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Texture Tales: Dervla on How She Learned to Care for Her 3a Curls + Top Curly Girl Tips
Texture Tales Dervla on How She Learned to Care for Her 3a Curls  Top Curly Girl Tips

What is your hair type?

3a

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

Growing up, my hair was always pretty straight, whether that was because it was straight or whether it because I brushed it every day, I’m not sure! When I hit 14 my hair went BAM and suddenly I had a head of thick, curly hair that I had no idea what to do with. I quickly became known as “that girl with the big hair” wherever I went, and I was so envious of those girls who could put their hair into a sleek ponytail with zero effort.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?

I discovered the Instagram account of @sydnieslittleworld and was amazed at the condition of her curls – I didn’t realize normal people could have hair that looked that good! I quickly became hooked on natural hair care and watched all the YouTube videos I could find, followed every curly Insta under the sun and spent a lot of money on hair products!

Texture Tales Dervla on How She Learned to Care for Her 3a Curls  Top Curly Girl Tips

How have your family, friends and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them?

My family was fairly supportive. During the transition phase I wasn’t looking my best all of the time so I think they were a little confused about what I was doing! My sister actually said to me the other day, “Remember when your hair looked greasy and bad all the time when you were transitioning? I’m SO glad it doesn’t look like that now!” Thankfully it’s improved! During this time I was always trying new things – including making my own disastrous hair masques, prompting a co-worker to ask me if I’d forgotten to rinse out my conditioner!

How did you transition to wearing your natural texture?

When I started the Curly Girl Method I began to wash it a lot less. I went from washing my hair three or four times a week to washing it once or twice a week. It was a really slow process and I ended up wearing it in a bun a lot. I got a big chop, too, and started doing a lot of hair masques. However, I was still dying my hair and using some heat. It wasn’t until I really started listening to my hair and cut out the dye, all heat and started learning about porosity and protein when my hair began to look good!

What is your current hair regimen?

Once a week I do a hair masque with a heated cap, which I try to leave on for an hour, and I follow up in the shower using curly friendly shampoo, which I massage into my scalp using a shampoo brush. Then I rinse, and then apply conditioner, which I rinse out with lukewarm water. Then once I’m out of the shower I tip my hair upside down and rake curl cream through my hair, section by section. I then scrunch out some of the excess water and then apply a gel, scrunch out some more water and then wrap it up in a microfiber towel for about 30 minutes. Then I air dry my hair, and after an hour or so it’s ready to scrunch and that’s it! A couple of times a week I might do a little refresh by applying the same styling products to wet hair.

Texture Tales Dervla on How She Learned to Care for Her 3a Curls  Top Curly Girl Tips

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a big impact on the way your hair looks?

For me air drying was such a game changer! One of the first things I did when starting the CG method was buy a new hairdryer and diffuser; however, I found that my curl pattern became looser and didn’t look as good when I used it. I’m also fairly impatient, and could never be bothered to sit with it on cold so I would use it on the hot setting in the hope of speeding things up. After six months my hairdryer broke and thank God it did! When I air dry, my curls form so much better, and follow a more ringlety pattern – plus it’s so much better for my hair health to be using less heat.

Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase or need some encouragement in their hair journey?

If you’re struggling with not getting the results you want, take a look at aspects of your routine and tweak them to suit your own hair. No one’s hair is the same and what works for one person may not necessarily work for you, so try to develop your own routine. Also don’t be afraid to go back to products or techniques — some of the products I hated when I started I absolutely love now!

What’s your hair story? Share your story with us here to be featured in our Texture Tales series.

Texture Tales: Kim Shares Her Natural Hair Journey and The Impact It Made on Loving Herself
Texture Tales Kim Shares Her Natural Hair Journey and The Impact It Made on Loving Herself

Image:@kimlisameyer

What is your hair type?

3b/ 3c

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What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

During primary school, I loved my long, curly hair. My mom managed to try all sorts of hairstyles and I loved it so much. It was easy to manage and I could try new things all the time. During high school I started straightening my hair every week. I was peer pressured to see that straight hair is beautiful. This caused me a lot of anxiety to keep straightening my hair.

Texture Tales Kim Shares Her Natural Hair Journey and The Impact It Made on Loving Herself

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?

During high school I couldn’t take it — I was crying every week while trying to get my hair sleek and straight. I decided in grade 11 to just ignore the comments and rude words, and I embraced my natural hair. It was curly due to the heat damage but I’m five years natural now and it’s been the best decision of my life.

How have your family, friends, and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them?

My friends were all brainwashed by social media years ago that straight hair is beautiful. But ever since I transitioned, they’ve seen the beauty in being yourself. This helped me grow and helped them to see people differently and love them for who they are. My family has a view that natural hair is a no-go. My grandmother never understood how one could not blow out her hair for functions or for Christmas. She would say things like “You could’ve at least tried to look nice!” and “Why can’t you do something with that mop?” It affected me in the beginning, but my mom encouraged my siblings and me to stay strong and love ourselves. All my siblings are on a natural hair journey and we try to help our family and friends change their view of and mindset about curly hair.

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How did you transition to wearing your natural texture?

I did not big chop. I stopped putting heat on my hair (blow dry, hair iron, etc”>. I deep-conditioned my hair consistently and let my natural hair grow it’s way out.

What is your current hair regimen?

I wash and condition. Finger coiling helps me get my curls bouncing up and down.

Texture Tales Kim Shares Her Natural Hair Journey and The Impact It Made on Loving Herself

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a big impact on the way your hair looks?

Finger coils!! Deep conditioning and oiling my hair helps keep the shine and heal those damaged ends.

Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase or need some encouragement in their hair journey?

You are beautiful. People all have insecurities and some put theirs onto you. Remember that beauty lies within. Your hair is one part of loving yourself and allowing true happiness and self love to reflect in your life. People will see that smile on your face and compliment you more on your beauty that is coming from within. Remember, hair and clothes doesn’t define you. Love who you are and those things will follow and shine due to the transitioning happening inward and then affecting your outward self.

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7 Reasons You Can’t Figure Out Your Curl Pattern

 

Photo by Khaled Ghareeb on Unsplash

“What is my curl pattern?” is the most frequently asked question on NaturallyCurly, and for every photo that is shared, there seems to be a few things that consistently go unnoticed. First, I want to acknowledge that curl pattern is helpful when addressing styling and a few hair care tips like lightweight products versus heavy products, but it is probably the least important factor when it comes to hair care.

Other factors like porosity play a larger role in how you care for your hair than curl pattern. But if you are new to the curly community, or perhaps if you’ve been here a while and haven’t figured out this curl pattern stuff yet, then there are a few things that could be hindering your pursuit of your curl pattern.

Read more:This Matters More than Curl Pattern

1. You need to let your hair shrink

Stretched styles (e.g. twist out, braid out, etc.”> will not give a proper representation of your curl pattern. Also, wet hair is not a proper depiction, as the water is weighing it down. After cleansing and deep conditioning, shingle a moisturizer and styling product throughout your hair with your fingers, and allow your hair shrink as it dries. Some say you can identify your curl pattern in its wet state but a wet 4a can easily be mistaken as a dry 3c, so a shrunken wash and go in its dried state is the most accurate way to make an assessment.

2. Stop combing your hair after you wash it

Put the comb down. There is nothing wrong with using a comb to detangle or even style, but combing separates your natural curl alignment/curl definition. The best way to observe your curl pattern is after it has been washed and not styled with tools. I know it is a natural tendency to comb your hair in order to style it, but this only disrupts the curl definition.

3. Heat damage

Let’s not be in denial. You mean to tell me that the leave out that you kept straightening to match your weave or extensions is 3b but the rest of your hair is 4b? If you use heat tools frequently, then more times than not that is why you cannot figure out your curl pattern. Give your hair a six-month break from heat styling. If the texture at the roots is different from the length of your hair, then you definitely have heat damage. Much like transitioning with relaxed hair, without cutting the damaged ends it can be difficult to observe your true curl pattern due to the weight of the damaged hair.

4. Dryness

If your hair is dry, it is less likely to maintain curl definition. Make sure your regimen is centered on putting moisture into your hair. Most of the women I know who are able to capture their curl definition are avid about deep conditioning and sealing their hair with an oil or butter. If you are using a gel with drying alcohols instead of fatty alcohols, this could be another reason your hair is dry.

5. You’re still transitioning

Everyone thought they had the same hair as Tracee Ellis Ross until it was time to cut those relaxed ends. Oh, was it just me? Trying to identify your curl pattern while your hair is transitioning is quite difficult and not an accurate portrayal until you cut the relaxed ends. The weight matters. I remember when people would show me pictures of someone with a 4a, shoulder length wash and go and say they were not going to big chop until they reached that length. My response would always be, “Well, I guess you are going to be transitioning for 3-5 years with no trims.” When transitioning, the best thing to focus on is moisturizing, deep conditioning, protein treatments, and low manipulation styles. Curl pattern is completely irrelevant.

6. You’re focusing on frizz

Although looser curl patterns have a higher tendency to create and sustain curl definition, frizzy hair exists for every curl pattern. Frizzy hair does not automatically qualify you as 4c and curl definition does not automatically make you a 3b. I have seen frizz and definition across the board. Frizzy, 3b hair exists just like defined, 4c hair exists.

7. You do not have curl definition

There is a difference between someone whose hair does not clump, versus someone who has frizz.

If your hair does not clump into a consistent pattern while wet, then you do not have natural curl definition, and that is fine. There is nothing wrong with your hair.

If your hair does have definition while wet, then you do have a curl pattern but your unique texture is just more prone to frizz without the proper moisturizing products, styling products, and techniques, and that is fine. There is nothing wrong with your hair. Remember, curl definers can only capture a curl, not create one. Learning how to master your wash and go takes time, and that still does not guarantee that frizz will be completely eliminated; it may only be reduced.

Nikki, 3c (left”> and Devri, 3c (right”>

Is all of this confusing? Need an example? Check out our editors Nikki and Devri in the photo above. They both have 3c hair but Nikki’s hair is very defined and Devri’s is very frizzy. More great examples are vloggers Jouelzy and Traeh (below”>. They both have 4c hair but Traeh has a more defined curl pattern and Jouelzy’s is less defined.

Jouelzy (left”> and Traeh (right”>

Some people never learn about their curl pattern and have an equally healthy hair care journey, so please do not fret. Knowing your curl pattern is not the be-all and end-all to having healthy hair.

Now that you have a better understanding of what to look for, keep these in mind and take the curl pattern quiz. You can also check out this article which talks more about curl patterns and typing, dealing specifically with curl pattern changes.

Do you have any tips for finding a curl pattern? Share them in the comments below!

This article was originally published in 2015 and has been updated.

Texture Tales: Felicia Shares Her Natural Hair Journey and Tips for a Healthy Hair Routine
Texture Tales Felicia Shares Her Natural Hair Journey and Tips for a Healthy Hair Routine

What is your hair type?

3c/ 4a

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

After using perms for many years. I asked a beautician why my head itched every time I got a perm. He was older and explained that i was allergic to perms. I decided that would be my last perm and I would be natural from then on. Permed hair was very expensive to maintain and my hair was thinning. I was very inexperienced with hair appliances. So I gave them all away.

How have your family, friends and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them?

Everyone loves my hair. My family, friends, coworkers, and strangers are always complementing me on my hair and asking me what do I use. I always thank them and share my products and techniques, but I always inform them that they will have to find the product that works for their hair type.
My mother was the only one that had a problem with my natural hair and would ask me to straighten it. But I noticed that hair was thinning because of the heat and color rinses she was using and I asked her to transition to natural. She did not want to because her hair was totally white, but she finally gave in and my niece gave her a nice style. She loves it now.
Texture Tales Felicia Shares Her Natural Hair Journey and Tips for a Healthy Hair Routine

How did you transition to wearing your natural texture?

I didn’t make the big chop, since my hair grows so fast. I transitioned by getting it cornrowed and clipping my hair every time I took it down to wash it and have it put back in cornrows I also wore a fake Afro puff to complete my styles. Over time, I’ve learned that I can handle it better naturally. It has been 8 years and I am loving my hair.

What is your current hair regimen?

In the shower – I put my hair in 4 to 6 sections (every 2 -4 weeks”>:
Pantene 3 Minute miracle curl perfection deep conditioner every time (sometimes I use plastic cap with a Heated Gel Cap”>
Finish up with a small amount of the Detangling Milk on each section.
Twist out – I prefer Tropical Roots Twist Cream. It moisturizes and helps to cut down on frizz. I use the Claudio St. James oil on my hands when taking down my twist
Wash and Go – I use a curling mouse. It gives me great curl definition. Gels and creams seem to weigh my hair down quite a bit.
Moisturizing between washes – I use Claudio St. James Water Free Egyptian Sparkle Perm & Braid Sheen Polish with Conditioner every 2 or 3 days.
Texture Tales Felicia Shares Her Natural Hair Journey and Tips for a Healthy Hair Routine

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a big impact on the way your hair looks?

When I remove my twist, I always twist the strand in the opposite direction of the twist before untwisting the strand. This helps to maintain the pattern without the frizz. I experiment with large and smart twist.
I have found that when doing a wash and set finger combing is best way to keep the natural strands together to maintain the curl pattern. It also helps my hair to have less frizz. I add all products in the shower. I also use a microfiber towel briefly to keep my hair from being dripping wet.

Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase or need some encouragement in their hair journey?

1. Don’t get discouraged.
2. Work with your natural hair doing your transition – keep it conditioned, maintain your moisture and get a great flattering haircut.
3. Do not use heat (if possible”> – it tends to change your curl pattern and you will have straight strands when you decide to wear your hair in your nature state. (I’ve known women that have had to start their transition over because of this reason”> I straighten mine once for my Mother’s 70th birthday and I experienced quite a few straight pieces.
4. I don’t recommend wearing weave. If you do try not to have it too tight. It will pull out your hair from the roots.
5. Be careful with color, it is very beautiful, but not for everyone. In my case it changed the texture of my hair. I’ve cut out all my color and I’m growing back with my nature color.

What’s your hair story? Share your story with us here to be featured in our Texture Tales series.

Texture Tales: Markele Shares Her Journey of Loving Her Naturally Curly Hair
Texture Tales Markele Shares Her Journey of Loving Her Naturally Curly Hair
Image:@markele.dejanae

How would you best describe your hair?

Naturally Coily

What is your hair type?

3c / 4a

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

For me, I was never fully satisfied with the way my hair was. I would always try to make it look the total opposite of what it really looked like. I never saw people that looked like me where I lived and because of that I always thought I was weird. I felt as if I had this hair that was uncontrollable. So I decided to bleach and straighten my hair as much as possible just to look like everyone else, not realizing that being different is the best thing EVER! Now I embrace it and I’m glad I did because I wouldn’t be where I am now! Loving my hair and encouraging others to do the same!

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What made you decide to embrace your naturally coily hair?

I kind of got tired of the heat damage look. I started to embrace my hair when I finally seen very influential curly girls embrace their natural hair. I would always imagine and think like if that could only be me!

How have your family, friends and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them?

Since I’ve always been natural there wasn’t really a reaction to me wearing my natural hair. My family and friends are very accepting of anything that I do especially when it comes to me being myself.

Texture Tales Markele Shares Her Journey of Loving Her Naturally Curly Hair

How did you transition to wearing your natural texture?

I’ve always been natural but I definitely had to let go and grow my hair out and trim it as it grew since my hair was so severely damaged due to bleach and using heat almost everyday.

What is your current hair regimen?

My current hair regimen is pretty simple. I mostly stick to:

– Shampoo + conditioning once a week – Deep conditioning once a week – Trimming my ends every 4 weeks – Protective styling during the summer

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a big impact on the way your hair looks?

Leaving my hair alone and letting it be free. Not feeling like I always have to do something to it has been key to my hair growth. Plus drinking tons of water and deep conditioning! Also using products that my hair LOVES! Its always important to pay attention to how your hair reacts to certain products.

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Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase or need some encouragement in their hair journey?

Getting your hair back to its natural state takes time and patience. I know sometimes it can get overwhelming throughout all the different stages of you transitioning. But trust me, its worth the wait! Take care of your hair the best way you can by giving it what it needs which is MOISTURE! Our hair is like a plant, it needs protection and moisture. You can’t expect your hair to grow without it.

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Texture Tales: Sofia on How She Finally Learned to Embrace Her Curls
Texture Tales Sofia on How She Finally Learned to Embrace Her Curls

Image:@curlsfirst

What country do you live in?

Sweden

How would you best describe your hair?

Naturally curly

What is your hair type?

3b

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

It was very lonely; my parents didn’t know how to care for my hair, and the majority of the people surrounding me had straight hair. For a short period of time, my two best friends got curly perms and I was so happy. I finally felt like I belonged and wasn’t alone in this anymore. Unfortunately, for me they quickly got tired of the curls and realized how much work it was. So they let their natural straight hair grow out. That made me feel even worse than before. I now felt like I was the only one who didn’t have a choice. It had been so easy for them and for me it would still be an everyday struggle. So when I turned 17 I started to get my hair relaxed.
Texture Tales Sofia on How She Finally Learned to Embrace Her Curls

Image:@curlsfirst

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly/coily/wavy hair?

When people started to refer to my hair as wavy instead of curly. I instantly felt like I had lost a big part of my identity and who I was. In my mind I had always been a curly girl and I wanted it to stay that way no matter what I did to my curls. My hair had enough after the first relaxer but it took me 9 years to finally realize what I was doing. I felt like it was time for me to make peace with myself and change my perception of beauty.

How have your family, friends and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them?

The support and love has been amazing. I think they were all ready for me to embrace my curls even before I was. They’ve been like “Finally!” It has truly been a life changing experience for me.

How did you transition to wearing your natural texture?

I would invest in good products (CG method“> and trim my hair every now and then to get rid of the unevenness. I hated the part where the damaged relaxed hair would meet the new healthy hair. Because of that I would wear my hair in a bun for the first months until it started to look more decent.
For me Social media was a big part of transitioning. I was doing research 24/7 the first weeks and of course I spent a lot of time here at NaturallyCurly.com and on Instagram and YouTube. I needed all the inspiration and motivation I could get. And just a couple of months ago I actually started my own Instagram page @curlsfirst. For me it has been about giving back to the community that has always been there for me.
Texture Tales Sofia on How She Finally Learned to Embrace Her Curls

Image:@curlsfirst

What is your current hair regimen?

I always apply products on soaking wet hair, I love using cremes and leave ins. I wash my hair with shampoo once a week and try to deep conditioning at least once a week.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a big impact on the way your hair looks?

Definitely finger coiling. It has been a great way for me to train my curls to really curl. It’s also great for the taming the frizz in the front and around the crown area. And since I’m such a sucker for volume, using a pick has been a game changer for me!
Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase or need some encouragement in their hair journey?
Start from the inside out, acceptance and patience is key. Get out there, ask curly girls for advice, network and create a safe space for your curls. Having people there for you and supporting you through your transition is everything.

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Correcting It? Do we need correction?

From reader Sara in Sussex, England:

I read recently a label on a bottle containing ‘straightening fluid’. It read “corrective treatment for frizzy hair” We do not need CORRECTING!!

Curl Bias on MTV
  Member Katie alerts us to this one:Surly icon

There is a popular reality show on MTV called ‘Making the Band 2’. Six people were chosen out of a nation-wide talent search to form a hip hop band. The band members are being ‘made over’ into a more marketable image. There is a girl on the show named Sarah Stokes. Sarah was first told to lose weight. The second part of her makeover— they have straightened her long, tight ringlets into Pocahontas-looking straight hair. Typical.

Nicole Kidman Accepts her Curls

curly0108.jpgNicole Kidman’s mop made her feel ‘awkward and repulsive,’ she says. ‘When I was little I had curls down to my bum, and people would always pull at my hair and say, ‘Ohhhhh, she’s got currrrls! I hated that.’….Even today, Kidman likes to wear her hair blown out straight. ‘The thing you hate about yourself tends to be the thing that everyone likes about you,’ she says. ‘Russell Crowe always says, ‘Nic, just wear your hair curly and leave your glasses on. That’s how you look best.’

— People magazine

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The Ouidad Curl Convention

Watch out Grammys. Move over Fashion Week. The Ouidad Curl Convention – held on Sunday, April 18 – was the place to see and be seen this spring. In case you couldn’t make it, here’s what you missed:

For six lucky winners the day began at noon with a free curl consultation from Ouidad herself. The winners were then whisked off for a luxurious Ouidad Deep Treatment and Ouidad’s Trademark “Carve and Slice” haircut.

By mid afternoon festivities were under way for the approximately 150 attendees. After checking in to receive their door prize ticket, guests were free to enjoy complimentary refreshments and the gorgeous spring afternoon.

Ouidad held a captive audience as she shared her secrets and tricks of the trade on the proper care for curly hair, which included demonstrations followed by questions from the audience.

Door prize drawings, which are redeemable at the Greg and Tony Salon, included:

* 5 in salon Ouidad Deep Treatments

* 1 Manicure and Pedicure, 1 Full Body Massage

* 1 Grand prize Ouidad Deep Treatment and “Carve and Slice” curl styling.

At the end of the day, Ouidad held a book signing of her how-to book “Curl Talk”.

Guests left with a goody bag containing: Ouidad’s Love your Curls gift set (retailing for $25″>, 2 $5 Gift Certificates to the Greg and Tony Salon (1 good for Ouidad products and the other for Ouidad service”> and Ouidad’s “Vive le Curl” Juicy T-Shirt.

I Straightened My Hair So Much I Can’t Tell My Curl Pattern
I Straightened My Hair So Much I Cant Tell My Curl Pattern

Robin Sjoblom, owner and curly hair specialist at Southern Curl Inc. in West Midtown, Atlanta, Georgia, answers your biggest curl questions. This month, she takes on heat damage and keeping the bounce in your curls throughout the day.

The Questions

Question: I used to straighten my hair so much that I’m not sure what my natural curl pattern/type is! Are my curls falling because of heat damage from straightening? Any advice?

Robin: Although curly hair has always been known as the chameleon of hair types, it is not impervious to heat stress —- you cannot live happily and unscathed in the dual world of straight and curly. You will have to make a choice. Straightening your hair with heat has a negative effect on natural curls, and all the treatments in the world will not resuscitate the life back into your curly hair. If you are looking to see your curly blessing once more, you will have to remove the heat-stressed hair from your head. This is the only way to change your #CurlStory and embrace your curly blessing.

Question: My hair has so much more body and curl to it, but by the end of the day, my curls turn more into loose waves.

Robin: Weather and your product regimen will play a serious role in your end-of-day curl bounce. The season and the humidity level will also determine your morning routine and style longevity. You can minimize end-of-day curl drama by adding a stronger gel to your routine, and a flexible holding spray. These small product adjustments will clear the path for a happier #CurlStory. Lastly, remember your curl-scription will never be the same from season to season. Just like we adjust our clothing from spring and summer to fall and winter, you must make the same adjustments for your curls.

Do you have any questions that you need answered by a stylist? Leave them below in the comments! If you live in the Atlanta area, call us for a complimentary video consultation and we will get your customized curly cut booked ASAP at 404-352-2875(CURL”> or visit our website at www.southerncurlatl.com.
Texture Tales: Sydnie Shares Her Curly Girl Essentials and How She Bounced Back From Heat Damage
Texture Tales Sydnie Shares Her Curly Girl Essentials and How She Bounced Back From Heat Damage

Image:@sydnieslittleworld

What is your hair type?

3a

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

Growing up, I didn’t actually realize I had curly hair. My mum blowdried it straight, and I honestly thought frizz was a hair type. It was a constant battle of my hair being blowdried straight, put up in ponytail and then a French plait, which felt like my hair was being ripped from my scalp. My mum loved me and it was character building, I promise. So yeah, I was just the frizzy blond kid who didn’t know what was lurking behind the frizz.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly/coily/wavy hair?

I remember thinking one day, “This can’t just be my hair type.” I delved into a massive research session and discovered the phrase “frizz is just a curl waiting to happen.” Lorraine Massey saved me. I started to see other people’s curls and realized this might actually be achievable. I bought myself the “Curly Girl Handbook” and didn’t look back.

How have your family, friends and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them?

My family LOVES my curls. On the rare occasion I straighten my hair, they always tell me they prefer my curls because they give me more personality, and I completely agree. My friends were surprised to see my curls because they had no idea I had them. I recently saw some old school friends who said, “You didn’t have curly hair at school, did you?” I straightened it every single day. My colleagues at my current job have only ever known me with my curls and they’re always complimentary.

Texture Tales Sydnie Shares Her Curly Girl Essentials and How She Bounced Back From Heat Damage

How did you transition to wearing your natural texture?

I didn’t do a big chop, because I wasn’t sure I even had curls. I followed the Curly Girl Method and saw a massive change so quickly. The education I got from the curly girl handbook has been invaluable.

What is your current hair regimen?

Currently I was my hair with a co-wash such as DevaCurl One Condition or Boucleme Cleanser and then drench my hair in the Conditioner. If my hair needs it, I’ll also use Shea Moisture hair mask. I never wash my conditioner out fully. I then flip my hair upside down and apply my styling products (gels”> on SOAKING wet hair. I scrunch this in thoroughly and then use a cotton t-shirt to scrunch out the excess water and then plop for 10 minutes. I then diffuse my hair dry on a low power, medium heat setting until it’s fully dry.

Texture Tales Sydnie Shares Her Curly Girl Essentials and How She Bounced Back From Heat Damage

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a big impact on the way your hair looks?

The Curly Girl Method has had the biggest impact on the health of my hair and the appearance. Plopping has also reduced frizz in my hair massively.

Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase or need some encouragement in their hair journey?

If you’re just starting your journey and you’re struggling, stick with it. My hair took a long time to get to where it is now. You need to encourage your curls into their natural pattern. Don’t be disheartened on bad hair days. Figure out how to style your hair — messy buns save me a LOT. Enjoy the journey and don’t fixate on perfect curls. Frizz is normally just around the corner, and the sooner you accept it, the more relaxed you’ll be.

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Texture Tales: Makayla Tells us How She Styles Her Gorgeous 3a Curls
Texture Tales Makayla Tells us How She Styles Her Gorgeous 3a Curls

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How would you best describe your hair?

Naturally Curly

What is your hair type?

3a

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

Growing up with textured hair, my mom quickly learned how to style my hair when I was little. But as I grew older I hated that my hair was curly and big and all my friends had straight, silky hair. In middle school and high school I straightened and colored my hair so often it became damaged.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?

When I realized that my curls made me different and they were beautiful! I wanted to start wearing my hair curly everyday, I slowly transitioned from straightening it everyday. Also, there became more and more affordable hair products to help with wearing my hair natural.
Texture Tales Makayla Tells us How She Styles Her Gorgeous 3a Curls

How have your family, friends and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them?

Everyone always told me to embrace my curls! It was me who was hesitant. When I did the big chop, it was a dramatic change but everyone loved it.

How did you transition to wearing your natural texture?

I just initially just stopped straightening it. But kept coloring it, which still didn’t help the curls. Once I did the big chop my curls really flourished. I started using Deva Curl and no other products, I noticed a dramatic difference. My hair is HEALTHY & shiny and I absolutely love my curls now.

What is your current hair regimen?

I strictly use Deva Curl products and if I do feel edgy and want to venture off with another brand I make sure there are no silicones, parabens or sulfates in the products. I wash my hair once a week or every 10 days using the No Poo, and I style with Deva Curl styling cream and styling gel.
Texture Tales Makayla Tells us How She Styles Her Gorgeous 3a Curls

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a big impact on the way your hair looks?

I haven’t colored or straightened it since the big chop and my goal is to keep it that way.

Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase or need some encouragement in their hair journey?

If you’re wanting to cut your hair, JUST DO IT. Hair grows back. I saw a quote once “straighten your hair, be happy for a day. Embrace your curls, be happy for life.” And it’s true! Love what you were born with.

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Texture Tales: Tiffany Shares Her Hair Journey of Embracing her Beautiful 4a Curls
Texture Tales Tiffany Shares Her Hair Journey of Embracing her Beautiful 4a Curls

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What is your hair type?

3c / 4a

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What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

As a Puerto Rican, Haitian and African American mixed girl growing up, I often envied the fine, easily washed and styled hair that the hispanic side of my family had. During the summers, my mother and cousins would easily be able to put their hair in ponytails to get in the pool and I would have to sit for hours to get braids, or what we now know as protective styles. When I would get my hair straightened, I prayed that it would miraculously just remain that way. It took hours to wash, detangle, blow dry then style my hair. Both I and my mother dreaded it.
Texture Tales Tiffany Shares Her Hair Journey of Embracing her Beautiful 4a Curls

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?

I always felt that there had to be an easier way! It made no sense to me that some people could embrace and love their natural hair texture, and others couldn’t. I became obsessed with the idea of loving myself the way that I was created. In 2014, I began leaving my hair in its natural state after washing every once in a while. Then in 2015, I fully committed to embracing my natural curl pattern and finding products that worked best for me! It was the best decision I’d ever made!

How have your family, friends and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them?

In the beginning, everyone made so many comments about me looking like a lion, commenting on my “afro”, asking me if I was a “natural chick” now, all comments which were underlined with sarcasm and ridicule. Being as though I was just starting the journey, I was still very vulnerable, so it hurt my feelings. But I was determined to get to the other side and truly see what my hair could become.

How did you transition to wearing your natural texture?

I did not do a big chop. Instead, I slowly cut all of the damaged hair off over a period of 2 years (2015-2017″>. During those years, I did braid outs, rod sets, and wore weaves until my healthy hair grew to a length that I was comfortable with. But if I could do it all again, I would do a big chop because once the damage was gone, my grew unbelievably fast!
Texture Tales Tiffany Shares Her Hair Journey of Embracing her Beautiful 4a Curls

What is your current hair regimen?

I have weekly or twice weekly wash days. I’ve just learned that my hair is low porosity and protein sensitive, so I try to stay away from products with protein. I detangle & prepoo, shampoo, deep condition (DC”> with heat, then I style using a leave in and cream or gel. I usually wear my hair in a wash and go!

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a big impact on the way your hair looks?

Staying away from protein has made a HUGE difference in how soft and moisturized my hair is! I’ve also been using warm/hot water to open my hair shaft before deep conditioning (DC”> and them cold water to rinse the DC out and seal in the moisture. When I am refreshing, I use warm water to open the shaft and apply the products. I use a cotton t-shirt to dry my hair rather than a towel. Lastly, I have been shingling to reduce frizz, encourage definition and also help my hair to look more shiny.

Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase or need some encouragement in their hair journey?

To any women in the transitioning phase, please document your journey EVERY STEP OF THE WAY!! This is soo important! We stare at our hair all day every day, and are often unable to see the difference. But when you document, you can look back a month or 2, or even a year, and see just how much you’ve actually evolved! Being able to compare photos is what gave me hope to continue my journey in some of the hardest moments. Also, have PATIENCE with yourself. It will not be easy to get your hair back to health. But follow other women who have been there and stay encouraged by their success. If we can make it to the other side, then so can you! We are welcoming you with OPEN ARMS GIRL!!!!

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Texture Tales: Dominique Shares Her Secret to Natural Voluminous Beach Waves
Texture Tales Dominique Shares Her Secret to Natural Voluminous Beach Waves

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How would you best describe your hair?

Naturally Wavy

What is your hair type?

2c

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

I DIDN’T grow up with textured hair! I grew up envying my entire family’s curly hair while I had seemingly flat, straight hair. I hated it. I dreamed of BIG CURLS. As I grew older the wave in my hair would only become visible occasionally, while on beach holidays for example. It’s only until about 3 years ago that I decided to stop using toxic products in my hair and slowly, I discovered that my hair was changing. I searched on YouTube how to style wavy hair and discovered the Curly Girl Method. After learning from fabulous curly accounts and researching online, I decided to start posting MY hair transformation on Instagram. I felt so strongly that I needed to share the information that had helped me to discover the natural wavy texture that had been hidden all those years.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally wavy hair?

Once it became apparent that I DEFINITELY had very wavy hair I was so happy. I didn’t care about frizz, about looking “messy”. I loved what was growing out of my head in its totally natural, untampered state.

How have your family, friends and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them?

My mother hates wavy and curly hair ( she’s straightened hers all her life”> so I don’t hear any compliments from her anymore but it doesn’t bother me. My Dad on the other hand has been inspired to embrace his curls for the first time in his life and we have so much fun discussing his perfect ringlets, it’s crazy! My sister’s have also embraced their curls more and have taken my product recommendations and come to me for advice which is really sweet! Colleagues are a different story… I receive disapproving looks from a few people at my corporate office and it’s always from extremely “prim and proper” types so I guess my hair must look messy and unprofessional to them. It doesn’t stop me from rocking my wavy hair at work though!
Texture Tales Dominique Shares Her Secret to Natural Voluminous Beach Waves

How did you transition to wearing your natural texture?

The Curly Girl Method (modified since I use sulphate free shampoo”> is essentially what had the most impact. Learning about curly hair care was pivotal, education is key to a successful hair transformation.

What is your current hair regimen?

I cleanse every 3 or 4 days either with Bounce Curl Clarifying Shampoo or a cowash. My favorite conditioner is the one from Bounce Curl. I use a leave in conditioner and add plenty of water when styling. I apply either a gel or a custard for definition and hold using the “scrunch and pump” method. I always diffuse my hair and ALWAYS use mostly cool temperature with the occasional shot of medium temperature. It takes me about an hour to diffuse fully.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a big impact on the way your hair looks?

YES : rice water rinses. I learned how to do them from @themestizamuse and haven’t looked back. The benefits are scientifically proven and my personal experiences have been phenomenal, I’ve shared a few posts and videos about them too because I can’t think of a cheaper, more natural or more effective hair treatment!
Texture Tales Dominique Shares Her Secret to Natural Voluminous Beach Waves

Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase or need some encouragement in their hair journey?

DON’T YOU DARE GIVE UP ON YOURSELF. The time will pass anyway so you may as well focus on learning as much as you can. You won’t believe the positive impact that sticking to this one thing will bring you. It’s an investment in yourself that you’ll NEVER regret!
Texture Tales: Here’s How Jessie Cares for Her Gorgeous 3a Curls
Texture Tales Heres How Jessie Cares for Her Gorgeous 3a Curls

How would you best describe your hair?

Naturally Curly

What is your hair type?

3a

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

I always grew up slicking my hair in a ponytail or straightening it for hours. I remember pulling a chair into my mom’s room every night and she would straighten my hair for me because I wasn’t able to do it by myself. One of the biggest things I remember is a point when someone I cared for told me they liked my hair better straight than curly and I took it to heart. I straightened my hair from that point on.

Texture Tales Heres How Jessie Cares for Her Gorgeous 3a Curls

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?

I started dating my now husband almost 6 years ago and he always begged for me to wear it curly. I never did.

I don’t know what it has been about turning 25, but I feel like I am truly trying to find myself. And I’ve learned that I have found myself through my natural hair. It has been such a freeing experience. Instead of focusing all my energy on how others see me and how others define beauty, I am defining my beauty myself. And I love it. And my husband loves it too :”>

How have your family, friends and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them?

Wonderfully! It seems silly, this curly hair journey. But it really has been such an incredible journey. I have learned more about myself, my spirituality, and love for friends and family. I think everyone around me can see the change in me, not only on the outside, but on the inside as well.

How did you transition to wearing your natural texture?

I started the CG Method, but honestly the biggest game changer for me was getting off my hormonal birth control. It seems like a crazy idea but I noticed that I had lost A LOT of curl and couldn’t figure out what happened. I then realized that the time I started losing my curl, was when I started the pill. You hear about people losing curl during pregnancy, but never from birth control. I started doing research and I found others had the same problem. Once I got off the pill, I could almost instantly see a difference in my hair!

Texture Tales Heres How Jessie Cares for Her Gorgeous 3a Curls

What is your current hair regimen?

Currently I am loving Jessicurl Gentle Lather Shampoo and daily Conditioner. I then use As I Am Leave-in conditioner. I switch up my stylers, but the one I can always go back to and know I will have a good hair day is Curl Keeper Original!

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a big impact on the way your hair looks?

The biggest thing I’ve had to learn is to keep my hands out of my hair until it’s completely dry. I’m a tad controlling so I just want to fix every last piece sometimes and touch my hair way too much. Learning to let go and let it dry has impacted my frizz so much!

Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase or need some encouragement in their hair journey?

Stick with it. You will learn so much about not only your hair, but yourself. You will truly begin to see yourself naturally as beautiful, and I think that’s the best part of this journey. Don’t give up!

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Texture Tales: Kiana Shares her Journey of Learning to Love Her 3b Curls
Texture Tales Kiana Shares her Journey of Learning to Love Her 3b Curls

How would you best describe your hair?

Naturally Curly

What is your hair type?

3b

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

Everyone used to praise my ringlet curls as a child, so when my curls became thicker, kinkier, and less “Shirly Temple-esque” as I got older, I no longer thought they were beautiful. I spent most of my teenage years straightening out these kinks in an attempt to fit in with everyone around me. Even though many people continued to say they loved my natural hair whenever I wore it curly, I never felt confident wearing it.

I had interpreted much of the praise I got when I was younger to mean that proximity to whiteness meant beauty. I was beautiful because my curls were loose, my skin was the “perfect” tone, my eyes were light… those “compliments” made me internalize my identity in a harmful way. I felt that Euro-centric beauty was the ideal, and straight hair was my way of achieving that standard of beauty.

Texture Tales Kiana Shares her Journey of Learning to Love Her 3b Curls

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?

Media representation. And I don’t just mean Solange, Yara, Lupita, and Janelle Monae; I mean the natural hair community! Seeing bloggers, vloggers, Instagrammers, etc. wearing their hair in beautiful curls, coils, and waves made me appreciate my own hair a lot more. By my second year of college, I had stopped straightening my hair completely. I started to understand that loving your natural hair is a revolution; one that will help you love yourself more as well.

How have your family, friends and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them?

My mom always hated when I straightened my hair. As you get older you realize your mom was right about a lot of things!

Texture Tales Kiana Shares her Journey of Learning to Love Her 3b Curls

How did you transition to wearing your natural texture?

My hair had lost most of its curl pattern from straightening it so much, it was like a Zendaya wavy curly. I stopped straightening and bleaching my hair for two years and got regular trims every four months until the damage was no longer visible.

Read next: Brassy and Damaged? Here’s How Kiana Learned to Take Care of Her Bleached Hair

What is your current hair regimen?

Today, I wash my hair 2/3 times a week with a toning shampoo since I have bleached hair. I deep condition with Oiudad Curl Immersion Triple Threat Deep Conditioner twice a week, and use Olaplex treatment twice a week as a leave-in. My favorite curl cremes for styling are Morroccanoil curl creme, Skimdo curl creme, and Hairbalm by Hairstory. These never fail me. I style my hair while soaking wet and let it air dry.

Read next: See Kiana’s full routine here.

Texture Tales Kiana Shares her Journey of Learning to Love Her 3b Curls

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a big impact on the way your hair looks?

Styling my hair while soaking wet makes my curls SO much more defined. Also pineappling at night keeps my hair from getting too frizzy – although I like a bit of frizz for volume. My biggest change though, was not getting my hair wet every morning, detangling, and styling (yes I used to do this every day – don’t ask”>!

Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase or need some encouragement in their hair journey?

Everyone’s hair journey will be different. Focus on your own and don’t ever compare.

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Texture Tales: Anita Shares Her Tips for Rocking a Bomb TWA
Texture Tales Anita Shares Her Tips for Rocking a Bomb TWA

How would you best describe your hair?

Naturally Coily

What is your hair type?

4c

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

I absolutely hated wash and press every weekend. My hair is very thick with tight coils. It has since been trained to be more manageable, however, I have the TWA still seeking an easy cute, carefree style.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally coily hair?

I’ve had the desire to do it for years, but it wasn’t as popular and I never learned how to properly take care of my hair in it’s [sic] natural state. I go to the gym often and I love the sauna so getting my hair done was counter productive. When I was natural, my mom was doing my hair, so I’m clueless in managing the texture I was blessed with.

How have your family, friends and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them?

Everyone wants to touch it like it’s something on display or foreign. Only those that have experience with being natural seem to understand.

How did you transition to wearing your natural texture?

The big chop!!! Then I wore lots of two strand twists and twist outs. I actually went to a natural stylist because I was too impatient to see any of the methods I found on-line.
Texture Tales Anita Shares Her Tips for Rocking a Bomb TWA

What is your current hair regimen?

Wash at least twice a week using the LOC method daily. It’s still short so there’s not a lot for me to do with it.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a big impact on the way your hair looks?

Color has the biggest impact on my hair. It brings out my skin tone and highlights my eye color really well. I also be certain to take biotin or hair vitamins to maintain the health of my hair, skin and nails.

Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase or need some encouragement in their hair journey?

It’s not the easiest task depending on your length and texture but it’s well worth the journey to finding your true self. Happy, healthy, natural hair.

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