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The Moisturizing Benefits of Pracaxi Seed Oil for Hair
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Retaining moisture is important in a hair regimen, especially for curly hair. Curly hair tends to be drier than straight hair, requiring more efforts to retain moisture for our gorgeous curls. Some methods include deep conditioning sessions, scalp massages with an oil blend, and applying a leave-in conditioner before installing a protective style. While these practices are great habits to help maintain healthy hair, nourishing products are also a must have to help retain moisture for our hair. We are no strangers to oils, but this may be a contender to make its way to your regimen. 

Benefits of pracaxi seed oil

Pracaxi seed oil, also known as Pentaclethra macroloba seed oil, comes from a pracaxi tree found in Brazil. According to Organics-Nature, this oil helps treatment of skin spots, depigmentation, severe acne, acne scars, while also hydrating the skin and promoting cellular renewal. Pracaxi oil has moisturizing properties that can be used in the hair to keep your hair moisturized and healthy.

How to use it

As always with oil, a little goes a long way. You can include this oil in your favorite oil blend or add it to your deep conditioner. While applying the oil in your hair, pay attention to the ends of your hair, since they are the oldest and need gentle care. Be gentle when massaging your scalp with the pads of your fingertips; do not use your nails, as this can be damaging. Creating a DIY hair cocktail is popular in the curly community, so you can also consider adding the oil to your favorite conditioner. Are you interested in this oil, but you rather use a product that already has it? Check out these hair products that contain pracaxi seed oil:

Products with pracaxi seed oil

Urban Health Goddess shares a pre-poo smoothie recipe that she uses after she takes her braids out. The recipe includes pracaxi oil and is a great recipe to help condition your hair after you remove your protective style.  

Post-braid hair repair pre-poo smoothie
  • 1 large Avocado
  • 1 Tbsp. Pracaxi oil
  • 1 Tbsp. Tamanu oil
  • 2 Tbsp. Coconut oil
  • 1 Tbsp. Raw honey
  • 2 Tsp. Silk amino acids
  • 1/4 C. Apple cider vinegar
  • 1/4 C. Water
  • 9 drops Basil essential oil

Instructions

  1. Add all ingredients in a blender and mix until smooth. Use a rice strainer to remove the avocado lumps.
  2. On freshly rinsed hair (from the braid removal strengthening conditioner in part 1“>, part hair with fingers and generously apply the mixture from root to tip. Really focus on those ends!
  3. Once all of the mixture is applied, cover your hair with a plastic cap.
  4. Let set for 15-20 min.
  5. Rinse hair and air-dry or use a blow-dryer on a cool setting.
  6. Wait at least 24 hrs. until you manipulate your hair again.

Do you use pracaxi seed oil? Do you use it in your favorite product or have you made a super moisturizing oil blend? Share with the curly community.

Coltsfoot Rinse – A Natural Remedy for Dandruff
Coltsfoot rinse
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The curly community is no stranger to mixing and finding ingredients that will help the overall health of the hair. If you are looking for a new ingredients, you should consider coltsfoot, also known as tussilago. Coltsfoot is a plant that is usually used to help relieve coughs. Now that winter is quickly approaching, catching a cold is the last thing that you want to deal with. If you start to have a sore throat and are experiencing a cough that just will not go away, coltsfoot is an herb that you want to use.  It can also help whooping cough, asthma, and bronchitis. How can you incorporate this herb into your regimen or diet? You can purchase coltsfoot as a tea, syrup, capsule, or herb.

Benefits of coltsfoot for hair

So you are probably wondering, how does coltsfoot benefit our hair? The MopTop Maven says, “Coltsfoot contains an abundance of mucilage, minerals, silica, sulfur and plant proteins which all work together to help add sheen, body, repair the hair shaft, improve elasticity, and promote hair growth.”  If you are experiencing any breakage, damage, or hair loss then, coltsfoot may be the ingredient for you. You can find coltsfoot in shampoos, conditioners, supplements, or you can take the DIY approach by creating tea rinses or leave-in conditioners. If you want to monitor to see if this ingredient is working for you, journal your results weekly along with the actions you are taking. Take a photo of the amount of shed hair each time you wash or style your hair. It will help track your progress every week and see if the amount of hair loss you are experiencing.

If you are not interested in using tea or the herb itself, you can purchase products that have coltsfoot. Check out these products that contain coltsfoot or coltsfoot extracts:

Zhara’s hair growth tea rinse

If you are a tea drinker or enjoying using tea rinses during washday, Zhara shares an herbal tea recipe on CurlyNikki that can help with hair growth. If you are not familiar with tea rinses, they are used as the last rinse during wash days. This can help breakage, shedding, and hair growth. Remember to allow the tea to cool before using it as a rinse for your hair. Check out the following recipe:

  • 2 Tbsp. lemon balm (melissa”>
  • 2 Tbsp. lavender flowers
  • 1 Tbsp. peppermint leaves
  • 1 Tbsp. chamomile flower
  • 1 Tbsp. rose petal
  • 1 Tbsp. nettle
  • 1 Tbsp. horsetail
  • 1 Tbsp. coltsfoot
  • 1 Tbsp. burdock root
  • 1 Tbsp. oatstraw
  • 1 Tbsp. alfalfa
  • 1 Tbsp. rose hip
  • 2 Tbsp. dandelion leaves
  • 2 Tbsp. raspberry leaves
  • 1/2 Tsp. ginger root

You can use a reusable silk or linen tea pouch, a stainless steel tea infuser or get some of the disposable unbleached tea bags at your local grocer. Steep the tea leaves for a least 10 min. and enjoy by itself or with a tiny bit of any natural/organic sweetener like agave, brown rice syrup, raw honey, maple syrup, or stevia.

Read more: 5 Tea Rinses to Stop that Shedding 

Herbs for rinses

CurlyNikki added…

After receiving Zhara’s Hair Growth Tea recipe, I thought it’d be cool to compile a list of herbs for the purposes of your final rinse on wash day (prior to styling”>.

  • Catnip: Promotes healthy hair growth–many women on longhaircommunity swear by this stuff for long, strong hair.
  • Chamomile: Softens hair, soothes the scalp, lighten and conditions (people use it with honey to bring out natural highlights”>. Chamomile is also known to stimulate growth.
  • Horsetail: Helps brittle hair due to its high silica content.
  • Lavender: Stimulates hair growth
  • Nettle: conditions, improves texture, helps with dandruff, irritated scalp, and dry scalp
  • Parsley: enriches hair color and gives a nice luster
  • Plantain: great for dry, irritated scalp, dandruff, and seborrhea
  • Peppermint: stimulates the scalp
  • Rosemary: Acts as a tonic and conditioner, one of the best herbs to use, gives luster and body, stimulates growth, helps with dandruff, and brings out dark highlights in the hair.
  • Sage: Very effective in restoring color to graying hair, excellent for weak brittle hair
  • Saw Palmetto: good for thinning hair and hair loss
  • Thyme: good for oily hair and dandruff
  • Witch Hazel: cleanses hair

Directions

After you’ve decided which herb(s”> will get the job done, follow the steps below:

  1. Place the herb(s”> in a pitcher (glass is ideal”>.
  2. Pour boiling water over the herb(s”>, cover, and steep for 10-20 minutes.
  3. Strain the mixture and allow the liquid to cool.
  4. Pour over your head after your regular shampoo, condition, and detangling session. Do not rinse.

Add these herbs to your next wash day or to your next batch of henna.

How do you include coltsfoot into your regimen? 

How to Deal with the "Winter Itchies"
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Now that the weather is getting colder, our hair starts to change, which includes having a dry and itchy scalp. The cold weather can remove all of the great moisture out of our gorgeous curls. Our curl friend, Amy.Hazelton from our Curly Q&A section, asked us the following:

Question

What do you do for the winter itchies? My scalp is so dry, flaky, and itchy! I’m going crazy! I’ve been using Yes to Carrots Shampoo, which is supposed to help your scalp, and also use Yes to Coconuts conditioner. I added tea tree oil to my shampoo and my scalp is still flaky and super itchy! Help! I’m 2c/3a combo.

Answer

The colder months can definitely be a reason for an itchy scalp, but it can also be other reasons. Did this start recently when the seasons changed? Are you using multiple products in a short period of time? Check out this article about four surprising reasons why your scalp is itchy.  It can help determine reasons why your scalp is so itchy.

First, evaluate your regimen.

  • Are you co-washing too often? 
  • Are you using shampoo enough? 
  • Are you thoroughly rinsing your hair after deep conditioning? 
  • Do your product contain mineral oil?
Cocktail with scalp soothers

Kudos for adding tea tree oil in your shampoo, as it does help alleviate a dry and itchy scalp. Other ingredients such as honey, apple cider vinegar, coconut oil, and aloe vera can help soothe an itchy scalp. Try incorporating those ingredients into your regimen. See if an apple cider vinegar rinse works, or if you add honey to your conditioner for itch relief. If you want to stick with tea tree oil, try massaging your scalp with tea tree oil and a carrier oil, like coconut oil, which has anti-fungal properties. Since you are not rinsing your scalp after the massage, it is possible for the tea tree oil to work more effective. You can also combine both the shampoo and the scalp massages into your regimen.  

Read more: Ask Dr. Kari: Should You Grease and Oil Your Scalp? 

Cover up

Before you walk out the house, try to make habit of wearing a hat. The cold weather can dry your hair out. If possible, sew a satin cap inside of your hat to help reduce breakage from your hair rubbing against the material of your hat and to retain as much moisture as possible. If hats are not your thing, try wearing head wraps.

Read more: Where to Find the Hottest Head Scarves

Hydrate (not just your hair”>

Remember that it is not always about the hair products that you are using for your curls. You have to maintain a healthy lifestyle. Keep your body hydrated with water by drinking at least eight glasses a day. I always notice when I am not drinking a lot of water my scalp becomes dry and my face starts to break out. Consume fruits and vegetables in your diet and eat well-balanced meals. 

If you are still experiencing issues with your dry scalp, you should schedule an appointment with a dermatologist. It can be possible that you have a scalp condition that may need medication or special treatment.

Is your scalp experiencing the winter blues? How are you treating your dry and itchy scalp? Please share your tips with the curly community.

How to Safely Heat Stretch Your Transitioning Hair

To use heat or to not use heat?

This is a question that many transitioning curlies face during their hair journey. The fear of long-term heat damage is now a thing of the past. Using this blow-drying method and extra TLC can help overcome your fears.

The Tension method is a blow drying technique that allows you to minimize the amount of heat and manipulation that you put on your hair.

The Tension Method

Part your hair in sections so it would be easy for you to manage. Hold your hair as if you are stretching it. Instead of using a blow dryer attachment or a brush, you move the blow dryer in a vertical motion along your hair. This allows you to dry and stretch your hair without over manipulating it and using an excessive amount of heat.

While blow-drying the hair, make sure the blow dryer is not on the highest temperature setting, as this can cause dry and brittle hair. In addition, it can permanently alter your beautiful curl pattern (AKA heat damage”>. With using this technique, these 3 tips can help prevent heat damage and improve your overall experience with applying heat to your hair.

1. Allow Hair to Air Dry

Before using the tension method, allow freshly washed hair to air dry. If you blow-dry your hair while soaking wet, you use an excessive amount of heat. Let’s also state the obvious, blow-drying your hair can be exhausting.

Relaxing a little longer and letting your hair air-dry can help the health of your hair. Read your favorite book or surf your favorite blog on the web to allow the time to past. If needed, use a microfiber towel or t-shirt to dry hair. Not only does it speed up the drying process, it also prevents frizz.

See what the community thinks of these hair towels:

2. Moisturize and Protect

Apply a leave in conditioner to add moisture to your hair. Applying heat can cause dryness because moisture is taken out of your hair. Keep hair moisturized after the use of heat to replenish any moisture that was lost during the blow-drying session.

Next, apply a heat protectant serum. The serum can help protect your curls from heat damage that can come from heat tools. Heat protectant serum can also make your hair shiny and prevent frizz. It can also allow straight hairstyles to last longer.

3. Maintenance

After your blow-drying session, try not to use any more heat on your hair until the next time you plan to use the tension method. Use a satin scarf, bonnet, or pillowcase at night to maintain your hairstyle and you won’t feel the need to grab a heat tool the next morning to fix your hair. You should also rock a head wrap or hat the next day to let your hair rest from styling.

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2 Silicones that are Often Overlooked
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Reading the ingredient label is a great habit to develop when purchasing hair care products. The more you read about ingredients and research, the better you are as an informed shopper. You may be familiar with silicones when reading the list, but are you familiar with those that do not end in “cone”? Below you will find two silicones that can be overlooked. But first, what is a silicone?

Silicones are emollients often used in many hair and cosmetic products. Tonya McKay, polymer scientist and cosmetic chemist, explains: “The reason for the popularity of silicones in products for the skin and hair lies in their molecular structure. Rather than being made up of a carbon-based backbone (organic”>, silicones (inorganic”> are made up of a backbone of repeating units of silicon bonded to oxygen, with small organic molecules forming a sheath around the outside of the molecule.” Silicones in hair products can often leave the hair shiny, silky, and soft as an end result. For curly girls, the silicones can help with slip while detangling our hair. Not every curly enjoys using silicones and decides it is best to read ingredients to avoid them. They often end in “cone”, which makes it easy to distinguish. However, that does not always happen. Below are examples of silicones to look out for.

Cyclopentasiloxane

Cyclopentasiloxane is a part of the cyclomethicone category of silicones. According to McKay, “Cyclomethicones are also favored by formulators because they spread easily on the hair and skin, and the lubrication they provide isn’t greasy or tacky.” It is more likely for the product to have a looser consistency since this ingredient is easy to spread, which can give it a lot of slip. McKay also shares, “Because of their low vapor pressure, they evaporate easily from hair or skin at room temperature, and therefore aren’t prone to build-up or an oily residue. For this reason, they are sometimes used as an additive in products such as spray leave-in conditioners to help speed drying time.”

Dimethiconol

Dimethiconol is a silicone that is non-water soluble, which means it is not as compatible with water. This could leave product buildup on the hair and scalp. A cleanser would be needed if you were to use a product that contains dimethiconol. McKay provides a chart with a list of silicones and the recommended cleansing agents for each. For dimethiconol, the recommended cleansing agents are the following: SLS, SLES, cocamidopropyl betaine, cocobetaine, ALS, or ALES.

Regardless of if your products contain water-soluble or non water-soluble silicones, it is important to make sure you have a clarifying shampoo or cleansing method to remove dirt, oil, and product buildup. Rinsing your hair with only water will not remove all of the buildup in your hair, which is why cleansing is important in a hair regimen. Follow your clarifying shampoo with a moisturizing shampoo and conditioner for bouncy and shiny curls free of residue and buildup.

Read more: The Problem with the Water Washing Method

Are silicones apart of your hair regimen? Why or why not?

8 Silicone-free Protein Treatments

Protein treatments are often a staple product in a curly girl’s Holy Grail, because it keeps our hair strong and prevents breakage. However, some curlies have preferences with the ingredients they choose to use with their hair. Some curlies choose not to use silicones in their hair regimen. If you are looking for a new protein treatment without silicones or are interested in cutting that ingredient out of your regimen, check out these options.

Aubrey Organics GPB Balancing Protein Conditioner

This conditioner includes glycoprotein and milk protein to strengthen the hair and make it soft with some sheen. Although this conditioner is for strengthening your hair, organic aloe and olive oil give the hair moisture. 

Aunt Jackie’s Curls & Coils Quench! Moisture Intensive Leave-In Conditioner

This silicone-free conditioner is hydrating. Hydrolyzed wheat protein gives the hair strength. Marshmallow root is included to give the product slip. This allows for easy detangling for us curly girls!

Briogeo Don’t Despair, Repair! Deep Conditioning Mask

If your hair is feeling weak, this is a deep conditioner for you. Keratin protein is included to make your hair strong. Ingredients such avocado, sweet almond oil, and argan oil are include to hydrate your hair. Vitamins such as D, A, E, B5, and are included to help promote healthy hair and growth.

Curly Hair Solutions Pure Silk Protein Deep Moisturizing Treatment

If you have color-treated hair, this is a great option for you. This product is a protein treatment that also helps with color fading. It is also moisturizing to help keep your curls hydrated. This can definitely be a part of a Holy Grail for color-treated hair.

Mop Top Deep Conditioner

With colder weather our hair tends to be dry, and the Mop Top Deep Conditioner is a great remedy for that problem. Proteins such as hair keratin amino acids, hydrolyzed soy protein, and hydrolyzed wheat protein are used to make your hair stronger. This conditioner is moisturizing and also penetrates the hair, which helps with moisture retention.

Oyin Handmade Honey Hemp Conditioner

The Honey Hemp Conditioner is moisturizing and has a lot of slip, which is great for detangling, styling, and manageability. It includes ingredients such as honey, hemp oil, and hydrolyzed silk protein. If you prefer a lightweight, yet moisturizing option for a conditioner, you should check this product out.

SheaMoisture Jamaican Black Castor Oil Strengthen, Grow & Restore Treatment Masque

This deep treatment masks includes ingredients such as shea butter, Jamaican castor oil, hydrolyzed keratin, and peppermint oil to help strengthen, moisturize, and stimulate the hair and scalp. This conditioner has a loose consistency, which helps with a thorough application while applying the product.

Nubian Heritage EVOO & Moringa Repair & Extend Conditioner

This is also another great option for color-treated hair. Henna, quinoa, and fennel are used to protect color. Olive oil is also included for moisturizing your hair and imparting sheen. The vegetable protein helps to strengthen the hair.

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What are your favorite protein treatments without silicones? 

PEG: Water-Soluble Silicones for Fighting Frizz
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While you are shopping for hair products, many things come to mind such as packaging, ounces, and price. It is time to now add something else to your list: ingredients. If you are a novice natural and new to the world of ingredient lists, it is important to get acquainted because the ingredient list allows you to see if products include any ingredients such as silicones or sulfates, which may not meet your personal needs.

Not all curly girls avoid silicones and sulfates. Some find that these ingredients give their hair the look and feel that they are going for, the only hard and fast rule is to find what works for you. If you have found that your hair feels healthy when using silicones, it is important to know not all silicones are equal, for example there are water-soluble silicones and non water-soluble silicones. Let’s take a look at one group, known as PEG silicones.

What are PEG silicones?

Polyethylene Glycols are used to dissolve oil. This ingredient is commonly found in some household products. PEG silicones are water soluble, which means it can be rinsed away with water. Since this ingredient is a silicone, which helps aid in frizz control and provides moisture and shine to the hair. There has been a lot of controversy on whether or not these ingredients should be used in beauty products because PEG’s are potentially carcinogenic. Cleansers are no longer necessary to remove water-soluble silicones, which help aid in reducing frizz and enhancing shine to the hair. It has been speculated that PEG silicones are potentially carcinogenic, but Chemist Corner says these claims are not based on conclusive research.

Read more: Should You Worry About Propylene Glycol?

How to find products with PEG silicones

While shopping for products, always flip your product bottle over and read the labels before purchasing. Reading the labels before you purchase can help you find or avoid products with PEG silicones. Think Dirty Shop Clean is a mobile app that allows you to scan a beauty product and it will show easy to understand descriptions about the product.

What PEG silicones should I look for?

Here is a list of PEG’s Tonya McKay that will work best with the no shampoo or mild shampoo hair routines:

  • PEG-8 (or higher”> Dimethicone
  • Bis-PEG-8 (or higher”> Dimethicone
  • Bis-PEG-8/PEG-8 Dimethicone
  • Bis-PEG-18 methyl ether dimethyl silane
  • PEG-8-PG-coco glucoside dimethicone
  • Dimethicone PEG-X phosphate 

Products with PEG ingredients

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"How Do I Revamp an Old Twist Out After Sleeping On It?"
re-vamping a twist out
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It has happened to all of us before. We spent hours on shampooing, conditioning, and styling our hair, just for it to only last one day. We slept with scarves, satin pillowcases, and used every trick in the book, but the style just does not seem to last long. Our curl friend, queent_nae, asks us the following in Curly Q&A.

Question

How do I revamp an old twist out after I’ve slept on it? If I sleep on a twist out with just a satin scarf on, I find my hairstyle to look old and matted. It is too much of a hassle for me to re-twist or re-braid my 4a hair every single night. So what would you recommend me doing to keep my curls looking fresh on the second day? Btw, pineappling does not work for my hair because my hair is not long enough for it.

Answer

Something that you should keep in mind while you are styling is to make sure you apply enough product and you use the right technique while styling your hair. Always remember that the way you set your hair will be reflected in your results. This is a key factor for long lasting hairstyles. For your twist outs, try making smaller sections, which will cause smaller twists. Also, try rodding the ends of your twists. These tips will allow your hair to have more definition and the curls will be tighter, helping it to last longer.

Option 1: Retwist

There are a few ways that you can preserve your hairstyle after your long styling session. Re-twisting is an option, however, you do not have to re-twist every night. You can overmanipulate your hair by doing that every night. Try re-twisting every 1-2 days. While re-twisting, spray your hair lightly with water and apply a small amount of product to the hair while re-twisting. This will allow the twist out to have more definition, which can cause it to last longer. 

Option 2: Satin pillowcase

Another option can be switching your satin scarf for a satin pillowcase. You mentioned that your hair will look old and matted. Are you sweating at night? Sweat can definitely play a role in your hairstyle not lasting. It can definitely cause the matting issue. It happens to all of us, including myself. Maybe the satin cap is causing you to sweat. The satin pillowcase can allow your hair to breathe and minimize sweating at night and also protecting your hair.

Option 3: Modify your pineapple

Lastly, I know you mentioned that pineapples do not work for your hair. But, have you looked at the modified ways to pineapple your hair? I thought the same exact thing and pineapple ponytails did not work for me. I realized that a singlepineapple ponytail did not preserve my curls. However, two ponytails (one in the front and the back”> work better and allow me to keep definition and stretch the roots of my hair. Check out this article on how to pineapple your hair, regardless of your length. Try using satin scrunchies to pineapple your hair to protect and preserve your curls.

NaturallyCury world weigh in, how do you revamp your twist out?

Where to Buy Synthetic Curly Wigs
toni daley wig
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When protective styling comes to mind, the first styles that you may think of are usually extension braids and twists. If braids or twists are not for you, consider wearing a wig. A synthetic wig is affordable, easy to find, and can be used more than once. As long as you care for your hair under the wig with regular cleansing, deep conditioning, and moisturizing, this can be a great option for a protective style. Not too sure where to start with your search? Check out these brands.
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Toni Daley

Toni Daley offers synthetic half wigs that be used for long-term and short-term protective styling. She offers 100% Kanekalon fiber wigs that is inspired by a twist out and also another wig that can be used if you want a shorter, “big chop” look. Check YouTube for thorough reviews on her The Toni Half Wig, The Gabrielle Half Wig, and The Big Chop Half Wig. Be sure to read the maintenance washing instructions so your wig can be long lasting.

fingercomber synthetic wigs
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Fingercomber

Fingercomber offers a variety of wigs including The Wash & Go-Fro Unit and The Havana Fro Unit. There are a variety of different styles for curlies to choose from. It can be difficult to search for wigs that offer different styles, but this brand offers just that. The wigs also come in a variety of colors to choose from. Like previously mentioned, before sure to read the special care instructions.

elevate styles wigs
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Elevate Styles

Elevate Styles offers a variety of wigs including synthetic and human hair wigs. However, they offer the wig Drew in multiple colors, which is no stranger to the natural hair community and has been a favorite by many curlies. The lace front wig is offered in many colors. This medium length curly wig can definitely be a favorite in your collection.

sensationnel synthetic wigs
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Sensationnel

Sensationnel also offers a variety of wigs including synthetic and human hair. The Tatiana wig recently became popular in the curly community. It has the texture of Marley hair and can be styled in a variety of ways including twists and perm rods. It is definitely worth adding to your collection.

You will see so many curlies on social media that look great with the same wig, but keep in mind that when you first put on a wig it may not look the way you want it to. It is best to style the wig so it can frame your face and look great on you. Jessica Pettway shares this awesome video on how she cuts, shapes, and styles her wigs. She has great skills with the scissors and you will love every minute of it.

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Read moreHow to Transition with Wigs…the Right Way

What are your favorite synthetic wig brands? Did your favorite make the list?

A Father’s Guide to Your Daughter’s Curly Hair Care

Dads, no need to fear! This short and simple hair guide is here!

Caring for curly hair can be simple and fun. All it takes is practice and patience. Here are must-know tips to help you care for your child’s hair faster and with less pain. Of course this information is not limited to fathers and daughters -mothers, sons, grandparents, and even your own hair can benefit from knowing these.

Before we get started, let’s go over a full list of the products and tools you will need.

Shopping list
Read more: 10 Products Gentle Enough for Your Curly Kiddo

How to detangle

Before we start any washing or styling, let’s detangle. I know detangling sounds terrifying, but it is not. As long as you have the proper tools and know two simple rules, it will be a breeze. You can use a detangler (here are our favorites“> or leave-in conditioner if you are detangling for styling. These products can be used for daily styling and you do not have to rinse them out. Before you start combing the hair it is important to divide the hair into sections (rather than trying to detangle everything at once”>.

1. Section – Divide the hair in quadrants and secure with sectioning hair clips. You are less likely to feel overwhelmed when you detangle in smaller sections versus trying to comb all of the hair at once. If your child has denser hair, then create even smaller sections. 2. Dampen – Use the spray bottle to dampen the hair; this will make the hair more pliable, easier to comb, and less likely to break. Detangling on dry hair will cause breakage and potential tantrums and tears, as it can be painful. Apply a generous amount of your detangler or leave-in conditioner on the section. 3. Comb – Then, slowly and gently use a wide tooth comb to detangle starting from the ends of the hair and working up toward the roots near the scalp. Twist the section of hair that you have finished, secure it with a section clip, and move on to the next section. Watch how DiscoveringNatural detangles her daughter’s hair below.

Fun Tip: If your daughter is becoming antsy or experiencing discomfort from the combing, distracting her may help. If she has a favorite movie or a favorite book, use that so she can entertain herself.

How to shampoo & condition

After the hair has been detangled, release the sections and lean your daughter back over the sink with either the Shampoomate or a rolled body towel to support her neck. 1. Cleanse – Wet her hair with water, apply shampoo to your palms, apply it to her hair concentrating on her scalp, and scrub her scalp with the pads of your fingers. You want to stroke the hair downward and not upward, as this will create tangles. If her hair is not washed weekly then you may want to shampoo twice. 2. Rinse – To ensure that the shampoo is thoroughly rinsed out, make sure the water runs clear and squish the hair to check for suds. 

3. Condition – Apply conditioner to your palms and smooth throughout her hair. Rather than focusing on the scalp, this time you will focus on the length of the hair and on the ends.

4. Rinse – Rinse the hair until the water runs clear. Also, make sure to put all of the shed hair in the trash so your sink does not get clogged.

How often should I shampoo?

Curly hair does not need to be shampooed and detangled every day, but it depends on how tight your daughter’s curls are. For wavy hair you can detangle and wash every few days, for curly hair (if the hair forms ringlets the size of a sharpie or sidewalk chalk”> detangle and wash weekly, and for tighter coils detangle and wash every other week.

How to deep condition

Deep conditioning the hair will prevent tangles and dryness, so doing this once a month will help make your job easier.

1. Deep condition – Apply generous amounts of deep conditioner on the hair and section it into quadrants.

2. Cover up – Cover her hair in a plastic cap and let the deep conditioner sit for 15 min. This is a great opportunity let her eat or stretch her legs.

3. Leave in, then rinse – After 15 minutes have passed, rinse the hair and apply a leave-in moisturizer. To reduce the amount of water dripping, cover her hair with a t-shirt for 10 min.

Fun Tip: Use this time to chat it up with your baby girl. Play games, talk about school, or even sing her favorite songs!

How to style

To keep things simple, let’s stick with a puff/ponytail. Apply leave-in conditioner with your fingers to give the hair moisture and sheen. For a polished look apply a little edge tamer along the entire hair line. Use a soft boar bristle brush to smooth the hair up into a ponytail and wrap the ponytail holder around the hair twice at the most. You do not want the ponytail to be too tight because it will cause breakage. Struggling to pull your daughter’s hair into ponytail? No big deal! Yoshidoll’s mom shows how she puts her daughter’s hair in two ponytails, and it looks like one. 

Fun Tip: Is your daughter want to have her say? Let her choose a headband or hair clips to jazz the style up. She will love it!

8 Inspiring Curly Women You’ll Want to Follow ASAP
Photo Courtesy of Yoga Rachael

Yoga is a great way to exercise and relax. Not only can it help you lose weight and increase flexibility, but also it can help you de-stress and even help you sleep better. The yoga world can be intimidating, but do not let that discourage you if you want to try it out. Yoga is an ego-free zone. Need some inspiration? Check out the top eight curly and wavy yogis that you definitely want to keep on your radar!

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Yogaracheal

Racheal’s Instagram feed is full of photos of her practicing different poses in different sceneries. She has practicing yoga for about three and a half years. Her favorite style of yoga is Vinyasa/Power and offers private lessons. Check out on her website www.yogaracheal.comto schedule private lessons or view online videos.

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Ondiyoga

Are you interested in yoga? Ana’s photos will inspire you! While scrolling down her Instagram feed, you will see that she wears her hair in a protective style or loose, showcasing her gorgeous curls. Her photos also show her practicing yoga is beautiful locations and the nature scenery is beautiful. Register for her classes at www.ondiyoga.com.

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Kariooo

Yoga is a great way to exercise and relax. Not only can it help you lose weight and increase flexibility, but also it can help you de-stress and even help you sleep better. The yoga world can be intimidating, but do not let that discourage you if you want to try it out. Yoga is an ego-free zone. Need some inspiration? Check out the Top 8 Curly-Hair Yogis that you definitely want to keep on your radar! If you enjoy yoga and art, you will enjoy Karioo’s Instagram. She edits her photos with mirroring effects and it truly looks like a work of art. She also posts videos of her completing different poses, which is great especially if you are a yogi that wants to learn. In her photos, you can see she wears her hair tied up and away from her face while she practices yoga.

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Nayitavp

Naya is a yoga instructor and photographer in Boca Raton. You’ll catch her in the city, beach, gardens, etc. Her beautiful wavy hair also makes her stand out. For daily yoga inspiration, her account is definitely a must follow. Naya usually wears her hair in a ponytail, bun, or braid while she practices yoga in the studio or gym.

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SpirtuallyFly

Faith is a global yoga instructor and she has beautiful curls! She started practicing yoga in the 90’s to cope as her brother was dying. She also owns Embrace Yoga DC, a yoga center in Washington, D.C. Check out her classes at www.faithhunter.com/faith/calendar. She also offers training and video courses that you can also check out.

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WasiaWasia

Wasia is an artist and yogi. She usually wears her hair in a stretched style (twist out or braid out”> and rocks a high bun while practicing. Her Holy Grails in her hair regimen are shea butter, aloe vera, and oil.

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Sandra InSoha

Warning, you may pack your bags and plan a vacation after visiting Sandra’s Instagram! Sandra is the founder of InSoha and lives in Paris. Her curls are striking and seeing some of her photos in Paris makes me want to pack my bags and take a trip! For workshops, visit her website at www.insoha.com.

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Gaby__OM

Gaby is a mother that lives in Florida. The palm trees in her photos are beautiful and serene, which will definitely catch your eye when you scroll down her feed. Her photos will motivate you to start yoga if you were ever interested. Her feed is full of various poses, which are encouraging and aspirational.

What Would Happen if I Stopped Combing My Hair?
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Detangling is a topic that is often discussed in the natural hair community. There are different methods of detangling with different tools that can ease the manageability and process of styling our curls. But sometimes we wonder, am I detangling too often or can I comb my hair more frequently? Our curly girl, amesthyt, asked a great question about detangling on our Curly Q&A.

Question

What would happen if I didn’t comb my hair for a while? (1-2 weeks”> The reason I ask is because I was on Pinterest and I saw a picture of a girl with really long curly hair [pictured above], who said she hadn’t combed her hair in two years.

*Editor’s Note: The woman our reader was referring to told Black Girl Long Hair that while she hadn’t combed her hair in two years, she does detangle using her fingers.

Answer

The short answer is that not detangling your hair can cause it to loc over time and how fast depends on the texture and style. If you are wearing your hair loose (twist outs, wash and go’s, braid outs, etc.”>, I would not go any longer than a week without combing. Your hair sheds daily and that hair needs to come out before it gets tangled or matted. If you are wearing your hair in a protective style (braids, twists, cornrows, etc.”> then I would keep that style in no longer than six weeks and gently detangle my hair with an oil while taking down the style. Since the hair is protected in a style, your hair will not be as tangled, therefore requiring less detangling maintenance.

If you are concerned about detangling your hair too often or over-manipulating your hair, there are ways to avoid that. You can try finger detangling and slowly work your way from the ends to the roots with a slippery conditioner. If you are finger detangling when styling, use the same method but use a leave-in conditioner. If you prefer to use a tool rather than your fingers, I recommend using a wide tooth comb.

Read more: Lazy Naturals Guide to Detangling

Wash & go vs. stretched

Your styling process can also affect how often you should detangle. In my personal experience, I noticed my hair was prone to tangle more with a wash and go than it did in stretched styles. My wash and go style usually will not last too long so I would find myself detangling and restyling my hair in the middle of the week. That does not happen for me with my stretched styles. I can usually wait until my next wash day, which is every week. I also noticed that if I used the LOC method during every wash day, my hair was moisturized and I did not experience a hefty amount of shed hair and knots.

Your curl pattern

You also have to consider your hair type before making a decision about how often you should detangle. If your hair has a tighter curl, you should be pay attention to how often you comb it, because it is more prone to single strand knots. That does not mean you should comb your hair every day, but detangling no more than two times a week with moisturizing products should keep your hair detangled and easy for you to manage. However, you should always do what is best for your hair, because you know your hair better than anyone else.

If you’re starting from scratch and have yet to find a detangling method that works for you, I suggest testing different methods and writing down your results. Going back through your reviews later will help jog your memory to find the best method for you. 

Read more: The Curly Girl Guide to Detangling

The Double Shampoo Method — Why It Works

There are many different methods for cleansing your curls. Some methods include co-washing, clarifying, hair rinsing, and even no-poo! If you use leave-in products, exercise regularly, or have an itchy or flaky scalp, then you should really consider using a clarifying shampoo and a moisturizing shampoo.

Why should we clarify our hair?

You can look at it as a fresh slate. It cleans our curls and scalp. It gives us a fresh start to style our curls without old product buildup. However, our curls can feel dry after clarifying. Why is that? Dr. Kari Williams, trichologist and founder of Mahogany Hair Revolution Salon & Trichology Clinic, explains why our curls feel this way after clarifying: “Hair feels dry because the clarifying shampoo typically has a slightly lower pH to lift the cuticle scales and remove dirt and oil from the strands.” Since clarifying can make the hair feel stripped, its best to use a moisturizing shampoo after you clarify. Moisturizing shampoos are used when your curls are dry and are in need of additional moisture.

So shampoo twice?

What benefits do we receive for shampooing our curly hair twice with a clarifying and moisturizing shampoo? “Clarifying shampoos remove dirt oil and buildup from the hair. If you use a lot of product, have a scalp condition or have an active lifestyle, incorporating a clarifying shampoo into your hair care regimen should be done on a more regular basis.” But Dr. Williams also acknowledges that “clarifying shampoos can be drying on the hair,” so it is important to use a moisturizing shampoo as well to “cleanse the hair gently while maintaining a moisture balance in the hair.” In effect, they are restoring moisture back into the hair.

Using both a clarifying and moisturizing shampoo can help cleanse your scalp and keep your curls hydrated and shiny. You can shampoo your hair once or twice depending on your preference, follow up with a moisturizing shampoo, and proceed with your usual conditioning or deep conditioning session. Using the moisturizing shampoo afterwards can also make detangling easier since your curls have received some moisture at that point.

Want to give clarifying and moisturizing shampoos a try? Check these products out:

Top 5 Clarifying Shampoos

Top 5 Moisturizing Shampoos

Are you looking back at your regimen to evaluate if you should incorporate both shampoos into your regimen? Is this practice truly necessary for a healthy hair regimen? Here’s a last thought from Dr. Williams, “when the scalp is not cleansed thoroughly on a regular basis it can lead to scalp discomfort in the form of flaking and itching.” If this is one of your challenges, then give the double shampoo method a try.

Do you use both clarifying and moisturizing shampoos? If so, share some of your favorites.

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How to Care for Kids’ Natural Hair, According to Top Mommy Bloggers
Photo Courtesy of Girls Love Your Curls
Caring for children’s hair can be tough. Trying to find the best practices and products can be a task, especially if your child does not like hair styling sessions. Need to find easier ways to style and manage? Check out the top mommy bloggers that share tips and tricks for children’s hair care.

Jessica Pettway – How to Safely Blow Dry Kids’ Hair

Jessica Pettway is a blogger who writes and vlogs about style, fashion, and beauty. She shows that you can stay fabulous while being a mother. Photos of her adorable daughter are posted all over her Instagram page. Check out her video on how to safely blow-dry your toddler’s natural hair.

Jenell B. Stewart – Detangling Cocktail

Jenell B. Stewart, editor of KinkyCurlyCoilyMe, is a mother of two. She writes about natural hair, beauty, and a healthy lifestyle. She openly shares her journey of motherhood, which is inspiring. Her videos about detangling tools and the recipe of her detangling cocktail will definitely help you the next time you have a wash day with your little one.

Mahogany Knots – Using a Detangling Brush

Mahogany Knots shares many tutorials on natural hair styling. She also shares vlogs that invite us to her personal life and her beautiful family. She shares videos on styling children’s hair. Check out her video tutorial using Felicia Leather’s detangling brush on her daughter.

Yolanda Renee – Overall Hair Care

Yolanda Renee is a mother, blogger, and has an online boutique. She provides us with many videos on natural hair styling. She also shares product reviews and styling tips for children’s hair. Watch this video where she discusses how she cares for her daughters’ hair.

Im Fro Real – Simplifying Detangling Sessions

Krystle Scott is a blogger and mother. She shares not only videos for natural hair care for adults, but also children. A detangling session with a toddler can be difficult, especially since they move around a lot. Check out this video, she shares her process to make it less difficult for you.

Little Mind Catchers – How to Prep for Wash Day

Little Mind Catchers shares videos on natural hair and home schooling. This is definitely for parents about children. Need more help to prepare for that dreaded wash day? Click here to see a video on how they prep for washday.

Discovering Natural – Twist Out Tutorial for Tweens & Teens

Discovering Natural provides natural hair care tips for adults and children. Her channel shares videos on styling including wash and go’s and updos. Have a teenager that is looking for a cool hairstyle? Discovering Natural shares a twist out tutorial that she may love.

Nik Scott – Shampooing Long Hair

Nik Scott is an author and vlogger. She is the author of the children’s book, My Hair is So Happy. If your daughter has a lot of length and you need advice on how to manage it, Nik Scott shares a video on how she shampoos her daughter’s hair.

GirlsLoveYourCurls – Protective Styles

GirlsLoveYourCurls has many videos on different ways to style your curls. Nadine has 3 daughters is teaching them how to love and maintain their natural hair. Her videos are great, especially if you are interested in protective styling. Check out this video of this beautiful Sea Shell French Braid Updo.

I am Traeh – Natural Hair Styles for Kids

Traeh shares many videos on natural hairstyles. She also shares beauty tutorials and videos with her daughter. Does your daughter love Tip from DreamWorks Home? Traeh shows 2 Tip inspired hairstyles.

Brown Girls Hair – How to Flat Iron Kids’ Hair

Check out this mother daughter duo! Brown Girls Hair thoroughly shows hair care regimens, styling videos, and maintenance routines for taking care of children’s hair. Interested in flat ironing your daughter’s hair? Here is a video to demonstrate how to flat iron her hair.

Is it Normal for Hair to Come Out While in Braids?
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The summer is the best time to think about protective styling, as you want to enjoy your vacations and days on the beach. The hair should be the last thing on your mind, right? Not really. Just because you are protective styling does not mean you neglect your curls. NaturallyCurly member, Zippytatiana9, posted a question on Curly Q&A about hair coming out while in braids.

Question

Is it normal for hair to come out while in braids?

To clarify, the Senegalese twists are still in her head, we aren’t taking them down (only been in for a week and a half”>. Three braids have already come out and each time the hair that was also twisted comes out with it. Almost like the hair is ripped from her scalp, is that normal??

Answer

It sounds like the twists were installed too tightly in her hair. When the protective styles are install, the stylists will install the twists/braids a little tight in order for the style to last long and remain neat, but the twists or braids should not be installed too tight or the hair will break off. Since you are not taking the twists down at the moment, the best thing you can do is to keep the hair moisturized and monitor the breakage. I would not keep the twists in any longer than 3-4 weeks since she may be experiencing breakage.

While taking the twists out, it will be best to do it carefully. Use coconut oil (or your favorite carrier oil”> to release each twist and comb the hair with a wide tooth comb. Slowly work your way from the bottom to the top of the section. Some hair will come out because the hair has not been combed since she was wearing the protective style and the shed hair has not been released. Remember that hair shed 75-100 strands a day so there will be a lot of hair fall, but in this situation, you have to be extra careful because the style may have cause hair breakage.

After you take the style out, cleanse the hair gently with a mild and moisturizing shampoo. Next, you should deep condition her curls with a protein conditioner A protein treatment will help strengthen the hair, especially if it is experiencing breakage. While using a protein treatment, please follow the directions on the product because some require specific instructions. Monitor the condition of the hair after your take the protective style down. You may need weekly treatments until the breakage decreases. If breakage sustains or worsens, you may need to schedule an appointment with a beautician.

Read more: Top 20 Protein Rich Products

For future references, while the protective style is install, make sure it is not installed too tight. The hair will be constantly pulled and it may worsen even while styling the twists/braids (buns, ponytails, etc.”> However, please do not let this discourage you from not using protective styles. They are great and help to reduce manipulation, but you have to monitor the health of your hair and scalp. Consider using a light leave-in conditioner like the Camille Rose Naturals Fresh Curl and a scalp oil like the Ann Carol Coconut Lavender Oil.

10 Deep Conditioners for Protein Sensitive Hair
Photo Courtesy of Black Beauty Bag

A deep conditioner is a staple product in a curly girl’s product lineup. We use so many products and techniques that a deep conditioning session helps to rejuvenate our curls and bring them back to life. While searching for a deep conditioner, it is best to look at the ingredients. Some curlies are protein sensitive, which means that an overload of protein can strip the hair of moisture and make the hair stiff. Not sure if you are protein sensitive? Check out this article Are You Protein Sensitive? Find Out Now. On the other hand if you are not protein sensitive and do use protein treatments, it is important to alternate between using protein and protein-free treatments so that you do not experience a protein overload. Here are 10 protein-free deep conditioners to help you find your balance. 

10 Protein-free Deep Conditioners

Jessicurl Deep Conditioning Treatment

This deep conditioning treatment has shea butter and cocoa butter that will leave your curls moisturized and shiny. This conditioner also comes in three fragrance options, including fragrance-free. This is a great option for curlies who are sensitive to scents.

Great for: Scent-sensitive curlies

Curl Junkie Curl Rehab Moisturizing Hair Treatment

Are your curls getting a lot of sun this summer? Try a deep treatment with this product and see if your curls come back to life. The Curl Rehab Moisturizing Hair Treatment will rejuvenate your curls and give them the moisture that they need. This treatment includes aloe, herbs, and butters for bouncy curls.

Great for: Rejuvenating damaged curls

As I Am Hydration Elation Intensive Conditioner

The intensive conditioner will not only moisturize your hair but also strengthen your curls. This will help with manageability, which is a great way to prep for your styling session.

Great for: Manageability when styling

 Bee Mine Bee-U-Ti-Ful Deep Conditioner

The cupuacu butter in this product maintains moisture and helps with elasticity. This product also provides protections from the sun, which is great for the summertime and long days on the beach.

Great for: Spending time outside

Karen’s Body Beautiful Secret Weapon Restorative Hair Treatment

Looking for a pre-shampoo treatment? Try the Secret Weapon Restorative Hair Treatment. It can help strengthen and moisturize your hair before you even shampoo!

Great for: Pre-pooing

Mixed Chicks Deep Conditioner

This deep conditioner has a good amount of slip, which is great for detangling. It will leave your hair free of tangles and moisturized.  A little goes a long way with this conditioner.

Great for: Detangling

OBIA Natural Hair Care Babassu Deep Conditioner

Babassu oil is formulated in this deep conditioner to help repair and strengthen the hair. The conditioner has good slip for detangling and has a mild scent for curlies that do not like overwhelmingly fragrant products.

Great for: Repairing and detangling

MYHoneyChild Honey Hair Mask

This hair mask includes honey, which will help with moisture. Are you experiencing a dry and irritated scalp? The honey can also help soothe the scalp.

Great for: Soothing dry scalp

EDEN BodyWorks JojOba Monoi Deep Conditioner

If you are experiencing dry and brittle hair, try this conditioner. It includes jojoba, monoi, and coconut oil to help repair and moisturize the hair. This product also smells great!

Great for: Moisturizing brittle hair

SheaMoisture African Black Soap Purification Masque

This masque is another good option if you are experiencing a dry and irritated scalp. Plantain enzymes are included to help soothe the scalp. If you are experiencing product buildup or just want to detox your hair, this is a good choice.

Great for: Detoxing hair and scalp

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Protein Ingredients

Not sure what to look for on your product label?

CurlyNikki provided this list of protein in her Identifying Proteins & Humectants in Hair Products article:

  • Cocodimonium hydroxypropyl hydrolyzed casein
  • Cocodimonium hydroxypropyl hydrolyzed collagen
  • Cocodimonium hydroxypropyl hydrolyzed hair keratin
  • Cocodimonium hydroxypropyl hydrolyzed keratin
  • Cocodimonium hydroxypropyl hydrolyzed rice protein
  • Cocodimonium hydroxypropyl hydrolyzed silk
  • Cocodimonium hydroxypropyl hydrolyzed soy protein
  • Cocodimonium hydroxypropyl hydrolyzed wheat protein
  • Cocodimonium hydroxypropyl silk amino acids
  • Cocoyl hydrolyzed collagen
  • Cocoyl hydrolyzed keratin
  • Hydrolyzed keratin
  • Hydrolyzed oat flour
  • Hydrolyzed silk
  • Hydrolyzed silk protein
  • Hydrolyzed soy protein
  • Hydrolyzed wheat protein
  • Hydrolyzed wheat protein
  • Keratin
  • Potassium cocoyl hydrolyzed collagen
  • TEA-cocoyl hydrolyzed collagen
  • TEA-cocoyl hydrolyzed soy protein
Why I Used to Hate My Shrinkage

Shrinkage can be frustrating when you pull a curl down just to see it snap back up. Shrinkage can hide the true length of your hair. Some curlies experience more shrinkage than others. The curly girl magic trick can be frustrating for some and can take time to fully accept and embrace.  Previously, I was frustrated with my shrinkage and did not know how to fully accept it. I would try to use hair products that would aid in reducing shrinkage while sitting in front of my mirror and waiting for results. My 4-year hair anniversary is approaching soon, and while reflecting on my journey I finally came to terms with my love-hate relationship with shrinkage. 

The era of length checks

The reason I did not like my shrinkage was because I was not able to see my true length with my shrinkage. I did the big chop in August 2011 and right away I learned how to love and care for my natural hair. I learned how to properly moisturize and style my hair so it can be healthy and grow to its full potential. I watched many YouTube videos and received advice from loved ones who wore their natural hair to learn this texture. I like to call this time period “the era of length checks.” While watching these videos, it was normal to compare your hair and growth to these other curlies. Even though it was great to see curlies at different parts of their hair journey, it was also discouraging and challenging at times.

I discovered stretched hairstyles

I started to wear more stretched hairstyles like twists outs and braid outs to see my length. It allowed me to see my hard work and that I did to take care of my healthy hair. I would occasionally wash and go, but the shrinkage would frustrate me. I realized that seeing my hair in stretched styles allowed me to see my growth and it proved that what I was doing was working to maintain length.

I came to love my shrinkage

Now, I have fully accepted, embraced, and love my shrinkage. I do not wear my hair in stretched styles as often as before. I still pineapple my hair at night to simply maintain my hairstyle at night. I learned that shrinkage has great benefits for curls and can even help maintain length!  I no longer get frustrated with my shrinkage because I know it makes my curls special and unique. It makes me happy that I do not view shrinkage as a negative thing anymore.

Do you hate your shrinkage? Question it

Shrinkage is so common with curlies and there are many different techniques that we use to stretch our hair. Not only that, there are many products in the market that claim to help reduce shrinkage. With all of these resources available, it is common for a curly to try to reduce shrinkage with their curls. However, just try not to lose sight that your curls are already beautiful with the shrinkage.

If you’re battling a love/hate relationship with your shrinkage, think about the reason why you dislike it. Is it because it affects the end result of your styling? Does it mask your truth length? Be honest with yourself and the acceptance will start there. Try styling your hair a few times a week without stretching your hair. You may like the versatility that you actually do not get with your hair stretched. For example, I personally like the definition that I receive when my hair is not stretched. My twist outs last longer due to this definition and it can last up to a week.

Do you get frustrated with your shrinkage? Does your love/hate relationship with the curly magic trick play a huge role in your hair journey? Why or why not? 

The Top 10 Products that Smell Like Summer

Ahh the time is finally here! The weather is warm, the sun is out, and our curls are ready to shine. As a curly girl, I have specific requirements to enjoy a product that can eventually become a part of my Holy Grail. One of the requirements includes a good scent. A sweet scented product would enhance my wash day experience and make me feel like I am on a tropical get away. Ladies, I know you can relate.  So grab your wide tooth comb, plastic cap, and your sweet smelling products for a mini vacation. Looking for some new favorites? Check out these great smelling products that will make you feel like you are on a sweet escape.

Karen’s Body Beautiful Sweet Ambrosia Leave-In Conditioner

The Sweet Ambroisa Leave-In Conditioner will keep your curls moisturized and will help detangle curls before styling. This product is lightweight and will provide enough moisture if you decide to use this by itself for styling. The product has a long lasting fruity smell that is subtle yet sweet.

Carol’s Daughter Tui Color Care Moisturizing Hair Oil

Here’s a lightweight oil that is perfect for the summer. The Tui Color Care- Moisturizing Hair Oil will replenish your curls and give them sheen. Should I mention how great this oil smells?

Aubrey Organics Honeysuckle Rose Shampoo

If fruity smells are not for you, then this is a great shampoo for you to try. The light floral smell might do the trick and your curls will be moisturized and shiny. This shampoo includes rose hip seed oil and argan oil for moisture and nutrients.

SheaMoisture Superfruit Complex 10-In-1 Renewal System Hair Masque

This 10-in-1 deep treatment masque will help repair, moisturize, and protect hair. Marula oil is included for moisturizing benefits and biotin is included to help make the hair stronger. The fruity scent is perfect for the warm summer days.

Curls Blueberry Bliss Curl Control Paste

This yummy smelling pomade contains argan oil, organic blueberry extract, mango, and shea butter. This pomade is great for summer updos and a good edge tamer if you want to have sleek edges.

Alikay Naturals Lemongrass Leave in Conditioner

If lotion/cream leave-in conditioners are not for you during the summer months, this is a great option for your curls. This lightweight spray will provide your hair with moisture. The lemon scent is fresh and great to start your day with.

Oyin Handmade Juices & Berries

Juices & Berries includes vegetable moisturizers that will keep your hair moisturized. This is a great option for curlies that are protective styling this summer. To keep your curls moisturized, spray throughout the week.

Soultanicals Pineapple Dip Detangling Slip

This product is great for detangling! It contains good slip that can help make detangling a breeze. It can be used as a rinse out or a leave-in conditioner. It is also pineapple scented. Can we say a tropical getaway?

SheaMoisture Coconut & Hibiscus Curl Enhancing Smoothie

The Curl Enhancing Smoothie is no stranger to the natural hair game. The smoothie is great for twist outs/braid outs. The long lasting coconut scent is also great for summer.

CURLS Coconut Sublime Conditioner

The conditioner has great slip and it will moisturize your curls. You can use it as a rinse-out conditioner. You can also use it as a leave in conditioner (2 parts water, 1 part conditioner”> especially if you cannot get enough of this coconut scent.

What are your favorite sweet smelling products? Did your favorites make the list?

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