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Navigating The Sew-In Era As A 4C Natural

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Navigating The Sew-In Era As A 4C Natural
By Rosemary Akpan · Published March 14, 2024

I love experimenting with my hair as much as the next person, but a slight shiver ran through my spine when I saw that traditional sew-ins were coming back in style. A traditional sew-in weave is a popular technique where extensions are attached to a braided base. A portion of hair is left out in front to cover hair tracks and provide a more seamless appearance. 

If you’re like me and have 4C hair, achieving the trendy soft, curled-heavy layered sew-in look isn’t as easy to achieve as it seems. When chemical relaxers were commonly used, this would be an easy effort since our chemically straightened tresses could easily blend into the extensions used. However, attempting this today (as a full-blown natural) will have us all looking like a frizzy mess. Nonetheless, there are ways to avoid this without completely frying your hair off. 

It’s All In The Hair

Extensions are not one texture fits all, so it’s best to experiment and see which extensions mimic your natural hair best. Being that I have a coarser hair texture, I’ve personally loved yaki straight hair because it provides the most seamless blend, even on the most humid days. Plus, I don’t have to run a flat iron through my leave-out constantly.

Another option is to purchase deep wave extensions and blow them out to achieve your desired style. Consider this option a two-for-one, especially on the days when you simply want to rock some curls! UK-based brand, Ruka Hair provides texture-matching extensions so that every naturalista can find hair that works for them. However, if you’re balling on a budget Amazon provides affordable alternatives, too.

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Stretch and Protect

My go-to products while wearing a sew-in consist of heat-protective sprays and oils that can withstand my favorite hot tools. On clean and damp hair, I go in with the COLOR WOW Extra Strength Dream Coat, an anti-humidity hair treatment spray that combats frizz and protects hair from heat. It also lasts up to three to four shampoos. Afterward, I follow up with Revlon’s One-Step Hair Dryer and Styler, which makes stretching out my natural kinks a breeze.

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Most of the time, I’d stop here and finish up with the Olaplexth No.7 Bonding Oil, which adds shine while protecting, strengthening, and repairing my hair. But on days I want a sleeker look, I’ll follow up with a straightening tool like the BaBylissPRO Nano Titanium Ultra-Thin Hair Straightener (on the lowest heat setting).

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The good part about using yaki hair extensions is that the upkeep is much easier. I use less heat and it looks more seamless because it matches my natural hair texture. If you’re a super low-maintenance natural (like me) and don’t want to deal with the fuss of washing around your sew-in wefts, try out the Divo Express Sew-In method.

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This approach allows you to attach clip-in extensions to your cornrows instead of weaving on your hair wefts. This way, you can clip off your extensions, wash your natural hair like normal, and reapply your clip-in when ready.

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In short, having 4C curls doesn’t mean you have to limit the way you wear your hair. It simply means you have to show your kinky mane more love and attention. Personally, that sounds like a win to me! With the advancement of hair technology, we can rejoice knowing that we naturals can partake in the latest hair trends without compromising the health of our hair and the integrity of our curls. Whether you’re getting a voluminous layered look or long bone-straight hair, just make sure you’re getting a texture that works for you!

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Why Your Curls Lose Definition and How to Fix It

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By Jessica DeFino · Updated December 25, 2024

In most cases, “loosening up” is a positive thing; it’s associated with relaxing, letting go, and having a good time. But when my curls decide to loosen up, it’s a whole different story.

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No matter what kind of wavy, coily, or curly you are, you can probably relate: curls that start out bouncy and fresh in the morning sometimes deflate, like a tire losing air, until they’re stretched, flat, and frizzy. But why?

“Curls have a mind of their own,” says Tara Love, the founder of Tara Love Hair, a salon that caters to African-American and multicultural women. “They are very unpredictable because you never know what they will do from one day to the next.”

Gravity

“Maybe the reason why curls fall or get looser is because of gravity,” she speculates. “The hair can also be heavy, as in high-density hair with thick strands. Fine, short hairs tend to curl tighter and experience no real gravity pull.”

If your hair is thick and dense, gravity is likely to blame for your stretched curls—and it’s not easy to fight a force of nature. That being said, you can make your hair less susceptible to the effects of gravity by using lightweight products that won’t weigh you down further. “For curly styles that you want to stay in place, leave-ins and oils are needed,” Love shares.

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“I love an old staple called Infusium 23,” she adds. “It’s light and controls frizz. If you need a little oil, I love Jane Carter Nourish and Shine. It’s great for hair and body. Rub a bit in the palm and apply.”

Why Your Curls Lose Definition and How to Fix It

It’s also a good idea to switch out your hard-hold gel for a light cream to keep curls buoyant. CurlTalk member @oh.hi.its.steph recommends SheaMoisture Curl Milk: “I find it to be perfectly moisturizing and curl-enhancing, but not terribly heavy either!”

Porosity

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High-porosity curls and waves are more likely to loosen throughout the day than low-porosity curls. That’s because high-porosity hair has large gaps and holes in the cuticle, making it very easy for the hair to lose moisture; and when moisture evaporates from high-porosity hair, it renders products less effective—which results in loose, frizzy curls.

“If you’re highly porous you might be in need of protein,” says this CurlTalk commenter. A silk protein treatment can help repair the gaps in your hair cuticles to keep your curls intact.

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Since highly porous hair loses moisture easily, it’s essential to stock up on ultra-hydrating products, like leave-in conditioners and sealers. You can also add anti-humectants to your hair care routine, like Ouidad Climate Control Heat and Humidity Gel, to seal the cuticle and keep moisture in. At night, try a heavy hair butter treatment—Mizani Strength Fusion Intense Night-Time Treatment is a great option—to lock in hydration and prep your curls for a new day.

The Amount of Hair You Have

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In one recent study, physicists studying the curvature of steel rods stumbled upon some interesting findings, namely, what makes curly hair go limp. Their conclusion? “The actual number of hairs per square inch on any individual’s scalp…that greater or lesser crowding may play a role,” according to Time Magazine. In other words, if you’ve got a lot of hair, your individual strands may just be too crowded to stay curly all day.

If this is the case for you, there are two things you can do:

One, incorporate a hard-hold gel into your routine to give you the all-day definition. After smoothing Carol’s Daughter Coco Creme Curl Shaping Cream Gel through your hair, twirl individual pieces around your finger to create a defined curl pattern and diffuse dry.

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And two, accept that you’ve been blessed with thick, luscious curls—and at the end of the day, no matter how loose they are, your curls are beautiful. (At least, this is what I like to tell myself!”>

It’s important to note that even with a full morning routine of leave-ins, creams, and gels, curls sometimes need a little midday refresh. What can you do? It’s just their nature.

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