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Alyssa’s Wash Day Routine for her Type 4 Low Porosity Curls

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Alyssas Wash Day Routine for her Type 4 Low Porosity Curls

My name is Alyssa and I’m a video editor here at NaturallyCurly. I have 4B curls with low porosity. I did the big chop in 2015 and it’s been a wild ride figuring out what my hair likes or wants. After all these years, it’s been a journey in itself figuring out what routine, products, and tools to use to get there. Even before the big chop, I only washed my chemically relaxed hair once a week. It works even better for me now. If anything, now I’ll try to go two weeks without washing. It all depends on if my curls are still when I refresh and my scalp issues aren’t flaring up. In order to do that, I have to tackle build up, detangling, and retaining moisture. I test out a lot of products for my hair’s happiness but these were the best ones I used this past year!

Washing Routine

Step 1: Clarify with Elucence Volume Clarifying Shampoo
An important first step, I use this shampoo to get rid of the build up on my scalp. I don’t think my hair had truly known “clean” until my first scalp massage with this. The shampoo is designed to make a little amount of product go along way which is really nice. My scalp feels truly refreshed whenever I us this. It gets every bit of dirt out of my hair and all without drying it out.

Step 2: Condition with The Doux’s Fresh Rinse Moisturizing Conditioner
My new trusty conditioner! Not only is it organic and free of any harsh parabens but it leaves my hair feeling silky smooth every time!

Step 3: Deep Condition with SASHAPURE Restorative Conditioning Masque
All week, as I wait for wash day, I’m really dreaming about the moment I get to use this amazing concoction to bring back all of the curls I lost to frizz and manipulation. The second I slather this stuff on, my curls pop back into place so fast and tight that I think this stuff might be magic. The way it saturates my low porosity hair gives it the best slip I’ve ever encountered. It also feels like its nourishing my hair in the long term. I can actually see and feel this mask repairing my hair with every use.

Step 4: Leave In Condition with Dark & Lovely’s Au Naturale Anti Shrinkage Slick Slip Leave In
Now because I’m both lazy and want maximum hydration, I slather this in my hair while I’m still in the shower and let the steam do its thing. The steam helps the product penetrate my strands easier while also locking in hydration. From here, I toss my hair up in an AQUIIS hair towel until all the water is squeezed out and I let my curls air dry. I use this as my daily leave in when styling as well. I love that it helps elongate my curls and fight off tangles!

Styling Routine

Step 5: Refresh with Curly Hair Solutions H20 Water Bottle
Between washes, I keep my curls going by refreshing them daily. That entails lightly spritzing my hair to make it easier for it to absorb product. When I first big chopped, I would dunk my head in the shower every morning. It was a massive mistake to soak it like that and I’m very glad I know better know. Finding the perfect spray bottle is a surprisingly hard task. My personal favorite and the hardest to find is the mister. Misting spray bottles cover more ground than any other type and with the perfect amount of water. This water bottle is probably the Queen of all misting spray bottles. It is the most advanced spray bottle I’ve ever come across and it is a hydration beast.

Step 6: Oil with Jamaican Mango & Lime Black Castor Lavender Oil
I use the LOC Method so, after I use the Dark & Lovely’s Au Naturale Anti Shrinkage Slick Slip Leave In, I use a quarter sized amount of this castor oil. It is pretty heavy so a little goes a long way. I focus on mid shaft to the ends of my hair with this oil since that’s where I need the most TLC. Most times when I try out a lighter oil, it basically evaporates off of my head. The thickness of this oil has a longer moisturizing effect that I thoroughly appreciate. Not to mention it comes in a variety of scents with different beneficial properties!

Step 7: Condition with Eden Body Works Coconut Shea Curl Defining Creme
After my leave in and oil, I use this curl defining creme to lock in moisture and make my afro more malleable. Its humidity-resistant which means nothing can rain on this parade! It also refines and separates curls pretty well. I love the definition it gives me and the price point isn’t too bad either.

Alyssas Wash Day Routine for her Type 4 Low Porosity Curls

Step 8: Texturize with the Denman Brush
If you’re having a particularly fluffy hair day with no curl definition, this brush is the tool you need. Using the H20 Water Bottle a bit more, I make sure the undefined parts of my hair are wet just enough for malleability. I then take the Denman brush to my ends and gently comb up to my mid shafts. It redefines the curls that have a harder time forming with just product alone. I have to create my bangs everyday and it wouldn’t be possible without this baby.

Twist Routine

Step 9: Twist Out with Shea Moisture’s Raw Shea Butter Heatless Curl Stretch Gel
I have always been terrible at twist outs. My family has been trying to get me to do them consistently for years but I always turned out looking like Shirley Temple “gone wrong”. The first time I tried this cream gel, I fell deeply in love. This was the missing key to my twist outs! Paired with a Denman brush, my curls felt unstoppable! For once I didn’t have dry and rigid curls from my twist out. My hair also didn’t come out in a funny shape and shrink up into oblivion. This cream gel hydrated, stretched, and nurtured my curls. Now I do twist outs between washes, the day before important events, and I am a huge fan!

Do you have 4b coily hair? Let me know your favorites in the comments below. Check out the full list to see the winners from this years Best of the Best.

Texture Tales: Kim on Living in Germany as a Curly Girl

This month, Naturally Curly and The Curl Talk Project are partnering to explore the link between natural hair and the notions of identity, femininity, diversity, race and representation.

Six ladies will share their experiences, from Puerto Rico to the UK these women reveal what it means to be a curly-haired woman in a society where beauty standards are otherwise. Discover their stories below.

Texture Tales Kim on Living in Germany as a Curly Girl

Image: @locken_lieben_lernen

You are from Germany, tell us how curls are perceived over there?

Curls aren’t perceived negatively at all but there is no such thing as a natural hair movement here in Germany. This makes it very difficult for us to have access to curly girl approved products! Most of the time you see women with curls in the streets you can tell that they don’t know how to take care of it or don’t use the right products.

What was it like growing up with curly hair?

Being a curly kid was fine to me because I had a hair type that was very similar to my mother’s. I felt represented in my own house, which really helped.However, I started struggling in my teenage years. I was the only girl with natural curls in school, and looking different when you actually want to fit in isn’t ideal. Looking like my mother wasn’t something I was enthusiastic about anymore.

Texture Tales Kim on Living in Germany as a Curly Girl

Image: @locken_lieben_lernen

Do you feel there is a connection between femininity and how you feel about your hair?

I used to wear my hair very short for a while and still considered myself feminine, my husband has much longer hair than I do and I still find him masculine. I don’t believe there is a link between femininity and hair. Femininity is more than just having long, straight hair, it’s about who you are and how you see yourself as a person. That’s all that matters.

Why is natural hair so strongly linked to identity?

I am aware that as a white woman my hair might not be as strongly linked to identity than for women from other ethnicities. However, it’s clear that this hair is part of me, I inherited it from my mother so it’s essential for me to worship it and be as proud as I can of it.

What has your experience been like wearing your natural hair to work?

I never received negative comments, but heard a lot of questions about my hair. People tend to question the fact that this is my hair in its natural state.

What has been the most challenging moments of your hair journey?

Giving up heat and control. Before my transition, I used to put a lot of heat on my hair until it could look as perfectly straight and sleek as I desired. Letting this go and learning to embrace the natural version of myself was the difficult part, but I am glad I took this decision. It helped me to feel more relaxed about the way I look.

What are your holy grails?

Texture Tales Kim on Living in Germany as a Curly Girl

Image: @locken_lieben_lernen

My holy grail is the Bouncecurl light Creme Gel. I love it because it works as a single styler as well as together with most of my other favorite products. It gives me the best results on washdays and is also perfect for refresh. Plus the smell is amazing. It is really hyped on instagram, but for me it is definitely worth the hype and I will always rebuy.

What advice would you give to women struggling to embrace their curls?

Keep on going. It’s worth the struggle. Make sure to add some fun to the process as well. Transitioning is tough but you have to learn to appreciate the journey, and have fun while you experiment and try new ways of styling your natural curls.

What does your natural hair represent?

Self-love and acceptance.

Read more stories of The Curl Talk Project here.

Bianca Shares Her Simple Wash Day Routine for her 3a Curls

Hey curlfriends! I’m Bianca; I lead the NaturallyCurly social media team. My hair is mostly 3a curls with some 2b waves that like to terrorize me around my hairline (mostly at the nape and around my ears”>. It’s medium porosity, medium density and about as average as curls can get, and I’ve always loved them! Last year I thought it’d be fun to dye my hair fantasy colors, a deep purple and blue. But, I realized very quickly how much I missed my natural color (and how badly damaged my hair could get after dyeing it a single time”>. So, I chopped off the majority of my length and opted for a fun little bob.

Now, I’m growing my hair back out and am happy to see how healthy it is with a fairly minimal regimen. I’ve learned minimalism is key when it comes to my hair and my lifestyle. I wash my hair about three times a week, sometimes only twice (especially during the winter”>. Here’s my full regimen featuring the 2019 Best of the Best picks to get my defined springy curls.

Bianca Shares Her Simple Wash Day Routine for her 3a Curls

Wash Routine

Step 1: Shampoo with Sashapure Healing Shampoo

 This is such a nice moisturizing shampoo. It’s gentle on the scalp, cleanses really well and doesn’t strip the hair. That said, I typically do rinse and repeat because of the sheer volume of hair that I have.

Step 2: Condition with Sashapure Healing Conditioner

This is my favorite conditioner. It’s silky smooth and allows me to easily detangle my hair with my fingers. Once I’ve finished detangling, I rinse out most of the conditioner by cupping my hands into a bowl shape and squeezing the water into my hair from my hands (with my head upside down”>. This technique helps keep my curls clumped.

Step 3: Apply a few drops of Briogeo Scalp Revival Charcoal + Tea Tree Scalp Treatment

This is the perfect scalp treatment to keep your scalp hydrated and feeling refreshed. I use a few drops on my scalp and take some nice deep breaths in while it gently cools. Sooo good!

Styling Routine

Step 4: Squish to Condish Mielle Pomegranate & Honey Leave-In Conditioner

 While my hair is still soaking wet, I add my leave-in conditioner. It’s pretty luxurious and adds to that fresh from the spa feeling. I use a nickel-size amount to cover all of my hair. The squish to condish technique helps me begin to get rid of the excess water in my hair without creating frizz.

Step 5: Combine the Kevin Murphy Killer Curls & DevaCurl Ultra Defining Gel

These products are both great on their own, but they make a killer combo… at least, for my hair. I use about a quarter size of each product and swirl them together in my hands. They blend together like they were made to do just that. The scent from the Kevin Murphy Killer Curls takes over a bit, but I actually love it. I scrunch the product from the ends up keeping it away from my roots. I can use this combo any time of the year, and whether it’s dry or humid out I know my hair is going to be moisturized and frizz-free.

Step 6: Plop with AQUIS Hair Turban Chevron Weave

If wet hair on the back of my neck didn’t bother me so much, I’d probably air dry completely. But, it’s one of those things that drives me crazy. So, I use this towel to plop my hair in and leave it on anywhere from 30 minutes to an hour. I let my hair air dry the rest of the way and this takes the longest. Once I know it’s completely dry I give my head a shake side to side (doing my best not to get dizzy”> to break up any crunch from the gel and give it the volume I want.

Bianca Shares Her Simple Wash Day Routine for her 3a Curls

Refresh

Step 8: Flora & Curl Jasmine Oasis Hydrating Hair Mist
This mist is great for lazy naturals. And, when I say lazy, I really mean it. I keep a travel size bottle of this in my car because sometimes I forget to refresh my curls in the morning. Give my hair a few spritzes and a little tousle and I’m good to go!

Do you have Type 3a? Let me know what your regimen must-haves are, or if you like to keep your regimen as minimal as mine!

To see the rest of the Best of the Best winners of 2019, check out the full list here.

Whitney White aka @Naptural85 Named Best Natural Hair Blogger of 2019

Whether you’re a new natural or natural hair veteran, you’ve probably come across Whitney White’s (also known as @Naptural85“> youtube videos. Since 2009 Whitney has been sharing her natural hair journey with the world to share the importance of natural ingredients, DIY recipes and styling methods to educate and inspire women to live a holistic lifestyle through simple hair care. 10 years and 1 million subscribers later, the naturalista has helped empower women to embrace their natural hair with confidence and pride. No wonder she’s been voted the Best Natural Hair Blogger for this years Best of the Best. Here’s more on her natural hair journey, what’s made the biggest impact on her hair health and what you can expect from her latest hair care brand, Melanin Haircare.

Whitney White aka Naptural85 Named Best Natural Hair Blogger of 2019

Image: @naptural85

Tell us about your hair journey . . .

I’ve been natural, including the transition, for over ten years now! It’s wild to think how fast that time has flown by. I decided to transition to natural during my last semester of college, back in 2008. I was really busy with my studies and hated the salon process of spending the whole day waiting, and coming home with straight, chemical-scented hair. I would literally just wash it as soon as I got home and wear it in its curly state, as curly as my hair could get while relaxed. So I just decided to stop the madness since I wasn’t enjoying it, and try to go natural!

At first I was using whatever products I already owned for my relaxed hair, as well as a few homemade concoctions. Then once I became more comfortable, I started branching out into buying new products in stores and online that were popular in the natural hair community at the time, to see how they worked on my own hair. At this time I was starting to post about my natural hair journey on Youtube, and began reading material about the FDA and living a natural lifestyle. I became really focused on ingredient labels and living a more natural lifestyle to support good health. I began mixing more of my own hair products to save money and to control what I put on my body, and decided to also share those recipes online!

My hair was thriving and I was having a ball styling it, and sharing my journey online! I became complacent with my routine and wanted a change around 2014. I decided to go to a stylist that was recommended to me, to get my hair colored and shaped. At first I loved my results, but as the style aged, my hair became extremely weak and it became a chore to do my hair. I think it was a mix of my stylist going way too light with my color – too much bleach – and also not setting me up for success at home after the visit. She never told me what to use on my hair now that it was chemically-altered, and I just went home and continued to use my all-natural hair products as if my hair had the same properties. Now that I’ve learned more about hair in general, hair products, and the different processes, I know that as your hair changes, so should your hair products. I really should have been using products that would help support and fill those new weak spots created within my hair shaft from the chemicals, to help strengthen and stabilize my new hair structure. But at the time, I didn’t know that. And my hair just started to fall apart.

I became really depressed about how my new hair looked and couldn’t take it anymore, so I decided to color my hair black to hide that old hair color that I now hated… so I wouldn’t be reminded of it very time I looked in the mirror. I also started to trim the damage off, little by little. I trim my own hair at home, so as it came time for my scraggly ends to be removed, I took that opportunity to cut off large amounts of the color damage. I could see and feel exactly where my healthy hair from the root ended and my color-damage began. It was a long process to remove all the damage, it took about 3 or more years to completely see all the color-damage gone, but once it was gone, I was ecstatic! My hair was definitely super short after all the damage was finally removed, but if you’ve ever experienced color or heat damage, you know that the desire to have happy healthy hair again outweighs any sadness regarding lack of length. Having unhealthy hair really helps you to evaluate what it most important in your hair journey, and hair health is definitely it!

So fast forward to 2019, my hair is now the healthiest it has ever been! I am so blessed to have gone through the experiences of damaged hair because it helped me learn more about the hair structure, why my hair was behaving in certain ways, as well as methods to help improve and strengthen my hair. I am currently dealing with some internal issues that required me to take medication that, of course, affected my hair again *sigh* but that’s why they call it a “hair journey” not a “hair destination,” it doesn’t end! There’s always going to be triumphs and setbacks because that is life. Your hair is one of the least important organs on your body, as far as functionality is concerned, and it requires a lot of nutrients in order to grow to it’s peak. That means that if you are going through any situation when your health is compromised in any way, expect your hair to be affected. The body will immediately redirect nutrients away from the least important organ – your hair – to support the other more important organs needed to survive. And that is why you can always expect to continue having to learn about your hair, because it is always changing – fluctuating back and forth with the health of your body.

Whitney White aka Naptural85 Named Best Natural Hair Blogger of 2019

Image: @naptural85

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

Yes! Pre-pooing and weekly deep conditioning were game changers for me! I pre-poo with aloe vera and vitamin E, and that is like a powerhouse SNACK for my hair and scalp. It helps to heal any scalp issues and rejuvenate my hair follicles to help repair damage and allow new hair to grow in healthy and strong. Deep conditioning has really helped my hair retain more moisture. It’s a clear difference between my photos from before 2014 and the photos of my hair now, in 2019. My hair just looks shinier and more moisturized overall.

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

My advice is to give it some time. It’s easy to dislike something that is new. Why? Because the learning curve it takes to master your natural hair might give you the impression that natural hair is too hard, or that your hair texture is not ideal. But that’s not the case. It takes time to master anything in life, your natural hair is no different. Once you figure out the best methods to styling and caring for your own natural hair texture, you will begin to feel more comfortable and move more towards loving your texture. I have been natural for ten years and I still have more to learn. Like I said before, your hair is ever-evolving, you cannot have a one-size-fits-all mentality when it comes to caring for your hair. You have to take the time, the months, the years – however long it takes, to figure out what your hair needs in order to thrive. If you are someone who loves playing in hair, this is going to be a fun time for you. If you’re someone who hates playing in hair, you’re going to have some challenges here, but there are plenty of patient, skilled natural hair stylists who can help walk you through the process. Utilize their expertise if you think you can’t go the journey alone. It’s always helpful to have mentors along the way who can make your process easier.

What are your top curly girl tips?

My top tips for curly, coily, kinky girls and guys is to try to be diligent in maintaining a moisture balance for your hair. If that means moisturizing two times per week, instead of one, do that. Take the time to baby your hair and give it what it needs in order to thrive and to get the most out of your texture. I’ve found that my moisturized hair behaves much better than when I let it dry out and weaken. So even if it adds an extra thirty minutes to your styling routine during the week, over time you’ll notice your hair will become more elastic, healthier and stronger, making your overall hair care and styling routine easier and more enjoyable in the long-run.

Share your career journey. What led you to create a career in hair care?

I really fell into this organically. I’ve always loved talking about hair with my family and friends, and when I went natural in 2008, I found myself completely alone in my real world. I came across the small natural hair community on the web, and loved sharing my knowledge and new experiences online, with those who were new to this too. It became my hobby and a way to destress after work as a freelance and contract graphic designer. I decided to start monetizing my videos in 2010, under the recommendation of a fellow vlogger-friend, and I am so happy that I did, because as life became unpredictable career-wise, Youtube was always something I had to fall back on. I’m really lucky to have fallen into this. I obviously didn’t know what would become of my then, awkward hobby of posting my haircare trials online, but that’s really the beauty of following your heart in certain circumstances.

Whitney White aka Naptural85 Named Best Natural Hair Blogger of 2019

Image: @photosbyrome

You’ve been working on Melanin Haircare for 6 years. What are some obstacles you’ve overcome as an entrepreneur and businesswoman?

As an entrepreneur, I’ve definitely learned to be more scrappy and not give in. I think a lot of people think that because I’m a youtuber, this process was probably easy or handed to me. It was not. In fact, being on social media lent me no advantages in this circumstance of starting completely from the bottom-up. Melanin Haircare is a completely self-funded venture, and so funding this project alone was a huge obstacle we had to overcome. Trying to secure loans with organizations that don’t understand what you do, or how you make money was a huge roadblock we had to overcome. So it was an uphill battle every step of the way.

What are the key ingredients found in Melanin Haircare?

At Melanin Haircare, we work with all-natural and safe-synthetic ingredients which all work equally together to create a balanced, healthy and effective hair product. We use simple, yet luxurious natural butters such as kokum, cocoa, cupuacu, shea, and mango butter, along with vitamin E, aloe vera, and essential extracts of sage and geranium. We’re obsessed with rich avocado, jojoba and sweet almond oils to soften and penetrate the hair shaft, providing it with the necessary nutrients needed to maintain strong, healthy, thriving hair.

One thing that I personally learned after coloring my hair is how wonderful synthetic ingredients can be. I probably could have avoided a lot of heartache if I had known to support my hair using the correct hair products needed to repair and strengthen my damaged hair shaft. But through that process I learned so much about the safe-synthetics on the market, and I definitely wanted my hair product line to be enhanced with them so that our customers could have the best of both worlds as well. So we made a point of including safe synthetics, such as the fatty, conditioning stearyl, cetearyl and cetyl alcohols, along with stearamidopropyl dimethylamine, which is a little hard to pronounce but is an amazing hair conditioning, detangling and smoothing agent derived from vegetable oils. I used to be someone who was afraid of synthetic ingredients, but I’ve learned through my years that all synthetic ingredients are not created equally. It took me a long time to learn that, but having gone through all my trials, I feel that I now have a beneficial and healthy balance between my desire for natural ingredients and naturally-derived synthetics, which I definitely wanted represented in my own hair product line.

Whitney White aka Naptural85 Named Best Natural Hair Blogger of 2019

Image: @melaninhaircare

How is Melanin Haircare different from other natural hair care lines and products?

Melanin Haircare is an extension of me and my commitment to the natural hair community. The products we sell come directly from my own personal homemade hair product recipes that I’ve shared over the years, and that have been proven to support my natural hair health, growth, and length retention. We provide rich, high-quality ingredients that you would expect from an exclusive, expensive boutique, at affordable, drugstore prices.

What legacy do you strive to leave?

I just want to leave this world having helped in some way. When I graduated high school, I wrote in my scrapbook that I didn’t know what I wanted to be, but as long as I was happy and was helping others, than I would have been successful. So I’ve followed my heart and it turns out that helping women and men find their confidence through their hair is what makes me happy! I would love to leave my mark on the natural hair world as someone who helped to make a difference, because this community means so much to me. I didn’t grow up with many significant cultural traditions. My mother has obscure American slavery roots and my father is second-generation from Jamaican immigrants, but he wasn’t taught all of the customs, seeing that he was the youngest boy out of five children. So it has always been a struggle for me to find my roots and where I belong as an American black woman. My confidence wasn’t always there. My love of natural hair became my biggest root connecting me back to my culture, and I think that it is one of the reasons why it is so important to me today.

I also want my kids to remember me with pride, and to be able to master the lessons that I’ve struggled to learn over the years. My parents gave me so much knowledge to get me to where I am now, and it is my responsibility to take the next steps and build upon that knowledge to pass down to my children so that they can then do the same for theirs.

What can we expect from Melanin Haircare in the future?

You can definitely expect more product launches, so look out for that soon!

Thanks Whitney for sharing your journey of natural hair and entrepreneurship with us. You’re an inspiration to us all! We can’t wait to see what the future holds for you, we know it will be nothing short of amazing.


You can stay connected with Whitney on Instagram, plus she will be speaking at the ultimate celebration of black beauty in NY at Beauty Carnival April 27-28th. Grab your tickets, you don’t want to miss out!

This is How Fran Styles Her Fine 3b Curls

Hi y’all! It’s Fran and I’m the Senior Graphic Designer at NaturallyCurly. I have fine, high-porosity 3b curls. I like to keep things simple in most aspects of my life and that same mantra applies definitely with my hair. I find something that works and I stick with that, but don’t get me wrong I love trying new products… but I love products that I know – without a doubt work – for me and my hair. Here are my holy grails from this years Best of the Best, that never let me down.

This is How Fran Styles Her Fine 3b Curls

Image: Brio Photography

Wash & Condition

Step 1: Cleanse with DevaCurl No-Poo Decadence.
I’m a DevaCurl loyalist, their products never fail me! Because I have high porosity hair, I use the DevaCurl Decadence line. It provides that extra moisture, strength, and nourishment my hair needs. I use cleansing conditioners most wash days, but on the days I chose to shampoo (about once a week”> I use Camille Rose Naturals Sweet Ginger Cleansing Rinse and follow with DevaCurl One Condition Decadence.

Style

Step 2: Apply Briogeo Don’t Despair, Repair! Strength + Moisture Leave-In Mask.
This leave-in creates the perfect balance that’s moisturizing, but not heavy on my curls.

This is How Fran Styles Her Fine 3b Curls

Image: Brio Photography

Step 3: Apply TwistedSista Amazing Dream Curls Cream Gel.
This cream gel gives me perfect definition without the crunch. I’ll take a small drop of that and distribute through my fingers and apply evenly using a combined prayer hands + raking method then gently scrunch.

Step 4: Air dry!
I’m one of the few that can go to sleep with her hair wet and wake up to perfectly dry and defined curls. So on the nights that I do wash my hair, I place a towel on my pillow and plop my hair on top of that while I sleep. Thankfully I’m a pretty contained sleeper so I’m always aware of making sure that I’m not sleeping “on” my hair so that I can get the best results.

Refresh

Step 5: Water + Briogeo Don’t Despair, Repair! Strength + Moisture Leave-In Mask.
I’m pretty simple with this. Water and a little bit of a leave-in will always get the job done for a day 2 or 3 refresher.

This is How Fran Styles Her Fine 3b Curls

Image: Brio Photography

How do you style your 3b curls? Let me know your holy grails in the comments below.

Texture Tales: Chelsea is Redefining How Surfers are Represented by Rocking Her Curly Hair

This month, Naturally Curly and The Curl Talk Project are partnering to explore the link between natural hair and the notions of identity, femininity, diversity, race and representation.

Six ladies will share their experiences, from France to the UK these women reveal what it means to be a curly-haired woman in a society where beauty standards are otherwise. Discover their stories below.

Texture Tales Chelsea is Redefining How Surfers are Represented by Rocking Her Curly Hair

Image: @chel.bythe.sea

You love surfing and practice regularly, tell us how curls are perceived in the surf world?

I don’t think people actually have a perception of curls simply because there aren’t many women with textured hair in the surf industry. It is just not on their radar. The images that dominate mainstream surf media continue to be women with straight, blonde long hair. I think sometimes people think I can’t surf because I don’t fit that stereotype. There is a strong lack of representation in the surf world, of curls, but also of women of colour in general. When I am in the water I still hear questions such as: “Does your hair get wet?”

What was it like growing up with curly hair?

I am mixed-race, black and Asian and grew up in a predominantly white area where people were incredibly curious about what my hair was doing! I would change my hair often which generated a lot of comments and looks which made me feel uncomfortable. Growing up, getting in the water was something that wasn’t really encouraged, mainly because of the impact it would have on my hair. I ended up internalizing these ideas, but I am glad this didn’t stop me from eventually discovering surfing. I always wanted to surf, but I had this fear of the ocean and was often thinking about what it would mean for my hair.

Do you feel there is a connection between femininity and how you feel about your hair?

For sure. However growing up in a place where you don’t see people with natural hair portrayed as beautiful is what led me and many other girls to think that we weren’t good enough! This is why the natural hair movement is so important, as it showcases diversity and beauty in all its forms!

Texture Tales Chelsea is Redefining How Surfers are Represented by Rocking Her Curly Hair

Image: @chel.bythe.sea

Why is natural hair so strongly linked to identity?

Hair has always been part of our culture as black women. Like many parts of black culture, we took something perceived as negative by society and created beautiful and versatile styles. It represents hours in the beauty shop forming community and for me a bond I share with my mother in the kitchen as she did my hair. Learning to care for my hair is something my mother passed down to me and that I will pass down to my daughters.

What has your experience been like wearing your natural hair to work?

People are very curious about it. I’ve been mistaken for co-workers I don’t look like at all sometimes, simply because of the hair type we have.I would say that in general people accept my hair but I am aware that I will most of the time hear comments about the way it looks, whether I want it or not. I am learning to get used to it.

What has been the most challenging moments of your hair journey?

Finding a hairdresser who was able to understand my hair texture, my curl pattern and not chastise me for surfing everyday. Living in a small coastal beach town makes it hard because there aren’t many stylist that truly understand textured hair. Finding someone who listened to my needs and wasn’t a two hour drive away was very important. I can’t count the number of bad haircuts I’ve had!

Texture Tales Chelsea is Redefining How Surfers are Represented by Rocking Her Curly Hair

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What advice would you give to women struggling to embrace their curls?

Have patience and try not to compare yourself to other women you see on the internet. Your journey is different from anyone else’s. You will create your own routine and your hair will thank you for that.

What does your natural hair represent?

Freedom, peace of mind, and self-acceptance.

What are your holy grails?

Surfing has really forced me to simplify my hair routine I also found a hairstylist @kiafaystyles that helped me do that and recommends great products. Traveling with a board bag and one backpack limits what you can bring on a trip and I wanted to fuss less over my hair and have more time in the ocean!

In the shower I use Wash Day Wonder by DevaCurl to get those salty tangles out. Deep Sea Repair by DevaCurl, it’s really a mask but since I have daily exposure to salt water which tends to be dehydrating this helps keep my hair moisturized. If I wash my hair I use AG Balance Shampoo and lastly I use a leave in to style and my ultimate holy grail Uncle Funky’s Daughter Curly Magic.

Read more stories of The Curl Talk Project here.

You Voted: The Best Curly Hair Products & Why You Love Them

Curly girls have a reputation for being Product Junkies. According to our research, they continue trying new products long after they find their Holy Grail. So every year we poll our NaturallyCurly community in our Best of the Best survey to find out their favorite curly products. You voted and we voted, here are the best curly hair products according to over 3,000 curlies.

You Voted The Best Curly Hair Products & Why You Love Them

Shampoo:

DevaCurl No-Poo Quick Cleanser

A botanically infused conditioning spray that cleanses without water, instantly refreshing hair while adding texture to curls and invigorating the scalp.

Shampoo Bar:

OBIA Naturals Hair Care Neem & Tea Tree Shampoo Bar

This invigorating shampoo soothes dry scalp and helps remove unwanted buildup. Neem Oil and Tea Tree Oil are excellent astringents that will leave your scalp refreshed.

“Love the smell. Love the way my EXTREMELY dry, low porosity coily hair feels after washing. Even the suds are velvety soft!” –mrpt912

Dry Shampoo:

Batiste Original Dry Shampoo

Need an instant refresh? You’ll want to try the classic dry shampoo that instantly makes your hair feel clean, fresh and full of body and texture.

“I absolutely love this dry shampoo and use it all the time! It leaves hair smelling great and actually absorbs the oil unlike some dry shampoos.”-Katie

You Voted The Best Curly Hair Products & Why You Love Them

Cleansing Conditioner:

DevaCurl No-Poo Original

The moisturizing, non-lathering formula with peppermint and grapeseed oil, stimulates and cleans the scalp and hair without stripping away the natural oils your curls need. No-Poo leaves you with shiny, bouncy curls that are just plain gorgeous.

“I’ve dealt with an itchy, sensitive scalp for almost a decade. No-Poo leaves enough oil to moisturize my skin and travel through my hair. It’s hard to adjust to spreading it without lather, but adding some water helps. The scent if light, and the peppermint soothes my head. My curls and scalp are happy!”-Gillian

Daily Conditioner:

DevaCurl One Condition Original Creamy Daily Conditioner

This rich, creamy conditioner is made with moisturizing olive oil and nourishing botanicals to deliver softness and hydration.

“In the past, I would use a lot of conditioner because my hair was so knotty, and this weighed down my curls. Also, I would spend so much time detangling in the shower. But, when I started using one condition, my hair was way easier and faster to detangle. Now my hair has less knots, feels so soft and i don’t have to use so much conditioner.” -Betty

Leave-in:

Kinky-Curly Knot Today

This leave-in conditioner and detangler is designed to smooth the cuticle and remove knots, snarls and tangles from wavy, curly and kinky-textured hair. It’s been on the holy list for years for its reliability and multi-purposeful use. It can be used as a regular rinse out conditioner for wavy hair or as a leave-in for thicker curlier hair types. Plus, it’s an excellent product to use after removing braids and extensions.

“I have 3a/3b curls and I love this product. No crunch, lots of slip, and leaves my hair super soft and moisturized.”- Erica S.

You Voted The Best Curly Hair Products & Why You Love Them

Deep conditioner:

DevaCurl Melt Into Moisture Matcha Green Tea Butter Conditioning Mask

This nourishing treatment mask is like a magical elixir for dehydrated waves or curls. This nutrient-rich, buttery formula effortlessly melts into hair without feeling heavy. All curl types are left feeling shiny, silky-soft and completely transformed.

“This has to be the best deep conditioner ever! Leaves my curls looking fantastic!.” -Paula P.

Hair Treatment:

Olaplex Hair Perfector No 3

A home hair repairing treatment, this treatment relinks the broken bonds in every type of hair providing real, structural repair that works from within. Leaves hair stronger than ever.

“HOLY GRAIL. This is the best purchase I have ever made in regards to my hairs health. In one use, this stuff totally transformed my hair into shiny, manageable, smooth, frizz free gorgeousness! Will never stop buying for as long as I live!”-chels1101

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Hair Oil:

Righteous Roots 11 Essential Oils Hair RX

Righteous Roots Rx is a hair rejuvenating growth serum with 11 essential oils featuring both anti-frizz and detangling properties, blended to transform your hair into the best that it can be. It can be used as a hot oil to deep condition, pre-poo, scalp oil and finishing oil to scrunch out the crunch.

“I started my curly hair journey and heard so much about this so oil, I ordered some and I can’t wait to order more!! I’ve had 7 children and was losing hair at my hairline like CRAZY. I have serious heat damage from heating tools from straightening my hair for YEARS So my hair needed some TLC! I’ve definitely noticed a huge difference since using Righteous Roots oil. My hair is growing back where I barely had any and overall my hair is getting thicker. I can really see and feel the difference in my thickness around my ears. I can’t say enough good things about it.”- Tiffany

Hair Color:

Creme of Nature Moisture-Rich Hair Color with Shea Butter Conditioner

Ultra-Moisturizing Mango & Shea Butter Conditioner, for multi-dimensional color with radiant shine. Ammonia Free. 100% Grey Coverage. Liquid Permanent Hair Color.

“I only use Creme of Nature when it comes to my hair color! It doesn’t strip my hair of moisture. The ingredients infused in the hair color I know are good for my hair type.”-Jessica Petaway

You Voted The Best Curly Hair Products & Why You Love Them

Curl Cream:

DevaCurl Supercream Coconut Curl Styler

This rich, coconut oil infused styler gives you total freedom to express yourself with your curls. Whether you want to smooth, soften, shape, stretch, moisturize, define, control, boost volume, twist-out, tame frizz, add shine or switch up your look, SuperCream helps you do it all.

“An absolute favorite and staple in my routine. Smells amazing. Gives my curls such definition and shine and hold. LOVE LOVE LOVE. 3A and Thick.” -Phoebe93

Gel:

DevaCurl Ultra Defining Gel

An ultra hold moisturizing and defining gel. Dissolves instantly when applied to wet hair and dries forming a moisture-protective cast to enhance curls.

“I love love love this gel!!! I normally use store bought gels that have unnatural ingredients and wonder why my hair looks odd. However, with the devacurl ultra defining gel, it makes my curls pop and does not dry my hair out!!! my hair is 4a so keeping moisture in my hair is a challenge. If you’re looking for a good smell and moisture this gel will do it.” -anonymous

Mousse:

DevaCurl Frizz-Free Volumizing Foam

If you want fullness, plus frizz protection, make this airy, boosting foam your new go-to. An alcohol free, humidity resistant conditioning foam for volume, curl retention and shine. Provides long lasting, incredibly soft, frizz-free curls.

“I absolutely LOVE this mousse! At the suggestion of my hairdresser, I started using DevaCurl products. This is by far my favorite mousse. Keep in mind, a little goes a long way! I have thick, medium-length hair and only use 4 pumps.”-M.J.

Stretch Product:

DevaCurl Super Stretch Coconut Curl Elongator

Do you have super curly hair that craves moisture, definition and curl elongation? Then this cream styler is for you! This coconut infused cream weightlessly elongates curls and maintains definition. Coconut oil delivers nourishing moisture and shine while shea butter conditions for long lasting softness. Versatile and lightweight, this styler has a rich velvety texture that the provides the moisture and softness of a cream with the hold of a gel.

“This product does exactly what it says it will. It elongates curls and leaves them super defined and manageable. The product itself is very thick and creamy. You can feel it moisturizing your hair the minute you put it on. Worth the $30 and I didn’t have to use much product, although I have very thick curly hair.” -Tish

You Voted The Best Curly Hair Products & Why You Love Them

Hair Butter:

Camille Rose Naturals Curlaide Moisture Butter

An oil-enriched softening hair butter with sweet notes of vanilla and macadamia, crafted to deliver intense everyday moisture.

“This product is the most moisturizing product I’ve ever had, has a butter it is thick but it melts into my hair and provides great moisture and semi-hold. It smells like cake batter (very sweet”> and it’s just amazing, it lasts me three months (a little goes a long way and it’s simply amazing”>” -Nia

Product to Cocktail & Frizz Fighter:

Curly hair solutions Curl Keeper Original

Curl Keeper Original is a water-based formula, which means you can use it every day without product buildup. Your curly hairstyle will last for days as its unique formula re-activates with water making Curl Keeper Original 100% effective in all weather conditions, especially humidity.

“This product has turned me into a curly girl. I have 3a curls and for the first time in my life I have chunky, pretty, evenly defined curls. My hair is no longer a frizzy tangly mess. And the amazing thing is, my hair feels completely soft and clean.” -travelnlite

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Tool/ Accessory:

Denman Brush

The D3 is a medium styling brush with 7 rows of nylon pins. The famous Denman anti-static rubber pad provides maximum grip and control during blow-drying for shaping hair. The most famous styling brush in the world!

“The curl definition I get with the Denman brush is amazing!” -Brooke T.

Product for Twist/Locs/Braids:

Camille Rose Naturals Almond Jai Twisting Butter

Botanical blend of oils and butters will aid in managing coarse/thick hair, leaving a soft and smoother feel. Softens and moisturizes hair while nourishing the scalp and stimulating growth.

“I love using this product along with the Camille Rose Curlaide Moisture Butter as a leave-in first and then the Almond Jai twisting butter as my styler. My 3b/3c/4a high porosity Hair stays moisturized, shiny, and defined. When using this on wet/damp hair and in sections is key to flake free and defined curls. This a great styler for the fall/ winter time.” -Tamara

Hairspray:

Bounce Curl Alcohol-Free HairSpray

Medium-to-strong hold hairspray. It is perfect for any time of year, and works well in the humid environments of summer. Our ultra-fine mister distributes hair spray evenly, but remember that you only need two or three spritzes (sprayed 6 inches from your hair”> to get a good result.

“I’ve never used a hair spray and I will admit I was scared but I absolutely loved it. I love how it sprays out and that it doesn’t take much and my curls stay beautiful all day.” -Ginuwine

Finishing oil:

DevaCurl Set It Free Moisture Lock Finishing Spray

The lightweight, nourishing formula, made with olive oil and beeswax, zaps frizz and brings back softness. Set it Free blasts curls with essential moisture and adds bounce and shine.

“This spray will kill frizz in an instant. The moisture it provides is just so good and it’s incredibly lightweight on my curls. And the smell omg!” -Jan

Refresher:

DevaCurl Mist-er Right

This lavender oil-infused formula is the perfect secret weapon when you’re in no mood to get your hair wet. The hydrating spray brings curls back to life and refreshes the scalp and curls, saving you time in-between wash days.

“Honestly this product is life changing. I go into work at 7am and get off at 7pm. On nights when I have plans after work I use this product and my curls come right back to life!! No joke this is awesome.” -WeezyFTaylor

You Voted The Best Curly Hair Products & Why You Love Them

Moisturizer:

Mielle Organics Avocado Hair Milk

Infused with a hydrating extract blend and filled with botanicals and certified organic ingredients, it smooths and softens your hair, providing moisture, manageability, and shine.

“This product is an all rounder. You can use as a leave in, a moisturizer, or a twisting cream. I get beautiful twist outs with this cream.” -Latoya

Heat Protectant:

CHI Keratin K-Trix 5 Smoothing Treatment

Thermally activated smoothing treatment combines with the heat of a styling iron to smooth the hair cuticle, lock in moisture and seal out humidity.

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Edge Control:

Creme of Nature Argan Oil Perfect Edges

Maximum hold, non-flaking edge gel for long-lasting wear. Perfect for taming stubborn edges and creating sleek, smooth styles. Great for sculpting, ponytails, high buns and natural up-dos.

“I have been using this edge control for about 6 months now. It is my favorite. No, it does not work miracles. If you sweat, live in a humid climate or are extremely active, it will not hold all day. Even when the hair starts to come up a bit, it still looks soft, moisturizing and flattering. I love the smell.” -SSmall

Volumizer:

Deva Curl B’Leave-In Curl Boost and Volumizer

This lightweight gelée contains a conditioning and strengthening blend of wheat protein, lemongrass and chamomile. The moisturizing formula adds instant shine, volume and plumpness to curls.

“This product is nothing shy of incredible. I have really curly hair and have tried for years to find a product that makes my top layer not so frizzy and that keeps my curls together.” -Alexis


Did your holy grail(s”> make the cut? Let us know your favorites in the comments below. See the list of the winners here.

Here’s How Keturah Cares for Her 3c Curly Hair

I’m Keturah, NaturallyCurly’s E-Commerce Manager. I have medium porosity, 3C curls. I am a natural girl that enjoys my hair straight from time to time. The one thing I struggle most with is scalp care. Creating a regimen that favors a healthy scalp is key. In my past life I wouldn’t dare rock my curls because I didn’t know how to manage them. Not to give away my age, but I grew up in the era of Creamy Crack (aka relaxers”>. I wasn’t allowed to get one, so my focus was always to achieve that look the best way I knew how. That was constant flat ironing and a TON of Blue Magic. I am older and wiser now, so I have discovered a better way to care for my curls. They are strong and grow like crazy! I LOVE my curls because I figured how to take care of them. Check out my regimen using the 2019 Best of the Best Editor’s Choice picks!

Heres How Keturah Cares for Her 3c Curly Hair

Pre- Wash:

I use the Briogeo Scalp Revival Charcoal + Tea Tree Scalp Treatment the night before wash day. I also use it after washing.

Wash:

I love to use a combination of shampoos. I use the SheaMoisture 100% Virgin Coconut Oil Daily Hydration Shampoo on my hair, but the Briogeo Scalp Revival Charcoal + Coconut Oil Micro-Exfoliating Shampoo on my scalp.

For conditioning I prefer to use the SheaMoisture 100% Virgin Coconut Oil Daily Hydration Conditioner.

Depending on what my hair needs I will use either the Ouidad Curl Immersion Triple Treat Deep Conditioner or Briogeo Don’t Despair, Repair! Deep Conditioning Hair Cap System. My hair is usually pretty hydrated so if I over condition then my curls are weighed down.

My favorite tools are the Hair Remedie Frizz Eliminating Towel and the Curly Hair Solutions Flexy Brush.

CG Tip: I love the Cantu for Natural Hair Curl Stretcher Cream Rinse. I experience shrinkage with my 3C curls, but this gives me some length back.

Heres How Keturah Cares for Her 3c Curly Hair

Styling:

My favorite mousse of all time is Design Essentials Almond & Avocado Curl Enhancing Mousse. I use mousse to help give me definition.

I love cocktailing the Camille Rose Naturals Curl Love Moisture Milk and Camille Rose Naturals Curl Maker.

I finish off with the Darshana Natural Indian Hair Oil.

For refreshing my curls between wash days, I like to use a combination of the steam from my shower, Curly Hair Solutions H20 Water Bottle, Design Essentials Almond & Avocado Curl Enhancing Mousse, and Moroccan Oil Curl Re-energizing Spray. Plus, I use Creme of Nature Pure Honey Moisture Infusion Edge Control to help smooth my buns and ponytails!

Heres How Keturah Cares for Her 3c Curly Hair

Did your wash day essentials make the list? Let us know in the comments and see the full list here.

Texture Tales: Lenisha on How Her 4c Hair is Perceived in Puerto Rico

This month, Naturally Curly and The Curl Talk Project are partnering to explore the link between natural hair and the notions of identity, femininity, diversity, race and representation.

Six ladies will share their experiences, from France to the UK these women reveal what it means to be a curly-haired woman in a society where beauty standards are otherwise. Discover their stories below. 

Texture Tales Lenisha on How Her 4c Hair is Perceived in Puerto Rico

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You are from the US, but lived in Puerto Rico for a while, tell us how curls are perceived over there?

In the US my hair is perceived as untamed, unprofessional, and unpresentable, especially within the black community. As soon as I arrived in Puerto Rico I noticed a massive difference: they loved my hair! I received so many compliments from men and women alike and witnessed so much enthusiasm and positive curiosity from them.

It’s very odd for me to see that back home by hair is seen like a rare commodity that doesn’t match people’s expectations, something people are still confused about and not really appreciative of. 

What was it like growing up with curly hair?

My hair was always styled in braids. There was this idea that my hair always needed to be done to prevent it from looking unkept.

As a child I can’t remember any moments when I heard positive comments about my texture. It’s never been defined as good hair.

In the meantime I would actually hear positive comments addressed to girls with the long loose curls.

I simply internalized all these negative ideas and struggled to appreciate my hair for what it is.

Texture Tales Lenisha on How Her 4c Hair is Perceived in Puerto Rico

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Do you feel there is a connection between femininity and how you feel about your hair?

Definitely! Sometimes it can be difficult to feel feminine with your natural hair especially because some men only like this long, sleek, exotic look.

It was frustrating to know that even after dressing up and putting some makeup on I would look at my hair and think that I wasn’t beautiful because of it. 

Why is natural hair so strongly linked to identity?

It took me a long time to realize that, but our natural hair is who we are. This is how we are meant to be. There is nothing wrong with straightening your hair or wearing weaves or sew ins, but we all need to make sure to know ourselves naturally first, before starting any alteration process. Our hair is us, it’s our cultural heritage.

What has your experience been like wearing your natural hair to work?

I work in public relations and speak on behalf of an agency, in front of a camera most of the time, and some people believe that I shouldn’t represent it with my natural hair.

It’s not fair! If a straight haired woman goes to work with a sleek ponytail it will be perceived positively. However, the sleek ponytail I will do won’t be, simply because the texture of my hair isn’t seen as a professional option. 

Texture Tales Lenisha on How Her 4c Hair is Perceived in Puerto Rico

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What has been the most challenging moments of your hair journey?

Me wearing my hair out for the first time! I was so nervous and paranoid about what people thought about it.

What advice would you give to women struggling to embrace their curls?

Focus on the health of your hair instead of its length and stop comparing yourself to others. Remind yourself that this is you, you should accept it and nurture it. It’s not easy but it’s a beautiful journey to undertake.

What does your natural hair represent?

My growth, my confidence, my strength and the love that I have for myself as a black woman in America.

What are your holy grails?

“Shampoo- The Mane Choice Do It Fro The Culture Volume Powerful Shampoo

Conditioner- Etae Carmelux Silk Protein Conditioner

Deep conditioner- Mielle Organics Babassu Oil & Mint

Gel- Mielle Organics Pomegranate and Honey Curl Sculpting Custard

Edge control- Curls Control paste


Read more stories of The Curl Talk Project here

Texture Tales: Felicia Shares Her Curly Girl Essentials for Healthy Hair
Texture Tales Felicia Shares Her Curly Girl Essentials for Healthy Hair

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If you’ve been a part of the curly community for some time now, it’s likely you’ve come across one of our favorite curly girls, Felicia Dickerson aka @hif3licia. She is a ray of light that shares a wealth of knowledge on how to care for curly hair, top styling tips for definition and volume and the best methods for creating a healthy hair regimen. Keep reading as she shares more about her hair journey in our exclusive series, Texture Tales.

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

When I was in elementary school my mom had no idea what to do with my hair because her hair is more thin and wavy so she kept it in a ponytail with one long HEAVY braid. I used to get headaches and my classmates didn’t like getting smacked in line!

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?

I was lucky to have an older sister with a very similar hair texture to inspire me to embrace my curls. My sisters passion for curls was contagious and made me realize my curls were a blessing not a burden.

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

The most empowering moment for me was being invited to the Devachan salon for a Devacut and to have a meet and greet to meet some of the curlies I’ve been able to help through my content. Before she passed away my sister discovered Devacurl and the Devacut and we made plans to go to a Devachan salon one day. We never made it together, so to not only be able to go, but to have an event was really a dream and I could feel my sisters happiness.

Texture Tales Felicia Shares Her Curly Girl Essentials for Healthy Hair

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How do you maintain your color? Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

To maintain my color I deep condition regularly, avoid heat, avoid drying ingredients, and I use Olaplex! I also love incorporating DIY recipes into my routine! I have a really helpful video on my YouTube.

Top tips for volume?

My best tips for volume are to rinse with your head flipped over, avoid applying products close to your roots, use light-weight products, scrunch your products in, flip your head from side to side while styling and drying, and pick your roots!

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

My routine tends to switch due to the weather, what look I’m going for, or how my hair is feeling, but some of my current faves are Innersense Organics I Create Volume Lotion & their Quiet Calm Curl Control, Bounce Curl Gel after using DevaCurl’s Super stretch, and I’m loving the Not Your Mother’s Curl Talk line!

Texture Tales Felicia Shares Her Curly Girl Essentials for Healthy Hair

Image:@hif3licia

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

Don’t be so critical of yourself. Don’t get caught up comparing yourself to others. Take pics of the process so you can look back and see how far you’ve come. If you’ve been trying something and it’s not working for you don’t be afraid to experiment with ways to make a routine or product work for you!

How did switching your diet play a role in your natural hair journey?

I feel like switching my diet has helped with the overall health of my hair and has helped play a role in my fast growth!

How do you practice self-care?

I make sure to take time for myself. I make sure to look back at accomplishments I’ve made to keep me positive and I love using essential oils to relax and meditate.

What’s your hair story? Share your story with us here to be featured in our Texture Tales series.

Texture Tales: Samantha on Embracing Her Gray Hair in Her Thirties
Texture Tales Samantha on Embracing Her Gray Hair in Her Thirties

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What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

I had a good experience with my hair growing up. I was born in Suriname and lived with my grandparents. Everyone loved my hair. It was thick, long and was a mixture of brown and gold. Everyone thought it was unique. So I grew up really loving my hair. It was always a challenge for others to braid my hair because of the thickness and length. The only people who could do my hair were my grandmother, mother and sister. When I moved to the Netherlands I begged my mother to relax my hair, because my sister had relaxed hair. At the age of 15 years-old, my mother finally relaxed my hair. I relaxed my hair for two years and continued to straighten my hair with the flat iron. I expierenced heat damage a few times, but at one point I decided to embrace my textured hair. 

What made you decide to embrace your silver curly hair?

At the age of 15 years-old, I already had a few silver hairs. I hated my silver when I started to mature. At the age of 22, I got to a point where I didn’t dye my hair for the color, but for the coverage. I colored my hair every two months. If it wasn’t for my curly hair, that helped to camouflage my silver, I would have dyed my hair every two weeks. People asking about my silver hair didn’t help either and made me feel insecure. I felt obliged to tell them that my grandfather (on my mom’s side”> was completely gray at the age of 30 and my grandmother (on my dad’s side”> was an early gray as well. One day I was looking at my mother and she is in her 50’s and was still dying her hair. I pictured myself dying my hair at that age and I immediately decided that my story will be different. I was tired of fighting my silver. So I decided to stop fighting my silver. I refused to follow some rules about what beauty is supposed to look like. 

Texture Tales Samantha on Embracing Her Gray Hair in Her Thirties

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What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far? 

The most empowering moment of my hair journey was my big chop last year (October 2018″>. My way to stop fighting my natural silver hair. I embraced my hair and my natural self immediatly. I never felt freedom like the moment I cut my hair in front of 3000+ followers on Instagram live.

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

My regimen repeats on a weekly basis. Every week I use a shampoo or a co-wash. A cleanser is a must for me! After my scalp is build-up free, I use the LCO method. Depending on the hairstyle, I use water, leave-in conditioner and oil. My favorite Wash and go products are Curls Blueberry & Coconut Hair Milk, Blueberry Bliss Curl Control Jelly and KeraCare Essential oils. I might replace the leave-in for a butter/gel if I do a twistout or finger coils. For butters I go with As I am Double Butter cream or my favorite at the moment KeraCare Curl Essence Moisturizing Curling Cream – it’s amazing for my finger coils! At night I put my hair in a satin bonnet. The next day, I use a hair pick to fluff. My hairstyle normally stays for 5-7 days. In the morning, depending on the frizz, I twist or coil the ends with a little bit of product. On wash day; every other week I use a shampoo. On the weeks I don’t use a shampoo, I use a Co-wash (I rotate each week”>. My favorite Co-wash is the Eden Bodyworks Natural Cleansing CoWash. I try to deep condition every other week— I swear I try. 

Texture Tales Samantha on Embracing Her Gray Hair in Her Thirties

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Finger coiling is one of your favorite styling techniques, what’s your top tip for perfecting finger coils?

Patience and also the right products. Patience is important because you can have the tendency to stop halfway. Your arms become tired and you want to give up. Second tip; Find the right products for your hair. My ultimate favorite combination for finger coils is Cantu Coconut Curling Cream, Cantu Moisturizing Twist & Lock Gel and an oil to seal.

What does your natural hair represent?

What natural hair represents to me the most is identity. My natural hair is me, a part of my identity. If you don’t accept my hair, you don’t accept me. 

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural silver hair?

I know the struggle. Following a rule about what beauty should look like. I know the feeling of not being the beauty ‘norm’. But freedom feels so good! Not worrying about the next hair dye. Just being yourself and embrace all of you! My advice is don’t rush it. You will know when your ready, but don’t be afraid to be yourself. Accept yourself, love yourself, sometimes with babysteps. 

Texture Tales: Farah on How The Curly Girl Method Changed Her Curls Drastically
Texture Tales Farah on How The Curly Girl Method Changed Her Curls Drastically

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What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

Growing up with curly hair I always felt like I had the worst hair! I would straighten it all the time and wonder why it was so frizzy and damaged. I never understood how to take care of my hair.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?

I decided to embrace my curly hair after learning about the curly girl method. I realized the truth about my curls and haven’t looked back.

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

The most empowering moment is when I got into a curly hair routine of deep conditioning, conditioning, and styling my curls. It feels great to take care of my hair and see results in return!

How do you protect your curls at night?

I sleep on a satin pillow case and pineapple my curls with a satin scarf as well.
Texture Tales Farah on How The Curly Girl Method Changed Her Curls Drastically

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Who is your curl crush?

I have so many curl crushes but my top curl crush would have to be @nellyscurls.

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

Definitely deep conditioner!

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

My hair care routine starts with a deep conditioning treatment. I have been loving Algae Renew by Camille Rose Naturals. After deep conditioning, I co-wash and condition. Next I style my curls with some leave in conditioner, and gel. Daily scalp massages have been a great addition to my hair care routine. I love The Mane Choice Hair Growth Oil.

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?

The most challenging moment would be the first couple months of my transition. I didn’t like how my hair looked and I had to build up the courage to wear my hair natural, but I stuck with it and I’m so happy I did!
Texture Tales Farah on How The Curly Girl Method Changed Her Curls Drastically

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Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

A really great technique that has been working great is finger coiling my curls while deep conditioning. It really helps separate curls and trains my curls to curl up.

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

Keep loving yourself and learn about what works for your texture. The more we can understand our curls, the healthier they can be.
Texture Tales: Twin Models, Delcia and Alia, on the Importance of Embracing their Afros
Texture Tales Twin Models Delcia and Alia on the Importance of Embracing their Afros

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What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

We can recall our mom combing and blow drying our hair and then putting it in twists or braids. We were very tender headed as kids and always cried. Also, based on the hairstyles our mom gave us… we remember a kid calling us Snoop Dog.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?

We were not a fan of the smell of heat on our hair. We didn’t like dealing with two textures due to the chemicals or heat damage. We were inspired to embrace our natural hair by the different natural hair youtubers and the natural hair movement!

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

The most empowering moment of our natural hair journey so far is as models we get to represent women of color showcasing their natural hair. We say this because when we take photos we embrace our Afros and people notice it and love it. It feels great when mothers comment or when they see us and mention that we inspire them and their daughters to appreciate their natural hair and to always embrace it! It’s not enough of us being showcased on tv or magazines so we want to be an example that our natural hair is beautiful and should be accepted and seen in today’s society!

How do you protect your curls at night?

Moisturize by adding water and a little leave in conditioner. Sometimes we put it in twists or in a pineapple.

Who is your curl crush?

Naptural85. She has similar hair texture as us. She’s very educational and informative on natural hair products, hairstyles and taking care your natural hair.
Texture Tales Twin Models Delcia and Alia on the Importance of Embracing their Afros

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What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

We always make sure to have a pick when we need to comb through our fro. Oh, also can’t forget to make sure to have a spray bottle.

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

Honestly, we don’t have a regimen. We just make sure to not use too many different products or to put too much products in our hair. Less is always better. On wash days we deep condition. Our favorite products we like to use are from Creme of Nature including the Argan Oil Leave-in Conditioner and the Pure Honey Twisting Cream. From SheaMoisture we love the 100% Coconut Milk Leave-in Conditioner  , Curl Enhancing Smoothie and the Raw Shea Butter Deep Treatment Masque.

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?

Having a perm and dealing with heat damage.
Texture Tales Twin Models Delcia and Alia on the Importance of Embracing their Afros

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Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

Simply by not doing the most to our hair annd allowing it to breath. We feel it’s important to use hair products that feel good on our hair or we have good results. November 7, 2018 we received the MonaCut Experience and it was amazing! She colored our hair black and got it shaped, it was much needed! 

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

DELCIA: All textured hair is beautiful! Women with natural hair should love and embrace your crown. Get inspired and watch YouTube videos if needed or flip through hair magazines. Chat with other naturals just so you could build your confidence and self-love for your own crown.
ALIA: Remember why you started your natural hair journey. Talk to other natural hair ladies. Attend natural hair events. Most importantly, remember that this is your God given hair. Be proud of it and embrace it, it’s yours!

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Texture Tales: Tennille Shares Her Journey of Embracing Her Silver Curls
Texture Tales Tennille Shares Her Journey of Embracing Her Silver Curls

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What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

Growing up with my curly hair was very challenging. To start, my mom had straight hair so she couldn’t really educate me on how to properly care for my curls. I also had a ton of hair which was overwhelming for me as a young girl to manage. There was no such thing as wash and go for me. My hair was always high maintenance and I always felt the need to pull my hair back in braids, pony tails, and buns to control it.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?

To be honest, it never occurred to me to wear my hair straight. It’s not that I was in love with my curly hair, I just “dealt” with it. However, it wasn’t until high school that I felt confident to really rock my curly hair without pulling it back or trying to tame it. I think that’s because I went to a high school where being different was cool and I quite enjoyed that I didn’t look like anyone else. I feel really lucky because I know that’s not always the typical high school experience.

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

I must say that Oprah Winfrey telling me she loved my curly white hair was very validating. The whole encounter was absolutely unreal but to have someone I truly admire go out of her way to introduce herself and tell me she loves my crazy white hair was not just flattering, but a truly a-ha moment. I realized that embracing my uniqueness has led me to such amazing opportunities like meeting wonderful people. This chance encounter was a reminder from that little voice in my head to always embrace being myself.
Texture Tales Tennille Shares Her Journey of Embracing Her Silver Curls

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How do you protect your curls at night?

I’ve actually found that my hair doesn’t like being covered or wrapped. That actually flattens my curls and makes it more challenging to style the next day. Instead, I simply put my hair above my head when I sleep to avoid crushing my curls.

Who is your curl crush?

Imaan Hammam! I fell in love with her the moment she started wearing her natural for jobs. I love that her curls are unconventional. They are big, frizzy and full of life. I love that her hair is not the perfect Pantene commercial curl. Rather, it’s wild and I find that to be absolutely beautiful.

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

An amazing gel or anti-frizz styling product is a must for me. The make it or break it moment for a good hair day for me are the styling products.

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

I wash my hair about once every 5 days to avoid drying out my hair. Not to mention, it takes me 2 hours plus to wash then style my hair which is not feasible everyday. Using a hair mask every wash is absolutely essential for my hair, both for hydration and to reduce frizz. Also, extra important for me is to avoid heat products which damage my curls.
Texture Tales Tennille Shares Her Journey of Embracing Her Silver Curls

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What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?

When I turned 30, I started losing my hair. This was an absolutely terrifying moment. My hair loss was stress induced, so while I learned healthy ways to restore my hair, this time of my life also taught me that taking care of oneself on all levels, mentally + physically is so important for your hair.

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

My first curl by curl dry haircut was a game changer for my hair. This special cut brought out my hair’s natural curl pattern and added more consistency in my curl pattern. This helped me stop using a curling iron in my styling routine and majorly improved the health of my hair.

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

Put in some research. Try different products and learn what your hair loves. Also, find a stylist who specializes in dry haircuts. A great curly hair stylist will not only be a wealth of knowledge, but will also cheer you on along your journey. For extra support, resources, and inspiration, find a curly girl community! Learning to love your natural hair is a journey. It’s a process of self-care that involves being kind to yourself, embracing your uniqueness, and building confidence in yourself.

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Texture Tales: Kristin on Realizing that Waves are Not Failed Curls
Texture Tales Kristin on Realizing that Waves are Not Failed Curls

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What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

I had no clue my hair was considered textured. It waved when it dried, but it was always brushed out when I got out of the shower, so I thought I had weird straight hair. I knew my hair was between curly and straight, but I thought I had to pick one. So I would flat iron it or curl it every day, and think nothing of it. It never occurred to me that I had a hair texture that could stand on its own.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally wavy hair?

I lost a baby on Mother’s Day of 2017. I was grappling for some kind of control in my life, and I decided I wanted to change something about my appearance. I discovered Alyson aka Real Life Curly Girl on YouTube one evening, and I fell down the proverbial “Curly Girl rabbit hole”, and I’ve never looked back. Taking care of my hair and learning how to love it for what it is taught me how to love myself on a deeper level. And the irony is, in my search for control over something, I lost control. Learning to take care of my natural wave has come with MANY ups and downs and factors I can’t control, and it’s been a beautiful journey so far.

Who is your curl crush?

I don’t have a curl crush. I follow and admire many women with lovely hair, and everyone is so different. I work hard to make sure that I don’t compare my waves and curls to anyone else in the Curly Girl community because my hair is my own and unlike anyone else’s. Two women who I completely admire in the Curly Girl community though are Alyson (@reallifecurlygirl“> and Dominique (@powerdomi“>. They both have lovely hair that I admire, yes, but they are so much more. Alyson is a constant support for me and other Wavies on our hair journey, and Dominque is the encourager who helps women know that their waves aren’t failed curls, and she sets a beautiful example of self love.
Texture Tales Kristin on Realizing that Waves are Not Failed Curls

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What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

The most empowering part of this hair health journey for me has been realizing that my waves are not failed curls. They are a valid hair texture that deserves to be talked about and celebrated in the textured hair community. I am able to confidently wear my natural hair every single day, and I swell with joy when someone tells me they think it’s pretty, not because I’m vain, and not because I’ve spent hours curling it like I had done in the past, but because its my natural hair that I am working hard to take good care of through the Curly Girl Method.

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

I cannot live without my micro Puff Cuff and my scalp massager brush!

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

I have many products that I love, but the most consistently wonderful brand for my hair is Alikay Naturals. They are sulfate free, silicone free, paraben free, mineral oil free, and completely natural and open about their ingredients. I cannot live without their Lemongrass Leave In, Creme Brulee styler, and Aloe Berry Gel!

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?

The most challenging part of my healthy hair journey has been giving up heat. I used to love expressing myself by straightening and curling my hair. I have replaced the urge to plug in my iron with exploring new products and product application techniques, and it has been SO worth it!
Texture Tales Kristin on Realizing that Waves are Not Failed Curls

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Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

Deep conditioning on a regular basis and learning how to balance protein and moisture with my fine, high porosity hair has been key to my success. It’s taken lots of trial and error, and it’s all been worth it. There’s not substitution for experience!

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

Our issues with our hair stem from our heart. We feel inadequate. We feel pressure to look a certain way. We feel that we don’t know where to begin, so we never do. Ask yourself this: What is holding me back from learning how to care for my natural hair? And if the answer makes you feel uncomfortable with yourself or disappointed, dig deep and consider this: your hair doesn’t define you. Your heart and actions do. If you decide that embracing your hair will help you to be the confident person you’ve always wanted to be, DO IT!!!

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Texture Tales: LaVondra on Empowering Women To Love Their Coily Hair
Texture Tales LaVondra on Empowering Women To Love Their Coily Hair

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What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

When I was younger my grandmother couldn’t deal with the density and length of my natural hair so she relaxed it when I was about 7 or 8 years-old without asking my mom. So I lived with relaxed hair a majority of my life. When I saw other girls in grade school with naturally coily/kinky hair, they were teased about it and that created a fear in me because I attributed coily natural hair to something that was ugly and negative.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally coily hair?

As I got older the sensitivity of my skin began to change. When ever I used a relaxer, I would break out in hives wherever the relaxer touched. I was basically forced into the Natural Hair World with out ever really having a choice to accept my hair as it naturally was. I was so scared and uncertain about what my natural hair would look like or if I could even take care of it. Once I went back fully natural after transitioning, I fell in love with my hair. It was stronger, longer and fuller. I never seen my hair at this capacity before and I absolutely loved it!

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

The most empowering moment of my natural hair journey is being able to empower and inspire other women to embrace their kinks & coils as well. As 4C representation slowly climbs, my hair type (and length”> have still fallen short as being seen as beautiful in the mass public eye. It’s a wonderful feeling to get messages from women, young girls and even men who have watched my YouTube videos or follow my social media that are given hope and confidence about taking the first steps or continuing on their own natural hair journey.
Texture Tales LaVondra on Empowering Women To Love Their Coily Hair

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How do you protect your curls at night?

At night, no matter what style I am rocking at the time, I always wear my big satin bonnet. I don’t use satin pillow cases so my bonnet is a necessity before calling it a night.

Who is your curl crush?

My curl crush is Temitope also known as NaturallyTemi. She is my hair crush and my complete hair goals!

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

I can not live my natural good life with out my Felicia Leatherwood detangling brush. None of my styles would ever come close to how I see perfect, if it wasn’t for a good detangle.

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

My current winter hair regimen is sticking to the L.C.O method every 2 weeks. I am a huge fan of Creme of Nature products. They’ve assisted me throughout my entire natural hair journey. I also love The Doux. I just started using this brand’s product 2 months ago and it is a 4C haired girl’s dream come true.
Texture Tales LaVondra on Empowering Women To Love Their Coily Hair

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What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?

The most challenging moment of my hair journey is finding the time to actually sit down to wash, deep condition and style my hair. I am a mom of 3 boys and I work full time. When I finally have some time to self care, my hair is the last thing on my mind. Being a lazy natural has its down sides lol!

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

Protective styling has made such a huge impact on my hair. I work outside and my hair usually takes a beating through winter and summer months. Protective styling through extreme weather conditions has really kept my hair healthy and has helped me retain some length, plus drinking more water!

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

My advice to women who are still struggling with loving and embracing their natural texture is to take a step back and ask yourself if you are practicing self love. You can’t love something that is a part of you if you don’t have full blown 100% love for yourself. It starts from within and then spills outward. Looking in the mirror and loving everything about you no matter what standards society set. Your internal beauty will set the pathway to accepting your natural beauty on the outside.
Texture Tales: Ana on How Her Daughter Inspired her To Rock Her Curls
Texture Tales Ana on How Her Daughter Inspired her To Rock Her Curls

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

I was a kid in the early 90s and always saw my mom and older sister rock their curls, but they always had the crunchy wet look. Then, when I was 11 years-old my sister straightened my hair with an iron (I still have a scar on my back from that day”>. I fell in love with how my hair felt and looked straight. I’d beg her to do it all the time.
When I could finally style my own hair and flat irons came out, I was hooked! I rarely let my natural texture be. Since the time I was 14 years-old I’ve been fighting my natural hair almost on a daily basis! I tried all the products, all the chemicals, all the treatments.

What made you decide to embrace your naturally wavy hair?

I had been in a constant battle with my natural hair for over 20 years. I just couldn’t learn to embrace it, but when my daughter turned 14 years-old I saw her start doing the exact same thing I had been doing. She was fighting her beautiful curls and ruining them. I preached how bad it was, but I was still doing the same thing and not teaching her any better! I knew it was time I practiced what I preached so I made it a commitment to embrace my naturally curly hair. It has help is bond to spend together nurturing our curls.
Texture Tales Ana on How Her Daughter Inspired her To Rock Her Curls

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

I started the Curly Girl Method when I learned about if from a Facebook group. As soon as I started getting results and sharing them on that group, fellow curly girls were asking me to set up an Instagram. I’ve only had it for a few months and I can’t believe how quickly it’s grown. The love in the curly community is incredible! Seeing women be so open and kind about our struggles, successes, and experiences is extremely empowering. I’m in constant awe of how many strangers are willing to come together and share advice, a kind word and so much love.
It’s not just about hair, it’s about self love and embracing your authentic self!

How do you protect your curls at night?

I sleep on a satin pillowcase and put my hair in a pineapple. I’ve tried doing scarves and bonnets, but it’s just more than what I want to do. I don’t like to over complicate things and the satin pillowcase works well.

Who is your curl crush?

There are so many beautiful women full of luscious curls, and more importantly advice for fellow curly haired women. I have so many crushes, but my original inspiration was Felicia aka hif3licia.

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

Protein treatments! My hair was so damaged and is high porosity, so once I started doing protein treatments it made all the difference and I still do them regularly.

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

I’m constantly trying products, but it’s usually in this order… low poo, conditioner, leave in, curl enhancer, gel or mousse, light layer of oil on scalp and ends of hair. Diffuse, scrunch out the crunch with a satin glove and fluff. Once or twice a week I do deep conditioner and/or protein treatment. I add steam and cover with a heat cap to penetrate my hair.
The best product I’ve used is a DIY gelatin mask. I add gelatin, chamomille tea, olive oil and honey. My curls tighten up and my hair is very shiny every time I do it!
Texture Tales Ana on How Her Daughter Inspired her To Rock Her Curls

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What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?

Letting go of control has been the hardest! Before I embraced my curls, I knew I could flat iron or curl my hair with a curling iron and I knew the results I’d have. I knew I could make my hair look good. The more consistent I become in my routine the healthier my hair becomes. 

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

Deep conditioning and protein have drastically improved the health of my hair. I can’t stress enough how important it is to figure out your porosity and the needs of your hair and then take the time to do what it needs. 

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

Be inspired by all the beautiful women out there embracing their natural hair. It’s easy to look at mainstream media and want the perfect blow out or curling iron curls we see everywhere… but once you start seeing the gorgeous curls, waves, locs and coils so many women confidently rock, you’ll start having a deeper appreciation for yours. Then you realize that with enough effort and patience, your natural hair will flourish like that too. Social media is a great place to start, because there is a huge community of women who want to support you in your natural texture hair journey!

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Texture Tales: Ashley Shares the CG Advice to Embrace Your Curls
Texture Tales Ashley Shares the CG Advice to Embrace Your Curls

What was it like for you growing up with textured hair?

I hated my curls growing up, no one knew what to do with them and it was just a frizzy mess all the time. Then I met the straightener..

What made you decide to embrace your naturally curly hair?

After loosing all my curls to heat damage I was deviated and began researching transitioning and how to take care of my curls. Of course the natural hair movement came on the scene right on time.

What has been the most empowering moment of your natural hair journey so far?

The most empowering moment was logging on to IG and scrolling down my feed and seeing a bunch of beautiful curly kinky coiled women that looked like me for once.

How do you protect your curls at night?

Big pineapple at the top of my head with a silk scarf.
Texture Tales Ashley Shares the CG Advice to Embrace Your Curls

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Who is your curl crush?

Giofilipinohair on IG! He’s the closest I’ve found to my hair type if it was at it’s healthiest. 

What’s your curly girl essential you can’t live without?

LEAVE IN CONDITIONER and my wet brush— game changers.

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

Rinse and massage my scalp, lots of leave in conditioner and Cantu Curl Activator and gel, wrap in a T-shirt and let air dry for maybe 4-5 hours. Then, diffuse on med-low heat (cool if I’m not in a hurry”> throw on some edge control with a tooth brush and I’m all set!

What has been the most challenging moment of your natural hair journey so far?

Straightening my hair for the first time after 4 years and seeing all the damage and straight pieces after I washed.
Texture Tales Ashley Shares the CG Advice to Embrace Your Curls

Are there any techniques or methods that have made a huge impact on your hair health?

Braids and protective styles. When I feel my hair is trying to get out of line I throw it in 1-2 French braids and leave it in for a few times so my hair can remember it’s curl pattern. 

What’s your advice to women who are still struggling with loving their natural texture?

Curls are beautiful. Everyone and I mean EVERYONE is envious of naturally textured hair. It’s so versatile and defies gravity. Love the crown you were blessed with and show the world your melanin magic!

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