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My natural hair journey has been incredible, but it’s also had its ups and downs. I’m still on my natural hair journey because I feel like the journey never ends. Things will always change and you will have to learn new ways to take care of your hair. Some things that may have worked in the beginning may not work on your hair now. Many times you only see the highlights of someone’s natural hair journey and never get to see or hear about the styles that were a fail or products that didn’t quite work the way you thought they would. I had many moments on my natural hair journey when I wanted just to give up and call it a quits, but I decided to press on.
Why I chose to transition
I transitioned for two years with the help of my stylist, who specializes in natural hair. I decided to long-term transition because I always had long hair and I didn’t want to cut it all off. At that time in my life, I was self- conscious and didn’t think that I would look pretty with short hair. During the beginning of my transition, I had no idea what I was doing with different hairstyles or products. I visited my stylist every two weeks and got my hair straightened because that was all that I knew. One day, I gained enough courage to start doing my hair myself in between my stylist visits. My first twist out, and every hair style that I was trying for the first time, didn’t turn out like I thought they would.
What inspired me to go natural
I was inspired to go natural after realizing that I didn’t need to perm my hair. I honestly thought that once I received a relaxer one time, I had to keep getting them. I didn’t know that I could transition back to my natural hair. I started researching online and stumbled upon CurlyNikki’s website back in 2009. I admired her hair, and she was one of the first bloggers that I followed. Her hair tips helped me and also inspired me to begin my blog.
What I’ve learned about myself
I have learned so much on this natural hair journey. One of the biggest lessons that I learned while going natural was to have patience. Everything takes time. I was eager to achieve the perfect twist out in the beginning, but it definitely takes practice. Everything is a trial and error process from hairstyles to products, you have to try things out to determine what will best work for you. I wanted results right away in the beginning and I became frustrated with my hair very quickly. I also learned to love myself no matter what. Everyone didn’t accept my natural hair in the beginning, but it is okay. I love myself and my hair and I don’t need the approval of others to feel beautiful in my curls. I also learned that being consistent with my hair regimen is critical. I learned this recently when I had to get a major haircut due to several reasons. I have been consistent with my hair regimen, and I have noticed a major improvement in my hair.
To my curly girls in that awkward phase and also to the transitioners, my number one tip for you is do not compare.
My advice for transitioners
To my curly girls in that awkward phase and also to the transitioners, my number one tip for you is do not compare. Don’t compare your hair to another curly girl because not one hair texture is the same. Everyone has different hair textures, porosity, and curls. You have to learn your hair and figure out what products and styles work for you. My second tip is to visit your hair stylist. Seek a hairstylist when needed. We get wrapped up in caring for our hair ourselves all the time, but it’s a good practice to visit your stylist and develop a relationship with them to care for your hair.
What have you learned throughout your natural hair journey? Have you ever just wanted to give up?
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Do you get frustrated on wash day? I am here to tell you that you don’t have to be overwhelmed by your hair. In fact, caring for your hair can be stress free. I believe that creating a healthy hair regimen once you go natural is a critical part of your journey. Wash day does not have to be an exhausting process that you dread every week. Here are a few ways to simplify your hair regimen and stop being overwhelmed by your hair.
Learn Your Hair
It’s easy to watch YouTube videos and see what other curly girls are doing to their hair, but it’s crucial that you take time to learn your hair. Learn what state your hair is in before creating your hair regimen so that you know what areas you need to focus on. Is your hair always dry? Do you have heat damage? This will help you to determine the best way to care for your hair and what you should include in your regimen.
Find Products That Work and Stick With Them
Finding products that work for your hair can be a hassle, honestly the only way to find products that work for you is throughtrial and error. I know there are a plethora of reviews online for you to read and determine what may work for you, but until you try the products out for yourself, you will never know. Everyone’s hair is different and you need to test the products out to know if they will work for your hair type and with your preferred hairstyles.
Create a Regimen
If you start your journey by creating a natural hair regimen and stick with it, your journey will be so much easier. Now that you have figured out what your hair needs and found products that work for your hair, it is time to implement everything into your regimen. Having natural hair can be very time consuming, that is why it’s important to develop a regimen and schedule time for your hair. I know it sounds crazy, but yes, you need to schedule time for wash day and styling. I like to look at wash day as a spa day just for me. Thinking this way helps to make it less stressful for me. If you choose a day every week for wash day, it makes it much easier because you can plan your schedule out accordingly.
Seek a Stylist, When Needed
I still visit my hair stylist on a regular basis. Quite honestly, she is probably the reason that I continued on my natural hair journey when I wanted to quit. It is important to build a relationship with your hair stylist so that you can ask questions about your hair and determine if you are on the right track with your regimen. I visit my stylist about once every 3-4 months, and it helps me tremendously.
What are some ways that help prevent you from being overwhelmed by your hair?
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I have been natural since 2009. Where has the time gone?
I have tried my fair share of natural hair products – from shampoos, conditioners, stylers, and everything in between. I am a real product junkie at heart, but I have my staple products that I can’t live without. Quite honestly, I hope and pray that my staples never get discontinued because I just might cry! I am consistent with my Healthy Hair Regimen and use a lot of my Holy Grail products on a regular basis. Here are a few of my Holy Grail products that I pray never get discontinued.
Shampoos
I shampoo my hair weekly. My current favorites include are Design Essentials Avocado and Almond Shampoo and EDEN Bodyworks Peppermint Tea Tree Shampoo. I always look for shampoos that won’t dry my hair out. I love this Design Essentials shampoo because it’s a sulfate-free formula that’s infused with almond and avocado, which makes my hair very soft and easy to detangle. The EDEN BodyWorks Peppermint Tea Tree Shampoo is good when I need to clarify my hair and does not leave it feeling stripped.
Deep Conditioners
If you know me well, you know that I am obsessed with deep conditioners. If TGIN Honey Miracle Hair Mask ever gets discontinued, you might find me in my kitchen trying to recreate it myself! It makes my hair so soft and hydrated and penetrates my strands, leaving them super moisturized after rinsing it out. I also love the Mielle Organics Babassu Oil Mint Deep Conditioner because it improves the elasticity of my hair. I have low porosity hair and this deep conditioner makes it easier to detangle and leaves my hair smooth. I use it once a month to keep the protein and moisture balance in my hair.
Leave-In Conditioners
My holy grail leave-in conditioners are EDEN BodyWorks Coconut Shea Leave-in and Jane Carter Revitalizing Leave-in. Please don’t ever stop making these! They are perfect in every way for my hair. Jane Carter Revitalizing Leave-in is a liquid product that I also use to refresh my hair. It has dual purposes and serves as a heat protectant as well. The EDEN BodyWorks Coconut Shea Leave-in a creamy conditioner that is not heavy for my low porosity hair. It’s important that my leave in conditioners are very lightweight.
Stylers
I like to create different hairstyles, so it’s imperative that my styling products can meet the needs of my different hairstyles. I love CURLS Blueberry Bliss Twist-n-Shout cream and also EDEN BodyWorks Coconut Shea Curl Defining Creme. I use these two products for almost any style including twist outs, Bantu knots, braid outs, and even perm rod sets. I do twist outs the most so if these two products were ever to get discontinued my life would be in shambles.
Oils
I am pretty sure that carrier oils are here to stay, but just in case someone wanted to get rid of making them, please never stop making sweet almond oil and grapeseed oil. Sweet Almond oil helps seal the moisture in my hair. It also promotes hair growth. Grapeseed oil contains Vitamin E which also promotes hair growth, and it also leaves my hair shiny without feeling greasy.
I love trying the latest products, but my Holy Grails are what I live by and like to use regularly. I hope none of my Holy Grail products get discontinued, but if they do can you all let me know first?
What are some products that you can’t go without?
Have you ever tried a hairstyle that was a major fail? Did you follow every single step in a YouTube video and your hair still came out wrong? I have been there and I almost gave up on being a curly girl several times. I learned from my experiences with failed hairstyles and it taught me that , “If at first, you don’t succeed, try try again.” Here are a few hairstyles that were a fail for me in the beginning, but after some patience and practice, I finally mastered them, well kind of.
Marley Twists
Failed Marley Twists may come as a shocker because this was the first style that got me noticed online with the natural hair community. My very first attempt at Marley Twists was a major fail, and I had to end up taking my hair down after several hours of trying this style. The second time around I had more time to devote to completing it correctly. I wanted to do the invisible root method and had to take my time to get it right. One important tip is to make sure you set aside enough time to try a new style in case it doesn’t work out for you, in the end, you will have a chance to change it.
Bantu Knots
Bantu Knots have always been a fail for me. Every single time I attempted Bantu Knots my hair would come out looking puffy and would have no definition at all. I told myself that this year I would try Bantu Knots again, so keep an eye out to see if I succeed at creating this hairstyle again. I have noticed from many YouTube tutorials it’s all about how you twist your hair in the knot. Also, to start with somewhat stretched hair to make the style more defined. Lastly, to make sure your hair is completely dry before taking your knots down. This will help you create a beautiful Bantu Knot set.
Wash and Go’s
I will admit my first wash and go styles were a complete failure. My transitioning hair didn’t do well with wash and go’s because the top would be curly and the bottom ends would be limp since they were still permed. I just recently tried a wash and go for the second time and was able to get great results. There is an art to creating the perfect wash and go. You have to make sure your hair is dripping wet when you apply the product to your hair by shingling or raking it through. You also need to leave your hair alone and not touch it so that your curls won’t frizz. If you still have relaxed ends, wash and go’s may not be the best option for you.
Goddess/ Halo Braid
I can’t French braid well, so halo braids are still a struggle for me. Every time I try to flat twist or French braid my hair, it never comes out like the YouTube video I watched. Practicing your braiding technique will really help create a better halo braid style. Since I have been able to practice more, I noticed that I am getting better. Practicing a style multiple times really helps.
Failing in many of these protective styles has taught me to be patient with my hair. I learned that if it doesn’t work out the first time, to try the style again.
What styles have you attempted that were a fail?
Have you ever wanted to know what are some of the best tips your stylist has for your natural hair or their must have products? I spoke with my favorite stylist in Chicago, Nadling Fletcher of Salon Pressure. She has been my stylist since I began my natural hair journey in 2009.
Nadling has been a stylist for over 18 years. She began as an apprentice right out of cosmetology school. After leaving her apprenticeship she already had a full clientele set up. She has worked at some of the top salons in west loop and south loop of Chicago. She developed a love for natural hair when she got a big chop in 1999 when she decided to grow her relaxer out and maintain her natural hair. This was before the time when natural hair was considered popular.
How you educate your clients on the importance of a hair regimen between appointments?
Fletcher: “Talk to them, one client at a time. I ask them what they do at home, what their normal regimen is, and figure out ways to improve their normal routine. A lot of clients do not visit every week or two weeks. If clients visit every month they need to have a routine between their visits. I provide suggestions for quality products that for caring for their hair at home based on need. A regimen helps to keep the hair healthy between visits and it also helps their visit to be more efficient, and more cost effective. By having a home regimen my clients will see progress, and be able to achieve their hair goals.”
What is your top healthy hair advice?
Fletcher: “Listen to your body. As women we explore a lot of different techniques styles, and trends. As you explore these things if it is the right thing for you, listen to your body. For example, there is nothing wrong with exploring extensions but you need to make sure they are right for your hair. You can incur damage that can lead to alopecia if you are not careful. Take the proper steps to remain educated about what you are doing to your hair. Maintain a regimen between appointments, make sure you are properly moisturizing your hair, drinking water and eating healthy. Make sure to visit your healthcare professional if you are having any issues with your scalp that stylist can’t address. Any scalp issues beyond dandruff you should seek a dermatologist.”
What are some of your holy grail products?
Fletcher: “Design Essentials Almond and Avocado Co- Wash is a hit for me right now. I have been co-washing before there was a term created for it back in 1999. I also love Design Essentials Almond and Avocado Shampoo. The entire line of Design Essentials Naturals is good for sensitive scalp which most of my clients have.
What is your method of choice for cutting curly hair?
Fletcher: “Blowing the hair out to cut it is my method. I don’t mind the Deva cut method but most people’s textures don’t allow for a Deva cut. Some curls hang lower and looser than others. For people with lots of textures it is a little harder. If you straighten the hair out you will get the most accurate shape. The Deva cut does compensates for shrinkage control and texture differences.
When I was a young girl, my mother didn’t teach me about my natural hair. I only remember looking at photos of my voluminous curls from when I was a toddler and wondering why my mother relaxed my hair at a very young age. As an adult, I asked her why she wanted to relax my hair and she told me that she couldn’t deal with all of my hair and that it was unmanageable. I remember feeling hurt and confused because as an adult, I love my natural hair and I rock my curls with confidence. So when the time came for me to have my own little girl, I knew that I wanted to educate my daughter on her naturally curly hair and let her know that her curls are are a part of who she is and to always embrace her natural beauty, fearlessly. Here are a few ways that I teach my daughter to rock her curls with confidence.
Positive Reinforcement
My daughter loves watching me do my natural hair. She will sit and mimic what I do, combing her hair as I do mine. My husband and I bought her a children’s vanity because she told me, “I want to do my hair just like mommy.” It warms my heart that my daughter looks up to me and wants to do what I do. I want to set the best example for her and the best way to teach my daughter positive perception is to show her how I feel about my curls. Every time I style her hair we always reinforce that her curly hair is beautiful just like she is.
Reading Books with Curly Girls
I love to read to my daughter and I especially love finding children’s books with little curly girls to help teach her about her curly hair. Our favorite book to read right now is Penny and the Magic Puffballs. In the book, Penny’s mom reminds Penny that her hair is perfect just the way it is despite the differences she may see around her. This book helps me to reinforce what I tell her every day: that her curly hair is beautiful and no matter what other people may say, she has magical Puffs just like Penny!
Involving My Daughter in her Hair Care Routine
I like to make wash day enjoyable by singing songs and having fun to show her that washing and styling her curls aren’t a hassle. I also let her participate by letting her choose her headbands and bows. She loves to look in the mirror when we are done with styling. She always says, “Mommy I am pretty just like you!”
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Have you noticed that there are lots of conditioners on the market, but not sure how they’ll benefit your hair? There are cleansing conditioners, deep conditioners, leave-in conditioners and rinse-out conditioners. Whether you’re a beginner or seasoned naturalista, finding the right conditioner can be overwhelming when you have lots of options. Let’s take a look at the different types of conditioners and discuss how to use them and the benefits each one offers.
Cleansing Conditioners
Cleansing conditioners are also known as co-washes. Co-washing is the term for conditioner only washing. Many products on the market are designed for cleansing and are considered cleansing conditioners. Cleansing conditioners are ideal for curly girls with thick hair because they help to maintain moisture. Cleansing conditioners are also aimed to help to remove residue and buildup from the hair without stripping your hair of natural moisture. You can use a cleansing conditioner in place of your shampoo. I don’t like to use them too often, I use them in between washing my hair with a regular sulfate-free shampoo. A good cleansing conditioner is EDEN BodyWorks Coconut Shea Cleansing Co-Wash.
Rinse- Out Conditioners
Rinse-out conditioners are used right after shampooing your hair to help add moisture back into your hair that was stripped during the shampoo process. One main purpose of a rinse-out conditioner is to add moisture to your hair, so they are usually very thick in consistency. Rinse out conditioners are not made for cleansing the scalp or removing buildup from the hair. They provide great slip and also help in the detangling process. I will use a rinse out conditioner if I don’t plan on deep conditioning my hair. A good rinse out conditioner I like to use is Creme of Nature Ultra Moisturizing Conditioner.
Deep Conditioners
Deep conditioners are specially designed to penetrate deeper into your hair and help repair and hydrate it. Deep conditioners are best when they are used weekly. I deep condition my hair weekly with steam to get the best results. I have low porosity hair and steam helps to penetrate the conditioner into my strands. I use a gentle sulfate-free shampoo to remove any product build-up from my hair before deep conditioning. When applying your deep conditioner make sure to remove any excess water so that your deep conditioner can penetrate your hair. Keep the conditioner on for 15-30 minutes for best results. I also switch between a protein deep conditioner and a moisturizing deep conditioner to help maintain the protein-moisture balance in my hair. I love TGIN Honey Miracle Hair Mask and Mielle Organics Babassu Oil & Mint Deep Conditioner.
Daily/ Leave-in Conditioners
A leave-in conditioner and daily conditioner is a conditioner that you apply to your hair that does not need to be rinsed out. Leave-in conditioners have many purposes, they help to moisturize and nourish the hair. Most importantly, leave in conditioners contribute to preventing breakage, tames frizz and also helps with detangling. Some leave in conditioners like Jane Carter Revitalizing Leave in also serve as a heat protectant. Most leave-in and daily conditioners have water as the first ingredient which helps to restore moisture in the hair. Leave-in conditioners also contribute to seal the moisture into the hair. I use a leave-in conditioner in the LOC method weekly on my hair. I also love Design Essentials Daily Moisturizing Lotion daily because it helps to refresh my curls.
What types of conditioners do you use on your hair?
When I first went natural, I will admit that I was scared to try a wash and go. My hair wasn’t super curly like the girls that I watched on YouTube and I didn’t think that I could achieve the same look with my hair texture. During my transition, my hair did not completely curl at the ends and just didn’t live up to the beautiful wash and gos I saw online. My hair texture was very loose and wavy and in my experience wash and go was not easy and quick to achieve for me, at first. While I don’t do hair typing, my hair is considered to be a type 4 range.
Since my haircut and texture change, I was able to achieve one of the most defined wash and go’s ever! This time around the technique I used was different and I took my time. I have learned through trial and error that your process and products will help or hurt your chances at achieving a wash and go.
Step 1: Shampoo
In my experience, it is important to get your hair very clean to start the process to remove all product build up from your hair. I suggest using a good clarifying shampoo such as EDEN BodyWorks Peppermint Tea Tree Oil Shampoo.
Step 2: Condition
You can’t skip conditioning your hair for the wash and go process. This includes deep conditioning and also leave in or rinse out conditioners. I deep condition my hair weekly, so this step is a must for me. Make sure you completely detangle your hair during this process so that you get the most defined curls. Using your fingers to detangle helps to keep your curls in their natural state and also helps to clump curls when applying product.
Step 3: Rinse
Rinse your hair and apply your leave in conditioner. I did the LOC method with my wash and go because I noticed that when I do the LOC method, my hair remains moisturized during the entire process.
Step 4: Apply Product and Rake Through Hair
You must make sure that your hair is dripping wet when you apply your styling product. I have learned that you get better and more defined curls when your hair is wet. If you start the process and your hair begins to dry, grab your spray bottle and re-wet your hair. Make sure that you are not using too much gel or styler to prevent flakes when your hair dries. I like to use the praying hands method in small sections.
Step 5: Let Your Hair Dry
Making sure your hair is dry is probably the most important step in achieving a great wash and go. Make sure that you do not touch or mess with your hair during this time. This will help to prevent frizz and keep your curls defined. You can also use a diffuser if you need to dry your hair faster. You can separate and fluff once your hair is completely dry but try not to separate too much to prevent frizz.
Have you ever thought you couldn’t achieve a wash and go? What has your experience been?
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I feel strongest when I’m practicing self-acceptance. Allowing myself to be myself makes me feel really powerful…I think it requires a sense of community. You have to unplug from what our culture and our world tells us is wrong, is pretty, is better.
What better way to celebrate curly hair than to recognize some influential women who have rocked their curls from the beginning? From television to music, these icons have paved the way for curlies to embrace our crown.
Diana Ross
Diana Ross as a solo artist, is one of the most successful female singers of the rock era. If you factor in her work as the lead singer of the Supremes in the 1960s, she may be the most successful. Known for glittering costumes, big hair and an even bigger voice, Diana Ross has paved the way for voluminous curls.
Tracee Ellis Ross
Tracee is one of the first women on TV who I remember seeing with natural hair. You might know her as Diana Ross’s daughter, but she has made a name for herself by embracing her beautiful curly hair. Recently, she won the Golden Globe Award for Best Performance by an Actress in a Television Series – Musical or Comedy for her lead role in Blackish.
Nina Simone
Nina Simone was a legendary artist and civil rights activist who helped contribute to the jazz movement in the 1950s and 1960s. She left a legacy for her signature natural expression of her hair through art and music choosing to go against the grain and speak her truth.
Pam Grier
Pam Grier is known as the leading heroine of the “blaxploitation” film genre of the 1970s playing in films such as Fox Brown. Grier’s characters always stood out as empowered black women who relied on nothing but their own strength to achieve their goals. I wish that I could get my afro to be as neat and perfect as hers.
Alicia Keys
Alicia Keys is a songwriter, producer and pianist who debuted in the early 2000’s rocking her braids with beads and intriguing designs. She recently stopped wearing make-up and is using her platform to rise above the criticism from the media to empower women to embrace their individuality.
Wait, I’m deciding to be my own individual self. And it looks nothing like what anyone else is doing.” There’s something so powerful about being my own gorgeous, beautiful, individual, unique self.”
Erykah Badu
Erykah Badu is a neo-soul artist who is known for her fearless style, empowering lyrics and resilient attitude. She uses her platform as a way to inspire and create change in the African-American culture.
Chaka Khan
Chaka Khan is one of the most accomplished divas in the entertainment industry and has been around for more than four decades. She is known for her powerful voice, her great volume of curly hair and her charismatic stage presence creating hits such as “I’m Every Woman.”
Whoopi Goldberg
Whoopi Goldberg is an actress, comedian and TV host who has worn locs since the beginning and has always represented them well. She is a true example of how you can remain true to who you are and speak your truth while being in the public eye.Who are some of your favorite Natural Hair Icons?
Do you have an oily hair and are searching for the best way to get rid of it? Healthy hair starts at the scalp, and an oily scalp can be caused by several factors including stress, hormones, heredity and also poor hair care. Shampooing your hair and using a bentonite clay treatment are a couple ways to help keep your oily scalp at bay, but which is better? Let’s learn the differences between the two and how they can give you a healthy and clean scalp.
Shampoo
If you have an oily scalp, then one of the best ways to control excess oil in your hair is to shampoo your hair regularly or even daily. You should probably opt for a clarifying shampoo to help purify and clarify your hair and scalp. You want to avoid any shampoos that contain added oils and silicones because they can have the ability to induce more oil production which can then lead to build up. You also may want to look for clear shampoos because they are free from added conditioners. Additional conditioners in shampoos can contribute to the buildup of oils which is not good for those with an oily scalp. If using a shampoo make sure to rinse your hair thoroughly every time so that no residue is left behind. If your hair is not properly rinsed it can easily attract more oil and dirt to your scalp. Additionally, the most effective ingredients to look for in choosing a shampoo for oily hair are citrus extracts such as lemon and lime. These ingredients help to break up excess oils in the scalp and hair. A good clarifying shampoo will help to make a noticeable difference for your oily scalp and will help absorb the oils in your hair.
Bentonite Clay
Bentonite clay has amazing benefits for your hair. Many use a bentonite clay treatment which involves the clay, apple cider vinegar, and aloe vera juice. It helps to it removes toxins to leaves the hair super clean, it is also good for those with dandruff as it helps get rid of it. Bentonite clay is highly absorbent and will help clarify your hair without making it feel dry or stripped of moisture. If you have hair that is dry, bentonite clay is also great to help make your hair moisturized and very soft.
So if you are prone to oily scalp your best option may be to use a clarifying shampoo to keep your oily scalp under control. You may want to try out both options to see which method works best for you. Remember that what may work for some may not work or others. That is why it’s best to try out all of your options when seeking remedies for your curls. I have combination hair so I love both options for my hair. This is how to do a DIY clay mask using bentonite clay.
Try them out and let us know what you think!
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When I was in high school, I used to dye my hair at home all the time. Now that I look back, it probably was not a good idea, because I didn’t know anything about hair color and the proper technique, but you live and you learn. Many curlies dye their hair black and usually do it at home. The problem that most women have when dyeing their hair black is that it ends up looking unnaturally dark or green. In order to achieve a natural black hair color at home and avoid green hair, we spoke with Hair Stylist, LaToyah Smith, of My Toy Art to get the scoop on how we can get the best results.
How can you safely dye your hair at home?
Smith: “Start with a proper consultation, complete a test strand to see if the hair is strong enough or if that you have an allergy to that specific color line.”
What advice do you have to anyone coloring their hair at home?
Smith: “Color is a very intense subject. Most people go wrong thinking they can purchase a box color, and it’ll turn out just like the color on the box, this is not the case most times. Color can be unpredictable if you don’t have the knowledge of the color wheel, Which colors cancel the other out, complimentary color, What natural undertone a person has or if he or she has had previous chemicals or color. You won’t get what you intended to get. We encourage you to seek professional help when using hair color.”
Most people go wrong thinking they can purchase a box color, and it’ll turn out just like the color on the box, this is not the case most times
How can you avoid the green color?
Smith: “ There are only a few situations where your hair will turn green from color. If the color you are using has a green base in it, (again once your studied color you’d understand the science behind it”>. Or if your hair was a lighter color, and you did not put a filler color in between before going from light to dark. If your hair is chemically treated (relaxed, keratin, etc.”>, then the tone may change after applying the color. This may happen because of the combination of the two chemicals mixed; chemical reaction can cause a color change. Please seek professional help when dealing with an intense chemical such as color.”
If you do choose to choose to color at home
There are many drugstore hair dyes that you can purchase to do your color yourself at home. Make sure that you are completely confident in doing this yourself before you start the process. Make sure that you have all the proper tools needed to do this at home. There are so many drugstore hair dyes to choose from, but here are a few options for you.
Shea Moisture Nourishing, Moisture- Rich, Ammonia- Free Hair Color System
Shea Moisture offers an Ammonia-Free Hair Color System that gently, and efficiently, colors your hair. With this system, you get a softer, silkier and healthier appearance. Shea Moisture offers a permanent, no-drip formula that delivers vibrant color, body, and shine. The color Jet Black is the darkest black color that they offer; it is a dark black shade.
Creme of Nature Exotic Shine Color
Creme of Nature Exotic Shine Color is made with argan oil from Morocco. It is made with double Argan Oil treatments for ultimate conditioning. The Creme of Nature Exotic Shine Color aims to give you rich, vibrant color tones. It also strengthens, conditions and adds exotic shine for a long-lasting vibrant color.
Dark and Lovely Color Gloss
Dark and Lovely has created their first no ammonia, shine-infusing conditioning hair color that gives you natural looking results while also delivering gorgeous, glossy and shining hair. Their new formula is jam-packed with goodness. The Color Gloss is made with Shea Butter, Coconut Oil, and Pomegranate. It aims to condition your hair and also protects your curls from damage while delivering you with beautiful and radiant color hair color.
Do you color your hair at home?
Versatility
I love that I can rock my curls one day, straighten it the next, and then switch it up with a protective style. I can go several weeks without repeating the same hairstyle. From twist-outs, braids, perm rod sets, updos, and buns, I have rocked my hair many ways. You don’t have to stop with the hairstyles either. You can jazz up your hair with turbans, hair jewelry, and so much more.
Shrinkage
Most curly girls don’t like shrinkage, but I embrace it. It always tickles me when people think that my hair is short, and once I pull a curl out their eyes get big! Shrinkage is real and deceptive at the same time.
Saves me money
Now that I am not paying for an expensive relaxer, I can save money. I visit my stylist about three times a year and spend less money at the salon than I did while my hair was relaxed.
My hair is healthier
I can say that when my hair was relaxed, it was not as healthy as it is in its natural state. My hair was always brittle and breaking off while relaxed. Now that I am natural, I notice that my hair is much healthier and does not break off like it did when I had a relaxer.
I don’t have to fear the rain
When I was relaxed, I was so afraid of the rain, because if any molecule of water touched my relaxed hair, it would fall flat and not look as sleek. Now that I love water, I embrace the the volume that comes with moisture!
I can rock big hair
I love wearing my curls out and in a big curly fro. It’s something about letting your curls loose that makes my heart happy. I love embracing my natural hair texture. The bigger, the better for me.
Inspire other women
Inspiring other women through my blog is an amazing thing. I never thought that sharing my experience with my natural hair would help others. I love helping others who may be on their natural hair journey or who may want to go natural. Since I have been natural, I have inspired over five women in my family to go natural.
Confidence
Having natural hair pushes me to be confident. When my hair is cute, you can’t tell me anything!
Make curlfriends
I also love my natural hair, because it has allowed me to meet and connect with other naturals. I have fostered genuine relationships with my curlfriends.
What do you love about your natural hair?
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How do you educate clients on proper deep conditioning methods?
LaToyah: “We recommend clients to deep condition from roots to ends, providing even saturation of the conditioner to the hair strands with products that are filled with protein and moisture.”
Are there certain conditioners that are designed for the scalp?
LaToyah: “There are certain products that are designed for the scalp and hair. Once you’ve determined what issue you have (dry scalp, oily scalp, etc.”>, that will give you further instructions on how to use it. This is why stylists insist that clients seek professional help when needed. Those products usually have ingredients that not only strengthen the hair strand but also penetrate and heal the scalp like peppermint and aloe.”
How do you determine if you should put conditioner on your scalp?
LaToyah: “To find out if you should deep condition on or off scalp you should examine the needs of your scalp and hair. If you suffer from dandruff or a dry and itchy scalp, if you have eczema or one of the many other scalp conditions, you should then do an on-scalp deep conditioning treatment. Not all deep conditionings are done with conditioner. They can be done with scalp treatments, oils, or other natural ingredients in combination with your conditioner. Most times we recommend clients to consult with a dermatologist if we feel the client’s condition isn’t safe to treat.”
What are some adverse effects of applying deep conditioner to your scalp?
LaToyah: “Too much conditioner can cause buildup on your hair. You also want to make sure that you don’t condition your hair overnight. Your hair strands take what it needs, so don’t force extra protein or moisture in it by conditioning overnight. Excessive moisture can cause breakage, and we want to avoid that problem.”
Are you a curly girl that deep conditions your hair often? Would you put deep conditioner on your scalp?
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Over manipulation
Versatility is why we love our natural hair, and the options are endless. Some of the techniques we try out on our hair require a lot of manipulation, like wash and go’s and styles with heat. Keeping your hands out of your hair will help minimize damage.
Not sticking with a nighttime routine
My nighttime routine is critical. Cotton pillowcases are known to absorb moisture from your curls and the friction against your sheets from tossing and turning can cause split ends, so invest in a good satin pillowcase or bonnet to protect your curls while you sleep.
Not maintaining moisture/protein balance
When I went natural, I had no idea that my hair needed both protein and moisture. Healthy hair thrives on moisture and protein. Your natural hair needs moisture and a healthy elasticity. Too much moisture can cause limp and mushy strands while too much protein creates brittleness. Make sure that you are balancing moisture and protein properly. If you maintain an equal balance, you will start to retain length.
Too much heat
I can say that this was one of my main problems during my transition to natural. I put heat on my hair every two weeks. Heat styling is a quick way to damage your hair. Using too much heat will dry your hair out and increase the potential for damage, because of the lack of moisture. If you must use heat on your hair, make sure you use a heat protectant.
Not seeking a stylist
If you don’t have a stylist that you visit on a regular basis, then you should find one. Finding a stylist is important to help you retain length with trims and by assessing your hair protein and moisture levels while also making product and regimen recommendations.
If you take care of your hair and follow a healthy hair regimen, you will begin to see and retain more length over time. Always remember the health of your hair is more important than the length.
How do you practice healthy hair care to retain length?
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Your hair feels weak & brittle
This is a major sign that you probably need to use a protein conditioner. Before I got my haircut in September, my hair was limp. It became weak, fragile, and started breaking after over moisturizing it. The lack of protein caused severely frayed ends. My hair needed a protein treatment badly. By adding protein to my regimen I brought my curls back to life and my hair has regained its body. A moisture-protein balance is essential to maintaining healthy hair and reducing damage potential.
You’re using heat
Before using heat on my hair, I make sure my hair is strong enough to withstand the thermal tools that I will use in order to straighten or blow-dry my hair. If you use a good protein deep conditioner before or after you use heat, you will notice that your hair will be in better shape than if you decide to forgo completely.
The weather is changing
When the weather changed here in Chicago, I needed to treat my hair to a protein treatment. The dry and cold weather takes a toll on my strands. I always make sure to maintain a good moisture-protein balance during the winter months to keep my hair thriving.
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How often do you alternate your deep conditioners and protein treatments?
Missrii
Miss Rii is a Washington DC native born and raised who currently resides in Charlotte, North Carolina. She has been natural and loc’d for 13 years. She also shares all things beauty, lifestyle, and hair on her blog www.misrii.com
DbellaLocs
Dbellalocs visually shares her loc journey on Instagram. Considering hair color? Follow her for for tips on caring for colored-treated locs.
Loccrush
Denise is a loc enthusiast. She has a YouTube channel where she shares tips on how she maintains her waist-length locs. Go check it out.
Joymarilie
Joy Marilie is also a YouTuber who aims to inspire others through her loc journey. She is musician, educator, and DIY loc stylist. On her Instagram, you can find photos of beautifully styled locs.
Sweet.Passions
Vanessa is a YouTuber who has been loc’d for 10 years. She is all about fashion, beauty, and style while rocking her super cute ombre blonde locs.
brittania718
Brittany is a sisterlocks enthusiast. She shares her Sisterlocks journey, different styles, and tips on taking care of your sisterlocks from the beginning to the mature stage on her YouTube channel. If you are unsure on what to do with your sisterlocks, Brittany has all the answers for you.
Imlovelocd
Tammy is a certified sisterlocks consultant located in Centennial, Colorado. She is also the Owner of LoveLoc’d, a salon Specializing in sisterlocks, brotherlocks, and traditional interlocks.
Killadoesthat
Also known as Keisha Charmaine on YouTube. She shares tips on how to take care of color-treated locs. She also shares hair tips and advice on her YouTube channel.
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,0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15″>; margin: 1px; max-width: 658px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% – 2px”>;” data-instgrm-version=”7″>Are you bored with your current hairstyle and looking for a change in the upcoming New Year? Have you looked all over for your next haircut inspiration to no avail? Your next haircut inspiration could be right at your fingertips on Instagram. We have scouted Instagram for some of the best curly hairstylists that will help you in the search for your next haircut inspiration. Whether you are planning to go drastic or just need a shape, we have hairstylists for you to follow.
Curlfactor
Christin Brown is a Deva Certified Curl Specialist located in Santa Barbara. She loves color and her signature blue curly hair is simply gorgeous.
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Hydra Bar Salon showcases hairstylists that specialize in hydrating, cutting, and styling curly hair.
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TheCurlWhispererChicago
Starresha Renae is a DevaCurl Advanced Stylist in Chicago known as the CurlWhisperer. She will help you take care of your curls. We have not seen one bad haircut on her Instagram page.
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Faithincurls
Jarley Nunes is a curly hair specialist and Deva Curl trained stylist located in Orlando. Her page is filled with beautiful curly haircuts in all lengths, taking all textures to the next level.
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Isabella believes “curly hair is not a trend it’s a natural movement.” Check out her page for your next popping cut!
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Mia_Devacurl
Mia is a senior stylist at Devachan Salon Soho who specializes in all naturally curly hair textures. Scroll her Instagram feed to find haircut inspirations that will make you want to book her ASAP!
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Vincenzo_Stylist
Vincenzo is an expert hairstylist and colorist in New York City. He is very passionate about helping women with their curls, molding textures from well-shaped curly cuts to shaved sides with curls.
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Uranccurls416
Urban Curls in Toronto offers curl sessions that can help your curl definition and style. They have all the tools that you need to unlock your curl potential.
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Sunflowersandscissors
Kristy Ramos-Henderson is the fairy curl mother from Columbia, South Carolina. She showcases curly haircuts on all types of textures. You’ll have hop on her books ASAP, because she is booked until Feb. 2017.
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Morangocurls
Morangocurls is a healthy hair advocate located in Rotterdam, The Netherlands. She will transform your curls from dry and lackluster to moisturized and defined.
Are you inspired to get a new curly haircut?
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There are many women who patron barbershops, but most natural hair content has not catered to them. Today there are curly girls wearing tapered cuts, undercuts, and fades. If you’re considering a shorter look, you should know what to expect when getting their hair cut with clippers and how to maintain your hairstyle at home.
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We spoke with one of the best barbers in Chicago, Theresa Shelby of The House of Mother Theresa, and asked her a few questions.
What should women expect when getting their hair cut with clippers?
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Shelby: “Communication and understanding are very important in the relationship between the barber and client. When you’re getting a haircut with clippers, you have to be exact and detailed about the look you’re going for. Once the hair is cut at a certain length, there’s no turning back. If you don’t know the correct lingo i.e. tapered look, faded look, against the grain, with the grain, it’s best to come with a picture of the style you want so you and your barber can be on one accord and the look you’re going for can be achieved.”
It doesn’t seem to be a common practice to include shampoo in the service. Why is that?
Shelby: “From my experience working in the barbershop, I’ve witnessed that most barbers don’t include a shampoo with the service because it takes up too much time in the process. Most barbers want to make the most money in their day, and adding a shampoo will take up the time from them cutting more heads. However, all barbers learn in barber school that shampooing the hair is part of the haircutting service. It should be included in every cut. The hair needs to be cleaned for sanitation purposes and to give the best quality cut. When the hair is clean it is easier to cut off and gives a more precise haircut.”
Is there any preparation needed before the appointment? If so, what should they do to prepare?
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Shelby: “In preparation for each haircut, it is best that the client comes with their hair washed, blow-dried, and combed out.”
What should clients not do before their appointment?
Shelby: “Hair should be product free before any haircut appointment. That includes grease, oil, leave-in conditioner, or anything that could weigh the hair down. Your hairstylist should be able to provide all the conditioning and nourishment your hair needs after the hair is cut to the desired style.”
How do you maintain a short style at home and avoid breakage with excessive picking or styling?
Shelby: “The best way to keep short hair maintained at home is to keep it well conditioned and to use a bonnet or scarf every night to avoid breakage. A good leave-in conditioner and head massage every other day will keep your scalp stimulated and moisturized to maintain healthy, strong, and manageable hair.”
How would you treat razor burn on the neck or around the hairline?
Shelby: “I’ve never experienced razor burn with any of my clients firsthand. However, any antiseptic, such as witch hazel or peroxide, should work in the healing process for minor cuts and burns.”
How often should you visit your barber?
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Shelby: “My suggestion would be every two weeks or monthly to keep and preserve a good hairline. This keeps the hairstyle intact, in good form, and manageable. But, it’s really the client’s preference.”
How do you treat dandruff or any scalp condition with short hair, as it is more visible?
Shelby: “There is a product I use called Lucky Tiger to help tackle dandruff and scalp conditions like psoriasis. It works for most of my clients. But, it has to be applied daily to see the best results from the treatment.”
What is the best nighttime routine for short haircuts?
Shelby: “The best nighttime routine for short hair is a good scalp massage with a leave-in conditioner before you tie your hair with a silk scarf or bonnet.”
Now that you know what to expect, your next visit to your barber should be smooth sailing.
Do you have tips for visiting the barbershop?
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