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Texture Tales: Chaithanaya Tells Us How She Cares For Her Beautiful 3a Curls
Texture Tales Chaithanaya Tells Us How She Cares For Her Beautiful 3a Curls

What country do you live?

India

How would you best describe your hair?

Naturally Curly

What is your hair type?

3a

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

It was really hard to live on a society where curly hair equalled to frizz. I used to get questions like ‘ if you throw my pen into your hair, will it get lost’. More over, being a curly haired girl and belonging to a humid region, I could never wear my hair open to school or anywhere because it was considered messy. When I entered college, I straightened my hair. ( I straightened and coloured my hair thrice”>. Whenever I used to have hairfall, I used to be happy thinking atleast me no one will ask me or tease me about my curly hair!
Texture Tales Chaithanaya Tells Us How She Cares For Her Beautiful 3a Curls

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?

After straightening and bleaching and colouring my hair thrice, I was in the verge of going bald, but, I didn’t have the confidence to stop straightening. Then I met my boyfriend who motivated me. He told me how beautiful curls are. Thats when I stopped it. He was the first person to ask me to stop straightening! When I was transitioning, every single person I met used to ask me to straighten it back but I had gained my confidence and I had decided that I’m never going to straighten my hair again.

How have your family, friends and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them?

In transitioning phase every one my family and friends used to ask me to straighten my hair back. However, now when they see the curly nourished hair, they tell me how beautiful it looks. My family is still in denial though. They ask me to comb my hair. The natural hair products make them feel I’m using too much chemicals on my hair. But I explain to them how to take care of curly hair and I understand it’s hard for them to accept the change but I’m sure they will realize it with time.

How did you transition to wearing your natural texture?

First, I had chopped off the straightened part. I read some blogs and I bought cantu and devacurl ultra defining gel but I didn’t know how to use it. The first time I used it, I looked like a wet hen, because I used too much of gel. Then I left using styling gels, and started to follow squish to condish method using DevaCurl One Condition Original. This was game a changer for me. Later on I experimented with gels and it worked for me.
Texture Tales Chaithanaya Tells Us How She Cares For Her Beautiful 3a Curls

What is your current hair regimen?

I massage my scalp regularly with Rx oil. Sometimes I also add Rx oil to rosemary oil/ coconut oil and detangle my hair and apply on scalp. I keep this on for 30-40 minutes.
I wash my hair using my DevaCurl Low Poo and then apply deep conditioner. I finger coil if I have time. I generally keep deep conditioner for 10 minutes because if I keep longer, I catch a cold. Then, I wash the deep conditioner off my hair. After this I apply and wash conditioner using squish to condish method. I squeeze some water out of my hair( not completely”> then I apply a leave- in and gel to the tips of my fingers and run my fingers through my hair. After this step, I bend my head down and scrunch from the ends of my hair. Lastly, I cover my head with t-shirt until my hair dries.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a big impact on the way your hair looks?

Tea rinses are heaven for my hair. I do it once in two weeks. It helps my hair look more moisturized and more bouncy curls are formed.
Another method I absolutely love is squish to condish. This always help me even in humid weathers. It makes my hair look more nourished.

Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase or need some encouragement in their hair journey?

It is hard to go out meet friends when everyone keeps asking you ‘ what happened’, ‘ you looked better with straight hair’ and what not, but believe me the end result is worth all that discomfort. I’ve a long way to go, but I’m happy I started this journey. I don’t fear curls anymore. I appreciate them. There was a time when I didn’t want to be curly, but now I wouldn’t change my hair for anything in the world!

What’s your hair story? We’d love to share your story here to be featured in our Texture Tales series.

Texture Tales : Mari Tells Her Traumatic Experience That Lead To Her Embracing Her Wavy Hair
Texture Tales  Mari Tells Her Traumatic Experience That Lead To Her Embracing Her Wavy Hair

How would you best describe your hair?

Naturally Wavy / Curly

What is your hair type?

2c

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

As a child and well into my teens I had zero idea my hair was even curly. My mom kept my hair short and straight. I never had a say. In later years she told me she thought I wouldn’t take care of it if it was long. I remember having shoulder length hair in 3rd grade, but she always brushed it straight. In my junior year of high school I decided to let my hair grow and realized it was kind of curly. I liked it, but had no idea had to care for it.
Texture Tales  Mari Tells Her Traumatic Experience That Lead To Her Embracing Her Wavy Hair

What made you decide to embrace your naturally wavy hair?

13 years ago I went through a traumatic divorce. I immediately chopped my hair just past my ears. I had to flat iron it every day for a year just so it was presentable. As I transitioned my way into single motherhood so did my hair. I dyed it, fried it and cried over it. About a year ago I just stopped. I began treating my hair like the jeweled crown it was designed to be rather than a snarly birds nest. It’s been a slow rebirth but I am happy to report I have a Devacut specialist who keeps my curls on point and bringing me joy! I started following one curly page after another and got hooked! Embracing my curls has opened up a whole new world to me. I may have stumbled into the curly world a little uncertain but now I am confident. Confident and Curly.

How have your family, friends and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them?

Everybody LOVES my curls! Strangers ask me how I get them so perfect, some ask if it’s a perm and my best friend’s mom remarked how beautiful my hair was then asked if it was a wig! What?!? Haha
My favorite compliment was from a complete stranger. We crossed paths entering a store and she said “I love your curls. Your curls are bringing me joy!” My co-worker was with me and every now and then he randomly says “your curls are bringing me joy!”
I always thank them for the compliments and give tips if they ask. I tell them it’s a process but it’s worth it and they can do it too.

How did you transition to wearing your natural texture?

Initially I was extremely critical if my curls didn’t come out as curly,bouncy or defined as the day before, but then I realized curly hair has a mind of its own so I just started going with it and haven’t looked back. I have to admit for a long time I thought I only looked professional if my hair was straight. I said that aloud one day and my co-workers were shocked. They said they never thought my curls weren’t professional. I had to ask myself Who? Who taught me that? I still fight the feeling sometimes if I have an important meeting or something but I then I remind myself “Curly hair don’t care” and I proceed on curls and all.

What is your current hair regimen?

I alternate between air drying and diffusing throughout my hairstyling process. I am trying to wash every three days but sometimes that’s hard. Overall I am pretty happy with my routine but I’m always looking for new things to try.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a big impact on the way your hair looks?

I have found the more wet my hair is when I apply my styling products the more defined and healthy they look. Also, using products designed for curly hair has helped.

Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase or need some encouragement in their hair journey?

The journey to getting your hair it’s healthiest is definitely a process. Be patient, reach out to others in the curly world for tips, tricks and encouragement. Above all just embrace it. Curly hair ain’t for everybody so own it and Curl on!

What’s your hair story? W’d love to hear from you! Share your story with us here to be featured in our Texture Tales series.

Does Salt Water Damage Curls?
summer curly hair

Photo courtesy: @actually_ashly

Are you a beach lover? While you may be enjoying your time in the sun and the sand, the same can’t always be said for your curls. Many articles out there tout the benefits of exposing salt water to skin, which can help wounds heal and cleanse skin of toxins. This leads some to believe that the ocean is a kind of miracle drug, but not so fast! Your skin may reap some benefits, but hair is a little trickier.

The ability of your hair to soak up anything that you put on it is an incredible thing. This is why we love our products – our hair “drinks” the perfect cocktail of our favorite things and transforms into any look or style we could dream of.

So think of having salt water in your hair like a product as drinking only salt water for a day. With the high salt content of ocean water, you would become dehydrated if you didn’t replenish your body with the hydration it needs. A similar process takes place in your hair. When the hair becomes dehydrated, you will notice changes in the way it feels and behaves:

  • It breaks more easily
  • It becomes dull and hard to manage
  • It takes longer to style and dry

So what does that mean for your summer vacation? Don’t throw out your bikini just yet! We have a few tips to help safeguard your curls so you can enjoy your favorite beach spot without worrying.

1. Be Proactive, Not Reactive

Many people only treat their hair after exposure to sun and salt. While this is important, it is even more important to prevent as much damage as possible prior to your day at the beach. When you know you will be swimming in salt water, you should wash and condition hair as you normally would and then apply a pre-swim treatment designed to protect your strands and scalp from damage. If it has UV ray blocking sunscreen as part of the formula, even better! If you don’t own a pre-swim treatment or do not want to splurge for just a few beach days, wet and apply your favorite leave-in or deep conditioner. Anything that soaks into your hair and doesn’t allow salt water to get in is a check off your list. Here are some of our favorites:

2. Pay Attention to Hair

While you are having your fun at the beach, pay attention to your strands. While you shouldn’t spend the whole day stressing over your curls, do make sure to check your hair a few times. If you notice hair that feels brittle or frizzier than usual, it may be time to re-apply a moisturizer. Twist up your hair into a bun or put it in a protective style to help your hair retain the moisture.

3. Give Curls TLC

Even if you prepared your hair prior to going to the beach and kept it away from the salt water as much as possible, you should still give your curls a little extra TLC afterwards. It is best to apply a rich leave in conditioner after a day at the beach. If you apply a moisturizer beforehand and kept your hair up in a bun the whole day, should you skip the extra conditioning? Nope! Salt, sand, and other moisture enemies can still reach your hair by being carried in the breeze, and the drying UV rays of the sun will have an effect as well.

Still need more tips for swimming with natural hair? Watch Nikki’s swim routine using Brazilian Blowout products!

How are you protecting your curls from the salt and sun this summer?

Texture Tales: Lee Shares Her Natural Hair Story After Transitioning
Texture Tales Lee Shares Her Natural Hair Story After Transitioning

What country do you live?

Guyana

How would you best describe your hair?

Naturally Coily

What is your hair type?

4a
Texture Tales Lee Shares Her Natural Hair Story After Transitioning

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

When I was much younger I remember when my mother combed my hair she always had a bowl of water next to her because my dry hair was so stubborn. Where I come from, Guyana, South America, straight hair was always the standard since we were last colonised by Britain, so the relaxer was everything and I ended up getting one really young (probably around 7yrs old”>. I hated my natural hair so much that as soon as my roots started looking too puffy I’d get a relaxer. When I got older flat irons became LIFE. I’d rather be late to school than go with my bangs frizzy, I thought I had a big forehead too so bangs were essential.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally coily hair?

Eventually, I caught on to the natural hype and being more careful when it came to my hair. I’d deep condition, stay away as much as I could from heat, use sulphate free shampoos, stretch my relaxer you name it. While I was stretching my relaxer once I thought, I wonder what my natural hair looks like. And BAM! I went into transition mode. After a bit of transitioning I hated having two textures. I was disgusted with my relaxed ends after seeing how beautiful my natural hair was.
Texture Tales Lee Shares Her Natural Hair Story After Transitioning

How have your family, friends and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them?

Oh gosh, well most of the people in my family liked it, but my mother still says things like “look how long and nice your hair was” but she eventually warmed up to it. I still have an aunt that asks why my hair is so “hard” and why I haven’t relaxed it yet any time I see her.

How did you transition to wearing your natural texture?

One wash day I had put conditioner in my hair and I was just looking at it and I thought to myself “Girl you’re really about to use your deep conditioner on those relaxed ends?” Uh Uh. You won’t. I grabbed a pair of scissors and did my big chop myself right then and there. I transitioned for a little less than 2 yrs so I had a fro when I cut off the straight ends.
Texture Tales Lee Shares Her Natural Hair Story After Transitioning

What is your current hair regimen?

I prepoo the night before using oils, conditioner and honey, wash my hair with something sulphate free either a shampoo or co wash or apple cider vinegar and deep condition once a week. I clarify twice a month especially if I’ve been co-washing because I get a lot of build up. Then I do a twist out (no heat”> or shingle then use my diffuser.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a big impact on the way your hair looks?

Not using sulphate free shampoos and heat every week I’ve noticed is crucial to my length retention. In terms of styling shingling really shows my texture and my hair always looks perfect.

Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase or need some encouragement in their hair journey?

Be proud and patient. That’s the hair you were created with, don’t let anybody tell you smack about it. Waiting drove me nuts while I was transitioning but don’t rush it and don’t let detangling frustrate you!

What’s your hair story? Share your story with us here to be featured in our Texture Tales series.

Texture Tales: Brooke Shares Her Experience Growing Up Bi-Racial And Learning How to Care for Her Curls
Texture Tales Brooke Shares Her Experience Growing Up Bi-Racial And Learning How to Care for Her Curls

How would you best describe your hair?

Naturally Curly

What is your hair type?

3b

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

Growing up with very curly hair was a little complicated for me. My mom is white and my dad is black, but I grew up with just my mom. Most of my family and friends growing up were white, so I felt a little like the odd man out physically. I was brown, curvy and curly headed while everyone else was white, slender and straight haired. I began to feel like that was what was considered beautiful, and what I was could only imitate. I basically only wore my hair up and a slicked back with grease because my mom (bless her heart”> put every *ethnic* product she could find in it! HOT. MESS. So naturally when I was old enough I began to get my hair relaxed and flat ironed it religiously. I didn’t fully love who I was…and didn’t fully know who I was.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly/coily/wavy hair?

When I was in college I read “Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass” and it changed me forever. I, for the first time, saw myself not only represented in literature but in history…and what a painful history it was. Out of that narrative came a drive to embrace who I am without alterations, with all my contradictions, kinks and curls. I began to let my curls show and to take care of them. My confidence began to grow, not just because I liked my hair, but because I liked who I was and where I came from.

How have your family, friends and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them?

They love it! They noticed not only my curls, but my positive attitude about them. Many have even inquired what I am doing so that they can practice healthly hair too! My husband always loved my curls (even though I would RARELY show them”> even before we were married. Now that I wear them proudly, HE is proud of how I embrace all of me.

How did you transition to wearing your natural texture?

Well, I relaxed my hair in high school but that stuff is EXPENSIVE. So I basically couldn’t afford it so I just quit doing it. I did a big chop to help the transition but I still kept flat ironing it (why God??”>. When I was about 23 I had my first run in with the Curly Girl method and I loved it, but didn’t commit. Now, at 31, I am an avid Curly Girl Method believer and my hair has NEVER looked better!
Texture Tales Brooke Shares Her Experience Growing Up Bi-Racial And Learning How to Care for Her Curls

What is your current hair regimen?

I wash my hair with a no sulfate shampoo once a week and co-wash once in between those times. I use the Blueberry Bliss Leave-In and then my old faithful LA Looks Extreme Sport Gel, and using products with no silicones or drying alcohols!

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a big impact on the way your hair looks?

My hair doesn’t seem to love heavy oils so backing off of those on refresh days really helps. Also, I do much better with gels than with cream or mousse and that knowledge is a life saver!

Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase or need some encouragement in their hair journey?

Stick with it, honey! It’s so worth it to take care of the hair God gave you! Just like anything, we sometimes have to fight for the good things in life. So, if you feel like you’re “fighting” with your hair, remember that you are worth it and that God doesn’t make mistakes:”>


What’s your hair story? Share your story with us here to be featured in our Texture Tales series.

Texture Tales: How Kira’s Hair Changed from Straight to Wavy + Top Tips for Wavies
Texture Tales How Kiras Hair Changed from Straight to Wavy  Top Tips for Wavies

How would you best describe your hair?

Naturally Wavy

What is your hair type?

2c

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

Actually, I grew up with straight hair until I hit puberty at the age of 11. All of my immediate family has stick straight hair, so it was a bit of a shock. Needless to say, no one in my family knew what to do with my newly wavy hair. It wasn’t until high school when I finally learned how to care for it!

What made you decide to embrace your naturally wavy hair?

At first, I wasn’t a fan of my loose waves. I desired tighter, more defined and voluminous curls. I used a curling wand almost daily to achieve my desired look, but the maintenance was tiring. At 15, I decided to embrace what I was given, even if that wasn’t much. So I started out using a curly hair conditioner and DevaCurl Ultra Defining Gel. While this didn’t give me the ringlets I’d dreamed for at first, it helped me achieve that look in the long run. Okay, I’m a 2c, so it’s as good as it’s gonna get! It took a lot of effort to love, but I’m glad I decided to embrace my hair.

How have your family, friends and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them?

My dad often made comments on how I should brush my hair. He told me it would look sleek and shiny. At first, my friends made comments about how ‘messy’ and ‘frizzy’ it looked. One of my dear friends asked me often if I could straighten it, so he could see what it looked like. My own mom even made a comment about how ‘uptight’ my curls looked, since I made the switch to diffusing my hair and cutting it shorter. On the opposite end of that spectrum, I had a type 4 girl tell me how my hair was ‘barely curly’. Each one I’ve dealt with in a different fashion. I try my best to ignore it and love what I’ve got. Because, truthfully, their opinions don’t matter when it comes to my hair.
Texture Tales How Kiras Hair Changed from Straight to Wavy  Top Tips for Wavies

How did you transition to wearing your natural texture?

I asked my old hairdresser to cut it into layers. Not knowing how to style man hair anymore, she did what she could, recommended DevaCurl Ultra Defining Gel and off I went! This was pretty much all I did for a while. Just comb it, scrunch the gel in and go. But that wasn’t enough. I finally came to the realization that my hairdresser was clueless as to my hair type, so I sought out a new hairdresser. In the meantime, I read dozens of articles about type 2 hair, how to care for curly hair, etc. I never fully tried the CG method. I follow some parts, but not all. After all, I’m still using a wide tooth comb!

What is your current hair regimen?

I shower the night before to condition, followed by a leave-in of coconut oil. My hair works better if I do this step in advance. The next morning, I hop in the shower to quickly wet my hair. Most days, I comb out my hair, put a little frizz serum on, then twist sections on the canopy of my hair. I follow this by scrunching in creams and gels. Lots of different gels. I haven’t found “the one” just yet! After this, I normally plop my hair for about 40 minutes until it’s time to diffuse. Halfway through the diffusing time, I scrunch in a little more gel and continue to diffuse until mostly dry. I only have to do this every 2-4 days, thankfully. On the other days, i it’s do a quick refresh and I’m set.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a big impact on the way your hair looks?

I recommend the Squish to Condish method, along with the Smasters method. My hair absorbs moisture pretty well, and has no natural hold. The Smasters method helps to keep that hold I desire. However, the biggest one would be twisting/finger curling sections of the canopy of my hair, as it does not curl up to the roots by itself. This has made the biggest impact, I find. It’s time consuming, yes, but well worth the effort.

Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase or need some encouragement in their hair journey?

Don’t give up. There are going to be days when that flat iron or curl wand look tempting. Don’t do it. There’s going to be times when you feel defeated by the way it looks, or maybe by someone else’s comment. Keep your head up. It can get difficult sometimes, but I promise you, you’ll find the right hair product, or discover a new technique along the way that completely changes your hair. Don’t succumb to the “straight hair is beautiful” ploy. Curly hair is different, yes, but different is beautiful; whether you’re a 2a, 4c, or somewhere in between.

What’s your hair story? Share your story with us here to be featured in our Texture Tales series.

Texture Tales: Sharelle Shares Why Going Natural Was The Best Decision She Ever Made
Texture Tales Sharelle Shares Why Going Natural Was The Best Decision She Ever Made

How would you best describe your hair?

Naturally Coily

What is your hair type?

3c / 4a

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

I didn’t get to experience textured hair growing up. My mother relaxed my hair at a very young age and that is the way it always was. I was always told I had long beautiful hair, so that’s the way I thought it was suppose to be. I had no clue of what “Natural” or “Textured” hair was until about 6-7 years ago.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally coily hair?

Word of mouth. Coming from Waco and moving to Houston is what truly inspired me. Not many people in Waco were natural, and in Houston it seemed like every other black woman was natural. I decided to spread out my relaxers to once every 4-6 months since they were so damaging and people began to ask if I was natural, and were suggesting for me to go natural. After much research I decided to transition to natural. Best decision I ever made!
Texture Tales Sharelle Shares Why Going Natural Was The Best Decision She Ever Made

How have your family, friends and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them?

I would say it was 50/50. Those who were knowledgeable of the natural process thought it was great. Those who were not familiar were curious or did not like it. My response was to trust the process, once my natural hair began to grow I inspired so many family and friends including my mom and sister.

How did you transition to wearing your natural texture?

I wore sew-ins mostly until I felt comfortable styling my transitioned hair with products that worked for me.

What is your current hair regimen?

My hair regimen is to wash and deep condition on the weekends and wear my braid out for the week. On the first day my braidout is super defined, but as the week goes by my hair gains more volume which I love!!! I use [Camille Rose Styling Cream](https://shop.naturallycurly.com/camille-rose-naturals-aloe-whipped-butter-gel-8-oz/”> for my braidout and use SheaMoisture products to shampoo, condition and deep condition.
Texture Tales Sharelle Shares Why Going Natural Was The Best Decision She Ever Made

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a big impact on the way your hair looks?

On the ends of my braids I made sure to finger twirl a little more than an inch of unbraided hair or I use rods on the ends of my braids. The key to long lasting braidouts or twistouts is leave-in conditioner. I use Giovanni direct leave-in conditioner.

Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase or need some encouragement in their hair journey?

DO NOT GIVE UP!!! When you have come to a point where you want to give up think about the results you will have with your hair. And do not transition for too long, once your natural is at least 5-6 inches long I say cut the relaxed hair off and begin your true natural hair journey.

What’s your hair story? Share your story with us here to be featured in our Texture Tales series.

Texture Tales: Tiffany Tells Us Why She Decided To Big Chop
Texture Tales Tiffany Tells Us Why She Decided To Big Chop

How would you best describe your hair?

Naturally Curly

What is your hair type?

3c

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

Where do I begin?! Well, growing up in the MD/DC area, I went to school with children from many different cultures, ethnic groups, etc. I had quite a few friends who were Indian and I loved their straight dark hair. I kept asking my mom if I could wear mine straight to school and she always told me no. I didn’t understand that my hair would only stay straight for a few hours and come back home tangled after playing at recess lol. I didn’t grow to appreciate my natural coils until college when the natural hair movement started to sprout. I had been perming my hair up until that point, and slowly began to chop and transition my freshman year. I’ve done the big chop a few times because I love having fun and expressing myself through the different stages of growth! I love my hair!

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?

I began to see women around me and in media embracing their hair and it gave me a sense of empowerment to do the same!

How have your family, friends and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them?

Texture Tales Tiffany Tells Us Why She Decided To Big Chop
When I first decided to chop off my hair to go completely natural, I got various responses from friends and family. My hair was very long and many of them didn’t understand why I’d just cut it all off and start over. Once my hair grew back, I gained more support for keeping it natural.

How did you transition to wearing your natural texture?

I started off by cutting my hair into a short bob my freshman year until all the permed ends were gone.

What is your current hair regimen?

I wash my hair once a week with treseme shampoo and conditioner. I then use Aunt Jackie’s Quench as a leave in conditioner and seal with DevaCurl Ultra Defining Gel.
Texture Tales Tiffany Tells Us Why She Decided To Big Chop

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a big impact on the way your hair looks?

I always wash and go and air dry to eliminate frizz.

Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase or need some encouragement in their hair journey?

Stick with it girl! Don’t get caught up in other people’s hair types, curl patterns, etc. Your curls are beautiful and unique to you! WERK!:”>

What’s your hair story? Share your story with us here to be featured in our Texture Tales series.

7 Protective Styles Perfect for the Beach

Photo courtesy of Grasie Mercedes

Going to the beach is a great way to spend a summer day. But between the sand and the surf, not to mention the sun, salt, and humidity, your hair can take a beating for the sake of a little fun. With these stylish and easy protective beach styles, don’t give up your day in the sun!

1. Easy Flat Twist

This is a classic protective beach style because it’s so easy to do. Not to mention it looks great while protecting your curls! This look lets you have the fun in the sun you deserve without leaving your hair vulnerable. In this video, Chronicurls explains how she uses this style to address breakage and thinning at her edges. Vigilant moisturizing and low manipulation are her tips to keep curls and coils protected

2. Space Buns

When you want a look full of originality, space buns are for you! They are fast, easy, and look cute when finished. There are multiple different ways to style space buns to protect your hair. Cool Calm and Curly uses flat twists to protect her ends and edges. You can also try cornrows, regular two strand twists, or just pulling your moisturized hair back into double buns. You can also change up the look by zig-zagging your part, or keep things more classic with a boxed part style.

3. Cornrow Style

For a look that gives you the contrasting beauty of two different sized braids, this look can help you look stylish and beat the heat. It uses cornrows combined with a larger back braid for a sleek look that is beach ready.

4. Halo Braid

The halo is perfect for when you want an updo or protective style that is easy to put in, keep in for a short time, and take down later. In this video, Chizi Duru teaches you a look that doesn’t take long to achieve, and it secures your edges in a braid without pulling too hard on them. Win win!

5. Mini Braids

Mini braids make for a fun, youthful look that will let you enjoy your beach day while giving your curls everything they need. Julz Jones shows how she parts her hair for layer of little braids that secure her ends and edges and help seal in all the moisture she’s added to her hair. This style will last for days, plus afterwords you can undo it and wear your hair in a braid-out with super defined curls!

6. Head Wraps

No idea what to do with your hair? A scarf is the easiest fix. Protect your hair from the sun, sand, and wind completely by tying it up and away! There are countless ways to tie a headwrap, so Harmonicurls shows us her four favorite methods. With some fun colors or patterns, this is a great way to maintain healthy curls while looking bright and ready for the sun. be

7. Cornrow Bun

The cornrow look is a style staple for summer since it allows for maximum protection of precious strands. With the cornrow bun, turn the protection up a notch while still looking beautiful and stylish.

What’s your favorite style to wear to the beach?

Texture Tales: Shenique Tells Us Her Secret to a Poppin Braidout
Texture Tales Shenique Tells Us Her Secret to a Poppin Braidout

How would you best describe your hair?

Naturally Coily

What is your hair type?

4a

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

My mom permed my hair at an early age so I didn’t know my true texture. Before my hair had gotten completely straight from perms, I loved the volume of how poofy my pony tails were.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly/coily/wavy hair?

One day I noticed that the middle of my hair was half the length of the rest of my hair. I wrote friends at the time who posted about their healthy natural hair journey on Facebook to ask for some tips on growing my natural hair. Going natural for me at first was all about growing healthy hair because I felt my hair was damaged. The friends advised me to check out YouTube as well as other helpful tips and Naptural85 was one of the first naturalistas I found. I was sold on going natural after seeing her hair!
Texture Tales Shenique Tells Us Her Secret to a Poppin Braidout

How have your family, friends and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them?

My friends supported the new look because they feel that I can rock anything. My family had jokes here and there about my hair being so short. It didn’t bother me I would just laugh it off. At the time I did have a guy friend I was talking to and I could tell he didn’t like it at all. I would reassure him that my hair will grow very long.

How did you transition to wearing your natural texture?

I was a short transitioner. I transitioned for 9 months and then cut my permed ends off. At first I had planned to transition for a year before cutting off the permed hair because I was afraid of how I’d look with short hair. But the longer my hair got the more annoying it got for me to blend the permed ends with my natural roots. And plus the more I saw my curls coming through, the more anxious I got to cut it. So I did it and I haven’t looked back since.

What is your current hair regimen?

I pre-poo and co-wash my hair with Aussie Moist conditioner. I wash my hair every 2 to 3 weeks in 2 sections with Giovanni shampoo. I always follow up with a deep conditioner for minimum 30 mins or the rest of the day. Rinse out deep conditioner and apply a leave in conditioner. Then a butter like shea butter and a oil to seal for moisture. I trim minimum twice a year (I trim my own hair”>. I DON’T use any heat or color on my hair. I sleep with a satin bonnet. I incorporate a protective style at least once a year with wigs, twists, and braids for about 3 to 8 weeks. I don’t play in my hair or do anything to it until it’s time to style again every 2 to 3 weeks or 6 to 8 weeks if I’m protective styling. I style my hair and leave it alone!
Texture Tales Shenique Tells Us Her Secret to a Poppin Braidout

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a big impact on the way your hair looks?

The foundation for all my styles are braidouts. A braidout stretches my hair without heat and gives my hair volume for any style. I braid my hair moisturized and damp for great texture and let it dry overnight or under hair dryer. The next day, I loosen the braids, fluff my hair and go.

Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase or need some encouragement in their hair journey?

Be patient and don’t compare your hair journey to others. Time is everything! In due time your hair will flourish and you’ll feel even prettier as you learn to accept your texture and how to style your hair. The journey is so worth it, you’ll love yourself even more.

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5 Ways to Calm Your Scalp Irritation NOW
Fact: the scalp is the foundation of great hair.

If your scalp is unhealthy, your hair will most likely show signs as well, which is why your scalp should be treated with care! There are many reasons why scalps can become irritated. Here are five tips to calm scalp irritation.

Find the root cause

Sometimes your scalp may feel like it has become irritated out of nowhere, but there is always a root cause. Have you recently started using a new shampoo or styling product? Have you been spending more time in the sun without a hat? Have you made changes in your diet? Are you drinking less water than usual? Have you changed how often you wash and condition your hair?

There are a ton of factors that play into scalp health, and your scalp will let you know when something just isn’t right. You just need to pay attention and evaluate your recent habits. Of course, there will be times when scalp irritation is linked to an underlying medical condition such as psoriasis. If you are having severe irritation that occurs frequently without having made any major lifestyle changes, you should consult your doctor to rule out any health issues.

Do DIY treatments

When your scalp is irritated and sore, give it some quick relief by grabbing these simple ingredients from the kitchen and applying them straight to the scalp: olive oil and apple cider vinegar. Olive oil has healing hydration properties that will restore moisture and balance to the scalp in a gentle, soothing way. If your scalp is packing a one-two punch of being both irritated and itchy, apple cider vinegar helps calm down inflammation and dull the itch with its antibacterial properties. The best part is that these two solutions are so simple to use.

Rub 1 to 2 tablespoons olive oil into scalp and rinse off after 10 minutes. For apple cider vinegar, simply make a mixture that is one part water and one part vinegar. Apply to scalp for ten minutes and rinse out, and never apply vinegar to a scalp with open cuts or blisters as this recipe would be too harsh. 

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Massage the scalp regularly

The health of your scalp is based on a few factors, including the proper circulation of blood. Giving yourself a scalp massage is a great way to make sure this essential function stays healthy. It is also super relaxing and can help with balance by helping to distribute the natural scalp oils more evenly. You should do a weekly scalp massage to get the most benefit. Using natural oil bases such as olive oil or coconut oil, massage the scalp in circular motions for ten minutes. Make sure you do not use your fingernails to scratch the skin as this will only make it more irritated. Apply gentle pressure with your fingertips to massage the scalp, then rinse hair out. Repeat this every week for a healthier scalp.

Try Chocolate Kinks & Kurlz Lemon Rose Hair & Scalp Renewal Oil

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Keep it clean

Sometimes your scalp will become dry and irritated because of buildup, so it is important to keep your scalp clean to keep it healthy with a clarifying shampoo. Regular washes are great at removing dirt and excess oil, but it is harder to take off the buildup of styling products, especially silicone buildup, that can make a scalp unhealthy. With a good clarifying shampoo, you get a thorough clean that will help restore balance to the scalp. You want to make sure you aren’t clarifying too often though or you run the risk of stripping the scalp of necessary natural oils. A good rule of thumb is to use a clarifying shampoo every few weeks, more or less depending on your buildup.

Try Briogeo Scalp Revival Charcoal + Coconut Oil Micro-Exfoliating Shampoo

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Moisturize

The scalp is just like the skin on the rest of our body in that it needs proper attention. You wouldn’t go a week without applying lotion to the rest of your skin, right? Your scalp needs the same moisture as the rest of your skin, so don’t forget to properly moisturize your scalp after every wash, and especially after clarifying with a shampoo. Make sure you choose options that are rich in natural emollients known to moisturize the scalp such as coconut oil, shea butter, olive oil, and other vitamin-rich bases.

Try Mielle Organics Mongongo Oil Pomade-To-Oil Treatment

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Taking care of your curls means taking care of your scalp. Calm irritation fast with these great tips!

This article was originally published in 2017 and was updated in 2018 to reflect new product recommendations.

Texture Tales: Gladys Shares Her Curly Girl Essentials + Tips for Maximum Definition
Texture Tales Gladys Shares Her Curly Girl Essentials  Tips for Maximum Definition

How would you best describe your hair?

Naturally Curly

What is your hair type?

3a

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

I never liked my hair in its natural state. I always used really bad gels and made my hair super crunchy and hard. I would constantly straighten it, using a flat iron everyday. I never really knew what I was doing to my hair. I just always thought and was told that having straight hair was more pretty.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?

I started following curly hair influencers and wondered if my hair could ever look like that. I eventually got tired of straightening my hair and smelling that burnt smell on my hair. Hif3licia on instagram really inspired me to embrace my natural hair and her story of her journey and the pictures from her before and after amazed me. I wanted to see for myself if it was really possible to bring back a curl pattern from my heat and chemical damaged hair.

How have your family, friends and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them?

My family has been supportive since day one ! At first they were a little skeptical, but they always cheered me on ! When I joke about straightening my hair now, my fiance always tells me absolutely not ! He loves my curly hair and brags about it all the time. I have been so lucky to have made new friends on this journey as well! Everyone is so friendly and of course we have hair in common, but so much more ! This community is filled with so many genuine and beautiful people. It has really helped me step out of my comfort zone and meet new people.

How did you transition to wearing your natural texture?

When I finally decided to embrace my natural texture, I stopped straightening my hair cold turkey. And surprisingly, it wasn’t hard for me to stop. I was always afraid to cut my hair so I never did a big chop. After a year in my journey, I got my first professional hair cut and I fell in love with it. In the beginning I slowly began the CG method, although I did cheat every once in a while when I used shampoo and conditioner. For the most part, I stuck with using DevaCurl and it worked for me.
Texture Tales Gladys Shares Her Curly Girl Essentials  Tips for Maximum Definition

What is your current hair regimen?

Deva Curl has been my holy grail since the beginning! In the shower I begin by detangling using Wash Day Wonder. Then, use the DevaCurl Decadence No Poo and the Orginal One Condition. When I apply the conditioner, I leave it in and wet plop. I then style with a dime sized amount of B’Leave In Curl Plumper and rake it through with my fingers. Then apply the Super Cream, but I water it down in my hands with a little bit of water so it is not so thick. Next, I add in with Arc Angel Gel for max hold. I scrunch and diffuse. Lastly, I use a little bit of Set it Free to set my hair in place and tame any frizz or fly-a-ways.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a big impact on the way your hair looks?

I apply my hair on soaking wet hair. My hair absorbs the products better and it does not build up on my scalp when it is very wet. I always flip my head down to scrunch my products and diffuse upside down as well. I diffuse on cool or low heat and on low speed to avoid more frizz. I usually take a little bit of oil in my finger tips when my hair is 100% dry, and shake my hair out at the roots for more volume.

Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase or need some encouragement in their hair journey?

Never give upon this journey and never underestimate your hair’s potential. Nobody’s curls are the same, so do not get discouraged. But when you get hair back to its healthy state, you will not regret waiting! Patience is key. Always remember to embrace who you are and whatever stage you’re in of your journey!

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How to Make a Gel & Water Spray for Bouncy Summer Curls

Summer curls and waves can be a challenge – there’s heat, humidity, chlorine, sea water, more heat and more drastic temperature changes… Hair can take a summer beating, at times.

But, having curls and waves also come with benefits – like not having to wash them all too often. If you miss a day, it’s ok, your curls and waves can, literally, bounce back, without a lot of work. And for tough summer days, not washing, or conditioning only, can be a great benefit.

For those who prefer to shampoo and condition on a daily basis, as well as for those who don’t, this simple revitalizing process can be used for any type of curl or wave. It’s especially good for going from work to a dinner party or special event after a long day.

It’s also a wonderful process for styling curls before you go to bed, without having to wash them again.

The Revitalizing Process: Gel & H2O

That’s all you need to revitalize your natural curls or waves. It’s best to have a spray bottle for your water, one that mists or covers larger areas on your head. Select a gel that is kind to your curls. It doesn’t have to be costly, there are some good drug-store buys that are easy to find and won’t hurt your wallet. A few favorite gels for curlies and waves are: La Looks Gels, Biotera Gel (Biotera Glaze is great for finer hair or waves”>, Kinky-Curly Curling Custard, La Bella Sports Gel, Ecostyler gels. There are reviews of all of the products for your hair-type as well. You can find more gel recommendations here: Top 20 Curl-Friendly Gels.

Directions

  1.  Start by sectioning your hair into smaller sections (depending on your length you may have up to 4 or 5 sections”>.
  2. Clip each section and apply water with your water spray bottle to the first section, enough to dampen it.
  3. Then, use a quarter to half-dollar size of gel on your section, applying it evenly throughout the section.
  4. Sometimes it’s easiest to coat your hands with the gel for each section. Be sure not to rub your scalp or pull on any parts of your hair as you apply. Gently repeat on each section of hair then blot each section with a damp towel.

In addition, you may want to finger-curl some sections as you work the gel through.

How to Finger-Curl

Simply take a part of the section of hair you’ve worked the gel and water into and twist it around one or two fingers, depending on how wide you want the curl to form.

This process is perfect for the evening or the morning, just allow amply drying time. It’s best to allow revitalized curls and waves to air-dry.

Sleep On It

Use a satin or silk pillow case to sleep on, or wrap your hair in a silk scarf at bed time. If you have limited time, use a diffuser and gently allow the curls to dry.

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Photo courtesy of @Flaviaesantiago

Styling It

Going from work to a dinner party? The above process may take a bit more time than you have to get from your office to an evening party. Therefore, you can try a simpler and quicker process by having your water on hand and a small bottle of gel. It’s always a great idea to keep some gel at work, or in your bag. Instead of creating sections, mist your hair lightly with some water. If you don’t have a water bottle handy simply use your hands. It’s not necessary to make your hair too wet.

Coat your hands with the gel and work it into your hair. Going from ends to roots may “plump” up your curls and waves a bit more and help style your hair at the same time.

Apply more gel as needed until you have finished. Use your hands to twist and coax any curls or waves back into place.

If you are headed to a special evening out be sure to have a few glitzy hairpins with you too. Add them to your revitalized curls and waves for a more elegant or “party-going” look.

MORE: Top 20 Curl-Friendly Gels

Texture Tales: Selome Shares How She Gave Herself Permission to Love Her Curls
Texture Tales Selome Shares How She Gave Herself Permission to Love Her Curls ### How would you best describe your hair? Naturally Coily ### What is your hair type? 4a Not sure what your hair type is? [Take our quiz!](https://www.beautycon.com/quiz”> ### What was it like for you growing up with textured hair? Growing up, my hair confused me. I remember seeing girls in the bathroom of my elementary school sprinkling water on their heads to calm their post-recess frizz, to make their hair look straight again. At home, in secret, I tried to copy them. I stood in front of the mirror and raked wet hands through the baby hairs that escaped the braids my mother re-did each morning. I found myself with curls and coils springing up in every direction, and it just didn’t make sense. I was only 5 then, but the frustration lasted for 10 more years. By middle school, I outgrew my braided pigtails and went straight. Thankfully, my mother never let me chemically relax my hair, as many times as I asked her to. But I did manage to get her to help me blow dry and flat-iron after every single wash day. Texture Tales Selome Shares How She Gave Herself Permission to Love Her Curls ### What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair? After four years of heat styling, I could no longer deny how fried, dry, and damaged my hair had gotten. So when school let out after my freshman year of high school, I promised myself I’d stay natural all summer to combat the damage before returning to my beloved hot tools. It was incredibly uncomfortable at first; I felt like I was taking up way much more space than used to. But by accident, I started developing a little crush on my curls. My original intention had never been to go natural, but each week I got a little happier with the coils in the mirror. I was bashful about my excitement– and then I realized how silly that was. I wouldn’t have been born with curly hair if I wasn’t supposed to have curly hair, so I gave myself permission to be in love with it. ### How have your family, friends and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them? Honestly, most of my friends and family were more excited about my texture than I was. It felt strange accepting compliments that I didn’t truly believe yet. I also had to answer a lot of questions about curly hair that I didn’t feel qualified enough to answer yet, but I had to pretend I felt sure of myself in order to respond to everyone. Eventually, all that faking taught me how to speak more kindly to myself and develop a healthier self-image. ### How did you transition to wearing your natural texture? Since I never used any chemicals on my hair, I didn’t have to big chop to go natural. I stopped using heat tools, started trimming my ends super often to get rid of the damage, and added a ton of moisture to my routine. Over time, I grew out the damage and got back to my natural texture. Now, after 4 years natural, I have healthy mix of 3c, 4a, and 4b curls and coils. Texture Tales Selome Shares How She Gave Herself Permission to Love Her Curls ### What is your current hair regimen? I wash my hair about every 10 days. I always use a cleansing conditioner, and I shampoo every other wash to avoid drying out my hair. I use a ton of leave-in conditioner plus a bit of styling cream and/or gel, and since I usually wash my hair at night I gravitate towards braid outs, sleeping in the damp braids and then letting my hair air dry in the morning. I always play an empowering album, podcast, or audiobook over a speaker throughout my entire wash day process. After a childhood of covering up my coils, I do everything I can to associate hair with love! ### Are there any techniques or methods that have made a big impact on the way your hair looks? Even after going natural, I still straightened my hair 2-3 times a year whenever I needed a trim. But I just got my hair cut by a stylist who specializes in curly hair for the very first time, and it’s completely changed how healthy and happy my coils look. Shout out to[ April](https://www.instagram.com/_thehalfrican/”> at [Honeycomb Hair Boutique](https://www.instagram.com/Honeycombatx/”> in Austin! ### Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase or need some encouragement in their hair journey? Transitioning is awkward. I felt like I didn’t have enough time to get used to my own face before all of the comments started rolling in. But you don’t have to explain what you were born with! Forgive yourself for looking bold; or rather; revel in it. Allow yourself to take up space. I know that that’s hard. It took a couple of years to fully understand that I had become a walking statement. My hair does not let me hide. But would I want to anyway?

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Texture Tales : Britney Shares How She Embraced Her Big Chop and Tips to Grow Out Her Coily Hair
Texture Tales  Britney Shares How She Embraced Her Big Chop and Tips to Grow Out Her Coily Hair ### How would you best describe your hair? Naturally Coily ### What is your hair type? 4c ### What was it like for you growing up with textured hair? Growing up, I was always told “girl, your hair is too thick” and for the all of my childhood I considered that a bad thing. In my mind, if hair salons charged extra and nobody ever wanted to deal with my hair, it must mean its a problem. I had length, but it was never neat because for the most part I was the one who dealt with my thick head of hair. I received my first “Just For Kids” texturizer at eight-years-old because my mom thought it was just easier to manage that way. By high school I was relaxing my hair every 6 weeks. I remember wanting to embrace my natural hair during my senior year of high school and quickly reverting back to relaxers after being discouraged by family and friends and the fear of the unknown that I saw within my new growth. Texture Tales  Britney Shares How She Embraced Her Big Chop and Tips to Grow Out Her Coily Hair ### What made you decide to embrace your naturally coily hair? Funny, but true story. I was in college and came home for my usual 6 week relaxer. I went to my then favorite Dominican owned hair salon and sat in the chair. The hair technician greeted me and started the usual process, but this time my hair was just not having it. I literally jumped out the chair when she applied the first comb through to my roots of the relaxer. It was so embarrassing. I looked like a child but I had her wash it out immediately and I never looked back. ### How have your family, friends and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them? My mom was so very nervous about natural hair for me as a professional in corporate America. (I won’t lie, I was too.”> Thankfully, I have a good mentor that ensured me that how I choose to wear my hair, so long as it’s neatly kept, shouldn’t ever be an issue in my workplace. My coworkers had the typical questions like “how do you get it like that?” and “how long does that take?” but those subsided pretty quickly. Shockingly, it was friends, acquaintances, and even strangers that gave me the most confidence about my natural hair from the very beginning. It was the random compliments on the streets of NYC that did it for me. It’s like they saw my afro’s potential way before I even did. ### How did you transition to wearing your natural texture? After my horrific relaxer experience, I wore my hair in Bantu knots (twisting almost every night”> as a transitioning hairstyle. Then, when I was tired of that, I wore braids and weaves for about a year before I got tired of the messy tangles and just cut it all off. Big chop. Just me and my favorite pair of scissors. Texture Tales  Britney Shares How She Embraced Her Big Chop and Tips to Grow Out Her Coily Hair ### What is your current hair regimen? Currently, I mainly do twist outs; they’re fast, easy, and I can bet on the results. I also do wash and gos but mainly in the summer months because I need less drying time. ### Are there any techniques or methods that have made a big impact on the way your hair looks? Yes! I’ve found that using moisturizers and oils before application of gel, whether this be for wash and gos or updos, make for so much more control over the updos and far less crunchy curls for wash and gos. Also, always deep condition; no matter what and if you can do so with oils, conditioners, and honey. ### Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase or need some encouragement in their hair journey? Just do it! Don’t be afraid of what people will think or say. You never know, they may just surprise you and feed you nothing but positivity and compliments. Plus, it will get easier as your hair begins to grow. Have faith in your journey and take tons of pictures along the way. I have a whole album that I look back and am amazed at my own growth.

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Curls & Cocktails in NYC with PHYTO SPECIFIC

PHYTO SPECIFIC recently debuted their Curl Legend collection to a salon full of some of our favorite curly girls in New York City. Coral, also known as @curlswithcoral on Instagram, was in attendance to cover the event and share what she thinks of the line with all of the guests. Here’s what she had to say about Curls & Cocktails.

Curltalk, amazing products and a glass of wine is how we were all greeted for “Curls and Cocktails”. This event was presented by NaturallyCurly this past Thursday at the Mark Garrison Salon in New York City. Myself, Cristina Cleveland of NaturallyCurly, and over 30 of my favorite influencers attended to celebrate PHYTO SPECIFIC’s own Curl Legend line. This PHYTO SPECIFIC Curl Legend line is 98% botanical and completely geared towards natural, curly hair! Curls & Cocktails in NYC with PHYTO SPECIFIC

There are 4 products in this line:

  1. Cleansing Care Cream: Can be used as a co-wash and is perfect for summertime, when you want to clean your hair after being in the sun all day but don’t want to apply any harsh shampoo. This product really does an amazing job at cleansing the scalp and not making it feel stripped from any natural oils. Finally, there’s a nozzle tip for an easy application (100 extra points for PHYTO!”>.
  2. Curl Energizing Spray: This is not your regular clear spray that sort of “holds” everything in place with a hard cast. This spray comes out with a really creamy consistency that works just like the perfect leave in. It’s super lightweight and you can also use it for days 2 and 3 to refresh your curls and keep them looking flawless.
  3. Gel-Creme: The perfect amount of hold to keep your curls soft and defined. You will have a slight cast after it’s dried but once you scrunch it out you will be left with really soft and bouncy curls. One of the main ingredients PHYTO uses for this product is Quinoa, which can be super moisturizing for curly hair.
  4. Baobab oil: A blend of oils made with baobab, shea, castor, roucou, and karanja oils. It can be used for your hair and body, so guess who’s gonna be glowing this summer! You can also use this oil as a pre-shampoo treatment or a leave-in treatment after your hair has dried. This blend also smells absolutely amazing!
Curls & Cocktails in NYC with PHYTO SPECIFIC  We all received goodie bags filled with all of these amazing products. Even though I have been using the products for some time, just talking about all the product benefits had me super excited for my next wash and go. Also, these products are mainly plant derived, so you know what you’re applying to your hair is nature’s best! Throughout the salon there were a few stations: a cocktail area, product display and discussion area, a scalp analysis station, and a dry styling station. In the scalp analysis area, a camera would be placed on your head to see the amount of buildup you have. Based on your analysis you would get suggestions on how to remove it and make your scalp healthier. Curls & Cocktails in NYC with PHYTO SPECIFIC  In the dry styling sessions, the stylists created some really beautiful hairstyles, anything from braids to up’dos using the products from the PHYTO SPECIFIC Curl Legend line. Curls & Cocktails in NYC with PHYTO SPECIFIC  Curls & Cocktails in NYC with PHYTO SPECIFIC  ###### Before Curls & Cocktails in NYC with PHYTO SPECIFIC  ###### After I absolutely enjoyed this event. I really loved seeing curls from all types. From Type 2’s to 4’s and everything in between. Being in the same room with all these gorgeous women really makes me feel lucky to be part of this beautiful community. Curls & Cocktails in NYC with PHYTO SPECIFIC  Curls & Cocktails in NYC with PHYTO SPECIFIC  Curls & Cocktails in NYC with PHYTO SPECIFIC  Curls & Cocktails in NYC with PHYTO SPECIFIC  Thank you so much to both PHYTO SPECIFIC and the NaturallyCurly team for this amazing opportunity, to come together for such a special occasion. Everyone had the best time and went home happy with a bag filled up with goodies! Can’t wait for the next time :”> *This post is sponsored by PHYTO SPECIFIC.*
Texture Tales: Desiree Shares How She Decided To Embrace Her Curls
Texture Tales Desiree Shares How She Decided To Embrace Her Curls ### How would you best describe your hair? Naturally Curly ### What is your hair type? 3a Not sure what your hair type is? [Take our quiz!](https://www.beautycon.com/quiz”> ### What was it like for you growing up with textured hair? Growing up with curly hair felt like a curse. My siblings had straight hair and since my parents didn’t know about caring for curly hair, they would brush my hair out leaving me with frizzy short hair. It was so dry that up until middle school, boys followed me on my walk home yelling out hurtful names like, “afro puff, Cotton candy, and curly headed F@%!”. The hair shaming didn’t end there, from ex boyfriends wanting me to wear my hair other girls (straight haired women”>, and employers telling me my curls were unprofessional and distracting, I eventually committed to flat irons until my late 20’s. ### What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair? I flat ironed my hair from middle school to just about 2 years ago. While running late to work one day, I didn’t have time to flat iron my hair and I wore my hair in a pony tale displaying my frazzled damaged hair with a hint of curl. My team mate was in awe with my hair and insisted I stop flat ironing. She described healthy beautiful curls that I could have, and explained the relief of wearing your hair in a way that only I could wear it. I thought she was crazy because my curls have never been beautiful. I thought my curls were frizzy, distracting , unattractive, and could never be beautiful. I agreed to try allowing my hair to return to its natural state. I had no idea that the transition would require so much patience, self acceptance, and release of old emotional baggage. ### How has your family, friends and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them? When I stopped straightening my hair, my friends and family thought I was having a mental break down. My hair wasn’t sleek and shiny and I no longer spent hours trying to keep every hair in place. In the beginning of my curl journey, I struggled with the opinions about how I let my appearance go and couldn’t believe that the world thought I was depressed because I threw out the flat irons and hot tools. Over time my skin thickened and how I felt about myself began to originate from how I felt about myself, not from how others made me feel about myself. The confidence boost bled into many other areas of my life. I felt silly thinking that my hair started my self improvement movement, but shortly after changing my hair, I dropped my unfulfilling job, dropped many toxic people, and began embracing myself holistically. Texture Tales Desiree Shares How She Decided To Embrace Her Curls ### How did you transition to wearing your natural texture? I had no clue what to do at first. So I did what many people do and pulled up Pinterest. I tried DIY hair masks made from eggs, mayo, oils, butters, ACV, but nothing helped. After a while I knew I needed to chop off a bunch of my hair. I cried a little during the big chop process, remembering the names bullies harassed me with made me question why the hell am I doing this. The final cut from a Deva Curl Specialist came out beautiful. We didn’t take off as much as needed the first time, but the stylist spent 3 hours talking and teaching me about washing, styling, and sleeping in my curls. There was so much I never even thought about. I was educated on products and ingredients to stay away from, it was a lot to digest at first. ### What is your current hair regimen? Currently I use the [Deva Curl Decadence No Poo](https://shop.naturallycurly.com/devacurl-no-poo-original-12-oz/”> and [Conditioner](https://shop.naturallycurly.com/devacurl-no-poo-original-12-oz/”>, along with the [Super cream](https://shop.naturallycurly.com/devacurl-supercream-coconut-curl-styler-5-1-oz/”> and [Ultra gel](https://shop.naturallycurly.com/devacurl-ultra-defining-gel-12-oz/”>. Once a week I apply castor oil to my scalp (which has really helped my psoriasis”> and coconut oil to the ends, and wash out the oil with [Tropic Isle Living Red Pimento Oil Shampoo](https://shop.naturallycurly.com/tropic-isle-living-imported-jamaican-strong-roots-shampoo-with-red-pimento-8-oz/”>. After I finish, I use the SheaMoisture leave in, I’m heading over to try the new Deva Curl Decadence leave in. I sleep with a satin pillow case with my hair in a loose pineapple. I live in Phoenix, everything is dry here, so a leave in conditioner is important. ### Are there any techniques or methods that have made a big impact on the way your hair looks? My biggest struggles are styling and caring for my hair and keeping my hands off of it. With years of flat ironing, I grew use to running combs, brushes, and my fingers through my hair all the time. If I leave my curls alone when they air dry and through out the day then I don’t unravel the curls so much. Also I found it very important to stop comparing my curls with other people. Our patterns are different, out textures are different, and I allowed myself early on to become discouraged by comparing my curls to other women. Big no-no, their beauty does not mean there is an absence of my own. ### Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase or need some encouragement in their hair journey? Have patience and compassion for yourself. I am very hard on myself (as I am sure we all are”> and it is easy for me to zone in on the destination and hate the journey, but that is where the education is. When we go through the trial and errors of products, styles, methods, and salons for our hair, this is when we learn what works for us.

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Texture Tales: Shatera Taylor on How She Embraces Her Naturally Coily Hair
Texture Tales Shatera Taylor on How She Embraces Her  Naturally Coily Hair ### How would you best describe your hair? Naturally Coily ### What is your hair type? 4c Not sure what your hair type is? [Take our quiz!](https://www.beautycon.com/quiz”> ### What was it like for you growing up with textured hair? At times a nightmare lol. From getting my hair pressed monthly and the fear of that hot comb either burning my scalp or edges…OMG! But those were the good old days straightening out the kinks. My mother embraced every strand of my hair until I started managing my own hair from middle school into high school. Perms and colors that I did on my own damaged my hair pretty bad. Texture Tales Shatera Taylor on How She Embraces Her  Naturally Coily Hair ### What made you decide to embrace your naturally coily hair? My cousin….growing up I always had beautiful hair, but took advantage by perming it because of certain styles I wasn’t able to do if my hair was kinky. So I remember when my cousin did her big chop and how she walked around with her twa to a big fro with confidence. That is what inspired me to go natural. And I mean her fro and walk was flawless. Now look at me loving my natural hair journey. ### How have your family, friends and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them? So, funny story. One of my coworkers, Hispanic, said to me one day….after getting my hair straightened to get my ends clipped, “Shatera….no way…is that your hair, I didn’t know black people could have good hair like that?” Now I could have went off, but instead I chose not too. It was my job to educate her on how “Black Women” or of any ethnic can have bomb hair. So I took that moment to teach her and she was thankful. Everyone else….please….they was like about time lol. ### How did you transition to wearing your natural texture? Big Chop 9/15/12 and would NEVER go back to relaxing my hair. Queen Pulchritude (which is what I call my hair”> does not like to be covered up or tamed. Texture Tales Shatera Taylor on How She Embraces Her  Naturally Coily Hair ### What is your current hair regimen? No heat just two strand twists….updos from a Permrod set or braids with my natural hair. ### Are there any techniques or methods that have made a big impact on the way your hair looks? If I want a defined twistout wih the cutest curl tip I am now able to execute that look. For a defined twistout is to be done on wet hair and unraveled once opposite direction of how you twist it. For a curly tip…..after finishing my two strand I would then spray my end with water and add Black Jamaican Castor Oil. And BOOM! ### Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase or need some encouragement in their hair journey? Embrace your journey….love every moment of it. BE YOUR OWN HAIR CRUSH! Everyone can’t have the same strand of hair, so the moment you start to love her….she will return the love with some FLAWLESS hairstyles. In fact, give your hair a name, build a rapport, become bff’s and don’t give up.

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