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Texture Tales: Jessica Fennix on Embracing Her Natural Hair as a Fashion Model
Texture Tales Jessica Fennix on Embracing Her Natural Hair as a Fashion Model

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

I grew up in the suburbs and always wanted my hair to be long and flowy. I started off with micro braids to achieve that, but it became a game in my class to pull on them. Then, I transitioned to perms so my hair could match everyone around me. I was never confident in my hair.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally coily hair?

I started to see more and more natural girls on social media. That initially sparked my curiousity about how my natural hair actually looked. Plus, I hated the process of perms.

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

Cutting my hair and seeing the growth. Also this may sound weird, but bonding with my hair. Spending those long nights twisting and finding out exactly what my hair likes in order for it to grow.
Texture Tales Jessica Fennix on Embracing Her Natural Hair as a Fashion Model

What has your experience been like wearing your natural hair in the fashion industry?

My experience with wearing my natural hair in the fashion industry has been empowering. Empowering because I’ve been able to touch a vulnerable side of the industry. At first it was very tough being the natural girl with tightly coiled 4C hair. Always in a state of uncertainty showing up to a job because 9 times out of 10 the hairstylist has never worked with my type hair before. I’d do my hair the night before and make sure to come on job with supplies so that I can either fix or do my own hair. There was one time I had to call my mother to a job to come do my hair. Also, having to go through telling them no about straightening my hair or having to walk out with your head held high when you get told that your hair is to coarse. I have noticed that the industry is slowly evolving! Despite that I use it to keep me empowered. I’m going to keep pushing and helping with the movement by applying pressure so that black natural models will have stylist on set who can do there hair and have proper hair products for EACH type of hair texture. So they know when they walk on set that they will not have a botch job done. No matter where they are in there career they will be fully taken care of as they should be.

Who is your curl crush?

Van, her hair is goals!

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

For sure, my hair pick!

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

I stick to twist outs. Using Camille Rose Naturals Almond Jai Twisting Butter and a hair oil. So water, oil, twist butter.

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?

I had a lot of failed hair style attempts, which is challenging because I wanted those hairstyles to come through!
Texture Tales Jessica Fennix on Embracing Her Natural Hair as a Fashion Model

Model – Jessica Fennix @jessicaashhleyy Represented by – Crawford Models NYC

What does natural hair represent to you?

Natural hair represents strength, and beauty. It represents power and resilience because of its historical presents. It’s a crown that I get to rock everyday, loud and proud at that.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

Yes! Keeping my routine simple and consistent with the same hair products.

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

TLC! It takes time, but embrace that it is what God blessed you with. Fall in love with the journey.

How do you protect your curls at night?

This has been the hardest part for me. As a 4C my hair molds into whatever it touches. So if I wrap it in the morning, it will be flat. If I sleep on it, it will also be flat. I don’t have time to twist it up every night. So, for now I just sleep with my honey and pick it out the next day!

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Texture Tales: MaryAnn on Embracing her 2b Wavy Hair
Texture Tales MaryAnn on Embracing her 2b Wavy Hair

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

I didn’t know I had textured hair! For me there were just two types of hair: curly, or straight. And mine felt like it lived in this awful grey area. I often referred to it as “type frizzy,” “crazy,” or “disobedient” and that formed the basis of my hair relationship for most of my life. I wanted to win the fight and make it either straight or curly and it had no intention of being either one. So I settled for blowdrying it straight, and from 4th grade through 33 years old I did just that! I woke up every morning, showered, and blow dried with a round brush.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally wavy hair?

My oldest daughter started asking to straighten her hair so it could be “beautiful like mommy’s” and that was it. A friend had mentioned the book Curly Girl in college, but I had no intention of giving up my simple suds and blowdry routine. I had even given the curly girl method a try once or twice, but found it complicated and too much work. But seeing myself through my daughter’s eyes was powerful. I knew that trying to explain to her that her waves were beautiful was going to ring hollow unless I embraced that truth for myself. So on my 34th birthday I decided enough was enough. I had to learn how to take care of my waves so that my girls would believe me when I told them that they were beautiful just the way they were made.

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

Discovering Alyson from @reallifecurlygirl and stumbling upon her YouTube channel. I saw hair that looked like mine, but was loved and valued and cared for and I finally felt like there was hope! She spoke about haircare with so much passion and eloquence and I will never be the same. From that moment on I started devouring everything she’d written, posted, or recorded. A few weeks later I created an Instagram page dedicated to documenting my hair journey and met thousands of other curly girls spread across the world that were doing the same thing, and the rest is history!
Texture Tales MaryAnn on Embracing her 2b Wavy Hair

Image:@goodgravyitswavy

How do you protect your curls at night?

I recently cut my hair pretty short so using a buff or pineapple was no longer working. I tried clipping bits of it up which made my scalp sore, then tried a satin bonnet and/or satin scarf, but neither one wanted to stay on my head and both were interfering with my sleep (I’m a sleep deprived mom of 3 littles so that wasn’t going to work!”>. So, now I just sleep on a silk pillowcase and refresh in the morning. It’s simple and fits my lifestyle.

Who is your curl crush?

ONE curl crush? I could never pick just one! Celeb curl crush would be either Minnie Driver or Emmy Rossum because they both still rock their awesome curls even after spending years in Hollywood! I’m also head over heals in love with Domi of @powerdomi and her long magical waves, Jackie of @mymanecurls and her impossibly perfect barrel curls, Mandie of @mandie.cg.journey and her glorious wavy lions mane and oh my gosh I think I just realized that I want to grow my hair out.

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

My segbeauty diffuser. My hair is transformed by proper and careful diffusing and the segbeauty has treated me so well. It perfectly fits my cheap and trusty conair infinity blowdryer, and it has a twisting function where you can adjust the airflow. I’d be utterly lost with it. Honorable mention goes to Curl Keeper Original which always treats me right, works in every season, and never weighs down my fragile waves.

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

I do occasionally cowash, but I’m an oily itchy scalp gal so I love a good sulfate-free shampoo like Giovanni Tea Tree Triple Treat or Trader Joe’s Spa Nourish Shampoo. Then, I follow with Giovanni Deeper Moisture Conditioner and do lots of squishing with palmfuls if water. My favorite styler combo is an alcohol free foam or mousse scrunched into soaking wet hair followed by a generous amount of curly girl friendly gel like Aussie Instant Freeze or Giovanni LA Naturals Syling Gel. Then, I diffuse upside down and side to side. A good scrunch of the crunchy cast when it’s 110% dry and I’m done!
Texture Tales MaryAnn on Embracing her 2b Wavy Hair

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?

My itchy oily scalp! I almost quit several times because I thought I HAD to cowash to be a good curly girl. Thankfully I went back to (sulfate free”> shampoo and added in an apply cider vinegar rinse a couple times a week and now I have a much happier scalp.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

Deep conditioning with heat was a total game changer. I kept using more heavier conditioners, but my hair just became greasy and weighed down. And then I discovered heated deep conditioning caps and the heat made all the difference! I no longer have to use a ton of conditioner and my hair is silkier, shinier, healthier, and no longer suffering under the weight of heavy oils and butters!

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

Figure out your why and then remind yourself often of the reason or reasons you chose to embrace your natural texture. Stop comparing; hair texture is entirely unique. You can celebrate someone’s texture without dying of jealousy and then hating your own. Find a supportive community, one that will inspire and encourage you. For me that was the Instagram curly girl community. And finally, document the HECK out of your hair and routine. You’ll be surprised at how easy it is to forget what you used that one day you had an awesome washday result, or forget what your hair looked like back when you were heat styling and punishing it. Transition is painful. Learning something new is hard, but like all things worth having, perseverance is how you get it!

What’s your hair story? Share your story with us here to be featured in our Texture Tales series.

Texture Tales: Jalisa Shares Her Journey to Embracing Her Coily Hair with Confidence
Texture Tales Jalisa Shares Her Journey to Embracing Her Coily Hair with Confidence

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

When I was growing up with textured hair all I can remember is my mom styling my hair in braids or beads. It was either that or my hair being in ponytails with bows at the ends. I never had any issues with my hair as a child. I do remember once a year my grandmother would straighten my hair with a hot comb and I used to be obsessed with how long my hair was. It wasn’t until I got ready to go to middle school that I started to have a problem with my textured hair, but that was only because I didn’t want to wear braids and ponytails any more. I wanted straight hair and that’s it.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally coily hair?

I decided to embrace my naturally coily hair because I was tired of getting relaxers. It was a gradual decision, but overtime I realized that I no longer wanted to change the natural texture of my hair. Youtube also played a part in my decision. I was watching My Natural Sistas on Youtube and fell in love with their curls and it made me even more curious to see what my curls looked like!

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

The most empowering moment of my natural hair journey so far has been my big chop. The reason for this is because before I decided to transition I had really long relaxed hair that I loved. So giving up my relaxed hair and deciding to transition and big chop was a big moment for me. I realized that my love for natural curls meant so much more to me.

How do you protect your curls at night?

I protect my hair at night with a satin bonnet and satin pillowcase.
Texture Tales Jalisa Shares Her Journey to Embracing Her Coily Hair with Confidence

Image:@imadamejay

Who is your curl crush?

I have so many curl crushes, but right now some of my favorites are @hazel_goddesss, @ayeciara , jaelenmitchell, and @dayelasoul.

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

A curly girl essential that I can’t live without is my hair pik. It is an essential item to have with what ever style you decide to do because it helps add volume to the style.

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

My current hair regimen consist of me interchangeably co-washing and shampooing my hair every week. When I cowash or shampoo my hair I always follow up with a deep conditioner and style my hair in a wash and go or twist out. Below are some of the products that are my favorite right now.
Texture Tales Jalisa Shares Her Journey to Embracing Her Coily Hair with Confidence

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?

The most challenging moment of my natural hair journey so far has got to be when I went to a stylist to have my hair straightened. I was so stuck on getting my hair extra straight because I couldn’t do it at home and ultimately I ended up getting heat damage. At this point I was about to enter year 3 of having natural hair and right then I had to start back over with growing my hair out. It taught me to really appreciate my kinks and coils.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

I deep condition my hair every week and do protein treatments once a month. I started doing this when I began transitioning to natural hair and I have not let that go. It really helps with making sure my hair never has a dry moment and helps with avoiding breakage. Especially now that I have dyed my hair, it is very important that I deep condition every week and do those protein treatments once a month.

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

My advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture is to just accept it. Although you may find someone that is your hair twin, remember that everyone’s hair has something unique about it. You should think of your hair as your crown and wear it proudly. Find products that work for your curls and practice techniques that define your curls the way you want them to be. The possibilities are endless.

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Texture Tales: Lulu on Finding a New Appreciation for Her 3a Curls
Texture Tales Lulu on Finding a New Appreciation for Her 3a Curls

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

Well, puberty hit me like a freight train! That’s when I started to get reddish curly hair mixed in with the stick-straight blonde hair I had as a kid. As an adolescent, curly hair wasn’t considered “cool” where I grew up, so I was very unsettled with my evolving hair texture and color. Unfortunately, I didn’t see my hair as something unique and special (where is the time machine when you need it?!”>. I just wanted to fit in, to look like everyone else. Not knowing what else to do, I tried to blow dry my hair straight, but it would come out frizzy, eliciting comments like “witch hair” and “pube head” from my classmates. The following 18 years were devoted to blow-frying and straightening my hair – perfecting the blowout.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?

I have always liked curly hair when I would see others with it. I knew my hair was curly too, but I thought mine was ugly. A few times a year, I would try to style it curly, but was always underwhelmed with my results and would go back to straightening immediately. On Instagram, I started to encounter curly hair accounts like @hif3licia, @indiabatson, and @mzbiancarenee who exposed me to the IG curly community and the Curly Girl Method. I would see “transition” posts showing how it takes months to transition hair that had been damaged from years of straightening. Of course! Why hadn’t it occurred to me that hair that had been straightened for years wouldn’t turn into moisturized healthy curls overnight?! I realized that if I wanted to see my full curly potential, I needed to give it time, adjust my expectations, and research the Curly Girl Method.

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

Being a control freak doesn’t pair well with curly hair that’s different every day. I was very motivated to research and experiment with different products/techniques in order to perfect curly hair as quickly as possible. However, along the journey, I started to gain a whole new appreciation for my hair and for myself. With this new found self love, I started to appreciate my curls in any form. I used to be so self conscious to go out in public with curly hair that might frizz up or get wind blown – we can be so critical of ourselves! When I started rocking my curls just the way they are (even naked curls”> – that was empowering! I still experiment often, but that’s because I enjoy it. And I share my varying results with others hoping to spread messages of self love and appreciation for curls in any form.
Texture Tales Lulu on Finding a New Appreciation for Her 3a Curls

Image:@curlicue_lu

How do you protect your curls at night?

After trying a variety of techniques, I settled on a satin scarf and silk pillowcase combo to protect my curls overnight. I prefer the satin scarf over a pineapple because it keeps my curls in tact and protected without stretching out the back and sides of my hair. With the scarf on my head, I sleep on a silk pillowcase so my scarf can slip easily across the pillow when I move throughout the night.

Who is your curl crush?

Oh that’s a hard one, I have many! Felicia (@hif3licia“>, India (@indiabatson“>, Bianca Renee (@mzbiancarenee“> and Sarah Angius (@sarahangius“> were my first curl crushes and the people who inspired me to start my journey. But there are amazing women with a wealth of knowledge who have kept me motivated along my journey – these are the people I count on for advice, inspiration and continued support: Verna (@themestizamuse“>, Dominique (@powerdomi“>, Megan (@wavycurlychronicles“>, Alyson (@reallifecurlygirl“>, Jannelle (@jannelleoshaughnessy“>, Merian (@mismmo“> and others, and I wouldn’t be where I am without them!

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

Without a doubt, conditioner. If I was stranded on a desert island, or if the zombies came and took all of my hair products, I’d save the conditioner!

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

Currently, I wash my hair about twice a week. One of those washes is with a clarifying shampoo (I recommend the Bounce Curl Clarifying Shampoo or DevaCurl Buildup Buster“>, followed by a deep conditioner for moisture and/or protein. For the washes in between, I use a low or no poo cleanser. The rest of my wash day routine is the same: I apply conditioner (Bounce Curl Cream Conditioner is my fave!”> for detangling and squish to condish, then leave-in conditioner and styling products on wet hair, using a pulse/scrunch technique. When using a curl cream, I may use that in addition to or instead of leave-in conditioner depending on how much moisture I need. Gel is always applied last. I usually diffuse my hair until dry, air-drying for a bit whenever possible, but I don’t like to walk around with wet hair. When my hair is completely dry, I will scrunch out any crunch and fluff my roots and curls using a pick.
Texture Tales Lulu on Finding a New Appreciation for Her 3a Curls

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?

The curly journey isn’t for the faint of heart! Hygral fatigue, protein overload, itchy scalp, undiagnosable frizz and the never-ending list of curly terminology; there are many points in the journey where it’s natural to feel overwhelmed and frustrated. I don’t think I can pick one moment (although hygral fatigue is NO JOKE”>, but I will say that every curly encounters challenging moments. KEEP GOING, don’t give up! And reach out to others for help. I may have quit long ago if not for the support and motivation I found in the IG curly community. You’re not alone, we’re all in this together.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

Squish to condish was a game-changer for me! Nothing gives me happy curl clumps (I sound like Bob Ross over here”> like this technique because the act of physically squishing handfuls of water and conditioner into my hair helps me to achieve major moisture! Also, micro-plopping with a microfiber towel, which is essentially scooping my curls up and pressing gently against my head, helps to remove water without disturbing the curls. This means cutting down on diffusing time without creating a lot of frizz.

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

Keep trying different techniques, do your research, and be patient. There’s not an overnight solution to reversing years of damage, and no one can tell you exactly what you need to do, so give yourself time to learn and to transition.
Everyone’s hair and journey are different, so stop comparing yourself to others.
Document your journey so you can remind yourself how far you’ve come.

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Texture Tales: Raynecia on Becoming on Her Own Curl Crush
Texture Tales Raynecia on Becoming on Her Own Curl Crush

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

Growing up with textured hair was an interesting experience for me. There were positive and negative experiences. Then, there was my opinion of my hair which changed over time.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally coily hair?

After begging my mom to get a relaxer which she rejected countless times. I decided to research ways to grow and take care of my natural hair. At the time there wasn’ much research, but I figured everything out by trial and error. The desire to get a relaxer slowly diminished.

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

The most empowering moment was when I cut about 20 inches of my hair off to start another hair journey. I wanted to let go of the attachment of having long hair for the majority of my life. It was so liberating and it shifted my mindset for the better. I wanted to let dead weight go and that’s what my hair felt like at the time.

How do you protect your curls at night?

I sleep on a satin pillow case the majority of the time or a bonnet , depends on the style I’m wearing at the time.
Texture Tales Raynecia on Becoming on Her Own Curl Crush

Image:@razoeempress

Who is your curl crush?

Since the big chop, I’ll say myself. I want to get back to my previous length and beyond just for the fun of it.

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

I would say a spray bottle with water. When I don’t have one, styling can be hectic.

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

I usually wash my hair once a week. Shampoo and condition or shampoo and Deep condition. Apply leave in conditioner or moisturizer and twist my hair. Twists are my go-to styles along with low manipulation styles. I’ll fluctuate between twists and out styles such as wash n go’s etc. I have a lot of favorites too many to mention because I’ve tried a lot of products, but these are my holy grails: SheaMoisture Manuka Honey and Yogurt Hydrate + Repair Shampoo, Natural Oasis Honey and Jajoba Styling Creme, Cantu Shea Butter Deep Treatment Repair Masque and SheaMoisture Coconut and Hibiscus Curl and Style Milk

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?

Retaining moisture and breakage because of how fragile and thin my strands are.
Texture Tales Raynecia on Becoming on Her Own Curl Crush

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

Regular trimming sessions has been very beneficial for my hair type. Also, working with my hair in sections.

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

You have to own it , love and appreciate your texture first before you expect anyone else to do the same. Once you do , nothing anyone else says matters. We are all unique and different. Embrace it!

What’s your hair story? Share your story with us here to be featured in our Texture Tales series.

Texture Tales: Renee Shares Her Journey to Embracing her 3b Curls
Texture Tales Renee Shares Her Journey to Embracing her 3b Curls

Image:@brunettewithbounce

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

I had pin straight hair until puberty hit so until then my hair was really a non-issue. Fortunately, or maybe unfortunately this was also in the late 80s when perms were in so I really had no idea my hair was actually naturally curly. When the perm phenomenon died out, I was left with unmanageable frizzy hair. I can remember times that I wore it curly, but not for very long and I always reverted back to straightening it.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally wavy hair?

I never really liked my straight hair. I felt it was lifeless and just didn’t suit me. In my 30s after two pregnancies I realized that my curls had gotten more curly and started to experiment a bit more with them. It wasn’t until my 40s that I really felt I knew who I was and wanted to embrace my true authentic self. I put away the flat iron and would alternate between blowing out my curls and wearing them natural. The more I wore my hair curly the more I felt like myself. With the help of this amazing naturally curly community I was able to learn how to take care of them and never looked back.

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

When I first relocated to South Carolina I met a friend for cocktails at a local rooftop bar. I wore my hair curly and didn’t have to worry about my blow out getting frizzy or my hair looking horrible by the end of the night. Anyone who lives in or who has traveled to the south knows what a big deal this is. The humidity is brutal, but I wasn’t concerned with it. I enjoyed myself and was fully engaged in the evening not worried about my hair at all. It was truly empowering.
Texture Tales Renee Shares Her Journey to Embracing her 3b Curls

How do you protect your curls at night?

As a migraine sufferer this has been a challenge for me. I discovered the Puff Cuff thanks to @honestliz on Instagram and it has been a game changer for me. I use it to pineapple and then wear a Grace Eleyae satin lined cap over it. On the nights I do have a migraine I still use my puff cuff, but forego my cap and I always sleep on my Bliss Silk pillowcase

Who is your curl crush?

I have so many, but these are just a few of my Instagram Curl Crushes
@curlysue291, @goodgravyitswavy, @powerdomi, @curlsbyshelly ,@themestizamuse, @mymanecurls, @curlicue_lu, @marisascurls and @curly.bailey. I love curls with different textures than my own. This community is so amazingly diverse and beautiful. I have so many more and could go on forever.

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

Just 1?! I would have to say my Ultimate Hair Towel by Hair Repear. I used microfiber towels for so long, but switching to this towel was such a game changer in regards to reducing frizz and promoting curl clumps. The Puff Cuff, the Xtava Black Orchid Diffuser, a Bliss Silk Pillowcase and The Spriggle would also be close seconds.

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

I apply all of my products to soaking wet hair in the shower. I apply a bit of each product while right side up and then flip my head over to apply the rest. I usually use praying hands method to apply my last styler and then only scrunch using my Hair Repear towel. Once out of the shower I will micro-plop and then diffuse after I have applied my make-up. I absolutely love Innersense Organic Beauty Products. Their I Create Lift Volumizing Foam is my holy grail. I also recently discovered Original Moxie products and I am loving their gels.
Texture Tales Renee Shares Her Journey to Embracing her 3b Curls

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?

Exactly 6 months into my journey I over-moisturized my curls and had Hygral Fatigue. My curls had come such a long way and this was a major set back for me. I had no idea how to reverse it. It was the really the only time on this journey that I wanted to give up. Luckily I found some helpful articles on naturallycurly.com and was able to get some advice from @themestizamuse on Instagram. Without her help, I honestly don’t know where my curls would be. She is my ultimate curl guru!!

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

Deep Conditioning with my Thermal Haircare Hot Head has had a huge impact on the health of my hair. As someone who workouts 4 times per week I have to wash often. This means diffusing often, which can dry out my hair. I always deep condition at least once per week, but when my hair is dry deep conditioning twice a week has kept it moisturized and healthy.

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

Embracing your true authentic self at any age is so empowering and liberating. Now at 45, I have more confidence than I ever had in my 20s and 30s and I think embracing my curls has so much to do with that. I think often times curlies on this journey give up before they reach their true curl potential and that is just a shame. Yes, it is a lot of work, but my curls are still changing and improving almost 2 years in and I would have never known their true potential if I had given up at the start.

What’s your hair story? Share your story with us here to be featured in our Texture Tales series.

Texture Tales: How Adriana Got Her Type 2c Wavy Hair to Look Like This
Texture Tales How Adriana Got Her Type 2c Wavy Hair to Look Like This

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

To tell you the truth I grew up not knowing that wearing my hair curly was an option. Unfortunately, my mom didn’t know how to take care of her own curls so my frizzy ringlets left her at a loss, often sending me to school a brushed out frizzy mess. I was born in Guatemala, but raised in California. A curly haired Latina surrounded by beautiful straight blonde haired girls. I stuck out at a time when all you really want is to fit in. So, I kept my hair short throughout high school because it was easier to straighten. Eventually going as short as a pixie cut when I got pregnant with my second child at 21…you know the cut, the one that flipped out at the bottom of your neck and looked like a little duck tale. Haha.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally wavy hair?

Last year, my kids went to four different schools and I didn’t have time to straighten it anymore. So, I got some mousse, scrunched it in and started air drying in my car while running errands. I would even add a few curls with my curling iron towards the front. Strangers started coming up to me and complimenting my hair. Someone would always ask, “Is that your natural hair?” I stumbled across the CG method in June of 2018 and decided to take out silicones and sulfates, but I couldn’t put down the curling wand. I convinced myself since I was only curling a few pieces and flat ironing less that my hair was healthy. I quickly realized that without the shiny silicones my hair was dry and brittle. Plus, since I’m a flight attendant the arid airplane air was killing my hair. So I committed to the curly girl method and haven’t looked back.

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

Honestly, it’s seeing women lifting other women up! Everyone has a story of how they got here. Some similar to mine, some very different, but everyone’s goal is the same. To love the curls that our mama gave us, and help others love theirs as well.
Texture Tales How Adriana Got Her Type 2c Wavy Hair to Look Like This

Image: @fitmama_flyaways

How do you protect your curls at night?

I usually just pineapple and sleep on a satin pillowcase.

Who is your curl crush?

I have so many and more than half of them has nothing to do with their hair! To name a few, Jackie @manecrush, Amber @curly.mama, Renee @brunettewithbounce and Marisa @marisascurls. They’re all genuine, kind positive role models who have great hair too!

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

My xtava diffuser, I refuse to even do my hair if I can’t diffuse with that!

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

I really love experimenting right now so I don’t have a set regimen. But, I love the AG Hair products right now. The Balance Shampoo and Boost Conditioner, Cloud Mousse and Recoil Curl Activator. I cant live without Soigne Flaxseed Gel though!!!

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?

Going to work curly. Not because I think curls are not professional, because they are, but because the air on the airplane is so dry and it really takes a toll on my curls -but, I’m committed to figuring it out! In the meantime, I take precautions, protect my curls and rock my curly updos.
Texture Tales How Adriana Got Her Type 2c Wavy Hair to Look Like This

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Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

Regular deep conditioning
Rice water rinses every two weeks
Clarify as needed
Styling upside down

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

I say this all the time, but it’s only because I truly believe it. Embrace your curls, the frizz the unpredictability of it all. Even on the “less than” whatever days. Just add lipstick!

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Texture Tales: Jaynelle Shares her Journey to Embracing Her Type 4 Hair
Texture Tales Jaynelle Shares her Journey to Embracing Her Type 4 Hair

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What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

Growing up with textured hair was very tough; tough to deal with and my hair was actually TOUGH. The natural hair community was not popular and as informative back then so I, nor my mother, knew what to do with my thick, oily hair. I dreaded having my hair done because it was painful most times. Often, my mother had to press my hair with a hot comb just to braid it. Yes, burned ear tips and burned scalp was a part of my weekly hair regimen. On top of that, my school mates would make fun of my hair too. Luckily my mom would give me the cutest braided styles from time to time. At the age of 12, I grew tired of my thick hair and the jokes that came with it. I begged my mother to perm my hair for months until she finally said yes.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally coily hair?

Honestly, I was in a rocky place in my life. I was in my second year of college and struggling internally. I lacked self-love and a positive outlook on my life. When the rise of the natural hair community came, I was lured in by the beautiful black women who decided to revert back to their true forms. Their curly or kinky hair was stunning, but they also radiated confidence in themselves and pride that I so badly wanted. I saw the demeanor of so many women change as they began their natural hair journey. I had this strong feeling that if I embraced the natural me, I’d be improving more than just my hair, but the way I viewed myself.

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

I started my natural hair journey for healthier hair and an improved sense of self. It took three big chops to finally be the naturalista I am today. My final and successful attempt to go natural felt like I was stripped of old insecurities and finally ready to step out of my comfort zone. But, my most memorable moment was when other women would come to me and tell me that I was the motivation for them to embrace their 4C hair. To know that I was an inspiration to other Black women to go onto their own personal natural hair journeys is incredibly humbling and is definitely a key moment in my story.
Texture Tales Jaynelle Shares her Journey to Embracing Her Type 4 Hair

How do you protect your curls at night?

My night-time hair routine is pretty simple. Most days, I part my hair into four sections then make jumbo twists or braids after a little leave-in conditioner, oil, and curling cream, of course. When I am trying to preserve twist or braid-outs I part big sections then add scrunchies to keep my hair stretched overnight. I strive to ALWAYS cover my bedtime look with a satin scarf or cap to protect my curls. However, time and exhaustion can get the best of me at times so I keep a satin-covered pillow on my bed just in case!

Who is your curl crush?

Oh my gosh! I have so many hair crushes, but I will have to say Tyra Mae, also known as @youhadmeatbacon. Her hair is so long, thick, and coily. My main goal is to achieve a huge afro! She and her 4 type hair gives me so much hope.

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

Besides water, I can’t live without a good leave-in conditioner! It’s the base for all my other products. I apply a leave-in almost daily. My hair craves moisture so its only right. My definition of a good leave-in conditioner is a thick and creamy conditioner that adds an abundant amount of moisture, aids in detangling my thick hair resulting in more manageable hair, and adds shine.

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

I like to wash my hair once or twice a week. Currently, I use Curls Cashmere & Caviar Hair Bath or As I Am’s Dry & Itchy Scalp Care Co-wash. Both cleanse my hair and scalp efficiently without that “stripped of nutrients” feeling afterwards and leave my hair feeling soft. I deep condition once a week or once every two weeks depending on my current hair needs. I’ve recently fell in love with NaturAll Club’s Fresh Avocado Deep Conditioner! A thick and hydrating leave-in conditioner is very important for my thirsty hair. One of my favorites is the Camille Rose Honey Hydrate. After my leave-in, I apply and massage an oil or serum into my scalp – Curls Cashmere & Caviar Hair Serum is amazing. Lastly, I’ll use a styling cream to get these curls popping! Right now, I’m really feeling The Mane Choice Pink Lemonade and Coconut Curl Boosting Sorbet!
Texture Tales Jaynelle Shares her Journey to Embracing Her Type 4 Hair

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?

The most challenging moment for my natural hair was when I was haunted by fairy knots or single strand knots for nearly the entire Summer of 2018! I assumed that this problem would be easily resolved with a trim, however that did not help much at all. I made sure I deep conditioned once a week and kept my hair ultra moisturized! Still, they were a pest. I later realized, I was doing too many wash-and-go’s. Leaving my afro to dry without any styling makes it fully shrink; the strands coil up and twist around themselves causing all those knots. I started doing more twist/braid-outs to keep my hair and ends stretched and protected. I also made sure to seal my ends with an oil or butter. After practicing this routine, I saw little to no fairy knots. I officially became two years natural on New Year’s Day, but I’m still learning more tricks and techniques as I continue my journey.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

I think everyone uses the LOC method by now. The LOC method is Leave-In Conditioner, Oil, and Cream or butter in that order. I use this method faithfully! Applying it on every wash day really changed the manageability of my hair for the better over time. My hair is soft and fluffy compared to it’s super rough texture in the beginning of my natural hair journey. Detangling and styling got a lot more easy. If my hair ever seems parched, I’d dampen my hair and apply the LOC method at this time, too.

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

Our natural hair comes in a variety of texture, length, and thickness but it’s beauty and versatility is unique to every individual. Do not discourage yourself comparing your hair to others. Research and practice the best natural hair care routine for YOU. With patience and practice, your natural hair journey will get easy and your confidence will grow over time. Your hair will look and feel amazing, too. For those with 4C-type hair, stop believing your hair is not manageable or incapable of growth! Many still believe our hair is less attractive than the other textures, but they are sadly mistaken. Embrace your kinky hair and the variety of styles you can do. Flourish!

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Texture Tales: Jackie Shares Her Curly Hair Journey & Styling Tips for Definition
Texture Tales Jackie Shares Her Curly Hair Journey & Styling Tips for Definition

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What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

I grew up with blonde wavy, mildly curly hair. I had long hair my entire childhood that was fairly easy to take care of even though there has always been a lot of it. When I hit puberty things changed. My hair went dark and coarse quite quickly. I no longer had hair I recognized or knew how to take care of. I got a men’s inspired haircut, which only made my hair curlier. For years I struggled with accepting my hair’s coarse nature. I have always had people compare my hair to horse hair or fishing line. It’s texture is very strong and I felt like people pitied me for it. Also growing up blonde, people associated me with light tresses, so when it went dark people were always telling me they liked me blonde better. This led to several teen years full of hair dye and straightening.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?

Somewhere in high school some classmates were seen scrunching their straight hair, trying to make it curly. I had spent years trying to not encourage my curls, so this was really perplexing to me. I decided I would see what I could do with my own curls if I encouraged them with scrunching. I unfortunately didn’t grow up with a lot of curly haired people around, so straight hair seemed like the norm. Even though I kept dyeing my hair for years, I started wearing my curls consistently from that day on. I didn’t know their full potential though for 20 plus more years!
Texture Tales Jackie Shares Her Curly Hair Journey & Styling Tips for Definition

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

I didn’t grow up with curly hair knowledge. My hair wasn’t as curly as some and not as straight as others, so I felt somewhere in between, often feeling like a wannabe. Finding the curly community of Instagram truly changed that. I found the curly girl method one year ago and could never have seen how such simple changes could not only change my hair, but my self acceptance. The community has given me a great sense of belonging and is a constant source of knowledge for me. Knowledge I definitely had been longing for.

How do you protect your curls at night?

I have fallen in love with wearing a buff at night. I find that stuffing my curls into at night really helps keep them intact. I often don’t even need a refresh!

Who is your curl crush?

I have always loved Kerri Russell. Her hair during Felicity was a total dream for me. Even though she no longer wears her hair curly, she will always be my main curl crush!

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

My Wet Brush. I seriously cannot imagine my life without it.

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

I have been pretty low maintenance lately, but I always low poo, condition with Giovanni Smooth as Silk and then style with a leave-in Kinky-Curly Knot Today and a hard hold gel Aussie Instant Freeze Gel is my holy grail. Winter hair has been trickier for me, but I’ve been doing really well with adding a mousse before my gel lately.
Texture Tales Jackie Shares Her Curly Hair Journey & Styling Tips for Definition

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?

I think its easy to fall into what everyone else is using and trying. In the beginning I was desperate to find the one thing that would be game changing. I tried so many things that I kind of lost my own intuition. Once I really started listening to my hair and learning what it likes and doesn’t like, I started to really find my way.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

I do a modified rake and shake with my WetBrush that has been the single most impactful revelation for my coarse hair. My hair really appreciates being smoothed down before styling.

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

My advice is to be kind to yourself. I love the self acceptance aspect of this journey, but that can come in many forms. Loving yourself as you are is multi-faceted and thankfully we are able to write that narrative as we see fit.

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Texture Tales: Loretta Shares Her Natural Hair Journey and CG Tips for Healthier Hair
Texture Tales Loretta Shares Her Natural Hair Journey and CG Tips for Healthier Hair

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

It was quite difficult growing up with curly/textured hair as there weren’t many products on the market that catered to my hair needs. My mum would generally apply my dad’s Ultra Sheen to my hair which was extremely greasy and left we with flat looking hair with no curl definition whatsoever. There were even times when no product was used at all and it was simply brushed. As I got older I would wash my hair daily using shampoos containing sulfates and other harmful chemicals that were constantly drying my hair out, although I didn’t realize it at the time”>.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?

It was in the summer of 2016 when I really started to embrace my natural hair. I was seeing more and more curly girls on social media which really made me take a long hard look at my own hair which made me realize that after all this time, my curls had the potential to shine. I just needed to take care of my hair and adopt the healthiest methods andproducts to bring out my curls at their fullest potential. So I began documenting on Instagram my journey which was about embracing natural hair. This was also the year I discovered there were now so many curly hair products on the market and they were right on my doorstep!

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

The most empowering moment of my natural hair journey has been having the priviledge of being a part of the most amazing natural hair community. Seeing and hearing about others on the same journey as me, all supporting each other and to be able to share their very own tips, advice personal stories has just made this journey all the better for me.
Texture Tales Loretta Shares Her Natural Hair Journey and CG Tips for Healthier Hair

How do you protect your curls at night?

At night I protect my curls by always putting my hair up in a Pineapple hairstyle. This keeps my curls defined and prevents additional frizz from occurring.

Who is your curl crush?

I am a firm believer in being your own curl crush! We’re all on our own journey and I never compare my hair to others. But having said that, there are those who’s curls I just absolutely adore! @themestizamuse @curly_tanisha @ebony_natural_curls are just some of the most inspiring women with the most amazing curls!

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

My curly girl essential that I cannot live without would be my wide tooth shower comb! This tool is the absolute best for when detangling my hair and makes the whole process effortless.

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

My current hair regimen would consist of the following:
Weekly deep conditioning
Using a micro fiber towel
Cold water is your best friend as it helps to seal the cuticle
Picking and fluffing for more volume

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?

The most challenging moment of my natural hair journey has been accepting the fact that not all natural hair products (no matter how good/healthy the ingredients are”> are going to work for my hair. Everyone’s hair is different. It can be difficult to accept this especially when so many speak so highly of a particular product, but over time I’ve learnt to take my time and develop my own opinion on products based on my own experience. What works for some doesn’t work for others and this should always be kept in mind.
Texture Tales Loretta Shares Her Natural Hair Journey and CG Tips for Healthier Hair

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

The techniques and methods I now use compared to before my hair journey began have really made a huge impact on the health and appearance of my hair overall. These include:
Applying styling products using the “praying hands” method as this really helps to create more definition in my curls as well as prevent breakage during the application process.
Incorporating natural food products into my hair care routine has worked wonders! Nutritious ingredients such as lemon, banana, honey, avocado, olive oil have all contributed to the health of my hair.
Styling my hair while soaking wet as opposed to damp has made a big difference in how my hair looks and feels as this way, my hair is able to absorb more product as it dries.

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

My advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture is to have patience and don’t ever give up! The challenges you encounter along the way are all part of the journey. Documenting your journey is also a great way to see how far you’ve come. There will be times when products don’t work for your hair. There will even be times when products do work for your hair in the beginning, but then several months down the line they may no longer work. This is to do with the changes your hair is going through and so it will sometimes react differently to products. This is why patience is key along with lots of trial and error, but you will get there if you persist. Good luck! x

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Texture Tales: Marisa Shares Her Secret to Perfect Ringlets Without the Frizz
Texture Tales Marisa Shares Her Secret to Perfect Ringlets Without the Frizz

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

My mum and Aunt both had very curly hair which I always loved. Mine had been curly as a small child and my mum used to finger coil it into ringlets, but as it grew the weight of it seemed to pull the curls out and I was left with lots of frizzy long waves. It was neither curly nor straight. Once I hit my teens I had it cut to below my shoulders with layers and started blowing it out with a round brush (desperately trying to re-create ‘The Rachel’”> hairstyles, but it was always frizzy. Straighteners helped for a while, but I didn’t ever suit straight hair although that became the most fashionable look, and as every curly girl knows, any hint of moisture in the air and the painstakingly straightened locks would turn to a mass of frizz.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly wavy hair?

One day when I was about 17 I randomly decided to see what would happen if I scrunched in some mousse and diffused my hair and I was shocked to find I had some curls and proper waves! I started adding some barrel curls with a curling iron to the top layers and I received so many compliments on my ‘curly’ hair that it became my preferred style. From then on I only straightened occasionally.

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

It wasn’t until I was in a bit of curl funk after having my second baby that I decided to do a bit of online research into curly hair. I literally had no idea there was so much information out there about curls and I discovered the Curly Girl Method and was very intrigued by the idea of co-washing. But there is so much conflicting information on the internet about The CG method and approved products etc that I inadvertently spent almost a year co-washing and styling with silicone-laden products. I had still seen some progress in my curls but once I joined the Facebook Group ‘Curly Girls! (Conditioner-Washing Group for Women”>’ I realized I had made a false start. Thanks to the goldmine of knowledge and information and all the stunning curl inspo in that group I started the method for real in December ‘16.

Texture Tales Marisa Shares Her Secret to Perfect Ringlets Without the Frizz

How do you protect your curls at night?

I swear by my Puff Cuff or Invisibobble to pineapple my curls right at my hairline, fondly referred to as a Unicorn Pineapple. Then I use a buff over for most nights. I also sleep on a silk pillowcase so if I don’t wear my buff or if any curls escape, they are still protected. I love the added bonus of the silk being good for my skin too!

Who is your curl crush? 

Oh, I have so many!! But one standout is Kelsey @lovelifecurls. She has the most gorgeous volume and shape to her hair #volumegoals. Also, I must mention Renee @brunettewithbounce for her beautiful ringlets, I’m a sucker for ringlets!!!

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without? 

It’s really hard to keep it to just one, but probably my invisibobble because it can be used to protect my curls just by popping them up in a pineapple either for working out or for overnight and then when I take it back down again my curls look exactly how they did when I put them up. 

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share? 

My routine varies but my current favorite co-wash is the pocket-friendly Garnier Ultimate Blends Almond Crush Conditioner. It’s an amazingly moisturizing, protein-free little gem of a conditioner! I try to deep condition twice a month and my 2 favorite masks are at either end of the price spectrum, Garnier Ultimate Blends Almond Crush Yoghurt Mask is inexpensive, but a great little protein free mask. My other favorite is the Mahogany Naturals Coconut Water Restorative Hair Mask which does have protein and is absolutely stunning in smell, texture, and results. It deeply moisturizes and strengthens without weighing down my fine curls. My favorite styling products at the moment are Aussie Instant Freeze Gel and CurlSmith Hold Me Softly Style Balm, both are absolutely brilliant products! I can use the Balm, which is a curl cream, without any hard hold gel or mousse over it, which is amazing to me! Finally, Olew Original which is my favorite oil blend to SOTC (scrunch out the crunch”>.

Texture Tales Marisa Shares Her Secret to Perfect Ringlets Without the Frizz

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What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?

I think being a CG beginner was extremely challenging. All the sciencey sounding ingredient names and the lists of good ones and bad ones are really overwhelming, to begin with, and it felt like I would never understand them or be able to know if a product was CG friendly without comparing every ingredient to a list. It takes time and effort, but learning to read ingredients is probably the most important thing you can do for your hair, and you’ll be amazed how quickly you learn what all the ingredient names mean.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

Squish to Condish really has made a huge difference, taking the time to really work that conditioner and water into my hair and achieve that seaweed feel. I do find though that Squish to Condish can actually give me frizz because of all of the scrunching. But I realized that if I run a very wide tooth comb through my hair after I finish STC and then gently shake my head, it smooths away all the frizz and awesome clumps appear as if by magic.

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

Loving yourself in your natural state, whether that be your natural curls, makeup-free face or something else is one of the most liberating experiences. The transition period while your hair recovers and gets used to being looked after, can be just awful. But it is 100% worth it. Try and have bucket loads of patience, be consistent with your products rather than chopping and changing every week and try out some curly updo’s to get you through the transition period. Then be prepared for glorious waves and curls.

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Texture Tales: Lynda Shares Her Natural Hair Journey and Top Tips for Caring for Kinky Hair
Texture Tales Lynda Shares Her Natural Hair Journey and Top Tips for Caring for Kinky Hair

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

Growing up with textured hair was so exhausting and discouraging. I had to get a perm routinely every 3 months or so and never really got a chance to wear my natural hair free of any chemicals since like….middle school (I believe”>. Exhausting because of the routine perm, having to heal scabs after the perm, keeping my hair as “healthy” looking as possible, and endlessly searching for a way to prevent the everlasting breakage I experienced for years. Discouraging because my hair never grew past a certain length no matter what I did. I started to believe that “black hair” just didn’t grow.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally coily hair?

Watching natural hair YouTubers is what helped me to embrace my natural hair. Back in 2010, there weren’t many to look up to but the few who were out there helped me to keep fighting. I haven’t desired a perm since and now that I am a natural hair influencer myself my supporters help me to embrace it even more.

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

I think sharing my hair journey with my social media and YouTube channel is very empowering. I can’t say that I have had one moment, in particular, that was the most empowering, but I can definitely say that when another woman who looks like me expresses how much she appreciates what I am doing as an influencer I am so very encouraged.

Texture Tales Lynda Shares Her Natural Hair Journey and Top Tips for Caring for Kinky Hair

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share? 

I don’t really have a regimen per se. As a creative, I am always doing different things to my hair, but I think my night routine is the one consistent regimen that I have. It’s not only my night routine but something that I do when my hair is dry or when I feel that I can use some moisture.

How do you protect your curls at night? 

To protect my curls at night I add water, a leave-in conditioner, moisturizer, and oil into my spray bottle, spray my hair (not too wet, but not too dry either”> and go to bed with a bonnet or silk head wrap.

Who is your curl crush? 

OnlyOneJess_

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without? 

Haitian Castor Oil and Elasta QP Mango Butter Leave-In and Moisturizer.

Texture Tales Lynda Shares Her Natural Hair Journey and Top Tips for Caring for Kinky Hair

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far? 

SHRINKAGE has got to be the most challenging AND annoying aspect of being natural, at least for me. My type 4 curls will shrivel up at the slightest hint of humidity and living in a humid state such as Florida makes the journey even more exhausting. I have refrained from straightening my hair for over 4 years because it would be an absolute waste. The minute I step outside my straight hair would revert right back to kinks and curls.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

Deep conditioning and consistent moisturizing have impacted the health of my hair so much! When hair is dry and brittle it is prone to breakable, split ends and discourages growth. When I began to understand that I took deep conditioning and moisturizing more seriously and have honestly seen the fruit of my labor.

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture? 

Although we, black and natural haired women, do not fit society’s standard of beauty, please be assured that their failure to realize the diverse beauty of hair does not and should not affect the way that you view your hair. Love yourself and if anyone cannot accept and embrace you at your most natural state then maybe they don’t deserve you, sis. Their loss.

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Texture Tales: Olivia Shares Her Routine for Effortless Voluminous Waves
Texture Tales Olivia Shares Her Routine for Effortless Voluminous Waves

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What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

Looking back, I never realized I had curly hair. I’d wash, blow dry and heat-style curls into my hair or try with all my might to blow dry it straight as it was just so unruly and unpredictable. When the ceramic “ghd” straighteners came out, my prayers were answered. Finally, I could fix the frizz. I straightened my hair religiously for 20 years!

More recently, on lazy days I would leave my hair wet add some type of texture spray and let it air dry. This would leave me with some stringy, loose waves but even then I would get compliments on how nice it looked. I would always shrug it off and think nothing of it. On one occasion, after I spent hours styling it, a work colleague asked me why I went to so much effort when I had naturally curly hair anyway. I responded saying this looks better!

What made you decide to embrace your naturally wavy hair?

It started as an experiment after a mishap. I left a ton of conditioner in my hair to protect it from the chlorine-filled swimming pool but didn’t end up not going swimming and it ended up air drying and when it did and my waves looked amazing. I was really confused as to what had happened and how it could look so good with so much product in it and after some internet research came across the Curly Girl Method and since then, I have been hooked on getting the best I can from my natural hair rather than trying to force it to do something else.

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far? 

Embracing my natural texture has given me the healthiest, most gorgeous curls I’ve ever had. I spent so much time and effort trying to create “fake” curls that didn’t even look half as good as my natural ones and I never got half the compliments that I get now. I also love learning from other curly girls on social media. The curly community is such a supportive group who are all wanting to help everyone get their best hair! There’s no egos or nastiness — just love, support, and knowledge. I love how the curly movement is changing society’s mind that curly hair is untidy and should be hidden away. I inherited my curls from my nan who has hidden her natural curls for most of her life and I’d love for her to know that she is a natural beauty and doesn’t need to hide those beautiful, white curls anymore!

Texture Tales Olivia Shares Her Routine for Effortless Voluminous Waves

How do you protect your curls at night? 

I have a satin scarf tied around my pillow and I also wear my hair up in a pineapple secured with an invisibobble. On days when I need a little extra protection, I will also slip on a Guff but I’m a bit too vain to do it every night! It doesn’t always stay on either so sometimes it’s more hassle than it’s worth. I do have a silk pillowcase and sleep cap on my wish list though!

Who is your curl crush?

All from Instagram top 10 in no particular order

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without? 

My Denman brush! When I first started CG my hair always looked tangled and frizzy no matter how much smoothing and detangling I did with my hands. When I discovered the Denman brush to distribute the product, encourage clumping, and smooth out the curls, I was skeptical first go, but loved my results and have been using it and raving about it ever since.

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share? 

Currently, I’m enjoying testing out products and techniques, but if I need a good curl day I’ll do the following budget routine:

Cowash – Goat Lemon Myrtle Conditioner
Condition – Garnier Hair Food Banana extract – STC (srunch out the crunch”> then rinse out.
I’ll squeeze out some water with just my hands and loosely plop to leave the bathroom.
Remove microfiber towel ASAP
Apply styling products in sections
Leave in – Macadamia hair food
Curl activator – AG Recoil
Gel – Organic care Hard Gel

When products are applied to each section I use my Denman brush. I start at the ends and smooth through the section then add a twist of the brush to encourage even more curl. I do this all over and when finished I then do lots of scrunching. I start with my hands then use the microfiber towel to remove moisture Before finishing with diffusing and root clipping. When 100% dry I SOTC with Argan oil and fluff the roots. 

Texture Tales Olivia Shares Her Routine for Effortless Voluminous Waves

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?

I’ve been really lucky and not really faced any challenges so far. I have a wonderfully supportive hairdresser who has been keen to learn about CG method and try it on her own wavy hair. I was worried about bleaching my hair for the first time since transitioning but with plenty of DC, support from social media groups and a hairdresser who listened to everything and it went really well. 

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health? 

The Curly Girl Method, in general, has been a revelation and learning about the protein needs and tolerance of my hair. Using a Denman brush and not using silicone that coats and weighs down the hair has really helped the natural texture thrive.

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

Be patient, CG isn’t a quick fix. Don’t compare yourself to others – we are our own worst critics – whether you’re 2a, 4c or everything in between you and your hair is beautiful. Keep a journal to document your hair journey, take pictures and make notes about what you used and your results at least every washday. So you can see patterns and learn what is or isn’t working for your hair. Talk to other curlies – we are all individuals but there is so much information and knowledge out there, and everyone is so willing to help. There’s no such thing as a stupid question!

What’s your hair story? Share your story with us here to be featured in our Texture Tales series.

Texture Tales: Arnell Shares the Holy Grails that Keep Her Kinky Coily Hair Moisturized
Texture Tales Arnell Shares the Holy Grails that Keep Her Kinky Coily Hair Moisturized

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

Growing up with textured hair in a predominately white area was hard. I wanted my hair to look just like my friend’s effortlessly silky straight hair but I never realized how much damage my curls were enduring in the process. I got my first relaxer when I was in 6th grade. Up until college, my hair was chemically straightened. Once I started school, I began to realize the versatility of my natural hair.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally coily hair?

I started my freshman year of college with weaves. I would straighten my leave out daily in between working out, going out, and forget to wrap my hair at night. I realized my hair was suffering. Leaving my hometown and growing into the person I’ve always wanted to be inspired me to embrace who I am wholeheartedly.

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

The most empowering moment in my natural hair journey so far has been witnessing how I inspire my nieces and other close friends to embrace their natural hair.

Texture Tales Arnell Shares the Holy Grails that Keep Her Kinky Coily Hair Moisturized

How do you protect your curls at night?

If I have time, I usually double-strand twist my hair using my favorite curl cream and oil and sit under my dryer to make sure my curls are dry for the next day. If I’m in a rush, I’ll just pineapple my curls with my scarf and use a bonnet top protect my ends.

Who is your curl crush? 

My curl crush would have to be Yara Shahidi or Tracee Ellis Ross.

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without? 

Curls creams! I love a good cream that works as both a moisturizer and gel.

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share? 

My current curl regimen includes pre-pooing with the DevaCurl Wash Day Wonder Pre-Cleanse Slip Detangler, washing with the Ajaá Naturals Lavender & Honey Coconut Moisturizing Shampoo, conditioning with The Mane Choice’s 3 in 1 Revitalize & Refresh Conditioner, using the Curly Chic’s Your Curls Conditioned Leave-in, Grape-seed oil, and then the Creme of Nature’s Hydrating Curling Creme.

Texture Tales Arnell Shares the Holy Grails that Keep Her Kinky Coily Hair Moisturized

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?

Finding the best products for my dry scalp. I’ve tried so many different oils and butters, but Grapeseed oil is the only product that works!

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health? 

DEEP CONDITIONING!!! This is what gets my hair through the dry and cold winters in New York. I’ve also purchased a small overhead dryer that helps with deep conditioning and hot oil treatments.

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture? 

Be patient and take the time to learn about your hair. Don’t compare your hair type to what you see online and on TV. Your hair is unique so embrace it!

What’s your hair story? Share your story with us here to be featured in our Texture Tales series.

Texture Tales: Jackie Shares Her Curly Hair Journey and How Her Kids Inspired Her to Embrace Her Curls
Texture Tales Jackie Shares Her Curly Hair Journey and How Her Kids Inspired Her to Embrace Her Curls

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

I didn’t know how to describe my hair growing up. I had frizzy, puffy, wavy hair that had a mind of its own. I envied every Herbal Essence commercial. I had my mom buy me their products wishing they would make my hair straight so that I could look “beautiful” as the women on the telenovelas. I kept my hair in ponytails and used a tub of dollar store gel to tame it. I was 12 when my mom had my hair straightened professionally for the first time. They used rollers, a blower, then an actual iron on my hair. An IRON! This direct heat left my hair laying lifeless, but I was hooked! I continued using heat because it was what I always wanted. I feared to get my hair wet because I didn’t want my hair to frizz up. I felt insecure whenever the humidity kicked up in Florida.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?

My decision to embrace my natural curls was inspired by my kids. My two oldest girls would often see me straighten my hair, while at the same time, I was telling them their curls and coils were gorgeous. The blank stares they gave me in response told me they didn’t believe me. How could they? Here I was showing them I didn’t even like what grew out of my own head. I was scrolling through Instagram one day for inspiration on how to care for their curls and make them love their hair when I came across @hif3licia hair page full of tips and tricks on how she transformed her own heat-damaged hair into beautiful natural curls using the Curly Girl Method! It opened my mind to the idea that I could do this! I could inspire my kids to love their own curls by learning how to love my own!

Texture Tales Jackie Shares Her Curly Hair Journey and How Her Kids Inspired Her to Embrace Her Curls

Image:@justlikejackies

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

I began the Curly Girl Method and studied everything I could find on the internet about how to restore my natural curls. It was a bit frustrating at first because my curls were non-existent. Heat-damaged, frizzy limp noodles is what I had and I had to accept that this would be a process and I could not rush it. After going to work for a few months with a halo frizz, half a head of somewhat wavy and straight pieces, I decided to get a Devacut. Afterward, I could not believe my ends were coiling, all my hair was curling; the hard work had paid off! I realized I didn’t need to yearn to have something that wasn’t naturally meant to be mine; I could be beautiful while fully accepting what God gave me!

How do you protect your curls at night?

I protect my curls at night by wrapping my hair in a satin scarf and sleeping on a satin pillowcase.

Who is your curl crush? 

It’s no secret that @Hif3licia, my curl crush, became one of my close friends and I am grateful that she decided to start her page and inspire others. It has helped my girls and I immensely!

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without? 

My diffuser! It’s how I achieve so much volume!

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

My current hair regimen is to use a gentle Curly Girl-friendly cleanser, deep condition, then style with a curling cream and strong-hold gel. Some of my favorite products I keep in the rotation are DevaCurl Supercream, DevaCurl Heaven in Hair Moisture Treatment, Bounce Curl Gel, CURLS Blueberry Bliss Hairwash, and Innersense Organic I Create Hold Gel.

Texture Tales Jackie Shares Her Curly Hair Journey and How Her Kids Inspired Her to Embrace Her Curls

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far? 

My most challenging moments have been the hair growth process. I want longer hair, but the longer it gets, the more time it takes to do my hair. As a busy working mom of three, I am not afforded as much time as I’d like so I try to keep my routine quick and simple.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

Yes, deep conditioning one to two times a week made a BIG difference. I didn’t realize in the beginning that my hair was dehydrated. I never deep conditioned before or knew why it was needed. Dehydrated hair was the cause of my frizz I hated so much. Now I cannot skip this process because it has made a significant change in my hair health. 

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture? 

I would encourage them to push past their insecurities and give themselves a fair chance to know what it feels like to love your whole self from the inside out. It’s not just about hair — once you embrace that small piece of you, you will see how confident you can become because you realize you have broken out of society’s standards of beauty.

What’s your hair story? Share your story with us here to be featured in our Texture Tales series.

Loc Talk with Kris: 5 Things You Can’t Do Without
Loc Talk with Kris 5 Things You Cant Do Without

We were lucky enough to meet Kris Brooks coming out of private social club Soho House in New York. Brooks, a longtime NaturallyCurly community member, is a New York-based, world-touring professional musician, and has worked with performers such as Stevie Wonder, John Legend, and Mary J. Blige. She checked in from Australia, where she just finished up her second world tour with Sam Smith.

We checked in with her at the 13-month point to get an update on her loc journey. She shared the products and tools she can’t do without.

1. Essential oils

For the scalp and ends of hair. It’s always best to explore, to find the best one for your hair type/texture, but I find having a product with a handful of oils is easiest because you’re getting the great nutrients from a few different oils! My favorites are Alikay Naturals Essential 17 Hair Growth Oil and Tropic Isle Jamaican Black Castor Hair Growth Oil.

2. A gentle shampoo

My favorite shampoo — which doesn’t contain sulfates, parabens, or mineral oil – is Hair Rules Aloe Grapefruit Shampoo.

3. A good refreshing mist

When you’re on the go, it keeps your locs refreshed between washes, such as Jamaican Black Castor Oil Daily Hair Growth Leave-In Conditioning Mist. This product does have shea butter in it, which I’ve tried to stay away from (after this happened“>… But I find that this product is made so well, that the shea stays in liquid form, and actually melts in my hair, rather than building up.

4. A satin scarf

Not only does this help maintain my hair ‘do, but it also protects the actual fibers of my hair — especially those edges, ladies. The hair that frames your face is the most delicate. Unless you’re sleeping on satin and silk pillowcases every night, that cotton is gonna keep adding pressure to that delicate hair as you roll about in bed, and your hair will get weaker and weaker, and could eventually break off. We don’t want that. Protect ya edges! Here are some of my favs here, here, and here. And this leads into my last suggestion:

5. Lint-free towel

Lint can be a major and equally annoying problem in the loc community. It’s impossible to not get lint in yours locs — from the clothes we wear, to the drying cloths, and towels we use. However, you can prevent a lot of non-hair fibers from wrapping around your locs by using a towel fabric that has the least amount of shedding possible. Microfiber towels are AMAZING, yet not that great when it comes to the environment, in the way that they’re produced. If you want a more sustainable option, try bamboo towels, which are mold and mildew free, antibacterial, absorbent, and sustainable!

Do you have locs? What are some things that you’ve found you can’t go without? Share with us in the comments below! Embedded content: https://youtu.be/W418tH8STJA
Texture Tales: Amber Shares Her Curly Girl Essentials and Tips for Definition
Texture Tales Amber Shares Her Curly Girl Essentials and Tips for Definition

Image:@curly.mamma

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

There were A LOT of tears! Tear shed started when I started getting bullied over my hair in elementary school. Then there were tears from getting a brush ripped through my curls, to the burn marks from trying to straighten out the curls. It was all incredibly frustrating. And in the end, I honed in my skills with a flat iron and very few people ended up knowing I had curly hair.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally wavy hair? 

I recently had a baby and two things happened. One, I noticed I was getting bald spots along my hairline from wearing my hair up EVERY SINGLE DAY. Two, my daughter was about to turn a year old and I saw one single curl pop up on the back of her head and knew I just couldn’t watch her go through the same frustration that I had experienced my whole life. So I set out to find an answer of how to embrace and properly take care of my natural curls.

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far? 

100% helping other curlies!! When I discovered the Curly Girl Method I was in SHOCK that this knowledge had been around my entire life and I was just now learning about it!!! So I decided to start an Instagram account as my own little way of “shouting from the rooftops” that there is a way to embrace and love your curls!! Getting to help others see the beauty in themselves in their natural state is by far the most empowering and important thing I’ve ever done.

Texture Tales Amber Shares Her Curly Girl Essentials and Tips for Definition

How do you protect your curls at night?

Most of the time I’m lazy and just pineapple it and sleep on my silk pillowcase. But if I’m really wanting my wash day to last I apply a bit of conditioner to my ends and tie it up in a silk scarf.

Who is your curl crush?

My first thought is to say Ayesha Malik, but the further I get in my journey the more I become my own curl crush! It may sound vain, but it has taken me my whole life to learn to love and embrace my curls and I’m not afraid to be prideful of them. 

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

My Denman brush!!!! My hair never wants to clump and can really struggle with definition, but the Denman always comes to the rescue, giving me big juicy curls!

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share? 

Currently, I have been on an experimental kick! I’ve been switching it up and trying out a bunch of new brands and techniques, but my tried and true go-to routine is very simple! I wash with Not Your Monther’s Pink Shampoo, condition with GVP Conditioning Balm (this is my holy grail, I’ll never quit it”>, squish to condish and rinse, add a bit more gvp conditioning balm as a leave-in, brush through with the Denman brush, plop for 5 min, apply Moptop Curly Custard, a tiny bit of Aussie instant freeze gel, diffuse, scrunch out the crunch, and fluff!

Texture Tales Amber Shares Her Curly Girl Essentials and Tips for Definition

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far? 

100% figuring out my protein moisture balance, and that my hair hates coconut oil. I had about a month where I was in protein overload. My hair was so dry it felt like straw. It was brittle and breaking. Oh and the tangles!!! The tangles were the worst! I would spend about 45 minutes trying to detangle my hair in the shower. Most wash days would end in tears because I was so frustrated. I was on the verge of giving up, but then just at the right time, I read all about protein vs moisture and it completely changed the game for me! I figured out how to regain the balance and my hair sprang back to life! It was soft, defined, and most importantly…. not a tangled mess!

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

Squish to condish!! I didn’t realize that it could be so hard to get moisture into my hair. When I learned this method, struggling with moisture became a thing of the past.

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture? 

Give yourself grace. Learn to love yourself for who you are, and not who you think the world wants you to be. You are uniquely and beautifully made, and the world needs you just the way you are!

What’s your hair story? Share your story with us here to be featured in our Texture Tales series.

Texture Tales: Bethany on Her Liberating Big Chop Experience + Secret to Poppin’ Curls
Texture Tales Bethany on Her Liberating Big Chop Experience  Secret to Poppin Curls

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

It was always hard for me to style my hair. I struggled with maintaining a healthy luster and shine because it was very dry. I didn’t have much variety; it was always in a bun or ponytail. I often flat-ironed and pressed my hair, which caused major heat damage. This made me even more insecure about wearing my natural curls.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?

I was introduced to the natural hair journey through social media and I was inspired to start learning more about curly hair. I made it my mission to learn how to rock my curls because I knew their potential and I wanted to be more proud of my roots. I was tired of the damage and breakage from heat and coloring.

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

The most empowering moment for me was when I did the big chop. I had wanted to do it for so long. I was finally courageous enough and I knew it would be more beneficial in the long run. The results were great; short hair was so fun and something ne. My curls were more defined. It was very liberating and rewarding.

Texture Tales Bethany on Her Liberating Big Chop Experience  Secret to Poppin Curls

How do you protect your curls at night? 

I put lots of castor oil all throughout my hair and I recently have begun braiding it as well and sleeping on a satin pillow or with a bonnet.

Who is your curl crush?

My curl crushes are @naturallyendia and @jewjewbee I absolute adore their hair pages.

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

I cannot live without my Cantu Leave-In Conditioning Repair Cream and my Eco Styler Professional Styling Gel with Argan Oil.

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share? 

I do a lot of wash and go’s on my hair, so my hair regimen begins with me applying water, then Cantu Argan Oil Leave-in, then castor oil or argan oil all over each strand from root to end, then I add Cantu’s Curling Creme for max definition and then I top it all off with Eco Styler Gel to my edges and at the top of my hair, starting from my roots, in order to secure loose strands and eliminate frizz.

Texture Tales Bethany on Her Liberating Big Chop Experience  Secret to Poppin Curls

Image:@itsbethanydani

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far? 

The most challenging moments for me were discovering I needed a regimen and learning how to prevent breakage.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

Moisturizing! I cannot stress it enough. I think I had gotten used to my hair being dry so I didn’t try to do much to it. Then it started breaking off and I realized it was necessary for me to oil and deep condition it as much as possible. I oil my hair every night and I deep condition once a week.

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture? 

I recommend to be patient, and to try to find a curly hair inspo on social media that will give you faith and also show you how to maintain your hair. The big chop is scary, but for so many, it has been worth it. Sometimes you just need the chance to start over. I would also recommend finding what works for your hair and not being afraid to try new things. Just because it works for them doesn’t mean it will work for you. Don’t lose faith just because it can get difficult, but understand it is possible for your hair to live up to its very potential.

What’s your hair story? Share your story with us here to be featured in our Texture Tales series.