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61 Hairstyles for Short Natural Hair
61 Hairstyles for Short Natural Hair
Pictured: @prettygirlswithcurls

Are you a short curly hair girl tired of the same ol’ hairstyle? No worries, I got you, girl.

I big chopped almost three years ago and it has been an amazing journey stepping out of my comfort zone and reinventing myself fearlessly. Like many curlies who have taken the plunge and big chopped, I had no idea how to style my hair, what products to use or how to properly care for it. So I understand your frustrations and want to remind you that this is all a part of the journey, don’t give up just yet. Thanks to my NaturallyCurly fam and Youtube, I was able to learn more about the best ways to style and care for my 3b/3c hair and was surprised to see so many other curlies sharing their tips and tricks online where I could easily be more educated and aware of the best way to care for my curls.

Let’s be honest, starting over and transitioning can be scary, yet empowering. Just know that you’re not alone and there’s a huge army of curlfriends here to support you every step of the way. Which is why I feel community support is so important. When you’re in need of some curly hair inspo or boost of curl confidence to remind you of your magic, just know that you’re curlfriends got your back. For so long it was all about long beautiful curly hair, but now more than ever women are boldly rockin’ short haircuts and it’s so refreshing and inspiring.

So for all my curlfriends that have recently gone for the big chop, transitioning, or growing their hair out like me, scroll down and check out these hair tutorials that will you inspire you to switch up your everyday look and slay the day in style!

5 Quick & Easy Hairstyles for Short Natural Hair

When you don’t have much time try one of these 5 hairstyles that are quick and easy and can be worn to work or date night.

16 Hairstyles to Switch Up Your Look

If you’re tired of wearing the same ol’ hairstyle every day switch up your look with one of these 16 hairstyles.

3 Wash & Go Hairstyles for Short Hair

Whether you’re a TWA or in the awkward phase, try one of these 3 wash and go’s styles for a simply chic look.

3 Easy Hairstyles Using Clips

Grab a few hair clips and create one of these 3 simple curly looks and step out in style.

7 Simple Hairstyles for 6″ Long Hair

If you have recently transitioned and are growing out your hair, grab a comb and take note of how . The styles start at 1:25. 

10 Styles for Beginners

Whether you’re a lazy natural or know how to do a simple braid, you’ll love one of these 10 hairstyles for short curlies.

The Criss Cross Braided Puff

For those of you that love the high puff, add some criss-cross braids in the front to spice up your puff.

Flat Twist Puff with a Zig Zag Part

If you like to flat twist your hair, this style is for you! Whether you’re headed to the store or a night out, this style can be worn for any occasion.

7 Quick Hairstyles for Your Big Chop

For the curlies that just went for the big chop and have no idea how to style their hair, check out these 7 hairstyles to rock your crown boldly.

8 Easy Hairstyles for 4c Curlies

For the 4c curlies that want to switch up their look, try one of these quick and easy styles that give us life.

I hope you enjoyed watching these videos showing a variety of ways to style your curls with confidence. I find myself wearing my hair the same every day for the most part and honestly that can get boring, so hopefully, you saw something you want to try it, I know I sure did. Whether you’re headed to work, date night or hanging with the girls, remember to rock your crown boldly sis.

Which hairstyle is your favorite? I’d love to know in the comments below. Want more from Alexandra? Follow her on Instagram for all things hair, beauty, and fitness.

Read more: How I’m Growing Out My Natural Hair After My Big Chop

Alexandra’s Natural Hair Journey

New Year, New Hair: The Curly Cut that Changed My Curls Forever
New Year New Hair The Curly Cut that Changed My Curls Forever

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I have coarse, 3c/4a, medium porosity hair. I big chopped about three years ago because of the damage from relaxing my hair for over twenty years and bleaching it, so it was a must that I cut off the dead ends and start fresh. Although, I loved my pixie cut I decided in the last year that I wanted to let my hair grow out. The more I focused on scalp care and creating a healthy hair regimen, the more my curls began to flourish. The longer my hair got, the more protective styles I was able to experiment with including sew-ins, feed-in braids and goddess faux locs. While my hair was growing out, I tried my best not to cut it and let it even out before I got a haircut.

To kick off 2019, I decided it was time for quick switch up. I was referred to the Curl Whisperer, April Kayganich, a hairstylist based in Austin at the Honeycomb Hair Boutique who is known to give curls life and she did not disappoint. Not only did she reshape my hair, but she gave me the most gorgeous curls, so it was only right that I share the curly love. Keep reading to find out her cutting technique and curly girl tips to get defined voluminous curls.

Curl by Curl Cutting Technique

“I almost always start on dry hair when cutting curls. I started in the back of your head and made slight diagonal sections on the left and right side and followed those lines cutting curl by curl. I continued this moving up the head and moved to each side of your head in the front to connect the shape. Curls tend to shrink when a lot of length is removed, so I am pretty conservative when it comes to removing length before the Cleansing and styling portion of the appointment. I do a lot of dry cutting after the hair is styled as well and that’s when I went in and visually balanced the shape in the front using a freehand technique.”

New Year New Hair The Curly Cut that Changed My Curls Forever

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Wash & Style 

“Curly hair needs moisture, so I used my go to cleanser which is New Wash Rich. It isn’t shampoo, but you don’t need to condition afterwards which is pretty cool, but it works with your natural oils to cleanse and condition the hair without stripping anything away from your hair. I made sure your hair was really wet and applied a generous amount of New Wash on the ends and then massaged what little bit was left on my hands into your scalp. I then detangled with a wide tooth comb and rinsed the product from your hair thoroughly. After words, I used clips to work in sections adding more water to your hair and then applying Skimdo from root to tip using a raking motion. The curls around your hairline needed some love, so I did a cold rinse to reduce the frizz, applied a small amount of Skimdo and finger coiled those curls. We then put you under the hood dryer for 15 minutes, which is almost like air drying, then diffused your curls so we could achieve more volume.”

How to Prepare for a Curly Cut and What NOT To Do

  1. Come to the appointment with your hair down, dry and detangled with little product in it. I don’t mean having it in a bun or a slick backed pony then taking it down, but down so your stylist can see how many curl patterns you have, how your curls fall and how you normally style it. That helps us know how to style your curls when we get to the end of your appointment. I also like to mention that when I say detangled, I just mean having “fresh” hair. I prefer for my clients to have washed their hair within the last 1-3 days of the haircut so that way it saves on the amount of time the haircut can take. Some stylists charge by the amount of time in the chair or add a detangling fee so make sure to ask beforehand so you can prepare!
  2. Bring photos of shapes and lengths you like that are similar to your curl pattern and hair density. A lot of people come in asking for volume and will bring photos of someone who has a lot more hair than they do or a different curl pattern. Volume is not only determined by layers, but also by your hair density which can vary on different parts of the head.
  3. My only don’t is: Don’t be late!! Make sure to give yourself enough time to get to your appointment and to find the salon. That way you can have a little extra time to consult with your stylist to make sure you feel comfortable.
New Year New Hair The Curly Cut that Changed My Curls Forever

Image:@_thehalfrican

Retaining Moisture

“Moisture comes from water-not oils and butters! Water is key and I can’t stress it enough. Make sure your hair is soaking wet when you apply your products.”

Keys to Maximum Volume

“First, make sure you have a haircut that is either layered to give more volume or layers that are graduated to build weight. Second, use products appropriate for your texture and curl type! For example: if you have fine hair that is a looser curl, don’t use a thick cream, look for foaming mousse or things like spray gel. Diffusing is key if you want instant volume and make sure to start off with your head upside down. You can also set your hair at the roots with double prong clips or Deva Clips if you have them! You insert the clips at a 45 degree angle to your scalp and you can air dry this way.”

Behold the Most Fabulous Street Style Moments from Texture on the Runway 2018

In case you missed it, NaturallyCurly hosted the biggest Texture on the Runway yet last Thursday to kick off New York Fashion Week. At a time where natural curls, kinks, and waves are finally being celebrated it’s amazing to witness the beauty of textured hair at the forefront of fashion. What truly sets Texture on the Runway apart from other NYFW shows is the storytelling element that each brand shares on stage to showcase the beauty and versatility of textured hair. Not only do the brands bring the heat with the jaw-dropping hairstyles and powerful messages, but the attendees also show up and show out! It’s an opportunity to intentionally create a space where women of all ages, sizes, ethnicities, and textures are celebrated. The positioning of Texture on the Runway during New York Fashion Week is meaningful because it not only gives you an opportunity to see yourself on the runway, but also to be in a room surrounded by your favorite curlfriends.

From the models to attendees, the proof is in the puff that representation matters. This year more than 900 people gathered at Gotham Hall to embrace, exemplify, and celebrate all the forms of textured hair. In case you missed it, you can relive all the BEST Texture on the Runway 2018 moments below!

Behold the Most Fabulous Street Style Moments from Texture on the Runway 2018

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Hair is your best accessory so flaunt it with confidence! From the fluffy fro to the timeless pinstripped belted blazer, this is a look that will never go out of style.

Behold the Most Fabulous Street Style Moments from Texture on the Runway 2018

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Jumpsuits are always a good idea. This simple, sexy, and classy look is effortless and chic.

Behold the Most Fabulous Street Style Moments from Texture on the Runway 2018

Image: Ven Sherrod

Okay ladies, let’s get in formation! Loving this trio of curl friends who came to slay with these sleek ponytails.

Behold the Most Fabulous Street Style Moments from Texture on the Runway 2018

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This cute and comfy look is a definite favorite paired with a top knot and black leather jacket that easily transitions from day to night effortlessly.

Behold the Most Fabulous Street Style Moments from Texture on the Runway 2018

Image: Ven Sherrod

Fall is the time to bring on the layers. From the beret, full-length blazer dress, and waist-length braids, this is a look that turned heads.

Behold the Most Fabulous Street Style Moments from Texture on the Runway 2018

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Who else lives for a fun sparkly dress to shine bright in all night? Love this multi-colored sequin dress and natural curls. #EasySlay

Behold the Most Fabulous Street Style Moments from Texture on the Runway 2018

Image: Ven Sherrod

Wow! This stunning beauty owned the night in a bold African-print two-piece and voluminous ‘fro. Yasss Queen!

Behold the Most Fabulous Street Style Moments from Texture on the Runway 2018

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Omg, how cute is she? One of our youngest curl friends came to Texture on the Runway and stole our hearts.

Behold the Most Fabulous Street Style Moments from Texture on the Runway 2018

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She is serving nostalgic vibes with the space buns, tiny glasses, and leopard bodysuit. Here for all of it!

Behold the Most Fabulous Street Style Moments from Texture on the Runway 2018

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Red has been one of this season’s hottest colors and these beauties are slaying! #CameThruDrippin

Behold the Most Fabulous Street Style Moments from Texture on the Runway 2018

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We are so here for this beautiful #blackgirlmagic

Behold the Most Fabulous Street Style Moments from Texture on the Runway 2018

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From the boyfriend blazer, velvet bell-bottoms, and gorgeous curls, this is definitely a fierce style we loved!

Behold the Most Fabulous Street Style Moments from Texture on the Runway 2018

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This is the ultimate #squadgoals! From curls to kinks, these women represent what it means to be NaturallyCurly.

From the fierce hairstyles that rocked the runway to the beautiful curlfriends who showed their support, we can’t thank you enough for your continous love for the past 20 years. At its core, NaturallyCurly is our community. We are celebrating 20 years because of you. Continue to flaunt your curls, coils, and waves with confidence and remind other women of their power. Texture is not a trend and we hope to continue to showcase the beauty and versatality of natural hair for decades to come.

What look was your favorite? Let us know in the comments below.

Festival Hairstyle Season Is Here and We Have the Tea on CurlTalk TV

This summer has been filled with endless adventures, exploring new places and trying fun hairstyles. One of my most memorable experiences was visiting Chicago to attend Lollapalooza, one of the biggest music festivals in the world that features the top musical styles ranging from EDM to hip-hop.

Festival Hairstyle Season Is Here and We Have the Tea on CurlTalk TV

Bed Head by TIGI hosted an epic hotel party at the Bed Head Hotel — an exclusive pop-up party for festival goers to sip on refreshing cocktails, get glam and enjoy good vibes by guest DJs. The two-day activation brought out artists and beauty influencers including Sabrina Claudio, Brittany Sky, and Madison Beer. Not to mention some of the best female DJs were spinning the hottest tunes, including Caroline D’Amore and Dani Thorne.

Every music festival has its own personality. Lollapalooza is the perfect blend of boho meets 90s’ street style. Festival style is always a hot topic and one hairstyle that was everywhere were space buns. You could spot people wearing them sleek, curly, braided — and sometimes doused with glitter at the roots. Some pulled up all their hair up into the twists, while others let half of it flow freely.

Being that this was my first time at Lollapalooza, it was only right I joined in on the festival fun. Kimberly Michelle, TIGI stylist and educator, styled my hair using Screw It, a curl hydrating jelly oil that adds moisture, and Get Twisted, the anti-frizz hairspray that fights humidity to combat frizz for up to 72 hours. Being that space buns are a classic festival style, I chose to go with that style and added some flair by incorporating a braid down the center and also some intricate accessories.

Kimberly Michelle truly made my Sporty Spice dreams come true. She even spilled the tea on pro tips to preserve my style while at the festival and the top curly girl tip to avoid dry hair. Check out our candid conversation below and let me know what you think of my festival style.

What I love most about festivals is that you can meet people from all over the globe who connect about music, art, and fashion. I had the opportunity to meet so many curlfriends and women conquering the music industry, such as Caroline D’Amore. She performed one of my favorite DJ sets, and she rocked a fierce festival hairstyle that stole the show. Watch our interview below along with other curly girls sharing their top tips and what their natural hair represents.

The TIGI stylists offered attendees complimentary hairstyles specializing in boho braids, twisted topknots, and bold textures. It’s no secret that texture is at the forefront of the beauty industry and will only continue to lead the way as more women embrace their natural texture.

The TIGI team did an amazing job styling attendees’ hair and I was curious to know their inspiration for these creative hairstyles. Each unique hairstyle was created with some of Bed Head’s top-selling stylers. A festival essential? Oh Bee Hive — a dry shampoo that adds texture and volume, but also absorbs excess oils and refreshes hair after dancing all day and night at the festival. I caught up with a few TIGI stylists to learn how to create each style. Hear more from the stylists and how to recreate these looks below.

Thank you, TIGI, for inviting me to hang out at the Bed Head Hotel and Lollapalooza for an unforgettable experience.

This post is sponsored by Bed Head by TIGI.

What is your favorite festival style?

Let us know in the comments.

The Most Powerful Message Beyonce Shared in Her September Issue of Vogue
The Most Powerful Message Beyonce Shared in Her September Issue of Vogue

History has been made!

In the latest issue of Vogue Beyonce graces the cover and gets realer than she ever has before. In its 125-year history, Vogue has never before featured the work of an African American photographer on the cover – until now. Beyonce had complete creative control to share her truth in this issue and she chose Tyler Mitchell to shoot the cover. Rather than rocking wigs, hair extensions and glamorous make-up, she appears in the issue wearing her natural hair and little to no make-up. “I think it’s important for women and men to see and appreciate the beauty in their natural bodies. That’s why I stripped away the wigs and hair extensions and used little makeup for this shoot.”

I think it’s important for women and men to see and appreciate the beauty in their natural bodies. That’s why I stripped away the wigs and hair extensions and used little makeup for this shoot.

She opens up about her life, her body, and her heritage in her own words and we’re so here for this celebratory moment of honesty.

The Most Powerful Message Beyonce Shared in Her September Issue of Vogue

The superstar, the creative genius, the wife, the mother, the woman. The 36-year-old singer wears many hats and while she receives countless amounts of recognition for all that she does and excels in, underneath it all is a woman, a real woman, with hopes that transcend music.

Recently, she was ridiculed and questioned about wearing her natural hair and her hair stylist, Neal Farinah, has officially confirmed it’s all natural. “So many times one is judged by their hair texture or skin color. I’m so proud and honored to have been a part of such an amazing shoot, braiding the queens all natural curly hair!”

On Representation & Legacy

Not only is Beyonce using her platform to inspire millions and create black excellence, but she’s opening doors for the ones to come by providing them with opportunities to be recoginzed for their talent. “It’s important to me that I help open doors for younger artists. There are so many cultural and societal barriers to entry that I like to do what I can to level the playing field, to present a different point of view for people who may feel like their voices don’t matter.”

“If people in powerful positions continue to hire and cast only people who look like them, sound like them, come from the same neighborhoods they grew up in, they will never have a greater understanding of experiences different from their own. They will hire the same models, curate the same art, cast the same actors over and over again, and we will all lose. The beauty of social media is it’s completely democratic. Everyone has a say. Everyone’s voice counts, and everyone has a chance to paint the world from their own perspective.”

“ I look at the woman I was in my 20s and I see a young lady growing into confidence but intent on pleasing everyone around her. I now feel so much more beautiful, so much sexier, so much more interesting. And so much more powerful.”

The Most Powerful Message Beyonce Shared in Her September Issue of Vogue

Photography: Tyler Mitchell

Hair: Neal Farinah

Make-up: Sir John

We are still breaking barriers. We are still curating culture. We are still opening doors for those who come behind us and honoring their legacy. We are actively using our platforms to empower others and create space for diversity, representation, inclusivity and social change. This moment is a huge milestone for our culture and it’s amazing to witness how Beyonce is using her power to shine a light on young creatives and changing the narrative around on how black women are perceived in media.

Are you here for this historic moment? Tell us your favorite messages from this iconic issue in the comments below.

It’s Official: These are Top Hair Colors for Summer & The Key Tips to Care for Color From an Expert
Its Official These are Top Hair Colors for Summer & The Key Tips to Care for Color From an Expert Summer is in full effect and for those of us who thrive off change, it’s the perfect time to switch up your do with a new hair color, cut or style. If you’ve been on the fence about trying that short cut or adding color to your naturl hair, here’s everything you should know in order to make the best decision. Four years ago I was inspired to get blonde highlights and had no clue how to prepare for the hair change, not to mention the amount of care it involved. So, I experienced severe breakage which led to my big chop. Honestly, it was a blessing in disguise and that ignited my natural hair journey. So that you don’t make my mistake, I tapped curly hair whisper and color specialist, [April Kayganich](https://www.instagram.com/_thehalfrican/”> at [Honey Comb Hair Boutique](https://www.instagram.com/Honeycombatx/”> to give you the scoop on the hottest summer trends, plus the best products to use to maintain healthy hair. Not sure what to ask your stylist for? Have no clue how to care for your color treated curls? Take note and read along, thank us later. ### Summer hair color trends “This Summer, people are feeling bright, bold and fun! Of course, Balayage highlights are a trend that doesn’t seem to be going anywhere anytime soon and that is my number one request when it comes to color. I have been seeing a lot of Honey, Golden Light Browns and some dark blonde with pops of bright blonde. I also feel like the Pastel, but more specifically Rose Gold hair is having another round in the spotlight! I have noticed people have been becoming more brave with their hair color decisions and are ready to make a change. Here are some of my favorites from the summer: When wanting to change your haircolor at all, make sure your hair is in a healthy state. If you are not sure, you can book a consultation with your stylist so they can evaluate your hair health, talk about your current hair routine, prior chemical services and what to expect with this new color change.” ## For Balayage Highlights: “Everyone sees color differently, so I always recommend bringing 3 pictures with you so that you and your Stylist are on the same page of the tonality and light or darkness you are looking to achieve. I would bring two examples of what you love and one example of what you don’t like. Having too many photos can create confusion so keep them to a minimum.” Its Official These are Top Hair Colors for Summer & The Key Tips to Care for Color From an Expert ### For Pastel Colors: “Know that to achieve most colors like this (think baby pink, silver, sky blue”>, your hair has to be lightened to its breaking point (no pun intended”>. The hair has to be pale yellow, almost white for a pastel color to show up. Other colors that are richer or deeper hued, think purples, reds, magenta, you don’t have to perform such an extreme lightening service on the hair, so expect that to be a little less harsh on the hair. With any color service, I always recommend adding a treatment like [Olaplex](https://www.beautycon.com/article/the-pros-and-cons-of-olaplex-according-to-a-stylist”> to your color. It helps to protect your hair from damage during coloring by reinforcing the hair with bonds.” Its Official These are Top Hair Colors for Summer & The Key Tips to Care for Color From an Expert ### How to prep your hair beforehand “So, contrary to popular belief, I prefer for clients to come to a color appointment with clean hair. I think everyone has heard the opposite and when I was a receptionist, I would always preach the gospel about how dirty hair was better than clean prior to a color service. That doesn’t necessarily mean shampooed and conditioned that day, but within the last day or two and little to no product in the hair. I have taken countless advanced color classes and all of them talk about how important it is to start any chemical service with a clean slate. You don’t want the color to have to work harder. This will result in an uneven color result or the color appearing different than what was expected. With that being said, if for some reason you are not able to come with little to no product in the hair or cleansed within the last few days, your stylist may choose to add a treatment to prep your hair for the service. This will require additional time for your appointment and will add an extra cost.” ### When to schedule a touch up “Your touch up schedule will vary depending on what type of color service you get. When you get a single process color (this is where the hair is all one color without highlights”> then you will have to touch up your roots. I recommend anywhere from 8-10 weeks between these types of touch ups. Luckily for us Curlies, we can usually get away with stretching these appointments out since our curls hide our roots, ha! When you have highlights, specifically Balayage, your maintenance can be pretty low requiring you to only come in anywhere between 3-6 months depending on the desired outcome and whether or not a Toner was used for your highlights. Toners are what takes your highlights from being that yellow-orange color to that beautiful Honey that you like and those typically need to be redone around the 3 month mark.” Its Official These are Top Hair Colors for Summer & The Key Tips to Care for Color From an Expert ### The secret to a heatlhy hair regimen for color treated curls “When you have colored hair, you will be prone to dryness and breakage because during the coloring process, protein is leaving the hair. You will want to switch to products that are color safe, sulfate free and that have both protein and moisture in them. Some adjectives that help you find a product that has protein in it are: strengthening, fortifying, and repair. If using heat, make sure to always use a heat protectant. That shields you from 75-80% of heat damage that can come from your styling tools. One more thing you can do to have a solid regimen is make sure to deep condition at least once a month.” ### Top products to maintain color, stylist approved “My absolute favorite cleanser for maintaining color is[ Hairstory’s New Wash](https://www.hairstory.com/catalogue/new-wash_1/”>. It is an oil based cleanser that is free of harsh detergents and is the best color protecting product on the market. It works with your natural oils to help replenish moisture and balance the pH of your hair. It is a great detangler for those of us who get those knots that make us want to cry, haha! The trick? It doesn’t suds up, so just keep that in mind. Another bonus? You don’t have to condition either. Everything is done in one step. Boom. That is what I like to hear! Less time in the shower! They also have a great protein based styling product that is amazing for curls and it is called [Hair Balm](https://www.hairstory.com/catalogue/hair-balm_4/”>. For my curlfriends with type 4 hair, I will apply Hair Balm in smaller sections to soaking wet hair and then apply [Uncle Funky’s Daughter Curly Magic](http://unclefunkysdaughter.com/curly-magic.html”> on top. For everyone else, you can use this alone. My last holy grail that will help save your hair from breakage is the Olaplex #3 take home treatment. When paired with an in salon treatment, your curls will maintain their bounce and form with this magic formula. These are to be done once a week in between color services.” Do you have color treated hair? What’s your biggest struggle? Let us know how we can help below.
Easy & Effortless Summer Essentials I Rock From Desk to Dinner #WhatWeWore
“alex

It never fails that I walk into a store and my eye immediately gravitates to the neutral tones. No matter how old I get some things never change. Although I’m open to playing with prints you’ll usually see me in a solid color (usually white, black, creme or gray”> styled with minimal accessories. Speaking of accessories, these cute little colorful tassel earrings are the perfect accessory for any basic look.

It was a no brainer that I grabbed this mocha jumpsuit, it had my name written all over it! I love a good jumpsuit. Seriously, I have like 6 in my closet because they’re so easy and comfortable. I’ve spent countless mornings staring at my closet wondering what outfit to wear and jumpsuits solve all my problems because it’s a one & done look that requires minimum effort.

“alex

Living in Texas it’s essential to wear light-weight clothing during the Summer because we can have weeks of scorching hot days of 100 degrees or more.  That is definitely one of the reasons I love this jumpsuit because of the breathable fabric, plus the romantic side tie, not to mention it has pockets!

Even though I love fashion, I try my best to be realistic and reasonable when shopping. I’ll ask myself questions such as “Where will you wear I this? Is it worth it? Do you love it?

Even though I love fashion, I try my best to be realistic and reasonable when shopping. I’ll ask myself questions such as “Where will I wear this? Is it worth it? Do I love it?” I’ve learned that if you don’t love it in the dressing room, you most likely won’t wear it. So try everything on and ask yourself those same questions when you’re shopping, believe me, it saves you lots of time and money.

“alex

Lately, I’ve been obsessed with using the finger coil technique to create defined curls. It’s super quick and easy and is great for any curl girl. Being that it’s extremely hot and humid in Texas majority of the year, it’s essential that I keep my hair moisturized with heavy butters to fight the frizz. 

Since I’m growing my hair out, it’s been a great way to blend in my longer curls and keep my short cut looking fresh. I usually wash my hair the night before and coil it while it’s damp, then let it air dry overnight. Once my hair is dry I unravel the coils, then pick my root to add some volume and definition. 

Here’s what I use:

“alex

Since I prefer to wear neutral tones, it was a must for me to add a pop of color with my accessories. Pom poms are one of Summer’s hottest trends and when I saw these sandals I knew I could wear them with multiple outfits since it has so many colors and I knew it would be a good investment.

One of my fashion rules is buy clothing that is transitional and can be worn on a variety occasions. This look is a great example of taking your look from desk to dinner effortlessly. If you love my look as much as I do you can get my jumpsuit and earrings from BeeHive and my sandals are from Target.

For more style inspiration, follow Alexandra on Instagram @queensconquer

Photography by Cassandra J. Klepac

Express Yourself: Camp Story Inspires Curly Kids To Be Themselves
Express Yourself Camp Story Inspires Curly Kids To Be Themselves Image: Maureen Nicol founder and director of Campstory Growing up as a first-generation Sierra Leonean-American, Maureen Nicol wanted to pay homage to her mother country in a meaningful way to empower generations to come by creating an educational and creative experience for children. She incorporated her passion for teaching and community organizing to create [Camp Story](https://www.campstoryintl.org”> , a summer camp which aims to strengthen the wings of young storytellers socially, emotionally, and artistically specifically low income and marginalized youth. Maureen is currently a PhD student at University of Texas at Austin studying Early Childhood Education. After teaching for several years she noticed the power that the arts has on young children especially when it comes to identity, critical thinking, inquiry and building community. With the belief that all children should have the opportunity to have meaningful artistic experiences and the resources to tell their stories in the way they believe best, Camp Story was born. >”I created this to pay homage because that’s where my family is from and I know these children wouldn’t have this opportunity any other way. I show up for the people whom I feel need it most because I feel like I’m extensions of them.” – Maureen Nicol, founder and director of Camp Story > Express Yourself Camp Story Inspires Curly Kids To Be Themselves Maureen’s number one goal is to create a space where she is allowing youth to express themselves, their learning, and stories in a safe and creative environment. One of her biggest challenges, like most businesses, has been access to capital, but that hasn’t stopped her from taking risks and following her passion. “Money and fundraising was definitely a challenge. Let’s be honest, money is always an issue. You may have a great idea, but if you don’t have the access to capital it’s hard to make it sustainable. The first time we hosted Campstory, we made it work on a $3,000 budget and served 45 kids from ages 5 – 15 years old. Not only was it an opportunity for children to express themselves, but it also served as an opportunity for professional development for the teachers to collaborate to help create this memorable experience.” Maureen is known as the risk taker in her family and believes that regardless if you fail or succeed, there’s always a lesson learned. “The reason I have confidence to take risks is because I started off with one risk and it didn’t let me down. It showed me that if I listen to my intuition and act on it, even though other people may not believe in it or trust it, I have faith in myself. You have to take risks in order to progress. Noone who is comfortable and complacent will grow, so I see it as, I take a risk and I fail or I take a risk and I do well. Either way I’m winning because I learned something new.” Express Yourself Camp Story Inspires Curly Kids To Be Themselves Image: Jessica Nicol founder of Daffina Growing up as a middle child with two other sisters she values sisterhood and credits her oldest sister, Jessica Nicol, as her mentor who instilled 3 key values in her since a young girl. “Family, service and education definitely come to mind when it comes to things we cherish in our family. I take my role as the big sister very seriously and early on encouraged Maureen to follow her passion of teaching and serving others. Our parents taught us that helping others in need is priority. It’s important to identify issues that impact communities and do what you can to develop solutions.” Jessica is a government consultant and the founder of [Daffina African Clothing](https://daffina.com/”> , which is a family owned business inspired by the love of African fashion to capture the beauty and history of their motherland. Jessica says that she is beyond proud of the work Maureen is doing with Campstory and was grateful she was able to witness her in action last Summer when the entire family visited Sierra Leone for the first time in 20 years. “To see her in her element interacting with the teachers and students, I was very proud. She did an exceptional job planning and providing instructions to the staff in developing creative programs for the children. Though, it was hosted in Sierra Leone, she partnered with the International School and they were children from all over the world that were impacted.” How has your mentor supported you a long your journey? Let us know in the comments below. ### About SheaMoisture Community Commerce This post was created in partnership with SheaMoisture around its focus on [Community Commerce](https://www.sheamoisture.com/c/communitycommerce/about-2/”>, a purpose-driven business model that creates opportunities for sustainable social and economic empowerment throughout its supply chain and communities in the United States and Africa. Community Commerce focuses on entrepreneurship, women’s empowerment, education and wellness. It’s bigger than beauty. It’s about investing in local and global communities, striving to eliminate generational poverty and empowering women. A portion of proceeds from select SheaMoisture Community Commerce collections are invested in its Shea butter, coconut and African Black Soap cooperatives in Ghana and others that supply their handcrafted natural ingredients. In the United States, their women’s empowerment programs focus on entrepreneurship and education, including fellowships to attend the Dartmouth College Tuck School of Business Minority program and Babson College’s summer entrepreneurship program. Most recently, through the $100,000,000 New Voices Fund — created to invest in women of color entrepreneurs to help them build sustainable businesses — SheaMoisture is working to transform the landscape of business and what it means to live a more beautiful life.
Express Yourself: Camp Story Inspires Curly Kids To Be Themselves

Image: Maureen Nicol founder and director of Campstory

Growing up as a first-generation Sierra Leonean-American, Maureen Nicol wanted to pay homage to her mother country in a meaningful way to empower generations to come by creating an educational and creative experience for children. She incorporated her passion for teaching and community organizing to create Camp Story, a summer camp which aims to strengthen the wings of young storytellers socially, emotionally, and artistically specifically low income and marginalized youth.

Maureen is currently a Ph.D. student at the University of Texas at Austin studying Early Childhood Education. After teaching for several years, she noticed the power that the arts has on young children especially when it comes to identity, critical thinking, inquiry and building community. With the belief that all children should have the opportunity to have meaningful artistic experiences and the resources to tell their stories in the way they believe best, Camp Story was born.

“I created this to pay homage because that’s where my family is from and I know these children wouldn’t have this opportunity any other way. I show up for the people whom I feel need it most because I feel like I’m extensions of them.” – Maureen Nicol, founder and director of Camp Story
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Maureen’s number one goal is to create a space where she is allowing youth to express themselves, their learning, and stories in a safe and creative environment. One of her most significant challenges, like most businesses, has been accessing capital, but that hasn’t stopped her from taking risks and following her passion. “Money and fundraising was definitely a challenge. Let’s be honest, money is always an issue. You may have a great idea, but if you don’t have the access to capital it’s hard to make it sustainable. The first time we hosted Camp Story, we made it work on a $3,000 budget and served 45 kids from ages 5 – 15 years old. Not only was it an opportunity for children to express themselves, but it also served as an opportunity for professional development for the teachers to collaborate to help create this memorable experience.

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Maureen is known as the risk taker in her family and believes that regardless if you fail or succeed, there’s always a lesson learned. “The reason I have the confidence to take risks is because I started off with one risk and it didn’t let me down. It showed me that if I listen to my intuition and act on it, even though other people may not believe in it or trust it, I have faith in myself. You have to take risks in order to progress. No one who is comfortable and complacent will grow, so I see it as, I take a risk and I fail, or I take a risk and I do well. Either way, I’m winning because I learned something new.”

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Image: Jessica Nicol founder of Daffina

Growing up as a middle child with two other sisters she values sisterhood and credits her oldest sister, Jessica Nicol, as her mentor who instilled three key values in her since a young girl. “Family, service and education definitely come to mind when it comes to things we cherish in our family. I take my role as the big sister very seriously and early on encouraged Maureen to follow her passion of teaching and serving others. Our parents taught us that helping others in need is priority. It’s important to identify issues that impact communities and do what you can to develop solutions.”

Jessica is a government consultant and the founder of Daffina African Clothing, which is a family owned business inspired by the love of African fashion to capture the beauty and history of their motherland. Jessica says that she is beyond proud of the work Maureen is doing with Camp Story and was grateful she was able to witness her in action last Summer when the entire family visited Sierra Leone for the first time in 20 years. “To see her in her element interacting with the teachers and students, I was very proud. She did an exceptional job planning and providing instructions to the staff in developing creative programs for the children. Though it was hosted in Sierra Leone, she partnered with the International School and there were children from all over the world that were impacted.” 

How has your mentor supported you a long your journey? Let us know in the comments below.

About SheaMoisture Community Commerce

This post was created in partnership with SheaMoisture around its focus on Community Commerce, a purpose-driven business model that creates opportunities for sustainable social and economic empowerment throughout its supply chain and communities in the United States and Africa.

Community Commerce focuses on entrepreneurship, women’s empowerment, education and wellness. It’s bigger than beauty. It’s about investing in local and global communities, striving to eliminate generational poverty and empowering women. A portion of proceeds from select SheaMoisture Community Commerce collections are invested in its Shea butter, coconut and African Black Soap cooperatives in Ghana and others that supply their handcrafted natural ingredients.

In the United States, their women’s empowerment programs focus on entrepreneurship and education, including fellowships to attend the Dartmouth College Tuck School of Business Minority program and Babson College’s summer entrepreneurship program. Most recently, through the $100,000,000 New Voices Fund —   created to invest in women of color entrepreneurs to help them build sustainable businesses — SheaMoisture is working to transform the landscape of business and what it means to live a more beautiful life.

14 Editor Approved Curly Products You’ll Love | 2018 Editors’ Choice

Each year the NaturallyCurly Editors divide up by curl pattern to test, review and debate on the best curly, coily and wavy hair products on the market in order to take out the guesswork for you. We’ve tried over 200 products. Our drawers can barely close, our cabinets are overflowing, but our scalps are refreshed and curls are poppin. If you have Type 3 curls, these are the curly hair products that won the Editors Choice Awards for your curl pattern.

Not sure what your hair type is? Take our quiz!

For the NaturallyCurly Editor’s Choice Awards selection process, we considered the following criteria when making our selections:

  • Product efficacy: Does the product work for my hair type?
  • Miracle claims: Does the product packaging deliver false hope or stay true to its claims?
  • Added bonus: Does the product exceed my hair goal expectations by providing unlisted benefits?
  • Innovation: Does the product contain ingredients that I have not used before? Is the product new to the curly community?
  • Industry expertise: Are ingredients suggested for use by hair care experts?

If you’re on the search for products that will work for your Type 3 curl pattern, check out our 2018 Editors’ Choice award winners – and what we loved about them.

From the best conditioner to the most amazing scalp treatment, find out what products made the cut and what you should add to your curly girl cabinet.

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Pre-Poo: The Mane Choice Heavenly Halo Herbal Hair Tonic & Soy Milk Deep Hydration Pre-Poo

This herbal hair tonic and soy milk deep hydration pre-poo melts away tangles softens and minimizes moisture loss. Gentle enough for daily use and potent enough to drastically improve your tresses.

Shampoo: Amika Velveteen Dream Smoothing Shampoo

Wash to win the frizz fight. Smooth and protect hair so humidity can’t undo what you’ve done to your ‘do.

Clarifying Shampoo: Up North Naturals Clean Curls Cleanser

This product cleanses your scalp and your hair without it feeling stripped of moisture or dry. A light tingle of peppermint and rosemary stimulates hair growth stops hair fall removes dandruff and relieves itchy scalp.

Dry Shampoo: DevaCurl No Poo Quick Cleanser

A botanically infused conditioning spray that cleanses without water instantly refreshing hair while adding texture to curls and invigorating the scalp.

Cleansing Conditioner: Amika Nice Cream Cleansing Conditioner

Are you the co-wash Queen? This one-step treatment co-wash gently cleanses and weightlessly hydrates hair. The formula works especially well to freshen up curls without losing their beauteous bounce.

Daily Conditioner: Eden Bodyworks Citrus Fusion Conditioner

Nutrient rich conditioner to fortify and strengthen the hair. Great as a rinse out or leave in. Smooths reduces frizz nourishes thickens and strengthens.

Leave-In Conditioner: Mielle Organics Pomegranate & Honey Leave-in Conditioner

This light-weight leave-in adds definition, seals moisture and leaves curls soft. Not to mention the slip is amazing and the smell is out of this world!

Deep Conditioner: DevaCurl Melt into Moisture Matcha

This nourishing treatment mask is like a magical elixir for dehydrated waves or curls. This nutrient-rich buttery formula effortlessly melts into hair without feeling heavy. All curl types are left feeling shiny silky-soft and completely transformed.

Scalp Treatment: Briogeo Scalp Revival Charcoal + Tea Tree Oil Scalp Treatment

Are you experiencing a dry, flaky itchy scalp? This scalp treatment has cooling blends of peppermint and spearmint oils that reduces scalp itchiness, buildup and dryness. Add a few drops to your scalp after a wash or in between to soothe irritation.

Hair Oil: Balanced Guru Organic Sheer

Sheer organic silicone-free hair oil helps control frizz on fine to medium type 2a-3a curls. It nourishes moisturizes and adds shine by penetrating the hair shaft and working from within.

Hair Mask: Innersense Hydrating Hair Mask

Repair and restore dry, coarse and damaged hair with this rich treatment masque crafted with flax seed, shea butter, coconut, monoi and tamanu oils and quinoa to repair hair while delivering rich hydration and shine.

Styling Cream: Curl Junkie Spiral Lotion

This lightweight volume enhancing conditioning curl creme can be used on wet hair to enhance and define curls without weighing them down and can be used on dry hair to revive 2nd day hair or reduce frizz add moisture and shape/definition to wavy-curly hair.

Styling Gel: Tre Luxe Hi Definition Styling Gel

A high performance curl definer that causes curls to take shape providing long lasting curl definition and shine and giving you the upper hand in the fight against frizz without the flake or crunch.

Cream Gel: Redavid Orhcid Dual Therapy

This two-part universal repair system takes on heavily damaged hair as well as offers total support for the needs of curly hair.

Find the full list of Editors’ Choice Award winners here.
Alexandra’s Curly Regimen & Products | 2018 Editors’ Choice
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Hey, NaturallyCurly world!

I’m Alexandra, one of the NaturallyCurly editors. I have a mix of Type 3b/3c curls, with medium porosity. I big chopped three-years ago and it has been an eye-opening journey learning how to care for my hair in its natural state. One change that has helped my hair become healthier and longer is creating a scalp care routine, it’s truly the foundation for healthy hair. I’ve seen so much growth over the past 6 months from implementing this. I wash my hair about twice a week and use scalp care products every other week, depending on how much build-up I’m experiencing. Here’s what I use to wash, style and refresh to get defined, bouncy and moisturized curls. Don’t forget to watch the video at the end for a step-by-step tutorial. Let’s get to it!

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Wash Routine

Step 1: Shampoo with Camille Rose Sweet Ginger Cleansing Rinse

This is a great moisturizing shampoo that keeps my scalp clean without leaving my hair stripped. Not to mention it smells amazing!

Step 2: Condition with Innersense Hydrating Cream Conditioner

Like most curlies, a creamy conditioner is key and this is one of my favorites! I love how soft and defined this conditioner leaves my curls. I detangle my hair with the Curly Hair Solutions Flexy Brush and it’s great to use to clump curls.

Step 3: Towel dry hair with the Hair Remedie Frizz Eliminating Towel

For the longest, I didn’t think it was a big deal to use a microfiber towel to dry my hair until I did it! By using a microfiber towel it helps absorb a ton of excess water from freshly washed hair, eliminates frizz, and enhances natural curl definition.

Step 4: Apply a few drops of Briogeo Scalp Revival Charcoal + Tea Tree Scalp Treatment

This scalp treatment is great to use after I wash my hair. I apply a few drops to my scalp to restore the balance and hydration in my scalp. It has a cooling sensation and it good to keep on hand to soothe my scalp when it’s itchy or irritated in between washes.

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Styling Routine

Step 5: Rake through Design Essentials Almond & Avocado Curl Enhancing Mousse

Like you, I grew up hearing that mousses and gels leave hair crunchy and flaky, so I didn’t use either until recently and it has done wonders for adding hold and definition. This mousse is my absolute favorite because it controls frizz, especially in the humid months, adds shine and leaves my curls so bouncy.

Step 6: Apply the Aunt Jackies Curls & Coils Don’t Shrink Flaxseed Elongating Curling Gel

Not only does this gel add definition to my hair, it’s packed with nourishing oils so it leaves my hair soft and moisturized. I rake this gel through my hair, then finger coil a few pieces in the front to add extra definition. If you’re not sure how to finger coil, watch the video below.

Step 7: Finish with the Ouidad Mongongo Oil

This is my secret weapon, yall! This multi-purpose oil is a what I use after I undo my finger coils. It’s the perfect lightweight, finishing oil that adds shine and controls frizz.

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Refresh

Step 8: Curly Hair Solutions H20 Water Bottle

This mist water bottle is everything! I use it to refresh my curls in the morning and it is truly a must-have for curlies.

Step 9: Apply the SheaMoisture 100% Virgin Oil Leave-in

When my hair is really dry and in need of some TLC, this is my go-to! It’s a 2-in-1 detangler and leave-in conditioner that can be used to refresh and rehydrate day 3 or 4 curls.

Step 10: Fluff with a pick or the Spriggle

I don’t leave home without my pick. Whenever I’m in need of some extra volume or want to refresh my curls throughout the day, the spriggle always keeps my curls fluffy.

Watch Alexandra’s Wash Day Routine

Do you have Type 3c? Let us know what your regimen must-haves are in the comments so other 3c’s can learn from you!


To see the rest of the Editors’ Choice winners of 2018, check out the full list here.

Texture Tales: Cristina Shares Her Journey of Caring For Her Curls
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Tell us about your hair journey. . .

My hair was about four times as thick and coarse when I was a child as it is now. As a child, I had somewhat of a mullet helmet, and as it grew longer it became a giant mass of hair. I can remember relatives always telling me to put my hair up because I looked like a witch, and I remember always breaking hair ties because my hair was too thick to tie up. Needless to say, I spent years wishing in vain that my hair looked like the girls and women on TV and in magazines. Middle school was a time spent trying and failing, to straighten my hair with Velcro curlers and weak curling irons. That’s when I cut it short in an attempt to get the “Rachel,” I was so disappointed when my hair ended up looking nothing like Jennifer Aniston’s, and I didn’t understand why (hello hair type”>. This was also the era of Sun In, ouch.

In high-school, I discovered Infusium, which finally gave me the curl definition I had been missing all my life. It became my Holy Grail. I would put a towel over my shoulders and then douse my wet hair with Infusium, then air dry. Unfortunately, I still wasn’t satisfied and I was getting relaxers which the salons promised would straighten my hair, but never did. In college, I had my hair relaxed at a Filipino salon that finally did the trick. I’m sad to say that permanently banished my curls, and it took years to transition that straight hair out.

What made you decide to embrace your natural hair texture?

I’ve seen my hair mostly as an element of my style – at some points in my life I’ve preferred it straight, sometimes I’ve liked it curly. Sometimes long, short, blonde, purple. Ever since I realized how incredibly difficult it is to go from straight or colored back to curly, I’ve pretty much stuck to wearing it natural.

What has been the most memorable moment of your hair journey?

Cutting it all off! I had hair down to my belly button, it was wavy, balayage, and people loved it that way. When I cut it off into a pixie there were a lot of people who couldn’t understand why I would do that. They warned me that I was going to cry and miss my long hair, but I never did. I think before I cut my hair I had a lot of fear and what ifs – what if I’m not pretty without long hair? What if my hair gets damaged and won’t curl? What if I can’t pull off short hair the way bolder women can? Cutting my hair freed me from all of that.

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What was your transitioning hair regimen?

To be honest it was a bit hopeless. I would wear my hair in a ponytail to hide the grow out, or I would straighten the roots to make them match the ends. When I bleached my hair blonde I had to transition that damage out. The bleach destroyed my hair, and eventually I was ready to cut it off. The curls that were left behind after my cut were the healthiest they’ve ever been!

What is your current hair regimen? Any favorite products you’d like to share?

My regimen is all about making my waves last as many days as possible without washing. On day 1 I cleanse, condition, and put a light styler in my hair. A few favorites for cleansing and conditioning are Elucence, DevaCurl’s Delight line, 2 Girls with Curls (the lavender smells so good”>. My favorite stylers right now are Kevin Murphy Killer Curls, Jessicurl Spiralicious, Camille Rose Aloe Whipped Butter Gel, and Everyone’s Style Hair Gel. My Holy Grail refresher is the Curl Keeper water bottle, which I use every morning to refresh my hair. With my waves, sleeping on them, pulling them back or up pretty much makes them straighten out, that’s why it’s essential for my refresh regimen to be on point. I wet my hair with the water bottle, then take a small amount of styler and rub my hands together until they’re coated with styler, then I scrunch my hair to encourage the curl. If I have time I air dry, but if my hair needs to be dry before I leave the house then I diffuse. The difference in my hair before and after this quick routine is like night and day.

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Any advice you’d like to give other women who may be in the transition phase and need some encouragement?

Find ways to enjoy the challenges. When I was growing my hair out I dyed it platinum blonde, then when I got tired of dealing with the damage I chopped it into a short bob. Yes, of course, there were frustrating times, but when I look back on it I think of all of the fun I had expressing myself in those stages of my life.

What’s your hair story? Share your story with us here to be featured in our Texture Tales series.

How This Social Entrepreneur is Empowering Businesswomen and Giving Back to Her Community
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I met Gabrielle Deculus a few years ago during SXSW and we’ve stay connected ever since. I would be doing you a disservice if I tried to put her in one category because she wears many hats flawlessly. She’s a businesswoman, visionary, philanthropist, and changemaker who is empowering women and serving others in need. Dedicated to her community, the Louisiana native recently led recovery efforts in response to devastating floods, mobilizing the public while raising over $30K in the process; a feat that later earned her the “Hometown Hero Award” courtesy of Beyonce and Essence Magazine. She’s the founder of Business Rules for Women, who has created a thriving digital media platform for emerging entrepreneurs and ambitious businesswomen; using a diverse network of contributors to share unique tools and resources to an audience of over 190K success-driven women online.

I had the opportunity to speak with her and her mentor, her mother, Ramona Deculus. Ramona is a business coach, entrepreneur and motivational speaker that prides herself on being her kids biggest fans. Being that family morals play such a important role in her life, we first chatted about her family and the values they instilled in Gabrielle early on. Her mother shared, “My parents instilled these things into me and these were transferred to my children. The first thing is integrity. It’s not about doing the right thing, but doing the right thing when noone is watching and holding them accountable. The next thing is work ethic. My parents still to this day, my dad is 81 and my mom is 73, they continue to serve others. That is what keeps them young and going – waking up to help others. The third thing is to be a person of your word. If you tell someone you’re going to show up, you show up – on time.” She continued on and said that, “Time is money and you shouldn’t waste anybody else’s money or time.”

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Being that her mom plays such an intricate role in her life I was curious to know how she encouraged Gabrielle to follow her dreams and find her purpose when she was younger. “I never encouraged my kids to do one thing in particular, instead I encouraged them to find their passion. My grandfather told me as a young girl, that if you do something that you love to do, you can make as much money as you want, but if do something for the money you’ll never be happy.” She said from that moment, that stuck with her and she passed that lesson onto her children.

As a teenage girl, Gabrielle was interested in being a part of an organization so she joined the Junior Knights of Peter Claver. Her mom explained that, “Being apart of that organization really inspired her to help others and she lit up anytime she had a chance to do community service. It didn’t surprise me when she chose a career that gave her that same type of energy, excitement and passion to serve others.”

“The seeds that you plant early in life, you water and nurture them and they will show up in places that you don’t expect them to.” – Ramona Deculus, mentor and business coach

It’s no doubt that finding your purpose is truly a journey and everyone finds that at different moments throughout their lives. Gabrielle found hers in college and has hit the ground running ever since. “My teenage years gave me some idea of what I enjoyed, but when I got to college I met a group of friends, who are all business owners and entrepreneurs now, that wanted to create events for our peers because we didn’t like the events that were being held in Louisiana. I realized from that point on that I liked being in a position of being the problem solver, the innovator or the creator of giving people what they need.

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After that moment of being in college and starting my first company and realizing that people are actually coming to me to help them with their ideas, business plans and marketing ideas – way before I was ready because I put myself out there. That showed me that they saw the spirit in me where I can help them get things done and get that stamp of approval and love from my peers that I appreciate.”

“If you answer the needs of the people you will always have a job.” – Gabrielle Deculus, founder of Business Rules for Women

Being a business owner comes with challenges and regardless of what you’re taught in school somethings you just don’t read in the books; you have to find out through trial and error and adjust as you go. I was curious to know how Gabrielle has overcome obstacles in her career and what was a tool(s”> that helped her improve her skills. She most definitely put it into perspective and reminded me the importance of being intentional in all that you do. “Being that I have a problem solver attitude, I don’t look at things as setbacks, but opportunities. Language is very important to me and I look at challenges as opportunities to get better and improve. I’ve had plenty of challenges and I would say one of them was figuring out how to balance multiple projects. When I was in business school I was taught how to run a business for someone else, but not for myself, so that was a learning curve for me. Years later, I was introduced to basecamp and found that there are tools out there that can help me manage projects and serve my clients efficiently.”

There’s no doubt that in order to be successful, you must believe in yourself and be confident in your craft because if you don’t believe in yourself, how can you expect someone else to? Gabrielle shares how her family, especially her mother, instilled confidence in her at an early age and that has played a huge role in being the businesswoman she is today. “Confidence was something I learned early on. Of course you have your small doubts and insecurities, but I never felt like I was less than the next person. My peers, my family and my purpose really helped me navigate things. I saw my mom leave Louisiana being somebody’s staff member to owning her own insurance agency, which was huge for me. Seeing her putting in work, building a home for her parents and giving people what they need to build their legacy and keep people safe in case something goes wrong.”

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Her mom modestly responded, “It takes a lot of hard work to do what I do, but I enjoy it. I learned early on that to whom much is given, much is required. Once you know better, you do better. When you have somebody who can lay a roadmap in front of you, it’s a lot easier for you to lay a roadmap for yourself. It gives you confidence and instills pride in what you’re doing and a feeling of accomplishment when you see the result of the fruits of your labor. I’m very proud of the work that Gabrielle has done and I know one day she’s going to build me that house. Family matters and supporting each other is important to us. We take pride in that.”

I couldn’t end this conversation without asking Gabrielle her #1 rule for businesswomen, “Invest in yourself. I tell this to everyone, what are you doing to become a better person? What are you doing to make your business better? What are you doing to make yourself more competitive? What are you doing to grow?

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We spend a lot of time and money on things that don’t help us in those categories. The moment that you start budgeting time and money into yourself, whether it’s going to therapy, getting a business coach, getting a trainer and being conscious of your nutrition. I feel like if you invest in yourself, it’s more likely that opportunities will come your way and that other people and businesses will invest in you.”

Thank you again to Gabrielle and Ramona Deculus for sharing your wisdom, time and experiences with us. I admire all the work you’re both doing and appreciate you for reminding us the power of mentorship, family values and serving with a purpose.

This post was created in partnership with SheaMoisture around its focus on Community Commerce, a purpose-driven business model that creates opportunities for sustainable social and economic empowerment throughout its supply chain and communities in the United States and Africa. Community Commerce focuses on entrepreneurship, women’s empowerment, education and wellness. It’s bigger than beauty. It’s about investing in local and global communities, striving to eliminate generational poverty and empowering women. A portion of proceeds from select SheaMoisture Community Commerce collections are invested in its Shea butter, coconut and African Black Soap cooperatives in Ghana and others that supply their handcrafted natural ingredients. In the United States,  their women’s empowerment programs focus on entrepreneurship and education, including fellowships to attend the Dartmouth College Tuck School of Business Minority program and Babson College’s summer entrepreneurship program.  Most recently, through the $100,000,000 New Voices Fund —  created to invest in women of color entrepreneurs to help them build sustainable businesses — SheaMoisture is working to transform the landscape of business and what it means to live a more beautiful life.


Who are women who have inspired you along your journey? Share your story with us in the comments below. 

GIVEAWAY: Celebrate Earth Day With A New Style And Coconut Restore

In case you didn’t know, Earth Day is kind of a big deal.

Honestly, we should be celebrating our beautiful Mother Earth every day because she’s the one that makes it all possible. Whether it’s recycling, conserving water, eating clean or simply using products that are chemical free, we can each play a part in protecting her natural beauty while honoring our own. This year we chose to step up our game and celebrate Earth Day in style, and we’re here to spill the tea on how you can join in on the fun, plus get tips on a new do’.

Coconut Restore Au Natural Giveaway!

Oh! Did we mention, we’ve got a special prize for you?

Coconut Restore is giving away 6 of their au natural products to keep your waves and curls nourished, scroll down to get the deets!

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Our Pinterest feed is full of gorgeous hairstyles, and one style that we’ve been eager to try is the waterfall braid. Before you talk yourself out of it and continue to rock your everyday ponytail, trust us it’s not as hard as it looks. We teamed up with Brooke Michie, hairstylist at Lyric Salon, to share a step-by-step tutorial to achieve a whimsical waterfall braid.

But First Let’s Talk Products . . .

As usual, it’s important to start with clean hair. Grab, the Moisture Replenishing Shampoo to gently cleanse your hair and restore your natural oils. Once you rinse out the shampoo, now it’s time to apply the Daily Strengthening Conditioner to moisturize your hair packed with protein and coconut oil that will make your hair healthier, stronger and softer.

If your curls are in need of some extra TLC, we got you covered! Once you have rinsed out the conditioner and towel dried your hair, apply the Keratin Intensive Repair Masque section by section covering your hair from root to tip. For best results, cover your hair with a shower cap or a plastic bag and let the masque sit for 10 minutes and then rinse it out.

It’s cocktail time!

To give your waves and curls some definition, grab a water bottle and the Curl Control Leave-in Conditioner. Squeeze a small amount of the leave-in conditioner into the water bottle, shake and spray your hair until it’s damp.

Get the Look

Now, that your hair is clean and conditioned for greatness, it’s time for the real fun!

Take three strands of hair near your temple as you would a normal braid. The piece higher up closer to the part line is section one and the hair in the middle that you’re crossing over is section two and then section three comes up to cross over the tail of section one.

Repeat this process, adding in hair like a French Braid to section one again and then letting it drop over section two. Collect hair from the section near/beneath the dropped hair to be the new section three that comes up and over the dropped piece like a stitch to keep it in place and start the braid again.

Continue this process until the braid is wrapped around your head.

Tip: Direct the braid downward toward the nape if you want the braid to have a curved, low-slung shape.

For a regal crowned style, repeat that process beneath the first braid with dropped sections included in the new braid for a fuller, lacier or more textural effect. Then, secure the braid with a bobby pin. Accessories are a great way to jazz up your style, feel free to add more pins and clips for a fun adorned look. You’ll thank us later!

Now, that’s not so hard right?

Coconut Restore Au Natural Giveaway!

In honor of Earth Day, we want you to celebrate in style while doing your part in protecting Mother Earth.

Comment on how you’ll be spending Earth Day for a chance to win the entire Coconut Restore collection. We’ll be choosing 3 winners, so don’t miss out!

This post is sponsored by Coconut Restore.

Want Healthy Curl Definition? Get The Gold Gel That Works!

ALlexandra Wilson for NaturallyCurly x Eco Style Gold Gel unboxing

It’s all about “Moisture, moisture, moisture!”??‍♀️

Recently, I noticed that I needed to switch up my styling products from heavy creams to gels because they were weighing my hair down and not giving me the curl definition I was looking for. Eco Style is known for creating some of the most trustworthy gels out that not only keep your baby hairs laid, but curls defined and frizz free so I had to see what the hype was about. They sent me a special gift to try, and I can’t wait to spill the tea about their latest 2-in-1 product that has everyone buzzing!

All I can say is . . . The hype is real.

Eco Style continues to update their famed styling gel, and they just released their most innovative product, yet: A gel that is half conditioning treatment, half styling product packed with four key ingredients that your curls will love including flaxseed, olive oil, shea butter, and black castor oil.

Here’s why these ingredients are so essential for hair health:
  • Flaxseed provides the strong hold without the crunch plus adds shine and curl definition.
  • Olive oil is known to seal, coat and penetrate the hair to prevent moisture loss and combat frizz.
  • Shea butter is an essential ingredient for most curlies because it’s a natural moisturizer and provides protection against heat and UV rays.
  • Black castor oil strengthens, thickens and increases hair growth.

What I liked most about this gel is that it left my hair feeling so soft, defined and moisturized! Let’s be honest gels have a bad reputation for making hair feel crunchy, flaky and dry and that’s because they’re usually filled with alcohol and synthetic polymers that lead to product build up. That is certainly not the case with this product since it’s packed with the top natural ingredients it’s not only styling your hair but moisturizing it as well.

In addition to the Eco Style Gold Gel leaving my curls poppin’ this gel stood out to me because it moisturizes your scalp and increases hair growth which is extremely important to me as I grow out my hair. Plus, the hold and shine are on 10 and it’s literally everything your hair needs in one jar.

Is gel a part of your styling routine?

Let us know if you’ll be trying out the Eco Style Gold Gel in the comments below.

This post is sponsored by Eco Styler.

12 Best Moisturizing Products for Type 4 Hair

Maintaining proper moisture is important for all hair types, but coily hair is even more susceptible to damage if it lacks moisture. Because of the structure of coily hair follicles, moisture can escape from the shaft quite easily, so not only is it a must to restore and maintain precious moisture, it’s important to find a way to seal it in. Here are 12 products to help moisturize coily hair and keep that moisture in!

1. Light-Weight Moisturizer

Elucence Moisture Balancing Conditioner

This is a conditioner every coily/curly needs in their arsenal! It provides enough slip for detangling (even on dry hair”> and is supremely moisturizing without leaving a residue or weighing the hair down.

2. Must-Have Moisturizer

The Doux Fresh Rinse Moisturizing Conditioner

Formulated with the perfect combination of Shea Butter, Sea Silk, and Hibiscus, the ultra-moisturizing conditioner will hydrate your hair and provide thermal and environmental protection.

3. For Regular TLC

Oyin Handmade Honey Hemp Conditioner

This light, penetrating, silky blend enriched with aloe vera gel, hemp oil, honey, and hydrolyzed silk protein. It’s got nice detangling slip and serious moisturizing power. It rinses cleanly and also makes a nice pre-shampoo deep conditioning treatment. It can even be used as a creamy, nourishing leave-in!

4. Worth the Splurge

Obia Natural Curl Moisture Cream

This pH balanced leave-in conditioner is full of luxurious oils that seal in moisture and minimize frizz by smoothing and closing the cuticle. Antioxidant rich Argan Oil, Burdock Root and Grape seed Oil strengthens and adds shine.

5. For Those Who Wash N’ Go

Camille Rose Naturals Curl Maker Marshmallow and Agave Leaf Extract

Made with natural horsetail and beet extracts to transform your hair into curls without leaving it hard or crunchy. Your hair will have amazing curl definition, bounce and moisture that every curl or coil will love.

6. Shrinkage Fighter

ORS Curls Unleashed Shea Butter and Honey Curl Defining Creme

Helps to add shine, define and moisturize coils without any shrinkage (a common curly/coily girls problem”>. Because it does provide some hold, it is perfect to use for wash and go’s, twists, braids, and up do’s.

7. For Protective Styling

Cantu Coconut Curling Cream

This thick and creamy concoction defines, conditions, and helps add manageability. It’s perfect for adding sheen and moisture, especially when prepping for protective styles (like twists and braids”>. It’s also great for smoothing down edges and up do’s.

8.Ultimate Deep Treatment

Camille Rose Natural Algae Deep Conditioner

hand-mixed with amazing Blue Green Algae, which is rich in Vitamin B, and helps to improve hair cell regrowth, resulting in thicker, stronger, longer hair. Plus, it will soften and moisturize dry, moisture-craving hair giving it the care and love it needs to have body and shine, naturally!

9. Ultimate Deep Treatment Masque

SheaMoisture Jamaican Black Castor Oil Strengthen, Grown & Restore Treatment Masque

This product is a hair-superhero because it will save you from bad hair days and whip kinky hair into shape! Use only after shampooing. Apply evenly throughout hair paying attention to ends with any size comb. Can be worn in hair for 10-15 minutes plastic-wrapped under warm dryer or without heat for up to an hour.

10. For Scalp Health

Ouidad Moisture Lock Leave In Conditioner

A lightweight moisture treatment created with skincare innovations in mind. It works with each individual strand to pull moisture from the atmosphere and hold it there, while preventing frizz and promoting a healthier scalp.

11. Best Detangler around

Kinky Curly Knot Today

Most often used as a detangler, this lightweight leave in conditioner was  designed to smooth the cuticle and is great for adding moisture and shine to coils without weighing them down.

12. Multi-purpose Oils

Darshana Natural Indian Hair Oil

Have you tried all-natural products but the results weren’t exactly what you’d expected? Well, this botancial blend of natural oils is known for being a great sealant and used a curly cocktail, pre-poo and hot oil treatment.

Was your favorite listed? Let us know your go-to moisturizer in the comments below. This post was originally posted in 2015 and has been updated.
61 Short Curly Hairstyles to Slay the Day
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Are you a short curly hair girl tired of the same ol’ hairstyle? No worries, I got you, girl.

I big chopped almost three years ago and it has been an amazing journey stepping out of my comfort zone and reinventing myself fearlessly. Like many curlies who have taken the plunge and big chopped, I had no idea how to style my hair, what products to use or how to properly care for it. So I understand your frustrations and want to remind you that this is all a part of the journey, don’t give up just yet. Thanks to my NaturallyCurly fam and Youtube, I was able to learn more about the best ways to style and care for my 3b/3c hair and was surprised to see so many other curlies sharing their tips and tricks online where I could easily be more educated and aware of the best way to care for my curls.

Let’s be honest, starting over and transitioning can be scary, yet empowering. Just know that you’re not alone and there’s a huge army of curlfriends here to support you every step of the way. Which is why I feel community support is so important. When you’re in need of some curly hair inspo or boost of curl confidence to remind you of your magic, just know that you’re curlfriends got your back. For so long it was all about long beautiful curly hair, but now more than ever women are boldly rockin’ short haircuts and it’s so refreshing and inspiring.

So for all my curlfriends that have recently gone for the big chop, transitioning, or growing their hair out like me, scroll down and check out these hair tutorials that will you inspire you to switch up your everyday look and slay the day in style!

When you don’t have much time try one of these 5 hairstyles that are quick and easy and can be worn to work or date night.

If you’re tired of wearing the same ol’ hairstyle every day switch up your look with one of these 16 hairstyles.

Whether you’re a TWA or in the awkward phase, try one of these 3 wash and go’s styles for a simply chic look.

Grab a few hair clips and create one of these 3 simple curly looks and step out in style.

If you have recently transitioned and in need of some curly hair inspo, grab a comb and take note.

Whether you’re a lazy natural or a braiding pro, you’ll love one of these 10 hairstyles for short curlies.

For those of you that love the high puff, add some criss-cross braids in the front to spice up your puff.

If you like to flat twist your hair, this style is for you! Whether you’re headed to the store or a night out, this style can be worn for any occasion.

For the curlies that just went for the big chop and have no idea how to style their hair, check out these 7 hairstyles to rock your crown boldly.

For the 4c curlies that want to switch up their look, try one of these quick and easy styles that give us life.

I hope you enjoyed watching these videos showing a variety of ways to style your curls with confidence. I find myself wearing my hair the same every day for the most part and honestly that can get boring, so hopefully, you saw something you want to try it, I know I sure did. Whether you’re headed to work, date night or hanging with the girls, remember to rock your crown boldly sis.

Which hairstyle is your favorite? I’d love to know in the comments below. Want more from Alexandra? Follow her on Instagram for all things hair, beauty, and fitness.

Read more: How I’m Growing Out My Natural Hair After My Big Chop

Alexandra’s Natural Hair Journey

This is My Secret for Healthy Hair Growth

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Image by: Brio Photography

Don’t get me wrong, I love rockin’ my short, natural, 3b/3c curls, but I also enjoy switching up my naturally curly hair with protective styles. I mean versatility is key right? Especially since I’m growing out my pixie cut, it can be challenging finding hairstyles that work for my hair during this in-between phase and honestly wearing my hair the same way every day gets old, really fast. To add some length and volume to my hair, I tried the Bounce Beach Wave hair extensions and here’s how I kept them fresh and fabulous while protecting my natural hair. insert hair flip here*

Ways to Style Hair

In order to protect my natural hair, I got a versatile sew-in by my stylist, Tara. She braided my hair where I can wear a part down the middle, side part, and ponytail. Since the hair extensions were a loose wave, I applied heat to my hair about every 4 days to blend my natural hair seamlessly. To be sure I didn’t get any heat damage I used my go-to heat protectant before applying heat. Ultimately, I chose to get hair extensions to help my hair grow, so it was very important for me to be mindful of how much heat I applied and keep my styling as low maintenance as possible. When I didn’t have much time I would refresh my hair with water and a styling cream and wear it wavy. When I wanted a more defined look, I would wand my hair or pin curl it and seal it with a light-weight oil, which was great because both of these styles held a curl pretty good where I didn’t have to curl my extensions daily.

Tip: The more heat you apply the looser the curl gets, so try your best to use heatless options such as flexi rods or pin curls when possible.

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Wash Day Essentials

I’ve learned that the better you take care of your hair extensions, the more opportunity you have in reusing them for a future style, especially if you invest in quality, human hair. As I said I tried my best to apply heat only every 4 days or so and would wash my scalp and hair extensions weekly. Since I exercise frequently, it was essential for me to cleanse my scalp weekly because the wave itch was something serious. If you’re not sweating much or not experiencing an itchy scalp you can wash every other week. I wore my extensions for 6 weeks and here’s my wash routine that saved my scalp. I never realized the importance of oiling my scalp until I started getting protective styles. Not only is it important to keep a clean scalp, but it’s also important to wash and deep condition the hair extensions just as you would your natural hair. While wearing a sew-in, I followed my normal wash routine of a conditioner followed by deep conditioner. I noticed each time I deep conditioned the hair extensions were softer than before with even more bounce. After each wash and daily I used this scalp oil not only would it soothe the itching but it also is great for hair growth.

Tip: Treat your extensions as you would your natural hair and wash them regularly.

Are you growing your hair out or transitioning? Let me know how you’re taking care of your hair during this time, I’d love to know in the comments below.