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By Diane Mary · Published December 28, 2016

One of the biggest challenges of having loose curls and wavy hair is that our fantastic definition on Day One Hair can turn into stringy looking noodles by Day Three. Still, as naturally curly girls, we certainly do not want to wash our hair daily, so we have to figure out another way to add that bounce back to our definition.

Enter: the foamy mousse

I usually wash my hair twice a week, but I want it to look good as many days as I possibly can. While I enjoy refreshing my curls with a refreshing mist and my beloved Q-Redew, I randomly stumbled upon the benefits of using a mousse on days-old dry hair.

If, like me, hearing the word ‘mousse’ automatically takes your mind to the ‘80s and the decade of hair metal bands, I can affirm that this styling product has come such a long way since then. The mousse of today is foamier, does not leave the hair crunchy or stiff, and contains some great treatment ingredients inside.

Keep in mind the complexity of wavy hair

My wavy hair tends to be more on the dry, high porosity side and does not get weighed down as easily as other wavies’ hair might–keep this in mind when deciding the amount of product you need to apply in your hair. Trial and error, and adjust accordingly since no two heads of hair are exactly the same, even if the pattern may look similar. To give a quick example, some of my wavy friends like to use mousse on wet hair as their only styler and their hair turns out great, but mousse alone on wet hair is not enough hold for me. Occasionally I like mousse on wet hair to add in more definition, but I ALWAYS have to follow it with a gel.

Why it works

What I find when using a mousse on old hair on a day is that I only need that and a dry shampoo for my scalp, especially if I worked out that day. If I used a refreshing mist, more than likely I will need to layer over a moisturizing cream so that my hair does not re-pouf out. I may also switch out a cream for an oil blend to further combat the frizz and add shine.

Application

I apply the mousse on wet hair similarly to how I like to apply my styling products on wet hair. For seven total sections I take two pumps of mousse each section, raking them through and then scrunch them up. Once I did this to all my sections, I let the product dry and my waves have more bounce again, frizz is gone and with some of them I have a lot of added shine.

My current favorite mousses for wavy hair:

DevaCurl Frizz-Free Volumizing Foam

This alcohol-free foam smells like candy while leaving waves defined, shiny and frizz free thanks to sunflower and lemongrass extracts.

Raw Curls Mousse

SheaMoisture Fruit Fusion Coconut Water Weightless Styling Mousse

There is so much goodness in this mousse including Shea Butter, Coconut Water, a Fruit Fusion blend of Dragon Fruit, Lychee Berry and Green Apple Extracts, Imbe Oil and Aloe! This lightweight smoothie for your hair will add shine, fight frizz and re-encourage definition in waves without weighing them down.

Do you use mousse?

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By Diane Mary · Published December 21, 2016

An all-in-one product that protects hair while your sleep, in the shower, and during deep treatments?

Yes, this is a product that actually exists–meet the All Caps Hair Protector. Not just your average hair bonnet, because it is so much better than that! Not to mention, the line is made in the USA and is environmentally friendly too.

What the brand says about their cap

“All Caps is a soft, flexible cap that easily adjusts to the size of your head and length of your hair for a more comfortable, customized fit. It features innovative fabric technology to protect hair in the shower, at the spa, and even in bed. The reversible design also keeps clothes, furniture, pillowcases, and other surfaces mess-free while doing hair masks and other restorative treatments, like Keratin. And unlike your past shower caps, All Caps is fungus-resistant and machine washable.”

The brand describes the interior as a “silky, low-friction fabric [that] helps prevent breakage, reduces static, and protects hair from creasing or falling flat. And the exterior is soft, whisper-quiet, and environmentally friendly PolyUrethane is waterproof, hypoallergenic, and fungus-resistant.”

My initial thoughts

• The size: Not only is this cap big enough to fit all of my hair inside, but the best part is the fact that it has stretchy cords so that it can rest comfortably on my head without digging into my skin and causing a bad tension headache (I cannot tell you how many shower caps and sleep bonnets had a tight elastic band inside that just plain hurt”>. This feature alone truly makes the cap purchase worth it for me.
• The band: It is surrounded by a microfiber terry cloth material that can absorb up to 8 times its weight in 2 seconds.
• The material: Inside and outside, the reversible cap is unique due to its loops and buttons, which will help you keep the cap off your neck without ruining your hairstyle or disrupting your curl pattern.
• The traveling perk: For your convenience, the brand includes a nice travel friendly bag for the cap to travel in with you.

My final review

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Read my latest review on the Ouidad Deep Treatment Curl Restoration Therapy

By Diane Mary · Published December 8, 2016

Unless your hair is extremely protein sensitive, I truly believe this is a product any curl type and texture can benefit from, so I want to tell you more about it!

The Ouidad Curl Restoration Therapy Deep Treatment has been a Holy Grail of mine for nearly a decade now.

No matter what other products I try and test, I always go back to this. I have been using the deep treatment through several label and name changes, but thankfully the magical formula inside always remained the same. Unless your hair is extremely protein sensitive, I truly believe this is a product any curl type and texture can benefit from, so I want to tell you more about it!

Key Product Benefits

• Rebuilds and fortifies the inner structure of curls

• Nourishes to help reduce frizz and unwanted volume

• Helps to regain curls’ internal weight and strength for improved shape and definition

The Ouidad Curl Restoration Therapy Deep Treatment is full of amino acids and proteins that help rebuild the hair and make it strong while improving its elasticity and definition. It also works to fight frizz and increase shine. You only need to add heat to the treatment for 12 minutes, although I do leave it on for up to 30 minutes sometimes.

It’s full of proteins

Another important note regarding this treatment: since it is protein heavy to repair the hair, you must seal it with a moisturizing, nourishing conditioner. You can really use any brand for this step, but I fell in love with using the Ouidad Curl Immersion Triple Treat Deep Conditioner on top for maximum moisture and replenishment. Not using something moisturizing on top of the Restoration Deep Treatment may result in your hair feeling a bit stiff due to protein overload.

A few times a year I visit Jason Hallman, a renowned hairstylist at the Ouidad Flagship Salon in NYC for a trim. Jason says “the reason why deep treatment is crucial because curly hair lacks sebum. The sebum gets trapped at the curvature of the curl at the root, so usually the mid shaft and ends are susceptible to extreme dryness and the cuticle being raised. Deep Treatment Curl Restoration Therapy is made of the same protein and amino acids that hair is made of–it’s basically food for the hair, giving the curl internal weight which would make it bouncier less dry and control the frizz.”

How I use the treatment

1. I cleanse my hair using a clarifying shampoo to remove any product or build-up so the treatment can really penetrate in my cleanest, purest hair possible. I usually go with Ouidad Superfruit Clarifying Cream Shampoo because although it clarifies, it is still sulfate-free and does not dry out my hair. Plus, it smells like berries!

2. I generously apply the Curl Restoration Therapy Deep Treatment section by section for seven sections total, making sure to fully saturate my strands. I twist each section up into mini buns before sitting under my tabletop hood dryer for somewhere between 12 and 20 minutes. Sometimes, if parts of my hair do not feel warm, when I take out my mini buns I will hit the length of my hair with my regular dryer to ensure all my hair did get heat for the treatment.

3. With the Curl Restoration Therapy Deep Treatment still in my hair, I apply the moisturizing conditioner, mostly Ouidad Curl Immersion Triple Treat Deep Conditioner, on top and let the combo sit anywhere from 20 minutes to an hour depending on how much time I have.

4. I get back in the shower and rinse most of it out with cool water, leaving some in especially on my ends.

How often I use this treatment depends on two things

It depends on how my hair is behaving and time of year. On average I use it about twice a month regularly, but I generally listen to what my hair is telling me it needs. Some signs that tell me it may be time to use the treatment include extra frizz that cannot be tamed, brittle ‘hay-like’ ends even if I am not due for a trim, my hair feeling dry despite conditioning, and my wave pattern just overall being unmanageable.

Remember this when using any treatment with heat

It is also important to mention that with this treatment, or any treatment using heat, you do not want to use it three days prior or ten days after getting color put into your hair. I have not colored my hair in 1 year and 9 months so now I do not have to worry about that. If you use the heat too close to your protein treatment it may affect your color since it opens up the cuticle for the treatment.

Note: This post is not sponsored or endorsed by Ouidad in any way, shape or form. Ouidad just makes some of my favorite curly products!

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By Diane Mary · Published November 30, 2016

There are ways to detangle your curls effectively without harming them.

Many factors contribute to having damaged hair including dye, chemicals, daily manipulation and everyday environmental factors like the sun and wind. When you have texture to your hair, you know you have to go easy during the detangling process. If your wavy hair is damaged, being extra gentle is imperative. There are ways to detangle your curls effectively without harming them.

Why detangle?

Effectively detangling your hair prior to styling will help leave your hair knot-free, remove stray hairs from shedding that are stuck together. Keeping in mind that it is normal to lose about 100 hairs a day from shedding, you can prevent even more hair loss, matting, and sticking with these steps.

1. Use a cleansing conditioner.

This helps rid your hair of any styling products or build-up while adding in moisture and hydration. Wavy hair, try Ouidad Curl Immersion Coconut Co-Wash.

2. Saturate your hair with a deep conditioner.

Damaged wavy hair needs to use a deep conditioner at least once a week to nurse it back to health. Try Original Moxie Intense Quench Deep Conditioner which has a unique blend of botanicals, herbs, proteins, and emollients that enhance shine, softness and strength in wavy hair.

3. Gently finger detangle, starting from the bottom.

Without rinsing the deep conditioner out, it is detangling time. A proper deep conditioner gives added slip, aiding in the detangling process. I use my fingers to detangle my own waves. By doing so, I can feel any knots or snarls right away. If you do not want to use your fingers, use a wide tooth comb for assistance. However, stay away from a brush or fine tooth comb, as they can cause more damage and breakage.

Detangle in sections, and start from the bottom. This may be the most important of all the detangling tips. How many sections you create is a personal preference, but I usually have two in bottom back, one on each side, the top of the back of my head and then my two front hairline sections. If your hair gets extra knotty, creating more sections might be helpful. If you immediately start at the root of your hair and try to detangle all the way down, any knots, snarls or tangles will bunch up down the length, resulting in breakage and the potential for more damage. Detangling from the bottom may be more time consuming, but it is worth it.

4, Let your deep conditioner sit for about an hour.

Once you have detangled all of your hair, you may want to add some more deep conditioner, letting it sit for up to an hour. Then, rinse most of it out–damaged wavy hair should leave some of their deep conditioner on the ends as a leave-in. This will continue to intensely moisturize and treat the hair.

5. Style as usual with your favorite styling products.

Lately my hair has been loving DevaCurl Wave Maker.

• Optional: Some people like to pre-poo their wavy hair with an oil treatment. If your wavy hair is damaged, this can make detangling much easier followed by conditioning. Saturate your hair and scalp with a good oil blend such as the Jane Carter Solution Healthy Hair Complex 4 Replenish and Repair Oil, which will allow your fingers to glide through. Additionally, the Maraca, Sunflower and Coconut oils will help further treat dry, damaged hair.

How do you detangle your wavy hair?

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By Diane Mary · Published November 22, 2016

Have you noticed the men in your life are sprouting more facial hair than usual lately?

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Have you noticed the men in your life are sprouting more facial hair than usual lately? No Shave November or Movember may be the reason behind it. If you are unfamiliar with it, these are charities set up to bring awareness to several issues causing men to die way too soon.

Per the official site, No Shave November is a unique way to grow cancer awareness.

It says that “The goal of No-Shave November is to grow awareness by embracing our hair, which many cancer patients lose, and letting it grow wild and free. Donate the money you typically spend on shaving and grooming to educate about cancer prevention, save lives, and aid those fighting the battle.” You can sign up to participate at no-shave.org and even create your own personal fundraising page to raise money for the cause. To date, the organization has raised over $2 million dollars.

The Movember Foundation was also set up to “help men live happier, healthier, longer lives through investing in three key areas: prostate cancer, testicular cancer, and mental health and suicide prevention.” Since their start in 2003, they’ve raised $710 million and helped fund 1,200 breakthrough men’s health programs in 21 countries. The foundation encourages men to grow mustaches for the month of November to spark conversation and bring awareness to the issue. The goal is to have men and women commit to get active–or move–throughout the month.

If you are a male growing a beard for No Shave November, you definitely want to keep your new facial hair in tip top shape.

The hair and skin on the face and beard is different from the hair and skin on the head, so it is important to use proper products and treat them as so. If you use hair care products designed for the hair from your scalp on your beard, your beard is not reaching its full potential. According to Beardbrand, “facial hair will grow in thicker and flatter than head hair. This means beards are coarser and curlier than the head hair counterparts.”

Black Label Beard says the difference between caring for beards and not caring is that “Neglected beards will feel itchy, scratchy, dry, and look wiry. Well-kept beards will look clean, straight, and will grow from being well moisturized and healthy.”

SheaMoisture, which has insanely popular products for all hair types, just released a new line in the Men’s Grooming category to help your beard be the best it can be. The Three Butters Beard Softener and Skin Protector contains sandalwood, coconut and jojoba oils to soften the beard and help sooth any irritation and inflammation on the skin. BeardBrand also has various products to care for your beard, with oils to soften and waxes to style, as well as beard washes and even shave soaps.

Do you know, or are you a man who participates in No Shave November or Movember?

What positive impact, if any have you noticed? Let me know in the comments below.

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By Diane Mary · Published November 4, 2016

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• Chia-flaxseed extract blend to enhance waves, add shine, and control frizz.
• Rice protein to add body and fullness.
• Lotus flower: to give waves bounce and vibrancy.

Like all DevaCurl products, these are sulfate, silicone, gluten, paraben and cruelty-free as well as vegan-friendly.

Delight Low-Poo

Product claims

“The balanced, lightweight formula cleanses the scalp and hair while fighting frizz and oiliness. Great for a thorough yet gentle cleanse, it’s made with rice protein for body and fullness, lotus flower for bounce, and a chia-flaxseed extract blend for defined waves that last.”

What I say

One Condition Delight

Product Claims

“Give strands the perfect amount of hydration. The light, moisturizing formula—made with rice protein, lotus flower, and a chia-flaxseed blend—fights frizz, detangles, and sets you up for a defined, wavy look that lasts. Hair is left nourished, vibrant, and smooth.”

What I Say

This has the same scent as the shampoo. I was concerned this conditioner would not be moisturizing enough for me since my waves are notoriously dry. However, the product actually made detangling easy–I massaged it into my hair with my fingers in the shower to help make sure my hair really absorbed it all.

Speaking on consistency, One Condition Delight was not runny, but also not thick. It did a great job at leaving my hair feeling hydrated but I did need quite a bit of product–my wavy hair drank it up.

I did not rinse this conditioner out all out. Instead, I quickly splashed some water onto the roots and left at least 80% of the product in my hair as a leave-in for added moisture. I like this conditioner even though I do still rotate it out with something heavier–usually a masque–since my hair craves so much moisture. After rinsing the masque out completely, I apply the Delight Conditioner as a leave-in.

Wave Maker

Product Claims

“A lightweight, whipped formula for touchable, wavy texture that lasts all day. This light and airy whip, made with moringa seed and passion flower extracts, gives consistent waves and frizz control every time you use it. Hair is left smooth, healthy-looking, and delicately scented. Provides touchable texture that lasts.”

What I Say

When I use the DevaCurl Delight Low-Poo, One Condition and Wave Maker, I noticed some of the best wave definition my hair has ever achieved on day one. Day two and three hair had nice definition–even after sleeping and working out. I also needed to do less to my hair to refresh it than I normally would.

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To sum it up

Overall, I love the incredible definition, texture, shine and lack of frizz in my hair using DevaCurl Delight & Wave Maker. If you have wavy hair that is prone to frizz and crave more definition, definitely give these a try.

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By Diane Mary · Published April 7, 2016

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Scar tissue can form. The extent of the burn depends on the amount of chemical used, the amount of time the skin was exposed to the hair chemical and other factors. In this article I will explain a few ways to treat a burn at home, but it is important to note that some burns require professional medical help. It is best to seek the advice of a medical professional who can see and assess your individual burn first.

Do you still feel heat in the area of the burn?

The damage can continue even when you are no longer in contact with the item that burned you in the first place. That’s why running a burn under cold water feels so good, because it’s actually cooling the affected area. However, do NOT place ice on the burn, as it changes the temperature of the tissues too quickly and can incur further damage.

If you can flush the area with water, do so copiously.

• Remove earrings, hairpins, hats and other items that may have come in contact with the chemical.
• Pay particular attention to the eyes.
• Dress the area in loose-fitting, dry bandages and observe.
• Use appropriate ointments to treat peeling, itching, and blistering.

3 Steps to sooth the burn

1. Remove the heat source and run the burn under cold water for at least 30 seconds. 

2. Rinse the burn with white or apple cider vinegar. Dab pure white or apple cider vinegar over the affected area.

3. Apply a burn cream or other healing salve with gauze, a clean towel or t-shirt.

Why vinegar helps

Weak acetic acid in vinegar balances the damaged skin’s pH, which accelerates healing and skin regeneration. This also reduces the amount of scar tissue. Did you know there is a patent filed stating that the mixture of any citrus juice and salt has been shown to “stop pain on contact, prevent blistering, cause the tissue to remain elastic, promote healing and prevent infection”?

Certain salves and ointments will help, too. Aquaphor is an affordable and effective option available at Target or Walgreens. Josie Maran Argan Balm is a good option for those who take the natural but store-bought route. Nourishing Joy shares a DIY recipe that is 100% natural.

DIY scalp burn salve

• 1/4 cup raw honey, preferably Manuka honey
• 1/4 cup unrefined coconut oil
• 1 teaspoon beeswax
• 1 tablespoon Sea Buckthorn oil, optional
• 1/2 teaspoon aloe vera gel, aloe vera juice, or rosewater

Why this works

Directions

By Diane Mary · Published March 15, 2016

Almond oil is a pure and natural substance with no chemicals that softens, nourishes, and strengthens hair and skin.

The almond is a drupe–not an actual ‘nut’ by definition–which calls the Middle East and South Asia home. This beauty miracle started making its way along the Mediterranean through Africa, Europe, and eventually the United States. Now almond oil is in many of our hair and beauty products. It is a pure and natural substance with no chemicals that softens, nourishes, and strengthens hair and skin.

Adds sheen

Almond oil contains a high concentration of proteins and vitamins A, B and E, all of which help add shine to dull, dry hair. Additionally, fatty acids omega 9, 6, and 3 help to reflect damaging UV rays. It also forms a thin, oily layer on the hair which protects it from sun damage.

Fights breakage

Vitamins A, B, and E and fatty acids omega 9, omega 6 and omega 3 keep hair strong and healthy, preventing against breakage and split ends. Almond oil is a great sealant on wet hair over stylers and can also be used on day 2 hair and beyond, concentrating on the ends, to help hold in moisture in and further protect the fragile length.

Nourishes dryness

Almond oil is extremely nourishing to not only the lengths of the hair but the roots as well. Because almond oil is lighter, it’s also an excellent option for finer hair that gets weighed down easily. Also because of its weight, it is the perfect base for using essential oils that further moisturize the scalp and fight off dandruff.

Stimulates hair growth

Massage almond oil directly on the scalp before clarifying or co-washing to stimulate hair growth. It contains strengthening magnesium at the root of hair, which increases blood circulation to the scalp to promote hair growth. Massage almond oil onto the scalp nights before you are ready to wash your hair the following day. Sleep with a satin bonnet so your pillow does not become oily. Do this consistently every time you wash for the best results.

Almond oil contains essential vitamins for skin health and beauty including vitamins A, E, and D. Its healthy fat content is important for keeping the skin supple and hydrated.

Exfoliates

Almond oil is an excellent carrier for salt and sugar. The salt or sugar will remove dirt and dead skin cells. The almond oil will immediately replenish your scrubbed skin. Apply this treatment to your face or lips once or twice a week for best results. 

Almond oil facial cleanser removes dirt as effectively as the facial scrub. As a cleanser, it will open pores, forcing dead skin cells and dirt to come up to the surface. It also makes a gentle eye makeup remover as well.

Apply a generous amount of almond oil on dry skin, massage it in and then splash some water. Rinse your face with cool water and pat dry gently.

Evens out skin texture 

The best time to use almond oil for facial massage is right before bedtime. It ensures that the oil will stay long enough so that it can perform its functions well. Almond oil massage helps to reduce dark circles under eyes, remove dead skin cells, and improves the texture of your facial skin. Applying almond oil before bed is that the solution is also therapeutic.

The most common benefit of almond oil for face is that it can be used as daily moisturizer. It not only softens up rough or dry skin, but almond oil also creates protective layer on the face.

Reduces fine lines

There are many products out there that claim to help with under eye dark circles. If you are looking for a more natural solution, almond oil is always a good choice. You can simply apply the oil in the dark areas before bed, so you can let it work while you are asleep. For optimum results, you need to perform this treatment everyday for several weeks. This treatment will not only help the under eye dark circles fade, but it also can help to reduce dark eyelids and crow’s feet.

How to: Wet your hands with warm water, and then massage the oil to all areas of your face. This will help the oil to penetrate more easily into the skin. You can even apply makeup after the oil is fully absorbed.

By Diane Mary · Published March 15, 2016

Often the issue isn’t the hair growth from the scalp that makes length difficult to achieve, but preventing breakage from the ends.

For years, I’ve been growing my hair out as healthy as it can be. This is how.

1. Practicing safe hair coloring

Many people might insist that coloring natural hair is damaging and you can’t grow it long because of that. While it is true that coloring causes some damage, you just have to make sure to care for the colored hair safely.

2. Trims (only when I need them”>

When your hair has a lot of split ends, trim it–but not just because of your calendar schedule. I go between three and four months for our trims. I know I’m due for a trim when my hair starts tangling more easily, sheds more and looks limp.

3. Regular deep conditioning

Genetically, my hair is super dry and I color it which makes it dryer as well. I deep condition every single time I wash my hair and use a regular conditioner as a leave-in. Using a deep conditioner with heat or steam will make it work even better; one of my personal favorites lately has been the Briogeo Don’t Despair, Repair! Mask.

4. Using coconut oil

Coconut oil is one of the only oils that penetrates all the way to the middle of the hair strand. It helps provide strength, softness, and repairs damage to chemically treated hair. The night before wash day, I like to sleep with my hair saturated in coconut oil. Sometimes on day 2 or 3 hair, I will even use a little bit of coconut oil in place of a serum to minimize frizz.

6. Focusing on my scalp

While I sleep with coconut oil on my length, I use certain blends of essential oils on my scalp. I apply them before bedtime and then give myself a scalp massage, helping to increase circulation and blood flow to encourage growth. I like the Jessicurl Stimulating Scalp Oil Treatment.

7. Paying attention to ingredients

The more products I used that didn’t contain sulfates, non-water soluble silicones, parabens and heavy waxes, the better my hair health was overall. More natural products with moisturizers, healthy oils, butters and vitamins are so important. I especially notice when I don’t use products with heavy silicones my hair is less frizzy and better able to be managed.

8. Alternating between a shampoo & co-wash on wash days

I usually only wash my hair twice a week, alternating between sulfate-free shampoos and co-washes. I like to use Living Proof Restore one wash and then Nubian Heritage Strengthen & Grow the next time. Once a week, shampoo helps to remove styling products, sweat from working out, and environmental toxins. Every month, I use a sulfate-free clarifying shampoo to really help detox my hair (and keep my color from getting brassy”>.

9. Washing less

Washing your hair too frequently can dry the hair out because you are not allowing your hair to absorb the natural oils it produces. If you dry your hair out it becomes weak and prone to breakage. I use a dry shampoo and refresher spray on non wash days for the scalp to be clean.

10. Moisturizing often

11. Protecting my hair at night

Sleeping on satin pillowcases and spraying the hair with a moisture spray before bedtime are both great ways to let help your hair survive the night. Usually by morning, my hair–especially the ends–drink up my refresher spray as if it was a delicious milkshake!

12. Never over-processing with color

When I go in for my color, my hairdresser touches up my roots only. Not overlapping and putting color on previously colored hair keeps it so much more healthier than if the length of the hair were to get color processed every single time. Especially with long hair, the ends of my hair I think are at least 5 years old, so they have been through a lot.

13. Minimizing heat usage

I use heat styling tools as infrequently as possible. In the beginning of my journey, I went two years without straightening or blow drying it once. Now, I straighten once a year to see my length. I also air dry instead of blowdrying.

14. Detangling gently

A wide tooth comb or a Tangle Teezer is great to help tangle. Start from the bottom of the hair and work your way up the length to detangle. One big comb through from scalp to end will get the comb stuck in the hair and the results won’t be pretty. It might take a little extra time to detangle more carefully, but the reward of long healthy hair is worth it. Also, please don’t try and detangle hair that is all dry with styling products in it. That’s just a big no.

15. Watching my diet

Everything in our body, including our hair is affected by what we put into it. Eating a diet rich in protein, vegetables and whole grains is essential.

16. Taking hair vitamins

I have been taking hair vitamins every day for years. They are good for the hair and also for the body. I have gone through several brands and right now I am using the Hairfinity ones with good results. I suggest waiting at least 3 months before expecting to see results.

It’s all about consistency and patience!

Doing the scalp oils, the deep treatments and taking the hair vitamins consistently and in a routine will truly pay off. Remember, the average human hair grows about a half an inch a month. You might experience more or less but there is not one miracle way for hair to sprout inches overnight. If there was one, I’m pretty sure I would have found it already!

Happy hair growing!

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By Diane Mary · Published March 3, 2016

Coconut oil can help with hair bleaching

Coconut oil leaves bleached hair feeling super soft and much more healthy looking. Using coconut oil on bleached hair can help hair that feels crunch or hay like feel significantly softer with consistent use and even make the hair more manageable.

How to use coconut oil for bleached hair

1. Coat all of your hair with melted coconut oil root to tip, at night before bed.

2. Cover it with a towel or shower cap and go to sleep.

3. Bleach hair as usual the next day with oil still in the hair.

Why it works

The idea is the night of oil-soaking replicates the buildup of natural oils in your hair and protects both your scalp and the hair itself from damage causing bleach. Some people have found that using oil helps their bleach to process faster than it would without it. Adding coconut oil to the bleaching process can create a barrier to help prevent the burning and itching feeling that usually occurs with the process.

Do you bleach your hair? 

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By Diane Mary · Published December 21, 2015

Tea tree oil, also known scientifically as Melaleuca alternifolia, is an essential oil that has been extracted from a plant native to Australia and cannot be found naturally occurring elsewhere.

This oil is widely known for its topical antiseptic and antifungal treatment or infection-reducing benefits. Tea tree oil also has antibiotic properties aids against ailments like skin infections, rashes, burns, dandruff and much more.

As far as the hair is concerned, tea tree oil helps fight dry and itchy scalps and also can help combat dandruff thanks to the effective moisturizing properties within the oils. Though there is no scientific or clinical proof, I have read time and time again Tea Tree Oil also can help support hair growth. Thanks to its antiseptic and antifungal properties mentioned before, this oil creates the optimum condition on your scalp to grow hair. Being on a forever long personal journey to grow my hair long and healthy, I have counted tea tree as an ingredient in many, many hair growth stimulating oil mixes.

DIY Lice Prevention Spray

Directions

You may also spray a little extra on your scalp and massage it in.

If you want to try and amp up the benefits, feel free to add 2 to 3 drops to your shampoo and conditioner. Do a patch test to make sure you are not allergic to tea tree oil if you have never used it before. If any reaction occurs, stop use immediately. Find tea tree oil at your local health store.

Always dilute it first

By Diane Mary · Published December 5, 2015

You are what you eat–literally.

And because your hair is part of you, what you eat reflects in the health and state of your hair. If you want hair that is healthy, longer, stronger and shinier you should be paying attention to what you put INSIDE your body, not just what you use on the hair itself. These superfoods will help you and your hair looking their best.

1. Water = Hydration

We are primarily made up of water. It is important to stay hydrated and to keep all of your body cells working properly. By drinking enough water daily, you are also helping the hydration and moisture levels of your hair as well. By not drinking enough water daily, you are hindering your hair growth as well. If you don’t like the taste or want to spruce up your regular water, infuse it with some berries or citrus, which will give you added vitamins as well.

2. Omega-3 Fatty Acids, Iron, Vitamin D = Salmon

Salmon is a healthy food superstar; it is an oily fish rich in protein, vitamin D, and fatty acids. The Omega-3 fatty acids are necessary for a healthy scalp, resulting in hair growth. Salmon also contains iron and Vitamin B12 which can help promote strength and shine in your hair. If you don’t like fish, flaxseeds are a good vegetarian replacement for these nutrients.

3. Biotin, Vitamin B, Protein= Chicken & Eggs

4. Zinc, Vitamin C = Beef & Oysters

Beef and oysters are rich sources of zinc, which is helpful in improving your hair’s natural luster. Zinc deficiency is a cause of hair loss and dryness, so include beef and oysters in your diet. Zinc is also said to help combat premature graying of hair. Make sure to eat enough vitamin C in your diet, which will help the zinc absorption. You can find vitamin C in citrus fruits such as oranges and grapefruits, as well.

4. Biotin, Vitamin E, Zinc = Nuts

Nuts are a great source of healthy fats, and we need healthy fats to look and feel our best. Walnuts and almonds in particular are high in omega-3 fatty acids which can help keep hair strong, and zinc which can help aid in hair loss. Walnuts in particular also contain a great amount of vitamin E and biotin. The vitamin E can help protect your cells from DNA damage cause by the environment and too little biotin can lead to hair loss. Brazil nuts are another great option to snack on for hair health. They contain a good amount of the mineral Selenium. A deficiency in Selenium has been linked to slower hair growth.

5. Folic acid, Iron, Biotin = Lentils

6. Vitamin A = Carrots & Sweet Potatoes

What do these two have in common? They’re both orange. They also are an excellent sources of Vitamin A. Vitamin A helps the scalp product enough sebum. Sebum is like natural oil that your scalp products and it important for your scalp and the length of your hair to stay moisturized and not become dry and brittle. Dandruff flaky scalp is just one condition of what might happen if your scalp does not produce enough sebum.

By Diane Mary · Published December 3, 2015

NATURALLYCURLY READER EGYPTIANCHICK'S TRIM

How many times have you gone to the salon to ask for “just a trim” when all of a sudden half of your length is lopped off? Foregoing cutting your hair is not the answer to gaining length. Why? The split ends will accumulate and only get worse, traveling up the hair shaft and damaging more of our hair.

It is important to take care of your ends whenever you notice they are looking really frayed. There are 2 options: trimming and dusting. Each person is different.

There are 2 options: trimming and dusting.

Trimming

Dusting

Split end menders are just a temporary fix

All hair is susceptible to split ends regardless of whether you chemically process your hair or if it is natural. Split ends can’t be permanently repaired despite the claims from some specially formulated haircare products. These products can only temporarily glue split ends together so they appear repaired. Splits can occur at any point along the hair shaft but tend to occur at the end of the hair (hence the name”>. It is often advised that split ends should be cut as the split can travel up the hair shaft. Whilst this can happen, often splits tear or break off around the point they started. It’s best to just cut the split ends anyway as they can prevent full length retention.

When trimming, cutting or dusting hair, always ensure you use good quality scissors that are sharp. You don’t want to cause damage as you’re cutting it off. Make sure you are in good lighting to see exactly which parts of the hair are damaged. You may do this on either wet or dry hair.

How to Dust Your Own Hair at Home

1. Divide your hair into somewhat equal sections. Twist and clip the sections firmly on your head. If you have curly hair, consider putting your hair into several small two-strand twists to make dusting your hair easier to control and see.
2. Use cutting shears specifically designed to cut hair. It’s worth the splurge to buy professional hair scissors when dusting or trimming your hair. Regular scissors actually aren’t sharp enough to cut through hair without causing damage and possibly split ends, so always opt for hair shears when dusting your hair.  
3. Unclip one of the sections. Try to go from the hair in your front bangs and work your way around.
4. Examine each and every one of the ends. When you see a split end, then move on to to the next step.
5. Trim no more than 1/4″ from the ends of your hair. Anything more is no longer dusting and considered a haircut! If you’re dusting your hair while it’s styled in two-strand twists, cut no more than 1/4″ from the end of each twist.
6. Repeat all the steps until you have dusting all sections of your hair. This might take a while so plan ahead

By Diane Mary · Published October 13, 2015

A full head of thick, luscious hair is quite beautiful, isn’t it? Whether you were born with finer hair or you notice your hair began thinning over the years, you can still fake voluminous hair to the rest of the world. Here are six ways to fake having thick hair.

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1. Use a volumizing shampoo

One of the fastest ways to fake having thick hair is certainly with the use of the right products. Volumizing shampoos and cleansing conditioners give the illusion of thicker, fuller hair. Many of them also have ingredients inside that can encourage thicker curly hair from the roots over time, with consistent use. My pick: SheaMoisture Yucca & Baobab Thickening Shampoo

2. Use a thickening mousse or gel

A thickening mousse can give your hair all day volume with soft, touchable hold. No flat hair here! You apply either one on damp hair after the shower and comb it through the lengths, then style as usual. My Pick: Living Proof Full Thickening Mousse

3. Use a round brush with a heat protectant

Blow drying your hair with a round brush from root to tip will help smooth the hair. Turning the hair upside down during the blow drying process will give additional lift and volume. Do not use a flat or paddle brush if you have fine or thin hair–they are designed to smooth and flatten the cuticles. Don’t forget to use a heat protector spray so your hair gets minimally heat damaged. My Pick: Nubian Heritage Honey and Black Seed Heat Protectant Keratin Spray

4. Use a root lifting powder

Volume gives the appearance of thicker hair and volume is created at the root. Massaging a root lifting powder into the scalp and teasing the hair will help the hair to appear fuller and give added volume. A good root lifting powder will absorb almost instantly leaving no powdery residue behind. My Pick: Big Sexy Hair Powder Play Volumizing and Texturizing Powder

5. Use Velcro rollers with hairspray

Wrapping sections of your hair around large Velcro rollers and gently hitting it with the blow dryer will give you hair that is 1980s high but with modern day style. Simply blow dry the face-framing pieces and top section of your hair, wrapping sections around one or two large Velcro rollers. Let it sit for about 10 minutes, shake it out, and scrunch in a nice flexible hold hairspray. My Pick: Devacurl Flexible-Hold Hair Spray

6. Get the right cut

The right haircut will make a huge different. Consider a hairstyle that will flatter fine hair such as a classic bob. Another option is a shoulder-grazing cut angled in long layers around the face. If you have fine hair that is really long and looking too thin or stringy at the ends, cutting off a couple inches may help.

Every woman wants to feel good about their hair. With so many ways to fake having thick hair, you can get the hair of your dreams in no time.

By Diane Mary · Published June 29, 2015

PHOTO COURTESY OF REYNA NORIEGA

We permanently dye our hair for many reasons–we may want to cover up grays, change up our look constantly and maybe we just do not like the hue Mother Nature has given us. If we spend all that time in the salon getting color processed, plus our hard earned money on our color, of course we want it to last until it is time to get redone! Here are some tips to help make our hair color last:

1. Don’t Shampoo Too Often

Frequent shampooing will cause your hair color to fade faster. Wash no more than 3 times a week and on the days between use a dry shampoo to help any oil at your roots.

2. Use a Shampoo & Conditioner with Color Protecting Ingredients

Using a shampoo and conditioner (or mask”> with ingredients to help prolong the life of your color is a great investment. You already spent all the money on your hair color, so you want it to last. Ingredients like UV protectors (more on that in a minute”>, plus butters and oils to moisturize and hydrate your hair is ideal, plus protein to restore the damage from coloring.

My favorite line to use for color protection is the Kerastase Reflection Chroma Captive range. Another great option is the Superfruit Renewal system by Shea Moisture.

3. Go Easy on the Heat Styling Tools

Keep blow drying, flat ironing and curling to a minimum. Color treated hair is more prone to breakage and damage from high heat tools. If you must use them (I get it, no one wants to go outside with wet hair mid winter”> it is best to keep it on a colder setting. It may take a bit longer to dry, but having less damage is worth it.

4. Deep Condition Frequently

This is always my #1 tip for hair health and with color, it is no exception. Deep conditioning will help the damage that hits your hair from the coloring process by restoring moisture and protein. Frequent deep conditioning leaves hair, softer, smoother and more manageable and helps preserve the color.

5. Add a Glaze To Your Routine

Using a glaze every other week will give your hair increased shine and boost your color vibrancy. It will help fight any dullness or fading that may start and keep your color looking fresh until next salon appointment. A great option is the Rita Hazan Gloss for your hair color (I use the Ultimate Shine Breaking Brass one”>

6. Use a Color Depositing Conditioner

These are great to boost the vibrancy of your color treated hair or help balance and tone. I personally love using the Clairol Shimmer Lights purple conditioner to counteract brassiness in my blonde. But be careful not to use them every single wash- as some color depositing conditioners can cause build up.

7. Invest In a Filtered Shower Head

Water is said to be the biggest culprit for fading hair color, but we NEED water to shower- there is no way around it! Investing in a filter for your showerhead will cut down on minerals like iron and lime, which can alter the hair, even being a culprit for blondes turning brassy! Aside from keeping your hair color truer, longer, using a flitered shower head will also help with shine, frizz and manageability. I personally have been using the T3 Source Showerhead Filter since October and can’t believe the difference.

8. Don’t Shower with Scorching Hot Water

Hot showers feel wonderful to our souls, but they zap our skin and hair of vital moisture. Showering with lukewarm water and even (gulp”> finishing with cool water will help your hair color stay shiny.

9. Use Products with UV Filters

“Ultraviolet rays can penetrate the cuticle of the hair and oxidize or bleach the color,” according to allure.com Not only will your hair color fade but it will also dry your hair out. Using a product with UV protectors in it, such as Living Proof Restore Instant Protection Spray will help keep your strands safe from the sun. When you go to the beach, or will be out in the sun for long hours at a time, wearing a hat is most ideal to protect your hair from sun damage.

10. Beware Of Chlorine

Especially blondes. If you go swimming unprepared, your curls can turn green! Coat the hair with conditioner and/or an oil beforehand so your hair does not absorb the chemicals. If you do wind up with a green tint to your locks, a good old remedy is using tomato juice on it- the red can help counteract the green.

This article was originally published December 2014 and has been updated for grammar and clarity.

By Diane Mary · Published May 28, 2015

Being a curly wavy girl and self proclaimed hair product junkie, I have tried so many hair products over the years. Gel has been an important staple for me for styling my hair after showering. When layered with other products or used by itself, using gel helps with my curl definition, frizz control and shine.  More than anything else, I am often asked what my favorite hair gels are.

Before I discuss the products, these are the factors that make gels winners for me.

• Strong hold–not crunchy or stiff
• No flaking
• Can help extend multi-day hair
• Adds shine
• Tames frizz
• Increased definition
• Has beneficial ingredients

Regardless of which gel I use, application for me is always the same. I apply my gel on soaking wet hair that has not been towel dried after the shower. 99% of the time the gel gets applied over a leave in conditioner and before sealing with an oil. I like to apply my gel section by section using the popular Ouidad Rake & Shake technique.

Jessicurl Spiralicious Styling Gel

$16.95 in Curlmart

As a looser curly wavy, this alone doesn’t enhance my curl definition but it leaves me with nice, healthy looking hair that lasts even in bad weather! A great choice if you are on the CG method (note: I’m not full CG”> the company is spot on when they say this helps with frizz and does dry crunchy but the crunch doesn’t last. I like the Island Fantasy scent and also appreciate that this comes in Unscented as well. If I pair this with the company’s Rockin Ringlets, aside from the benefits mentioned I also get increased definition as well!

Original Moxie Hold Up Defining Serum

$23.99 in Curlmart

Ouidad VitalCurl Tress Effects Styling Gel

$15 at Ouidad retailers

Raw Curls Firm Hold Gel

$30 on RawHairOrganics.com

SheaMoisture Yucca & Plantain Anti-Breakage Firm Hold Gel-Cream

$9.99 at Target

So, these are my favorite gels right now!

Some of them have remained on my Holy Grail list for years at this point. Admittedly so, why I love them may sound similar to each other–but that is only because what makes gel a favorite for me has the same attributes and features.

By Diane Mary · Published May 26, 2015

SheaMoisture is one of my favorite brands. They are affordable, contain some excellent ingredients and most of the products I tried from them perform so well for my hair.  They brand recently reformulated one of their lines as well as added a bunch of new products to it! The Anti-Breakage line is made with natural and certified organic ingredients and is designed to help repair hair, making it thicker, fuller, stronger and more moisturized. I tried a few of the products prior to the reformulation and some of them were even Holy Grails for me so naturally, I was concerned about a change that I would love the products as much. Having experienced bad breakage a few months ago of course anything titled “Anti-Breakage” immediately peaked my interest! Keep on reading to find out what I think of the new line!

Everything in this line contains the following ingredients:

•        Yucca to promote hair growth for thicker, fuller hair.

•        Plantain Extract is rich in Vitamin B complex. Nourishes hair with moisture.

•        Baobab Oil contains Vitamins A, D, E and F to fortify and strengthen hair.

•        Baobab oil and cilantro extract refreshes and boosts shine.

The whole line also has a light, powdery floral smell just like they did before the re-formulation. I don’t find the scent to be overbearing at all.

SheaMoisture Yucca & Plantain Anti-Breakage Strengthening Shampoo

What They Say: This Sulfate-free shampoo gently cleanses hair and scalp, removing impurities and product build-up. Smoothes hair cuticles to reduce frizz and improve the appearance of split ends. Certified organic Shea Butter, Plantain and Yucca combine in a strengthening formula that helps weak hair resist breakage. Strengthens and thickens strands for thicker, healthier hair.

What I Say: This shampoo is great! I’ve been using it throughout my lengths once a week and then on scalp only with a co-wash the other time a week. It leaves my hair feeling clean and very moisturized. This may be one of the most moisturizing shampoos by SheaMoisture I tried. It’s a bit runny in consistency. I switched out the cap for a pump and use one pump on scalp and one through lengths. 

SheaMoisture Yucca & Plantain Anti-Breakage Strengthening Conditioner

What They Say: SheaMoisture Yucca and Plantain Anti-Breakage Strengthening Conditioner’s fortifying formula detangles and smoothes the hair cuticle for an improved appearance of split ends and frizzy hair. Infused with certified organic shea butter, plantain and yucca for a strengthening formulation that helps hair resist breakage.

What I Say: I only use masques as conditioners so I have been using this as a leave in sometimes alone and sometimes in a mix with other SheaMoisture products (If you follow my blog you probably know what I mean.”> The texture is a nice medium balance- not lightweight and not too heavy and builds the foundation for my styling products after. I really like this conditioner.

SheaMoisture Yucca & Plantain Anti-Breakage Strengthening Masque

What They Say: This intensive treatment deeply penetrates to condition and smooth frazzled strands with a nutrient-rich fortifying formula. Transforms frizzy hair into sleek, healthy strands. Helps bind split ends and improves the overall appearance of hair. Certified organic Shea Butter, Plantain and Yucca combine in a strengthening formula that helps weak hair resist breakage.

What I Say: This was a product I used prior to the reformulation and I did like it but now I like it so much better. The old formula I couldn’t use alone, as it always would leave my hair feeling a bit hard and stiff. That issue has been resolved for me. I can use this on its own and it has an excellent protein/moisture ratio where after I rinse my hair just feels so soft, nice slip, detangles easily, has shine and less frizz. I’ve been using this once a week and haven’t added head to it yet.

SheaMoisture Yucca & Plantain Root Lifting Styler

What They Say: This lightweight styler lifts hair at the roots and boosts body for full, yet flexible styles. Certified organic Shea Butter, Yucca and Plantain combine in a strengthening formula that improves resistance to breakage. Garlic helps increase blood circulation in the scalp for healthier hair.

What I Say: This product is interesting. I don’t desire my roots to be lifted, in fact I don’t like much volume in my hair because it’s naturally pretty poofy. However, the ingredients in here are extremely beneficial for hair and scalp so I’ve been using it anyway. I like applying it to just my scalp on freshly washed hair and massaging it in. It doesn’t weigh down my hair or make it look greasy. Sometimes if I go too many days between washing I will also apply it after using a dry shampoo and my scalp doesn’t look oily. You have to make sure to shake this well before using.

SheaMoisture Yucca & Plantain Anti-Breakage Frizz-Free Shine Mist

What They Say: This multi-purpose mist provides light hold with movement and a boost of shine. Spritz on dry hair to build body and keep natural styles fresh. Conditions and smoothes hair cuticles to reduce frizz and improve the appearance of split ends. Certified organic Shea Butter, Plantain and Yucca combine in a strengthening formula that helps weak hair resist breakage. Thickens strands and increases volume for thicker, full-bodied hair

What I Say: This was a holy grail product prior to reformulating and I am happy to report that even after the formula change it happily remains on my holy grail list. My favorite way to use this is at night if my hair looks particularly dry to add some moisture in before going to sleep. It also makes a great second or third day hair refreshing spray for me. I haven’t used it on wet hair, but I love it on dry hair. It always adds shine, moisture and tackles frizz. 

SheaMoisture Yucca & Plantain Anti-Breakage Strengthening Styling Milk

What They Say: This lightweight cream softens as it works to boost body and strengthen hair. Improves manageability for easy styling. Can be mixed, blended and layered with other products for the ultimate smooth finish. Certified organic Shea Butter, Plantain and Yucca combine in a strengthening formula that helps weak hair resist breakage.

What I Say: Just like the mist, this was on the Holy Grail list before the formula changed and it’s still there. I have used it on wet hair with good results under a gel but I also really like this on second or third day hair. Generally I won’t use this AND the mist together, I pick one or the other based on how much moisture I feel my hair needs. It leaves my hair soft and it isn’t super heavy so my hair doesn’t get weighted down from it. Like the rest of the line too I like that every time I apply this on hair, no matter if it is day 1 or day 3, my waves are getting treated with the beneficial ingredients mentioned earlier.

SheaMoisture Yucca & Plantain Wave Defining Lotion

What They Say: This lightweight styling lotion defines and lengthens even the lightest curls and unruly waves. Hydrates and smoothes hair cuticles to reduce frizz and improve the appearance of split ends. Certified organic Shea Butter, Yucca and Plantain combine in a strengthening formula that improves resistance to breakage. Baobab Oil transforms hair and boost shine. Cilantro helps refresh, while Garlic helps increase blood circulation in the scalp for healthier hair.

What I Say: OMG I can’t say enough about this stuff. It’s brand new so it wasn’t on my holy grail list before but it sure is on there now. The consistency is very runny and I do need a decent amount, but the results are crazy good. This gives me some of the best curl definition on my waves I think any product ever has- and this is without a gel. I didn’t think I’d be able to use this without a gel on top but as of right now (aka before the humidity goes too high”> I can use leave in, this and an oil to seal and I’m done. Curl definition, shine, lack of frizz, almost perfection. (I say almost because my hair will never ever ever be perfect”> This is one of those products I want to have a backup of at all time. If you are a wavy with looser curls I highly encourage you to give this a shot. 

SheaMoisture Yucca & Plantain Firm Hold Gel-Cream

What They Say: This innovative styling gel-cream defines gorgeous waves and curls while providing a soft hold without any sticky, flakey residue. Hydrates and smoothes hair cuticles to reduce frizz, keeping curls soft and shiny all day. Certified organic Shea Butter, Yucca and Plantain combine in a strengthening formula that improves resistance to breakage. Baobab Oil transforms hair and boost shine. Cilantro helps refresh, while Garlic helps increase blood circulation in the scalp for healthier hair. Purpose: shine enhancing, Strengthening, Strong Hold, Smoothing

What I Say: This product has some excellent and one not so amazing attribute. I wasn’t a fan of the other SheaMoisture gel, in the pink jar- it was one of the few SheaMoisture products my hair didn’t love. I was excited to see the brand release a new gel! The one con to this is it doesn’t play well with all other products. A couple of times when I applied this over other leave ins the products produced white clumpy flakes in my hair. Sometimes when my hair dried they would disappear but other times, not so much. It did seem to work well with everything else from this line though. Less is more with this product. I love the hold it provides me, the lack of frizz, shine and the fact it is strengthening my hair. The Wave Lotion definitely defines my hair a bit more but this isn’t terribly far behind as far as definition goes for me. I believe the firm hold of this gel-cream will stand up to humidity in the upcoming months, we will see.

SheaMoisture Yucca & Plantain Thermal Protectant Serum

What They Say: This silicone-free oil serum helps protect hair against damage from hot styling tools. Certified organic Shea Butter, Yucca and Plantain combine in a strengthening formula that improves resistance to breakage. Cilantro helps refresh, while Garlic helps increase blood circulation in the scalp for healthier hair.

What I Say: I am on a no heat tool ban right now so I can’t give a review for heat protection or speed styling. However, I have used this on wet hair in place of oil as a sealer and i like it! It’s very thin in consistency and doesn’t weigh the hair down. I’ve also used this to add some shine to dry hair throughout the day if my hair started looking dull. Because it is smaller in size (4oz”> I like to leave this in my purse in case my hair needs touch ups throughout the day.

To conclude

SheaMoisture has done it again with impressing me. Since using everything in the line, I consistently noticed shine, less frizz and my hair felt so soft. I also noticed two amazing things: A significant amount of less hair in the shower shedding and a lot less breakage! This might be my very favorite line by them now! I plan on keeping them in my hair product rotation for the hair growth and anti-breakage benefits as well.

By Diane Mary · Published May 19, 2015

Since my Ouidad Carve And Slice Cut in early April, I have been getting a lot of questions. Going from really long hair to shorter, above the shoulder hair, required some re-learning and changes in my washing, styling and caring routine. In this article I will share what I learned, and still am trying to figure out, with all of you.

The Amount of Products Used

This probably seems like a no brainer. I am usually heavy handed with product, especially because my hair is uber dry and soaks products up. More often then I should admit, recently I styled my hair and realized I applied way more products then needed. On top of my hair being shorter now, a lot of the bleached damage is gone too and healthier hair requires less product. So I’ve become more mindful of using less. The added benefit is my products now last longer and I don’t have to re-buy as often – yay saving money!

Plopping

When my hair was really long I would ALWAYS plop after the shower. Not only would it enhance my curl definition but it would soak up some of the water to help speed along drying time. This also has to do with the fact it is not the dead cold winter, but I haven’t plopped since cutting my hair. I just apply my products (more on that in a minute”> gentle towel scrunch out some of the excess with my Curly Tee and let it air dry. My apologies I don’t have any shorter hair plopping advice for you right now.

Styling

I probably mentioned this in other articles and/or blog posts but I find the best results I get when applying products to my hair now that it is shorter is using Ouidad’s “Rake & Shake” technique going in section by section for seven sections (low back left, low back right, left side, right side, top of back of the head, left hairline, right hairline”> The only thing I add to  this technique is I do scrunch out some of the excess water as mentioned earlier to get it to dry a tad bit quicker.

Sleeping

This is my biggest challenge with shorter hair now. Aside from missing my length like crazy (I really do. I can’t wait for it to regrow. Anyway…”> I really miss being able to pineapple while I sleep to wake up with consistently good second and third day hair. I still sleep on a satin pillowcase or in a satin bonnet but my hair is just wild and free and it does it’s thing. I toss and turn like crazy at night fighting epic battles in my dreams so some mornings I wake up and nothing in the world will save it from wearing it down without completely re-wetting. It’s frustrating. I notice I am clipping or pinning parts of my hair back a lot more since it is shorter. 

Q-Redew

With the above being said, I have been reaching for my Q-Redew a lot more since it is shorter. If one thing can revive my shorter waves after a night battle sleep, it’s this. It also helped to re-form my wonky waves into better looking shapes after work outs too. 

Exercise

Speaking of working out, having shorter waves while exercising is….annoying. When My hair was longer I tied it in a low ponytail or braid, worked out and was fine. Now because some damaged pieces are so short, it all doesn’t go in a ponytail just yet. So on top of needing the ponytail, I also need a headband to keep it off my face AND I use clips because some of the hair flops around and annoys me behind the headband. Working out is important to me, so I do what I have to do to keep my hair off my face in the process.

Messy Buns

This is another thing I miss. So quickly throwing my hair in a cute messy bun when a good hair day isn’t happening, if I am running late or if I don’t want to be bothered. I can tie maybe about 75%-ish of my hair back now but the “ponytail” in a nub and a bun I simply can not make. There have been a few things I have been doing now that my hair is shorter that I didn’t do as much when it was longer. 

Headbands and accessories

I’ve been wearing a lot of headbands for fashion and different clips and barrettes to help hide some awkward length pieces and such. When I wear headbands, it is usually on day 3 hair so my hair is stretched out a bit and it gives off this 1960s mod-look vibe that I like!

Wearing my hair half up

I did this when my hair was longer too but I go to this style A LOT more since my hair is shorter. I clip some of my hair half up, take out a few face framing pieces and I’m good to go. It looks pretty put together and like I tried- meanwhile it took me less than 5 minutes.

I look forward to re-growing it out and if you haven’t already, you can read my article about everything I am doing to re-grow out my hair here.

What are your tips and tricks for shorter curls and waves?