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Lisette, also known to YouTube and Instagram as Luhhsettyxo, created a new video for NaturallyCurly to show you 3 easy styles for prom. Formal events often mean high heat and over manipulative hairstyles, but we know the importance maintaining hair health no matter the occasion, so here are three non-damaging prom and formal styles that can be achieved with no heat and little manipulation.
What you need:
- Some bobby pins
- A brush like Cricket Cricket Amped Up Teasing Brush
- A hair donut like Brown 3pcs Bun Ring
- A spray bottle (with water”>
- Something to smooth your edges like Eden Body Works Control Edge Gel
- A moisturizing styler with hold like SheaMoisture Coconut & Hibiscus Hold & Shine Moisture Mist
Watch the video:
Want to see more of Lisette? Check out her teen-friendly type 3 curly hair advice on YouTube with Luhhsettyxo.
Tanya Wright is an actress (Orange Is the New Black and True Blood”>, author, natural hair influencer and all around curlfriend so when she shared an excerpt of her book “I Found God In My Hair, 98 spiritual principles I learned… from my hair!” we were intrigued. Tanya is currently fundraising for her latest project “HAIRiette of HARLEM,” the first interactive natural hair web series. You can help support HAIRiette here.
The following is an excerpt from her book “I Found God In My Hair.”
For many, “God” is a very loaded word. I get it. I grappled with changing the title for fear that I might alienate people, especially the ones that were too cool, too smart or simply didn’t believe in God. Trust me, I’ve gone through my own rocky relationship with the man (or woman?”> upstairs. I went round and round on this and came back to my first choice title, mostly because it was true.
This book is about the things I learned about life via my relationship with what has been the bane of my existence for most of my existence: MY HAIR! I was responsible for putting the physical time, research and energy into the book, but the inspiration to write it—the thing that kept goading me forward—is something (or someone”> I can’t fully explain. Also inside are fun quotes by some folks you know and love, plus photos of my various roles as an actress and all my hairstyles along the way.
Read on to see the first seven of Tanya’s 98 spiritual principles she learned from her.
one: infinite possibilities
I am a dreamer–for sure. But dreams rarely become a reality until you take action. I am an obsessive finisher and terribly, terribly determined — perhaps it’s the Taurus in me! Once I get a goal fixed in my mind, I rarely veer off course until I have achieved it, no matter how large the task.
Here’s the thing: I believe that one of the prerequisites of dreaming is that you have to believe that what you dream is possible in order for it to become true! And the truth is anything is possible! The world is made up of infinite possibilities.
Our hair is made up of millions of hair follicles, too; follicles are CIRCULAR in shape, like the letter “o” or the number 0. According to the dictionary, this shape is also representative of “pure potentiality,” it is also the “number from which all numbers spring forth.” In essence, we have thousands and thousands of “o’s” atop our head.
My hair is a reminder that I have infinite possibilities at my disposal.
two: patience
Length is a popular desire among most women with textured hair—who doesn’t want a long, luxurious mane? But growing your hair requires patience—length just doesn’t happen overnight. When you see a gal with long, flowing coifs you can be sure that it took a while to get it there.
For me, patience is the “trait most desired”. Whenever I feel myself getting impatient, I instinctively switch my thoughts to the present moment and start breathing– whatever it is I’m waiting for invariably comes without me being stressed and pressed about it and often when I’m not looking at all. I does feel like “a watched pot never boils.”
My hair journey has been very long and extremely windy. My hair teaches me to have patience.
three: indestructible
Did you know that our hair is the most indestructible part of our bodies? It contains our DNA—that’s pretty strong! Sometimes we get swept to and fro by the tide of life—we are happy when we have ‘good’ days, and not-so-much when we have ‘bad’ ones. There is a part in all of us that isn’t swept by the tide, no matter what our external world looks like, no matter what changes in fortune for us.
My hair teaches me that, no matter what I may ex- perience in the external world, that I am indestructible.
four: elasticity
Ah, curls! I have lots of them, all over my head. Springy coils that swing to my shoulders when wet and shrink up toward my scalp when they’re dry. I can pull a curl taught and release it and it snaps back—like a rubber band. Life is full of changes, so sometimes, I have to change direction, chart another course. This has hap- pened to me more times than I care to count!
My hair teaches me to be elastic so that I can deal with whatever twists and turns life throws at me.
“People always ask me how long it takes to do my hair. I don’t know, I’m never there.”
— Dolly Parton
five: versatility
People tell me all the time I’m a chameleon—I can look very different from one day to the next. The truth is, my look—what I wear, how I wear my hair— depends largely on how I feel when I wake up in the morning. I am an actress so my profession demands that I be versatile, but in life, I have found it’s good to be versatile, too. The ability to relate to different kinds of people—to move from one group to the next and have something in common with all of them—is a sign of a versatile person.
My hair teaches me to be versatile.
six: control
My hair journey started from one simple idea: “if I could get control of my hair, maybe—just maybe— I can get control of my life!” My professional life is always changing—it’s unpredictable! It’s hard to plan things in advance because the circumstances of my life can change on a dime—and often has. Before I read the book “Curly Like Me” (a great book for women with naturally textured hair written by Teri LaFleur”>, I had resigned myself to the fact that my hair was just something I would not be able to control— ever. ‘Curly Like Me’ gave me hope; it helped me to see that there WAS a method to the madness, and there WAS a way to deal with my hair where I was in control of it instead of feeling like it was always in control of me.
My hair teaches me that I have control.
“It’s the way we treat the hair once it’s on top of our heads that literally makes it or breaks it.”
— Unknown
seven: attachment
“My hair is like a box of chocolates: I never know what I’m gonna get”. Rather than get attached to the result of something—of thinking that things should look and be a way that they aren’t—I have learned not to get attached to a fixed picture in my mind. Letting go of attachment is, perhaps, one of the most profound life lessons I’ve ever learned. Almost all of the world’s spiritual teachers say that attachment most often leads to misery.
My hair has taught me to detach myself from results.
Be sure to check out “HAIRiette of HARLEM,” the first interactive natural hair web series. You can help support HAIRiette here.
Tiara
This is not your mother’s prom tiara. Pop this on over your topknot for an edgy take on the prom queen staple. We especially love that this is a hairstyle most of us can do at home (for free!”> and that’s one less thing to worry about as you prep for prom!
Bun pin; NastyGal
Jeweled Headbands
We love when a red carpet starlet wears her jewels in her hair rather than the conventional necklace and earrings. If you plan on wearing your hair down to prom, add a jeweled headband and pin the pieces that frame your face back so that your features can be seen in your photos. Etsy or Pinterest have plenty of homemade headband inspiration for the DIY-er in you too.
Jeweled Headband; bando
Chain Headpiece
If you’re rocking a dress with a simple silhouette, we recommend going all out with your hair accessories. This chain headpiece will definitely turn heads, and if you’re blessed with natural curls or waves they’ll look gorgeous with this crown on top! We’re thinking a major Khaleesi moment here.
Chain Headpiece; NastyGal
Flower clips
With hints of spring in the air, flower clips may be a way to not only think spring, but give your hair a pretty and soft look for the season. Stick one in a bun or on a low ponytail. Use them to sweep hair from your face, or just add a something a little different to your look for the day.
Flower clips; ASOS
Feathers
Hair feathers have been trending in the bohemian and festival scene for a while, but they have a place in glamorous events as well. This take on the trend has a more Gatsby-esque feel, so it would pair beautifully with a silk prom gown or even 1920’s inspired beaded cocktail dress.
Feather Hair Piece; ASOS
Pearls
Pearls were reincarnated as an edgy accessory on the runways this season, and we love this unexpected way of incorporating them into your prom look. Lace a string of pearls through your braid or prom updo for a look no one else will be have.
Pearls clip; ASOS
Jeweled Barrettes
Section off one or two pieces of hair around your face and use pins or jeweled barrettes and clips to show off your facial features. Leave a few face-framing pieces out in the front.
Jeweled barrette; bando
Statement Headband
Match your headband to your dress for a bold and pretty statement. We love that this messy bun is dressed up yet not too stuffy. The imperfection here is key to getting that it-girl look.
Burst headband; ASOS
Hair Charms
If you want to keep the focus on your dress and makeup, add just a subtle touch of sparkle to your strands with these clip in hair charms.
Hair charms; NastyGal
We love working with inspiring young women, and miss Hanna LaShay is no exception! The girl can sing, act, model and she can do a mean flat twist! Just look at those perfect parts. We also love working with brands whose ingredients we can get behind and we know for a fact that our community loves them too – that’s right we’re talking about SheaMoisture. Hanna’s mom is a salon owner so she was first introduced to the brand by her mom. This is how she flat twists her hair as a protective style when she’s on the go or for going to school.
What You’ll Need
- rattail comb
- wide tooth comb
- styling cream – Hanna used Coconut & Hibiscus Curl & Style Milk
- styling souffle – Hanna used Coconut & Hibiscus Curling Gel Souffle
Directions
- After shampooing, part your hair with a rattail comb to section your hair
- Take a small amount of Coconut & Hibiscus Curl & Style Milk and apply it evenly to the first section of your hair
- Use a small amount of Coconut & Hibiscus Curling Gel Souffle to lay down the edges (for a cleaner look”>
- Detangle that section with a wide tooth comb
- Flat twist that section by grabbing two strands of hair and twist one over the other, continue to do this adding a little bit more hair to the twist each time (watch the video to see what we mean”>
- Once you twist all the way to the nape of your neck, continue with a regular two strand twist to the ends of your hair
- Repeat steps 1-6 for each section
Hanna typically creates 8 or 9 flat twists, this will vary based on how big or small you want your curls to be. When you’re ready to take your flat twists out (Hanna leaves her in for a week”> you simply untwist them as you would a normal two strand twist. Hanna likes this style because it’s quick and easy, she can do them on the go and her hair won’t be as time consuming for her busy weeks.
Watch the Video
If you’d like to see more of Hanna, check out her Deep Treatment Routine which we filmed on a Sunday afternoon. You can also subscribe to her YouTube IAmHannaLaShay or follow her on Instagram.
MORE: Watch Hanna’s Deep Treatment Routine
This post is sponsored by SheaMoisture.
10 Ways to Fix Greasy Roots
1. Powder
Use any type of loose powder (baby powder with lavender or corn starch work great”> and apply it with a brush or make up sponge or puff for extra control. Work the powder through your hair, at the roots and style as usual.
Products
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2. Fruity Fix
Try an apple and citrus fix as a gentle acidic rinse. Mix apple cider vinegar or lemon juice with warm water and use it as a rinse in the shower. The acidic properties of these will help remove the oil and clean hair and roots thoroughly, without damaging the hair.
DIY
After shampooing, try mixing the juice of one fresh orange, water, a tablespoon of honey, and a tablespoon of sandalwood oil together and let it coat your scalp for about 10-15 minutes. Rinse out thoroughly and watch how shiny your curls will look (not to mention how great it will smell”>.Products
If you’d rather buy that do it yourself, try these tangy cleansers:
3. Wash Less
Washing your hair every day can break down the natural oils in your hair. When you wash too often the glands reproduce what they need, or what was washed away. If your hair is super oily, try shampooing every other day, if possible (or once a week if you can!”>. Use a good conditioner or conditioning treatment to keep hair soft and well nourished.
Products
Some good clarifying shampoos targeted toward oily scalps are:
4. Simplify
Stay away from products that contain too many harsh chemicals, these can cause build up and oily spots. Try out DIY products or simpler products that contain fewer, basic ingredients. Look for the words ‘lightweight’ in the titles.
Products
Here are some second-day refreshers & detanglers that won’t leave oily residue:
5. Absorb the Oil
We love it for breakfast (heck, even for dinner!”> and it’s pretty good for our bodies, so, yes, it’s great for hair too! Oatmeal makes a great absorber. Try preparing plain oatmeal and using it as a masque for your hair.
You can mix in a bit of your favorite conditioner (just a little”> and let it sit on your hair for 15-20 mins. The rinse out will take a while (also, be prepared to clean out your drain”> but it will leave your hair clean, sans the oil, and healthy.
6. Dry Shampoo
There are a number of dry shampoos on the market these days, try one that works for your hair type and use a small amount, applied directly to your oily root area. You can find travel versions to take with you to work, the gym or keep in your car for super fast fixes too!
Products
Here are some of our fave dry shampoos:
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7. Cover Up
If you have been looking to try out a new headband or wrap a scarf around your locks – this is a great time to try it out.
It’s spring, so take advantage of beautiful floral crowns! Or use a wider head band or scarf to cover your roots, push hair from your faces and flaunt your facial features.WATCH: 3 Ways to Tie a Scarf
8. Soothe Your Scalp
Oftentimes our hair shafts and follices don’t get too much attention–or motion.
A gentle massage may not only help you relax, but it may also help lower the amount of oily spots. Try giving your head a gentle massage in the shower or at night before bed. Without rubbing your actual hair, feel your scalp and gently use the pads of your fingers to work around your head and neck.
MORE: How to Give a Scalp Massage
9. Time to Trim
If hair is kept at it’s best, healthy, there will be less chance for oily spots to return. Browse through our Salon Finder in search of a local curly stylist near you to ensure you’re getting the right amount of hair trimmed.
10. Make the Most of It
Make the oily spots work for you! Hair can be a bit more flexible and manageable with the extra oils, so try out a cool new bun or updo- it will be easier to do and may just give you a new look for a day! Check out Evelyn’s chic retro updo tutorial for a little inspiration.
It’s that in-between season that we all love–not sure if it’s getting warmer, may still be cold, it may rain or snow… And our bodies and hair respond to those changes.
Along with the uncertainty of weather can come a lack-of-luster for our locks.
Luckily, here are some easy, all-natural, do-it-yourself potions that you can create in no time, and bring back the natural shine and bounce to your hair.
Next page: Tonic to Solve Dullness
1. Parsley & Rosemary Tonic
Solves: Dullness
What You’ll Need
- 2 tablespoons crushed parsley seeds (found at health food stores”>
- 1/2 cup chopped rosemary
- Water
Directions
- Bring 2-3 cups of water to a boil.
- Add the crushed parsley and chopped rosemary.
- Allow to steep for 20 mins.
- Cool and strain the mixture.
- Pour the liquid over your hair in the shower or sink.
- Wrap your head with a warm towel for 45 minutes to an hour.
- Do not rinse– allow your hair to dry naturally.
Next page: Tonic to Solve Dandruff
2. Nettle Hair Tonic
Solves: Dandruff
What You’ll Need
- A handful of fresh nettle leaves or 5 tablespoons of dried nettle (found at health food stores”>
- A few drops of your favorite essential oil
- A bottle or glass jar to store the liquid
Directions
- Bring the water to a boil.
- Place the nettle (fresh or dried”> in the water.
- Simmer for 10 minutes.
- Add a few drops of your selected oil.
- Allow the mixture to cool and steep for 20 mins.
- Once cool, strain the liquid.
- Pour over your hair in the shower.
- Comb or massage through your hair and let it sit for 10 minutes.
- Rinse your hair thoroughly.
Next page: Tonic to Solve Dryness
3. Aloe Juice & Clary Sage
Solves: Dryness
What You’ll Need
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4 tablespoons aloe juice (from local health or grocery store”>
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6 to 8 drops clary sage essential oil
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1 teaspoon water
Directions
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Mix ingredients into a small bottle and shake well.
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Apply to your hair in your shower and comb through evenly.
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Allow the mixture to sit in your hair for 10-15 minutes.
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Rinse thoroughly and air dry.
Watch: DIY Whipped Shea Butter for Skin + Hair
They always say “the truth will set you free.” So it’s about time the NaturallyCurly team tells you how we really feel about curly hair.
Our deepest, darkest straight hair desires – revealed!
Priscilla “I wish my hair was straight again, so I could spend my days worrying about whether or not the weather would ruin my thin and limp hair look (which I achieved by spending hours blow drying and flat-ironing it”>.”
Michelle “I wish I had straight hair because I really miss spending an hour every morning blowing my hair out, putting in hot rollers, plastering it with hair spray and then walking outside into the Austin humidity to see how long it takes for it to return to its natural state.”
Cristina “I wish I had straight hair so that I could curl my straight hair with a curling wand to create wavy hair, not unlike the wavy hair I already have.”
Amanda “I wish my hair was straight because clearly it is easier to manage. I thought the Indian in my family would help but I guess my hair is too nappy. How in the world will I get a job and what man will want me?”
Susonnah “I wish I had straight hair because then I could try all the amazing products made for people with straight hair! Hair spray, dry shampoo, flat irons, I want it all. And I really need some sulfates in my life.”
Jamie “I wish I had straight hair because my favorite part of my day is waking up extra early before work to make sure every strand is in place and kink free.”
Nikki “I wish I had straight hair so people would like me but never ask to touch my hair. If I had straight hair I could have been prom queen. Plus all the guys LOVE women with straight hair. It’s the best thing out there. I mean, think about it… every princess real or fiction has long straight hair. A girl can dream.”
Lori “I wish I had straight hair because as you know the saying goes, ‘people with straight hair have more fun.'”
Devri “I wish I had straight hair so I could obnoxiously swish my ponytail back and forth whenever I walk.”
Clare “I wish I had straight hair because it’s hands down the best way to wear your hair. It has so much body and character that curls cannot compete with. I feel like I stand out the most when my hair is board straight.”
Evelyn “Ah, I miss the feeling of pulling the few strands of hair I had left into a ponytail. Sure, I had relaxer burns, BUT I HAD A PONYTAIL THAT SWAYED IN THE WIND. I miss those days. This whole thriving natural hair thing? Overrated if you ask me.”
*April Fool’s! Of course we don’t wish we had straight hair.
The ad says “Tired of waking up with a mad frizzy mess every morning? Do you long for sleek, straight hair without any kinks or curls? Iron Out the Kinks in Twisted Hair Permanently – HYPNOSIS.”
We’ve heard it all now.
The ad tells us that curly hair can be a real headache.
“It takes hours to straighten every morning and as soon as you step out of the door it’s a real fright again. It can prevent you taking up water sports and even ruin holidays in countries with humid climates.”
We knew there was a reason we hated water sports!
The company claims its “Straighten Curly Hair” hypnosis session will help straighten out this problem.
“In less than 60 minutes you’ll start to feel the benefits, as your curls unwind and you realize how easy to manage your hair really is. Simply sit back and listen to this superb hypnosis session, as ‘Straighten Curly Hair’ kicks out the kinks in your hair and lets you love your sleeker, straighter style. Feel happy and relaxed about your hair. Control Unruly locks. Achieve the look you desire.”
Immediately after listening to this wonderful, 60-minute hypnosis recording, “you’ll feel a profound, positive inner change that will totally astonish you. And it’s 100% risk-free too!”
Sure it is.
Although we see the benefit of hypnosis to stop smoking or lose weight, curly hair is not a problem that needs to be fixed. Not only that, but if you are seeking a sleeker look, hypnosis is hardly the way to do it.
A better name for this video might be “Give Me Your Money, Sucker.”
Attention: This article may be published on April 1st, but it is not a joke, unfortunately, this video does exist and you can find it at Instant-Hypnosis.com.
PHOTO: TIADMOWRY ON INSTAGRAM
We already loved Tia and Tamera, but following their journeys back to natural hair has elevated them to bestie status. Or at least, we like to believe that we’re besties. So when Tia Instagrammed that she was having a bad hair day we felt like she was personally asking us for hair advice.
Here you go, personalized frizz tips just for you Tia!
Water
When hair is not properly moisturized, it will lose uniformity in the efforts to absorb moisture from the air. The number one source of moisture is water so it’s important to give your curls exactly what they are looking for.
Tip:
Use products that list water as one of the first three ingredients.
Oil
Incorporating deep conditioning, regularly moisturizing, and sealing that moisture in with an oil or styling product will help to hydrate your curls.
Our favs:
- Coconut oil
- EVOO
- Castor oil
- Jojoba oil
- Avocado oil
Satin
In order to sustain second and third day hair, it’s important to wear a satin or silk scarf or bonnet at night or sleep on a satin or silk pillowcase. Protecting your hair at night will prevent the on cotton fibers in bed linen from withdrawing moisturize from your strands, cause dryness, and as a result create frizz.
LOC Method
Your curls are most defined when wet so the battle is maintaining the definition.
Many curlies have adopted the LOC method. This is applying a liquid, oil, and cream in that order. Many curlies apply a moisturizer, oil and a butter but this may be too heavy for your curl pattern, so we recommend replacing the butter with a creamy styling product.MORE: The Ultimate LOC Method Shopping List
Tip:
For supreme curl definition we recommend applying product with your fingers, using the “rake and smooth” technique (it’s exactly what it sounds like”>, or a Denman brush. This disturbs the uniformity of your curls the least, but many naturals have also had success using a Denman brush to enhance definition.
Diffuse
For the best curl definition, you should diffuse the hair or sit under a hooded dryer. Air-drying is another great option but if your hair is not completely dry before walking outside, it is susceptible to the weather elements: wind, high dew points, and humidity.
Tip:
It is important to not touch your curls as they are drying. Any contact after your hair has been set will only induce frizz.
The Weather
Tip:
Natural Texture
For some, there is no solution because it is the natural texture of their hair. Everyone’s curls do not have or cannot sustain uniform clumpage in a dry state. Not matter how much gel you shingle on your strands, once it dries the curls take on a life of their own.
Tip:
Accept that frizz will happen, even embrace it. For many naturals, it has been a challenge to accept that their curls will not clump but I like to think of frizz as adding character to the hair.As our resident frizz embracer in the office says, “I’m ok with frizz, it just makes your hair bigger.”
For any and all curl questions, don’t hesitate to Tweet @naturallycurly. We always have curl agents on the line!
Shaz’s Hair of the Day
The Products
- VO5 “Smoothly Does It” Mousse – “The product I used was VO5 ‘smoothly does it’ (pink”> moose. It gives a fizz free finish and enhances curls.”
- Comb – We recommend a wide tooth seamless comb
- Towel – We recommend a microfiber towel to prevent frizz
The Technique
- Step 1. – After I wash my hair I comb it
- Step 2. – Then I dry it a bit with a towel
- Step 3. – Then I scrunch the mousse into my hair. It gives a very smooth finish and soft curls at the end.
Note: this specific mousse is available to UK residents (yay if you’re a UK resident!”>. If you aren’t able to find this mousse locally, our readers voted Jane Carter Wrap and Roll as their favorite styling mousse.
You can find more of Shaz on Instagram
“Change up your look!” “Try something new!” “Accessorize!”
If you’ve read, heard and watched on YouTube that you need to be accessorizing your hair this spring, but don’t quite know how to do so, you’re in the right place.
A hair scarf can be an intimidating piece of fabric if you’ve never tied one before, and even if you have used one before it can be difficult to think outside your typical bow box. NaturallyCurly team member and bow afficionado Devri is always sporting cute and colorful accessories in the office so we convinced her to share her secrets.
Here are three ways that Devri rocks a silk scarf on her type 3 curls. If you have another favorite way that we missed, post your scarf style on our Facebook page for the community to see!
Watch the Video
For more videos like this, subscribe to our channel The Twist.
However, there a few ways to take care of this age-old issue, and they aren’t too tricky to pull off!
Other than adding color, there may not be a way for women with curly or wavy hair to completely hide all dark roots, but these tricks will tide you over until your next color session.
Hide Your Roots
Create Volume
Using a wide tooth comb, create volume at the top of your head so that you can “tease” your hair a bit.
If you need some added volume, add a root volumizing product and tease after with your comb. Before you tease you may want to wash and condition your hair and dry it upside down to add volume to it.
Try:
Powder It
For oily hair, add face or baby powder to the roots of your hair. Darker hair tends to do better with loose face powder and lighter tends to do well with baby powder.
Don’t go overboard. Use powder sparingly along your roots and allow it to absorb into your scalp.
PHOTO NYX FACE POWDER
Apply a Dry Shampoo
Saturate your roots specifically. You may want to try a tinted one if possible.
Dry shampoo usually helps to create more volume and lift at the root area, therefore taking away from visible roots.
Try:
Create a Coconut Oil & Lemon Mixture
- Add a few drops each of coconut oil and lemon juice to your hair.
- Apply the mixture to the root area and allow it to sit on your hair for 30 minutes.
- Allow your hair to sit outside under the sun, or if that’s not a possibility under the dryer, for about 15 of the 30 minutes.
- Rinse after with cool water.
The Eyeshadow Trick
Pick a color that’s as close to the shade you normally have and apply it to the roots. If there are only a few visible roots, this is a great trick.
Use a make up brush or eye shadow brush to apply lightly to roots.
PHOTO COASTAL SCENTS REVEALED PALETTE
Cover-up
Sometimes pulling pieces of hair to the side or up and adding a pretty pin or headband, can do the trick.
Allow it to get a little “messy” or try a zig zag part that changes where those roots pop up.
READ: Easy Wavy Updos for Failed Second-Day Hair
PHOTO FREE PEOPLE HEADBAND
Stay Away From Sleek Styles
Slicked back hair will show just about everything. Go for texture and volume. Play up your curls and waves.
Now is a good time to utilize a curling wand or foam rollers (safely, of course”>.
PHOTO SARAB3VAN
We’ve all had those days when our waves, curls, and coils just doesn’t want to work with us and we don’t have a lot of time or patience to focus on perfecting them. Well, don’t fret–here are 10 quick fixes that are sure to aid you in your bad hair days.
10 Fixes for Bad Hair Days
1. Keep a “Fix-It” Kit Nearby
It’s usually a good idea to keep a spray bottle and curl defining styler nearby as a refresher.
Wavies, try:
Curlies, try:
Coilies, try:
PHOTO MODCLOTH: 3 ROAD TRIP HAIRSTYLES
2. Pin It Down!
Keep a few bobby pins or clips handy. If you feel like your curls are coming undone, losing shape or body – add a few spritzes of water or conditioning spray and twist large sections while they’re a bit damp.
Pin each section back and remove the pins or clips when you get to work, or after you’re done with your make up.
PHOTO BE CONFECTIONATE
3. Need Help? YouTube!
Take advantage of online hair resources. Whenever you have time, check out The Twist by Naturally Curly for tutorials and styling advice. Or these curly, coily and wavy YouTubers:
Wavy Hair:
Curly Hair:
Coily Hair:
4. Keep it Simple
Though we may love to try new products from time to time, keeping a product–or two–on hand that we can count on for fly-aways, frizz and other issues, is a must. Try to keep a small jar of natural shea butter, or pomade on hand. Coconut oil is also a great product to have around in your house or office. You can use it to sooth hair and skin.
Wavies, try:
Curlies, try:
Coilies, try:
PHOTO TARA BURNER
5. Distract Them With Accessories
Keep a small drawer or basket with some favorite scarves, headbands, clips and pony tail holders on hand. You may also want to keep a few in your bag and car so a last minute change in style is easy and quick. Learn to use accessories to dress your hair up, or keep it simple, and, of course, fix a bad hair day too.
Watch: 3 Ways to Tie a Scarf
PHOTO THE KNOXVILLE HOLTS
6. Be Open to Dry Shampoo
If you need some help fixing some oily spots, try a dry shampoo spray. Brush the spray throughout your strands and you’ll notice the oil will be soaked up by the shampoo–oily spots gone!
Try one of these:
- John Frieda Dry Shampoo Refresher
- Arrojo ReFINISH
- Klorane Extra-Gentle Dry Shampoo
- Salon Grafix Play it BIG
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7. Add Body & Texture
Falling flat? Some curls and waves lose their bounce and body midday. Try a texture spray with coconut oil, shea butter, sea salt and natural botanicals.
Wavies, try:
Curlies, try:
8. Re-texturize With Styling Tools
Wavies, try:A curling wand will add volume to limp hair and help waves that fall flat. The Remington Ceramic Pearl Curling Wand is inexpensive and a fave amongst the wavy crowd. Make sure you use a heat protectant spray first–we suggest Curl Junkie Hair Styling Water.
Curlies, try:
Some durable foam rollers like these ‘dent-less’ ones from Goody. Not only are they comfortable to sleep in overnight, but they’re an easy heat-free way of adding body and definition to curls. Use a little styling cream like Moroccanoil Hydrating Cream to moisturize and hold your hair and minimize the appearance of frizz.
Coilies, try:
Curlformers. They are easy to apply and create loose, defined waves on tighter curls and coily hair. Use a setting product like Jane Carter Wrap & Roll to keep your look polished and in place.
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9. Refresh Your Second-Day Hair
Your hair most likely has some conditioner or product in it from the day before. If you are running out of time (or just don’t feel like styling today”>, grab a spray bottle and dampen your hair. Reach for a product with moisturizing ingredients and use your fingers to twist sections with your fingers. This will give your curls a more refreshed look. Allow the sections to air dry or use your diffuser to speed up the process a bit.
Wavies, try:
Curlies, try:
Coilies, try:
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10. Wear Your “Bad Hair” With Pride
Come on. That little halo of frizz is actually pretty. The hair we see in magazines and on TV–well probably 90% of it is done with the aid of blowouts and heat styling tools. Chances are, those supermodels do not wake up that way. Embrace YOUR curls and waves and realize that your bad hair days and few and far between…
Read more: Build Your Curly Confidence!
First, ask yourself these 2 questions:
1. How do I react whenever somebody compliments my waves, curls, and coils?
A. “Oh, thanks” (but you don’t believe them”>
B. “Thanks” (followed by you walking away awkwardly, primping and messing with your hair”>
C. “Thank you! I love them too!” (you continue the conversation with your head held high”>
2. Do I search online and in magazines for every photo of a better style for your curls and waves?
A. True
B. False
What your answers may say about your Curl Confidence:
#1 C- So think of just how many times someone has commented on how beautiful your hair is or how they would love the curls or waves that you already have. How many times have you simply just let the comment go, thinking it’s not true? Too many. The fact is that those comments are things to be proud of and not shrug off so quickly.
#2-Either way, a little research is always good. A little. Would you believe me if I said you don’t need to be online every hour on the hour searching for the newest style or the latest curl miracle you’ve been waiting for all along? Embrace your curls and waves NOW!
Feel the need to straighten your hair every so often to have “options”? Need a ponytail for the beach? That’s fine. But straightening, on occasion, and ponytails to “rid” of the curls, ringlets and waves every day can do damage, in the long run, to your hair, scalp and even your self confidence. Yes, there are some great tools and products out there but have you really tried to accept your natural hair? It doesn’t have to be a lot of work, in fact, allowing your natural locks to show themselves can actually increase your self-confidence and reduce the amount of work and time you spend with your hair.
Try 14 Days of Curly Love!
If you’re ready to embrace what you have, try a two week trial. Start on a day when you can wash and style your hair “all natural.” Use your favorite curl gels, serums, sprays, leave-ins, etc. Check out the CurlTalk chat forum on naturallycurly.com for some good suggestions on your hair type or even home made stylers for your hair, to go even more natural. Yes, that’s possible!
Think of it this as a two week diet for your hair. Try products that will be good to your hair. Look at labels, try avoiding products that have lots of “cones” – ie. dimethicone, etc. Try Shea Butter or Coconut-infused leave-ins and stylers. For looser waves and curls (type 2″>, try using less product or lighter versions. For tighter curls and coils (types 3 and 4″> try cocktailing product.
If it’s been a while, you may want to get a new cut, or just a trim to get your hair back to healthy. Find a stylist that knows curls and texture. Ask him or her questions about how your curls and waves can better frame your face or fit your lifestyle. Here’s our recommended list of curly salons that you can find in your area.
You may want to experiment with some new, or old (just be sure they’re not expired”>, products for a few days. Style your hair with a diffuser or let it dry on it’s own, yes, with no hairdryer. You may want to use a satin pillow case if you’re planning on going to bed with some damp curls and waves. A satin pillow case can help protect curl formation and prevent frizz.
Once you’re at your “natural best,” be sure to become aware of the comments you may start to receive. Don’t be so quick to brush them off. Embrace the kind words and take a look at just how good your locks look!
Take a look at the calendar, has it been more than two weeks? Maybe you can extend your two week trial to three? If , however, you’re finding the two week trial a bit of struggle, don’t give up! It’s only a few more days. Work with different products, give them a chance to adjust to your natural look. And, most importantly, don’t be so hard on yourself. Your curls and waves most likely look a lot better than you’re giving them credit for.
After your two weeks are up, evaluate how you did. Were you too hard on yourself and your hair? Did you listen to others and their comments? You may want to take some time to think about how your trial went and just how much better you feel about your hair, and yourself.
For many women, the journey back to natural is a challenging one. Wouldn’t it have been nice to have a professional hairstylist on call to answer all of your most transitioning dilemmas?
These lucky women did.
For six months NaturallyCurly and Dark and Lovely helped nine women along their natural hair journeys, in whichever stage they were in. We had recent big choppers, long-term transitioners, and even veteran naturals (they still had many questions!”> participate in the Grow Out Diaries, and you can watch their progress on YouTube. These women tried a mystery product for six months leading up to the launch of Dark and Lovely’s brand new line for Anti-Breakage.
We also hosted a Live Google Hangout with Mezei and all 9 of the women last week in New York, you can catch the video here. And you can start your own blog or read about other womens’ experiences on our Grow Out Diaries.
Here are a few of the questions these women had for Softsheen-Carson educator and natural hair afficionado Mezei Jefferson. Chances are you have wondered these questions yourself!
Raquel
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How often should I wash and condition my hair?
You should shampoo and condition as often as needed. If you wearing a wash and go style, it could be daily and if it is a twist out or up do style then it might be weekly or bi weekly.
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How can afford knots and tangles?
You really cannot avoid tangles, they happen due to natural curl pattern of hair. Keeping your hair moisturized will help with tangles somewhat. Also consistent use of the leave it and hair butter/dress will help with tangles by lubricating the hair shaft.
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How can I protect/prevent my hair from getting matted while I’m sleeping?
At night you have a couple of options with your hair. 1st is to twist or braid hair nightly with some of the hair butter/dress to retain texture and prevent breakage from the pillow. Just a couple braids or twist will do. 2nd get a satin pillowcase or scarf to wrap up hair at night. This will eliminate the rubbing and the cotton sucking the moisture out of your hair. 3rd is pineapple the hair, this will help prevent losing the curl pattern and tangling at night. To do it bend over and pull all hair up into loose top ponytail and secure with soft scrunchy. Loosen up hair on top so you don’t get indentations
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How can I reduce frizz and define my curls
Curls get frizzy and undefined when they lose protein and moisture. Deep conditioning hair and a light trim will make curls spring aback to life. Also to retain moisture, use the leave in and the hair dress/hair butter when needed to keep curls well defined.
Quay
- Can the conditioner be used with heat or as an overnight DC?
The conditioner is designed to work alone and doesn’t require any heat application to penetrate. It can be left on hair overnight, if you feel you need more conditioning.
Lola
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How often is it necessary to wash your hair?
You should shampoo and condition as often as needed. If you wearing a wash and go style, it could be daily and if it is a twist out or up do style, then it might be weekly or bi weekly.
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Does your curl pattern change over time while transitioning?
No, your curl pattern should not actually change while transitioning. If you notice hair getting curlier it is likely because of hair elasticity. When beginning transitioning your hair is used to the curl being blown out or flat ironed. As you begin to get more natural the curl takes over and your true texture becomes more apparent.
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What are some hair tips you have while I’m transitioning?
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Use a leave in conditioner always
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Be gentle on your relaxed hair when combing, hold hair in hands and start to comb from the ends upward
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If still wearing hair blown out smooth, use a low heat setting
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Once you have 3-4 inches of new growth start to do flat twist sets to style and use a roller or pin curl on the ends of hair for definition.
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When starting to use products, get a nice trim of ends. That way you maintain healthy hair
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What can I do to prevent my hair from breaking during my transitioning process?
I already mentioned the trim and at night follow one of these instructions. 1st is to twist or braid hair nightly to retain texture and prevent breakage from the pillow. Just a couple braids or twist will do. 2nd get a satin pillowcase or scarf to wrap up hair at night. This will eliminate the rubbing and the cotton sucking the moisture out of your hair. 3rd is pineapple the hair, this will help prevent losing the curl pattern and tangling at night. To do it bend over and pull all hair up into loose top ponytail and secure with soft scrunchy. Loosen up hair on top so you don’t get indentations. Use the hairbutter/ hairdress
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What is hair butter and how often should you use it?
The Hair Butter is designed to lubricate the hair so you can comb and manipulate it without excessive breakage. It can be used daily if needed on scalp to moisturize as well as on hair to refresh style. It can also be used to do twist outs and braid out styles.
Lauren
- What is the best way to detangle hair when applying styling products after conditioning? Comb or finger detangling?
Combing is what can cause the most breakage to hair if not done properly. First always remember to mist hair with water first and use finger to part hair in sections to detangle. If your hair gets really tangled, then use a wide tooth comb and start at the end of hair and work up. Apply conditioner or the hair butter to help lubricate hair if needed.
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Is it better to mix the leave in with the hair dress before applying to hair for moisture?
No, actually it is better to layer the products for maximum effect. First apply the leave in and then apply the hair dress and style to retain moisture.
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What are some tips about keeping up with moisture during the fall and winter months. Any styles recommended?
Tips for winter months are to use a silk scarf or cap inside of your caps and hats so hair doesn’t rub up against the hat and cause moisture loss or breakage. Also wear hair in protective styles like braids or twist. Wash and Go’s are hard on the hair during severely cold times. Use the softening butter to create twist and reapply at night to retain moisture.
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Would it be more beneficial and absorbent to use the leave in on wet hair? Or would it absorb better on dry hair?
Use the leave in on damp hair for better absorption. The softening butter can be used on damp and dry hair.
LaKresha
- What styling tips can you provide for my short hair?
For short hair you can do comb coils or even protective styles like twist outs w/ extensions for a longer fuller look to the hair.
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Is it better to mix the leave in with the hair dress before applying to hair for moisture?
No, actually it is better to layer the products for maximum effect. First apply the leave in and then apply the hair dress and style to retain moisture.
This article is sponsored by SoftSheen-Carson.
For six months, nine lucky NaturallyCurly community members were selected out of hundreds of applicants to join the exciting Grow Out Diaries challenge. We chose women from every stage of the natural hair journey from transitioners to recent Big Choppers to TWA’s and veteran naturals. The women have been trying one product line formulated to make their natural hair grow long and strong. But here’s the catch: they had no idea who the brand was.
They put their trust in us as they exclusively used these products, all the while wondering who the mystery brand might be and more importantly, what the ingredients were! They’ve been filming and charting their hair growth along the way, so stay tuned for the full reveal.
Today we’re so excited to announce that the mystery brand of our Grow Out Diaries is none other than Dark and Lovely Au Naturale Anti-Breakage!
You know their name, you probably know their packaging, but this is a totally different approach from the brand as you know it. The line includes four products, a cleanser, conditioner, a butter and an end protector.
The women reviewed the mystery products over a six month period and found that their hair had grown longer, felt healthier, and they were experiencing less breakage during this time. You can watch their full reviews and length checks – along with their reactions to finding out who the brand was – on YouTube.
The Tension Release Hair Wash and Strength Restoring Conditioner are sulfate free, silicone free, and paraben free so they’ll cleanse and moisturize without stripping your hair of its natural oils. Just the way we like them. And you won’t find any parabens, mineral oil or petrolatum in the Super Softening Hair Butter or the Root to Tip Mender. So they’ll be a hydrating treat for your breakage-prone strands without the buildup or greasy transfer.
The line launched last night at a fab party in New York City, and the Grow Out Diaries participants were in attendance along with some of our favorite vloggers, bloggers, special guest Marsha Ambrosius, Bites by Bravo TV’s Chef Roblé and tunes by DJ Moma.
The NYC Launch Event
For six months these ladies used this line of products without knowing who created them!! We’re so excited to be at the launch event in #NYC
Mezei Jefferson, head of education at Dark and Lovely with the special guest Marsha Ambrosius
Evelyn, our Social Media Manager and YouTuber Jouelzy.
Taren916 and her baby bump made an appearance.
Model Wakeema Hollis showing off that ‘fro!
Our participants, such an inspiring group of women.
Our participants with model Wakeema Hollis, face of Dark and Lovely Au Naturale.
Our Email Marketing Manager Nikki with one of our favorite YouTubers Shinestruck.
Evelyn with one of our writers Kala G.
One of our Growth Diaries participants, Tess.
This post is sponsored by Soft Sheen Carson.
Why Cocoa?
Cocoa trees, it’s believed, first grew in South America, and today, cocoa trees can be found throughout the world. Like wine, cocoa varies on taste depending on where it comes from , therefore, you may just notice different flavors in certain favorite chocolates from time to time. And, take the time to appreciate that delicious cup of cocoa or chocolate bar because it takes about 300 to 600 cocoa beans to make just two pounds of chocolate!
So what about cocoa and curls? Cocoa butter is the substance that is obtained from cocoa beans, it’s a by-product of chocolate – and curlies know that cocoa butter is a must for cold weather, frizz and soft skin too!
What will you use cocoa butter for?
Deep Treatment
Use it as a deep conditioning treatment once or twice a week, depending on your hair type. You’ll notice how much softer and easier to manage your hair will become. Cocoa butter won’t weigh your hair down and it will help to moisturize your hair and scalp.
Cocoa Pre-Poo
You can also use it as a pre-shampoo conditioning treatment.
Try it! Put some cocoa butter (found online or in health food stores”> in a cup and melt it in your microwave until it’s a liquid. Apply the oil/liquid to your hair for about 15-20 minutes then shampoo.
Frizz Fighter
You can use cocoa butter as a pomade to help style your hair and keep frizz away as well. Just rub a small amount of cocoa butter in your palms, and smooth over your hair. You can mix a bit of coconut oil or an essential oil with it to give it a scent as well.
Color Gloss
For brunettes who want to add some sheen and a tint of color depth to their hair, a cocoa hair mask may be something to try out too:
Mix a cup of pure aloe gel, 1/2 cup of pure cocoa powder and 1/4 cup of honey, 1 tablespoon of favorite conditioner (I like Suave Coconut“>. Mix the ingredients in a bowl and you’re left with a great smelling chocolate treatment for brunettes.
If you haven’t tried using natural ingredients on your hair, you may be missing out.
Aloe Vera has been used for centuries as a health and beauty aide and has proven, to curls and fragile hair, to be a real BFF.
Here are two easy recipes that you can make at home in either small, or larger batches, depending on your hair’s needs (and length”>. If you make extra you can even store it in your fridge for later.
Moisturizing Detangler Spray
You can add or remove ingredients to suit your hair’s needs.
Ingredients
- 1/2 cup distilled water
- 1/2 cup aloe vera juice
- 1/2 tsp silk amino acids (binds keratin and strengthens”>
- 1 tsp panthenol (vit B5″> (moisturizer”>
- 1 tsp vegetable glycerin (humectant”>
- 1 tsp guar gum (emulsifier, adds slip”>
- 7 drops rosemary oil (stimulates hair folicles”>
- 7 drops lemongrass oil (anti bacterial and adds fragrance”>
Directions
- Add all items into a blender and mix well for 3-5 minutes.
- Empty into a jar to be stored in the fridge.
- Apply to hair as needed and notice the shine and definition of your curls!
Leave-In Aloe Treat
Ingredients
- 3 oz aloe vera juice
- 2 oz coconut oil
- 5 oz distilled water
- 8 oz light CG conditioner (Suave, Deva, etc.”>
Directions
- Mix all ingredients in a mister/spray bottle and apply to damp or wet hair.
- Allow the product to air dry for best results.
This conditioning treatment will give your curls definition and bounce.
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