loving my results.
I air dry my hair till about 70% dry then I diffuse. Once my hair is completely dry I pick at my roots and fluff with my hands for volume.
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A few of my favorite products are:
- Papaya Castor Scalp Cleanser by Eden Bodyworks
- Honey Miracle Mask by TGIN
- As I Am Leave-In Conditioner
- Natural Curl Defining Creme by Eden Bodyworks
What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?
I would have to say staying consistent. I struggled with washing my hair weekly and going through my entire wash day routine. I use to be very impatient and wanted my hair to grow over night lol. But thankfully I overcame that when I saw what being consistent was doing to my hair.
Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?
Scalp massages!! They’re amazing and promote hair growth & thickness. Every night before bed I mix a few drops of my two favorite essential oils (Jojoba and Black Jamaican Castor Oil”> I warm them up in my hands and massage the oils into my scalp for about 4 minutes. I began doing this about 3 years ago because I suffer from itchy/flaky scalp and since then the health of my scalp has improved so much, and if your scalp is healthy your hair is healthy.
What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?
Be patient. Take your time with learning your hair, what it likes and doesn’t like. Consistency is very in achieving healthy hair, but most importantly love and embrace YOUR texture.
What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?
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I had loose waves when I was a toddler, and mostly straight hair from K-5th grade. Then, in middle school: hello, puberty! My hair started getting curly and poofy and FRIZZY. I remember classmates constantly commenting on my frizz, so I started wearing a low bun every single day to hide my hair. I recall a specific day where I wore my hair down to go on a field trip: we were on the bus, and I overheard a boy say I looked like a poodle. I was mortified and immediately put my hair up. After that, I begged to get a straightener. I exclusively straightened my hair in high school. During the summers when it was too hot to sit with the heat of the straightener, I wore my hair crunchy (covered in mousse and hairspray”> to avoid the frizz, or just put it up.
What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly/wavy hair?
I was tired of frying my hair. It was frustrating that with just a tiny bit of rain or sweat my straightened hair would start to poof and frizz up — so much work for nothing! I started researching curly hair and stumbled across some YouTube channels: Curly Susie, India Batson, real life+curly girl, and Jannelle O’Shaughnessy. I couldn’t believe I had never heard of the curly girl method before! Those Youtubers led me to the curly community on Instagram, and I was sold! It was uplifting to see so many people embracing their natural hair texture, and it made me feel less alone on the journey.
What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?
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The whole experience of learning how to care for and love what naturally grows out of my head has been so empowering! I love being able to share that care and love with others to help them find their own way!
How do you protect your curls at night?
I use a buff! It holds my hair in place, so I usually don’t need to refresh it. My tip for keeping them on your head at night: pull it down over your eyes!
Who is your curl crush?
I have way too many! @mymanecurls,@hif3licia, @beccasindle, @1falnangl, and @sydnieslittleworld, to name a few!
What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?
A hard hold gel! Or a custard and gel combo. I’m an air-dryer, so having a good cast is the key to keeping my curls intact while I go about my day.
What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?
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I usually cowash. Every 4 or so washes I low-poo, and every 4 weeks I clarify (followed by a deep condition”>. After the wash, I condition, squish to condish, rinse, then apply my leave-in and stylers with my #glazeflipglazescrunch method. It combines upright and upside-down styling and helps me evenly apply products to my thick hair. After that, I plop for 10-30 minutes, then take my hair out to air dry for the rest of my day, then scrunch out the crunch when it’s fully dry.
My favorite product combinations are #serumcustardgel and #moussecustardgel. For whatever reason, my hair loves it when I sandwich a custard!
Three of my favorite custards are made by Kinky Curly, Moptop, and Inahsi! Love them!! And I have to mention how much I love Jessicurl’s Spiralicious Gel! I’ve been using it to top off almost every wash lately.
What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?
Getting started was the hardest part! Learning about my hair, figuring out what my hair liked, and successfully refreshing. I ended up giving up on refreshing, and now I just make sure my curls are extra protected at night!
A more recent challenge was making the CGM work with my job. I’m a cook, so I have to have my hair up with a hat on my head. I used to stress about how to keep my hair looking nice, but realizing that it’s simply not a big deal was freeing. Now I keep it in a low ponytail for work, and it stretches out my curls a bit, but I don’t mind. That’s what headbands are for! I think it’s important to realize that it’s just hair! I save good washes for the weekend.
Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?
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The curly girl method is the start of it all! Cutting out sulfates, silicones, and heat has really helped my curls come back to life!
What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?
- Do some research. Look into the Curly Girl Method. Find out your hair type and learn what that can mean for styling your hair.
- Try different application methods before buying 1,000 different products. Sometimes the problem is not the product — you just haven’t found your hair’s favorite technique yet.
- Don’t be afraid to switch up your routine. I get a lot of questions on whether this method or this product will work on different people’s hair. Everyone’s hair is different, so the only real way to find out if something works for you is to try it yourself!
- Don’t take your hair too seriously! If a wash doesn’t turn out as well as you hoped, roll with it! Embrace the frizz or the wonky curls. It’s what makes curly hair so interesting!
- Give it time! Time is the biggest factor that will help you regain hair health!
Natural hair expert and celebrity hair stylist Felicia Leatherwood shares her top tips for healthy hair and how to properly detangle curly and coily hair using her signature Brush With The Best Brush that was named the BEST detangling tool for natural hair in the 2020 Best of the Best Awards . Plus, she shared her experience styling Issa Rae for the past 6 years and what inspires all the amazing hairstyles we see on Insecure.
NC: Can you share how you got started and any career highlights?
Felicia: Some people know from me doing educational talks around the world, others may know me from doing “Love Your Hair” from natural care workshops internationally or I’m recognized for being a celebrity hair stylist. I’ve gotten to work with Jill Scott, Will Smith, Ava Duvernay, and Anthony Anderson just to name a few. Now I work with two clients, Issa Rae from Insecure and I’ve been styling her hair for six years in addition to Lenny Kravtiz who has the most amazing dreadlocks.
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NC: How do you come up with the hairstyles we see on Insecure? Can you describe what that process is like?
Felicia: To be honest, my influence comes from the natural hair community. When I’m creating a hairstyle, I want it to represent women that have curly, coily, or kinky hair. I want them to feel like they are beautiful, inspired, empowered, and confident. Everything that is created on Issa is meant to shed a light on the beauty of who we are naturally. Most of the hairstyles I’ve made organically and others have been taken from influencers and then I put my own spin on it. I’ll also go look at old school hairstyles from back in the day or from Africa and add to it. I will also talk to Issa and consult with her on what her opinion is of my vision. What most people don’t know is that at times I may have to create five hairstyles a day and I have fifteen minutes to execute and that is the challenge.
NC: What’s your top technique for a quick turnaround between styles?
Felicia: A Lot of what we do in the natural hair community is doing our hair overnight, but that’s not possible for me because I have to execute on the spot. Issa has to have her hair shampooed every few days to prevent product buildup. Some people have too much product on the scalp and that creates product buildup which makes it difficult for your hair to grow. You know when you have buildup from scratching your hair and residue appears under your nails or even when you develop white bumps under the skin and it’s tender. All of that creates blockage which prevents the hair from growing. With Issa I have to start fresh with her and that’s how I’m able to manipulate her hair throughout the day.
NC: Has Issa always been natural? When you introduced these hairstyles to her was she in the process of transitioning or was she already familiar with the styles?
Felicia: Issa is so amazing in the way she’s no fuss. She’s honestly the best out of everyone that I’ve worked with because she doesn’t trip, her hair is her hair. She’s truly no nonsense and doesn’t care about shrinkage, length, none of it. I don’t have to convince her to love her hair. It’s a different experience from me as a hairstylist to not have to coach her to like a certain style.
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NC: Let’s talk about your detangling brush that won the 2020 BOB Awards here at NaturallyCurly, how did you come up with that tool and what made you choose that type of tool in particular?
Felicia: Growing up I had 4c hair and it always looked like “nappy” though nowadays I prefer to call it kinky or coily and it was torture having to style our hair with a pick or the toothbrush comb. I used to notice that some women had “webbing” which prevented me from detangling the hair properly and releasing the hair to open the scalp and get air for exfoliation. I wanted to create a tool that would help go into the hair, define it, detangle it, and really just make women with kinky/coily hair feel comfortable as they are styling. I had found a tool that was similar but I was inspired to create a tool that could easily be used on wash days.
What’s great about the brush is that it opens up and moves with the hair and flexes. When a brush is stationary it can snap if you haven’t had your hair trimmed. This brush pauses to let you know that you need a trim and then it releases it into your natural texture. Most of us as kids dreaded having our parents comb our hair, I wanted kids to be motivated to brush their own hair and enjoy that process. I’ve even had men using the brush to detangle their beards. It’s just been an amazing process and I’ve been in business with the brush since 2013.
NC: What is one of your biggest accomplishments in creating this brush?
Felicia: It’s helping people realize what their texture is because it helps with clumping and definition. When your hair is wet you begin to see what your hair texture is which can help determine the best products for your hair. When I’m teaching women I always emphasize that texture 3 hair uses gels/creams and texture 4 hair uses creams, butters, and oils. I want women to feel the ease of natural hair.
NC: We noticed you had a travel-sized version of the brush, what inspired the smaller version?
Felicia: The travel size mini is perfect for being on-the-go. Sometimes you’re at the gym and you need to detangle or do your hair. Our travel size is made for easy styling on-the-go in addition to working well with a blowdryer. You can also take out protective styles with the brush! There is versatility with this brush that is specially formulated to help you achieve your desired look. If you brush your hair vertically you get ringlets, if you want big hair you brush horizontally.
NC: How can I maintain moisture in my hair? Should I take the hair porosity test?
Felicia: When it comes to porosity and dry hair there are few things to consider and knowing your hair texture is the first step. A Lot of women have worn braids for years which means the synthetic hair that is used in their weave cuts into the cuticle and opens up the hair if their stylist wasn’t coating the synthetic hair with a butter or cream. When it’s open, it’s hard to close which then prevents you from maintaining moisture. There are so many factors that come into play as it pertains to moisture and one big method is L.O.C.(Liquid Oil Cream”> which is better in a spray bottle. I recommend half a teaspoon of jojoba or argan oil, two tablespoons of your favorite conditioner or leave-in, the rest is water. You can spray it on at night, cover it with a plastic cap which will allow it to steam inside the bag and get moisture on the scalp.
NC: You mentioned jojoba and argan oils earlier, there is an ongoing myth about what types of oils are good for your scalp. Can you recommend your favorite types of oils?
Felicia: Jojoba, Argan, Almond, and Black castor oil for the scalp. Oil is not for everybody. If you sweat a lot or if your diet consists of foods with alot of oil, it’s an overload on your scalp. It can start to go rancid and your hair will smell. You have to test oil out and it’s okay if it doesn’t work in your hair.
Everything starts with your digestive system. Your scalp and skin are the first alarms that something isn’t right in your body. You have to be able to exfoliate the scalp so your hair can grow. For those of you who have super thick hair, we often forget to work our shampoo into the scalp. Massage your shampoo into your scalp and that can cleanse your hair and scalp simultaneously.
NC: How do you moisturize cornrows?
Felicia: I recommend doing the L.O.C. method and then tie it back to make the frizzy hair laydown. What I notice is that when people get braids or cornrows they always negate their scalp when in reality that’s the most important time to give your scalp some love.
NC: What are your thoughts on trimming our own hair?
Felicia: Askfelicia.com features webinars that show you how to trim your own hair at home and my recommended products. I advise trimming the hair 2-3 times a year and if you are gonna trim it yourself then twist it up and you only want to take the hair off the bottom, don’t go crazy. For texture 3 you can spray it and stretch it out to see what needs to be cut. Texture 4 hair requires a blowout because of the shrinkage that occurs for you to see the ends in full form.
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NC: What are your tips for prepping for a protective style?
Felicia: The best thing to do is deep condition your hair for about 20-30 minutes. Get your flaxseed or TGIN honey miracle mask and always use a cream or butter when you are styling your protective style. You never want to use a gel because the alcohol content can dry out your hair.
NC: What is the best way to detangle 4c hair? Soaking wet, detangled or dry?
Felicia: This truly depends on how much work you wanna do. To me you have less work with the conditioner on your hair. Section your hairs into fours after you shampoo it, put the conditioner on, split that first piece in half, get your brush (brush from the bottom and not the top”> and then twist it up. Keep moving to the other sections, wash the product out while your hair is twisted then insulate with a t-shirt.
NC: What’s the difference between moisturized and hydrated hair?
Felicia: Moisturized hair is temporary. As a stylist I want to hydrate your hair because it gets into the body of the hair. Hydration means you give it water, when you moisturize the water sits on top.
NC: Does color-treated hair need more moisture or protein?
Moisture because some people are protein sensitive. If you feel that dry, brittly feeling that means your hair is protein sensitive. Color-treated hair is already dry so you want to add as much moisture as possible.
Thank you so much for speaking with us Felicia! We look forward to seeing all the new tools and products that will continue to inspire amazing styles from the natural hair community.
Curls are prone to breakage and they thrive off a healthy balance of protein and moisture. Whether your hair is dry, damaged or even thinning, it’s nothing the right at home treatment can’t fix. Each year we poll our NC community on the products they love and thousands of our community members vote! Keep reading to find out the most recommended hair treatments to bring your curls back to life, from nourishing hair oils to repairative overnight treatments these are the best hair treatments of 2020!
Righteous Roots Rx Oil
Best Hair & Scalp Oil + Hair Growth Product + Best Scalp Treatment for ALL Hair Types
Righteous Roots Rx is a hair rejuvenating growth serum packed with 12 essential oils featuring both anti-frizz and detangling properties like olive oil, castor oil, jojoba oil, avocado oil, grapeseed oil and peppermint oil. It can be used for hot oil treatments, deep conditioning, pre-poo pre wash detangling, scalp massages, anti itch scalp oil, and to scrunch out the crunch.
Curlsmith Full Lengths Density Elixir
Best Hair Growth Product for Wavy Hair
Full Lengths Density Elixir is great as an overnight treatment for those with fine, thinning, or damaged hair. Formulated with follicle stimulating ingredients like Castor Oil, Green Tea, Cedar Wood, Soybean, Thyme, Clover and Pea Sprout, as well as scalp soothing remedies such as Lavender and Witch Hazel.
Olaplex No.3 Hair Perfector
Best Treatment for ALL Hair Types
Whether you have color treated curls or in need of a professional at home treatment to repair your hair, this treatment will revive your hair. No.3 is a bond builder that strengthens, repairs and restores damaged hair back to healthy bouncy curls in no time.
Alikay Naturals Essential 17 Hair Growth Oil
Best Hair Growth Product for Coily Hair
An oil blend of 17 of the best natural ingredients including Emu oil, Rosemary oil, Olive oil and Sweet Almond oil. This oil blend stimulates, nourishes and strengthens the hair follicles and reduces dandruff, while helping to reduce scalp infections and inflammation.
ApHogee Two-Step Protein Treatment
Best Treatment for Coily Hair
This unique treatment is formulated with magnesium and modified proteins which fuse into the hair with the application of heat. The result is that breakage is drastically reduced. During the process, ApHogee treatment hardens into the hair, dramatic evidence that something special is occurring.
EDEN BodyWorks Papaya Castor Scalp Cleanser
Best Scalp Treatment for Coily Hair
Specially crafted to remove build-up and restore the pH level of your scalp, this cleanser is great for those needing a bit of love for their scalp. Formulated with papaya extract, castor seed oil and apple cider vinegar, it’s sure to get your scalp clean, and leave it smelling great as well!
See your favorite on the list? Let us know which one you love and any other hair treatments you always reach for.
Whether you sleep with a silk pillowcase or scarf to protect curls overnight, chances are you have to refresh your hair in the morning to bring your curls back to life. Achieving great day 2 hair and beyond, doesn’t have to be difficult. To help take out the guesswork, we asked and you voted on your absolute favorite refreshers for wavy, curly and coily hair. Keep reading to find out the NC Best of the Best award winning refreshers that we always reach for to revive our hair in between washes.
TYPE 2
Raw Curls Anti-Frizz Spray
This anti-frizz spray helps to detangle your hair, plus refreshes your waves in between washes without weighing it down.
“LOVE this spray! I use it on wet hair before leave in for added frizz control and also as a refresher spray on day 2 or 3 hair. It makes SUCH a difference with my stubborn frizz and smells so good!” -Diane
TYPE 3
Rizos Curls Refresh & Detangle Spray
The ultimate go-to for curlies, the Rizos Curls Refresh & Detangle spray is formulated with key ingredients such as coconut oil, olive oil, and shea butter to renew and hydrate curls in between washes.
“Rizos Curls Refresh & Detangle spray is my new holy grail. I actually never even had one so it’s my first holy grail. I use it as a leave-in conditioner and to help refresh curls on non wash days. It works amazing for me. It’s light, so as a leave in for my curls and it’s excellent!” -Amy
TYPE 4 & BEST FOR ALL HAIR TYPES
Alikay Naturals Wake Me Up Daily Curl Refresher
This lovely mango scented combination will define and refresh your curls in one simple step. Helps revive your flattened, bed head hair and dried out curls to help them look fabulous again. A special blend of natural ingredients reduces frizz, enhances natural shine and locks in moisture all day. It works by clumping your curls together to help them pop.
“I’ve tried many curl refreshers on the market and this is the BEST! First of all, it has great ingredients with aloe vera listed second on the list. I find this product to be moisturizing and definitely not drying at all! Best of all, this curl refresh isn’t watery like the “others” and hence it doesn’t frizz my hair. For best results on second day wash and go’s, twist outs, etc, I lightly spray product into my hands and then distribute into my hair, fluff and go!” -Pastel
What is your go-to curl refreshing product you love? Share with us in the comments below.
What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?
I had curls when I was a toddler, then my hair turned straight as a kid (with a few ringlets at the ends”> and then my hair turned kind of wavy-curly when I became a teenager. I often hear this from other girls with loose curls. I didn’t fight my natural texture, but I had no idea how to manage it because no one else in the family has curly hair.
What made you decide to embrace your naturally wavy/curly hair?
Actually, I was quite happy with my curls despite the fact that I had no idea how to handle them. However, I hated my natural hair color, I kept bleaching it. I totally ruined my hair by dyeing it at home, using horrible, cheap products with sulfates, silicones and alcohol. I diffused with hot air. My ends were breaking off constantly, I could not achieve literally any hair growth for years. I had a thin, dry ball of frizz and it was shedding a lot. I realized I couldn’t go on doing this to my hair, so I decided to learn how to take care of my curls and found the curly girl method. I have been following it for 2 and a half years now and it works wonders!
What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?
As I mentioned earlier, my hair wouldn’t grow for years and I was incredibly frustrated over that. As my hair was getting healthier and healthier (it took a long time and I was impatient”> my hair started to transform. I wasn’t only retaining length, but my curl pattern has also changed a lot since then: my spirals and ringlets started to appear in place of the frizzy waves. I realized that ditching the hair dye and embracing my natural color was a great decision: as it was growing out, I learned to like it because of all the benefits I was experiencing.
How do you protect your curls at night?
I don’t make any fuss about it. :”> I use a satin pillowcase and put my hair in a pineapple with a satin scrunchie.
Who is your curl crush?
I have so many, it’s so hard to choose!
What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?
I have fine hair, so my hair loves protein treatments! And I can’t live without my Wet Detangler Tangle Teezer brush, it cuts down my detangling time literally into half and spares me an awful lot of breakage, too.
What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?
I follow the condition-wash-condition method: I pre-poo with an oil the previous night, I detangle with a conditioner, I shampoo and deep condition. My holy grail hair mask is the Jamaican Black Castor Oil Mask by Shea Moisture, it always gives me insane definition whenever I use it! I style with the Maui Moisture curl milk and I layer a gel on top of it. I air dry until my hair is 80% dry and after that I diffuse for volume and more bounce. I clarify on a regular basis with Shea Moisture’s African Black Soap and Charcoal Shampoo.
What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?
In the first year I was really impatient because it took a lot of time before I started seeing noticeable progress. I was comparing myself constantly to my favorite influencers at the time who were either years ahead of me or had totally different hair types. It also took me a lot of effort to find out where to buy the hair products I was constantly hearing about because a few years ago I couldn’t find these in Hungary. (Now I shop online and also have a couple of drugstore options like Cantu and Maui Moisture.”>
Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?
Figuring out the right balance between protein and moisture was one of the biggest favors I could do for myself. Styling with my Tangle Teezer or Denman Brush and finger coiling helped to bring back and encourage my curl formation and clumping. It also creates an even curl pattern if there are sections that need help.
What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?
Your curls give you so much personality and uniqueness! Your hair is special and makes you stand out. The most beautiful thing about this journey is that the more you invest in it, the more you will appreciate your results. We cherish what we earn. I promise that you will be proud of yourself and you will feel that it’s worth the hard work you have put into it!
Whether you’re currently transitioning, an OG curly girl or natural hair enthusiast there’s no greater joy than finding a product that works like magic for your curls, coils, and waves! With the overwhelming amount of natural hair products on the shelves it can be tough to decide which products to choose.
Luckily, we’re here to help take the guesswork out of finding the perfect product for you and also help you determine what your hair type is to help you better understand your curls.
Every year we poll the NaturallyCurly community and ask their favorite hair care products that are really ahhhhmazing and simply do what they say they’re going to do.
What makes the NC BOB Leaders in Curl seal unique and valuable is- it’s the unfiltered opinions of thousands of curlies around the world with various hair textures, plus our editors share their products that they deem worthy of a Best of the Best Leaders in Curl Award.
We created the Best of the Best Leaders in Curl awards to recognize those products deemed the best natural hair products of all time that we without a doubt love, selected by both our community and our editors.
This year, we had over 5,000 NaturallyCurly community members and team members have taken the time to share their favorite products, tools and necessities for curly, coily and wavy hair.
The Results
Ready to see who won this year? You’ll be surprised a few products actually won for ALL hair types and work well for various hair textures. Okay enough talking, we have compiled the votes and are excited to announce the full products list of must have items that every curly girl should try out.
Each winner is organized by the following categories with a special notation of recommendations for each hair type and overall highly recommended for all hair types.
TYPE 2
TYPE 3
Bounce Curl Enzyme Gentle Clarifying Shampoo
TYPE 4 & BEST FOR ALL HAIR TYPES
SheaMoisture Jamaican Black Castor Oil Strengthen & Restore Shampoo
BEST FOR ALL HAIR TYPES
TYPE 2
Bounce Curl Super Smooth Cream Conditioner
TYPE 3 & BEST FOR ALL HAIR TYPES
SheaMoisture Coconut & Hibiscus Curl & Shine Conditioner
TYPE 4
SheaMoisture Manuka Honey & Mafura Oil Hydration Intensive Conditioner
Deep Conditioner:
TYPE 2
Jessicurl Deep Conditioning Treatment
TYPE 3 & BEST FOR ALL HAIR TYPES
SheaMoisture Manuka Honey & Mafura Oil Intensive Hydration Masque
TYPE 4
BEST FOR ALL HAIR TYPES
TYPE 4
Alikay Naturals Lemongrass Leave In Conditioner
TYPE 2
Giovanni Mousse Air-Turbo Charged Hair Styling Foam
TYPE 3
Innersense I Create Lift Volumizing Foam
TYPE 4
Lottabody Wrap Me Foaming Mousse
BEST FOR ALL HAIR TYPES
Design Essentials Almond & Avocado Curl Enhancing Mousse
TYPE 2
Cantu Moisturizing Curl Activator Cream
TYPE 4
Melanin Twist Elongating Style Cream
BEST FOR ALL HAIR TYPES
Bounce Curl Avocado & Rose Oil Clump and Define Cream
TYPE 2
Jessicurl Spiralicious Styling Gel
TYPE 3 & BEST FOR ALL HAIR TYPES
Ecoco Eco Styler Professional Styling Gel with Argan Oil
TYPE 4
Ecoco Ecostyler Professional Styling Gel with Olive Oil
TYPE 4
Mielle Organics Pomegranate & Honey Twisting Soufflé
BEST FOR ALL HAIR TYPES
Camille Rose Almond Jai Twisting Butter
TYPE 3
CURLS Blueberry CURL Control Paste
BEST FOR ALL HAIR TYPES
Ecoco Ecostyler Professional Styling Gel with Olive Oil
TYPE 2
Bounce Curl Avocado and Rose Oil
TYPE 3
TYPE 4 & BEST FOR ALL HAIR TYPES
TYPE 4
Alikay Naturals Essential 17 Hair Growth Oil
BEST FOR ALL HAIR TYPES
TYPE 4
EDEN BodyWorks Papaya Castor Scalp Cleanser
BEST FOR ALL HAIR TYPES
TYPE 2
Curlsmith Full Lengths Density Elixir
TYPE 3 & BEST FOR ALL HAIR TYPES
Righteous Roots Rx TYPE 3 & OVERALL BEST FOR ALL HAIR TYPES
TYPE 4
Alikay Naturals Essential 17 Hair Growth Oil
TYPE 4
ApHogee Two-Step Protein Treatment
BEST FOR ALL HAIR TYPES
TYPE 2
TYPE 3 & BEST FOR ALL HAIR TYPES
Bounce Curl Alcohol-Free HairSpray
TYPE 2
Living Proof Restore Instant Protection
TYPE 3
Cantu Thermal Shield Heat Protectant
TYPE 4 & BEST FOR ALL HAIR TYPES
Tresemme Thermal Creations Heat Protectant
TYPE 2
TYPE 3
TYPE 4 & BEST FOR ALL HAIR TYPES
TYPE 2
TYPE 3
Rizos Curls Refresh & Detangle Spray
TYPE 4 & BEST FOR ALL HAIR TYPES
Alikay Naturals Wake Me Up Daily Curl Refresher
TYPE 2
Innersense I Create Lift Volumizing Foam
TYPE 2
Xtava Black Orchid Hair Diffuser
TYPE 3 & BEST FOR ALL HAIR TYPES
Denman Classic Styling Brush – D3
TYPE 4
Felicia Leatherwood Brush With The Best
TYPE 2
BEST FOR ALL HAIR TYPES
TYPE 2
TYPE 3
TYPE 4
TYPE 2
TYPE 3
Cantu Moisturizing Curl Activator Cream
TYPE 4
Camille Rose Naturals Curl Love Moisture Milk
Which of these are your favorite(s”> ? Let us know in the comments below.
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What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?
Growing up in Puerto Rico, long straight hair was the norm. I don’t have any memory of me wearing my natural hair out as a kid; I absolutely hated my hair. It wasn’t until 2017 that I decided to transition into being natural.
What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?
My mom always wanted me to embrace my curly hair, but I wanted to fit in. It wasn’t until one day, I really missed her and needed to feel connected to her, that I heard her voice telling me to leave it curly and I finally listened. My mom passed when I was young so this is definitely for her.
What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?
My first “because of you” DM. I don’t see myself as an “influencer” . My goal was to always show girls that they are beautiful and they didn’t have to go through what I went through as a kid. When I read that DM saying “you inspired me to start my curly hair journey”… it all clicked.
Image: @thecurlybella
How do you protect your curls at night?
I have a silk pillowcase and I sleep with my hair in a pineapple. I tried scarves and bonnets, but I take them off while I sleep… I guess they bother me at night.
Who is your curl crush?
So many I can’t pick! I do love a tighter curl. It’s so much easier to achieve volume, and it looks amazing.
What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?
Deep conditioners, my diffuser and my Felicia Leatherwood brush.
Image: @thecurlybella
What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?
During quarantine my hair is extra dry because I’m inside with radiator heat 24/7. So definitely doing a lot of Olaplex No.3 and deep conditioning treatments. Rizos Curls refresh spray has become my go to to keep my hair moisturized.
What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?
Growing my damaged hair out. I didn’t do a big chop, and I had parts of my hair that were so damaged that my hair wasn’t proportioned at all.
Image: @thecurlybella
Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?
Consistency and patience! Consistently using deep conditioners and cutting my hair every 3-5 months. And being patient, not going back to heat until my hair was healthy enough to take it, patiently detangling my hair to avoid more breakage. I think also listening to my hair, knowing what it likes and doesn’t like because everyone’s hair is different.
What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?
Going natural isn’t a trend. If you’re not ready to make the commitment, don’t do it. It’s a long process that requires a lot of love and patience. Now, if this is something that you want to do because in your soul you wants to, do it. You will learn so much about yourself, not only will your hair grow healthy, but so will you.
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What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?
Growing up with textured hair was difficult at times, especially since my mom didn’t know how to manage it properly. Most of the time my hair would get thrown in a high puff or it would get straightened with the hot comb (yes, the one you heat up on the stove, and it used to burn the mess out of my ears and neck”>.
When I went to school I was constantly picked on by other girls and told that I need to get a relaxer and how my hair was too nappy. That’s when I decided to beg my mom for a perm.
What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?
I decided to embrace my natural hair because my relaxed hair started to thin out and it was damaged. Although I had the length I’ve always wanted, I wasn’t happy with how it looked. I had always thought about returning natural, however, I was scared to cut all of my hair off. After doing research, I found out about transitioning and felt more comfortable taking that journey so I could keep my length and have time to learn how to manage my own hair.
What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?
The most empowering moment of my journey so far is when I inspired my mom to embrace her natural hair after 40+ years of getting relaxers. I never thought I’d be able to go on this journey with her and teach her how to take care of a new texture. It has been beautiful watching her growth and I’m glad my journey gave her the courage to try something new.
Another empowering moment is when I finally decided to big chop. When I looked in the mirror after getting rid of my relaxed ends, I felt liberated. I actually ended up crying on my way home, but it was happy tears. This is something I told myself I could never do, but I gathered the courage and did it. It was one of the best decisions I’ve made!
How do you protect your curls at night?
Before putting on my satin bonnet, I put my hair in mini pineapples to stretch it a little and it helps my styles to last longer. I also use a satin pillowcase sometimes for double protection.
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Who is your curl crush?
My curl crush would have to be Khadijah aka Khadisiac on YouTube. She was the first person on Youtube that I found during my transitioning journey that helped me choose the right products and manage my hair. I have high porosity hair and she does too, and thanks to her, I found out about porosity early on which helped me a lot once I big chopped.
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What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?
One thing I can’t live without is my Bunzee Bands, a hair tie that I use to get the perfect high puff. A high puff is my go-to style once my hair gets old, and this accessory makes the process of putting my hair up easier and faster.
What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?
The first week of every month I use a clay wash to remove product build-up and give my curls a fresh start. My favorite clay wash is from Chocolate Kinks & Kurls, the Red Clay & Hibiscus.
On the other weeks, I pre-poo before wash day and use shampoo. Then I follow up with a rinse-out conditioner and I always use a deep conditioner for at least 30-45 min. I like double conditioning my high porosity hair, it’s something that has always worked for me. Once I finish that, I do a scalp massage and follow the LOC method to style my hair.
Throughout the week, I refresh with water if needed and fluff my hair out with an oil and a hair pick. I wear a satin bonnet every night to protect my hair and massage my scalp twice per week.
I have many favorite products, but two of my top brands I use consistently are Melanin Haircare and Nature’s Little Secret.
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What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?
The most challenging moment of my journey has been embracing my texture and loving my hair regardless of what other people think. When I first big chopped I had a vision of what I wanted my curls to look like, however, I knew that wouldn’t be the case. It took time and patience for me to figure out what worked best for my curls and over time I started to fall in love with them.
I had to realize that my curls are unique and beautiful. It’s good that it doesn’t look exactly like someone else’s! This is the texture I was born with and I’m proud to rock it every day with confidence now.
Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?
One thing that has made a huge impact on the health of my hair is incorporating Ayurvedic Herbs in my regimen. Using different herbs has helped strengthen my curls, stimulate hair growth, and combat scalp issues I’ve struggled with for years such as itchiness and dandruff.
What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?
My advice is to continue to find what works best for you and be patient. This journey is all about trial & error and you can’t give up when things don’t turn out the way you expect. You will always learn something new about your hair and it’ll change over time. Once you find products and techniques that work wonders for your hair, you’ll start to feel more confident with it and see what your texture can truly do. Even without adding products to your hair, just know you’re beautiful and your texture is unique and helps you stand out from the crowd.
