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Cutting off all your hair can be the stuff nightmares are made of for most women. Despite that fact, more and more women are big chopping to join team natural.
As they should be! Going natural can be the most exhilarating, and according to many women, the best decision one can make. A little preparation will help to make the journey to natural as smooth as possible. Read on for a few must-haves you’ll need in your big chopper arsenal.
7 Things Every Big Chopper Needs
Sometimes you’ve just gotta chop it all off… again. So much focus is placed on the first big chop. Everything from articles to YouTube videos are dedicated to guiding would-be naturals through their first big chop. But there’s a different big chop story that is never told. The story of the second, third or even fourth time big chopper. When it seems like every natural is either trying to grow her hair to unattainable lengths or maintain her beloved tresses there are naturals out there choosing to cut it all without reservation. Ultimately whilst each curly will have a different reason for doing her second BC here are a few popular ones.
1. You never stopped to smell the roses
As a new curly you had a mission. You wanted to grow long, healthy hair and maybe even prove a few haters wrong. In the process you got so wrapped up in meeting hair goals and achieving hair lengths that you forget to savour every stage of their naturalness.
And so many of us are guilty of this. We forget to enjoy the fierceness of a TWA and tap into our creativity to get us over the styling hump of having hair in that awkward length. Like children, we can’t wait to grow up (or at least we want our hair to”> but when we finally do, we realise that we long for the days of childhood. This may be especially true for long term protective stylers.
Being natural isn’t just about the having the biggest hair and the perfect curl it’s about the journey and for those women who may feel that they robbed themselves of the experience they find it necessary to cut it all off and start again- but this time around they plan on taking the scenic route.
2. Damage
Hair, unlike other parts of our body, doesn’t regenerate itself. Once damaged it can only be patched up but never fully repaired. For the adventurous curlies out there who never met a hair treatment, tool or product they didn’t want to try they found themselves suffering from a serious case of hair damage. Now some curlies would rather hold onto every inch of damaged hair rather than rock a short cut.
Curlies who were outgoing enough to dye their hair Barbie blonde, try exotic hair treatments or were too rebellious to follow any of the natural hair rules may face the need to cut it all off, again. For these curlies, gradually growing out their hair, babying their ends and protective styling is way too tame! At least this way for a couple of months they get to try yet another fabulous hairstyle- the TWA.
3. Do it right this time (whatever right means”>
Going natural can be hard and for some the learning curve is very steep. With all the information out there and differing opinions about everything it can be hard to figure it all out. Some naturals hit the ground running, others start off slow and take off but a few never really got the hang of it- and that’s ok. However, a head full of damaged hair when all you’ve ever craved is a gravity defying fro can really be a let-down for those women. In fact some women have chosen instead to return to more familiar territory; their wigs weaves and relaxers. However rather than raising the white flag and exiting the natural haired community stage left some women chose to be brave, chop it all off and start fresh. They chose to give natural hair a second try but this time armed with a little more information and an excellent strategy to win the war that is natural hair and go from TWA to BAA without the need for a third Big Chop.
4. Ain’t nobody got time for that
We are mothers, wives, students, career women and sometimes all of the above. We don’t always have time to engage in all-out battle with our hair come wash day, or set aside school and housework to set our hair for the perfect twist out. Hair should never be this all-consuming black hole where our free time goes to die. Like applying makeup or picking the perfect outfit we should look forward to styling our hair so that it can help to portray our personality or be the perfect accessory. However, some naturals found that their hair took up way too much time in their schedule and avoided doing it at all costs or simply never had time for it. Once they reached their hair goals and proved to themselves and others that they could do it they wanted to free themselves of all that extra hair. A lot of new moms or naturals who have found themselves going through new or stressful stages in their lives have chosen to do their second BC. Those who have are now loving the 10 minute daily wash and go sessions, the fact that products last forever and that they no longer really need to detangle. In fact they love their new, simpler hair so much many have vowed never to have long hair again.
I’m sure that many of us can relate to how nerve-racking it is to do the big chop so a round of applause needs to go out to the women who have chosen to do it again and prove that the TWA can be a style choice and a fierce one at that.
Have you done the BC more than once? Let us know below.Ever since one of our favourite curly YouTubers, Naptural85, started singing the praises of flaxseed gel it has quickly become popular in the natural haired community. Many curlies have reported amazing results with this all natural gel and have jumped off the aloe vera ship swam ashore and hopped on the flaxseed bandwagon. But the all-important question still remains- which one is better? Is good old faithful aloe vera gel still number one or has its popularity been stolen by the new kid on the block flaxseed gel? To answer this question we will have to assess this issue from all sides so let the battle of the gels begin.
Hold
A gel that does not provide good hold is hard to incorporate into a hair regimen after all what do you use it for? Whilst aloe vera gel does provide slight hold flaxseed gel definitely wins this round. Pure aloe gel that has not had other ingredients, like thickeners, added to it simply does not have the ability to really set the hair for that amazing twist or braid out. Flaxseed on the other hand provides great hold which is surprising because of its watery consistency. I’ve seen curlies use this gel for everything from twist outs to roller sets with results that left me with serious cases of hair envy.
Also for our wash and go curlies flax seed gel will not disappoint. Many naturalistas have claimed to get defined curls that were still soft and touchable. Aloe on the other hand, although thicker, doesn’t seem to have the same hold and doesn’t do a good job of clumping and defining the curls.
Verdict
If you crave big fluffy hair over curl definition then try aloe vera but if you want hold that will withstand the most vigorous of fluffing and serious case of hand in hair syndrome then flaxseed gel is the better option for you.
Ease of use
I shall not tell a lie- flaxseed is a real pain to use! Its slimy consistency and ability to slide right through your fingers will have you wanting to throw it away and reach for your nearest, thicker, styler. Aloe on the other hand is a lot easier to apply. However, one tip for flaxseed users that really helps is to put the gel into a pump or squeeze bottle. The gel will be easier to dispense than sticking your hand into a jar and trying to get a hold of Flubber.
Verdict
If your favourite phrase is “ain’t nobody got time for that” then I suggest you steer clear of flaxseed and try aloe.
Can it be layered?
It seems that this is usually the deal breaker for a lot of curlies when trying new products because so many of us rely on using multiple products to get out curls, kinks and waves just right. Nothing is more annoying than your hair creating a blizzard around you whenever you touch it and white hair boogers can ruin even the best hairstyle. Aloe vera gel is infamous for being picky and choosy about the products it will mix well with. It seems to think that it’s the crème de la crème of gels and simply will not associate with just any hair product. On the other hand some women have complained that their flaxseed gel has flaked on them but after doing a little research it seems that the issue can usually be boiled down to 3 reasons; using too much gel, not incorporating oil into the mixture, or using the gel on unclean hair- all of which are fixable.
Verdict
If you’re going to use either of these gels as your styler, before applying them on your hair, be sure to mix them in the palm of your hand with your other hair products to ensure that they do not create white balls. When trying both gels for the first time make sure you have nowhere to go so if you do get flakes you can wash and restyle. Also if they do flake on you the first time before writing them off make sure you try the gels with several different products in different ratios.
Other points
- Flaxseed gel is extremely cost efficient. One bag of flaxseeds can be bought for less than $5 and several batches of gel can be made from one bag.
- Unlike aloe vera gel which can be bought you’re going to have to make your own flaxseed gel which can be a pain for curlies who run away from pots and pans like they were diseased (myself included”> or find it hard to even boil water.
- Aloe tends to be slightly acidic which helps to close the cuticle of the hair which makes it shinier. This is why many curlies love to add aloe vera gel or juice into their regimens. Some even use the gel as a leave in.
Final Thoughts
Both these gels are great and have excellent qualities but in the Battle of the Gels there can only be one winner and it is (drumroll please”>…
Flaxseed gel!!! Flaxseed gel just does what a gel is supposed to do. It provides hold without the crunch factor. But that’s not to say that aloe vera gel has no purpose in the regimens of curlies. I have found that incorporating a little aloe vera gel or juice to my leave ins has worked wonders in making my hair shinier and smoother. It even helped to fix my raggedy ends.
For the curlies who have tried both which gel do you prefer?Chances are you’ve heard the buzz about Brazilian Blowouts, but if you still don’t know quite what to expect, here’s a quick guide!
What It Does
The treatment improves the condition of the hair by creating a protective protein layer around the hair shaft, which eliminates frizz and smoothes cuticles.
What This Means
The key for curlies here is that you can keep your curls but lose the frizz. Our co-founder Michelle Breyer gets Brazilian Blowouts regularly to decrease her frizz, and she loves that her hair “no longer frizzes up like it used to, which is a miracle in this humidity. It looks much healthier now!”
What to Expect
- Your certified Brazilian Blowout stylist will shampoo your hair with A specially formulated Professional Anti- Residue Shampoo to prepare your hair for optimal smoothing results.
- After towel drying, the stylist will divide your hair into sections and begin applying the solution through each section of the hair from root to top; lightly dusting each section with a brush.
- Solution will surround each hair shaft with protective protein layers to smooth and flatten the cuticle.
- The stylist will then blow dry your hair as straight as possible with a round brush.
- Once the hair is dry, your stylist will divide the hair into four sections and use a flat iron to further de-frizz the hair in 1 – 1 3/4 inch sections.
- Once complete, your stylist will rinse the hair (no shampoo”>, towel-dry and apply the Acai Deep Conditioning Masque to further seal in the formula. After 60 seconds, the stylist will rinse and towel dry your hair.
- The Acai Daily Smoothing Serum is then applied to detangle and smooth hair for the final blow dry.
- Last, the stylist will blow dry the hair straight and style as desired.
- You can expect the results to last for 12 weeks.
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The Affliction:
Hand-in-Hair syndromeThe Symptoms:
Touching, teasing, and twirling your hair, constantly.Why it matters:
For a curly trying to retain length this can be detrimental to her growth. So if you have ever wondered if your hands and hair get too much quality time then take our fun, quick and easy quiz to determine if they need to see other people.Do you have it?
1. Ever felt like your hands and hair just had this unbreakable bond so much so that your fingers are always creeping up to twist a coil, pat your fro or just check that it’s all still there?
2. Are you constantly styling your hair, even without a mirror? You can’t explain it, but there is an uneasy feeling you have that something on your head just isn’t quite right so you set off trying to fix it. A sensible natural would wait to get in front of a mirror, but a hand-in-hair curly is happy to do an impromptu style session any and everywhere.
3. Do you find your hands or fingers get pretty greasy throughout the day? Ever left greasy fingerprints on surfaces? Chances are it is because you’re subconsciously touching your hair and transferring that shea butter mix you used to seal with onto everything you touch. The proof is in the greasy fingerprints!
4. Is your hair a a security blanket? Feeling a little uneasy on a date, scared about your finals or even just bored do you suddenly need to coil sections of your hair repeatedly?
5. Do you love the feel of hands in your hair even if they aren’t your own? Whether its your boo, your hairdresser, or the random stranger who asks to touch your hair do you just love the feeling of fingers to fro?
6. Are you a ‘gotta try it all’ curly? If there isn’t a new hair treatment, raved about product, or new styling tool you haven’t tried then maybe you just love to play with your hair. However it is important to note that you may also suffer from Product Junkyism which is a separate curly issue with its own rehab program. The PJ meetings take place here.
Your Results:
If you answered yes to 4 or more of these questions then you probably have hand in hair syndrome. However, this issue is nothing to be ashamed of- after all with hair as fabulous as ours who wouldn’t want to touch it all day long. Lastly, if you’re looking for more ways to kick the habit then this article is a must-read.Whether you’re in the midst of a hair-mergency or you’re looking to save on your salon bills, you may find yourself in a position where you need to trim your own hair. With so many professional methods and the individual needs of your unique curl pattern, learning the tricks of this trade can be overwhelming. Fortunately, we here at NaturallyCurly have compiled our list of the most popular methods to trim your hair so you can get the job done without giving yourself an accidental TWA.
How to Trim Your Own Hair
Drug store products versus high end products is one of the biggest debates in natural haired history. Ever since companies began creating products geared towards natural hair, women have flocked to them to better care for their tresses. But a resistance arose comprising of women who refused to say goodbye to the tried and true drugstore products that have worked for years. As a curly this can be very confusing because while there are numerous articles (many of which you can find here on NaturallyCurly”> speaking out against the evils of lower end products, there are plenty of women advocating for them. So what is a curly to do? We are going to break it down for you to help make your purchase decision an educated one.
The Price
When this debate arises it is inevitable that the price of many high end products is discussed as they can sometimes be double or triple the price of what you can get in your local beauty supply or drug store. Whether or not these products are worth their price depends on what you are looking for in a product. For the most part, the more expensive products contain ingredients which tend to be naturally derived as opposed to cheaper products which tend to contain a lot of fillers like petrolatum or lanolin. This is especially important for curlies who follow the Curly Girl Method who can only use natural products on their hair.
However, paying more money does not always guarantee that a product has a superior list of ingredients. As of late, hair care companies have begun to pouring more effort and research into formulating their products which means that we are seeing many drugstore brands with natural ingredients and entire product lines dedicated to curly hair. Now that the drugstore brands have upped their game it is beginning to become difficult to tell the difference between drug store and high end products.
Generic Brands
As a curly girl I know that there is nothing more annoying than getting a product or sample for free, trying it, loving it, then realizing you’ll have to take out a small loan to buy it regularly. But all hope is not lost. For curly women whose hair has expensive taste, you’ll be happy to know that it is possible to get a champagne product on a beer budget. Many of our beloved name brand products have cheaper generic alternatives. These no name products usually contain similar if not the same ingredients as the brand name products and work just as well at a fraction of the cost. Brands like generic Paul Mitchell, Infusium, and Nexxus to name a few all have generic versions which are used and loved by curlies.
It Is Possible
Most important of all you should note that it is possible to get gorgeous healthy natural hair using the cheap stuff. There is no rule that states that the more expensive a product the more effective it is, and there are plenty of curlies whose hair is a testament to that fact. The truth is our hair can’t tell the difference between high end or low end products and will respond to a product regardless of the price tag. So if you’re a curly on a budget and can’t buy every product raved about on CurlTalk or YouTube, then don’t fret because your hair will grow and can be healthy using what you can afford.
Lately even the stars have begun to take note of drugstore brands and have been quoted expressing their love for products that you and I can afford. One such celeb is none other than the gorgeous curly Jordin Sparks who has been photographed purchasing products from the L’Oreal EverCurl line. This has probably come as a shock to many of us who believed her healthy tresses were a result of celebrity stylists and an exclusive hair care line. So for the curlies out there who aspire for celebrity-worthy curls, know that you can now get them without breaking the bank.
Unless you’re a new natural in the honeymoon phase, or just really in love with your hair, then you probably hate spending long periods of time in front of a mirror styling it. It’s tiring on your arms, and if you’re a curly with really long or thick hair then your styling session probably lasts upwards of an hour. Whilst most of us will never get our routine down to a mere five minutes we can implement some changes that can help to shed a few minutes off our styling time.
Cut Down Styling Time
A Mini Chop is cutting two or more inches of hair off, and is so named after the larger, well-known Big Chop. Whether you have already had a Big Chop, or you’re still considering it, here are seven signs that the Mini Chop is for you.
7 Signs You Need a Mini Chop
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New Year is the time for us to make our resolutions. Besides the usual be a better person and exercise challenges why not set some hair challenges for ourselves so that this year our hair can be the healthiest, longest and or thickest it has ever been. The good news is that you do not have to go at it alone. There are plenty of curlies who are willing to help keep you on track and even embark on your journey with you. So read on, pick a challenge and head on over to curltalk to create your challenge thread.
New Year Hair Challenges
It’s that time of the year ladies — the very beginning! I’m sure many of you have already made your new year’s resolutions and I’ll bet exercising is at the top of that list. If you are serious about your decision and intend to keep it up well beyond February then you are going to need a gym hair care kit that will help you to fight off some of the perils of exercising, like sweat and frizz. If you have no idea what to pack in your kit then read on for some of my must haves.
Gym Bag Must Haves
In our lives there will always be those special people who we want to go above and beyond for. They are usually people who make our lives better just by being in it. This Christmas, you may want to a do a little bit more for your special someone, and if your special someone just so happens to be a curly, then look no further for gift ideas that really say I love and appreciate you.
Gifts for curlies
There’s nothing like chilly winds, snowstorms and freezing weather to inspire a warm weather getaway. Now that you have decided where to go, you’re probably wondering what to pack, and more specifically, what to pack for your hair. There’s nothing worse than being thousands of miles away from home and not having what you need. Here is our list of must have hair products for a warm-weather getaway.
MORE: Frizzy Hair Tips for High Humidity
What to Pack
So many products and so little money seems to be the curly-haired mantra. With many companies creating more and more products aimed at curly hair and product junkie-ism at an all time high, it can seem like the want list for many naturals is an ever growing one. If you are a curly whose pockets aren’t as deep as the ocean, then you need to narrow down your list to the essentials. Having trouble doing this? Then read on to find the top five hair tools that are an investment for your curls.
1. Satin Lined Beanie or Hat
It’s getting cold out there, and with the cold weather comes dry hair. Don’t let the winter weather strip the moisture out of your strands the moment you step outside. Protect your hair with a satin lined beanie or hat.
A cheaper alternative is to wear your bonnet then don your hat, but the problems I incurred with this solution are that sometimes the bonnet pokes out from under the beanie or makes it lumpy looking. The silkiness of the bonnet can also cause your beanie to slide off your head and get lost. So avoid the drama and invest in a cute hat that has a satin lining built in.
MORE: Quick and Easy Hat Hair Remedies
2. Real Satin Bonnet
Investing in a real satin bonnet rather the cheaper nylon available at your beauty supply store will help keep as much moisture in your hair and ward off the winter dryness, even while you sleep.
A real satin bonnet will cost you anywhere between $3 on Amazon to $45 a double lined bonnet. The investment is well worth it, though, since you will wake up with hair that is as soft as butter.
3. Steamer or Heat Cap
Between the cold outside and dry conditions created inside your home from the heat your strands will be taking a beating this winter. Staying on top of your deep conditioning sessions is one way to help prevent winter dryness.
Take your deep conditioning one step further by investing in a steamer or heat cap. Steamers release water vapour to moisturize your strands whilst the heat cap uses heat to open your cuticle to allow your deep conditioner to work even better. For curlies on a budget, the Hair Therapy Wrap easily heats up in your microwave and is cordless so you don’t need to be tied to an outlet.
4. Proper Hair Shears
Most curlies know of the importance of trimming our ends regularly to get rid of those pesky split ends and single strand knots. But what many of us don’t know is that using regular scissors to trim our hair can make the problem worse. Before trimming, ensure that you get scissors that are labeled as hair shears, such as the Tweezerman Stainless Styling Shears. They will be more expensive, but they will be very sharp, which is exactly what your hair needs.
MORE: Tips for Trimming Curly Hair
courtesy Amazon.com; $19.59
5. A Good Blowdryer
Although leaving your house with wet hair won’t make you catch a cold, it can lead to damage as the water in your strands freeze and expand. Avoid this damage by making sure your hair is completely dry before you leave the house.
But don’t go and grab just any old blowdryer, be sure to get the best bang for your buck. Look for a blowdryer that uses ceramic and tourmaline technology such as the Revlon Tourmaline Ionic Ceramic Dryer to avoid frizz and prevent damage.
Most importantly, your blowdryer needs to have a diffuser attachment to gently dry your curls.
Now that you have this list I hope your to-buy list has gotten shorter, or did you just add five more things to it? Either way, you can’t go wrong with these top five hair tools.
Do you have a different top 5 list? Feel free to share it by commenting below.
This article was originally published in November 2012 and has been updated for grammar and clarity.