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My Especially Hair Moisture Foundation Review

I like to think of myself as a deep conditioning connoisseur because I love to deep condition my hair. I deep condition weekly for the health of my hair and also because I enjoy it. I love trying different types of deep conditioners on my hair, so when I found out there was a new brand on the block who specialized in deep conditioning, I had to try out their latest product!

Especially Hair was founded from the necessity, by a mom who was struggling to comb her daughter’s hair after swim practice. She searched for several products, but none of them worked, so she decided to create her own. She needed a product that helped to moisturize, condition and detangle the hair all-in-one, and Especially Hair was then created. Especially Hair is known know for using select renewable raw materials that are sustainably sourced in both the formulations and the packaging.

 

Especially Hair Moisture Foundation

Especially Hair’s Moisture Foundation is a multi-purpose deep treatment that may be used as a leave-in conditioner or rinse-out masque. It is labeled as ideal for all curl types, especially Type 3s and 4s. It aims to repair damage from heat styling, chemicals, and UV rays. Moisture Foundation says that you can accomplish detangling and deep conditioning in 15 minutes or less. This product can also be used for our curly men out there too. Especially Hair contains a mix of humectants and also natural oils that will leave the hair feeling healthy and soft. The products are very easy to use, even for the guys.

My thoughts

I was a little concerned with the consistency of this product. It seemed like it was going to clump together and not penetrate my hair. I have a hard time with moisture, so I need a product that will penetrate my hair and just not sit on top. The smell is really clean, and light and the packaging is beautiful. The top looks to be made of wood, something I have never seen with hair products before. I am glad that I don’t judge a book by its cover (or consistency”> because this product did end up penetrating my hair strand. My hair felt very moisturized after use, and it was easier to manage and detangle.

What I like about Especially Hair

Especially Hair aims to provide you with products that allow living the best lifestyle that fits you. This product will work on natural and relaxed hair. You can use it for wash and go’s, heat styling or both. You can swim without worrying about how you will take care of your hair after. As someone who strugglrs to maintain moisture I appreciate that Especially Hair focuses on moisture first.

Have you tried Especially Hair? We’d love to hear what you think of them in the comments.

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These Products Make Transitioning SO Much Easier

The big chop may not be for you, so you decide to transition to natural and grow your relaxer out gradually. Transitioning to natural can be a tough journey, and it requires a lot of time and patience. It can become stressful, especially finding the best products that work for our hair, and particularly when you have type 4 hair.

When transitioning, it is important that the products that you use help you balance your hair with both moisture and protein. As you get more familiar with your hair, you will learn the signs that your moisture and protein are balanced. Here are a few products and accessories to make your transition easier. 

Shampoos

It’s essential to find a really good sulfate-free shampoo because sulfates will strip your hair of moisture and that is a big no-no for transitioners. One of my favorite shampoos during my transition was Creme of Nature Sulfate Free Moisture and Shine Shampoo. I now use Design Essentials Almond and Avocado Shampoo.

 

Conditioners

If you are transitioning, then you know that detangling your hair is probably one of the most challenging parts of your journey right now. I found it so much easier to detangle my hair while it was wet. I would add a moisturizing conditioner like Creme of Nature Mango and Shea Butter Ultra Moisturizing Conditioner to my hair and detangle with a wide tooth comb. Make sure to detangle from starting at your ends and working your way up. It makes the process much easier. For deep conditioning, I love TGIN Honey Miracle Hair Mask. I have used this deep conditioner from the beginning, and it is one of my staple products. Balance your hair out with a moisturizing deep conditioner and a protein deep conditioner like Mielle Organics Babassu Oil and Mint deep conditioner.

Leave-In Conditioners, Moisturizers, and Sealants

Now you may be thinking that because you use a rinse-out conditioner or a deep conditioner that you don’t need a leave-in, but that is not true. Water0based leave ins are amazing for transitioning hair. When I was transitioning EDEN BodyWorks Coconut Shea Leave In Conditioner  was my go to leave-in. It is very lightweight and moisturized my hair very well. I still use it to this day. I also love to use Jane Carter Nourish and Shine as a sealant to seal in moisture or to take town twists. A sealant will help lock the moisture in your hair from your leave in. You can also use oils like grapeseed, jojoba and almond oil as sealants. 

 

Stylers

When I was transitioning, I wore my hair in twists, curls and braids to camouflage my relaxed ends. My favorite styling products while transitioning were light creams like EDEN BodyWorks Coconut Shea Curl Defining Creme. This creme is very lightweight and won’t weigh your hair down. It defines and styles your hair to give you the best styles while transitioning. This was one of my go-to stylers while transitioning and still is to this day. Other stylers that I love include CURLS Blueberry Bliss Twist – Shout Creme and Design Essentials Natural Curl Enhancing Mousse.

Final Advice For Transitioners

I know transitioning can be a rough time that requires a lot of time and patience but stick in there. Develop your hair regimen early on so that you have the framework to follow through your transition. Once you find the products that work best for your hair stick with them.

Are you transitioning? What products do you use?

Let us know in the comments below!

Read next: This Is How You Can Embrace The Awkward Phase of Transitioning 

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Top 15 Natural Hair Salons in Toronto

Are you a curly girl from Canada looking for a salon that specializes in curly hair care? Look no further. We have scouted and found some of the best salons for curly girls located in Toronto, Canada.

The Curl Ambassadors

The Curl Ambassadors is a salon that specializes in catering to naturally curly hair. What sets The Curl Ambassadors apart from other salons is that they strive to make their clients feel welcomed. They offer fancy French-chic “ish” boutique feel to their salon, and they offer a self-serve yummy signature gourmet jelly beans. The Curl Ambassadors services include dry curl cutting which many curly girls rave about. The Curl Ambassadors understand that each curl pattern is different and they provide personalized cuts and shaping for their clients.

Curl Bar Salon

At Curl Bar Salon curly hair is their specialty. Curl Bar is a Deva Inspired Hair Salon located in downtown Toronto. The stylists at Curl Bar Salon are trained at the Devachan Academy in New York. What sets Curl Bar apart is that they specialize in all types and textures of curly hair and are committed to helping you care for your curls. Curl Bar Salon uses the dry curl cutting technique to give your curls shape. Many curly girls lovethis salon because all the services provided include a curl-scription for their at-home regimen.

Born Curly Hair Salon by Kim Gabriel

Kim Gabriel is a Deva Curl trained stylist who has over 15 years of experience. She specializes in curly hair, cuts, color, texturizers and smoothing systems. Customers say that Kim is a good problem solver who is excellent at cutting curls. If you are looking for your next cut, Kim is the expert in Toronto. Her services include color, highlights, smoothing systems, wash and styles and much more.

Kinks Hair Studio and Spa

Kinks Hair Studio and Spa is your one-stop shop for all of your salon needs. At Kinks hair studio they are committed to providing you with the highest quality products, and the most up to date styles by being sensitive to their clients’ needs. Kinks Hair Studio uses some of the finest ingredients in their products that cater to all hair. Kinks Hair Studio and Spa customizes services to fit your personal needs. 

Curl Specialist

The Curl Specialist is located in Kingston, Ontario. Krista Leavitt works with her clients on a personal level, ensuring that they feel the love within their unique natural texture. Utilizing her advanced training in Curly Hair Artistry and Red Seal certifications to give curly and coily clients the best cut experience possible, you can trust your texture to leave her chair hydrated and healthier than ever.

 Gossips Hairstylists Inc.

Mary MacDonald is the founder of Gossips Hairstylists Inc. and has been doing hair for over 30 years. She was inspired to focus on curly hair because she noticed the lack of products, knowledge and expertise for curlies and she wanted to provide a solution. Gossips Hairstylists Inc. specializes in color correction, Olaplex and curly haircuts.

Urban Curls Toronto

Urban Curls Toronto is a full service for curly hair. Urban Curls Toronto was founded in 2015 by Keina Morgan and Charly Belle. They both have over 30 years of combined experience in hair care. They offer services of curly cuts, wash and go’s, scalp treatments, twist outs braids and extensions. Customers say that they love the relaxing environment at Urban Curls Toronto.

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Curly Girls Studio

Curly Girls Studio offers a variety of services that include private, one-on-one experiences with a stylist. The goal of Curly Girls Studio is to bring out the best in your curls while offering a relaxing environment for their clients. Curly Girls Studio will also teach you how to care for your curls at home so you can keep your curls looking great every day. Curly Girls Studio offers Deva cuts, rake and shake washing, smoothing systems, color and much more.

Studio 86 Salon

The founder and head stylist at Studio 86 Salon is Kahlae. She has over ten years experience in the industry. Kahlae can work with all hair types, but she specializes in textured, curly and natural hair. Studio 86 focuses on catering to all of Toronto’s diverse hair types. The only priority of Studio 86 is to give your curls the TLC that they deserve. Studio 86 uses nothing but the finest products on their clients to help them look and feel their best. Studio 86 offers color, cuts, extensions, updos, haircuts and much more.

Hair Sprung

Hair Sprung is a full-service salon in the Junction neighborhood of Toronto. Hair Sprung is dedicated to providing you with the hottest hairstyles while teaching you about the latest techniques in the industry. The mission of Hair Sprung is to provide you with quality hair care services for both men and women. Hair Sprung offers personalized services to every one of their clients. The stylists only service one client at a time, which allows for a personalized experience with little distraction.

Jonathan Torch Curly Hair Institute

The Jonathan Torch Curly Hair Institute offers unique services and techniques for all types of curly hair. Jonathan has been working with curly hair for over 25 years and created a line for curlies called the Curl Keeper.  The Curly Hair Institute is known for educating clients and offers updos, color, haircuts, and also scalp treatments. Curly girls love this salon because at 2-3 PM they offer a happy hour and hair services are discounted for 25% off  Monday through Thursday.

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Loc ‘N Twists

Loc ‘N Twists Natural Hair Studio is a hair studio with experts in the creation of dread-locs, twists, braids and barbering but are not limited to those areas. At Loc ‘N Twists, they specialize in all hair types. Their mission is to educate, manage and provide holistic solutions and techniques to each and every client in search of their own natural hair solution. Customers enjoy Loc ‘N Twists because stylists provide reliable information on natural hair care, beauty, and also holistic health and wellness. Loc ‘N Twists provides natural hair services of locs, barbering, twists, braids and much more.

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Aphrodite’s Hair Sanctuary

Aphrodite’s Hair Sanctuary doesn’t believe in a bad haircut. Aphrodite’s Hair Sanctuary is focused on providing every single service with the highest levels of customer satisfaction. They offer a variety of services including Deva Cuts, wash and styles, and even men’s services. Customers rave about their calming and relaxing atmosphere.

Donna Dolphy Hair

Donna Dolphy Hair Salon prided themselves on their excellent service and quality work. Their stylists use cutting-edge techniques to customize your look, so it reflects your character and makes your personality shine through. Dona Dolphy Hair provides coloring services, updos, natural hair styling and much more. Customers rave about how the stylists listen to their client’s needs and wants.

Prisma Hair Design

Prisma Hair Design is rated as Toronto’s best curly hair salon. Prisma Hair Design is the first Ouidad certified salon in Canada since 2004. Prisma Hair Design stylists are The Curly Hair and Cuts Experts. They offer precision cutting for straight hair, wigs hair cuts, color and color correction.

Have you visited any of these salons in the Toronto, Canada area? Share your reviews with us. 

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I Tried LivSo, the Latest Dry & Itchy Scalp Solution

Do you suffer from dry and itchy scalp? If you do, then you know how embarrassing it is when your hair flakes and there is dandruff all over your cute black shirt. I recently got the chance to try out a new product line called LivSo. LivSo was created to give people with curly hair a gentle and effective solution for dealing with dry scalp and brittle hair.

LivSo was created by Dr. Shari Hicks-Graham who is a Board-certified dermatologist. In her work, Dr. Graham-Hicks helped people with curly and kinky hair manage their scalp issues. Hicks- Graham recognized that scalp issues were could be a culprit that lead to hair loss. She noticed that there was not a product that truly worked for dry and itchy scalp as it should and that didn’t create additional problems for her patients. She began to notice how embarrassing, stressful and emotional these scalp issues were for her patients. So, Dr. Hicks-Graham decided to do something to help with her patients’ scalp issues. LivSo’s mission is to give people with curly and kinky hair a gentle and effective solution for dealing with dry scalp and brittle hair. LivSo was created based on scientific expertise and clinical experience. 

Moisturizing Shampoo 

This Moisturizing Shampoo has key ingredients such as coconut oil, glycolic acid and xylitol that help to reduce dryness, flaking, and itching. It has a very rich consistency and leaves your hair feeling clean and not stripped. It’s sulfate free and can be used on relaxed and natural hair. Some of the key ingredients include coconut oil to keep the scalp healthy and also to help with hair growth.

My Thoughts 

I was impressed that it did not leave my hair stripped. I am always skeptical of shampoos that are geared towards dry scalp because in my experience they leave your hair feeling stripped, but this shampoo did not. I also noticed that with multiple uses my dandruff has been under control.

Moisturizing Conditioner

This moisturizing conditioner has hand­-selected ingredients that are formulated to help hydrate your hair and scalp. This conditioner is also very rich to give your hair slip and help ease the detangling process. 

My Thoughts 

I was impressed by the slip in this conditioner. If a conditioner does what it says it will then I am sold. Another plus, is this conditioner is infused with Abyssinian oil to help provide your hair with a natural shine plus moisture.

Moisturizing Lotion

The moisturizing lotion is very lightweight. It is intended for use on the scalp to help condition and strengthen the hair. You can use it as a leave-in or as a daily moisturizer. It is infused with willow bark extract to exfoliate your scalp and remove flakes.

My Thoughts

I used this for a daily moisturizer and my scalp felt amazing! I felt a difference in my scalp after using it.

My Overall Review 

I love the fact that this line was created by a dermatologist who saw a need to help her patients who suffered from dry scalp. Just the story behind the line alone made me want to try it. As a person who does suffer from dandruff and dry scalp who has thick curly hair, it is nice to see a line made with me in mind. I will keep these products in my regimen to use as maintenance for my dandruff.

Would you give LivSo a try?

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These are the Holy Grails for Your Kids’ Hair

Finding natural hair products for my daughter has been a journey. She has an entirely different hair texture from mine. Some things that work for my hair don’t necessarily work for her hair. My daughter has really soft fine hair, but it is also very thick. So it was a bit of a struggle finding products for her hair that wouldn’t weigh her hair down, but would moisturize her hair as well. Having a regimen for your child is just as important as finding products that work. Through trial and error, I have found some staple products that work well on her hair. Here are some of my go-to products that I use on my daughter’s hair.

Shampoo 

I have two shampoos that I love using on my daughter’s hair right now. The Honey Baby Naturals Honeychild Moisture & Scalp Balance Gentle Shampoo. This shampoo is amazing, and a little goes a long way. I love this shampoo for my daughter’s hair because it is sulfate-free and very gentle, but it still cleanses her hair very well. This shampoo also has a healing blend of honey and chamomile which helps to leave the hair and scalp moisturized after washing and helps with dry or flaky scalp.

I also love the EDEN BodyWorks CoCo Shea Shea Berry Natural Detangling Shampoo because it’s a very gentle detangling shampoo that makes my daughter’s hair very soft and easy to detangle.

 

Conditioner

If you follow me online, then you already know how important conditioning the hair is to me. There is no exception when it comes to my daughter’s hair. I recently fell in love with Creme of Nature’s Mango & Shea Butter Ultra- Moisturizing Conditioner for my daughter’s hair. I use this as a deep conditioner and let it sit on her hair for 15-20 minutes. I can easily rake my fingers through her hair afterward and detangling is a breeze! I also love using Honey Baby Naturals Knot My Honey Instant Detangler for her leave in. This conditioner melts all the tangles away and makes my job so much easier when styling her hair. I love this leave-in conditioner because it’s very light weight and it smells amazing as well.

Styler

When it comes to styling my daughter’s hair, the products I use to style depend on what type of style I’m creating. I love using Eden BodyWorks Kids Coco Shea Berry Natural Curly Creme. I look for products that define my daughter’s hair and also tame frizz. This works so well on her hair. I also love the Eden BodyWorks Kids Coco Shea Berry Natural Smoothing Gel. This gel gives a very flexible hold. Since my daughter’s hair is on the fine side, I can’t use a lot of heavy gels on her hair. This one does the trick, and I can style her hair with ease. I also use light weight oils such as grapeseed oil to seal in the moisture to her hair.

What products are some of your holy grails when it comes to your children’s hair?

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Your Holy Grail Product Should Do These 4 Things

I consider myself a natural OG in the natural hair community. I have tried about every product that you can think of on the market. When there is a new product that comes out my eyes get big, and I always want to try it out! I guess that is the inner product junkie in me, but when it comes to my holy grail products they have to meet my standards to stick around in my regimen. When I am on the hunt for a new product that could possibly be a holy grail, I look for certain characteristics in my products. Here is what I look for in my holy grail products.

Help with Moisture

I have low porosity hair, so it is very hard for my hair to retain moisture. My holy grail products must help with maintaining moisture in my hair. The key for me is a good deep conditioner that penetrates my hair. I have talked about this deep conditioner a million times, but it works well on my hair. TGIN Honey Miracle Hair Mask is my ultimate Holy Grail. It is everything I look for in a deep conditioner. It helps keep my hair moisturized and healthy. I love to use it with steam to get even better results, as steam opens up my cuticles to help get the product in my hair and penetrate. So as long as a product can show me over and over again that it can moisturize my hair, it is a keeper and a holy grail.

Define My Curls

I have thick hair so finding products that define my hair is important to me. If a product can define my curls and keep my hair moisturized it’s a win-win. I can’t decide when it comes to holy grail curl defining products, but I have a few favorites. EDEN Bodyworks Coconut Shea Curl Defining Creme and CURLS Blueberry Bliss Twist-N-Shout Cream are my favorites. Both of these products work well with my low porosity curls and give me definition out of this world!

  

Provide Versatility

If a product is versatile and can serve multiple purposes, then I am all for it. I love mousses particularly because I can use them for rod sets and also on a twist out. Versatility is also important to me because it helps me save money on using one product for multiple uses. One of my favorite mousses to use is Creme Of Nature Argan Oil Style & Shine Foaming Mousse.

No Harsh Ingredients

I like to avoid products with harsh ingredients on my hair. Now I will use sulfates from time to time, and I am not ashamed. I do typically avoid sulfates and harsh alcohols on my hair. I don’t like products that will dry my hair out. I avoid any products that if after using them my hair is left dry, brittle, and lifeless. I love organic ingredients and will try to use products that have them in my regimen from time to time. As long as the products I use don’t have any of my no-no ingredients, then I will try them out.

What do you look for in your holy grail products?

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What I Like (And Don’t Like) About the Tress App for Natural Hair

If you are like me, then you always get tons of questions about how you style your hair and what products I use. I almost always get stopped in the target aisle browsing for new products with questions about my hair. I was so intrigued when I found out about this app called Tress founded by Esther Olatunde, Priscilla Hazel, and Cassandra Sarfo. The Tress app is a new natural hair app for all things natural hair. The founders created the Tress app because they love changing their hairstyles and were always on the lookout for interesting and unique hairstyles. They got inspiration from social media and search engines, but always wanted more information about each hairstyle and the chance to ask more information. 

About the App

I have got good news for you. The Tress app is totally free! All photos are public by default which means they are visible to anyone using Tress. They are exploring versions that may later consider privacy settings. The tress app helps to explain so many hairstyles including weaves, braids, locs, blowouts, and much more.

Tress is a fun and easy way to share your hairstyle pictures “tressies” with your friends through the app. Take a tressie, (picture”> to upload on the Tress app. You can add information like name of hair-extension, or even the name and location of a salon, and the price range of the particular hairstyle. It gives naturalistas the access to an online community where you can create a profile, post pictures of your hair, share the products that you use, and you can give how-tos on how to get a look.

Why I like

I love that it provides women with information about natural hair. It is also cool because it can help stylists and salons build clientele. I found some cool new hairstyles that I loved and will try to recreate. I love that the app has a Q&A section where people can ask questions about hair and others can answer. When I was a new natural I found that when I first went natural forums were so helpful. 

What I don’t like

I don’t like that you have to put a price range for each style. Some of the styles I do, don’t involve weave or a stylist so many times that portion of the app didn’t apply to my styles. 

Would I recommend?

I would totally recommend this app to any curly girl who needs a little inspiration for their hairstyles. The app is relatively easy to use, and it’s fun!

Will you try out the Tress app?

15 Natural Hair Salons in L.A.

Are they any curlies that live in Los Angeles, California? We went on the hunt looking for the best salons for healthy hair in your area from expert curly hair cuts to protective updos, we got you.  Check out these salons below and find your dream stylist below.

Photo via FB @BatiaandAleezaHairSalon

Batia & Aleeza Beauty & Hair Salon

Batia & Aleeza are two sisters who have been working together for over 35 years as hair dressers in California. They’re passionate about curly hair and their specialty is cutting and styling. They also carry their own hair care line and clients rave about their amazing experience receiving  the best haircut of their life!

Mahogany Hair Revolution

Mahogany Hair Revolution is a natural hair salon and Trichology clinic that offers a variety of services to their clients. We are a natural hair care salon and Trichology clinic, offering a variety of services to our clients including, hair maintenance services, styling service, professional training for stylists, hair education workshops for parent and private consulting for hair loss and scalp discomfort. Founder and executive stylist Dr. Kari Williams had a vision to help textured men and women worldwide return to natural, her motto is,”The Revolution Will Begin One Head At A Time.”

Ouidad Salon- Santa Monica

The pioneer of the curly hair industry, Ouidad opened the first salon in the country catering exclusively to curly hair in 1984. Since then her trademarked cutting and styling techniques and line of award-winning curl optimizing products, have changed the lives of curly and wavy-haired people everywhere. One of the flagship salons is ocated in Santa Monica, CA. Ouidad Salon LA caters to curls and textured hair specializing in cutting, coloring and relaxers for all hair textures.

I Love Lulu Hair Cafe

I Love Lulu Hair Cafe is a unique hair salon that provides services and products to help grow and maintain healthy hair. Lulu Hair Cafe uses a 3-step approach to styling your hair. They promote a healthy hair and scalp health by using an exclusive line of I Love Lulu herbal infused, all-natural hair treatments combined with steam therapy, as well as their I Love Lulu shampoo, conditioner and finishing products. The stylists at I Love Lulu’s are licensed stylists that are trained in expert styling techniques for natural hair of all textures.

Capella Salon

In 1995 Capella Salon was created and is currently run by Shai and Nicole Amiel. Capella Salon aims to provide the finest in hair and skincare services to their clients. Capella Salon specializes in  haircuts, Deva Curl, waxing, extensions and much more. Clients have shared their amazing experience with the curly hair community saying “everything from the service to the styling was awesome.”

Odessa Renia Salon

Odessa Renia Salon is a modern, professional, diverse, multi-cultural salon which caters to women from all different ethnic backgrounds with textured hair. Odessa Renia is committed to providing a reliable service experience. Odessa Renia Salon offers color, cuts, natural hair styling, weaves and also protective styling.

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Jama Hair Studio

Jama Hair Studio is also a beauty college offering education for stylists. Jama Hair Studio is located in the Woodland Hills. The owner of Jama Hair salon is  Jama Williams. Her goal for Jama Hair Studio is to pamper her clients from head to toe and to bring out their individual natural beauty. Jama’s Hair Studio services include two strand twist, sister locs, coil sculpting, extensions, wig styling, roller sets, layered cut and much more.  Jama Hair Studio also offers skin care and nail services.

Salon of Curls

Salon of Curls is dedicated to working with you to create and maintain a style that makes you feel confident and gorgeous both in the salon and at home and gives you more happy time in front of the mirror. Salon of Curls specializes in color, cut, curl shaping, and also offers hair treatments to help those with damaged hair return their hair to its healthy state.

Photo via FB @RehabSalon

Rehab Salon

Rehab Salon is Hollywood’s premier boutique salon that specializes in Wavy, Curly, and Kinky hair. Rehab Salon offers experienced stylists that are dedicated to providing stylish, attractive and low maintenance hairstyles for men and women. Rehab Hair Salon offers services for natural hair, haircuts, roller sets, loc maintenance, twist outs, flat iron and much more.

Photo via FB @KnoxSalon

Knox Salon

Knox Salon specializes in the ultimate healthy hair care. The mission of Knox Salon is to provide service for all hair textures from African American curly hair to naturally straight and wavy hair. Knox Salon caters to all hair types and has stylists who are well educated to care for your hair. Knox Salon is a small and intimate studio located in the Beverlywood area. Each client of Knox Salon is given a consultation, and from there a maintenance program is developed for their hair based on their specific needs. Knox Salon offers color, cut, extensions and much more.

Ricciolo Salon

Ricciolo Salon is a hair salon and day spa that provides beauty services such as haircuts, color, massages, makeup and more. This one stop shop is known for being a salon that caters to all hair textures and provides curly cuts that exceeds their clients expectations, keeps them coming back and has clients highly recommending it to their curl friends.

Leo’s Curls

Leo, the owner of Leo’s Curls,has always had a  dream and mission to help her clients embrace their natural curls and texture.  Her knowledge of curly hair techniques and hair care ingredients helps her clients showcase their natural curls while keeping their tresses healthy and beautiful. Leo is a Deva certified stylist, and she specializes in all hair types. Leo’s Curls offers color, cuts, blow-dry, natural styling and much more.

Curls on Top Hair Studio

Curls on Top is Orange County’s only curly hair studio specializing in the unique needs of the curly hair client.  It is where curly hair is accepted and celebrated. Curls on Top specializes in custom haircuts that are unique to your curl type and a hair care routine that addresses the particular needs of your hair. Curls on Top also offers color and scalp and conditioning treatments.

Photo via FB @Kimble Hair Studio

Kimble Hair Studio

Kimble Hair Studio is a full service, multi-cultural hair salon located in West Hollywood, California. Kimble Hair Studio caters to multiple hair textures including natural hair. Kimble has worked with many celebrities including Beyonce. Kim Kimble also developed a line of natural hair products.

Sekai Natural Hair Gallery

Sekai which means one who brings laughter and joy [in the Shona tongue of South Afrika]”> is a Natural Hair Gallery that to offers a holistic approach to natural hair care. Sekai Natural Hair Gallery offers the services of loc styling, natural hair styling, braids twists, extensions and also children’s hair care.

If you go to a salon in the Los Angeles area that you love, give them a shout out in the comments!

What Social Media Does to My Self-Esteem as a Naturalista

I consider myself an OG curly girl since I began my transition in 2009. Throughout my natural hair journey, my hair has changed textures drastically. When I first went natural, I considered my hair to be loosely curly. After the birth of my daughter, my hair texture drastically changed and now is very kinky and considered to be a type 4b-4c. I don’t like to hair type, but some people prefer it. There are so many naturals shown in the media that have beautiful loose curls that would be considered type 3 hair that doesn’t look like mine. There is not a ton of representation for type 4 girls like me, but I don’t let that get to me. I love my hair no matter what “hair type” they constantly show in the media. 

Comparison is the thief of joy.
Theodore Roosevelt

My biggest piece of advice for anyone who is dealing with possible curl envy is do not compare. I will admit that Instagram is flooded with so many gorgeous curly hair girls and I used to always compare my hair to other curly girls, but I had to learn that it was not best for my confidence. It’s important to learn to love yourself and embrace your beauty, flaws and all. Instead, I took the time to learn my hair and what styles, and products work best for me and my curls. Remember, comparison is the thief of joy so as hard as it may be, save yourself and don’t compare.

Following IG Accounts

I choose to stay inspired by so many curly girls on Instagram killing it in the natural hair game. Some of my favorite IG accounts to follow for hair inspiration are ItsDaynaDayne, JD_Winters, KlassyKinks, and Nae2Curly. I also love to follow celebrities for inspiration like Tracee Ellis Ross, Yaya Dacosta, Solange and Jill Scott. 

I believe we can conquer hair bias by accepting and loving ourselves. Our hair is an expression of who we are. I believe by learning not to look at hair and automatically compare it will help us overcome hair bias. I don’t feel the need to always ask another curly girl what her hair “type” is even though I get asked that question a lot, and I just say, my hair H for healthy. If we get rid of hair typing altogether, I think the natural hair community would be a better place because sometimes media makes us think that one hair type is “better” over another which is not the case. All curly hair is beautiful, and I am finally starting to see a little bit more representation in the media of all hair types.

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Here’s How to Tell If You Need a Leave-In or a Moisturizer

Caring for our curls takes time, patience, and many times trial and error. Everywhere you look there are a ton of products on the market that we can use for our curls. From shampoos, conditioners, stylers, gels, and creams it can be a bit confusing on what all of these products do for our hair and if they are similar. I will admit that when I first went natural, I had a ton of questions about the products that I was using in my healthy hair regimen. One of my biggest questions specifically was, “What’s the difference between a leave in conditioner and a moisturizer?” Well if you were wondering like me, keep reading to find out how they differ, how they are used, and some benefits they both provide.

 

When should you use a leave-in conditioner?

The purpose of a leave-in conditioner is to help to fortify the hair strands with strength and also to add moisture. Leave-in conditioners are typically used on damp hair directly after shampooing and are generally water based. Leave-in conditioners are one of the best products designed to give your hair hydration, elasticity, and manageability.

You should use a leave in conditioner if you:

  • have low porosity hair
  • need help with detangling
  • like to spruce up second or third day hair

Low-porosity hair is very hard to moisturize and water based leave-in conditioners work wonders because they help to penetrate your hair shaft. Leave-in conditioners are also great for helping to detangle your hair. Leave-in conditioners that have some slip make a world of difference when detangling the hair. Some of my favorite leave-in conditioners include EDEN BodyWorks Coconut Shea leave in, Treluxe Untie the Knot Leave-in Conditioner and Jane Carter Revitalizing Leave-in.

When should you use a daily moisturizer?

Daily moisturizers are used to help keep the hair moisturized and manageable between washes. You can use a daily moisturizer on wet or damp, or dry hair. Daily moisturizers are on the richer side, so they resemble creams, butters or lotions.

You should use a daily moisturizer if

  • your hair is dry
  • you like to moisturize your hair on a daily basis to keep your curls bouncy

Some moisturizers are heavier while others are lightweight. If you have high porosity hair, a heavy moisturizer or sealant would be great to use.  Jane Carter Solution Nourish and Shine is an amazing heavy butter that is also good to use as a daily moisturizer. The NaturallyCurly community voted Oyin Handmade Hair Dew as their favorite moisturizer in 2016 in the annual Best of the Best awards.

Do you know your porosity?

There are three levels of porosity: low, medium, and high. Low porosity hair takes a long time for water to penetrate and saturate the hair, and it also takes a long time to dry. High porosity quickly becomes wet when water touches the hair, and it also dries quickly. If you don’t know your hair’s porosity level, here are 3 quick ways to figure it out.

Your porosity will be a big determining factor in which products and what kinds of products react well to your hair, so it’s important to have a basic understanding of this. For curly girls with low porosity hair, lightweight leave-in conditioners work wonders. Heavier creams and moisturizers don’t work well for low porosity hair but work really well for those with high porosity hair because they are heavier.

 

Which one do you prefer or do you prefer both? Share with us below, we’d love to hear from you.

If you want to learn more about the differences in ingredients between leave-ins and moisturizers, read here.

Looking for a leave-in? Here are a few of our favorites.  

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The Products Boo & I Share & Love

My husband has locs and I always find his hands in my product stash. Every time I go to grab my favorite products I always find that they are running low. At first, I thought I was heavy-handed when it came to my products, but I later learned that it was actually my husband sneaking into my stash and using the products on himself. I never knew my husband loved some of the same products that I love. Here are some of our favorite products.

Creme of Nature Detangling & Conditioning Leave-In Conditioner 

We go through bottles of this leave in conditioner monthly. Not only do we both use it, but I also use it on my daughter’s hair as well. I love this leave in because it leaves my hair soft and easy to manage. My husband loves the smell and loves how it keeps his hair hydrated. My husband told me that having locs it is sometimes very hard to keep the hair moisturized. He uses a leave in daily because he wants his scalp to thrive and his hair to continue to stay healthy.

Creme of Nature Perfect Edges Extra Hold Edge Control 

The new growth that my husband gets with his locs is insane. On those days when my husband can’t get to the salon to get his hair retwisted, he sneaks into my stash and uses my edge control. He loves the way Creme of Nature’s edge control smells, and it gives his hair hold. He will sometimes use this to re-twist a few of the locs in the front of his hair. Or to slick down unruly new growth flyaways.

EDEN BodyWorks Citrus Fusion Refresher Spray

The new EDEN BodyWorks Citrus Fusion Refresher Spray is also a new staple in my household. This is another product that I use on my daughter’s hair as well. We love this product because of its dual use for skin and hair. It is so soothing on your skin, and it leaves your hair shiny. I love to use this to spruce up my second-day hair and also after I get out of the shower. I spray a little on, and my skin feels so amazing. My husband likes to use it to refresh his locs in the morning. He told me that he uses it because it is very lightweight and smells good.

Be Kekoa Tamanu Oil Blend

This oil is simply amazing. The Be Kekoa Tamanu Oil and 100% certified, pure, therapeutic grade (CPTG”> essential oils of your choosing. For my blend, I chose lavender and Hawaiian Sandalwood. My husband thinks this oil is one of the best oils that he has tried. He uses it on his scalp to prevent dry scalp. This oil has so many uses. You can also use it on your skin as well. My husband has really dry feet, and this oil has been a lifesaver for his feet. I use this product on my scalp, I have also used it to help with stretch marks, and on my skin. This product was recently introduced to us and will remain one of our favorites oils and holy grails.

Do you and your boo share products? Which ones do you love?

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Everyone Who Colors Their Hair Should Know These Tips
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Are you a curly girl that likes to color your hair?

Color is a fun way to switch up your look and now that Spring arrived, many curlies are considering adding a pop of color for the new season. It’s important to have a healthy hair regimen in rotation already, but essential for when you color your hair . We spoke with stylist Lakia Woods of Chicago Curl Collective for her tips to maintain your color and how to avoid damaging your curls. Here is what she told us.

1. Use protein rich products

Hair is made up of protein filaments called Keratin.  Healthy hair needs to have a good protein, moisture, and hydration balance. Products with protein help to temporarily rebuild the hair structure when it is exposed to harsh conditions that leave the hair brittle, dull or damaged.

2. Avoid these ingredients

There is a laundry list of products to avoid. If I had to choose five ingredients to avoid in products, they would be:

  1. diethanolamine
  2. alcohol
  3. parabens
  4. harsh sulfates
  5. petroleum

3. Look for these ingredients

When purchasing products, you should look for sulfate free options, and products containing:

4. Deep condition regularly

After a color service, I always recommend my clients to install a regimen of cleansing and deep conditioning the hair every 1 to 2 weeks. Deep conditioners work to rebuild the moisture and protein molecules in the hair after a color service. Keep in mind that cleansing your hair is just as important as conditioning.

5. Consult a stylist on your trim and touch up schedule

I recommend to my clients to trim every 10 to 12 weeks with or without color. Every head of hair isn’t the same, nor can I advice one person to trim as often as the next. I would consult with a hair care professional to determine if this is best or if it’s necessary. How often you recolor or get touch ups varies, depending on the technique. I usually say every 2-3 months. Those with silvers may color more frequently based on comfort level. Keep in mind the normal rate of hair growth is up to a half inch a month.

6. Use less heat

Heat is not a bad thing when you use less of it. If you are a straight natural, try not to use a flat iron or curling iron in between your hair appointments. Use techniques such as pin curling or wrapping to keep certain styles.

7. Step up your regimen

If you are very low maintenance with your hair care regimen, you may need to step it up. Keep in mind that a good regimen involves cleansing, conditioning, trimming, moisturizing, hydrating, sealing the ends, and protecting your hair at night. It is very easy to obtain healthy, colored hair as long as you take care of your colored tresses.

8. Switch your cleanser

Color-treated shampoos or sulfate free shampoos are best after color processes. Stick to professional brands.

9. Lighten gradually

You cannot go from dark brown to icy blond in one sitting. Our hair isn’t made for that type of strenuous exercise. I’d advise clients to achieve colors 2-4 levels lighter from your natural color or highlights for the first go around. Once your hair is back in a good state, then you can go lighter. Don’t risk the health of your hair for a finished look. Color corrections are pretty pricy, and not all stylists are made equal. So please consult before you commit.

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Top 15 Natural Hair Salons in Atlanta

Are you a curly girl in the Atlanta area? Are you looking for the best natural hair salons around to get your hair styled? We searched for the best salons in Atlanta. Here are some of the top salons in the Atlanta area.

Loop Salon Atlanta

Loop Salon is an Ouidad approved salon that specializes in multi- textural and natural hair styling. This salon is unique because it caters to the hair care needs of the modern-day, chic, working woman, with an emphasis on best practices for care, styling, and maintenance of ALL hair types. Loop Salon located in Atlanta, Georgia, mission is to enrich the community through education of healthy hair in a trendy, environmentally aware atmosphere.
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Curltopia

Curltopia specializes in providing curly men and women of all hair textures an unforgettable experience with expert training in coloring, cutting and styling. Clients rave about their “professionalism, welcoming atmosphere and educated stylists who give them the best haircut ever!” Curltopia is located in Smyrna, GA and strives to educate clients on how to care for their hair once they leave the salon and create a healthy hair regimen. 

Exotic Textures Hair Studio

Exotic Textures Hair Studio specializes in natural hair at all lengths with chemical-free styling techniques. Ayanna is a trusted healthy hair care professional who specializes in textured and sleek hair styles, locks, braids, natural hair and protective styles, such as sew-in weaves. They also offer a hair extensions collection, called  Exotic Textures Virgin Hair Extensions, that has a variety from Natural Straight to Afro Kinky.

Natural Creations

Natural Creations is a salon that is known for their positive vibes and creativity! The amazing thing about the stylists at Natural Creations Salon makes outcalls to their clients in the comfort of their own home. Natural Creations salon offers services including twists, braids, locs, coloring and much more.

Too Groovy Salon

Too Groovy Salon is a salon that focuses on healthy hair care. The owner, Robin D. Groover, has helped transform the hair of thousands of women from coast to coast. The hair care specialists at Too Groovy Salon use award winning techniques in the arts, sciences, and methodology of advanced hair care to achieve optimal results.

Natural Xpression

Natural Xpression Salon is Atlanta’s hottest salon for curly, kinky, wavy and natural hair textures! The mission if this salon is to ensure that their client’s Xperience  Exceeds their Xpectations!  Natural xpression salon offers a comprehensive personal hair consultation where their clients voice their goals for their hair, and they offer guidance on the management of your tresses based on your goals and concerns.  At the conclusion of your service, you will receive a personal hair care regimen designed and recommended especially for you! The atmosphere is comforting, and curly girls love it.

Oh! My Nappy Hair

Oh! My Nappy Hair Salon has been serving the natural hair communities for over 28 years. Oh! My nappy hair started in business because they noticed a need in the communities for salons that cater to curly textures. Oh! My Nappy Hair aims to help you get your natural hair to a healthy state. They also help assist with transitioning from relaxed to natural hair. 

Replenish Salon

Replenish Salon is known for “healthy hair stylists.” They have devoted their careers to healthy hair practices above anything else. The mission of Replenish Salon is to provide a unique, relatable, and caring experience to clients who desire one on one services in the midst of their busy lives.  Replenish Salon uses their passion for the industry, and knowledge of the strand, to personally hand pick exclusive products with essential ingredients that will replenish your hair with what it needs internally to be healthy and grow. Replenish Salon uses the science-driven technology of micro misting. At each visit, they guarantee to offer the perfect balance between hydration, replenishment, and love.

The Damn Salon

The Damn Salon is not your everyday hair salon. They are all about hair, make-up, natural hair and high fashion. The Damn Salon focuses on the styling and maintenance of natural hair. They do not promote chemical or heat processing. The Damn Salon takes pride in providing their clients with an endless number of natural hair styling options and they continue to share guidelines on the care and growth of natural hair.

Southern Curl

Southern Curl specializes in curly hair, all textures, and curl patterns. The owner and master stylist, Robin Sjoblom, aims to tame frizz, one curl at a time, and to help educate her Curl friends to care for and embrace their curls for life. The Southern Curl team is known for making every client feel like royalty when they walk in their salon doors, to the minute they walk out! Aside from offering specialty curly cuts and color, they write unique ‘hair prescriptions’ of product and styling recommendations based on the client’s needs and preferences to help maintain a healthy hair regimen once they leave the salon.

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Curlie Girlz Rock

Curlie Girlz Rock is a chic and stylish salon located in Smyrna, Georgia. Curlie Girlz Rock serves the Atlanta, Smyrna, Marietta, Buckhead and surrounding areas. They are committed to providing the highest level of service possible for their clients. They offer a relaxing and comfortable environment that is suitable for quality conversation between the client and stylist. At Curlie Girlz Rock Salon 100% of their clients are all Natural. Curlie Girlz Rock offers a variety of services from steam therapy, to color and straight hair styling.

HoneeComb Natural Hair Salon

Honee Comb Salon is as sweet as its name! The stylists at Honee Comb are as friendly as they are talented. HoneeComb Natural Hair Salon specializes in Afro blowouts, color and style, deep steam treatment and flat twist to name just a few. HoneeComb Natural Hair Salon is open  Monday to Sunday. Naturals love this salon because of the hours of operation. You can get an appointment any time of the week!

Salon Bella Dama

Salon Bella Dama is a diverse salon that specializes in all hair types and textures. Salon Bella Dama is an upscale beauty salon that is unlike any other in the Atlanta area. Salon Bella Dama aims to create an atmosphere to make clients feel like a Hollywood A-Lister. They offer chic and modern décor and very talented salon staff. Bella Dama offers their clients extensive styling options that include rod sets, twist sets, Bantu knots, silk infusion presses, and also haircuts and coloring. Salon Bella Dama uses the finest hair care products available. They aim to restore your hair to its natural luster and sheen.

Texturz Hair Studio

Healthy hair is a priority, not an option at Texturz Hair Studio. This natural hair salon was opened in 2003 in Duluth, Georgia. The name and meaning of “Texturz” came from the description “Textures, ” and it means the shape and physical structure of what hair really is. Texturz Hair Studio offers straw sets, cornrows, locs, twist sets, conditioning and protein treatments much more!

Kinky Peaches Hair Salon

Kinky Peaches is a natural hair salon created by Monique Beoa in Atlanta, GA. Monique Boea created Kinky Peaches to give women in the Metro Atlanta area a one-stop resource for caring for their natural hair. There are no chemicals used at Kinky Peaches. All clients get a 20-minute steam hydration treatment with their service. Kinky Peaches aims to keep their salon heat and chemical free!

Have you checked out any of these salons in Atlanta?

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Here’s What NOT to Do Before You Dye Your Hair
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Have you been looking to change your hair color for the new season? Before you book your hair appointment with your stylist to dye your hair, it’s important to understand the process and prepare properly. There are some things to consider before your next appointment and questions that you should ask your hair stylist. Like, “How should you prep for your hair appointment?” We spoke with hair stylist and educator, LaToyah Smith of My Toy Art, and she let us know all the details on what to do and what not to do before your next hair color appointment.

Should you wash your hair before dyeing it?

Smith: “Shampooing your hair yourself before coloring isn’t always necessary because the stylist needs to see what he or is is working with before a chemical service. I would suggest planning for more time at the Salon and getting it shampooed there. Unless you’ve already consulted with your stylist and he or she instructed you to do so, it is best not to shampoo your hair before your appointment.”

“Here are a few things not to do prior getting a color service done.”

  • Do not scratch your scalp

  • Do not use CHEMICAL services (at home coloring, tinting or relaxing”>

  • Do not install extensions in your hair

  • Do not put stress on the hair (rubber bands, excessive heat (flat iron”>, or put a lot of products on your hair

  • Do not shampoo with sulfate free shampoo

What’s the process for dyeing your hair?

Smith: “When getting a color service you should be 100%  honest about any chemical you’ve ever put on your hair before this appointment. This will prevent chemical reactions, hair loss or the risk of the color not being entirely accurate. Let your stylist know what you’ve done, so that they can prevent any problems. Also, be realistic with your expectations. Color is a chemical, and chemical services take time to process and perfect. This is especially true when working to keep the integrity of your hair. An example is if you want to go from jet black to high lift blonde, it cannot be done in one visit, or you won’t have any hair! So this is something to think about. Also, have patience and trust your stylist’s professional opinion about what your hair can or cannot take and what may or may not work for your hair. Lastly, be sure to purchase color treated products to help keep your color fresh, moisturized and vibrant.”

So now that you know what you should and should not do before getting your hair colored, are you ready to take the plunge?

Why Jane Carter Doesn’t Believe Hair Is Defined by Ethnicity or Race
One of the innovators that strives to break barriers in the hair care world is Jane Carter, who has been recognized around the globe as a leading natural hair care innovator. Let’s celebrate her achievements and find out what makes her journey unique!

Jane’s Story

Jane Carter has been a professional hair stylist and salon owner for over 20 years, representing women and catering to diversity. She has experienced a lot in her life that has shaped her into the woman she is today. From segregation and racism to being one of the first African-American students to be admitted into a white elementary school at the age of six, Jane Carter understands the importance of diversity. Jane is committed to creating a global beauty community that includes all hair types and textures with an intention to help women embrace their natural beauty.

The Creation of Jane Carter Solution

Jane experienced a respiratory allergic reaction from ingredients used in traditional beauty products, so she decided to create her own product line using plant-derived ingredients, essentials oils, sea botanicals and natural proteins that are specifically designed for all hair types and textures. In 1992, she created her first product, the Hair Nourishing Serum, that marked the official beginning of the Jane Carter Solution product line. Her line has expanded to leave-in conditioners, gels, shampoos and body butters, to name a few. Jane has won numerous awards and has been featured in magazines such as Black Enterprise, ESSENCE, and InStyle as being a leading manufacturer of all natural hair products, created for ALL hair types. In 2005, she began selling her product line in Whole Foods Market, it’s now available in over 200 stores.

The Queen Bey has even named Jane Carter Solution as one of her holy grail beauty lines! Ahhh, that’s major!

At Jane Carter Solution we believe hair isn’t defined by ethnicity or race, it is defined by hair type and texture… fine, medium or coarse, straight, wavy, curly or coily. Our goal is to help you simplify your hair care routine and love the hair you wear! 
Jane Carter

Recently, Jane Carter released a new hair care line called Curls To GO. I tried out the new line and I am in love with every single product! Curls To GO is ideal for curly girls with type 4a-4c hair. I was excited to try this line out because even though I don’t do hair typing, my hair is super coily and curly which this line is geared towards. The Curls To GO line consists of the following products:

One of my favorite products from the line is the UnTangle Me Weightless Leave-In Conditioner. It is made with mango butter, slippery elm, marshmallow root. It moisturizes your curls while helping to prevent frizz. My hair felt so soft after using this product and the moisture I experienced was amazing. I couldn’t believe how soft this leave-in made my hair after one use. Detangling my hair was simply a breeze.

I also loved the Coiling All Curls Elongating Gel. I never thought that I would be able to achieve a super defined wash and go with my tightly curly hair but with this gel I was able to achieve a very defined wash and go that wasn’t crunchy or flaky. This line is amazing for helping to add moisture to your hair and also helps to strengthen it.

Overall I loved this line and it will definitely be added to my regimen. Check out my full review below.

Have you tried the new Curls To GO Line? Let me know what you thought.

Why My Husband Loves My Natural Hair

When I first started dating my now husband in 2009, I was in the process of transitioning my hair back to natural. The funny thing is my husband had just begun his Loc journey at the same time. We were somewhat transitioning to natural together. I felt like we have always been on the same wavelength when it comes to natural hair. He never had a problem with me transitioning back to natural, he actually encouraged it. He was and still is my biggest supporter with my natural hair , actually with everything in my life! Here are some reasons why my husband loves my natural hair.

Versatility

My husband loves the versatility of my hair. It’s basically like he is dating a new girl every time my hair changes! He loves my hair straight, curly and when it’s in a protective style. I think he loves my twist outs the most. He always tells me that the bigger my hair, the better. When I was going to cut my hair, I did ask my husband if he would be ok with it. He knew that my hair was severely damaged and encouraged me to cut it because he understood that the health of my hair is more important than the length. He encourages me and compliments me with every style I try. He does like me to wear my natural hair versus weaves. I always find myself asking him, “Do you like my hair?” I think as women we always want confirmation from our spouse , but I love that he accepts me and loves my hair the way it grows out of my head.

He Can Use My Products

My husband loves the fact that some of the products that I use on my hair, he can also use for his locs. He loves taking my spray liquid leave in conditioners and using it to refresh his hair. The biggest benefit of being somewhat of a product junkie is that he gets to use my products. He loves the fact that he does not have to buy anything for his hair and that he can use my products.

He Loves That I am Setting an Example For Our Daughter

My husband loves that I set an example for our daughter to love her natural hair. Since I didn’t get a chance to embrace my curls as a young girl, I am determined to teach my daughter to love and embrace her natural hair. The examples I set for my daughter are important because she watches my every move. I make it my priority to continuously educate myself on how to properly take care of my hair, so that I can continue to keep both of our hair natural and healthy.

He Loves That I Inspire Others To Embrace Their Natural Hair

My husband has been my biggest supporter of my natural journey and everything that it has to offer. He is always telling women that he knows about my blog. Empowering and inspiring other women is my passion and my husband loves that my natural hair helps me to do this. He knows that I love to talk to other curly girls for hours on how to care for their hair.

Does your spouse love your natural hair?

How to Not Kill Your Leave-Out With a Flat Iron
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For many naturalistas the advent of spring means that protective styling is on the horizon. When you wear protective styles that involve some hair to be left out you’ll probably have to manipulate your hair so that it matches your extensions. Back when I was relaxed, I would constantly flat iron my leave out – and my hair suffered. You don’t want to be that girl with a thin leave out that is breaking off. Whether you’re wearing curly extensions or straight extensions, you should be taking care of your leave out when your hair is tucked away. You want your edges to flourish, so here are a few ways not to kill your leave out when wearing extensions.

Keep it Minimal

Try to only leave out as much hair as needed. Leave out enough hair to help cover your tracks, and that’s it. Make sure that you part your hair on the side where you typically part your hair to style, so that it is easier for your hair to lay.

Shampoo and Condition + Moisturize and Seal

Shampooing may be a no-brainer, but you still need to wash and condition your leave out while protective styling. Washing every 2-3 weeks is a good timeframe for your leave out. Use a gentle sulfate free shampoo and deep condition, and be sure to use a leave in conditioner on your leave out to keep it healthy. If you practice the LOC method, this still applies to your leave out as well. Make sure to seal in the moisture in your hair. You should treat your leave out just like you would if you were not protective styling. Let your leave out air dry rather than blow drying it. Braiding it to stretch it is best, so that you won’t use too much heat when it’s time to style.

Twist or Braid Your Leave out

This is a healthier alternative to always flat ironing your leave out. If you are low maintenance like me this is perfect for you. Create a cute twist or braid in the front with your leave out. I have seen some gorgeous styles with a leave out that was twisted or braided around the perimeter. You can create a halo type of twist or create one on each side. This way you don’t have to bother with your leave out at all and you keep your hair protected.

Less Heat + Heat Protectant

If you must use heat, keep the flat ironing to a minimum and do only one pass. Make sure that you are using a heat protectant on your leave out when flat ironing it. The key is to flat iron only once between washings. The bottom line is: don’t apply heat unless absolutely necessary.

Improvise

Give your hair a break every once in a while and rock a turban or a scarf with your protective style. You can also try flexi rods to blend your leave out.

How do you keep your leave out healthy while protective styling?

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This Is How You Can Embrace The Awkward Phase of Transitioning

Long-term transitioning taught me a lot about my hair. It took me two years to transition from relaxed hair to natural, which may seem like a long time to many curlies, but for me it was very necessary. I learned so much in those two years about myself and also about what my hair liked and didn’t like. I also learned to accept the awkward phase when my hair wouldn’t work in every style. Every day was not easy, but I learned as I went and tried a lot of styles and products that helped me during that middle phase of transitioning. Here are some tips to help you get through that awkward middle phase of transitioning.

Essential Tools

Make sure that you invest in a really good detangling brush to get you through those days where you need it most. I love my Felicia Leatherwood detangling brush. Ever since I purchased this brush, it has been my savior in detangling my hair. Also, buy a good head wrap. There is nothing like not feeling like doing your hair and tossing it up into a cute headwrap and heading out the door. Head wraps save lives! Some of my favorite head wraps are from the Wrap Life.

[quote]Head wraps save lives! [/quote]

Products are Key

Products that gave my hair a lot of slip were essential during my awkward phases of transitioning. I needed something that would quickly help me detangle my new growth without ripping my hair. The line where your natural hair meets your relaxed hair is very fragile, and you need to be very careful when detangling your hair. Finding a good deep conditioner is critical during the transitioning phase as well. Find a good conditioner that keeps your hair well moisturized. A great deep conditioner to try is the TGIN Honey Miracle Hair Mask. Keep in mind that something can work well for someone else, but not work for you. It is a trial and error process when finding the right products for your hair. Don’t be afraid to venture out and try new products if what you have is not working.

Best Transitioning Hairstyles

Some hairstyles, such as wash and go’s, didn’t work for me while I was transitioning. I loved rod sets, twist and curls and braid and curls. These styles helped to hide my relaxed hair from my new growth. I was able to easily camouflage my relaxed hair with these styles. My advice is to try styles that are easy for you and if it does not come out like you want it the first time don’t give up. Try it again using a different technique. My motto is if at first you don’t succeed try try again.

Remain Confident

When I initially tried many of my favorite hairstyles for the first time, I honestly thought I looked a hot mess. It takes time and patience to achieve different hairstyles, especially when you’re transitioning. No matter what, remember to embrace your natural journey, because it will be worth it in the end.

How do you embrace the awkward phase of transitioning?