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You might have heard of Controlled Chaos from its appearance on ABC’s hit TV show, Shark Tank. Controlled Chaos was founded by a hairstylist who wanted to provide her clients with a product that “Defines, detangles, eliminates frizz, enhances curls, adds shine and provides UV protection.” Not only is it a holy grail amongst many curlies, it recently won Best of the Best from our community. They named the Curl Creme their favorite styling creme, so I decided to give it a try!
Can you be a product junkie and a minimalist? Well, that’s how I would describe myself. My cabinets and drawers are filled to capacity with hair products, but I prefer to keep my styling routine as simple as possible by refreshing, detangling and then adding a light-weight leave-in conditioner. Even though my daily hair routine is pretty simple, I think it’s good to have a variety of products on hand depending on your hairstyle, weather conditions and etc.
My first impressions for the curl creme was the super sleek packaging! I can admit that I have an obsession with great branding and packaging and that’s what definitely caught my eye with this product. From the sleek, matte black bottle which is BPA- free to the simplistic design with pink accents, I was intrigued to see if the product worked for my short 3B/3C curly hair.
As I mentioned, my everyday styling regimen involves me refreshing my curls with a water bottle, adding my favorite detangler, and then adding a leave-in conditioner. For the past couple weeks, I have followed my daily routine and incorporated the Controlled Chaos Curl Creme as my leave-in conditioner.
The creme is light-weight, fragrance-free and doesn’t require any more than a quarter size of the product. Tip: A little goes a long way. To avoid product build-up, use a quarter size and add more every other day if needed.
Tip: A little goes a long way. To avoid product build-up, use a quarter size and add more every other day if needed.
As instructed, I used the curl creme on my wet hair, raked it through from tip to root and let my hair air dry. Once my hair was completely dry, I picked my roots to provide more volume.
After using the curl creme my hair was very defined, soft and bouncy! I would definitely recommend it to other curlies for them to experience because it most certainly lived up to the standards of fighting frizz, adding shine to my hair and is great for all curlies, which I appreciate.
Have you tried Controlled Chaos Curl Creme? How does it work for your hair? Let me know in the comments below.
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Photography courtesy of @dahliadanda
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Fall is all about layering bold textures, rocking your favorite booties, snuggling up in your coziest sweaters and flaunting your vampy lip unapologetically. For me, it’s also been a period of transitioning from my short cut to longer hair, also known as the awkward phase. Since I’ve been growing my hair out, I’ve been looking for hairstyles to try and this one was definitely a favorite. Being that I cut my hair two years ago in a pixie cut the growing out phase is tough especially since my hair is so many different lengths. There are many tutorials for long curly hair and TWA’s, but it’s harder to find hairstyles for the girls like me who are in the in-between phases. So if you have any other hairstyles that work for you, feel free to comment below.
As you know finger coils are my method for creating defined curls and great to wear for a few days when you don’t have much styling or prep time.
Tip: To add more volume fluff and pick.
The hairstylist, Christina, used my favorite styling products the ORS Styling Smoothie and Curls Blueberry Bliss Control Paste. To make your hairstyle stand out add some accessories like these gold hair cuffs, that are sold at your local beauty supply.
Now that I’ve shared all my hair details, let’s talk about this outfit! Every season the Pantone Color Institute highlights the top 10 colors we’ll see in fashion and for another year the Burgundy color is a Fall staple color. This year they’re calling it “Tawny Port” which is a deep red wine color that is elegant, sophisticated and tasteful, which is a great way to describe this look. It never fails that my eye eternally gravitates toward this hue and I’m officially obsessed, can you tell?
Living in Texas it can be anywhere from 44 to 88 degrees on the same day. It can be tricky on what to wear, so the best thing to do is layer lightly. I paired this maroon bodycon midi dress from Forever 21 with a floral satin trench coat from Nordstrom to add some flavor to this simple look. What I love about this coat is how light-weight and ridiculously soft it is, it’s the perfect third piece to keep in your wardrobe to wear on multiple occasions from desk to dinner.
Let’s get into these boots though! Who else lives for Fall to pull out your most fabulous boots? Yasss girl, me too! Being that I’m 5’8, I’m extremely picky when it comes to shoes, especially heels. I prefer a block heel like these booties and it’s a priority that they’re comfortable and fit well. These velvet boots from Steve Madden are so comfy and easy to walk in, not to mention they make such a statement! They have some brown and purple undertones which are great because they can easily be paired with several looks. If I’m going to invest in a good quality shoe, it’s important that they’re transitional and can be worn with various outfits.
Oh and I can’t forget to share my lip color! I’ve seriously had this lipstick from MAC for years and every time I wear it I feel like a new woman. A bold lip color goes a long way, so I encourage you to find your power color and own it!
What’s your fall color staple?
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Photography by Cassandra J. Klepac
Hair by @prettyeyegirl_mzcuts
Kerry Washington graced the November cover of Allure Magazine and she is giving us all the feels. The award-winning actress and producer who is known for her powerful role in Scandal gets real about beauty standards, motherhood, and politics. There are so many things to love about this cover shoot from her natural makeup look, loose cornrows, the jaw-dropping fashion and we’re here for all of it!
This. Is. Black. Girl. Magic.
On Politics
Can we be honest? This year has been challenging, emotionally draining and filled with countless acts of terror and hate where it can seem tough to navigate as a brown woman living in America. So anytime you catch a glimpse of hope, hold on tight. In her interview with Allure she shares that this year has also been tough for her, “I have to dip in and dip out, because it suffocates me. Like, I become unable to function. So it’s a tricky balance between staying aware and also staying connected to a sense of hope and productivity and showing up for life.”
I have to dip in and dip out, because it suffocates me. Like, I become unable to function. So it’s a tricky balance between staying aware and also staying connected to a sense of hope and productivity and showing up for life.
On Representation
Most of the time we spot Kerry Washington it’s on the ABC hit drama Scandal as Olivia Pope, who is known for her bold actions, flawless fashion statements and go-getter attitude who always gets the job done no matter the circumstances.
{Insert your favorite “It’s Handled” meme here} Only the real Gladiators will catch that.Kerry Washington and the Scandal creator, Shonda Rhimes have helped change the trajectory for women in media, especially African-American women. Kerry Washington tells Allure that most people’s relationship with Olivia Pope may be the most intimate one they have with a black woman, “For her to be three-dimensional and complex and fully human and not anybody’s stereotype or caricature is a big deal,” she says.
On Natural Hair
For centuries African-American women have been scrutinized for how we choose to wear our hair, especially our natural hair. While the natural movement is slowly changing the game there are still societal pressures to look, “beautiful.”
Not until recently, celebrities rarely wore their natural hair. Celebrities such as Kerry Washington are usually seen on the red carpet with silky straight hair and their edges laid, so for her to come through and make this raw statement, it’s everything we needed.
“I like to wear my natural texture, especially now because I have children and I want them to know that their hair is perfect as it is. They don’t have to change it or straighten it. They can, but they don’t have to.”
I like to wear my natural texture, especially now because I have children and I want them to know that their hair is perfect as it is. They don’t have to change it or straighten it. They can, but they don’t have to.
According to her hairstylist Takisha Sturdivant-Drew, she says, “I parted her #natural blown out #hair in four sections. Then braided it from the front to the undone ends. I left the flyaways on purpose to show the imperfections with the hair. Then finished off the #hairstyle with some gold hair jewelry.”
One of the beautiful things about natural hair is the versatility. In her second look, she rocked curly extensions by her celebrity hair stylist who is clearly killing the hair game.
Thank you, Kerry Washington for reminding US of our power, beauty, and resilience. Continue to break barriers and shine bright Queen.
What do you think about her cover look? Are you here for it? Let me know in the comments below.
Credits:
Fashion stylist: Hanna Kelifa
Hair: Takisha Sturdivant-Drew
Makeup: Francelle Daly
Photography: Sharif Hamza
No matter your curl type, volume is most likely at the top of your priority list. There are many techniques to add volume to your hair such as fluffing, diffusing and scrunching. But have you tried a pick? Believe me, it will surprise you how much it makes a difference in your curls. I know there is some fear that when you pick your hair it may cause frizz and breakage, but that’s not the case with all picks. Now that I’ve found the Cricket Ultra Smooth Coconut Pick to create fluffy voluminous curls I don’t leave home without it. Read along to find out why you should keep this pick in your bag, at all times.
A few months ago the NaturallyCurly team had a pick challenge to show the difference in how your hair looks before and after using a pick. I never used a pick before and was up for the challenge. Being that I have short, type 3b/c curly hair, I always thought my hair should be defined and slicked to my forehead. I’m not sure where I got this idea from, but you couldn’t tell me otherwise until after I saw how good my hair looked picked out with volume.
Usually, my daily hair routine involves me refreshing my curls in the morning, adding my favorite leave-in to the ends of my hair and letting it air dry. Once my hair is completely dry I then grab my pick for the finishing touches.
How to use the pick
I’ve learned that the best way to add volume and keep your curl definition is to lift your roots with the pick, but don’t comb all the way through the ends. Since my hair is styled in a pixie cut, I prefer to add volume mostly to the right side of my hair where my hair is longer. Then, I’ll pick the rest of my hair to make it evenly full.
What I love about this pick is that it glides right through my hair and is infused with coconut oil and keratin to help reduce frizz and add a lil’ shine, without leaving residue on my hands. I have seen metal sharp picks, but I prefer plastic and these edges aren’t too sharp to poke my scalp or cause breakage to my curls. You can read more about how metal picks and plastic picks compare here. Also, I like the size of it and how it can easily be thrown in my purse, backpack or suitcase. You never know when you may need to fluff on the go to get that extra oomph.
I highly recommend this pick for all curlies, wavies and coilies. You can now get yours at SHOPNaturallyCurly for only $5.00, say whaaat? Girl, you better get you one. Thank me later!
I’ve been rockin’ my fro lately, and just check out the volume I’ve been able to achieve!
Do you use a pick? Share what you use to add volume to your hair in the comments below.
Photography by Cassandra J. Klepac, last photo by Dahlia Danda.
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I big chopped two years ago and decided to get my hair cut in a pixie. Although I have enjoyed my sleek short hair cut, I think I’m over the “short hair don’t care” season of my life and I’m ready to let my hair grow out. Currently, my hair is a variety of lengths and curl patterns, so it can be frustrating to style my hair at times. If you’re a short curly like me growing your hair out or transitioning and in need of some inspiration, here’s what helps me to own the in-between stages of my curly hair chronicles.
Protective Styles
This summer I started experimenting with protective styles and now I’m obsessed with trying out new hairstyles! It’s so easy to get comfortable with a hairstyle, but there are so many options for your try, so I encourage you to be open to change and try something new. One of the braided hairstyles I tried was the feed-in ponytail with gold cuffs, which was great for my summer vacation trip to Belize.
A few weeks after that, I tried the fulani braids with beads, which I got for my New York trip to Afropunk. These were definitely a fave, but to be completely honest the braids that came to the front kept getting in the way when I washed my face or slept, so definitely keep that in mind when trying a style like this. Ask yourself, are you more focused on fashion or functionality?
Headwraps
If you’re in need of a quick fix and don’t want to spend too much time or money, wrap it up! Headwraps are definitely one of my go-to’s when my hair isn’t cooperating. If I’m in a rush or the humidity kills my vibe, then I can quickly grab one of my colorful headwraps to complete my look. Headwraps are great for any season, plus there are so many different ways to tie one.
If headwraps are new to your styling repertoire, check out this video.
Finger Coil Method
I feel like I’m officially the finger coil queen! Seriously, this is my go-to method for blending in the shorter strands, plus it defines my curls like no other. My hair has been growing a lot lately, but it tends to be very uneven with so many different curl patterns. It can be tough to style at times, especially since the front is long and the sides are short.
Here’s my finger coiling method step-by-step:
- Mane Choice Softening Milk rake through my hair
- Part in sections and finer coil each section
- Air dry
- Undo coils
- Fluff and go
Own Every Stage
Remember, direction is so much more important than speed. Don’t get caught up on what other curlies are doing, do what works for you! The more familiar you become with your hair’s needs, the easier it is to know how to maneuver along your natural hair journey successfully. Like any journey, it’s important to set realistic goals, pace yourself, keep an optimistic mindset and celebrate your progress.
I’m planning on getting a sew-in next, which is right on time to switch up my look for fall. I’ll be sure to keep you posted on how I care for my natural hair and scalp, and how I maintain the hair extensions. I’m also planning on sharing how to style my extensions to blend in with my natural hair, so stay tuned for more!
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Most curly hair women grew up with the mindset that water was our biggest enemy, especially if we had a perm. We had gone through far too much pain to let the rain ruin our freshly pressed hair. I would try my best to duck and dodge from the rain. Even when I went swimming I wore a swim cap, because I did not want to deal with the aftermath of wet hair. Having been natural for over six-years, I now understand the importance of water as an essential ingredient to a healthy hair regimen.
When I first started working at NaturallyCurly, Evelyn introduced me to this water bottle by Curly Hair Solutions. It was a NC favorite and came highly recommended by all of the editors, so I was eager to find out what the hype surrounding this water bottle was all about. Now, you can expect to pay $15 for this water bottle. I know I know, this sounds a bit steep, so I decided to test it for myself. I’ve been using this water bottle for the last eight months and girl, let me tell you, it will change your life! It most definitely changed mine. Keep scrolling to find out its magical powers.
I have a combination of Type 3b/c curls with medium porosity, and my hair desperately needs moisture. For the longest, I used to dump my head in the sink or wet my hair in the shower each morning. Being that I live in Texas, humidity is always a component that comes into play, so I usually have to also refresh my curls in the evenings before I head to dinner or an event- – it’s such a game changer.
There are many things I love about this water bottle from the ultra-sleek packing to the easily refillable bottle in which you can cocktail to perfection. Another reason why it is now a part of my everyday essentials is that it sprays a continuous mist without drenching my hair. If you only knew how I used to walk around with soaking wet hair slicked to the side for at least half of the day because I would re-wet my hair in the shower each morning. Who knew it would take me 25 years to find something so simple that works wonders? It’s such a great reminder that the natural hair journey is truly a journey. The more familiar you get with your curl pattern and find what products work best for you, you’ll conquer the curly girl struggles and get the defined voluminous curls you’ve been searching for.
I’m sure you’re wondering how you can get your hands on your very own Curly Hair Solutions Water Bottle, right? SHOPNaturallyCurly has restocked them so you can now get your hands on one. I guarantee it is worth the investment because you will witness a curly hair miracle happen before your eyes.
Now I know why the experts consider this to be the BEST water bottle for fabulous curls. *Praises Curly Hair Gods*
What is your go-to curl refresher? I’d love to know in the comments below.
Photography by Cassandra J. Klepac
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*Editor’s Note: This article is not sponsored.
Music, fashion and beauty icon Rihanna has everyone glowing in her latest make-up collection, “Fenty Beauty”. Last week she dropped the exclusive collection and, unlike other celebrities, she created enough product for people to purchase rather than releasing a limited amount that would sell out in hours. From the strategic marketing, sleek packaging and diverse products she is paving the way in the beauty industry to redefine traditional beauty standards. For the past two years, she has been working diligently with Kendo Brands to release an innovative, inclusive and cruelty-free make-up collection in which all women are celebrated. Get into this glow and find out what all the hype is about.
Representation Matters
Let’s talk about the beauties she hand picked for this campaign, such as Halima Aden, Duckie Thot, Slick Woods, Paloma Elsesser and more reminding us that beauty has no limits.
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“Fenty Beauty was created for everyone: for women of all shades, personalities, attitudes, cultures, and races. I wanted everyone to feel included. That’s the real reason I made this line.” xx Rihanna
Women of color have been left out of the conversation for far too long when it comes to the beauty industry, especially finding the right match for darker skin tones. What I admire most about this make-up collection is that she created 40 boundary-breaking shades of foundations, which has never been done before! Also, to take the struggle out of finding your match she created an online matching system that helps you find the perfect foundation for your skin tone. To make the process even more flawless, when you visit a Sephora the associates have match cards that tell you recommendations for the entire Fenty Beauty collection from highlighter to concealer based on your foundation color. Seriously, this is how you create your own lane! 
My Experience
Foundation is Key
I’m sure we can all agree on the struggle of finding a foundation that matches perfectly and doesn’t leave you ashy, orange or oily. I went to Sephora and got matched for the Pro Filt’r Soft Matte Longwear Foundation in 300. I’ve been a MAC girl for over 5 years and thought it was the best foundation for my skin, but this foundation is everything!!! It’s lightweight, medium coverage and shine-free. It does oxidize so it changes color after you put it on, so give it some time to set before you try a new color. Did I mention it’s oil free and sweat resistant?
Glow Baby Glow
I tried her Killawatt duo highlighters in Mean Money + Hustla Baby and Girl Next Door + Chic Phreak. In my opinion, they were too subtle and didn’t show up very well on my skin. Then, I tried the Match Stix in Rum, a roll-on shimmer stick that can be used as a highlighter, lipstick or eyeshadow. OMG!!! *Throws hands up and praises Riri* Y’all this Match Stix is by far my favorite product from Fenty! What I love most is it’s multi-purpose and so easy to apply. You can purchase it individually or in a trio that includes a concealer and contour for the ultimate slay! 
Where You Can Get It
You can get yours at exclusively at Sephora, Harvey Nichols and Fenty Beauty, plus it ships globally so everyone has a chance to experience what it feels like to glow year-round. Expect to invest $16 – $54, but I feel it is most definitely worth it!
What Do You Think?
Have you tried it? What’s your favorite product? Let me know in the comments below!
Editor’s Note: You hear a lot of “what did you put in your hair?” and “I love your shoes!” around the NaturallyCurly offices. Personally, I am always finding inspiration in what my colleagues are wearing to the office and on their Instagrams, so we’re starting a new series to share what we’re loving with the rest of our community – beyond our hair! #OOTD
I would describe my style as minimalistic, classic, comfortable, effortless and feminine. Though I admire great style, comfort is a priority I will not sacrifice no matter how fabulous an outfit maybe. So that means you’ll usually see me rocking a jumpsuit, midi dress, romper or jeggings. What’s the point of wearing an amazingly stylish outfit you can’t breathe in? Believe me, it’s not worth the hassle. Keep scrolling as I share my summer obsessions, tips on maintaining a blowout in sweltering conditions and how to take your look from day to night effortlessly.
What’s the point of wearing an amazingly stylish outfit you can’t breathe in?
I’ll admit, I’m slightly obsessed with jumpsuits. Can you blame me? They’re flattering, effortless and comfy. Jumpsuits take the work out of contemplating what to wear, it’s an easy one and done! Being that I have several jumpsuits in my closet, majority black, when I saw this one I knew I had to make it mine. I love the bold print, off-the-shoulder details, and it has pockets. I mean come on, it’s fully functional and sexy, I feel like this was seriously made for me!
What I love about this jumpsuit is the endless options it offers! It can be worn to work, on a dinner date or it would make for a stylish beach look on your next vacation. The palm trees print screams tropical vibes and is breathable enough to wear on even the hottest days of Summer. Depending on the occasion you can dress this jumpsuit up or down, by switching out your shoes. I wore open toe block heels, but if you’re looking to dressing it down a bit, you can wear a flat sandal or flip flops. I felt like the bold and colorful print was enough of a statement, so I added minimal jewelry with a red lip.
To get the most out of my blowout I wear a silk wrap at night. Being that I’m a lazy natural, I understand the struggle of getting the energy to wrap your hair, but believe me, by wrapping your hair you’re saving so much time styling your hair the next day.
I usually prefer to workout before I start my day which consists of a two-mile run around my neighborhood and a lift. Anytime I work out I wear a wrap to keep my hair up and to keep any residue from products from running down my face. I try my best to work up a good sweat and challenge myself, which also means that my hair gets sweaty. To keep from re-applying heat on my hair daily, I’ll blow dry my hair on low and add some edge control to tame my baby hairs. My go-to is the Curls Blueberry Bliss Curl Control Paste, it leaves my edges laid without the flaky residue.
When I want to add volume to my bone straight look, I’ll wand or curl my hair once a week, then bobby pin it at night to hold the curls without having to put too much heat on my hair.
How do you rock your work look from day to night? I’d love to know, share your thoughts in the comments below.
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Jumpsuit: Melodrama
Shoes: Aldo
Photography: Cassandra J. Klepac
My hair says I am a survivor and I have a beautiful story to tell.
I got diagnosed with a rare autoimmune disease in 2011 and had to start a whole bunch of heavy medication, including a form of chemotherapy. Since my hair was changing and becoming more brittle and fragile, I decided to start transitioning. That’s when I rocked a sew-in weave and wigs for the first time in my life. I also stopped getting chemical relaxers, which I had been getting once a month since I was 5 years old.
As a pre-teen and teenager, I experimented with color and became addicted to the honey blondes and fire engine reds. I also got my hair braided by neighborhood friends and went to the salon for my relaxer appointments each month. I was known for having long stick-straight hair that fell down my back.
What made you decide to go natural?
My hair started changing due to chemo and other medication. It wasn’t able to withstand the strength of a relaxer anymore, so I transitioned for a few months until I finally did my first big chop in the salon. Then I did another big chop at home a couple of months after that and never looked back.
How has your family, friends, and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them?
My family loves my hair and they supported my decision because it was the obviously healthier one for all that I was going through. Every now and then my mother teases me for having ‘dry’ or ‘wild’ hair but then she always follows up with offering to help me to twist it.
What has been the most memorable moment of your hair journey?
Going wig shopping in my first year of treatment was fun and liberating. I felt like each style, color, and length transformed me in a matter of minutes.
What hairstyle(s”> made you feel the most confident?
I feel like a completely different person every time I rock Marley twists or an intricate braided style.
What was your transitioning hair regimen?
A lot of Moroccanoil Curl Definer to blend the two textures. I also loved (and still love”> Elucence Moisture Balancing Conditioner.
What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?
I have literally hundreds of articles dedicated to this, so I won’t go into too much detail — but I definitely stick to all-natural, sulfate-free, silicone-free, water or oil-based, clean and reliable products to help retain moisture and just the amount of definition I like without weighing down my big volume. DevaCurl, SheaMoisture, and Camille Rose Naturals haven’t let me down for years.
Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase and need some encouragement?
Trust your intuition, do whatever makes you feel good. At the end of the day, it’s your hair — you have the right to rock it however you please.
What inspired you to go natural? We’d love to hear from you, comment below!
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My hair says I am fun, bold, and unafraid. I love who I am. I am confident. I have generations of strong, beautiful, fearless women in me. I don’t care what you think.
I went natural in 2008. I had taken out a weave and when I washed my hair it knotted up. So much so, I had to get it cut into a bob. There was no saving it. Instead of relaxing it again, I thought I’d just see what it was like to wear it curly. I still straightened it pretty often, but never relaxed after that.
How has your family, friends, and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them?
They didn’t really care. It was nice to know that. That I didn’t cause them some mental harm with my appearance. It wasn’t dis-arming. I come from a family that believed in the “good hair” doctrine, so they mostly thought I was just cute since my hair fell into that category. Clearly, I fight against this ideology. All hair is good hair to me.
What has been the most memorable moment of your hair journey?
When a lot more women started to go natural. At first it was lonely. Now, there is a whole crew of us. We are out here. We are everywhere. We are embolden. We are not afraid. Seeing that and being a part of this community is the most memorable part of my journey.
What was your transitioning hair regimen?
I did not have one really. I used the same products because I didn’t have resources or information. So, I used gels. It was mess. Let’s not talk about my transition. Let’s just agree that I got here and the road here was a mess.
What is your current hair regimen?
I wash and condition with Elucence Moisture Benefits Shampoo and Elucence Moisture Balancing Conditioner. The I deep condition with Ouidad Curl Immersion Triple Treat. Once that’s done, I use the Brown Butter Beauty Leave-In, then seal with Darshana oil. I have too many favorites to count.
Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase and need some encouragement?
Get some information and some curly friends. Find your favorite hairstyles that you can easily do for busy days. Try not to tie up all your confidence in your looks. Not every day will be a good hair day. Stick with it. Don’t be in a rush to grow your hair out. Once, it’s longer you most likely won’t know what to do with it. Trust me. Everyone thinks once they get long hair life will be a breeze. Then you realize you have to detangle it. Just saying.
What inspired you to go natural? We’d love to hear from you, comment below!
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I began getting perms at the tender age of three years old. Growing up of mixed heritage, my mom had no clue how to care for my thick curly hair, so someone advised her to perm my hair so it would be easier to manage. I got perms faithfully until I was in high school and then began wearing sew-ins. I wore weave for about four years and started spot perming my leave-out which eventually lead to horrible breakage. During college, I was determined to get blonde highlights and my hair stylist bleached my hair. My hair was extremely dry and brittle from the bleach, plus I didn’t know how to care for color-treated hair so it was all bad. I let my hair grow out for a while, then I began cutting it until I was ready for the big chop in May of 2015. I went short – real short! I figured if I was going to start over might as well try a new look, so I decided to cut my hair in a pixie cut.
What made you decide to go natural?
After years of perming my hair, wearing sew-ins, and then bleaching my hair, I was determined to reinvent myself and embrace my natural hair. I never knew how to care for my hair until I cut my hair off, which gave me the opportunity to learn my curl pattern and texture.
How has your family, friends and co-workers reacted? What was your response to them?
My family honestly couldn’t even tell when I wore weaves, but once I cut all my hair into a pixie cut they were shocked by how short I went. They’re pretty traditional and feel women should have long hair, so at first, they didn’t like it and would make jokes, but they’ve grown to love it.
What has been the most memorable moment of your hair journey?
Most definitely the big chop! I didn’t tell anyone I was cutting my hair, it was something I wanted to do to prove to myself that I could.
What hairstyle(s”> made you feel the most confident?
Honestly, it took me a while to love my short hair. At first, I didn’t feel confident because I didn’t know how to style it, but now that I’ve been rocking my short cut for the past two years it’s definitely my favorite hairstyle yet.
What was your transitioning hair regimen?
While I was transitioning I had no clue what I was doing. I was still straightening my hair and tried wearing it curly, but couldn’t find products that worked for my hair and went back to what I knew: the ponytail.
My hair says I’m fearless, bold and courageous. It reminded me of the power and potential I hold.
What is your current hair regimen?
I’m a minimalist natural and prefer not to use too many products on my hair, especially since I have sensitive skin and some products cause me to breakout around my jaw line. I cleanse my hair about once a week and have a couple favorites that I’m loving such as the Elucence Moisture Balancing Conditioner or Camille Rose Moroccan Pear Conditioning Custard. Then, I apply a detangler or leave-in such as the Curl Girl Unwind Thermal Protector & Detangling Mist or Kinky-Curly Knot Today, which work great because they both provide great slip, plus a lightweight cream that defines my curls where I don’t have to apply too much styling cream. Lately, I’ve been obsessed with the finger coil method to have a more defined look and use the ORS Styling Smoothie, which is a heavy cream that is packed with protein and is great for finger coils, twists and braid outs. Each morning I refresh my hair with the Curly hair Solutions H20 Water Bottle that I love because it’s a continuous mist spray water bottle that gives my curls life without drenching them. Then, once I let my hair air dry, to add volume and definition to my look I grab my pick, fluff and I’m out the door!
Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase and need some encouragement?
Remember, direction is so much more important than speed. Don’t get caught up on what other curlies are doing, do what works for you! If a product isn’t working, try something else. If you weren’t satisfied with your twist out, keep practicing or try another heatless style. Luckily, there are tons of resources and products at our fingertips so take advantage of it. Like any journey, it’s important to set realistic goals, pace yourself, keep an optimistic mindset and celebrate your progress.
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Starting your own business can be an exciting and rewarding experience doing what you love. There are many advantages in entrepreneurship such as having a flexible schedule, being your own boss and getting paid to do what you’re passionate about. Before you quit your 9-5 and dive into entrepreneurship, there are a few things that I wish I knew that I’d like to share with you before you take the plunge and create your business.
Start With What You Know
One of the hardest parts of starting a business, is getting started! It can be very overwhelming having what seems like a million ideas in your mind and not sure where to start. Before doubt and fear creep in and convince you otherwise, take a moment and write down your thoughts. Write down your vision and how you envision impacting the world through your business. Then, narrow it down, be specific with your goals. Ask yourself questions such as, “What is your mission? What problems will you solve? Who is your competition? How will you stand out from others in your industry? What do you want to accomplish in 3 months? 6 months?” Once, you can define these things you can move forward knowing the why of your business and what you’re working towards.
Invest in Yourself
There are several things needed in order to start a business and one of the essentials is taking care of the legalities to protect you and your business. Once you decide on a name, do thorough research to be sure no one else is using that name. Tip: Namechk is a great resource to use to check to see what’s available across different domains and social media platforms.
Register your business under a Doing Business As aka DBA name. Not all states require a DBA, but most do if you’re a sole proprietor and want to use another name rather than your real name or have an existing Limited Liability Company (LLC”>. Forming an LLC, is crucial to keep your personal assets separate from your business liabilities. With technology being at the touch of our fingertips, anyone can copy your logo, so invest in your brand and trademark your logo, not just in your state, but across the country to be safe.
Tell Your Story
Once you’ve chosen your name and taken care of the legalities, create a website to tell everyone what you offer and how you can help them! First, you’ll purchase your domain, then create a website. If you’re anything like me and have no HTML experience, you can create a template site from Squarespace or Wix to get started than can add custom features later. Creating a website is a great way for people to find out about your business, share your story and explain what purpose you’re serving through your work. Start with one page at a time, write out your thoughts and add images to help tell your story. Be sure to update your site frequently with new blog posts and images to drive engagement. You can also integrate your social media on your website to connect with your community consistently. Also, be sure to register your business through Google Business which helps people find your business and learn more through a free Google listing.
Secure The Bag
Now that you have a website, how do you get people to visit and purchase your products or services? Give yourself a monthly marketing budget that you strictly use for marketing purposes. Even if it’s $100, start small and promote your brand to reach more people. This may include boosted social media posts, business cards, signage and photography / video services. Ps. these are all tax write-offs for your business, so know that it’s worth it in the end!
Also, Google AdWords is by far one of the best resources to utilize in marketing your business and reaching the right people online who are looking for what you offer. It’s important to keep your business and personal finances separate, so I recommend setting up a savings account to help make tax time easier and have a clear perspective of what’s what. (Learn from my mistake, it’s not worth the headache.”>; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit;”>listened. Don’t make my mistake. It’s not worth the headache.”>Embrace your journey, it may not be perfect, but it will be worth it.
Start Now
Besides the business aspect of starting a business, it’s important that you’re mentally prepared to invest in your business. There is no blueprint. There are no shortcuts. You will have to be confident in your vision, bold in your actions and authentic in your story. You will make mistakes, but your resilience will carry you through. Remain faithful along your journey and be a student at all times. There’s always something to learn. Be open for change, feedback and criticism.
I started my business Queens Conquer, two-years ago to give women in business a starting point. I wanted to provide them with the support and opportunity to conquer their dreams by offering one-on-one branding consultations and public relations services to build awareness to their business and/or organization. I’m still learning and conquering new obstacles everyday. I encourage you to challenge yourself. Do what you love. Surround yourself around positive souls. Create what you wish to see exist. Take risks & enjoy the ride. Remember, big things often have small beginnings.
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There comes a point in a woman’s life when we’re no longer living for attention, validation, or applause, but simply living to be happy and at peace with our choices. We’re simply doing what feels good instead of what looks good. With mainstream media constantly showing us how the “perfect” woman should look, I could only imagine being a celebrity and having to be in the spotlight at all times under constant scrutiny. In honor of National #NoMakeUpDay we are shining a light on one of our favorite natural Queens, Alicia Keys. She has sparked the no make-up movement by using her platform to inspire, educate and empower girls and women that we are enough with or without make-up.
Alicia Keys is a music icon, activist, mother and judge on my favorite TV show, The Voice. She is sharing her truth and using her voice to speak on the importance of being real with who she’s becoming and choosing happiness rather than perfection. In a recent interview with Allure she says, “I am all about woman’s right to choose. I think a woman should do anything she wants as it relates to her face, her body, her health. Whatever mode of expression that empowers you, that’s what you should do. What I am not down for is this ridiculously high, unrealistic expectation about appearance that we as women are held to.”
I think make-up can be self-expression. I have no intention to shame anyone at all who chooses to wear it.
It all began last year when she did a photoshoot for her latest album and showed up to the set straight from the gym in a sweatshirt, head scarf and fresh face. The photographer loved how she looked and felt her images should be just as real and raw as her music. Alicia Keys said she was uncomfortable at first, but agreed and said the pictures made her feel more comfortable in her skin. She wrote on Lenny Letter, “I felt powerful because my initial intentions realized themselves. My desire to listen to myself, to tear down the walls I built over all those years, to be full of purpose, and to be myself! The universe was listening to those things I’d promised myself, or maybe I was just finally listening to the universe, but however it goes, that’s how this whole #nomakeup thing began. Once the photo I took with Paola came out as the artwork for my new song ‘In Common,’ it was that truth that resonated with others who posted #nomakeup selfies in response to this real and raw me.”
I’m not a slave to make-up. I’m not a slave to not wearing makeup either.
I’ve always been a fan of Alicia Keys, but by her going against the grain to redefine society’s beauty standards she’s beyond empowering. She has definitely encouraged me to be bold and rock my fresh face today! I used to be one of those girls, who would not be able to leave the house without make-up, but the older I’ve gotten the more I don’t care what people think. It’s a beautiful feeling becoming exactly who you thought you could be. I hope today and everyday you’re living your best life and owning your truth. Continue to embrace your journey and let your light shine from within, because you are enough.
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Growing up as a biracial girl, I remember how much I yearned to be accepted by society’s black and white standards of beauty. I found myself looking up to women who I felt looked like me such as Alicia Keys, Mariah Carey and Halle Berry. As I got older, I was exposed to so many intelligent, brave and beautiful women who weren’t only celebrities, but normal women celebrating their individuality and sharing their stories. Being that we have an unlimited amount of media at the touch of our fingertips, it can have an empowering, yet draining effect on us. I can honestly say that I’ve caught myself scrolling through a stranger’s Instagram profile comparing myself to them feeling as if I wasn’t enough. The truth is most of the images we see in magazines, even on Instagram, aren’t real.
Recently, our NaturallyCurly content team recorded a FB live and we discussed how our images of beauty has evolved and how the power of social media has given us the opportunity to be inspired by women from all over the world who are a variety of shapes, sizes and skin tones. I was curious to find out how each of us celebrates our bodies and where we find inspiration? Get to know a few members of our content team and find out how we are going against the grain to redefine beauty.
Devri, Content Editor
“In my adulthood I might have gone against the grain more times than I count. From the moment I turned 17 or 18 I started seeing my body as a form of self-expression and so, my tattoos and smiley piercing might be a dead giveaway for my carefree spirit. I also started dressing completely unique to my personal taste once I went off to college and explored different hobbies, like spoken word poetry and traveling. That is when I truly let go of what others thought of me. I celebrate my body by not being afraid to be sexy, intellectual, and artsy all in one. I don’t typecast myself and I wish other women wouldn’t, either.”
I follow accounts like @Soulpick, @melanin.art, @blackgirlinom, and @i_d for endless inspiration of women and humans with similar lifestyles and mindsets.
Cristina, Managing Editor
“I go against the grain by wearing exactly what I want to, when I want to. In fact, if someone tells me they don’t like what I’m wearing or the way I cut my hair (which happens a lot more than it should”> that makes me want to wear it even more. I know everyone says “I don’t dress for guys, I dress for myself,” but it’s these moments that prove to me that I’m truly not trying to meet anyone’s beauty standards but my own. I celebrate my body by moving it. To me, the ultimate celebration is dancing! I dance whenever I can – alone in my bathroom (a lot”>, in my friends’ living rooms, and in dance classes. I also do yoga in the morning before work, which is a practice that’s very intentional about giving gratitude to our bodies for everything they do for us.
I follow @Writeslikeagirl and @alex_elle who radiate absolute body positivity in my feed, and their posts always seem to find me at just the right moment.
Leslie, Social Media Manager
“I’ve stopped placing value in what others think of me based on my appearance. Instead of looking for guidance on how to be beautiful, I’m creating my own definition by celebrating my bushy eyebrows, decorating my skin with tattoos, rocking my wavy frizzy hair, embracing my soft tummy, wearing clothes that may not be “flattering” for someone who is 5ft and loving the tan skin I’m in. I celebrate my body doing things that bring me joy such as, thrifting and decorating my body with unique clothing and accessories. I’ve been thrifting since I was in high school and it’s something I’ve carried into my adulthood.”
Accounts I follow for inspiration include @TheGirlMob: A website that celebrates and highlights women of color, @JillianMercado: Model, Actress, creative and overall dope human, @Remezcla: Digital publisher, creative agency, and entertainment company, @SaintHeron a collaborative music and arts collective that celebrates diversity and innovation, @Colectivacosmica – an art collective of self- identifying women creating collages, photography, workshops and zines and last but not least @Browngirlswebseries: This is actually a web series that everyone should watch, but I enjoy staying in the loop with what the makers are doing by following their IG.
Gerilyn, Senior Copywriter
“Being on the fringe of social acceptability has been my modus operandi for the better part of my life. Whether mirroring the fashions of artists I admired growing up (e.g., Grace Jones, Iman, Jimi Hendrix, Lenny Kravitz, et. al.”> or shaving my head bald (yes, I was a bald chick for close to a decade”>, I have been rabble rousing with the best of them. This was all before hash tag campaigns so my opposition was more about defining my identity, for and by myself, not for a particular lens or gaze.
Fortunately, this mindset and these actions have carried over into my adult life, leading me to be an active participant in a movement that has been defying the odds long before I even knew about it: the Natural Hair Movement. I believe that many people in this fold have been saying #EffYourBeautyStandards for decades; I’m happy to be in a space to amplify those voices and magnify perspectives.”
One way I celebrate my body is by moving it. By plane. By train. To a drum beat, a guitar riff, a soul stirring rhyme. Jumping, running, on foot… doesn’t matter. I enjoy movement. In terms of beauty, I like to wear well made leather boots and firm-brimmed hats. Maybe it’s be the wannabe-rockstar in me :”> What I’d like to think is the best way I celebrate my body is by filling my mind with knowledge… only time (and younger generations”> will tell me if it is a worthy cause or failed attempt.
In addition to @NaturallyCurly, I follow these accounts on Instagram: @bossbabesatx, @amyparksphoto, @mad_free_, @lenoxii, @afropunk and @blackgirlbeautyfuldotcom
Cara, Graphic Designer
“I just do what I want. I don’t wear a lot of make-up, I wear clothes that make me happy. I don’t try to be the prettiest person on instagram, I’m just trying to be my genuine, and genuinely silly, self. If I don’t like the way I look in an outfit, I will change my clothes before I go anywhere. I guess that’s celebrating my body—to wear what I am comfortable in. Also, I love art, and tattoos, and when I can I like to add to my body art collection.
I don’t follow as many accounts that aren’t for an individual person. One of my favorite brands is @ModCloth—they do a good job of showing the bigger picture of the female population—at least the part that dresses in their style of clothing. I do follow @TessHolliday and am a fan of her #EffYourBeautyStandards creation. @ProjectGirlCrush is a project from my native Seattle—they focus on career women. @BossBabesATX and @ATXStreetStyle are cool local accounts that feature women I find inspiration in. Mostly, I see the representation from my beautiful friends.
How do you go against the grain to redefine society’s beauty standards?
One of our curlfriends and top natural innovators, Richelieu Dennis, founder of Sundial Brands, was very busy during SXSW this year, from speaking on panels to beautifying the festival goers with a mobile salon reminding us that #everybodygetslove. Dennis continues to utilize his platform to share his mission of healing that strives to break barriers in the beauty space.
In case you didn’t know, Richelieu Dennis is the mastermind behind natural product brands such as Shea Moisture, Nubian Heritage and Madam CJ Walker Beauty Culture. He’s built an empire that is cross-cultural and innovative, serving countless families for over 25 years. Dennis believes in the power of commerce to change the world and created a Community Commerce Program that serves over 700 women. At SXSW I had a chance to hear about his inspiring mission to alleviate poverty by investing in the communities who help source the key ingredients in his products and supporting women-led businesses to create a better way of life for generations to come.
Serve With a Purpose That’s Bigger Than You
Dennis was inspired by his grandmother, Sofi Tucker, to continue the legacy of crafting African black soap and Shea butter to heal families through natural resources. In memory of his grandmother, he created the Sofi Tucker Foundation, which provides grants to organizations that seek to empower women, their families and communities in the United States and throughout Africa to provide a more efficient way of life. “We moved them from being at the bottom of the pyramid, to now being value-added providers of finished product” Dennis at SXSW. “We then, started making products and partnering with our retailers such as Target, Walgreens, CVS and Ulta to sell products where 10% of each purchase is re-invested in those communities, but also in this community. Those women who are far away from us, 98% of them are able to send their children to school, have health insurance and own businesses.”
To learn more about the Community Commerce Program, watch the video below.
With entrepreneurship being a core pillar of the Sundial Brands, Dennis has led the initiative to provide minority women executives, business owners and entrepreneurs with an opportunity to attend Tuck School of Business at Dartmouth and be able to define their business strategy to prosper and scale their business. Sundial has also partnered with Babson College to give a full scholarship to rising female junior and senior high school students from underserved communities all over the world to attend a summer entrepreneurship program. “We’re now able to provide scholarships to women entrepreneurs to attend two of the top business schools with an opportunity to learn more about entrepreneurship and running a prosperous business.”As an entrepreneur that supports women in business, I immediately gravitated toward his story and felt inspired by his humble beginnings of selling Shea butter on the Harlem streets to now being one of the top natural leaders on the market. He is not only changing the way we are represented in beauty, but in business. Women’s History Month may have come to an end, but we will continue to shine a light on all the women blazing a trail of greatness and the men that support us to make sure our voices are heard.
On behalf of NaturallyCurly, we commend Richelieu Dennis for creating a platform that empowers, educates and inspires women all over the world.
You don’t always have to take the same path you can try something different, as long as the intentions are there.
Women are constantly being scrutinized for how we look, talk and dress. Unfortunately, much of this sexist behavior takes place in a professional setting, which puts us in a tough place of questioning if we should speak up or walk away to secure our job position. We have proven our power over and over again in the workplace, yet still are being objectified and disrespected for simply being ourselves. Well, Congresswoman Maxine Waters wants to remind us that we will not be intimidated by the ignorance of others, but instead use our voices and stand firm in our beliefs.
On Tuesday, U. S. Representative Maxine Waters was asked to comment on her anti-Trump stance and Fox News host Bill O’Reilly bypassed her thoughts and made jokes about her hair. “I didn’t hear a word she said,” O’Reilly said on Fox & Friends. “I was looking at the James Brown wig. If we have a picture of James, it’s the same wig.” Then, later that day, U.S. Press Secretary Sean Spicer told journalist April Ryan to “stop shaking her head” in response to an answer he gave.
What’s so irritating about this is that condescending comments and actions like these happen so regularly. The media has now normalized this type of behavior and it’s unacceptable. As a way to shine a light on these issues, activist Brittany Packnett encouraged black women online to share some of their real-life experiences at work and created the hashtag #BlackWomenAtWork. Packet told Huffington Post, “I wanted the hashtag to make the invisible visible, to challenge non-black people to stand with black women not just when this happens on television, but in the cube right next to them,” she said. “I’m also glad stories of triumph and achievement got shared through the hashtag as well.”
Black women are more than just our woes, we are triumphant.
Read some of the tweets below to experience the reality some black women face in the workplace:
It’s beyond empowering to see women all over the world share their experiences and stand together with both of these women. Thank you for using your voices and encouraging other women to do so. This type of demeaning behavior should not be tolerated and should definitely not be normalized. We must continue to show up for ourselves and each other.
Have you experienced a situation like this in the workplace?
If so, please share with us below to continue to show people that this is not rare.
True sisterhood cannot be forced, it takes time, patience, love and reciprocity. Being your sister’s keeper shouldn’t feel like an unwanted responsibility, but a reflex. The beautiful thing about sisterhood is it requires no limits, no race, no class or geography. Sisterhood is a rare connection that transforms us as we mature from young girls into women sharing our struggles, experiences and learnings. Unfortunately, we learn early on as girls that other girls are our competition instead of our strength. We have the power to empower generations to come by treating other women like we want to be treated with an abundance of love, empathy and respect.
Now more than ever, we must embrace our “sisters” (biological or not”> and remind them of their magic. So, I ask you, how can you support other women?
Show Up & Show Out
If your friend is hosting an event, speaking on a panel or showing her unique products at a trade show, make it a point to stop by and show your support. There’s no better feeling than looking out into the crowd and seeing familiar faces that know how hard you’ve worked to get where you’re at today. Obviously, you can’t make every event, but if you can’t go, take a moment to share with your friends who you think would be interested in going. A simple share can go a long way!
Give Without Expectations
Make time to catch up and check in with your sisters. When is the last time you made plans to have a girls night, grab lunch or attend a workout class together? It’s important to share space with your sisters because you never know what struggles they may be battling. Ask them how their week is going and see how you can help. Sometimes we simply need a listening ear to vent to and share our struggles with, with no judgement.
Sincerely congratulate women on their successes and understand that their success is OUR success.
Choose Collaboration Over Competition
If you have an idea and want feedback, reach out to your sisters who you think can help and provide insight. Often times, we feel like we can conquer the world (which we can”>, but we can’t do it alone. If you’re working in the same industry as someone, instead of competing, ask them to join! There is room for all us to win, let’s win together!
Take Your Power Back
It’s no secret that women hold a majority of the buying power, but are we investing in woman-owned companies? If you know someone who is making cool stuff, buy it without asking for a discount. If you can’t afford it, share their website or refer their services to your friends. It’s time we take our power back and start investing in ourselves and sisters who are doing what they love to keep the legacy of women in business going!
Be the Change You Want to See
It’s our responsibility to show our daughters, nieces, cousins and neighbors what sisterhood looks like. We hold all the power for the changes we want to see in how women treat one another. Many of us have been treated badly by nasty women, but don’t let that cycle continue. Treat her as you want to be treated. Once we can let go of our own insecurities, fears and doubts we can progress individually and collectively.
True non-competitive, unconditional support comes from loving yourself first. Once you are okay with who you are, you are able to be honest and supportive with other women without having an agenda or expecting something back in return.
Whether it be collaborating, listening without judgement or supporting a woman-owned business, there are many ways women can support each other! Being that March is Women’s History Month, let’s celebrate the importance of sisterhood and take the opportunity to share ways we can authentically support each other, not only this month, but any given opportunity!
There is nothing I value more than sisterhood. The type of sisterhood that is transparent, authentic and empowering. We’re all fighting so many battles within that sometimes, we simply need a reminder of our magic, a shoulder to lean on, an advocate to support us when we don’t have the energy to and lastly sisters that believe in our vision. Continue to conquer from within and let your light shine bright!
If we don’t help each other, who will? And if not in this time, when?
What do you do to support women in your community?
When I moved to Austin almost two years ago, it took me a while to find a natural hair stylist that I could trust to care for my curly hair. Through many recommendations and the law of attraction, I connected with Kenya Kirk, the owner of Kenya Rynea Salon, who strives to educate her diverse clientele on the importance of #hairgoals. I remember the first time I walked into her salon, she asked me, “What is your daily hair routine?” I immediately got nervous and gave a blank stare because a stylist had never asked me that before. Honestly, I was never educated on how to maintain my natural hair and didn’t have a hair regimen. Being of mixed heritage, my mom wasn’t aware of how to care for my naturally curly hair and was advised to perm my hair at the tender age of three years-old. It wasn’t until in my early 20’s that I started rockin’ my natural hair, free of chemicals and extensions.
When I found out that Kenya does not only educate her clients on ways to maintain their natural hair, but she also created a program called Mommy & Me, for mothers to provide a solution to care for their daughter’s hair, even if they have a different hair texture. I knew there was a reason we got connected and this was simply confirmation, I couldn’t wait to learn more!
Share your background and how you got to Austin. . .
“I am originally from Upstate New York. My mother moved my sister and I to Austin, Texas in the early 90’s. After I graduated high school I wasn’t sure if I wanted to go to college to be a scientist in the marine biology field or not. Before I made my decision, I went to Georgia and visited my cousin, who was a salon owner and hair stylist.”
What inspired you to become a hair stylist?
“I’ve done hair in high school here and there for friends and teammates, but it wasn’t until one afternoon I was at my cousin’s house in Georgia. I was flipping through a hair magazine and an image grabbed my attention, so I decided to recreate it on her mannequin. Afterwards, my cousin told me I was very good for someone who just looked at a picture. It was then, that I was encouraged to sign-up for beauty school and felt this was the perfect path for me.”
What is unique about Kenya Rynea Salon?
“Kenya Rynea Salon enjoys providing clients with an innovative and educational experience to ensure clients with a unique hair regimen that works for their hair texture. We make it a point to talk about goals, the commitment and consistency required to meet their goals. A client’s smile and happiness is the best advertisement.”
How important is it that you educate your clients ?
“Education is essential for me to provide the best services, techniques and products to my clients. I carry various products curated around my clientele to educate my clients on maintaining a healthy hair regimen and ways to style their hair. I don’t just ‘sell’ products, I educate them on how to effectively use the products to work for them and their lifestyle.”
What inspired you to create the program, Mommy & Me?
“As a stylist, I hear stories all the time from my clients about their hair experiences and how they struggle with their natural hair. From finding the right products to knowing how to maintain a healthy hair regimen, clients were in need of solutions. It was also becoming more apparent how mothers felt that styling their daughter’s hair was a hassle and would take hours because they were unaware how to style their hair. So, I wanted to provide a stress-free solution. Mommy & Me is a program to educate mothers how to successfully care and style for their daughter’s hair and learn basic styling terminology on how to communicate with their hairstylist, if they have to take their child to a stylist.”
What do you see as the major challenges Mom’s experience with daughters who have textured hair, how does Mommy & Me provide a solution?
“The major challenges mothers experience is the long styling time, finding products that work and understanding the versatility of their daughter’s hair texture. Our Mommy & Me program provides a step-by-step hair regimen from beginning to the end of how to properly wash their hair, and recommends products to use, depending on the density and porosity of the hair. We even talk about tools to use for all versatilities of weather and easy hairstyles.”
Now that I’m older, I look back and wish my mother would have been educated on how to care for my curly hair rather than perming it at such an early age. Ironically, I learned that my mother’s hair was extremely thick and tough to manage as a young girl, so her mother permed her hair as well. This goes to show the importance of education and how it effects us young girls, who grow up as women who yearn for that sense of identity. Let’s continue to educate and empower our daughters to rock their natural crown and love their beautiful coils, curls and kinks.
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