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When wash day comes around, we think of the smell of our favorite shampoo and catch up on our favorite shows while our hair is deep-conditioned. Sometimes, we overlook one of the most important parts of this task: detangling. It helps make our styling session easier and lasts throughout the week. It also helps maintain the health of your hair to prevent damage or breakage.
Our curl friend, Jasmina, from Curly Q&A is tired of her hair matting and asked:
Question
“Can anyone tell what are causes of matted hair? This is my main problem, and I still can’t solve it…”
Answer
Matted hair can occur if the hair is not detangled. First, evaluate your current hair regimen. How often are you detangling your hair? Are you thoroughly detangling your curls with a generous amount of conditioner during wash day? These are practices that you should monitor and keep an eye out for and here reasons why you are experiencing matting:
1. Not Protecting Your Hair at Night
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Protecting your hair at night does not only help preserve your hairstyle for the next day, it also protects the health of your hair. To preserve your style, place your curls in a pineapple, twist, and braid your hair if you are preserving a twist out/braid out (try not to re-twist/braid every night). Sleeping with a satin scarf, bonnet, or pillowcase can help prevent your hair from matting and breaking. Sleeping on a cotton pillowcase without protection will allow your hair to rub against the material. This can remove the moisture from your hair and cause it to matt.
2. Wearing Protective Styles for Too Long
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Protective styles are a great way to help retain length and ease the worrying about styling your hair. Even though protective styles are great, leaving them in too long can cause more harm than good. The protective style should be installed when your hair is freshly washed and moisturized. Protective styles can last 4-6 weeks, depending on the style and maintenance. I would not leave it any longer than six weeks because it can cause matting if left too long. When removing the style, carefully wash and detangle the hair.
3. Not Detangling Your Hair Properly
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If you style your hair when it is not thoroughly detangled, this can cause matting. During wash day, use a conditioner and detangle your hair. If it will make it easier, you can use a conditioner with a lot of slip. You can also use your tool of choice: your hands or a wide-toothed comb. Make sure to detangle your hair gently from the ends to the roots. Divide your hair into sections if needed to avoid feeling overwhelmed.
Read more: 13 Detanglers that Work Like Magic for Curly Hair
If you are experiencing matting and your gentle detangling session is not working, it may be best to schedule an appointment with a professional stylist to help detangle or remove the knots with a haircut.
1. Hair oil
Have you ever applied oil to your hair and found that it left your hair greasy or oily for the rest of the day? One way to avoid that, while still reaping the countless benefits oils have for your hair, is to use them in a “pre-poo treatment” before you shampoo. You can use your favorite oil and apply thoroughly to your hair. You can also incorporate a scalp massage to stimulate hair growth. Cover your hair with a plastic shower cap and leave the oil in your hair for 15-30 minutes before you shampoo. You can also apply the oil the night before your wash day if you prefer to wash your hair in the morning.
When it comes to pre-poo treatments, a lot of women with wavy hair avoid them out of fear of a greasy scalp that takes too long to cleanse, but that does not have to be the case if you use the right oil. For wavy hair, it may be best to try lightweight oil that will not weigh down your hair. These treatments are especially beneficial for wavies with color treated or heat-straightened hair.
Try one of these light oils as your next pre-poo:
- Coconut oil
- Jojoba oil
- Grapeseed oil
- Avocado oil
2. Deep conditioner pre-poo
If you find that deep conditioners feel too heavy on your hair, even after you rinse them out, then try moving them up in your regimen to before you shampoo instead of after. Just apply enough deep conditioner to saturate your hair and leave the conditioner on for 15 minutes – 1 hour before washing. Here are some conditioners that are great for wavy hair:
- Alikay Naturals Avocado Cream Moisture Repairing Hair Mask
- Mop Top Daily Conditioner
- Ouidad Curl Quencher Moisturizing Conditioner
- Curl Junkie Repair Me! Reconstructive Hair Treatment
- Darcy’s Botanicals Pumpkin Seed Moisturizing Conditioner
3. DIY pre-poo
Your kitchen is always a great source to find healthy ingredients for your hair. You can make a combination of your favorite ingredients to make a treatment that is natural and affordable.
Coconut milk pre-poo
Hairscapades shares a coconut milk pre-poo that has the following ingredients:- 4 tbsp. coconut milk
- 2 tbsp. honey
- 1 tbsp. each 3 of your favorite oils
If you are looking for a simpler recipe, trying using moisturizing ingredients such as avocados, Greek yogurt, honey, and bananas. Simply blend them together, sift the chunks with a rice strainer, and thoroughly apply to your hair. (Don’t skip the straining step, otherwise you’ll be picking chunks out of your hair for ages”>.
Always remember…
Now that you see the different ways you can pre-poo, you can choose the best option for you. You are one step closer to the pre-poo process, but before you start, here are some things that you should remember while pre- pooing:
- Handle the hair with care. It is great that you are taking the time to treat your curls before shampooing. Handle your hair with care and do not rush the process. It will defeat the purpose of pre-pooing.
- Detangle the hair with your fingers or a wide tooth comb. You do not want to cause breakage from using improper hair tool.
- Apply the products thoroughly. Make sure you apply the treatment thoroughly to your hair, concentrating on your ends, as they are the oldest and driest part of the hair and the most susceptible to breakage.
What are your favorite ways to pre-poo? Do you use oil, DIY treatments or a deep conditioner?
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Are you a curly that has returned from a sunny and dry climate? Did you have a fun vacation but once you saw your curls in the mirror, you are regretting how you cared for your hair while you were away? No need for any regrets! You can take these steps to repair your curls after your escapade.
Cleanse
If you live in a dry, desert climate it is important to cleanse your hair thoroughly to remove any sand and environmental debris from your hair and scalp. To do this, wash your hair with a clarifying shampoo at least once a month or more, depending on what your hair can handle. Choose a clarifier with peppermint oil or tea tree oil to stimulate the scalp and eliminate bacteria. Follow up with a moisturizing conditioner to avoid excessive dryness. If your hair tends to be dry, do a pre-poo treatment before you cleanse to prevent moisture loss.
Deep Condition
In dry environments hair is more prone to dryness and tangles. Deep conditioning allows you to revive your hair with moisturizing or strengthening ingredients. All women with curly, coily or wavy hair should be deep conditioning regularly, but if you live in a dry climate then it is a crucial step to maintaining your moisture levels. Many curlies even use moisturizing deep treatments to quench your thirsty curls every time they condition, instead of using a daily conditioner. If you have noticed that your hair is damaged from heat tools or color processing, or you are experiencing breakage, opt for a strengthening deep treatment such as a protein conditioner. If your curls are protein sensitive, you can try mixing a strengthening treatment with a moisturizing one (yes, even protein sensitive hair needs proteins“>. It is always important to maintain a protein moisture balance for your unique hair needs.
Hydrate
“Stay hydrated” is a phrase that you hear over and over again when it comes to beauty as well as your overall health, but it cannot be over emphasized. When you are in a dry climate it is even more imperative that you hydrate yourself to prevent dehydration. When you are hydrated, your body and skin benefit from it, so drink lots of water! A hydrated body on a nutrient rich diet is going to give you your best chances for growing longer, healthier hair – far more than any moisturizing hair product ever could.
Sun protection
Sunscreen is usually one of the first products that you put on your skin when spending time outside, but sometimes we forget our hair. Protecting your hair is important, as it is being exposed to the sun’s damaging rays daily. Luckily, there are products that include UV protection to help protect your hair from the sun. This is an important step in anyone’s regimen, but it is especially beneficial for color-treated hair. Check out these products that have UV protection:
- AG Hair Cosmetics Foam Weightless Volumizer
- Ouidad Climate Control Heat & Humidity Gel
- Alikay Naturals Wake Me Up Daily Curl Refresher
- Briogeo Rosarco Reparative Conditioner
Protective styling
When your hair is feeling particularly dry, try wearing your hair in a protective style to give it a break. This allows your hair to enjoy all of the moisture that you have been providing for your hair. Try styling your hair in a loose bun, braids, or two-strand twists rather than wearing it loose and out. Wearing your hair down makes it most susceptible to the environment with wind that creates tangles, sun, and rubbing on your clothes. Of course you want to be able to enjoy your hair, but when it’s so damaged and dry that it cannot seem to retain moisture, this is a good solution. You can also use your favorite summer hat to protect your curls from the sun. It is also best to avoid heat styling just to prevent any additional drying of your hair. If you prefer to heat style your hair, be sure to apply a heat protectant before heat use.
Conclusion
The steps above will help with your hair bounce back in no time, but when trying new reparative steps, be sure to take notes throughout the process to see what is working and what is not working. If you notice your hair is not improving, it may be best to book an appointment with a professional hairstylist to see what the issue could be.
The Denman Brush is a very popular detangling tool among the curly community, it won this years Best of the Best , but it has also been known to be a controversial topic. It is used mainly to detangle natural Type 3c and Type 4 hair when wet.
Many curlies rave about the way a Denman can cut down their detangling time, and it also works to evenly distribute product in curly hair. In addition, the brush helps achieve curl definition.
However, as with any tool or product one size does not fit all. Some curlies find that the brush pulls out too much hair, and others have experienced frizz. Furthermore, the Denman has a higher price point than other brushes, ranging between the $10-$19.
So is a Denman Brush better than a regular brush?
It depends on your detangling preference.
Many curlies view the right detangling tool as an investment, and if you want to focus on curl definition and decreasing your detangling time, then a Denman may be for you. There are a variety of Denman Brushes to choose from, though it’s best to purchase a brush that uses 5-7 rows of bristles.
If the brush snags your hair, all is not lost! Don’t be discouraged if the brush doesn’t live up to your expectations on the first try, you may just need to modify the brush to suit your curls. Many naturalistas remove every other row of bristles to create what is known as a “modified Denman.” Also, be sure that you are using the brush slowly to avoid unnecessary hair pulling.
Prefer a cheaper alternative? Try generic brushes, wide tooth combs, and (the cheapest option”> finger detangling.
Detangling must-have
No matter what tool you choose for your detangling session, it’s essential to use a conditioner with “slip.” This allows the tool to easily slide through your hair.
While detangling, start from the end of your hair and slowly work your way to the root. Create sections and twist your detangled hair as you go to avoid feeling overwhelmed.
Lastly, take your time while detangling your hair. Always schedule your detangling session on a day when you’re not in a rush to be anywhere. Rushing this process can cause hair breakage and pulling.
MORE:
Must-Have Detanglers for Curly Hair
5 Conditioners That Melt My Tangles Away
Do you use the denman brush? Let us know what you think in the comments below.
A deep conditioner is a staple product in a curly girl’s product lineup. We use so many products and techniques that a deep conditioning session can help to rejuvenate our curls and bring them back to life. While searching for a deep conditioner, it is best to look at the ingredients. Some curlies are protein sensitive, which means that an overload of protein can strip the hair of moisture and make the hair stiff. Not sure if you are protein sensitive? Check out this article Are You Protein Sensitive? Find Out Now. On the other hand, if you are not protein sensitive and do use protein treatments, it is important to alternate between using protein and protein-free treatments so that you do not experience a protein overload. Here are 10 protein-free deep conditioners to help you find your balance.
10 Protein-free Deep Conditioners
Jessicurl Deep Conditioning Treatment
This deep conditioning treatment has shea butter and cocoa butter and will leave your curls moisturized and shiny. This conditioner also comes in three fragrance options, including fragrance-free. This is a great option for curlies who are sensitive to scents.
Great for: Scent-sensitive curlies
Curl Junkie Curl Rehab Moisturizing Hair Treatment
If your curls are burned out from too much summer sun, try a deep treatment with this product to see if your curls come back to life. The Curl Rehab Moisturizing Hair Treatment will rejuvenate your curls and give them the moisture they need. This treatment includes aloe, herbs, and butters for bouncy curls.
Great for: Rejuvenating damaged curls
As I Am Hydration Elation Intensive Conditioner
The intensive conditioner will not only moisturize your hair but will also strengthen your curls. This will help with manageability, which is a great way to prep for your styling session.
Great for: Manageability when styling
Bee Mine Bee-U-Ti-Ful Deep Conditioner
The cupuacu butter in this product maintains moisture and helps with elasticity. This product also provides protection from the sun.
Great for: Spending time outside
Mixed Chicks Deep Conditioner
This deep conditioner has a good amount of slip, which is great for detangling. It will leave your hair free of tangles and moisturized. A little goes a long way with this conditioner.
Great for: Detangling
Karen’s Body Beautiful Secret Weapon Restorative Hair Treatment
Looking for a pre-shampoo treatment? Try the Secret Weapon Restorative Hair Treatment. It can help strengthen and moisturize your hair before you even shampoo!
Great for: Pre-pooing
OBIA Natural Hair Care Babassu Deep Conditioner
Babassu oil is formulated in this deep conditioner to help repair and strengthen the hair. The conditioner has good slip for detangling and has a mild scent for curlies who do not like overwhelmingly fragrant products.
Great for: Repairing and detangling
MYHoneyChild Honey Hair Mask
This hair mask includes honey, which will help with moisture. Are you experiencing a dry and irritated scalp? The honey can also help soothe the scalp.
Great for: Soothing dry scalp
EDEN BodyWorks JojOba Monoi Deep Conditioner
If you are experiencing dry and brittle hair, try this conditioner. It includes jojoba, monoi, and coconut oil to help repair and moisturize the hair. This product also smells great!
Great for: Moisturizing brittle hair
SheaMoisture African Black Soap Purification Masque
This masque is another good option if you are experiencing a dry and irritated scalp. Plantain enzymes are included to help soothe the scalp. If you are experiencing product buildup or just want to detox your hair, this is a good choice.
Great for: Detoxing hair and scalp
Protein Ingredients
Not sure what to look for on your product label?
CurlyNikki provided this list of protein in her Identifying Proteins & Humectants in Hair Products article:
- Cocodimonium hydroxypropyl hydrolyzed casein
- Cocodimonium hydroxypropyl hydrolyzed collagen
- Cocodimonium hydroxypropyl hydrolyzed hair keratin
- Cocodimonium hydroxypropyl hydrolyzed keratin
- Cocodimonium hydroxypropyl hydrolyzed rice protein
- Cocodimonium hydroxypropyl hydrolyzed silk
- Cocodimonium hydroxypropyl hydrolyzed soy protein
- Cocodimonium hydroxypropyl hydrolyzed wheat protein
- Cocodimonium hydroxypropyl silk amino acids
- Cocoyl hydrolyzed collagen
- Cocoyl hydrolyzed keratin
- Hydrolyzed keratin
- Hydrolyzed oat flour
- Hydrolyzed silk
- Hydrolyzed silk protein
- Hydrolyzed soy protein
- Hydrolyzed wheat protein
- Hydrolyzed wheat protein
- Keratin
- Potassium cocoyl hydrolyzed collagen
- TEA-cocoyl hydrolyzed collagen
- TEA-cocoyl hydrolyzed soy protein
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Swimming is a great way to exercise and cool off from the hot temperatures, but you don’t want it to jeopardize your hair health. Since chlorine from the pool is damaging to textured hair, it is important to care for your hair before swimming. Taking the time to care for your curls before getting in the pool will not only prevent damage and breakage, but it will also make your wash day a lot easier.
Here are some tips to prevent a wash day disaster before swimming.
Detangle first
Before you swim, be sure to prep your curls. Thoroughly detangle your hair with conditioner. You can use a budget-friendly conditioner that has lots of slip.
Don’t rinse the conditioner out
After detangling, leave the conditioner on your hair. Applying a generous amount of conditioner will reduce how much chlorine your hair absorbs, and because of this you may want to invest in an inexpensive conditioner. If you prefer not to use conditioner, you can detangle with hair oil.
Check out some of our budget-friendly favorites from the drugstore!
- L’Oréal Paris EverCreme Cleansing Balm
- Aussie Moist Conditioner
- Trader Joe`s Tea Tree Tingle Conditioner
- Suave Naturals Tropical Coconut Conditioner
Twist or braid your hair
After detangling your curls, twist or braid them. Don’t worry about your hair looking polished. The purpose of twisting your hair is to prevent matting while you swim. If you can secure your twists or braids in a ponytail, that’s even better.
Cleanse after swimming
Washing your curls right after swimming is necessary. When chlorine is left in your hair, it can cause breakage and damage. Shampooing your curls with a clarifying and moisturizing shampoo will gently yet thoroughly remove the chlorine. Cleansing your hair should be easier thanks to detangling and moisturizing your curls before your swim session. You will notice that your hair does not feel brittle from chlorine or even sun exposure.
Deep condition
Follow up with a deep conditioner. I suggest applying heat while you deep condition by using a hooded dryer, heated cap, or body heat (plastic cap and beanie hat”>. Rinse, apply a moisturizer or leave-in conditioner, and style.
Regardless of whether you decide to wash and go or do a braid out, make sure to apply and seal moisture for your hair. Now you can enjoy swimming without spending hours repairing your curls from the aftermath. The key is to keep them detangled and coat your curls with moisture so the pool water doesn’t get to chance to strip your healthy hair.
Do you have tips and tricks for preventing wash day disasters before swimming? Share with the curly community below!
This article was originally published in 2016 and was updated in 2018 to reflect new product recommendations.
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Summer is made for vacations, but the preparation can be stressful. Flights, hotels, and activities can be costly. And getting everything organized is time-consuming. When our highly anticipated trip finally arrives, we are probably staring at our closets, trying to figure out the most efficient way to pack. Since vacations give us a time to relax, we want to look and feel good. Take these steps to make sure you are packing well for your curls.
Planning
Before you pack for your vacation, you usually plan your outfits in advance. You can do the same for your curls! Think about the place you will be attending and the activities that you will be engaging in. Are you going to the beach and plan to enjoy the water? Will you hike and undertake other outdoor activities? Your vacation plans should be a factor in your styling.
If you plan to be very active and enjoy the outdoors, you may want to consider wearing a protective style during your trip. This will allow you to spend less time on your hair and more time on your activities. You can choose from styles such as box braids, Marley twists, and cornrows. If styling your hair during your trip does not seem like a hassle, wear your favorite everyday style. This can include twist-outs, braid-outs, and wash and go’s. It is best to have an idea of how you are going to style your hair — that way you are able to pack properly.
Packing
Packing is already tough, especially when you are trying to squeeze all of your personal belongings into your bags. When packing, be sure to bring travel-size containers of your favorite products, especially if you are carrying your bag on the plane. Trust me, it will break your heart if airport security makes you throw out a fresh bottle of your holy grail leave-in conditioner! If you are not able to purchase travel-size versions of your favorite products, no need to worry! You can purchase travel-size containers or ziploc bags and fill them with your must-haves. These containers are affordable and you can find them at drug stores or online. To help you pack products that you will actually use, we’ve put together a guide to products you should bring based on the hairstyles you plan to wear on vacation:
Wash and go’s: Since there are multiple steps to a wash and go, you will have to pack more products. Consider packing a shampoo, conditioner, leave-in conditioner, and curl definer. If you are running low on space, skip the leave-in conditioner and loosen the consistency of your conditioner by adding water. Before leaving for your trip, make time to perfect your wash and go method so you can have your desired results going to your destination.
Twist-outs/braid-outs: Pack a twisting cream and light oil, so you can re-twist/braid at night if needed. Also, consider packing accessories to brighten up your hairstyle. If possible, try keeping your twists/braids in when traveling. This will allow the most curl definition and less maintenance for your hair while you’re on the road.
Protective styles: You may want to pack hair oil and curl refresher to revive your hairstyle. Accessories such as hair ties, headbands, and scarves should also be considered if you want to switch up your look during your trip.
What to pack
Need some inspiration for your travel bag? Check out my curly travel essentials:
When traveling, I usually wear my hair in a twist-out. Twist-outs are low maintenance for me, especially since I have already perfected my product combination and technique. While arriving at the airport, my hair is usually in two-strand twists to prevent frizz from traveling. When packing, I transfer my products to travel-size containers since I already have the containers in my home. I bring the following in travel-size jars:
Mielle Organics Brazilian Curly Cocktail Curl Cream
Mielle Organics White Peony Leave-In Conditioner
Design Essentials Natural Honey & Shea Edge Tamer
I use the leave-in conditioner, along with a fine mist of water, to refresh my curls with moisture. The curl cream is used if I need to re-twist my hair at night. I’ll use the edge tamer to smooth my edges for my hairstyles. In addition to these products, I bring my hair scarf, satin bonnet, stretched hair bands, and satin hair ties. These accessories allow me to maintain my hairstyle at night and also put my curls in updos. The “puff” is my favorite go-to if my twist-out is too old. It allows me to pull my curls away from my face and enjoy my vacation.
How will you pack your travel bag for the summer? Tell us in the comments section below.
And if you’re looking for more curly travel tips, check out 16 Packing Essentials for Every Curly Traveler.
In order to use essential oils in a safe way, it is best to dilute them with a carrier oil. Many hair and skin treatments call for a carrier oil, and if you haven’t yet found your carrier oil of choice this comprehensive list will be your guide to finding the best one for you.
Not only do carrier oils carry your essential oil, they also enhance your hair and skin, by providing their own nourishing benefits. Here are the top 20 carrier oils to use along with your favorite essential oils.
Editor’s note: This article has been updated to include links to purchase all of the oils recommended.
20 Carrier Oils
Recently, Fashionista interviewed six beauty editors and inquired how they were bringing diversity to the publications. Ashley Weatherford, Associate Beauty Editor at New York Magazine’s The Cut states, “In 2015, I wrote a story called ‘The Year Black Hair Was Everywhere,’ where I talked about how black hair and all its different textures was featured in so many different mediums. It was all over runways, it was on television, we saw it in movies. We saw that black women have different textures that are all beautiful and worthy of being filmed or captured in some way.”
Currently, I have seen more women of color with textured hair in the media, but according to Fashion Spot “Just 29 percent of cover models in 2016 were non-white. That’s only 196 women of color out of 678 cover appearances.”
Yes, there is progress being made and I am excited to see the increase of textured hair in the media as time progresses and it makes me feel good that I am starting to become more represented, but here are a few of my favorite magazines that showcase black women and their powerful crowns.Essence
Essence is hands down one of my favorite magazines. Natural hair is shown throughout the magazine and I always see a variety of textures. The publication shares an array of hairstyles, hair tips, and product suggestions for curly girls. I also loved that the magazine has a section for 4C hair online.
EBONY
EBONY magazine also shows the different textures of black hair. One of my favorite sections of the online version is “You ‘Do What?” which allows women to share how they style their hair with the EBONY community. I enjoy reading the different hair regimens!
CRWN
CRWN is a hair and lifestyle magazine that shows the beauty of black hair. The publication includes quality content and beauty photos of a variety of black hair textures. I am looking forward to the next volume of this magazine!
What are some of your favorite magazines you find inspiration from? We’d love to hear from you.
I was more focused
I was more focused after I completed a week of meditation. I have a busy schedule and my mind usually races with thoughts. I try to balance work, family, friends, and self-care. Meditation allows me to clear my mind and focus on the present. After my session, I am able to prioritize and complete items on my to-do list. It also presented me with a lot of clarity where I was able to complete my tasks effectively.
I felt less stressed
After meditating for 7 days, I realized my stress reduced. While meditating, I focused on deep breathing and my affirmations. What are affirmations? Affirmations are words of encouragements and can be great pick me ups when needed. Need some basic affirmations to start with? I shared 3 simple affirmations on my blog that can assist you throughout the day. After my meditation sessions, I was no longer thinking about what was causing stress prior.
I was full of excitement
As the days went by, I noticed that I was looking forward to my meditation session that day. I was excited to unwind and relax from my busy day. I enjoyed that I was taking time out to practice self-care to make sure I am balanced mentally, physically, and emotionally.
You can do it your way
When you think of meditation, you may think of sitting with your legs crossed in a quiet room. It does not have to be that way if you don’t want it to be. Create a meditation set-up that is comfortable for you. I enjoy my sessions with candles, the glow of my Himalayan salt lamp, healing crystals, and soothing sounds of rain.
Conclusion
I will definitely make sure to take time to meditate every day, regardless of the duration. I will no longer allow my busy schedule to be the excuse for me to miss my meditation sessions. Consistently adding this self-care practice allows me to balance my areas of wellness and enjoy the time that I was spending with myself. I was able to get reacquainted with the areas that I love about myself and with time, I will learn even more.
Have you tried meditating? How did you feel after your meditation sessions? Please share with the curly community.
Start with a good base
Textures play a huge role when it comes to cocktailing. The consistency of your products and ingredients will have to “play nice” with each other in order to create a great combination for your curls. When I am creating a cocktail for a leave in conditioner, I make sure to use a base that has a loose consistency because it allows me to easily mix my ingredients. If butters are included in my mixtures, I make sure that they are softened or melted for an easy blend. When creating styling products, like curl definers, I create mixtures with a thicker consistency since my curls tend to enjoy that more for long lasting definition.
Keep a DIY journal
Keeping a journal is essential when creating your DIY recipes. I am able to refer back to my book to keep track of which recipes did or did not work for my curls. It allows me to see the key ingredients that work best in my cocktails and which ones cause issues. I make sure to write down the combinations of ingredients that do not work for my curls so I know what to avoid in the future.
Use what you have
As curlies, we can often find ourselves running to the closest beauty supply store to purchase the latest product or oil; but over time, I’ve come to realize that the best curly cocktails were created with ingredients that I already had at home. Do not underestimate your cooking oils, eggs, and even produce. They can provide your hair with great benefits, such as proper nutrition for a healthy source.
My perfect leave-in cocktail
I created a cocktail that is the perfect leave in conditioner for my curls. It provides long lasting moisture, shine, and definition for days! Check out the recipe below:.
What you will need
- TGIN Green Tea Super Moist Leave-In Conditioner
- Shea Butter
- Olive Oil
- Spoon
- Small Bowl
Instructions
- Place 3 tablespoons of the leave-in conditioner in the bowl. If you have longer or thicker hair, please feel free to add more!
- Add a tablespoon each of shea butter (softened or melted”> and olive oil to the mixture.
- Mix thoroughly, and apply to hair. When applying to your curls, use which every application method works best for you (rake and shake, smoothing, etc.”>
Keep in mind that this recipe works perfectly for my curls and my lifestyle, but you will likely want to make tweaks to it to customize this for you. That is the beauty of cocktailing!
Do you create curly cocktails? What ingredients/products work best together for your curls? Please share with the curly community below.
S.T.E.M., which stands for science, technology, engineering, and mathematics, is an industry that is often underrepresented by women. According to the National Science Board, “In 2013, women constituted 50% of the college-educated workforce, 39% of employed individuals whose highest degree was in an S&E field, and 29% of those in S&E occupations.” Recently, the theatrical release of Hidden Figures, a story of African American women mathematicians and scientists at NASA, has also sparked the interest of girls pursuing careers in math, science, and technology. Aldis Hodge, an actor from the film, told The Cut “We’ve already seen that affect happen nationally, we’re constantly doing panels for STEM [Science, Technology, Engineering and Math] and STEAM [Science, Technology, Engineering, Art & Design, and Mathematics] all over.”
Does your daughter love math and science? Does she have a love/hate relationship with those subjects in school? There are many ways that you can introduce and strengthen girls’ relationships with the math, science, and technology industry.
1. Enroll in programs
There are programs that are available to encourage girls to love S.T.E.M. These programs often offer learning sessions to teach skills within math and science. Some of these programs are also offered for free! Below are some math and science programs that offer programs for girls:
- Girls Who Code
- The American Association of University Women
- Black Girls Code
- National Girls Collaborative Project
- Girls in Tech
Looking for S.T.E.M. programs in your neighborhood? Research your local schools, community colleges, and universities for information on S.T.E.M. educational programs.
2. Search for a mentor
If you are not able to find any educational program in your community, try searching for a mentor. This will allow her to build a one-on-one relationship with someone who is currently working in that industry. In addition, it can assist with gaining insights on real life experiences in math, science, and technology.
3. Encourage a fun learning environment
Learning does not have to be boring. Show that math and science can be fun. If her homework session is challenging, come up with a creative way to help with comprehending her homework easier. Conducting fun science experiments over the weekend is a great way to bond and strengthen her passion for S.T.E.M.
4. Expose her to success stories
There are many women that are breaking barriers in the s.t.e.m. fields. Teach your daughters about them by watching documentaries, going on trips to museums, or researching these trailblazers online. Simply exposing her to these women can give her a chance to see that hard work and dedication will allow her to achieve her dreams, whatever they may be.
5. Be supportive
Encourage her when she feels discouraged, praise her for that awesome grade that she received on her science project, and ask her lots of questions about her future career path. Showing your interest will not only allow her to soar, but show that she can lean on you for support if needed.
How are you encouraging your loved ones to enjoy math, science, and technology? Please share with the curly community.
How do you incorporate blow-outs in your regimen? How do you make your blow-outs last without reverting?
It can be difficult to find a stylish hat that fits our big curls, leaving you to avoid hats entirely. No need to avoid them any longer! Two factors play a key role in fitting your hair into your favorite hats: proper styling and choosing the right style.
How to wear a brimmed hat
Recently, I wore a purple floppy hat that has been a favorite addition to my wardrobe. When purchasing the hat, I knew that I would not wear it daily and I would prep my hair to wear it. When I tried on the hat with my daily style (i.e. a twist-out”>, I noticed that it was a tight fits, so I decided to wear my hair in loose wand curls.
My wand curls were installed on blow-dried hair, so my texture could be elongated and stretched. I used a heat protection during styling before using both the blow dryer and curling iron to decrease the risk of heat damage. I wore my hair in a stretched twist-out after the wand curls and my curls were still able to fit under the floppy hat.
How to wear a beanie
Now that the colder months are finally here, I wear beanies to protect my hair from cold air and environmental debris. I am selective when purchasing my beanies and tend to choose the slouchy ones, because it allows for more room. Purchase them in a variety of colors, so they can match your wardrobe.
When donning beanies, I wear my hair out or tucked away. If my hair is styled in a twist-out, I will use bobby pins to frame my face and to tuck in fly–away pieces. This style is super easy and only takes a few minutes. For my hair regimen, it is easier for to wear my hair out in stretched styles rather than wash and go’s to avoid “hat hair” when removing my beanie.
I will tuck my hair away on chilly days or when it is close to my wash day by dividing my hair in two sections and putting them in two hair clips. For the first section, I will flat twist, moisturize my ends, and tuck away with a bobby pin. I will repeat the same steps on the other section and place my beanie on my head. I like to leave out a section in the front of my hair jazz it up a little. If not, I will include the hair in the flat twist. This is a great protective style that is simple to do at home and allows you to show your personal style with your hat choice.
How do you fit your hair under hats? Please share your tips and tricks with the curly community.
I absolutely loved my hair color. The ombre technique switched up my look and added versatility to my styling. However, I noticed some changes with my curls this time during my color experience. My hair was not retaining moisture the way it used to. I layered a variety of products and had to re-apply often to keep my hair moisturized. I also had to let go of my Holy Grail product, coconut oil! The coconut oil was sitting on top of my hair and did not penetrate my strands. It left my color-treated hair dull and dry. My twist–outs were not long lasting and defined, which left me re-twisting at night more frequently. After trial and error, I finally found products that kept my color-treated hair moisturized and defined. I thought I finally had an answer to obtaining a healthy hair routine for my curls.
The seasons started to change and the cool, crisp autumn air shocked my curls instantly. I was back to having dull hair. I attempted to switch products again, but I did not see any improvements. When I made the decision to color my hair back to dark brown, I knew it would improve the appearance, especially since darker hair has more sheen.
I decided to use a demi-permanent hair color, because I knew it would give me the coverage needed without using permanent hair color. I used the Wella Professionals Color Charm Demi Permanent hair color (3N, Dark Natural Brown”> along with the Wella Professionals Color Charm Activating Lotion throughout my curls from the root to the ends. I applied the color to freshly washed hair and applied a little conditioner before coloring. This allowed me to manipulate the color throughout my hair with more ease since my curls were detangled. I left the color on for about 30 min. since I did not use any diffused heat during processing. Before rinsing, I thoroughly checked my hair to make sure the color processed. After rinsing the color out, I shampooed my curls and raked conditioner through my strands.
For the winter months, I plan to add the following to my hair regimen:
- Oiling my scalp: My scalp is so dry in the colder months. Using my favorite oil blend, I give myself scalp massages to help me relax and promote healthy hair growth.
- Black Tea Rinses: I removed black tea rinses from my hair regimen while I had color-treated hair, because I did not want them to darken my hair. Now that my hair is darker, I use black tea rinses to reduce shedding and promote healthy hair growth.
- Protective Styling: Protective styling is essential in my regimen, and I tend to do it more in the colder months. This fall I will be rocking more box braids and Marley twists. Now that my hair is dark brown, it will be easier for me to find hair that matches my current hair color. At times it can be difficult to match color-treated hair.
Have you recently colored your hair? Have you noticed any changes during the cooler months? Please share with the curly community.
At times, we focus so heavily on caring for our hair that we neglect our hair tools. Just like hair, our tools accumulate dirt and oil throughout the week.
When we visit our favorite salons and barbershops, you will see a container with hair tools filled with blue liquid that sits on the stations of our barbers and beauticians. The solution is known as Barbicide, which is an EPA registered hospital grade disinfectant used in salons, barbershops, and spas. The brand also shares some suggested uses for Barbicide including stainless steel implements and plastic combs, brushes, rollers, manicure stations, and implements.
Should we cleanse our tools with Barbicide just like our stylists and barbers? How can this be used at home? Candis Matthews, a licensed cosmetologist of 12 years in Baltimore, gives us the scoop on how she uses Barbicide at the salon.
How often do you use and change your Barbicide?
Matthews: “Twice a week.”
Is it safe to use at home?
Matthews: “It could be, that’s nothing that I ever tried, but it’s used to kill viruses and bacteria. So, yes I would imagine that you could to keep things sterilized.”
How is it different from cleaning your hair tools with alcohol and shampoo?
Matthews: “Alcohol does not sterilize, it just kills certain things. But Barbicide is a higher grade and it also kills viruses. Alcohol will not kill a virus; it will just kill certain germs. When you’re working in the field of cosmetology and you’re coming in contact with the public and different skin types, they are exposed to different things and they are bringing it to you. You want to make sure that you are able to kill anything that can be a contagious to someone else.”
Where can you purchase it?
Matthews: “At beauty supply stores and you do not need a cosmetology license to purchase.”
How often do you change your Barbicide?
Matthews: “Twice a week.”
How do you measure Barbicide?
Matthews: “Please follow the measurements according to the packaging.”
What hair tools do you use Barbicide to cleanse with?
Matthews: “I use Barbicide specifically for combs, brushes, and tint brushes. I use Mar-V-Cide spray for clippers and cutting tools. When placing your tools in the Barbicide, you should remove tools that are already clean. If you place dirty tools in the barbicide, you will contaminate the rest of the tools and liquid.”
Barbicide is used to cleanse tools and kills any bacteria or viruses that come in contact with tools.
Do you use Barbicide at home? How do you clean your hair tools? Please share with the curly community.
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Many women with textured hair use shampoos and rinses to cleanse their curls. Although maintaining moisture is our highest priority, it is imperative to remove the dirt and buildup that has accumulated over time for hydrated hair and a clean scalp. There are two elements to shampoo that make it an effective cleanser and we’re going to start with some basics on the pH scale.
The pH, potential of hydrogen, measures the level of acid or alkali in a substance on a scale of 1 to 14. On the pH scale, the number 7 is neutral. If the number is higher than 7, the substance is alkaline. If the number is lower than 7, the substance is acidic. The average pH of hair and scalp oil is between 4.5 and 5.5.
When searching for products, we often look at the ingredient list. But some hair products do not contain the pH on the package so we are not sure of the pH level. According to the International Journal of Trichology, “the pH level is not a mandatory issue to be printed on the product labels or specified among the product formulation.” The article also mentions that the pH level is often seen in products for professional use in hair salons and the professional products used in their study ideally ranged of 5.5 or lower. For more information on pH levels while cleansing, I reached out to Randy Schueller, cosmetic chemist and a founder of The Beauty Brains.
pH opens and closes the cuticle, which helps in the cleansing process, but is it necessary?
Schueller: “The pH range encountered while cleansing your hair is not high enough to open the cuticle. This is a myth.”
Can a cleanser work if it is not alkaline?
Schueller: “Yes. Most cleansing products (other than true bar soap”> are in the middle of the pH range, which is not alkaline.”
How do surfactants affect product pH levels?
Schueller: “It depends on the type of surfactant and what else is used in the formula to adjust viscosity. But in most cases the surfactants used in shampoos do not shift the pH much higher or lower.”
Does water temperature matter when rinsing the hair after shampooing and conditioning?
Schueller: “Water temperature does not have much of an impact on the efficacy of shampoos and conditioners.”
Conclusion
Schueller says that the pH range while shampooing is not high enough to open the cuticle, and even though most of the shampoos that we use in our regimens are not labeled with pH level, most cleansing products are not alkaline.
Can you use a body soap on your hair?
Randy Schueller, a cosmetic chemist and one of the founders of The Beauty Brains, shares “Body soap bars are fine to use if you like the way they make your hair feel but they are not fully optimized for hair the way liquid shampoos are. Therefore they may provide a different feel during cleansing and they will not provide the same degree of conditioning as a moisturizing shampoo”.
What are the differences between shampoo and body wash?
Authors Fenbao and Dr. Zhang say, “Shampoos are made for specific hair conditions such as dryness, oiliness, damage from color treatment, frizziness, etc. Each function uses different ingredients designed for hair and not skin.” They also specify that the pH-level for shampoo is between 4 and 6. With the variety of shampoo formulas and ingredients offered, you can select one that will work best for your specific needs. Fenbao and Dr. Zhang go on to note that “Body wash contains milder surfactant bases than shampoos. In addition to being pH-friendly to the skin (5–6.5″>, most also contain gentle conditioning agents in the formula.” Body wash can also be an option for curlies, especially since it can contain milder ingredients than shampoo.
Conclusion
Both body soaps or shampoo bars can be used for cleansing the hair. However, it is best for you to choose what makes your curls happy. Your curls may need specific ingredients for your hair type and the condition of your hair health. Choose the best cleansing product that will gently cleanse your hair without stripping its natural oils. No matter what cleanser you use, it is best to follow with a conditioner to provide your curls with lasting moisture.
Do you incorporate body soaps or shampoo bars in your regimen? Which method would you prefer to use? Please share with the curly community.
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